So she cheated multiple times, got pregnant by another man, and CONTINUES to cheat on him while he stays home with her lovechild. Why does he want to save this marriage again?
But what got me is how she really started crying about HIS family buying another mans baby something but smiled when talking about making the baby while he's overseas fighting her stupid ass. That just shows were her mind is. Which is in material things. Thats why she spreads her legs, for things. SMH.... There are no words to express this little minded girl. Just shameful!
Right she’s delusional. It’s not like she had a baby before they were together. She had a kid while he was out there fighting for his life. They don’t have to except the child. He can but not them
I mean I get you but I've actually experienced this and it hurts. my stepsiblings were staying at my house(my mom and my stepdad weren't married then) and their family members came to pick them up and go out, leaving my brother and I. I mean I understand why, their not my family but why would you come and pick them up from our house while we are there whilst we were there and just leave the other children? You can't always do shit like that. It kinda hurts. The difference is my brother and I are not children of adultery.
WOW I HOPE ONE DAY SHE REALIZES SHE REALLY HAVE A GOOD HUSBAND WHAT SHES LOOKING FOR IS RIGHT THERE BESIDE HER HOW MANY MEN WILL FORGIVE U AN RAISE THE CHILD U MADE ON HIM A TRUE MAN OF HONOR AN KING HE IS NOT TOO MANY LIKE HIM AN HES A MILITARY MAN GIRLLL U BETTER GET IT TOGETHER 🤔🤔🤔🤔
I think I can speak for every woman in the world when I say this. I WISH I had a man who loved me as much as this man loves her. I wouldn’t ever do him wrong.
Jon C yea he should run, but you have to admit, that she is definitely not to bright. The fact that she's saying things like "Oh it's not that bad.." after all the crap she put him through, she has to be the slowest bitch alive..
Right but men always chase these type of woman and forgive them when they cheat again meanwhile faithful woman get cheated on all the time it's the irony of it all
Despite her past, when she said she wanted to raise her daughter in a good environment so that her daughter won’t grow up to be like her, that was the most unselfish thing she said throughout the entire segment. Now it makes me wonder what happened to her during her childhood?
Of course she wanna raise her daughter up right, she k ow she doesn't wanna have to face that issue of her daughter starts to understand what mother was doing & how nasty she is
She's playing the VICTIM, thing has every reason to believe her husband is stupid and he could definitely be stupid enough to unalive her as well. She knows she is wrong so it is definitely not out of her control,she enjoys embarrassing her husband
@Angela-pt6je her husband is stupid he should've been left her alone she has the mindset of a 15 yr old girl.. She wasn't raised to be a wife, he stepping outside her marriage and getting pregnant with another man's child is so selfish this grown child is only thinking of herself, he accepted her behavior.
This woman seems slow. Something is wrong with her, just her mannerisms and how she speaks. I don't understand why non-mongamous people enter into monogamous relationships. Monogamy is a choice, you don't have enter into it if you don't want to. The husband needs to leave he can do so much better, as said, she is so slow.
Well, as someone who has both cheated and been cheated on, I can tell you this: Society expects us to be monogamous. Even to the point of criminalizing multiple spouses. Sometimes, especially when one is very young, you don't even know that monogamy isn't in you because you've been brainwashed to believe it's this innate thing that comes naturally to everyone... She has no understanding of herself and some people only learn these lessons the hard way. I'm one of em!
No i disagreed with you respectfully. That man is the slow and stupid type. Please no one should support anybody to stay with a woman like this. She is a killer.
I miss you Judge Lynn! Your advice over the years have meant so much and helped to mold me into the good mother, wife, and woman I am today!! Love you! ❤️❤️
Belizecase86 Same reason all the chicks on divorce court stay with their cheating raggedy husbands. No self esteem (I'm guessing) You couldn't pay me to stay with a dude that cheated on me three times and had a baby behind my back, but some folks do that nonsense every day. Whatever. It's not my headache.
Messy! I also feel bad for people in the military dealing with cheating spouses. They already have to deal with enough as it is. That's just tacky and WRONG! SMH!
Military men ain't shy ;-) Nature is stronger than all human priorities ;~} if your spouse comes from GOD then it must be GOD who supplies them with a lover or two..or three.. etc > etc *~√ cut your investment..s and run *** ~{}
Her ass was out making babies with someone else, while he was out putting his life on the line to provide for his family. He is raising another man's baby as his own, and she's complaining that he won't take her out to eat? Someone call this chick an uber she needs to get the hell on. She's lucky one of his family members hasn't gone upside her head.
same thing happen to me my ex-got pregnant while I was away she wanted to try and work things out only when the other nigga dropped her ass and said the baby was not his I all so dropped her ass and too told her to go fuck herself not like this simp
This is a side of the equation few people get to see. Military men always get the bad rep and the spouses get off free, but this happens more often than people think!
she pissed me offffffff when she started crying over his family treating her daughter different!!! How dare you feel that they should take care of your illegitimate child??? You're lucking that your husband even stayed with you yet alone raised her as his own. Men do this to their wives all the time and have outside children but to see a wife do this is shocking but it does happen. She needs counseling badly, so does her because his self esteem/worth is at an all time low. Enough is enough!!! Past pissed!
If they are together then the other baby needs to be accepted too. That is WRONG. That baby has nothing to do with this. She caused this mess, yeah she did this with her triffling ass but we have to better people like 🖕her but not the baby. Just be human for the baby
I get it, but it really ain't that kid's fault either and he has accepted that kid as his own. It's a bit trifling, but I certainly understand why they wouldn't want anything to do with her and why they may react in the way that they did.
Seriously, she can’t cry that they won’t give her daughter a pot of golf while she gave them a pile of shit. And her actions are a pile of shit not the child!! Just want to make that clear
Duh... Your daughter is NOT RELATED to them.. Duh......Duh... Why should his family accept HER child.... She's SLOW, if SHE CAN'T UNDERSTAND. Judge Lynn read her.....
As a Solider how she treated her husband while he was in deployed setting, pisses me off. This man was deployed during the height of the war very stress conditions. The judge hit it on the head. This man could have committed suicide, killed someone else out of anger. This is crazy.
I think he’s not weak I think he’s trying to give the relationship another chance and I also think that he is a strong man for excepting a child that’s not his
She's not very intelligent if she can't see the wrong in what's she's doing here. She definitely needs some type of counselling or mental boot camp to find the reason for her wreck less scandals. Self worth is important here ladies ❤️
why why why does he want to stay? I think this man has low self esteem and doesn't value himself so he feels he need to stay with her ratchetness to feel like a real man or something.....
Pesi Belau he's WHIPPED!!! I would have hauled a%* on her because one time is a mistake, but she cheated on him 3, possibly more times, and she got pregnant on him too? I would have hauled a%*. #SMH
forgiveness and love are for people who regret their actions and deserve them, giving them to an undeserving person doesn't mean he loves her - it means he doesn't love himself - plain and simple.
EXACTLY!!! In this day and age, if a woman gets pregnant she wants to. She is so nasty and uncouth that even when asked by her husband to terminate the pregnancy of her lovers baby she decided to keep it and then wonder why his family treats her baby different.
Black men can't win. He tried to help her he wrong. She wrong he tried to do right by her and not leave a child with out someone she clearly some caring about that baby
How were they married for ten years but she's 27? Did her parents consent to her marrying at 17? And DC is super petty for that flow chart of their parents dating and then them dating.
I agree they don't have to, but if the son says that he accepts that child as his own, then that is something the family should respect because ultimately you are hurting an innocent child. Now if this dude was like this isn't my child, I don't want anything to do with this child, then I can understand that, but if for nothing else, do it out of respect to him and the child.
Brittany Reid Tell me about it because I know if she doesn't stop her promiscuous ways she will eventually be stuck with a deadly std in her body and a feeling of regret when he finds a woman who is faithful and God fearing.
She seems like she is high as a kite but sho nuff trifling and yet he still loves her. In actuality she is a kid and he just loves her and has a forgiving spirit and heart about him. She is blessed to have him in her life.
As trifling as she was…. I really felt sorry for her but I also felt hope. I pray they’re doing well. Judge Lynn knows how to get in their head and make them see themselves.
My interpretation of that was "I had no dad in my life so I didn't want the same thing to happen with this kid".....but i could be wrong though. That statement did sound weird to me as well though.
She was 17yrs old when they first got together, when she was cheating. why was she was with him then? there are some other issues going on that they aren't talking about..
One small advice that I'd give the wife is: stop minimizing the extent of the emotional damage that her actions created. What she did was horrific so she must own it. Her contrition must be internalized in order for her to truly express it outwardly. I think she's somewhat oblivious of the carnage. Glad that their marriage rose to the level of forgiveness & that he wants it to work because of her recent efforts.
This woman is CLEARLY delusional. This man is overseas serving our country and she cheats MULTIPLE times AND had a baby on him. Then got the nerve that his family doesn't accept her child? He needs to move on from her. She will never stop cheating and doing whatever the hell she wants. He seems like a good guy. I never understand how anyone can stay when someone has done you wrong multiple times.
😤 Duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuude!!!!!!! You really need to grow a pair. You let this woman sleep around on you for your entire 10 year marriage and never say enough is enough!!!!!🤬
Dear dude, You need to leave. Your peace of mind is precious. There are many good Black woman out there. You have to protect your self respect. Regards.
She is very trifling and oblivious to the fact. Excuse after poor excuse with no remorse, no empathy, no accountability... 0 🖕 🖕 🖕 🖕 given smh BUT that's what u get... Step siblings 😏
They come to pick up the other nieces, but yet they don’t buy my daughter anything. So I ask who is responsible for that action. She is one of the most disrespectful young ladies that I have ever seen and now she is crying and heartbroken over the fact that her husband‘s family does not want to except her daughter . she has no one to blame but herself.
I don't know how to express absolute DISGUST at this "woman", and I use the word "woman" loosely. What's really amazing is that she took NO responsibility for her trifling actions, and had the nerve to be pissed at ole boy's family for NOT accepting her bastard child. He's no better for cheating too, but why he's staying with this broad is beyond me. This episode was tough. We just saw a Ghetto Bird in living color everyone!!!
No she doesn't i feel sorry for her, she has something in her past that has made her act out like this , that is why we shouldn't judge one another because we don't know what she been through in her life.
Vanessa Cs we tend to always try to make excuses for the woman, " oh she had a troubled childhood, etc" no one really cares part of growing up is forgiving yourself & others & moving tf on with life.... this chick is a disgrace not necessarily to black women but to herself smh & I could never feel sorry for someone like that, grow to know & furthermore if your childhood or whatever is messing you up that bad you should have been went to a psychiatrist because clearly something is wrong with your psyche.
At first, I was really mad but as I thought more about it, I actually felt sad for her. She is seriously troubled and urgently needs helps, perhaps through counseling. I suspect she is not from a functional family or something is really troublesome regarding her upbringing.
Shaenetta, you got a lot of judgment here but I feel as though there’s more to the story. Whatever happened in your past that influenced your present struggles, just know you are valuable, and worth while so much more than a girl a man lays up in bed with . 💜
I just watched these two on paternity court and it made me tear up and I had to google the name to see if they had an update but this popped up. They are 13 yrs strong in paternity court so this divorce court is old news. I was so happy for them to have this “ miracle baby “ . I wish them many blessings, happiness, and much love 🙏🏾🙏🏾❣️❣️❣️
Wow! This is one of the saddest episodes I've seen. The poor guy didn't deserve that. What gets me is her saying "I agreed to marry him..... I don't think I was ready" like come on. Then why'd you agree to get married 🤯
OMG how you get pregnant by another men, let your husband take care of the baby while you go see that men ! Super shocked like that guy need to leave trust me her loyalty is low.
Not that bad.....she cheats on the dude 3 times, got pregnant, & continued to see the dude that got her pregnant when her husband was home while watching the baby
I just seen their clip of their video when they was on paternity court on TikTok I wanted to was that, but this video came up. Dang what other show they was on.
DJ Beard women get cheated on all the time without murdering men so let's not go there. She's lucky he didn't walk straight out but i don't think murder should even come into it. If you don't like your wife/husbands behaviour you can just walk out murder is never even slightly excusable.
AMMA83 I didn't say murder was excusable. I didn't say I would kill her. But you hear about spouses committing murder or slicing genitals off because they cheated. Think of how many domestic abuse incidents there are that get started over smaller issues. My point is that you never know what people are capable of or what will push them over the edge.
He is just the male version of all the ladies who'll stay in a dysfunctional relationship trying to fix a man who is stuck in their ways. That self esteem needs to be raised and he needs to dip cheaters don't deserve shit and karma will get their asses
Your daughter will see your change in being a faithful partner, devoted wife and mother. You can and will succeed. Your husband is a good man. Let him have access to your phone, whatever it takes to build up his trust. Give him a child of his own.
I don't see how some people are still trying to call Judge Toker bias . when she called this woman out multiple times and told him he should have left her and tols her she needs to better to get him to forgive her
So she cheated multiple times, got pregnant by another man, and CONTINUES to cheat on him while he stays home with her lovechild. Why does he want to save this marriage again?
Coz some people still see the vie of others, beyond their grievous mistakes.
He's weak
They were on paternity court.
Because he's unattractive, stakes are high*
@@Caribbeana
Boom . Bombshell 😂😂
I swear, there is never a bad angle to Judge Toler’s face.
Those cheek bones!
I know, right! She is absolutely stunning.
She’s cheating 😂
Just beauty all over
She's such a pretty woman. Very very photogenic.
girl your daughter not related to them, where is the baby daddy family!!
Exactly!!!
But what got me is how she really started crying about HIS family buying another mans baby something but smiled when talking about making the baby while he's overseas fighting her stupid ass. That just shows were her mind is. Which is in material things. Thats why she spreads her legs, for things. SMH.... There are no words to express this little minded girl. Just shameful!
Right she’s delusional. It’s not like she had a baby before they were together. She had a kid while he was out there fighting for his life. They don’t have to except the child. He can but not them
Nicole Edwards faxxxx
I mean I get you but I've actually experienced this and it hurts. my stepsiblings were staying at my house(my mom and my stepdad weren't married then) and their family members came to pick them up and go out, leaving my brother and I. I mean I understand why, their not my family but why would you come and pick them up from our house while we are there whilst we were there and just leave the other children? You can't always do shit like that. It kinda hurts. The difference is my brother and I are not children of adultery.
Judge Lynn....."You couldn't rise above the gutter! " Wow lol
If "read" was a person!!!! Omg!!!
She deserved that 👏
WOW I HOPE ONE DAY SHE REALIZES SHE REALLY HAVE A GOOD HUSBAND WHAT SHES LOOKING FOR IS RIGHT THERE BESIDE HER HOW MANY MEN WILL FORGIVE U AN RAISE THE CHILD U MADE ON HIM A TRUE MAN OF HONOR AN KING HE IS NOT TOO MANY LIKE HIM AN HES A MILITARY MAN GIRLLL U BETTER GET IT TOGETHER 🤔🤔🤔🤔
Lol! Yep she summarized what most people would be thinking 👏👏
That was the nicest thing she could have said lol
I had my hands to my face with my mouth open more than half of this episode. What in the world?!
The minute she said she was known for being promiscuous I knew we were in for a wild ride.
Lol I didn't even catch that part.
That chic is waaaay out there Dang! She made me tired 😫
I think I can speak for every woman in the world when I say this. I WISH I had a man who loved me as much as this man loves her. I wouldn’t ever do him wrong.
What u look like? There's some men looking for a good woman.👠
There would be more good ones out there if “women” like her wouldn’t screw them up with crap like this.
True
Ikr?!?
Exactly
She is not the sharpest knife in the cutlery.
So true but i think she will come along. The dude has a very loving personality.
Elaine G. 😂😂😂 What a nice way to say it
Elaine G. i really love he way u said it hahha
vince lou Lol....thank you😂😂
Jon C
yea he should run, but you have to admit, that she is definitely not to bright. The fact that she's saying things like "Oh it's not that bad.." after all the crap she put him through, she has to be the slowest bitch alive..
If “she belong to the streets” was a person
Major street history.
Facts!! She is not sorry for cheating and will do it again
Her voice is annoying.
Ha ha 😂
😂
"I'm known for being promiscuous" dam felt sorry for him rite off the back lol
EXACTLY!!! How many women would admit to that???
🤣🤣
She had to- too much evidence!
Like it's a badge Of honor skank😠
Right but men always chase these type of woman and forgive them when they cheat again meanwhile faithful woman get cheated on all the time it's the irony of it all
Despite her past, when she said she wanted to raise her daughter in a good environment so that her daughter won’t grow up to be like her, that was the most unselfish thing she said throughout the entire segment. Now it makes me wonder what happened to her during her childhood?
Of course she wanna raise her daughter up right, she k ow she doesn't wanna have to face that issue of her daughter starts to understand what mother was doing & how nasty she is
Yeah, I can tell she went through a lot when heard that. 😔
I felt that.
She's playing the VICTIM, thing has every reason to believe her husband is stupid and he could definitely be stupid enough to unalive her as well. She knows she is wrong so it is definitely not out of her control,she enjoys embarrassing her husband
@Angela-pt6je her husband is stupid he should've been left her alone she has the mindset of a 15 yr old girl.. She wasn't raised to be a wife, he stepping outside her marriage and getting pregnant with another man's child is so selfish this grown child is only thinking of herself, he accepted her behavior.
This woman seems slow. Something is wrong with her, just her mannerisms and how she speaks. I don't understand why non-mongamous people enter into monogamous relationships. Monogamy is a choice, you don't have enter into it if you don't want to. The husband needs to leave he can do so much better, as said, she is so slow.
exactly a slow mess...He seems intelligent....Why guys marry these types of women???? yuck!!!!
Well, as someone who has both cheated and been cheated on, I can tell you this: Society expects us to be monogamous. Even to the point of criminalizing multiple spouses. Sometimes, especially when one is very young, you don't even know that monogamy isn't in you because you've been brainwashed to believe it's this innate thing that comes naturally to everyone... She has no understanding of herself and some people only learn these lessons the hard way. I'm one of em!
No i disagreed with you respectfully. That man is the slow and stupid type. Please no one should support anybody to stay with a woman like this. She is a killer.
Yea, I think she is slow. Something isn’t right at all.
shes not slow she was abused. Her mannerisms are of a child because shes stuck in that mindset of trauma as a child
I miss you Judge Lynn! Your advice over the years have meant so much and helped to mold me into the good mother, wife, and woman I am today!! Love you! ❤️❤️
what's wrong with this guy he pass a physical fitness and training to fight in Iraq but not Strong enough to leave this sister
Belizecase86
Same reason all the chicks on divorce court stay with their cheating raggedy husbands.
No self esteem (I'm guessing)
You couldn't pay me to stay with a dude that cheated on me three times and had a baby behind my back, but some folks do that nonsense every day.
Whatever. It's not my headache.
Because he's a real brother# my cousin
MartianBlues Bwahahahahaha @ raggedy husbands! #dead
ur belizean?
Belizecase86 exactly lol.
The judge said she couldn't rise above the gutter not to cheat on him. 😬
Messy! I also feel bad for people in the military dealing with cheating spouses. They already have to deal with enough as it is. That's just tacky and WRONG! SMH!
True but military people are out there getting busy as well ! Known fact, ask someone !
B- Beautiful They sure do get around.
Straight FACTS!!!
Kiera Wright She's crazy! And selfish! That's the whole problem.
Military men ain't shy ;-)
Nature is stronger than all human priorities ;~} if your spouse comes from GOD then it must be GOD who supplies them with a lover or two..or three.. etc > etc *~√ cut your investment..s and run *** ~{}
The Judge should've took her to the back and had a long conversation with her about self respect and her self worth. My god this girl is sad.
I don’t think she would have understood/received the advice. She seems a little touched and a lot delusional!!!
Her ass was out making babies with someone else, while he was out putting his life on the line to provide for his family. He is raising another man's baby as his own, and she's complaining that he won't take her out to eat? Someone call this chick an uber she needs to get the hell on. She's lucky one of his family members hasn't gone upside her head.
Nique Franklin she using him for financial services
same thing happen to me my ex-got pregnant while I was away she wanted to try and work things out only when the other nigga dropped her ass and said the baby was not his I all so dropped her ass and too told her to go fuck herself not like this simp
This is a side of the equation few people get to see. Military men always get the bad rep and the spouses get off free, but this happens more often than people think!
A BEAUTIFUL intelligent judge with
WISDOM! I love Lynn Toler.
she pissed me offffffff when she started crying over his family treating her daughter different!!! How dare you feel that they should take care of your illegitimate child??? You're lucking that your husband even stayed with you yet alone raised her as his own. Men do this to their wives all the time and have outside children but to see a wife do this is shocking but it does happen. She needs counseling badly, so does her because his self esteem/worth is at an all time low. Enough is enough!!! Past pissed!
Queen GenesisLove Facts......
You are so right by all means
If they are together then the other baby needs to be accepted too. That is WRONG. That baby has nothing to do with this. She caused this mess, yeah she did this with her triffling ass but we have to better people like 🖕her but not the baby. Just be human for the baby
I get it, but it really ain't that kid's fault either and he has accepted that kid as his own. It's a bit trifling, but I certainly understand why they wouldn't want anything to do with her and why they may react in the way that they did.
Seriously, she can’t cry that they won’t give her daughter a pot of golf while she gave them a pile of shit. And her actions are a pile of shit not the child!! Just want to make that clear
She's trifling, period. Dot. Finished.
Amen !!!
Duh... Your daughter is NOT RELATED to them.. Duh......Duh... Why should his family accept HER child.... She's SLOW, if SHE CAN'T UNDERSTAND. Judge Lynn read her.....
🤭🤔Dont think she's wrapped to tight.....
As a Solider how she treated her husband while he was in deployed setting, pisses me off. This man was deployed during the height of the war very stress conditions. The judge hit it on the head. This man could have committed suicide, killed someone else out of anger. This is crazy.
I've seen some awful women on divorce court but she has to be the worst! And this dude has to be one of the weakest I've seen. Smh.
To be honest I think this one is worse
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Yes!!!!,,indeed
I think he’s not weak I think he’s trying to give the relationship another chance and I also think that he is a strong man for excepting a child that’s not his
@@YusufYusuf-ti2rz nah he weak af for staying because if you truly respect yo self you would walk away from someone like that real shit💯
His eyes are too far apart to see this been over.
My family would never accept a child that my HUSBAND went and got without me. She is crazy.
He better go get tested.
Aye yo, ikr?
He better!!!!
Exactly
He nasty too
Lol yeah ur rite, she us all over the place smh th-cam.com/play/PLqHvqUuNna4ncLsBkpAL32pDf8ssdEoIm.html
If it wasn't for divorce court i would have never known this type of shit was really real. We dig our own grave brother.
LMAO 😂😂😂😂
Exactly!!!
It’s so ratchet
She's not very intelligent if she can't see the wrong in what's she's doing here. She definitely needs some type of counselling or mental boot camp to find the reason for her wreck less scandals. Self worth is important here ladies ❤️
L loop
Is Low self esteem on the mental illness spectrum
Reckless is the word you're looking for, by saying "wreck less" you're actually saying the complete opposite of what you intended.
@@halloween482 but she’s not intelligent lol
I was surprised that the judge didn’t give her some kind of help. I think she loves her husband, but hasn’t been taught right from wrong.
Don’t understand why this is a “Save My Marriage”
why why why does he want to stay? I think this man has low self esteem and doesn't value himself so he feels he need to stay with her ratchetness to feel like a real man or something.....
Pesi Belau he's WHIPPED!!! I would have hauled a%* on her because one time is a mistake, but she cheated on him 3, possibly more times, and she got pregnant on him too? I would have hauled a%*. #SMH
Pesi Belau he clearly has a low self-esteem
Sherman Patterson: That too, on top of being whipped. #SMH
no he's loyal... they don't teach that in school
Being a doormat doesn't make you loyal, it means you have no self worth so you allow people to treat anyhow....
This actually made me cry... I feel soo sorry for this gentleman. Keep your head up Mr. Rice! Your kind of person is very rare.
The false sense of entitlement this woman had is sickening....
Me sticking around for that???!!
SHHIID!!!!😂😂😂
Why would you stay with a woman that got pregnant by another man??? 🙄😳
benvinda miguel I know it might sound crazy but because he loves her that is what true love is about . Forgiveness.
Not only did she get pregnant..... but she continued to see the baby’s dad. 😪😪
forgiveness and love are for people who regret their actions and deserve them, giving them to an undeserving person doesn't mean he loves her - it means he doesn't love himself - plain and simple.
EXACTLY!!! In this day and age, if a woman gets pregnant she wants to. She is so nasty and uncouth that even when asked by her husband to terminate the pregnancy of her lovers baby she decided to keep it and then wonder why his family treats her baby different.
Because that child gonna end up in CPS and she don't give a fuck about that child
I'd be shocked if these two are still together.
Well, they are still together--they were on Paternity Court because she was pregnant again.... The baby *was* his!!! 😉
@@bwenluck9812finally! She had a baby FOR HER HUSBAND and not a random.
I do not feel sorry for him. Just leave her. Love ain't that blind. She kept doing it cause he kept letting it be and "forgiving" etc... bump that
I said exactly the same. Forgiveness has become a scapegoat for immorality and a form of acceptance of low standards.
Bloombaby99 she shouldn’t have been toxic and used him to get by in her life, she’s trifflin and I feel bad for her mother
Black men can't win. He tried to help her he wrong. She wrong he tried to do right by her and not leave a child with out someone she clearly some caring about that baby
My thing is men do the same dam thing and women stick with them!!!!
Either forgive her or let her go.
Let that trash go
Sad, she actually has a good dude and does him like that
This is a great gem of a man.. And the judge.. I feel she is the wisest judge on the planet
she has no respect
100%
That man lives with a daily reminder of her infidelty
How were they married for ten years but she's 27? Did her parents consent to her marrying at 17?
And DC is super petty for that flow chart of their parents dating and then them dating.
she's probably turning 28 and got married at 18
MartianBlues that exp,aint why the family was mad she was a kid they were together for a year before they got married she wasn't ready
MartianBlues she looks 42 as a black woman
His statement” I was raised by my Mom” this is why it’s important to have a Dad this is horrible
Judge Lynn handled it like a real professional! She put her in her place without hate!
I'm pretty sure this young lady is "special" ...
Love the judges face when she heard he'd gotten someone else pregnant...
It sounds like he did the lady dirty to get back with the cheating wife. He will regret it when the wife cheats and gets pregnant again
It's not his child. They don't have to do anything for her
I agree they don't have to, but if the son says that he accepts that child as his own, then that is something the family should respect because ultimately you are hurting an innocent child. Now if this dude was like this isn't my child, I don't want anything to do with this child, then I can understand that, but if for nothing else, do it out of respect to him and the child.
+Marcus “Trust and Justice” A His dumbass should've turned ghost and left.
Bloombaby99 I'm with you. I agree. No way should he have stayed, but since he did, that's the circumstance.
+Nycto Queen And I see that as a problem. No unity or care in the family dynamics. It takes a village to raise a child.
HazelEyedGemini False he stuck it in there and raising that child as his so why not. People like you makes it hard for people to date with children
She got him “entangled” 😂, that thang got to be good.
probably not, it's just easy to get
i need to get him off her hands, she dont know what she got. he deserves better.
Brittany Reid Amen girl she doesn't know how to keep her legs closed with class and dignity.
Ashley Bradley exactly. i hope she change, and know her worth. but in the mean time. i can get him off her hands. he deserves better
Brittany Reid Tell me about it because I know if she doesn't stop her promiscuous ways she will eventually be stuck with a deadly std in her body and a feeling of regret when he finds a woman who is faithful and God fearing.
Ashley Bradley totally agree
Brittany Reid Get him, girl!
You can't help who you fall in love with. But you can decide who you share your life with.
i have three words for this brother, Run ,Run Run
She seems like she is high as a kite but sho nuff trifling and yet he still loves her. In actuality she is a kid and he just loves her and has a forgiving spirit and heart about him. She is blessed to have him in her life.
why he still with her is it no self esteem no dignity throw the trash out
here we go with the blatant racism. Another trump voter.
Crazy, lowlife, no good women have that extra good 🐱.
As trifling as she was…. I really felt sorry for her but I also felt hope. I pray they’re doing well. Judge Lynn knows how to get in their head and make them see themselves.
How? Why? Would you feel sorry for her?
They ended up on Paternity Court so.......
"I have a big heart and I was raised by my mom".... that explains everything..
My interpretation of that was "I had no dad in my life so I didn't want the same thing to happen with this kid".....but i could be wrong though. That statement did sound weird to me as well though.
@@RiddyOnline exactly
There is NO WAY this man should deal with this female...
She was 17yrs old when they first got together, when she was cheating. why was she was with him then? there are some other issues going on that they aren't talking about..
One small advice that I'd give the wife is: stop minimizing the extent of the emotional damage that her actions created. What she did was horrific so she must own it. Her contrition must be internalized in order for her to truly express it outwardly. I think she's somewhat oblivious of the carnage. Glad that their marriage rose to the level of forgiveness & that he wants it to work because of her recent efforts.
This woman is CLEARLY delusional. This man is overseas serving our country and she cheats MULTIPLE times AND had a baby on him. Then got the nerve that his family doesn't accept her child? He needs to move on from her. She will never stop cheating and doing whatever the hell she wants. He seems like a good guy. I never understand how anyone can stay when someone has done you wrong multiple times.
Great sex and stupidity.
Mzdiva924 He’s stupid to stay with a woman like this. All the hurt she’s caused etc. Damn move on find someone loving and trustworthy
She was a whole kid when they started this relationship, he was her step brother hello what are you missing.
This is the normal military story
MAYBE HE FEELS HE CANT DO ANY BETTER
😤 Duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuude!!!!!!! You really need to grow a pair. You let this woman sleep around on you for your entire 10 year marriage and never say enough is enough!!!!!🤬
why she talk like that
dance4life1208 because she's an idiot😕
+J Cal 😂😂😂😂😂
dance4life1208 neither the judge was like WTF!
she sounds like Angelica from the rugrats tv show..
Main reason I was single my second tour to Iraq, didn't need them headaches
Dear dude,
You need to leave. Your peace of mind is precious.
There are many good Black woman out there.
You have to protect your self respect.
Regards.
She is very trifling and oblivious to the fact. Excuse after poor excuse with no remorse, no empathy, no accountability... 0 🖕 🖕 🖕 🖕 given smh BUT that's what u get... Step siblings 😏
How many times does someone have to do this to you before you leave?
Stop men cheat all the time
They come to pick up the other nieces, but yet they don’t buy my daughter anything. So I ask who is responsible for that action. She is one of the most disrespectful young ladies that I have ever seen and now she is crying and heartbroken over the fact that her husband‘s family does not want to except her daughter . she has no one to blame but herself.
thanks for what you do man, you deserve way more then this
LMFAOOOO judge Lynn tore her ass out the water w that gutter comment 😭
this man is suffering from deep depression and once he gets out of that funk..... 🏃 🏃 🏃 🏃 🏃 🏃 🏃
The Judge's advice at the end was on point!
"Things happen yes, things happen but something *extraordinary* happened with this third man". 😂😂 How can she be saying this, she's so funny.
She's a couple fries short of a happy meal
Apologies to happy meals
dude behind her facial expressions are killing me
Damon T. Davis He can't believe his ears! Lmbo!!!!!
The most trifling case I've heard. The saddest part is the kids have to live in this dysfunction. Perpetuating the cycle of ignorance.
She doesn't even kow how long he's been on his job....sigh....
They’re still together! They were on paternity court last week. His wife was pregnant and they did a prenatal DNA test.
Can you link the esposide?
@@misslc7864 th-cam.com/video/bCsOeFg2cro/w-d-xo.html
@@CranBerryJa Thank you! These people are a hot mess
@@misslc7864 Here it is th-cam.com/video/2sbbSBnVmFk/w-d-xo.html
I don't know how to express absolute DISGUST at this "woman", and I use the word "woman" loosely. What's really amazing is that she took NO responsibility for her trifling actions, and had the nerve to be pissed at ole boy's family for NOT accepting her bastard child. He's no better for cheating too, but why he's staying with this broad is beyond me. This episode was tough. We just saw a Ghetto Bird in living color everyone!!!
I love you judge…you’re the best judge on tv
she makes black women look bad 😡😡😡 he's such a sweet guy who need some good loving from a loving and loyal sista
No she doesn't i feel sorry for her, she has something in her past that has made her act out like this , that is why we shouldn't judge one another because we don't know what she been through in her life.
Vanessa Cs we tend to always try to make excuses for the woman, " oh she had a troubled childhood, etc" no one really cares part of growing up is forgiving yourself & others & moving tf on with life.... this chick is a disgrace not necessarily to black women but to herself smh & I could never feel sorry for someone like that, grow to know & furthermore if your childhood or whatever is messing you up that bad you should have been went to a psychiatrist because clearly something is wrong with your psyche.
She doesn't make me look bad. She doesn't have a thing to do with me.
+J Cal Well said!!!
Tasha Golden nah she makes herself look bad. She's a....an....a um....ugh!!!!! disgusting!
This Guy is One in A Million, he had every Reason in the World to Step!! So hopefully they Made it Work!!
This guy is weak affffffff. She probably pregnant again by somebody else
HE IS A SIMP
This guy's isn't married to a woman, he's wedded to the idea of marriage.
This guy needs to build a time machine and leave 10 years ago.
At first, I was really mad but as I thought more about it, I actually felt sad for her. She is seriously troubled and urgently needs helps, perhaps through counseling. I suspect she is not from a functional family or something is really troublesome regarding her upbringing.
I had a troubling up bringing but dont treat people this way.
I don't know what's worse; the fact that she did all that dirt or the fact she doesn't comprehend how wrong it was.
Shaenetta, you got a lot of judgment here but I feel as though there’s more to the story. Whatever happened in your past that influenced your present struggles, just know you are valuable, and worth while so much more than a girl a man lays up in bed with . 💜
I must say that this brother has a big heart....I would be out of there in a flash.
I just watched these two on paternity court and it made me tear up and I had to google the name to see if they had an update but this popped up. They are 13 yrs strong in paternity court so this divorce court is old news. I was so happy for them to have this “ miracle baby “ . I wish them many blessings, happiness, and much love 🙏🏾🙏🏾❣️❣️❣️
She really isn't the sharpest tool. AND she's trifling. Why does she make me think of Jawana Man?
Ctfuuuuuuuuu
Wow!
This is one of the saddest episodes I've seen.
The poor guy didn't deserve that.
What gets me is her saying "I agreed to marry him..... I don't think I was ready" like come on. Then why'd you agree to get married 🤯
For money
OMG how you get pregnant by another men, let your husband take care of the baby while you go see that men ! Super shocked like that guy need to leave trust me her loyalty is low.
Venus Dayrell her and her baby daddy were pimping her husband
...what loyalty...clearly she doesnt know the meaning of the word.
RUN BROTHER… RUN‼️‼️‼️
She just WRONG !!!! One so many levels!!!!
Not that bad.....she cheats on the dude 3 times, got pregnant, & continued to see the dude that got her pregnant when her husband was home while watching the baby
he needs to divorce her.
D West yes you are right
Yea but that child prob needs him real talk
I just seen their clip of their video when they was on paternity court on TikTok I wanted to was that, but this video came up. Dang what other show they was on.
She's lucky he didn't kill her. Not everyone has the ability to put up with half the shit she did to him
DJ Beard women get cheated on all the time without murdering men so let's not go there. She's lucky he didn't walk straight out but i don't think murder should even come into it. If you don't like your wife/husbands behaviour you can just walk out murder is never even slightly excusable.
AMMA83 I didn't say murder was excusable. I didn't say I would kill her. But you hear about spouses committing murder or slicing genitals off because they cheated. Think of how many domestic abuse incidents there are that get started over smaller issues.
My point is that you never know what people are capable of or what will push them over the edge.
He is just the male version of all the ladies who'll stay in a dysfunctional relationship trying to fix a man who is stuck in their ways. That self esteem needs to be raised and he needs to dip cheaters don't deserve shit and karma will get their asses
Your daughter will see your change in being a faithful partner, devoted wife and mother. You can and will succeed. Your husband is a good man. Let him have access to your phone, whatever it takes to build up his trust. Give him a child of his own.
This judge is really a class act And example to young black girls December 1s 2020
I don't see how some people are still trying to call Judge Toker bias . when she called this woman out multiple times and told him he should have left her and tols her she needs to better to get him to forgive her
She is delusional 🙄. This dude needs to run, not walk away.
You better talk that talk Judge Lynn with your EDUCATED SELF!!
seeking knowledge judge Lynn a boss. A wonderful representation of a black queen.
...and then what he says at the end! Whew! He is a good dude. I hope she doesn't continue to hurt him. I always love judge Toler's advice.