I am an ISFP and I believe that for me, I don't like to stand out very much. I never ask to be the leader of a group. I usually just stay quiet and follow along with what others do. Sometimes I end up singing or playing guitar for people. Right after that, people complement me, but it doesnt feel right... so I always bring myself down and find ways that I could've messed up. I usually dont like being in the spotlight, but doing what I love to do makes me very happy. Thank you for sharing your lovely experiences! They are very genuine. Keep it up!
I also downplay my accomplishments and say stuff like well I could have done this better or that better. Not sure why I do that? I have been better at just saying thank you and leaving it, but I have to make an effort to do so. Thanks for commenting and watching!
As an INTP, now I understand more about my ISFP brother. I didn’t knew that appreciation is so important for him and I think I really should appreciate his work more now. Thank you
Hi Sheila! Fellow ISFP and Minnesotan here. Both my parents graduated from Burnsville High School, so I spent my early years in that area. So when you mentioned the snobby suburb, I was totally expecting you to say Wayzata! 😂😂
You are so lovable! I agree with what you have to say on fears. I used to fear rejection with sharing my art, but now I view it as envy. Which might be a bit cocky. But hear me out! hahaha A person once came up to me to say, "Your art sucks and that's why you're a receptionist." Well, since I had sold something a week earlier I immediately thought he was envious that I was creating and he was not. I also thought, he is not my audience and his opinion holds no value to me. Right then and there I felt at peace during the attack. I think being confident in what you make is a strength, not cocky. If it brought you joy, it bring someone else joy, just not everyone.
Yeah I agree no one likes to be rejected, but I really won’t put myself in many situations to avoid the tribe! It takes a lot of work to face my fears, IJs don’t have that as a main driving fear
My fears Making a final decision. Because usually I’m afraid it’s not the right one . Racism. Being controlled and have no freedom of speech. Losing a a close friend . Joining a group full of random people I don’t know . I want meet new ppl i rly do but I’m a lil shy . I hate to admit it but i am . Planning for the future because the thing is Se is next to Ni with an inch so if i get out from the se zone and cross the road towards ni then my fi sticks to ni for loooooooooonngg time and it’s stressful. So usually i try to balance the se ni within me . People judging me but I’m getting myself to accept it because people like to judge no matter what. In fact they are scared to judge themselves so they try to judge others . :)
Thank you for being open and sharing your fears!! Those are all on my list also. I don’t like planning too much either because what if I change my mind or something else more fun comes up!? Lol
Yeah our vision of an ideal situation mostly never really lives up to it in reality. I’ve learned to just try not to build things up in my head too much.
@lili exactly but i ask your self what is the center point of your fear that exist in the future isfp hate it more so when they are out of control yes isfp infp don’t like to be out without feeling in control but (of themselves) opposite to extj who wants to control others to feel safe in most cases. So figure out a way where what you are doing today is somewhat going to be worth it in future then leave it there then come back to the moment and just be in it try to slowly shift your thoughts with daily activities you like as if “ one’s having too much time without doing anything in it can be one’s own nightmare” so try to do some activities you like to get in Se
@lili i got in fi-ni loop in the end of my high school years but somehow got out if it maybe with surrounding myself with good friends? People ? animals ? Hobbies? Usually it’s the good close friends - even one - who can help a bit in pulling me out of it and the isfp that can get more often to Fi-Ni loop I think the ones who lack some life experiences where when we don’t know enough yet and still we think we are like intj infj we can read the future lol but I found out with some of my depressed times and struggles when i got out of them somehow my chances of getting into Ni loop reduced as if i can comfortably show my Fi some evidence to relax and enjoy moments because of experiences i did before similar to now and I succeeded in it .
I have the same problem as an INFP. I fear rejection by others. I thought that ISFPS would be less like this because you have Se as a tool function so you know how to give others a good experience and being a sensor you would be more in tune with others. Thank you for sharing. You are helping alot of people out there. Btw I love ur fashion. It is beautiful and ur voice is very kind.
Thanks for sharing Sheila! I can totally relate to putting yourself out there to be judged by others is hard. For me even recording myself is daunting. I actually started a challenge a couple of days ago to do 5 min video journaling every day and so far it feels really awkward, but I think like everything in life it gets easier the more you do it ;)
Lisa it does get easier! Every time I do a video and press upload, my heart pitter patters and I want to delete it but it putter patters less intensely as time goes! Lol Good for you facing those fears! We have to look at them head on, and say you have no control over me😜
Hi, I'm also an ISFP, realy thank you for sharing yours fear it's very calming to hear, that someone else feals the same way about organazing things. Thank you:)!
THat is ISFP as it gets around "this cow camp" with my favorite ISFP gets to the 9s! It is so reinforcing tp hear you articulate my observations for years. It fits the profile I observe to a capital T. Thanks for bringing it alive
I usually just watch your videos and not say anything, but this time I just want to express how thankful I am that you've been putting up these videos. For me, Se (along with Te) is the weirdest, most foreign function out there. And since there are so few Se youtubers and practically no other ISFP youtuber other than you that I know of (and now I know why from your explanation), your videos have been an eye-opener for me to world of Se (and Fi). All the intuitive youtubers' view on Se really lack insight because they just say "Se is the simplest function" or "It's a function that looks at the world" and say nothing else. So, I thank you Sheila for having overcome your fears and shared all of these videos with us!
Thank you so much for commenting, it really means a ton to me to hear that!❤️ I hope to continue being able to shed more light on my functions for all.
I wouldnt describe Te as being "dead last" for ISFPs. To me, dead last is the demon function in 8th place. In ISFPs, Te is concious enough that they can make use of it. For example, there arr many ISFPs in managerial positions which requires a lot of up/down, yes/no, works/doesnt work decisions throughout The day.
In Objective personality we only focus on the first four, so when I say dead last it is in OP terms. I managed a salon and was very good at running a tight ship. In a work environment I disconnect on a personal level, and and treat it as a job vs trying to Te with friends and family that I value more and reflects differently in my mind. It is like I can compartmentalize the differences easily if that makes sense.
@@sheandg I hear ya. I`ve learned to embrace the whole stack. Oddly enough, my ISFP wife is in a managerial role herself. I think ISFPs make wonderful managers/supervisors. They have great people skills.
I do relate to rejection but in a different way I think and esp the art %100. I would explain my own experiences as well, but it would be so long and seem like me personally just being a Debbie downer. Plus I'm lazy don't feel like writing a story. Lol But I can relate. Isfp 9w1 6w7 2w1 scorpio rat.❤
5:45 I thought when she said about what world think or judge of her masterpieces, it's an Fe trait because it's like paying attention to what the world says. I guess I'm wrong 😂 and now I'm confused what would an Fe do?
Hello I'm Someone whose contemplating whether I'm infp or isfp I'm convinced my dominant is fi so that isn't the issue I have but it's just the middle functions I just can't put my finger on, I find a way to always add another thing that usually crumbles the theory I have of what I am.. For a bit of background context my interests kinda usually differ and I've bounced off from a lot of different ones(ancestry, exercise, personality and little other things I'm interested in) and I do tend to zone out when I'm with other people like being in my own world and contemplating with my own thoughts at times and sitting with my pets but also i have a need to go for daily walks especially during quarantine but m usually just listening to music at full blast and contemplating thoughts. to be actively in the moment i have noticed i have to put conscious thought as im usually just getting lost in thought but I usually do this like once every couple of days but I have noticed the majority of the time I will be consuming things that I care about but I do a lot of that in my day to day basis ahaha. The thing that could point me towards isfp is the fact I listen to music a lot which is really akin to how I feel but I dont really have a favourite type of genre I usually just lean to whatever I feel like listening too. I don't really care about my outward appearance in terms of fashion or hairstyle but I like doing switching it up every...couple of months or so I do have really bad situational awareness and therefore can bump into things etc. Does this strike more towards infp because I have noticed I've gone off on a little bit of a tangent sorry lmao I just have a hard time specifically pointing and sticking with it which is primarily the main issue that surrounds my life ahaha I don't like commitment I am also turning 20 in a month if that's useful because I guess it could also be the fact I'm still finding myself lmao so nothing is really concrete but I'd really like to know what I am ahaha, could I get your opinion seeing as you're a isfp. does any of this make any sense. Additionally one thing i have noticed is both types have huge procrastination issues which is my huge nightmare
EJ 123 hi! Well I can’t really decipher any particular functions from your post. The biggest difference between ISFP and INFP would be do you prefer to take in info and figure out the one possibility or concept, or do you prefer to keep guessing at all the possibilities and feel stressed if you have to narrow down to one possibility? Do you feel better boiling things down into a nice little package? Do you prefer leaving all the possibilities open and feel stressed and restrained if you have to put a lid on the possibilities?
@@sheandg definitely leaving all possibilities open despite looking at the facts i just cant put my finger on exactly and only one option and stick with it because ill most likely just doubt it and start again trying to understand which i am and i have been told i do like to ramble on about concepts revolving aliens, ufos, urban legends anything that really captures my attention. i have concluded multiple times that i was a certain type did a little more research and withdrew because i didn't feel like that was me entirely and that i was being disingenuous had i continued acting as if i was that..i think i am just rambling on at this stage lmao sorry. also I hate thinking in regards with my career and actual real life problems. i kinda find more joy in my little projects that i invest the majority of my time and i have noticed i daydream a lot about a lot. certainly was time consuming gathering all these details about my self but i guess that's the true mystery figuring out who you really are when you shed down the layers of skin perpetuating a lie and come to the crux of the soul
If you haven’t watched any davesuperpowers on YT I would suggest watching them and learning what your human needs are first, that can help narrow down certain functions. Tony Robbins has a great one on YT talking about the human needs. It is a fun journey and one that take a lot of work to really be open to the good and the bad In us
Hey sheila, everything okay? Im trying to type myself and so far my guess is isfp. I didnt found much content about this type so im subscribing Greetings from Brazil :)
I definitely experience all of this, my mind immediately goes to "they hate me" when people aren't positively reacting to me. I have this saying I would joke about to coworkers (except I'm not really joking), anytime something involving the group would come up I would always say "They don't even like me anyway". I don't know when I started saying this but it goes back to childhood, little did I know its because of my Fi. I naturally fear the tribes retribution on everything I do, I remember this came into play big time when I volunteered to become team lead (I knew up front I was going out of my comfort zone). I would get up in front of the team and the only thing that I could think of was "these people aren't going to listen to me, they don't even like me". I would try to convince myself its all in my head but I could never convince myself, it made leading pretty miserable. Overall this video truly speaks to my experience, I love and hate the tribe, I want to be part of the tribe but also left alone...the struggle is real.
Maya Luevano it is a sucky struggle for sure! We have to deal with people all the time so we just can’t run away from it when that is what we really want to do! I have really learned a ton from my hubby who is most likely an EP so he has taught me how to flow with people more. As an IP, surround yourself with IJ/EPs and watch and learn from them! Also, remember that voice I your head often lies to you! Lol
I feel 2 ways. If it is something I have created and have it for sale and the person sees it and wants it I am so excited that they value it as much as I did making it. If someone is commissioning me to create something I feel a little more stress on me because I know they have an expectation, and I have an expectation and I always hope in the end they both line up together! I have also created things to sell, and I ended up loving it too much I can’t part with it so I keep it or I make a duplicate to sell. With Creating I do pour a part of me into every project and treat it like “my baby” it does seem to take on a deeper meaning for me.
@@sheandg thanks. I am INTJ with Fi as tertiary not primary like an ISFP and am artist but never been able to sell anything I created. I get super attached and feel like its giving a part me perhaps my identity away. I am trying to figure out why and what the pattern is with personality types.. Something to do with the Te-Fi polarity relationship I bet.
Yeah Fi does treat if like it is an extension of us. I think I am constantly creating so I can’t keep all I make! Lol but there has been plenty of times I am making something with the intention of giving it away to a loved one and then change my mind because I’m like “they won’t appreciate all the time and energy I put into it” so I feel like it has a better home with me. Lol Also, if someone criticizes my creation it is crushing too because it is a part of my heart and soul poured into it.
@@sheandg Thinking more on this comparing artist angle of INTJ and ISFPs. Jump in and add to my theory if you think it makes sense or alter it if you believe differently. ISFPs have Fi-Ni INTJs have Ni-Fi Just a working theory. (ISFPs) Fi artists doms are more creative and thus make more art so much so it shows in how they present themselves. Fi is also more a decision making process so they find it easier to express themselves more often. Since Ni is lower in stack they assign less meaning to their art so its easier to give up.(Iam speaking relative to INTJs) (INTJs) Ni doms are focussed more on meaning so they make less art and get even more attached to what little art they make because it "means" more to them. Essentially they get bogged down on the meaning of everything so they decide to make less and then they get more attached to what little art they make.
You’re the same exact 512 type as my daughter. Her name’s Eve 👋🏼, so thanks for sharing future Eve, she looks like you to. 😆 🙋🏼♀️ she’s 7 next month:)
Simeon Atkinson awww a lil mini me! Lol being an ISFP actually has been fairly easy most my life! Not sure if I just tend to focus on the good, but I feel like I have lived a very blessed life and I pray she has a blessed life too!!!❤️
I agree. It is hard for us ISFP when you put your heart on something but people did not appreciate it.
I am an ISFP and I believe that for me, I don't like to stand out very much. I never ask to be the leader of a group. I usually just stay quiet and follow along with what others do.
Sometimes I end up singing or playing guitar for people. Right after that, people complement me, but it doesnt feel right... so I always bring myself down and find ways that I could've messed up. I usually dont like being in the spotlight, but doing what I love to do makes me very happy.
Thank you for sharing your lovely experiences! They are very genuine. Keep it up!
I also downplay my accomplishments and say stuff like well I could have done this better or that better. Not sure why I do that? I have been better at just saying thank you and leaving it, but I have to make an effort to do so.
Thanks for commenting and watching!
yesss! I feel like I always try to share more of myself and then retreat out of fear of the tribe...
We are working on that muscle doing YT vids though!!!
As an INTP, now I understand more about my ISFP brother. I didn’t knew that appreciation is so important for him and I think I really should appreciate his work more now. Thank you
Hi Sheila! Fellow ISFP and Minnesotan here. Both my parents graduated from Burnsville High School, so I spent my early years in that area. So when you mentioned the snobby suburb, I was totally expecting you to say Wayzata! 😂😂
You are so lovable! I agree with what you have to say on fears. I used to fear rejection with sharing my art, but now I view it as envy. Which might be a bit cocky. But hear me out! hahaha A person once came up to me to say, "Your art sucks and that's why you're a receptionist." Well, since I had sold something a week earlier I immediately thought he was envious that I was creating and he was not. I also thought, he is not my audience and his opinion holds no value to me. Right then and there I felt at peace during the attack. I think being confident in what you make is a strength, not cocky. If it brought you joy, it bring someone else joy, just not everyone.
I feel like judgement and conflict is a reason a lot of us ISFP's keep to our self's and are very private.
@@Lynn-ip9sh I agree. 😔
I have demon Fi and I'm a double decider. I still find tribe rejection very scary. I think it’s in part a human thing.
Yeah I agree no one likes to be rejected, but I really won’t put myself in many situations to avoid the tribe! It takes a lot of work to face my fears, IJs don’t have that as a main driving fear
My fears
Making a final decision. Because usually I’m afraid it’s not the right one .
Racism.
Being controlled and have no freedom of speech.
Losing a a close friend .
Joining a group full of random people I don’t know . I want meet new ppl i rly do but I’m a lil shy . I hate to admit it but i am .
Planning for the future because the thing is Se is next to Ni with an inch so if i get out from the se zone and cross the road towards ni then my fi sticks to ni for loooooooooonngg time and it’s stressful. So usually i try to balance the se ni within me .
People judging me but I’m getting myself to accept it because people like to judge no matter what. In fact they are scared to judge themselves so they try to judge others .
:)
Thank you for being open and sharing your fears!! Those are all on my list also. I don’t like planning too much either because what if I change my mind or something else more fun comes up!? Lol
Sheila w yeah expectations get me excited then when things don’t go my way i get depressed lol 😝
Yeah our vision of an ideal situation mostly never really lives up to it in reality. I’ve learned to just try not to build things up in my head too much.
@lili exactly but i ask your self what is the center point of your fear that exist in the future isfp hate it more so when they are out of control yes isfp infp don’t like to be out without feeling in control but (of themselves) opposite to extj who wants to control others to feel safe in most cases. So figure out a way where what you are doing today is somewhat going to be worth it in future then leave it there then come back to the moment and just be in it try to slowly shift your thoughts with daily activities you like as if “ one’s having too much time without doing anything in it can be one’s own nightmare” so try to do some activities you like to get in Se
@lili i got in fi-ni loop in the end of my high school years but somehow got out if it maybe with surrounding myself with good friends? People ? animals ? Hobbies? Usually it’s the good close friends - even one - who can help a bit in pulling me out of it and the isfp that can get more often to Fi-Ni loop I think the ones who lack some life experiences where when we don’t know enough yet and still we think we are like intj infj we can read the future lol but I found out with some of my depressed times and struggles when i got out of them somehow my chances of getting into Ni loop reduced as if i can comfortably show my Fi some evidence to relax and enjoy moments because of experiences i did before similar to now and I succeeded in it .
I have the same problem as an INFP. I fear rejection by others. I thought that ISFPS would be less like this because you have Se as a tool function so you know how to give others a good experience and being a sensor you would be more in tune with others. Thank you for sharing. You are helping alot of people out there. Btw I love ur fashion. It is beautiful and ur voice is very kind.
Thanks for sharing Sheila! I can totally relate to putting yourself out there to be judged by others is hard. For me even recording myself is daunting. I actually started a challenge a couple of days ago to do 5 min video journaling every day and so far it feels really awkward, but I think like everything in life it gets easier the more you do it ;)
Lisa it does get easier! Every time I do a video and press upload, my heart pitter patters and I want to delete it but it putter patters less intensely as time goes! Lol
Good for you facing those fears! We have to look at them head on, and say you have no control over me😜
This is helpful, thank you. You speak about your demons very calmly. Goals.
Thanks Rose! The calm comes with old age!! Lol
Hi, I'm also an ISFP, realy thank you for sharing yours fear it's very calming to hear, that someone else feals the same way about organazing things. Thank you:)!
So glad you enjoyed! Thanks for watching
THat is ISFP as it gets around "this cow camp" with my favorite ISFP gets to the 9s! It is so reinforcing tp hear you articulate my observations for years. It fits the profile I observe to a capital T. Thanks for bringing it alive
I usually just watch your videos and not say anything, but this time I just want to express how thankful I am that you've been putting up these videos. For me, Se (along with Te) is the weirdest, most foreign function out there. And since there are so few Se youtubers and practically no other ISFP youtuber other than you that I know of (and now I know why from your explanation), your videos have been an eye-opener for me to world of Se (and Fi). All the intuitive youtubers' view on Se really lack insight because they just say "Se is the simplest function" or "It's a function that looks at the world" and say nothing else. So, I thank you Sheila for having overcome your fears and shared all of these videos with us!
Thank you so much for commenting, it really means a ton to me to hear that!❤️ I hope to continue being able to shed more light on my functions for all.
right around 5 minute mark. glad you did
Your videos are so good! They help a lot! 🥰
Problem is when I have to.mamage people I can act like a dictator
I can't seem to verbalize well.
Excellent thoughts. Thank you for sharing.
Thanks for watching!
I wouldnt describe Te as being "dead last" for ISFPs. To me, dead last is the demon function in 8th place.
In ISFPs, Te is concious enough that they can make use of it. For example, there arr many ISFPs in managerial positions which requires a lot of up/down, yes/no, works/doesnt work decisions throughout
The day.
In Objective personality we only focus on the first four, so when I say dead last it is in OP terms. I managed a salon and was very good at running a tight ship. In a work environment I disconnect on a personal level, and and treat it as a job vs trying to Te with friends and family that I value more and reflects differently in my mind. It is like I can compartmentalize the differences easily if that makes sense.
@@sheandg I hear ya. I`ve learned to embrace the whole stack. Oddly enough, my ISFP wife is in a managerial role herself. I think ISFPs make wonderful managers/supervisors. They have great people skills.
@@stevedavenport1202 and what's your type?
@@honor9lite1337 INFJ
You look very pretty Shela. Great info.
Thank you!! Glad you enjoyed
I do relate to rejection but in a different way I think and esp the art %100. I would explain my own experiences as well, but it would be so long and seem like me personally just being a Debbie downer. Plus I'm lazy don't feel like writing a story. Lol
But I can relate. Isfp 9w1 6w7 2w1 scorpio rat.❤
5:45 I thought when she said about what world think or judge of her masterpieces, it's an Fe trait because it's like paying attention to what the world says. I guess I'm wrong 😂 and now I'm confused what would an Fe do?
Hello I'm Someone whose contemplating whether I'm infp or isfp I'm convinced my dominant is fi so that isn't the issue I have but it's just the middle functions I just can't put my finger on, I find a way to always add another thing that usually crumbles the theory I have of what I am..
For a bit of background context
my interests kinda usually differ and I've bounced off from a lot of different ones(ancestry, exercise, personality and little other things I'm interested in) and I do tend to zone out when I'm with other people like being in my own world and contemplating with my own thoughts at times and sitting with my pets but also i have a need to go for daily walks especially during quarantine but m usually just listening to music at full blast and contemplating thoughts. to be actively in the moment i have noticed i have to put conscious thought as im usually just getting lost in thought but I usually do this like once every couple of days but I have noticed the majority of the time I will be consuming things that I care about but I do a lot of that in my day to day basis ahaha. The thing that could point me towards isfp is the fact I listen to music a lot which is really akin to how I feel but I dont really have a favourite type of genre I usually just lean to whatever I feel like listening too. I don't really care about my outward appearance in terms of fashion or hairstyle but I like doing switching it up every...couple of months or so I do have really bad situational awareness and therefore can bump into things etc. Does this strike more towards infp because I have noticed I've gone off on a little bit of a tangent sorry lmao I just have a hard time specifically pointing and sticking with it which is primarily the main issue that surrounds my life ahaha I don't like commitment
I am also turning 20 in a month if that's useful because I guess it could also be the fact I'm still finding myself lmao so nothing is really concrete but I'd really like to know what I am ahaha, could I get your opinion seeing as you're a isfp. does any of this make any sense. Additionally one thing i have noticed is both types have huge procrastination issues which is my huge nightmare
EJ 123 hi! Well I can’t really decipher any particular functions from your post. The biggest difference between ISFP and INFP would be do you prefer to take in info and figure out the one possibility or concept, or do you prefer to keep guessing at all the possibilities and feel stressed if you have to narrow down to one possibility?
Do you feel better boiling things down into a nice little package?
Do you prefer leaving all the possibilities open and feel stressed and restrained if you have to put a lid on the possibilities?
@@sheandg definitely leaving all possibilities open despite looking at the facts i just cant put my finger on exactly and only one option and stick with it because ill most likely just doubt it and start again trying to understand which i am and i have been told i do like to ramble on about concepts revolving aliens, ufos, urban legends anything that really captures my attention. i have concluded multiple times that i was a certain type did a little more research and withdrew because i didn't feel like that was me entirely and that i was being disingenuous had i continued acting as if i was that..i think i am just rambling on at this stage lmao sorry.
also I hate thinking in regards with my career and actual real life problems. i kinda find more joy in my little projects that i invest the majority of my time and i have noticed i daydream a lot about a lot. certainly was time consuming gathering all these details about my self but i guess that's the true mystery figuring out who you really are when you shed down the layers of skin perpetuating a lie and come to the crux of the soul
If you haven’t watched any davesuperpowers on YT I would suggest watching them and learning what your human needs are first, that can help narrow down certain functions. Tony Robbins has a great one on YT talking about the human needs. It is a fun journey and one that take a lot of work to really be open to the good and the bad In us
Thank you 🙏 can you put an Arabic translation.
Hey sheila, everything okay?
Im trying to type myself and so far my guess is isfp. I didnt found much content about this type so im subscribing
Greetings from Brazil :)
I definitely experience all of this, my mind immediately goes to "they hate me" when people aren't positively reacting to me. I have this saying I would joke about to coworkers (except I'm not really joking), anytime something involving the group would come up I would always say "They don't even like me anyway". I don't know when I started saying this but it goes back to childhood, little did I know its because of my Fi. I naturally fear the tribes retribution on everything I do, I remember this came into play big time when I volunteered to become team lead (I knew up front I was going out of my comfort zone). I would get up in front of the team and the only thing that I could think of was "these people aren't going to listen to me, they don't even like me". I would try to convince myself its all in my head but I could never convince myself, it made leading pretty miserable. Overall this video truly speaks to my experience, I love and hate the tribe, I want to be part of the tribe but also left alone...the struggle is real.
Maya Luevano it is a sucky struggle for sure! We have to deal with people all the time so we just can’t run away from it when that is what we really want to do! I have really learned a ton from my hubby who is most likely an EP so he has taught me how to flow with people more. As an IP, surround yourself with IJ/EPs and watch and learn from them! Also, remember that voice I your head often lies to you! Lol
How do ISFPs feel about selling their art?
I feel 2 ways.
If it is something I have created and have it for sale and the person sees it and wants it I am so excited that they value it as much as I did making it.
If someone is commissioning me to create something I feel a little more stress on me because I know they have an expectation, and I have an expectation and I always hope in the end they both line up together!
I have also created things to sell, and I ended up loving it too much I can’t part with it so I keep it or I make a duplicate to sell. With Creating I do pour a part of me into every project and treat it like “my baby” it does seem to take on a deeper meaning for me.
@@sheandg thanks. I am INTJ with Fi as tertiary not primary like an ISFP and am artist but never been able to sell anything I created. I get super attached and feel like its giving a part me perhaps my identity away. I am trying to figure out why and what the pattern is with personality types.. Something to do with the Te-Fi polarity relationship I bet.
Yeah Fi does treat if like it is an extension of us. I think I am constantly creating so I can’t keep all I make! Lol but there has been plenty of times I am making something with the intention of giving it away to a loved one and then change my mind because I’m like “they won’t appreciate all the time and energy I put into it” so I feel like it has a better home with me. Lol Also, if someone criticizes my creation it is crushing too because it is a part of my heart and soul poured into it.
@@sheandg Thinking more on this comparing artist angle of INTJ and ISFPs. Jump in and add to my theory if you think it makes sense or alter it if you believe differently.
ISFPs have Fi-Ni
INTJs have Ni-Fi
Just a working theory.
(ISFPs) Fi artists doms are more creative and thus make more art so much so it shows in how they present themselves. Fi is also more a decision making process so they find it easier
to express themselves more often. Since Ni is lower in stack they assign less meaning to their art so its easier to give up.(Iam speaking relative to INTJs)
(INTJs) Ni doms are focussed more on meaning so they make less art and get even more attached to what little art they make because it "means" more to them. Essentially they get bogged
down on the meaning of everything so they decide to make less and then they get more attached to what little art they make.
You’re the same exact 512 type as my daughter. Her name’s Eve 👋🏼, so thanks for sharing future Eve, she looks like you to. 😆 🙋🏼♀️ she’s 7 next month:)
Simeon Atkinson awww a lil mini me! Lol being an ISFP actually has been fairly easy most my life! Not sure if I just tend to focus on the good, but I feel like I have lived a very blessed life and I pray she has a blessed life too!!!❤️
Sheila w She’s exactly like you so yep she’s got the blessed vibe. 💕 many thanks and best wishes to you! X
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