Wow! That was very powerful and entertaining all at the same time. Thanks guys. Superb! 👌👍👏👏👏 P. S. I'm fast running out of superlatives to describe your vlogs, I'll need to recycle soon!!
Shaun and Colin, I can only speak for myself, me being the funny, outgoing one was for people outside of my immediate family to see. As soon as I got home I would be exhausted from being funny and cheerful all day. I would go home to my safe place and I would switch off my load from the day and my introverted husband and I would switch personalities. Our kids remember him as the fun and silly parent. It wasn’t like I was a zombie, I was still fun, but I didn’t have to be when I was with my immediate family. (I was a happy school teacher-that is very stressfu) I went through stuff growing up that shaped me as an adult. I’m now realizing it wasn’t all awful, it’s just the awful parts burn a hole in my memory. My loving and accepting husband saved me. But I know I must drive him crazy at times when my anxiety explodes and I just want to run. I don’t know if I could do this without him. We’re in a great place right now, thank goodness. I don’t know your religious background, but I will send out a prayer of peace of mind for you both.
Mental Health is one of the most maligned health issues you can have. No one can see it, it isn't a physical disability so people can't always accept it as a disability. So glad that you are able to share some of your experiences, I am sure your story will help many others. Love your vlog and look forward to seeing you every week. Otis is growing like a weed! So stinkin cute too.
We love you Colin. Keep shining the light on those dark areas, You deserve to be happy. You make so many of us happy. Shaun, your a champion and we love you too.
Guys I've said this before, but I truly love all the little historical tidbits you give. Colin I'm sorry the canal life isn't helping as much as y'all hoped for. But I'm so glad you have found someone to help. I've never met you(and probably never will. The ocean is a bit too big to swim. Lol) but I do know the world would not be as bright if you weren't in it.
I suffered from extreme anxiety in my 20s Panic attacks 2 or 3 times a day I was a computer nerd so found myself in a position where I could work from home pretty much every day for 12 years ! the only thing I was comfortable doing with was going to the grocery store everything else out of the question depression set in.
Glad to hear that my subscription's not all being frittered away on Jaffa Cakes :) You're an inspiration to many Colin, so glad to be able to follow you and Shaun (and Otis) though all your adventures.
Love the photography in this one! Love your little history snippets. Love watching Otis grow and you two being silly! And, love that you are talking about mental health. Just plain love you guys ❤️❤️
I especially love your acknowledgement of the challenge for the loved ones supporting those with metal health issues. As a supporter of someone with metal health issues being able to talk to someone else(a professional) was so important for my metal health and for me to support my loved one the best I could... Love your videos..
Hi Boyz! I have msged you before, but I wanted to speak directly to Colin. My partner and I are both bi-polar, and my partner Hampus has aspergers. I wanted to offer to you a little nugget we've learned along the way ... life can be a right mess. A HOT mess as my partner likes to call himself. But its true whether neuro typical or not, we all muddle through as best we can. We tend to wind ourselves up, offering explanations to others for the the things we do and reasons for the way we are... but often we dont even know these reasons for ourselves. Hampus and I decided together, that sort of like when you're trying to cross a river by stepping on some slippery stones... you're out there up to your ankles in water... best just to keep on making your way.. no sense in turning around as you'd be no better off. The future allways can be brighter and even more so if there's someone to reach out a hand and give ya a pull up out of the water before you get too wet. I dont know much, but I PROMISE, I ABSOLUTELY promise that ALTHOUGH it might not ever get 100% better... it DOES GET EASIER. You cant ever know today ... how resilient you will be tomorrow. I didnt know that I could ever have made it to today, but I did, and with my partner ... we took two slightly cracked and sinking lives and managed to build the foundation of a solid brilliant one TOGETHER. I wish you both well and much love and hugz. My apologies for rambling like a nutter, its what I do. But I mean it will all sincerity. Be good. -JP and Hampus
I'm so depressed.... I'm a homeless mum. We live in a motel. I just want my son whose autistic to have a safe place a home..... But when I am very stressed I watch you 2 an I am transported to a narrow boat with u 2 great blouges.
I’m suffering with mental health issues and these videos help me in the evenings to focus my mind and stop my thoughts racing love what you guys do and the history is great thank you
Thank you for also including the family of those suffering with depression and anxiety. As a parent, the most frustrating and heartbreaking thing for me is not being able to "make it better." Love you both!
Thanks for shearing 😊 It's sad that the NHS isn't funded enough to give the right support so many people who need it. Both of you keep sharing your magic which brings so much enjoyment to so many of us 😊👍x
I know mental health treatment is rough. But, I want you two to know, I think you are lovely. A bright spot in my day. I have been supporting my husband for over forty years with his struggles. Never give up. It is the journey not your destination that makes it worthwhile. Hugs.
When I’m feeling a bit down and blue, I watch one of your vlogs and always feel better after. I don’t know exactly why, it is probably a combination of many things...the scenery you capture, the music you chose, the trivia you share, your humor and your openness about your mental health struggles. I hope you are able to continue creating and sharing these videos.
Colin, it's wonderful that you talk openly about your mental health. An American friend of my nephew is a psychologist and she says the problem here in the UK is that no-one seeks help until they are actually 'broken' and then it's a longer journey to fix. And you're so right about how it affects the people you are with - my 'wobble' happened following redundancy followed by long-term unemployment and my husband described it as having to watch someone you love dearly being tortured and you're unable to do anything about it. Hopefully, you're helping people to see it's ok and that seeking help is a positive thing so they do it earlier. My faith in you folks to think differently will hopefully change this state of things for people. Sending you *much* love, and hoping that Shaun is feeling a lot better now xxxx
Colin. I would never have known from watching the other vlogs. Well done for talking about it. I and many others have been there. The worst thing is thinking you're the only one. The more that people talk about it the more one realises one is not alone which is a great help in getting through it.
Colin, you are so exceptionally amazing. I am so impressed by your candor, self-awareness, and sincerity. And I am so very happy that you are prioritizing your mental health. You are an inspiration to so many of us.
I love that you are so open about your mental health issues. Mine probably stem from childhood trauma. I’ve never had any counselling, just medication. I find crafting things for other people helps me a lot. I was a nurse for over 35 years so maybe the desire to help others is just inbuilt. People don’t really get why I like making things for individuals and charities but it gives me a sense of who I am. I recently started watching videos like yours because they give me an interest outside of my life that I can really enjoy and live vicariously. Living on a narrow boat would be my idea of heaven. I’ve always loved them but now I’m older I think I’d need a wide beam! 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for the update on your mental health. I’ve been concerned for you both. You’ve taken on a lot of pressure with weekly blogs and other projects. Be sure to create downtime for both of you! Send love to you both and Otis too.
Wow, Colin, you are so correct when you urge talking about mental health issues. You may never know how many people you are helping when you open up about your struggles.....but believe me, you are making a difference. On another note, I don’t believe Shaun’s uplifting laughter has received enough attention. Shaun, you are a true delight! Keep it up, guys.
Would love to see more of your onshore excursions. And, some docked time as you relax aboard or onshore. Your TH-cam videos are one of the highlights of my weeks. Keep well, stay safe and keep up your good looks and charm.
I had a bad spell of anxiety last year... as you will know it never fully goes away, its finding a way to manage it when your struggling. I really hope you find a way that helps you.
My husband (a WII/Vietnam war veteran) had PTSD and the Veteran's Administration helped him a lot, after he died I had a episode of depression and had to ask for help...so I say BRAVO to you for taking care of your mental health. And YES! mental issues affect everyone in the family and even friends. So love ya take care of yourself!!!
@@FoxesAfloat While I have times when I miss Don so much, I have no desire to sink into the pit of depression I was once in...so I occasionally whine and cry (to myself) and continue on :)
It's great to hear people talk about mental health, very refreshing. My advice is to tell people you have mental health challenges as you'll be surprised by the number of people that say me too. Hopefully, one-day mental health issues won't be as stigmatized as many people make it today.
You two just keep on producing really gentle and interesting videos full of humour ! I had no idea that there were mental health issues involved and hope you receive the correct help with them ! Keep doing what you are doing !
It isn't right that some of the nicest, kindest, most gentle people have to struggle with their mental health. I love your posts and I wish I could give you a big hug. Here is a virtual hug, I hope you can feel the loving energy.🤗🤗
We've never met yet I feel like you're part of my circle and we love those within our circles. And we want for our friends to be happy and secure, and that's what I'm wanting for both of you.
Otis and openness! That's what I come here for. 👏 Thanks for another great video. Otis is such a big boy now. ❤ Thanks for updating us on your struggles Colin. I'm glad your therapy is helping and your point that treatment also helps one's loved ones is spot on and often overlooked.
Colin and Sean. Think about all the people you’ve helped over the years because every time you on TH-cam you brighten up thousands of peoples day not fun having mental health and PTSD from combat issues when you two guys are on TH-cam give me half an hour away from them So I owe you guys a big thank you
Thank you for sharing the fact that people like Shaun that are close to, and support, their loved ones with mental health problems often get forgotten about and the effect it can have on them. They can often feel helpless and feel they should be able to know / anticipate / help more / understand etc. Shaun no doubt has been your brick all these years, much love to him x --and love to you for sharing and raising awareness x --and not forgetting love to Otis who will give you both unconditional love no matter what x
Well that was short but very sweet, actress, bishop etc! Colin, I have said before, and I will never get bored saying it. "You are a true ambassador for mental health and reducing the stigma it attracts". Shaun, thank you for supporting Colin.
Colin I want to thank you for talking about your mental health. I watched you talk about your feelings and everything you described I see in my wife. She has always said she had issues but she could never describe them to me. But watching you and you and her have the same type issues. It really helped me to better understand her. It has really made our relationship better as I say I can better understand where she is coming from.
I think that society, both there and abroad are finally getting to the point that it's ok to talk about mental health. Lord knows there is nothing scary about talking about, but people seem to think that it is such this taboo subject. So thank you. I too recently have been trying to keep up with my own mental health....not so much any strong issues, but I've been really looking at my work/life balance and trying to get those scales tipping more toward the life side of it. So thanks for another great vlog and great history of the canals.
Hello from me all the way here in South Africa. I have started all the way back and watched everyone of your Y/Tube videos. I just love you two. Colin, thank you so much for sharing your mental issues. Shaun you are really a very special person to be there for Colin. I see true love between the two of you. Your love shines out to everybody else.
It is so obvious that Shawn loves you. He laughs at all your jokes. It's how I show my husband that I love him...no matter how corny those jokes are and no matter how often I hear them! LOL
Well done Colin, for sharing your mental status, Finding the right support is vital, for both of you! Not everyone can listen without being judgmental, or provide empathy, when needed, most only provide sympathy!! That’s why many find it easier to talk to a total stranger in many cases. Wishing you both well.. on your travels..
Another great blog! Got a cup of tea, a biscuit, comfy chair and watched. Otis is lovely and cuddly (you two are too), the scenery was beautiful, the info interesting. Love Roses Lime Juice! Don’t ever stop talking about mental health, the more the better. We, as your fans/online family, care about you both. But even more than that you’re encouraging others to talk too. Have a spectacular week. Love from Rochester, NY. xxx
It’s a tough world out there and I admire you for getting help. Glad that you have someone to stand with you. May your travels both on the water and down the rode to positive mental health, get easier. 😊
Colin: I see your struggle and am proud that my membership is giving you the smallest bit of assistance.keep at it mate, your advocacy is amazing. Shaun: I see your strength and the amazing support you give the man you love. Otis: lots of hugs for these two! Good boy!
Week on week; I can honestly say your Vlogs become more and more beautiful... They really are an absolute treat to watch and something to really look forward to on a Friday! 😛 ❤️
Another great one guys, I look forward to seeing your travels every Friday. So glad that you are educating the world about the struggles of coping with mental illness Colin and also bringing in Shaun's experiences as well. I think this will help more people than you could every imagine. Take care the both of you.
Colin, thank you for sharing your struggles. Yes, we all are affected with loved ones with mental health issues. Shaun and Colin, you are both lovely and valued people. We support you!
Thank you for recognizing the loved ones who support. Sometimes we are so focused on the person who has a medical condition that the care givers get sick from the stress. BTW, mental health is a health matter just like cancer. The person didn’t bring it on themself, everyone involved wants to cure it, but it is a hard, frustrating, long haul. As long as you recognize that you need help, you’ll find it and do well. Remember to tell each other that you share your love and life together because you want to; and not because you have to.
Thanks for the discussion Colin. I am fortunate in that I lived through a period of severe depression and made it out. I sincerely hope you find the gateway. You are a joy and I appreciate you. And I was surprised to see those Belted cattle. They are a rare breed. And that is actually what they are called, Belted Cows. You seldom see them over here. Take care and enjoy.
Just want to let you know that your blogs are helping me each Friday on my own mental health in these days. Hence you guys living on a narrowboat may have a wider effect than you consider possible. 😌
"So sad.... Yayyyy!" Another winner, chaps. I'm the "after" photo of nearly four years of therapy - it's hard work, and cost me lots (but less than I was going to lose otherwise). I hope it brings you some understanding and peace, Colin. And serious props to Shaun - it must be hard walking off for an hour, and returning with no questions and no hard feelings... ... I guess Otis helps! Xx
Hi from Oz, another great video boys. I just want to say to Colin, please keep talking. I've been married to the same lady for nearly 50 yrs & have no regrets at all but I grew up in a generation in which the majority didn't understand same sex relationships, or want to understand. As an apprentice in the building trade I saw a couple of guys (not a couple) ridiculed but these were two of the best people I met during my training. They were always there to help & assist me unlike some of the others that were doing the ridiculing. What I learnt at that age was that everyone deserves happiness & I believe that you two loving & caring guys are something this world desperately needs. My wife & I now look out for every new video & are working our way though all your previous works. Hang in there Colin, we all need you mate & we're so glad you have a partner like Shaun (& Otis) to help you.
Hi, Colin. It’s me again. For 60 years, I have been challenged with depression. I still have my days, but with a daily Mindfullness practice, I don’t fight it or judge myself anymore. After many councillors, I am lucky, finally, to have happened upon a psychologist who is trained in ‘parts work’. It has taught me that the reactions to triggers were reactions that I had to bury at the time, in childhood. So the reactions are at the age I was at time of the trauma. You can google it. I am happy and blessed now. My authentic self.
Sometimes there's a down side to being able to feel , from being able to acknowledge our vulnerabilities. Doesn't mean your not a strong person. Love the channel you three always give me a lift. Never change, be yourself, keep fighting.
I have only just seen this video lads, sorry. Birthday last weekend so family stuff took priority. I had a full blown breakdown 22 years ago. Not only me but my wife went through hell. So you are dead right about the people who support us through these things and don't get recognition/support. Good luck in getting to the other side of your current problems. Norm.
Thank you for opening up, I myself tried to end my life 3 weeks ago, I've tried for years to hide from my demon's but I now know it's time to face them so my Husband and I can move forward with our own plans to live aboard a narrowboat XX
An enjoyable vlog as always, gents. I think Colin just really likes to say seamen... Seriously though, I'm glad to hear that you're getting the help you need, Colin. Just know that you're helping others just by being open about your struggles.
Colin and Shawn ... all the best, always, virtual hugs and love. Thanks for sharing Colin! You have many friends who only want the best for both of you.
Great stuff guys. Colin you are such a brave and splendid chap. Shaun, steadfast and so wonderful in support. Otis! Of the furry belly! What a delightful pooch. Thanks guys.
I really appreciate your willingness to share your struggles. Sometimes talking to a physcho-therapist makes you feel worse before it makes you feel better. Best of everything to both of you.
Thank you once again for being so open about your mental health Colin. Sorry to hear you've being finding things difficult again, but I'm glad you're getting the support and counsel you need, especially Shaun's love and understanding.
Hi boys it's me again. I just want to say Colin and Shaun you are both stars in your own right. Colin because you face up to your fears and Shaun because you give Colin the love and support he needs. You are a great couple and I love watching all your adventures. Stay safe as always and Lots of Love to you both and Otis. xxx
My wife asked me to tell you that we love you blokes (it's true). And, I want you both to know that I understand the point about the pressure your partner is under when one of you is suffering. My wife is amazing and I'm blessed that she stuck with me. Things are a lot better now after nearly three decades of struggle. The fight continues and probably will continue until I run out of steam. Here's to all those who stand by us. Hopefully, they get to see their partner recover. Terry and Dianne (Downunder)
I stumbled upon your vlogs and have to say, I love them! You two are are so charmingly funny and unpretentious, the videos are visually stunning, I love the bits of English history and Otis and your loving interactions with him warm my heart. I am so Looking forward to binging your previous vlogs in the weeks to come. You have a new fan!!
Colin, I can't say & won't, that I understand what you are going through, but I think you are handling your problems well. You don't hide them, you share as much as you can with us, that takes a lot of guts mate. Personally I think it makes your channel what it is, it's your personal perspective on life that makes it so interesting. Although it's never going to be easy for you, I think narrow boat life with a partner like Sean to help, is a whole lot better for you, than the rat race in my world of land lubbers. I wish you all the best.
So nice to see someone on youtube who is honest about their struggles. No ‘look how great my life is’ lies, but an honest insight into the highs and lows. Also as a history nerd I’m loving the historical nuggets! Loving your channel guys!
I stumbled upon your channel a few weeks ago. I've been having a particularly tough time with anxiety myself lately and I'm so happy to see you making the most of life. I just wanted to say to the both of you: Thank you so much for being you!
Only just found you guys but you are now someone I will follow. Colin, you are very brave and honest to share something so personal here and I do hope that your therapy helps you improve your quality of life.I love the fact that not only do we get to see such beauty and quality video but also are learning some history as well that many of us not able to travel in that way can enjoy. Love to both of you. Sally.
Colin stay positive well done you for sharing. You have a lovely caring person standing right next to you. You two make my Fridays. Sending virtual hugs to you both x
My brother Ray back in the 1970s used to work that part of canal on his barge carrying barrels of lime Juice for Roses Lime juice into London. Was great to see picture of old warehouse you put on your vlog.Thankyou.
Hi guys. This video is brilliant. I really admire your honesty I struggle with mental health really badly. Your right it does take its toll on your love ones to. Always keep talking your doing really well please keep making these vlogs. You can beat this. Thank you guys.
Another great video and I love listening to you talk about your mental health the more people talk openly about it the better I think the reason you feel you’re getting worse is probably the counselling as it make you feel worse before it makes you feel better, opening old wounds is never easy but I’m sure it will get less painful x
Awwww I just love 💕 you two. You’re honestly about how you have been dealing with your mental health Colin I can imagine is difficult to talk about but the fact you do inspires others to do the same. I particularly liked the acknowledgement of difficulties Shaun experiences along side your difficulties. It would be great to hear from Shaun how he himself feels and his approach to managing both your really bad days and his own mental health. As you rightly point out it’s just as difficult for friends, family and partners as well 😘 love your vlogs as always a healthy mix of fun, frolics, facts and Otis. Lots of love to you both 😘
And this is why I like your videos. Great videography, a little history, candid honesty (which hits home in my case as well), and, of course, Otis. :-)
I love people who share the truth and try to help others. You are very honest, and I admire you, Colin. And what another lovely vlog this was! It makes me feel so good to watch this. And there's always Shaun's laughter, which is the best ever. Thank you!
My 15 year-old daughter has taken a sudden interest in your vlogs - nothing to do with Otis, of course! Good to hear you talking about your mental health problems, and I'm very glad that my few quid a month is going to such a good cause. Talking is key, from personal experience. I think many of us actually know what's causing our problems at some subconcious level, but can't access it or deal with it, and talking to someone (someone who knows what they are doing!) helps us get access to all that stuff and face it, and start the healing process. Got to be the right person though. I've had two experiences with this, the first was really eye-opening and helped me change my life completely (although I still have to keep a watch on myself to stop me slipping back into the old ways), but the second was with a therapist who I just couldn't connect to, and it was worse than a waste of time. I had to cancel the sessions early - they were doing more harm than good.
Yeah, I had many bad experiences with 'free' talking therapies on the NHS, ranging from inexperienced, to damaging. I exhausted every avenue before paying for a professional. Things are improving, but I have many many years to unravel.
You two are an absolute inspiration, and I admire and respect ya both. Keep talkin' and movin' forward. Keep learning, and growing, loving and laughing. There is so much beautiful life in this world, and so much to see and experience. Keep up the amazing work fellas, truly inspirational!
Amazing episode guys! I've suffered from depression for 6 years and things like this is such a huge help. Knowing that other people are dealing with the same issues is remedy. As use said talking really helps. Getting people to talk is the task. Things like this help eveyone
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Colin & Shaun: Your advocacy on behalf of mental health issues does you both proud! Thanks to you both!! Another epic vlog!!! 💗
Thank you so much, Tom 💜
Wow! That was very powerful and entertaining all at the same time. Thanks guys. Superb! 👌👍👏👏👏
P. S. I'm fast running out of superlatives to describe your vlogs, I'll need to recycle soon!!
Proud of you both ! Speaking up so respectfully. Know you are both loved and admired .
Shaun and Colin,
I can only speak for myself, me being the funny, outgoing one was for people outside of my immediate family to see. As soon as I got home I would be exhausted from being funny and cheerful all day. I would go home to my safe place and I would switch off my load from the day and my introverted husband and I would switch personalities. Our kids remember him as the fun and silly parent. It wasn’t like I was a zombie, I was still fun, but I didn’t have to be when I was with my immediate family. (I was a happy school teacher-that is very stressfu) I went through stuff growing up that shaped me as an adult. I’m now realizing it wasn’t all awful, it’s just the awful parts burn a hole in my memory. My loving and accepting husband saved me. But I know I must drive him crazy at times when my anxiety explodes and I just want to run. I don’t know if I could do this without him. We’re in a great place right now, thank goodness. I don’t know your religious background, but I will send out a prayer of peace of mind for you both.
Perfect comment!!!
Mental Health is one of the most maligned health issues you can have. No one can see it, it isn't a physical disability so people can't always accept it as a disability. So glad that you are able to share some of your experiences, I am sure your story will help many others. Love your vlog and look forward to seeing you every week. Otis is growing like a weed! So stinkin cute too.
he's growing like crazy!
We love you Colin. Keep shining the light on those dark areas, You deserve to be happy. You make so many of us happy. Shaun, your a champion and we love you too.
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Guys I've said this before, but I truly love all the little historical tidbits you give. Colin I'm sorry the canal life isn't helping as much as y'all hoped for. But I'm so glad you have found someone to help. I've never met you(and probably never will. The ocean is a bit too big to swim. Lol) but I do know the world would not be as bright if you weren't in it.
That means so much. Thanks, Rusty. 💜🤯
I agree with this! The world would be a very sad place without you!
I suffered from extreme anxiety in my 20s Panic attacks 2 or 3 times a day I was a computer nerd so found myself in a position where I could work from home pretty much every day for 12 years ! the only thing I was comfortable doing with was going to the grocery store everything else out of the question depression set in.
Glad to hear that my subscription's not all being frittered away on Jaffa Cakes :) You're an inspiration to many Colin, so glad to be able to follow you and Shaun (and Otis) though all your adventures.
Thank you so much for the kind words and for your support, Gary 💜
Love the photography in this one! Love your little history snippets. Love watching Otis grow and you two being silly! And, love that you are talking about mental health. Just plain love you guys ❤️❤️
Thanks, Cherry! 💜🤯👍🏻
I especially love your acknowledgement of the challenge for the loved ones supporting those with metal health issues. As a supporter of someone with metal health issues being able to talk to someone else(a professional) was so important for my metal health and for me to support my loved one the best I could... Love your videos..
Thanks so much, Elizabeth! 💜🤯👍🏻
Hi Boyz! I have msged you before, but I wanted to speak directly to Colin. My partner and I are both bi-polar, and my partner Hampus has aspergers. I wanted to offer to you a little nugget we've learned along the way ... life can be a right mess. A HOT mess as my partner likes to call himself. But its true whether neuro typical or not, we all muddle through as best we can. We tend to wind ourselves up, offering explanations to others for the the things we do and reasons for the way we are... but often we dont even know these reasons for ourselves. Hampus and I decided together, that sort of like when you're trying to cross a river by stepping on some slippery stones... you're out there up to your ankles in water... best just to keep on making your way.. no sense in turning around as you'd be no better off. The future allways can be brighter and even more so if there's someone to reach out a hand and give ya a pull up out of the water before you get too wet. I dont know much, but I PROMISE, I ABSOLUTELY promise that ALTHOUGH it might not ever get 100% better... it DOES GET EASIER. You cant ever know today ... how resilient you will be tomorrow. I didnt know that I could ever have made it to today, but I did, and with my partner ... we took two slightly cracked and sinking lives and managed to build the foundation of a solid brilliant one TOGETHER. I wish you both well and much love and hugz. My apologies for rambling like a nutter, its what I do. But I mean it will all sincerity. Be good. -JP and Hampus
'Rambling like a nutter' 😂
Cheers guys. Great words. xx
That's so lovely .❤
Keep at it Colin. You are doing the work. Give yourself a pat on the back.
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I'm so depressed.... I'm a homeless mum. We live in a motel. I just want my son whose autistic to have a safe place a home.....
But when I am very stressed I watch you 2 an I am transported to a narrow boat with u 2 great blouges.
I really hope better times are coming for you guys 💜💜💜
I’m suffering with mental health issues and these videos help me in the evenings to focus my mind and stop my thoughts racing love what you guys do and the history is great thank you
Thanks, Liam! 😂
Thank you for also including the family of those suffering with depression and anxiety. As a parent, the most frustrating and heartbreaking thing for me is not being able to "make it better." Love you both!
Sending love!💜
Hahaha, I love it when Shaun takes in a breath and say
“ ohhh! You can’t say that “.
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Thanks for shearing 😊 It's sad that the NHS isn't funded enough to give the right support so many people who need it. Both of you keep sharing your magic which brings so much enjoyment to so many of us 😊👍x
I totally agree!
Thank you for keeping the discussion on mental health in the forefront.
Thanks, Anne!
If we go in lock down over autumn /winter the mental health cases/problems will go of the charts.
Very true!
I know mental health treatment is rough. But, I want you two to know, I think you are lovely. A bright spot in my day. I have been supporting my husband for over forty years with his struggles. Never give up. It is the journey not your destination that makes it worthwhile. Hugs.
Thanks, Mel. 💜
When I’m feeling a bit down and blue, I watch one of your vlogs and always feel better after. I don’t know exactly why, it is probably a combination of many things...the scenery you capture, the music you chose, the trivia you share, your humor and your openness about your mental health struggles. I hope you are able to continue creating and sharing these videos.
Thanks so much!
Colin, it's wonderful that you talk openly about your mental health. An American friend of my nephew is a psychologist and she says the problem here in the UK is that no-one seeks help until they are actually 'broken' and then it's a longer journey to fix. And you're so right about how it affects the people you are with - my 'wobble' happened following redundancy followed by long-term unemployment and my husband described it as having to watch someone you love dearly being tortured and you're unable to do anything about it. Hopefully, you're helping people to see it's ok and that seeking help is a positive thing so they do it earlier. My faith in you folks to think differently will hopefully change this state of things for people. Sending you *much* love, and hoping that Shaun is feeling a lot better now xxxx
That's a very familiar description. Very true. Thanks, Ani! Happy New Year! x
Colin. I would never have known from watching the other vlogs. Well done for talking about it. I and many others have been there. The worst thing is thinking you're the only one. The more that people talk about it the more one realises one is not alone which is a great help in getting through it.
Thank you 💜
Colin, you are so exceptionally amazing. I am so impressed by your candor, self-awareness, and sincerity. And I am so very happy that you are prioritizing your mental health. You are an inspiration to so many of us.
Thanks, Janet 💜
I love that you are so open about your mental health issues. Mine probably stem from childhood trauma. I’ve never had any counselling, just medication. I find crafting things for other people helps me a lot. I was a nurse for over 35 years so maybe the desire to help others is just inbuilt. People don’t really get why I like making things for individuals and charities but it gives me a sense of who I am. I recently started watching videos like yours because they give me an interest outside of my life that I can really enjoy and live vicariously. Living on a narrow boat would be my idea of heaven. I’ve always loved them but now I’m older I think I’d need a wide beam! 🤣🤣🤣
I can so relate to your story. 🙋♀️
Thanks 💜🤯👍🏻
Suzanne that’s your therapy, giving to and helping others. If that helps you then keep it going😊👍💪🏻
Always a great day when there is a new video from my favorite British couple Colin & Shawn and mighty Otis :-)
Wow, thank you!
Good on you for talking openly about mental health 👏
Love watching you guys
Thanks so much, Steve 👍🏻
Thank you for the update on your mental health. I’ve been concerned for you both. You’ve taken on a lot of pressure with weekly blogs and other projects. Be sure to create downtime for both of you! Send love to you both and Otis too.
Thanks Ruth 💜
Wow, Colin, you are so correct when you urge talking about mental health issues. You may never know how many people you are helping when you open up about your struggles.....but believe me, you are making a difference. On another note, I don’t believe Shaun’s uplifting laughter has received enough attention. Shaun, you are a true delight! Keep it up, guys.
Thanks 💜🤯👍🏻
You’ve become a staple on my Friday nights. Big hugs to the three of you 🤗
Yay! Thank you!
Would love to see more of your onshore excursions. And, some docked time as you relax aboard or onshore. Your TH-cam videos are one of the highlights of my weeks. Keep well, stay safe and keep up your good looks and charm.
Thanks, we've done a few videos of us just on the boat chilling 👍🏻
I had a bad spell of anxiety last year... as you will know it never fully goes away, its finding a way to manage it when your struggling. I really hope you find a way that helps you.
Thanks, Dave. I hope you're feeling more positive 🤯💜
Thank you for your continued openness and honesty. Love to the three of you. Happy watery adventures!
Thanks so much!
My husband (a WII/Vietnam war veteran) had PTSD and the Veteran's Administration helped him a lot, after he died I had a episode of depression and had to ask for help...so I say BRAVO to you for taking care of your mental health. And YES! mental issues affect everyone in the family and even friends. So love ya take care of yourself!!!
Thanks so much, Theanne. I hope you're stronger now 💜🤯
@@FoxesAfloat While I have times when I miss Don so much, I have no desire to sink into the pit of depression I was once in...so I occasionally whine and cry (to myself) and continue on :)
It's great to hear people talk about mental health, very refreshing. My advice is to tell people you have mental health challenges as you'll be surprised by the number of people that say me too. Hopefully, one-day mental health issues won't be as stigmatized as many people make it today.
I think we're heading that way, Jason 👍🏻
Lovely vlog. Dancing days? Gold pants? Shaun's laugh is amazing. TRAAAIIIINNNNN! Take care you two amazing humans. ❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰🌞🌞🌞
Haha! I can't dance to save my life 😂
Nice job talking about mental health. Mental health is so often ignored or hidden. Please keep moving forward and don't let anything stop you two.
Thanks! 💜🤯👍🏻
Colin and Shaun you are positively impacting so many in your honest voice and advocacy for mental health awareness.
Thanks so much, Mike!
You two just keep on producing really gentle and interesting videos full of humour ! I had no idea that there were mental health issues involved and hope you receive the correct help with them ! Keep doing what you are doing !
Thanks, David!
It isn't right that some of the nicest, kindest, most gentle people have to struggle with their mental health. I love your posts and I wish I could give you a big hug. Here is a virtual hug, I hope you can feel the loving energy.🤗🤗
I think that we understand the internal hurt so much that we feel we have to make other people feel better so they don't have to endure it ❤️
We've never met yet I feel like you're part of my circle and we love those within our circles. And we want for our friends to be happy and secure, and that's what I'm wanting for both of you.
Thanks! 💜🤯👍🏻
So true that everyone around you needs support too. Well said. It’s good to talk about mental health + give it some air. 🙏🏻
Thanks so much, Rachel 👍🏻
Otis and openness! That's what I come here for. 👏 Thanks for another great video. Otis is such a big boy now. ❤ Thanks for updating us on your struggles Colin. I'm glad your therapy is helping and your point that treatment also helps one's loved ones is spot on and often overlooked.
Thanks, Andrew 💜🤯👍🏻
Colin and Sean. Think about all the people you’ve helped over the years because every time you on TH-cam you brighten up thousands of peoples day not fun having mental health and PTSD from combat issues when you two guys are on TH-cam give me half an hour away from them So I owe you guys a big thank you
Thanks, Chip! 💜
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Thank you for sharing the fact that people like Shaun that are close to, and support, their loved ones with mental health problems often get forgotten about and the effect it can have on them. They can often feel helpless and feel they should be able to know / anticipate / help more / understand etc. Shaun no doubt has been your brick all these years, much love to him x
--and love to you for sharing and raising awareness x
--and not forgetting love to Otis who will give you both unconditional love no matter what x
Thanks Susan.
Well that was short but very sweet, actress, bishop etc!
Colin, I have said before, and I will never get bored saying it. "You are a true ambassador for mental health and reducing the stigma it attracts". Shaun, thank you for supporting Colin.
Thanks so much, Trevor!
Colin I want to thank you for talking about your mental health. I watched you talk about your feelings and everything you described I see in my wife. She has always said she had issues but she could never describe them to me. But watching you and you and her have the same type issues. It really helped me to better understand her. It has really made our relationship better as I say I can better understand where she is coming from.
Awww, mate! I hope you're as loving and supportive as you sound 👍🏻💜
Your honesty abt yr mental health touched my heart deeply. Wishing you two the best!♡♡♡
Thanks, Ann! 💜🤯👍🏻
I am sorry to hear about your struggles. Ironically watching your channel gives me peace. I hope you find the relief you need.
Thanks, Heather. Continue to chill at the videos ☺️
I think that society, both there and abroad are finally getting to the point that it's ok to talk about mental health. Lord knows there is nothing scary about talking about, but people seem to think that it is such this taboo subject. So thank you. I too recently have been trying to keep up with my own mental health....not so much any strong issues, but I've been really looking at my work/life balance and trying to get those scales tipping more toward the life side of it. So thanks for another great vlog and great history of the canals.
Our pleasure, David!
Hello from me all the way here in South Africa. I have started all the way back and watched everyone of your Y/Tube videos. I just love you two. Colin, thank you so much for sharing your mental issues. Shaun you are really a very special person to be there for Colin. I see true love between the two of you. Your love shines out to everybody else.
Thank you so much! x
Of all the narrow boat vloggers. Y’all are the best. Bye Otis.
Aww, cheers, Daniel!
It is so obvious that Shawn loves you. He laughs at all your jokes. It's how I show my husband that I love him...no matter how corny those jokes are and no matter how often I hear them! LOL
None taken 😂
Yet another informative vlog.
Well done Colin, for sharing your mental status,
Finding the right support is vital, for both of you!
Not everyone can listen without being judgmental, or provide empathy, when needed, most only provide sympathy!!
That’s why many find it easier to talk to a total stranger in many cases.
Wishing you both well.. on your travels..
Thanks so much, Pete 💜🤯
Another great blog! Got a cup of tea, a biscuit, comfy chair and watched. Otis is lovely and cuddly (you two are too), the scenery was beautiful, the info interesting. Love Roses Lime Juice! Don’t ever stop talking about mental health, the more the better. We, as your fans/online family, care about you both. But even more than that you’re encouraging others to talk too. Have a spectacular week. Love from Rochester, NY. xxx
Thanks so much, Kathy!
It’s a tough world out there and I admire you for getting help. Glad that you have someone to stand with you. May your travels both on the water and down the rode to positive mental health, get easier. 😊
Thanks Donna!
Thanks for the update - we all worry about our friends. Keep at it smartly like you seem to be doing. No one is normal. PS TRAIN!!!! Hi Otis.
TRRRRRAAAAAIIIN! 😂
Colin: I see your struggle and am proud that my membership is giving you the smallest bit of assistance.keep at it mate, your advocacy is amazing.
Shaun: I see your strength and the amazing support you give the man you love.
Otis: lots of hugs for these two! Good boy!
Thanks so much, Craig. It really is making a difference 💜
Week on week; I can honestly say your Vlogs become more and more beautiful... They really are an absolute treat to watch and something to really look forward to on a Friday! 😛 ❤️
Thank you so much!!
I really appreciate you talking about your mental health issues. I think talking about what bothers you is a good thing. Keep up your good work.
Thanks, Alan 💜
Another great one guys, I look forward to seeing your travels every Friday. So glad that you are educating the world about the struggles of coping with mental illness Colin and also bringing in Shaun's experiences as well. I think this will help more people than you could every imagine. Take care the both of you.
Thanks, Marc 👍🏻👍🏻
Colin, thank you for sharing your struggles. Yes, we all are affected with loved ones with mental health issues. Shaun and Colin, you are both lovely and valued people. We support you!
Thanks so much, Pamela!
Thank you Shaun. For being there. For being Colin’s rock when thing get hard. Just thank you for loving him.
Thanks! 💜🤯👍🏻
Thank you for recognizing the loved ones who support. Sometimes we are so focused on the person who has a medical condition that the care givers get sick from the stress. BTW, mental health is a health matter just like cancer. The person didn’t bring it on themself, everyone involved wants to cure it, but it is a hard, frustrating, long haul. As long as you recognize that you need help, you’ll find it and do well. Remember to tell each other that you share your love and life together because you want to; and not because you have to.
True words. Thanks, Carol 💜
Thank you for sharing - it helps all of us who are "in the same boat".
Our pleasure!
Thanks for the discussion Colin. I am fortunate in that I lived through a period of severe depression and made it out. I sincerely hope you find the gateway. You are a joy and I appreciate you. And I was surprised to see those Belted cattle. They are a rare breed. And that is actually what they are called, Belted Cows. You seldom see them over here. Take care and enjoy.
Wow! Thanks! 💜🤯👍🏻
Just want to let you know that your blogs are helping me each Friday on my own mental health in these days. Hence you guys living on a narrowboat may have a wider effect than you consider possible. 😌
Thanks so much 💜🤯
"So sad.... Yayyyy!"
Another winner, chaps. I'm the "after" photo of nearly four years of therapy - it's hard work, and cost me lots (but less than I was going to lose otherwise). I hope it brings you some understanding and peace, Colin. And serious props to Shaun - it must be hard walking off for an hour, and returning with no questions and no hard feelings...
... I guess Otis helps!
Xx
I don't know how he manages 💜
Hi from Oz, another great video boys. I just want to say to Colin, please keep talking. I've been married to the same lady for nearly 50 yrs & have no regrets at all but I grew up in a generation in which the majority didn't understand same sex relationships, or want to understand. As an apprentice in the building trade I saw a couple of guys (not a couple) ridiculed but these were two of the best people I met during my training. They were always there to help & assist me unlike some of the others that were doing the ridiculing. What I learnt at that age was that everyone deserves happiness & I believe that you two loving & caring guys are something this world desperately needs.
My wife & I now look out for every new video & are working our way though all your previous works.
Hang in there Colin, we all need you mate & we're so glad you have a partner like Shaun (& Otis) to help you.
Thank you so much guys! 💜
The more you talk about mental health, the more you help me... and probably others. Thanks.
Thanks, Mac. Stay strong! 🤯
Hi, Colin. It’s me again. For 60 years, I have been challenged with depression. I still have my days, but with a daily Mindfullness practice, I don’t fight it or judge myself anymore. After many councillors, I am lucky, finally, to have happened upon a psychologist who is trained in ‘parts work’. It has taught me that the reactions to triggers were reactions that I had to bury at the time, in childhood. So the reactions are at the age I was at time of the trauma. You can google it. I am happy and blessed now. My authentic self.
So glad you got sorted! 💜
Sometimes there's a down side to being able to feel , from being able to acknowledge our vulnerabilities. Doesn't mean your not a strong person. Love the channel you three always give me a lift.
Never change, be yourself, keep fighting.
Fantastic words! Thanks 💜
Agree☺
I have only just seen this video lads, sorry. Birthday last weekend so family stuff took priority. I had a full blown breakdown 22 years ago. Not only me but my wife went through hell. So you are dead right about the people who support us through these things and don't get recognition/support. Good luck in getting to the other side of your current problems. Norm.
Thanks, Norm 👍🏻💜
Thank you for opening up, I myself tried to end my life 3 weeks ago, I've tried for years to hide from my demon's but I now know it's time to face them so my Husband and I can move forward with our own plans to live aboard a narrowboat XX
Sorry to hear that. Please stay strong and keep talking 💜
An enjoyable vlog as always, gents. I think Colin just really likes to say seamen... Seriously though, I'm glad to hear that you're getting the help you need, Colin. Just know that you're helping others just by being open about your struggles.
If only you knew how many takes before Shaun stopped giggling at seamen 😂
Colin and Shawn ... all the best, always, virtual hugs and love. Thanks for sharing Colin! You have many friends who only want the best for both of you.
Thanks so much, Jim
What a beautiful stretch of canal. Thankyou so much
Our pleasure!
The more you talk about the more you help other people it means we are all not alone .Thank you so much xx
Thanks, Carol.
Great stuff guys. Colin you are such a brave and splendid chap. Shaun, steadfast and so wonderful in support. Otis! Of the furry belly! What a delightful pooch. Thanks guys.
Thanks so much!
Never be afraid to ask for help, never be afraid to talk to someone who is willing to listen and above all always ask "RUOK"
Thanks! 💜🤯👍🏻
I really appreciate your willingness to share your struggles. Sometimes talking to a physcho-therapist makes you feel worse before it makes you feel better. Best of everything to both of you.
I totally agree!
Thank you once again for being so open about your mental health Colin.
Sorry to hear you've being finding things difficult again, but I'm glad you're getting the support and counsel you need, especially Shaun's love and understanding.
Thanks Rob.
Hi boys it's me again. I just want to say Colin and Shaun you are both stars in your own right. Colin because you face up to your fears and Shaun because you give Colin the love and support he needs. You are a great couple and I love watching all your adventures. Stay safe as always and Lots of Love to you both and Otis. xxx
Thanks, Virginia! 💜🤯👍🏻
My wife asked me to tell you that we love you blokes (it's true). And, I want you both to know that I understand the point about the pressure your partner is under when one of you is suffering. My wife is amazing and I'm blessed that she stuck with me. Things are a lot better now after nearly three decades of struggle. The fight continues and probably will continue until I run out of steam. Here's to all those who stand by us. Hopefully, they get to see their partner recover.
Terry and Dianne (Downunder)
Thanks so much guys. Stay strong!
I stumbled upon your vlogs and have to say, I love them! You two are are so charmingly funny and unpretentious, the videos are visually stunning, I love the bits of English history and Otis and your loving interactions with him warm my heart. I am so Looking forward to binging your previous vlogs in the weeks to come. You have a new fan!!
Thank you so much!! Welcome to our little world 💜
Colin, I can't say & won't, that I understand what you are going through, but I think you are handling your problems well.
You don't hide them, you share as much as you can with us, that takes a lot of guts mate.
Personally I think it makes your channel what it is, it's your personal perspective on life that makes it so interesting.
Although it's never going to be easy for you, I think narrow boat life with a partner like Sean to help, is a whole lot better for
you, than the rat race in my world of land lubbers.
I wish you all the best.
Thanks, Kevin! 💜🤯👍🏻
So nice to see someone on youtube who is honest about their struggles. No ‘look how great my life is’ lies, but an honest insight into the highs and lows. Also as a history nerd I’m loving the historical nuggets! Loving your channel guys!
Thank you so much!!
I stumbled upon your channel a few weeks ago. I've been having a particularly tough time with anxiety myself lately and I'm so happy to see you making the most of life. I just wanted to say to the both of you: Thank you so much for being you!
Sorry you’ve had a tough time 💚 thanks for the lovely comment 💙
@@FoxesAfloatit’s getting better every day!! Thanks for the adventure!
Only just found you guys but you are now someone I will follow. Colin, you are very brave and honest to share something so personal here and I do hope that your therapy helps you improve your quality of life.I love the fact that not only do we get to see such beauty and quality video but also are learning some history as well that many of us not able to travel in that way can enjoy. Love to both of you. Sally.
Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Colin stay positive well done you for sharing. You have a lovely caring person standing right next to you. You two make my Fridays. Sending virtual hugs to you both x
Thanks so much
My brother Ray back in the 1970s used to work that part of canal on his barge carrying barrels of lime Juice for Roses Lime juice into London.
Was great to see picture of old warehouse you put on your vlog.Thankyou.
Good stuff 👍🏻
Hi guys. This video is brilliant. I really admire your honesty I struggle with mental health really badly. Your right it does take its toll on your love ones to. Always keep talking your doing really well please keep making these vlogs. You can beat this. Thank you guys.
Thanks so much, Richard. Stay strong!
Another great video and I love listening to you talk about your mental health the more people talk openly about it the better
I think the reason you feel you’re getting worse is probably the counselling as it make you feel worse before it makes you feel better, opening old wounds is never easy but I’m sure it will get less painful x
That's what he said 👍🏻💜
I know your grateful to have Sean and he’s supportive of you. You are both super in each of your roles in your relationship.
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Awwww I just love 💕 you two. You’re honestly about how you have been dealing with your mental health Colin I can imagine is difficult to talk about but the fact you do inspires others to do the same. I particularly liked the acknowledgement of difficulties Shaun experiences along side your difficulties. It would be great to hear from Shaun how he himself feels and his approach to managing both your really bad days and his own mental health. As you rightly point out it’s just as difficult for friends, family and partners as well 😘 love your vlogs as always a healthy mix of fun, frolics, facts and Otis.
Lots of love to you both 😘
Thank you so much 💜🤯 Shaun is the opposite to me when it comes to talking about mental health 😂
Great episode as always, chaps. Thank you for opening up and sharing.
Glad you enjoyed it
And this is why I like your videos. Great videography, a little history, candid honesty (which hits home in my case as well), and, of course, Otis. :-)
I appreciate that, David. Thanks!
I love people who share the truth and try to help others. You are very honest, and I admire you, Colin. And what another lovely vlog this was! It makes me feel so good to watch this. And there's always Shaun's laughter, which is the best ever. Thank you!
I appreciate that! Thanks, James!
My 15 year-old daughter has taken a sudden interest in your vlogs - nothing to do with Otis, of course!
Good to hear you talking about your mental health problems, and I'm very glad that my few quid a month is going to such a good cause. Talking is key, from personal experience. I think many of us actually know what's causing our problems at some subconcious level, but can't access it or deal with it, and talking to someone (someone who knows what they are doing!) helps us get access to all that stuff and face it, and start the healing process.
Got to be the right person though. I've had two experiences with this, the first was really eye-opening and helped me change my life completely (although I still have to keep a watch on myself to stop me slipping back into the old ways), but the second was with a therapist who I just couldn't connect to, and it was worse than a waste of time. I had to cancel the sessions early - they were doing more harm than good.
Yeah, I had many bad experiences with 'free' talking therapies on the NHS, ranging from inexperienced, to damaging. I exhausted every avenue before paying for a professional. Things are improving, but I have many many years to unravel.
You two are an absolute inspiration, and I admire and respect ya both. Keep talkin' and movin' forward. Keep learning, and growing, loving and laughing. There is so much beautiful life in this world, and so much to see and experience. Keep up the amazing work fellas, truly inspirational!
Thank you! Will do!
Great to see 2 adventurers who are true gentle men (different to gentlemen)
Aww, thanks, Rob!
Love the slow-mo of the Heron taking off
Thanks, Robert! 👍🏻
Amazing episode guys! I've suffered from depression for 6 years and things like this is such a huge help. Knowing that other people are dealing with the same issues is remedy. As use said talking really helps. Getting people to talk is the task. Things like this help eveyone
Thanks 💜🤯👍🏻