Victor Cavazos i agree, and nice Kingsman reference, but I do not believe he portrayed the entire idea perfectly. His comments on please and thank you were correct and useful, but the rest was a bit sloppy. Especially when he says that profanity is the beat way to sound dumb, but stumbles over his own words for 5 seconds, which is the easiest way to sound dumb. He made points that did not need to be made and also showed a lack of understanding of the topic by not including many key rules.
And to be clear, I do agree with what he said, but there are other points he should have made, so points he did not need to make like the thank you point, which could have gone with please. He also should have been more careful to not break his own rules in my opinion
Oh, and I am sorry but one more thing to add on him breaking his own rules. He makes subtle sexist remarks all the time. In the past he has said both, “ the way I see it, women drink wine, guys drink beer, and gentlemen drink whiskey” and also “A gentleman must drink one of 3 masculine drinks” to quote a few. These are both very subjective and borderline sexist.
I am a British offer cadet who has just finished training. We learn how to be gentlemen in all aspects from negotiations on the battlefield, or parley. To hosting a banquet and in general life. I think all men should learn the quality's of being a gentleman as there would be far less violence, racism and all the other evils in the world.
As a person who grew up in the South I wish these tips were more commonly used. You're never too old to say "sir" or "ma'am". How a person treats a stranger tells you who they truly are.
Thank you for this amazing advice ! Implemented it for about 6 months and people around me start to respect me more and start to doing what i did. Keep up the amazing work Sir !
0:20 He uses the word “Unbefitting”. Seriously, we need to bring back those classy, elegant words. I mean, their usage takes the speaker to a whole new level.
@@OnyxBloodStone i want to say woosh.. but i wont ! Because there are many people as u have said exploits gentlemen s patience I cannot withstand that But he should be knowing how to behave in such situations
hello Alpha, I have been in love with your page since years. you have helped me get over my depression, lost all my extra weight, and just changed my life. I love and appreciate you so much. thank you for being the original you. thank you for regular uploads. thank you for your candor and your humor. keep up the great work :D
Thank you for the video sir. Greatly appreciated. Now I will stop greeting my professor with a "wassup nigga" and instead greet him with a "good morning professor"
alpha m. So no black humor even if it is just a joke, that doesn't reflect what I really think about certain things and it is said to closest friends? ;(
I'm asking about black humor in general, not only jokes about black ppl, and certainly not about calling my friends "nigga", it actually wouldn't work in my country - different language ;)
rule number 1: -saying please is not a necessity. showed weakness and gives them a chance to pull the upper hand (im a corporate account executive so i know a few things about persuasion ) -saying thank you is a must! never say please, you could say, "i would appreciate it if you could"
This is why I consider most account executive assholes. They think money is life and have very little empathy for others. I know this, because I used to work as one. Thank god I quit that job, which I consider to be one of the most useless, shitty jobs on earth.
Richard Keijzer here is the thing! I recently moved to US an i've been observing how people behave. If u actually say "please", it creates an opposite reaction and the other person would actually never help you! I promise i'm not bs*ing. It's from my personal experience.
Magnificent video! You truly show you care and want to influence people for the better. Watching your videos fills the empty spot for the big brother I never had. Thank you.
Watching this video in particular has made the soul in me realize I have been ungrateful towards a certain someone and thanks to you Alpha I can change that not only for them but for myself. Thank you~
You, Sir, are a true inspiration. So much positive energy in the videos. Love it! Gonna download the app as well. Kudos! P.s. You should write a book. Keep up the great work. :D
When the referee says, "Gentleman, I want a good, clean fight. Listen to my commands at all times. Touch gloves and go back to your corner." I learned everything I need to know about being a gentlement which is use jabs frequently and don't forget to give the other guy a big one on the nose.
I apologise for saying this in advance, but it blows my mind how so many American's don't say Thank You. I mean, I was in the states for my Summer Holidays, and I honestly felt a bit insulted when it came to people completely ignoring me doing things to help them out, such as holding a door open etc. I'm a 16 year old brit, and I was brought up that way, so I guess I just expect it to happen. But in the UK, people are so much more polite. I am sorry if I offended anyone with this. Just my observation.
Happens to me too man, I hold the door and they either look like Im trying to rape them, or dont say anything like I had nothing better to do than hold it.
Here in America we have this idiotic cultural dilemma where one having basic manners is considered "nice," and if someone is nice, they are seen as "weak." A lot of people here would rather be rude morons than "nice and weak." It's not everyone of course, but it's too prevalent to not be noticed.
***** He said "so many Americans" not all. He isn't generalizing all of them. I'm American and I completely agree, I live in America and most people don't have manners.
***** Dude, you're a bad keyboard warrior. I don't recall generalizing anyone in the slightest. Saying 'So many Americans' is not Stereotyping or Generalizing. So many can be a number from 10-The whole population. Get your facts right.
How refreshing to hear. As a middle aged Englishman, I would absolutely agree with AlphaM. 'Good manners maketh the man'. They cost you nothing, but place you head and shoulders above the crowd.
@@noelt8895 I was told they are words of expression and smart people use them because when smart people get angry at stupid people for saying stupid things then stupid people understand.
Ew. Do you know that people who cuss and swear have larger vocabularies and are more intelligent? There have been many tests to prove this. Though, cussing and swearing in general is uncouth.
Anybody else realise they do all of these things anyway and didnt know it was so Gentlemen like. Boss. He forgot the power of saying "Excuse me" in getting someones attention, getting past someone or even sneezing.
Earned my respect with this one Alpha, well done :) I'll add that strong apology skills are highly desirable. Everyone has their shortcomings; being able to apologize for them quickly and without digging yourself in deeper is a must if you want to make up for them and move on with your life. Anecdotally, the first time I met a guy who could apologize well, I thought "holy crap, I'm gonna marry that man," and that's exactly what I did :)
I am shaking my head at the negative comments of people onf here. What kinds are you - keyboard warriors and have nothing better to say in your empty heads? Get life people and stay positive. Say "Thank you" to this great man for teaching you manners you manbabies. Happy New Year World. Peace.
Here's the best tip you'll ever receive. Be yourself, life is much easier than trying to be a "gentleman" and appease others. If you're true to yourself and act the way that pleases you life is much, much, MUCH easier.
Yes, life *is* easier when you aren't worrying about "appeasing others" (i.e. being a decent human being). That doesn't make it a good idea, nor does it make it the course of action that will lead to your own long-term happiness. If you're always doing whatever is easiest rather than expending a little more effort to be a good person, you aren't going to get very far in life.
WOW! Kudos on your tolerant approach. I am a white American Muslim and you cannot imagine the things people say about my religion without knowing who I am. If EVERYONE would keep their opinions to themselves, the world would be a better place. That is, being a gentleman is the oil to make society work. Being a gentleman is my inner jihad. Best wishes.
The only time I use racism is in a joking manor to one of my friends whom I know doesn't get offended by it and we have a good laugh going back and forth. But at school a couple days ago one kid came over to my little group of friends (majority of them girls) and made a sexist comment and nearly got the shit beaten out of him
Something I've noticed about your videos asides from your amazing sense of humor is that you know excactly the right time to end a video and make it look so funny
I am just wondering, can you really change how you speak? Can you do that over a long period of time? Is it possible. I am thinking of my way to speak as a part of my own personality. No offence or anything, i just find it hard to change how i speak to other people, and if my speaking is a part of my personality. And it says that you cannot change your personality i am going to have some trouble with changing the way i speak to make myself more respescted. PS Aron, love your videoes man, you are a great guy!
You CAN change your personality, it is complete BS that u can't. And I am the perfect example ;) Ppl are not born with "one personality", it's what you do, read, listen, who you meet with (and so on) that makes you who you are. And you can change all of these factors, but it ain't easy.
You don't have to change the way you speak but you must know how to speak with different people. I have two modes. Business mode and friends mode. I drop F word in front of my friends but on work I'm like James Bond. But on work I use different words and speak in different way. He talks about manners and bonton that everybody MUST have regardless where are you from. if you from the "hood" or top society its not hard to say thank you and please, keep door for someone or help someone to put begs in the bus. That is just me but people are different.
There are no ifs or hows mate :) , If you want change , your not gonna get very far with that mindset ! Change is gradually , and you get there with small goals or steps so to speak. Try it man! Set a few simple goals that are easy to complete and then gradually work your way up until you find no more need to curse or whatever troubles you :)
I saw the intro with alpha and went "oh no, it's one of those alpha male videos" and I was pleasantly surprised especially with the no bigoted things. That caught me off guard even though it should be common sense. This was an amazing watch
Hi. I'm 16 years old, and am not opposed to the LGBTQ community, other cultures/religions, races, sexes, etc. I am constantly surrounded by statements that are sexist, racist, homophobic(discriminatory comments, jokes, etc.). It Is baffling to me that people my age, younger, and older than me alike say things like that. Now I'm not that a person that gets offended by everything, but I know when enough is enough, and when offensive is offensive. My request to people out there is please be respectful with your humor, if you're joking, and if you just don't agree with that group of people, (LGBT, a specific gender, a specific race, etc.) Keep the following in mind? It's 100% to disagree with people. But don't force other individuals with their own opinions and morals to follow/live by YOUR opinions and morals if they don't want to. For example: if you don't approve of gay marriage, don't marry a person your same gender. If you think abortion is evil, don't have an abortion. But DO NOT force other people to live by your opinions or morals. Thank you everyone. (P.S. Great video, I am a sub and love your videos, thank you for making them)
So this means I am no gentleman. I will take this video to heart and learn these wonderful words of wisdom to better myself towards becoming a good gentleman. ''Thank you''
Cool, guess I should go on that murder spree then. Right? I wanted to do it. Do I do it? According to you. Of course! Why not? I'm just doing what I want to!
This the most hard hitting and enlightening video I have ever seen. This is done very gentlemanly and genuinely. This was very hard to watch. I am going to watch it repeatedly.
James Arte "A suit and tie does not a gentleman make." That sentence makes no grammatical sense. You are illiterate and illegible. You don't have the privilege of speaking on behalf of what makes a gentleman.
From Spain I thank you. I find your videos useful, refreshing and funny! From September 2017 I am planning to use your videos as a tool for my English students. A lot of teenagers just don't have manners!
alpha m. Thanks for that link, that's my favorite tie knot but it's a work in progress. my instructor when I was in Army JROTC gave us a class on it but school never left much time to practice. Definitely will be able to practice now.
"You don't need to curse to be funny, or to get your point across."
That is 100% true.
Yes i do lmao 🤣 😂
Precisely. Anyone, Even women can behave badly. Then they just look like rabble
This should be a high school class for young men
Yes! Lessons for people in general.
I agree
Agreed
Yes I agree
Completely agree so many problems would just go away.
"Manners maketh Man"
Wish more men would remember this. Thanks Alpha
Victor Cavazos i agree, and nice Kingsman reference, but I do not believe he portrayed the entire idea perfectly. His comments on please and thank you were correct and useful, but the rest was a bit sloppy. Especially when he says that profanity is the beat way to sound dumb, but stumbles over his own words for 5 seconds, which is the easiest way to sound dumb. He made points that did not need to be made and also showed a lack of understanding of the topic by not including many key rules.
And to be clear, I do agree with what he said, but there are other points he should have made, so points he did not need to make like the thank you point, which could have gone with please. He also should have been more careful to not break his own rules in my opinion
Oh, and I am sorry but one more thing to add on him breaking his own rules. He makes subtle sexist remarks all the time. In the past he has said both, “ the way I see it, women drink wine, guys drink beer, and gentlemen drink whiskey” and also “A gentleman must drink one of 3 masculine drinks” to quote a few. These are both very subjective and borderline sexist.
I am a British offer cadet who has just finished training. We learn how to be gentlemen in all aspects from negotiations on the battlefield, or parley. To hosting a banquet and in general life. I think all men should learn the quality's of being a gentleman as there would be far less violence, racism and all the other evils in the world.
John steed, the avengers the ultimate gentleman
Apparently, spelling and grammar were not so important in your training.
@ff ff, you all are some dapper dressers. I've got to give it to you British!
Which Regiment..? Regt. No. Rank????? If you are an Officer...
Someone's looking for likes.
As a person who grew up in the South I wish these tips were more commonly used. You're never too old to say "sir" or "ma'am".
How a person treats a stranger tells you who they truly are.
Thank you for this amazing advice ! Implemented it for about 6 months and people around me start to respect me more and start to doing what i did. Keep up the amazing work Sir !
Good, I am so glad it worked out. I will try it too.
Thank you for the plethora of undeniably, beneficial advice. You simply stand out in a tarnished world as a true paragon. Keep up the great work.
thanks brother!
alpha m. I love that ending
Kudos for using the word 'paragon'.
"Tarnished world"? Really?
+Lireoec At a glance I misread paragon as pigeon.
If anyone see's this message, I hope you are having a great day
have a great day , unfortunately it's a bit late but at least i'm the first heheh , Thank you , gentleman
Not a problem always nice to see someone commenting back so thank you
you're always welcome brother , take care
ty!
lol gentlemaning much
0:20
He uses the word “Unbefitting”. Seriously, we need to bring back those classy, elegant words. I mean, their usage takes the speaker to a whole new level.
Fuck you are right.
Sir you are right.
MasterC117 or that is true, you are correct
SIMPS!!!
Also, a gentleman speaks quietly. He does not shout irritatingly.
+ZvekiSU There is a fine line between gentlemanly ways and being just .... well.... gay.
+Ivan Gartenhaus Where exactly does his comment mention attraction to other males? Or was that totally random?
Rocket Otaku No it was a general comment, not just about this particular video.
I do believe the same must go for the ladies.
No, he does not speak quietly, he articulates himself so that what he is saying may be heard.
A man has many faces and a gentleman has many dates.
+Jaqen H'ghar Oufffff well said mate!
awesome
+Jaqen H'ghar may I implement that in my mental mantras ?
Jaqen H'ghar heha nice one
I was also a foo'in legend from Gin Alley.
You were robbed and then stabbed in the gut.
You: Thank you!
I appreciate it gentleman 😂
A true gentleman has respect for himself, and as such does not let other people take advantage of him
You really got me LOL
@@OnyxBloodStone i want to say woosh.. but i wont !
Because there are many people as u have said exploits gentlemen s patience
I cannot withstand that
But he should be knowing how to behave in such situations
Thank you! You made my night !! ( Why should days have all the fun ? Huh? )😄😄
"don't use profanities"
"crap!"
"shut up!"
Thats not profanity
@@masterc1172 yeah it is
ty!
@@jewbearidk no it fucking not .
😂😂😂😂
Take a shot every time he says "gentlemen".
Have an ambulance on stand by.
He never says 'Gentleman". He says "gennelmen". He needs to remember there is a 't' in the middle of the word.
David ok gentleman
@@anmolak1783 Not 'arf!
If I do so, then how many shots will I end up drinking?
hello Alpha,
I have been in love with your page since years. you have helped me get over my depression, lost all my extra weight, and just changed my life. I love and appreciate you so much. thank you for being the original you. thank you for regular uploads. thank you for your candor and your humor. keep up the great work :D
Is it respectful if I say wassup my nigga to my professor in college?
i'm going to go out on a limb and say no...
Thank you for the video sir. Greatly appreciated. Now I will stop greeting my professor with a "wassup nigga" and instead greet him with a "good morning professor"
Rada ignorant
alpha m. So no black humor even if it is just a joke, that doesn't reflect what I really think about certain things and it is said to closest friends? ;(
I'm asking about black humor in general, not only jokes about black ppl, and certainly not about calling my friends "nigga", it actually wouldn't work in my country - different language ;)
rule number 1:
-saying please is not a necessity. showed weakness and gives them a chance to pull the upper hand (im a corporate account executive so i know a few things about persuasion )
-saying thank you is a must!
never say please, you could say, "i would appreciate it if you could"
eden m Ending on please definitely sounds weak. "Could you get me that pen please?" as opposed to "Could you please hand me that pen?".
This is why I consider most account executive assholes. They think money is life and have very little empathy for others. I know this, because I used to work as one. Thank god I quit that job, which I consider to be one of the most useless, shitty jobs on earth.
crackedout mayor i really agree with you! Thank you!!!!!!!!!!
Richard Keijzer here is the thing! I recently moved to US an i've been observing how people behave. If u actually say "please", it creates an opposite reaction and the other person would actually never help you! I promise i'm not bs*ing. It's from my personal experience.
Sir Bastion why would you ever want to move to the US? This is the fakest 'country' in the world haha
Magnificent video!
You truly show you care and want to influence people for the better.
Watching your videos fills the empty spot for the big brother I never had.
Thank you.
AGHH THAT TIE IS NOT SYMETRICAL .. I mean .. That Tie of your is not correctly positioned on that beatiful suit of yours.
Yours*
Beautiful *
Yours'*
lol
Beautiful" sorry I couldn't help myself.
"Thank You" for guiding us to be a perfecto
Watching this video in particular has made the soul in me realize I have been ungrateful towards a certain someone and thanks to you Alpha I can change that not only for them but for myself.
Thank you~
So can i
@@TravisAndrews-lb1kk (i may not the OP) certainly yes stranger the very thought of wanting to change speaks volume of the hope enstore for you
Every thing that you said in this video my dad taught me as a little kid
You have a fine father.
Unfortunately, the dads aren't around these days, because the bitches have run them off.
@@zarcero21 Excuse me sir. but i think its supposed to be unsavory induviduals of the opposite gender.
I wish I had a dad like that.
My dad too
You, Sir, are a true inspiration. So much positive energy in the videos. Love it! Gonna download the app as well. Kudos!
P.s. You should write a book.
Keep up the great work. :D
When the referee says, "Gentleman, I want a good, clean fight. Listen to my commands at all times. Touch gloves and go back to your corner." I learned everything I need to know about being a gentlement which is use jabs frequently and don't forget to give the other guy a big one on the nose.
😃just stop!
Cuz that's how gentlemen settle disputes.
You sir I applaud from one fighter to another!
Great advice. I'd say the same is true for a lady.
Gentlemen need ladies, and ladies need gentlemen.
Absolutely. Be the example to make a change.
If she's hot I couldnt care less. But if she's really dumb I'd be bored.
Good for you 👏
@@TheFirewolfx but not the fate ladies 😂😂😂😂......
"Do you curse a lot?"
"Fuck yeah I do."
DTBWolfie Me too.
DTBWolfie damn I read that out loud..
Fuckkkkkkk......!
fuck if i know
I do as well.
Makes me feel like I was never a gentleman before...
This video is certainly going to change my life !
you are devaluating your current life
@@prad44973 you are stopping it
"you just received a F on your 100 point essay"
me: Thank You!
😭
Gentleman!
I apologise for saying this in advance, but it blows my mind how so many American's don't say Thank You. I mean, I was in the states for my Summer Holidays, and I honestly felt a bit insulted when it came to people completely ignoring me doing things to help them out, such as holding a door open etc. I'm a 16 year old brit, and I was brought up that way, so I guess I just expect it to happen. But in the UK, people are so much more polite.
I am sorry if I offended anyone with this. Just my observation.
Happens to me too man, I hold the door and they either look like Im trying to rape them, or dont say anything like I had nothing better to do than hold it.
Here in America we have this idiotic cultural dilemma where one having basic manners is considered "nice," and if someone is nice, they are seen as "weak." A lot of people here would rather be rude morons than "nice and weak."
It's not everyone of course, but it's too prevalent to not be noticed.
ok re-quantify
by saying 'Humans in America' then? idiot
***** He said "so many Americans" not all. He isn't generalizing all of them. I'm American and I completely agree, I live in America and most people don't have manners.
***** Dude, you're a bad keyboard warrior. I don't recall generalizing anyone in the slightest. Saying 'So many Americans' is not Stereotyping or Generalizing. So many can be a number from 10-The whole population. Get your facts right.
How refreshing to hear. As a middle aged Englishman, I would absolutely agree with AlphaM. 'Good manners maketh the man'. They cost you nothing, but place you head and shoulders above the crowd.
I believe that using profanity in little certain situation emphasizes your point in a special manner.
Just in certain situations.
@@noelt8895 I was told they are words of expression and smart people use them because when smart people get angry at stupid people for saying stupid things then stupid people understand.
using profane every once in a while doesn't hurt. but women don't want gentlemen anymore they chase dope heads
Your suit is impeccable.
Smooth delivery Aaron! Very good advice from a retired Army Officer responsible for morale and discipline of Soldiers.
remember folks: profuse profanity paints people in poor perspectives.
got it
But I love cussing :(
TheBCSledder
ah, but i said PROFUSE profanity.
Ew. Do you know that people who cuss and swear have larger vocabularies and are more intelligent? There have been many tests to prove this.
Though, cussing and swearing in general is uncouth.
Tronald Drump South Park creator's lol.
Anybody else realise they do all of these things anyway and didnt know it was so Gentlemen like. Boss.
He forgot the power of saying "Excuse me" in getting someones attention, getting past someone or even sneezing.
Thank you, sir. If ladies and gentlemen were more like you, the world would be a better place.
1:41 say thank you
Me: f you
1:44 i did not know that was gonna come out like that
Me: how did he know, LOL
Earned my respect with this one Alpha, well done :)
I'll add that strong apology skills are highly desirable. Everyone has their shortcomings; being able to apologize for them quickly and without digging yourself in deeper is a must if you want to make up for them and move on with your life. Anecdotally, the first time I met a guy who could apologize well, I thought "holy crap, I'm gonna marry that man," and that's exactly what I did :)
Could you please some show me some videos regarding strong apology skills?
I used to be this guy
Aaron We Need More Videos Like this.
I love his energy :')
Excellent speech Alpha!! as a woman I tell you guys.. a man who is a gentleman is even sexier 😉 and opens doors of success too.
I am shaking my head at the negative comments of people onf here. What kinds are you - keyboard warriors and have nothing better to say in your empty heads? Get life people and stay positive. Say "Thank you" to this great man for teaching you manners you manbabies. Happy New Year World. Peace.
I feel like cursing applies to both men & women
All these points are gender neutral.
A delightful ending sir.
Sir you spoke truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. These words of wisdom us ladies can apply to our lives as well. Thank you.
😂Dawmn he told me...i have all those bad habits. But he's my idle, ill take his advice...Thanks Alpham
I am write down these thing and put this as a poster and read it everyday morning. Thank you
The please and thank you are something people should always say, I was raised that way and most gentleman probably are.
Love the end of the video 😂
*”A Gentleman knows when to shut up”*
Hey alpha m. You forgot SORRY!
Whenever a gentleman makes a mistake he always apologises regardless of the magnitude of the mistake.
Never say sorry! that should be the first rule!
@@mrrobinet5551 How is that gentle though?
Thank you! For teaching me how to not be unfitting when guests are visiting me and my family.
"A gentleman he also know when to shut up"
lol
Here's the best tip you'll ever receive. Be yourself, life is much easier than trying to be a "gentleman" and appease others. If you're true to yourself and act the way that pleases you life is much, much, MUCH easier.
the worst tip ever
that sucked fucking shit.
Thaulin haha ok, go through life trying to please others you brainless sheeple. Let me know how you make out!
fengkorberfer You're obviously young and haven't experienced life yet. It's cool, you'll learn once you grow up....
Yes, life *is* easier when you aren't worrying about "appeasing others" (i.e. being a decent human being). That doesn't make it a good idea, nor does it make it the course of action that will lead to your own long-term happiness. If you're always doing whatever is easiest rather than expending a little more effort to be a good person, you aren't going to get very far in life.
Love this video. Every man on the planet should watch it. Even guys that have good manners, such as myself. Very good refresher.
Thank you.
+Nadiya Karalash You're welcome! :)
+Rennan Jorge I was saying thank you to alpha m. :P
+Nadiya Karalash No problem
Vixalify no problem with what lol
+Nadiya Karalash thank you too
WOW! Kudos on your tolerant approach. I am a white American Muslim and you cannot imagine the things people say about my religion without knowing who I am. If EVERYONE would keep their opinions to themselves, the world would be a better place. That is, being a gentleman is the oil to make society work. Being a gentleman is my inner jihad. Best wishes.
This is basicaly the ten comandments but explained in a non religious way. Marvelous! Keep up the amazing work.
I like the way you ended the video, it made me laugh. keep it up.
"Prejudice is an emotional commitment to ignorance" - Jane Elliot.
You are absolutely right!!!
Thank you for teaching me how to be a gentleman and better human being
The only time I use racism is in a joking manor to one of my friends whom I know doesn't get offended by it and we have a good laugh going back and forth. But at school a couple days ago one kid came over to my little group of friends (majority of them girls) and made a sexist comment and nearly got the shit beaten out of him
cool story
AllHailKingRyan One of the girls nearly beat the shit out of him I forgot to add
*manner
You didnt say, "Please say it again"
Dash Costello "Pardon me" is a better way to convey that message.
Arjun Shenoy And a more Ideal way to convey yours would be replacing "A better way" with "More Ideal"
Dash Costello
A rather erudite suggestion, kind sir. I shall change my orientation on tumblr to sapiosexual shortly.
I highly agree with your repose sir. May I please know your tumblr my kind gentleman?
we rise by lifting others and you are a good sir
Awesome! Keep it up Alpha... love your videos!
And the #1reason my ex is my ex....he should have at least watched this episode.
Zoraida Magana what did he say
7860092
He didnt say thank you after sex
He said: "pull my finger".
Zoraida Magana Good morning. I watched this video. Am I qualified to be your next boyfriend ? I would be rather thankful.
Zoraida Magana Wait, how did he get to be your bf if hes such a bad person.
Something I've noticed about your videos asides from your amazing sense of humor is that you know excactly the right time to end a video and make it look so funny
I love that suit.
A gentleman he also knows when to shut up.. END of the video
Hahaha u r a really funny gentleman
I actually liked that video....
A gentleman is GENTLE. With others, animals, mother, and the cosmos
I'm 39 seconds in and if he says gentleman one more time I'm going to burn this computer.
Austin Rogers He said the word 9 times...
#RIPCPU
I feel sorry for the poor computer 😢😢
I assume your computer has been reduced to cinders by now.
I am just wondering, can you really change how you speak? Can you do that over a long period of time? Is it possible. I am thinking of my way to speak as a part of my own personality. No offence or anything, i just find it hard to change how i speak to other people, and if my speaking is a part of my personality. And it says that you cannot change your personality i am going to have some trouble with changing the way i speak to make myself more respescted. PS Aron, love your videoes man, you are a great guy!
The thing with syaing "thank you" and "please" is deffinitely ok tho! :D
Commenting so i see answers
You CAN change your personality, it is complete BS that u can't.
And I am the perfect example ;) Ppl are not born with "one personality", it's what you do, read, listen, who you meet with (and so on) that makes you who you are. And you can change all of these factors, but it ain't easy.
You don't have to change the way you speak but you must know how to speak with different people. I have two modes. Business mode and friends mode. I drop F word in front of my friends but on work I'm like James Bond. But on work I use different words and speak in different way. He talks about manners and bonton that everybody MUST have regardless where are you from. if you from the "hood" or top society its not hard to say thank you and please, keep door for someone or help someone to put begs in the bus. That is just me but people are different.
There are no ifs or hows mate :) , If you want change , your not gonna get very far with that mindset ! Change is gradually , and you get there with small goals or steps so to speak. Try it man! Set a few simple goals that are easy to complete and then gradually work your way up until you find no more need to curse or whatever troubles you :)
You're personally my favorite,funny,smart,cool,perfect guy 🤣
This sounds more like the rules of common sense.
I agree, but obviously not so "common" anymore.
we always say ladies and gentlemen cause ladies only like gentlemen and whether anyone is gentlemen or a psycho any kind lady is good for him
Most of these things that you talk about I have been practicing most of my life. Didn't realize it was a gentlemanly thing.
I say thank you whenever I buy something from a store or when I go shopping lol
Thank you for showing how to be a gentlemen
I saw the intro with alpha and went "oh no, it's one of those alpha male videos" and I was pleasantly surprised especially with the no bigoted things. That caught me off guard even though it should be common sense. This was an amazing watch
I am black and proud.
I am white and proud.
DerCartwright lmao...
DuskyNoodles haha nice. i am white and proud too! :))
DuskyNoodles fucking racist idiot nazi
MrPikkabo Wait, what about the other guy..? Oh, I get it...because only white people can be racist right...? The only fucking idiot here, is you.
Hi. I'm 16 years old, and am not opposed to the LGBTQ community, other cultures/religions, races, sexes, etc. I am constantly surrounded by statements that are sexist, racist, homophobic(discriminatory comments, jokes, etc.). It Is baffling to me that people my age, younger, and older than me alike say things like that. Now I'm not that a person that gets offended by everything, but I know when enough is enough, and when offensive is offensive. My request to people out there is please be respectful with your humor, if you're joking, and if you just don't agree with that group of people, (LGBT, a specific gender, a specific race, etc.) Keep the following in mind? It's 100% to disagree with people. But don't force other individuals with their own opinions and morals to follow/live by YOUR opinions and morals if they don't want to. For example: if you don't approve of gay marriage, don't marry a person your same gender. If you think abortion is evil, don't have an abortion. But DO NOT force other people to live by your opinions or morals. Thank you everyone. (P.S. Great video, I am a sub and love your videos, thank you for making them)
A few typos but couldn't agree more with the statement. Glad that someone shares my opinion.
if they are infact joking,i suggest you should ignore them they probably don't have that kind of thought but they did it for a sake of a joke.
So this means I am no gentleman. I will take this video to heart and learn these wonderful words of wisdom to better myself towards becoming a good gentleman.
''Thank you''
Do what ever the fuck you wanna do!!
Hodge twins ??
Yeah man
As long as you are ready to accept the consequences, of course.
Cool, guess I should go on that murder spree then. Right? I wanted to do it. Do I do it? According to you. Of course! Why not? I'm just doing what I want to!
HighCalibur It's a Hodge twins reference. But if that's what your into....
By the way, how many of you guys drop the “F-Bomb” like a period?
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Haha
This the most hard hitting and enlightening video I have ever seen. This is done very gentlemanly and genuinely. This was very hard to watch. I am going to watch it repeatedly.
man comments got racist faster than alpha's end to this video.
Why do I have such trouble correlating a Gentleman with a fast talking American.
+James Arte Because that's bigotry. Just like what he mentioned you SHOULDN'T do in the video.
stumpz Bigotry? Yeah, but, let's face it, A suit and tie does not a gentleman make.
James Arte "A suit and tie does not a gentleman make." That sentence makes no grammatical sense. You are illiterate and illegible. You don't have the privilege of speaking on behalf of what makes a gentleman.
stumpz Ooh, poor precious.
James Arte Sadly, I expected a response like that from you. Subhumans who aren't capable of critical thinking can be predicted like clockwork.
There is one class above gentleman. A Southern Gentleman 👍. Thank you is always followed by Darlin' , Dear, hun, sweetie, or sweetheart 😅
I want to be a gentlemen.
:| first of all... Are you a MAN??? After this... You can be a gentleman :)
Just aware your breath.daily meditatiom.physical workout
Who is Here after Newspaper 📰
From Spain I thank you. I find your videos useful, refreshing and funny! From September 2017 I am planning to use your videos as a tool for my English students. A lot of teenagers just don't have manners!
Good God man, this video would have more than double views if you were not shouting. In any other terms, correct words, to all. Cheers.
3:58 Holy...I was just punching a pencil in to the table. #creepy
L 😝realy
A true gentleman treats others the way he, himself, would want to be treated.
what is this tie knot called?
Windsor www.iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/three-ways-to-tie-a-necktie/
thanks Alpha :D
alpha m. Thanks for that link, that's my favorite tie knot but it's a work in progress. my instructor when I was in Army JROTC gave us a class on it but school never left much time to practice. Definitely will be able to practice now.
With a dimple. ^_^
+alpha m. or full windsor? very symmetrical.
A gentleman never say "shut up" :O (3:44)
+Meshal Khaldi a gentle-arab-man does.
One of the best videos you've ever made, Alpha M. This is great.
oh my allah.. that is islam teach us, but more detail...
thank you for sharing wonderful information.
have a nice day.
lol
Joke of the year
varun sharma fuck u man
Islam is confused
An American teaching you how to be a gentleman.
[Laughs in European]
Even if the american talking IS a proper gentleman, it just doesn't suit him for whatever cultural reason
You are being racist Mr. European gentleman...and its befitting of a gentleman:)
My Way Of Saying Thank You Is A Humble Slight Bow...
OK I just want to let you know that a study has proven that a person who curses more has a better chance of telling you or anyone the truth
But with everything else I personally thank you for reassuring me on the way I act