Subhanallah one of the best khutbahs I've heard of late. He is so nuanced in his thinking about the threats to men & fatherhood and by extension the ummah. may Allah bless Imam Tom and his family ameen.
POWERFUL!!! Young men you should take heed… masculinity/manhood is brought out of the individual by marriage and fatherhood… if you are emulating social media personalities who are not married and childless, you will ultimately be fooled and lead astray… being a man, being a husband, being a father and being a man go hand in hand! JazakAllah khair imam Tom for keeping it 💯 yet again!!!
May Allah grant all of our Imams wisdom when imparting guidance to our communities and protect them from their own shortcomings and Shaytan's misdirections.
What about the situation where women are left unmarried because they: either could not find or meet someone whom they could trust or because they are living in a society that produces more corrupt men than the responsible caring type, so they cannot choose such men knowingly ? These days, even Muslim societies have become filled with corrupt and irresponsible men, so there is a real shortage of eligible bachelors. Furthermore, there are parents who are themselves neglectful parents and irresponsible with regard to marriage and they end up wasting a daughter's life because of neglect and unrealistic expectations and a delusional outlook of life.
Salam alikoum Dear Brother, just that bit about couple, It's not in pairs, pairs are two same things, like a pair of binocular. Instead let's say couple ! It's a better traduction
Are you suggesting that people in U.K. don’t. Know how to be fathers ? How do you think we have managed for the last 1500 years of our country’s history.?.
Great talk and much love imam Tom. However don’t advise a teen to turn up to someone’s house asking for marriage. At best these acne filled and hormone filled bags of insecurities and contradictions should send their parents to ask.
Bar is a place “chicks” hang out. Not where respectable men meet respectable ladies, even in a non Muslim context. His language is relevant to what he is trying to convey.
@yasminenazarine1629 I'm a western muso I can relate to that lingo actually for western mullas they should speak the lingo of the local people ,it's cool 😎 and resinates. Salaam to you all may Allah swt guide us 🙏
Subhanallah one of the best khutbahs I've heard of late. He is so nuanced in his thinking about the threats to men & fatherhood and by extension the ummah. may Allah bless Imam Tom and his family ameen.
Alhamdulillah . Thanks for sharing . Brother luv from far east 🤝🤲🤲🤲🥳
May Allaah Azza wa Jal bless you Imam Tom
barak allah feek
JazakumuLLah, Khairan
MashaAllah.. great talk .. and May Allah SWT reward you always..Imam
Brilliant as always mashallah
POWERFUL!!! Young men you should take heed… masculinity/manhood is brought out of the individual by marriage and fatherhood… if you are emulating social media personalities who are not married and childless, you will ultimately be fooled and lead astray… being a man, being a husband, being a father and being a man go hand in hand! JazakAllah khair imam Tom for keeping it 💯 yet again!!!
May Allah reward you
May Allah reward you as well!
Beautiful lecture sheikh!!! I pray Allah blesses me with a husband like you 🤲😊
A brilliant talk on manhood/fatherhood Alhamdulillah
الله يعطيك الصحة شيخ طوم
May Allah grant all of our Imams wisdom when imparting guidance to our communities and protect them from their own shortcomings and Shaytan's misdirections.
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What about the situation where women are left unmarried because they: either could not find or meet someone whom they could trust or because they are living in a society that produces more corrupt men than the responsible caring type, so they cannot choose such men knowingly ? These days, even Muslim societies have become filled with corrupt and irresponsible men, so there is a real shortage of eligible bachelors. Furthermore, there are parents who are themselves neglectful parents and irresponsible with regard to marriage and they end up wasting a daughter's life because of neglect and unrealistic expectations and a delusional outlook of life.
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Salam alikoum Dear Brother, just that bit about couple, It's not in pairs, pairs are two same things, like a pair of binocular. Instead let's say couple ! It's a better traduction
Are you suggesting that people in U.K. don’t. Know how to be fathers ? How do you think we have managed for the last 1500 years of our country’s history.?.
Never. We love our brothers from the UK Alhamdulillah
Great talk and much love imam Tom. However don’t advise a teen to turn up to someone’s house asking for marriage.
At best these acne filled and hormone filled bags of insecurities and contradictions should send their parents to ask.
Dear Imam,
Kindly do not use the word "chicks". It takes away from your position.
🤦 The language is relatable... Tagaful is a good skill to have.
Bar is a place “chicks” hang out. Not where respectable men meet respectable ladies, even in a non Muslim context.
His language is relevant to what he is trying to convey.
Just enjoy and get the message the language is fine
Chick's is short for Chicas. Means gals.
@yasminenazarine1629 I'm a western muso I can relate to that lingo actually for western mullas they should speak the lingo of the local people ,it's cool 😎 and resinates.
Salaam to you all may Allah swt guide us 🙏