This new supply novelty wares off quickly I’ve seen it for myself, believe me ! 😅 one day she drove past me she had a smile like Ronald McDonald and then the next time she drove past me’ she had a face like a bag of mouldy spuds 🤨 ‘sad looking individual’ ‘oh deary deary me indeed 😂.
Mine cheated after one month. Then after a month of hanging out with the new supply asked to be her sex friend claiming she was alone. Found out she is indeed seeing someone new and was willing to cheat on him w me and is hiking the same trails we met at and walked everyday together smh. They have no shame.
And to a point made by Anoushka, they know they need help. The thing is that their lack of personal accountability and self awareness makes them not want to face the ultimate truth that they need help.
My ex discarded me and within 2 weeks she shows up at my house with a new guy to drop my kids off. Another 2 weeks after not talking to her she came back crying.. Sadly I went back and after one year later she discarded me again.. shame on me. She has done this to me 7 times now..😢😢
They treat everyone better than you. They do more for neighbors and friends. They let the ex see this bcz they knew how you felt about it. It is for show. And its for their ego. And its all part of their game.
Additionally, through just sitting back and seeing these individuals in action already clued me off to the fact that they already had someone/others waiting in the wings for us to go through another of many breakups which was already upsetting... Why would I want more details. Yeah, best advice : leave; RUN AWAY and don't look back. And tell the people you know that know them that you don't want to hear anything about them.
That person I discarded will never be far enough away. You're videos have been most insightful shedding some light on who and what she is and knowledge is power. Thank you for the work that you are doing
When my ex narc friend was doing this while she knew I was doing bad, I knew very well what her intentions were... This all started conveniently happening when she was devaluing me and I tried to distance myself from her so I quickly removed myself from social media, knowing shes hoping Id watch her... I recognized how obsessed she actually was with me in a toxic way from observing her behavior for 4 years and with other unexpected sources... Unfortunately for her, shes forgetting who she is dealing with and I was doing quite the opposite of what she wanted. I see her new supply and her enablers as my ticket to sneak out of the mess. I hope they keep her occupied for a long time so I don't have to deal with her bs anymore. Shes their problem now ✌
Thank you for putting my feelings straight. He feeds info thru the kids and I hear it unfortunately. Traveling, presents and doing things I have always wanted to do together. I don’t have anyone in my life because I’m still healing. It has taken me many yrs to get over his affair, lies and the bottom line he is a “ coward “ I loved him and you know the best thing that had come out of this 25+ yrs of marriage are my two great adult kids! They are my pride and joy!
It isn’t that she treats the new supply better, she has treated EVERYONE better….. i’ve never been treated worse by any human being on this earth than by the narcissist…..
This!!!! Not just me though her mother / family our children but me most of all. Any other stranger or friend or work associate got the best version of this woman. disgusting and heartbreaking
I've always protected my wallet, narcissists only get attention and validation from me, and now, after watching these videos, they're not getting that.
I bought into the "happiness" for a brief time and then asked myself, why am I still being hoovered every other month? She can't be as happy as she appears on social media if I'm still getting random texts. I finally blocked her. She triangulated me with her ex and now she is doing the same thing with her new man. I feel sorry for him and hope he figures this out some day but if he doesn't that's on him.
Thank You!!! U are amazing! N something I so needed to hear today!! I don’t feel a loss…. But the fact, that I can Now Truly Breath !! 🙏🏼🌈🌸☀️ Everyday Now will be a New Day!!!😉
I was in a relationship off and on for three years, which I think she was a covert narcissist. We broke up this past May 2023. She is with a new guy who has been working on her basement remodeling. I believe she started seeing him in November, so I’m not sure if that would be considered a narcissist or not. I am still trying to heal from a lot of the issues that I got from her. Also, she does not display him in public or on any social media site. It’s pretty much like a secret type of thing, I have seen the guy and I have to say I feel I am much much better looking than he is. But right now he’s like a little puppy dog for her so I don’t know if she is considered a narcissist or not. She doesn’t know how to apologize, she doesn’t know how to say she’s sorry, she is always right, and never wrong. She doesn’t know how to say. I love you. When you tell her that you love her, she responds with, I know that. Why do I feel so empty inside that I miss her, feeling with low self-esteem.
Like anything new, you give it all your attention and care. But, it'll all become old and used and then given away or discarded and that's ok, life goes on. Take care of yourselves and the ones and things you treasure period. Life is not fair or perfect, just make the best for you and yours.
I've accepted the fact she was toxic and she was a full blown covert narcissist and she checks 8 out of the 9 traits so I know what she is what the relationship really was and I done my best and then some until I was fully ghosted and discarded just can't shake my care for her and time I've waisted good people I've pushed away from me for her
crazy isn’t it? How many people try and tell you that they don’t like her or attitude or she’s rude and you just ignore it until it’s too late one hell of a lot more complicated when you’ve got a kid believe me and she has a restraining order against me and I’m worried about my little boy. I’ve got him at the moment, but he’s not acting like he was she seems to be struggling for money I think even though I’m paying way over the odds worried about my little boy he’s got a bad chest and she still keeps sending him to school because she needs to do the dayshift because we are no longer together because her new supply probably doesn’t want to look after my kid really horrible situation not gonna say I was perfect. I messed up too but never wanted to end like this.
My ex-Narc: said once,..why is it that everything I touch, dies......he was a man who slipped in and out of depression, yet he refused to seek theopy, assured himself he was cursed because he was highly intelligent!
Indeed this is crazy sick behavior of the narcissist I know they have so much supply but yes it won’t last and the narcissist will collapse they don’t treat anyone good ever these people are evil there toxic and miserable they need serious help nobody deserves to ever be abused ever nobody deserves to be treated like that we are human beings real human beings narcissists are absolutely the worst so yes narcissist won’t ever be happy or satisfied in there lives!
You’re right about the weirdness. They really are the weirdest and most bizarre creatures on the planet, and just vile. So calculated and manipulative. I just don’t get it. Once you get past the texts, the games and their B.S u really do come to that exact realization .. they’re damn weird. All I wanted to do w my nex was drink coffee, go walk the dog, live life in the moment and have fun. But noooo. It’s got to be this whole cycle of defamation, gaslighting, flying monkeys and the list goes on. Their brains are just always conspiring and planning to destroy the next person. They’re surely strange and boring monsters.
I’d like some advice, I was with my girlfriend for 18 months and she left me over the most stupid thing. To give you some context she was very controlling, it started when she limited the amount of peanuts I ate, she said I could only have 30g, then she said I ate too much ham. I had 2 ham sandwiches. She used to kick off big time at the stupidest things like if I didn’t replenish the toilet roll or something like that and it would result in her saying the most horrible personal things to me. This happened all the time. She said I wasn’t allowed an alcoholic drink in the week. All this stuff. She left me because I had 1 glass of southern comfort and lemonade on a Wednesday and I went back to my old job that she didn’t want me to do. She threw me out of her house, and packed everything, even down to some bread I bought, cleared every memory of me out and that was it. She went away on holiday and when she got back we met and she was insistent that she wouldn’t give me another chance, because I had that drink on the Wednesday she said I was on a slippery slope to alcoholism and made me feel like I was going mad so I begged her. She was crying her eyes out telling me she loved me but she’s going with her head not her heart and we were done. A few days later she’s on dating sites. I just don’t understand how this has happened and I’m devastated. Does she sound like a narcissist? She never cheated but she was friends with her ex’s on social media and would refuse to delete or take any pictures of them together down. She made me feel like I was never good enough for her
im sorry u experienced this. good for u for not being w her anymore. u shouldnt be treated this way. dont ever let anyone treat u rhat way. youre worthy. it doesnt matter if she's a narc. what matters is she treated u poorly and the best thing is that ur no longer w her. 🎉hugs❤
I'm definitely not watching. None of my business ; I don't want to know. We all know that they did the same to us before they buried us with their mask off actions 😂😂... No worries... Move on ; ignore.
Can it be an act for years after breakup , remarried and 2 more children, new career with the new supply later, all within a year (it started) of leaving? Mine seems happier than ever, completely changed who she is, i see no toxicity at all or she's hiding underneath ? thanks
The new supply is no longer new, after moving her in after a week she never left, he paid for everything, bought her a puppy, holiday’s everything. Now they’ve bought a new build and getting married. After 3 years of still reeling me in and few days before he was moving into the new build with her he was still telling me he needs my photos to ‘help him’ as she’s unattractive, yet she’s treated like a queen. I finally told me to leave me alone and he was furious. I’ve avoided him this whole year but I’m broken, a half a million pound house, travelling all over the world but he put me down, told me I was useless (after the love bomb). But years later he’s still lovely to her so does he actually genuinely love her as a love bomb can’t last for years can it 😢
Bet they have fights every day. U dont want that. They travel because their life is empty. Its fun, the more u see people travel/party aka leaving home, the less they are happy with themselves. They need external input.
The narcissist didn't do the love bombing in the beginning it was terrible words and it got worst when I shared my ideas. Continually got worst with yelling at me. That's when he told me of his new girlfriend who was ten times while I was in a car wreck coming home to him and my dogs for the holidays. Please share with me what I did wrong?
Im sorry you experienced this. i hope u went nc. the only thing u did wrong was believe that u did something wrong. u didnt deserve to be treated that way. i hope ur doing a little better now that six months have gone by. hugs ❤
Yes…. And on top of that… they KNOW the new supply won’t last as long as you did… and that’s why they try to still hang on to you…. My ex is in a new relationship now… everything is going great… she is NUTS about him…. Haha ….he calls me every day… I just tolerate him because I need him to send me money occasionally ( he owes me big time) . Little does he know how much I despise him for all the abuse and trauma he has caused me….I do tell him occasionally to remind him … just to keep things in perspective so he knows I mean business….
My question is this…. What do we care how the new “supply” is treated? Why triangulate ourselves? What does that have to do with healing from narc abuse?
@@SherryG370 I have been. And my question remains the same. If you’re no longer in that relationship, stop watching what they’re doing with their new supply. It’s self-inflicted triangulation.
@@user-cq9vk5gt7o because alot of ppl who date narcs have their own issues and insecurities that leave us wondering....why we arent worthy and the new partner is of our X's love. You are a rare breed...not being curious. In her video she's addressing the ppl that are spending too much time wondering about the Narc than working on the things that they need to do in order to be in a healthy relationship
My soon to be ex chose someone who looks like a copy of a copy of me. In every way she is 1/3 of who I am. Sadly she will get 100% of what I endured. If it takes her 1/3 as long as it took me to realize how abusive the relationship is, she will only suffer 10 years 😢
Since we marry he treated me like and object in bed ! Does he gonna behave better with someone else ? Never . For years I asked myself a question what do I loose for living him??? My answer was : his pay check !!! He looks like 50, I look like 35 so I will enjoy life with my kid and get older regretting not divorce him when I was way young but our creator help us to figure it out !!! And yes they are pure evil 👿
Knowing a narcs cycle is your armour. Be an emotional step ahead....then you arent surprised by their actions. Narcs have same patterns.
They find 'the love of their life' on a weekly basis.
It’s all a game, their new energy supply. They are junkies that enjoy and need supply with nothing inside but an empty shell
This new supply novelty wares off quickly I’ve seen it for myself, believe me ! 😅 one day she drove past me she had a smile like Ronald McDonald and then the next time she drove past me’ she had a face like a bag of mouldy spuds 🤨 ‘sad looking individual’ ‘oh deary deary me indeed 😂.
"Weird" is the right word. The word I used to describe my narc ex and her behavior was "creepy." Her cheating and lies just creep me out!
Im going thro those feelings right now. Its soooooo disgusting how they think their lies are that good we will believe them!
Mine cheated after one month.
Then after a month of hanging out with the new supply asked to be her sex friend claiming she was alone. Found out she is indeed seeing someone new and was willing to cheat on him w me and is hiking the same trails we met at and walked everyday together smh.
They have no shame.
And to a point made by Anoushka, they know they need help. The thing is that their lack of personal accountability and self awareness makes them not want to face the ultimate truth that they need help.
My ex discarded me and within 2 weeks she shows up at my house with a new guy to drop my kids off. Another 2 weeks after not talking to her she came back crying.. Sadly I went back and after one year later she discarded me again.. shame on me. She has done this to me 7 times now..😢😢
They treat everyone better than you. They do more for neighbors and friends. They let the ex see this bcz they knew how you felt about it. It is for show. And its for their ego. And its all part of their game.
Additionally, through just sitting back and seeing these individuals in action already clued me off to the fact that they already had someone/others waiting in the wings for us to go through another of many breakups which was already upsetting... Why would I want more details. Yeah, best advice : leave; RUN AWAY and don't look back. And tell the people you know that know them that you don't want to hear anything about them.
Good riddance to bad rubbish. They can have him
agreed
We were all new supply once
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That person I discarded will never be far enough away. You're videos have been most insightful shedding some light on who and what she is and knowledge is power.
Thank you for the work that you are doing
When my ex narc friend was doing this while she knew I was doing bad, I knew very well what her intentions were...
This all started conveniently happening when she was devaluing me and I tried to distance myself from her so I quickly removed myself from social media, knowing shes hoping Id watch her...
I recognized how obsessed she actually was with me in a toxic way from observing her behavior for 4 years and with other unexpected sources...
Unfortunately for her, shes forgetting who she is dealing with and I was doing quite the opposite of what she wanted.
I see her new supply and her enablers as my ticket to sneak out of the mess.
I hope they keep her occupied for a long time so I don't have to deal with her bs anymore. Shes their problem now ✌
Thank you for putting my feelings straight.
He feeds info thru the kids and I hear it unfortunately. Traveling, presents and doing things I have always wanted to do together.
I don’t have anyone in my life because I’m still healing. It has taken me many yrs to get over his affair, lies and the bottom line he is a “ coward “
I loved him and you know the best thing that had come out of this 25+ yrs of marriage are my two great adult kids! They are my pride and joy!
It isn’t that she treats the new supply better, she has treated EVERYONE better….. i’ve never been treated worse by any human being on this earth than by the narcissist…..
This!!!! Not just me though her mother / family our children but me most of all. Any other stranger or friend or work associate got the best version of this woman. disgusting and heartbreaking
I've always protected my wallet, narcissists only get attention and validation from me, and now, after watching these videos, they're not getting that.
I bought into the "happiness" for a brief time and then asked myself, why am I still being hoovered every other month? She can't be as happy as she appears on social media if I'm still getting random texts. I finally blocked her. She triangulated me with her ex and now she is doing the same thing with her new man. I feel sorry for him and hope he figures this out some day but if he doesn't that's on him.
I don't know what my ex narc is up to. I'm just trying to move on. Thanks Anoushka it helps knowing that it was nothing I did wrong.
😆😆😆Good Video Anoushka❤❤❤
Best label is “swinging narcissistic monkeys jumping from tree to tree”. Covert in nature. It’s energy vampires on speed.
Thank You!!! U are amazing! N something I so needed to hear today!! I don’t feel a loss…. But the fact, that I can Now Truly Breath !! 🙏🏼🌈🌸☀️ Everyday Now will be a New Day!!!😉
It's sad how they try to act like their life is so great but in reality they have nothing
Det ved jeg godt jeg er enig med dig hvad du siger, ka du ha en vidunderlig weekend 😉👍👍❤️
What they do before they devalue and discard,they try to borrow money off you.
Mine tried it,but i was starting to see through her.
She is someone elses problem idgaf. Good riddance. I discarded her anyways.
If hes so good why is she stalking me then?
Their cycle is their karma
I was in a relationship off and on for three years, which I think she was a covert narcissist. We broke up this past May 2023. She is with a new guy who has been working on her basement remodeling. I believe she started seeing him in November, so I’m not sure if that would be considered a narcissist or not. I am still trying to heal from a lot of the issues that I got from her. Also, she does not display him in public or on any social media site. It’s pretty much like a secret type of thing, I have seen the guy and I have to say I feel I am much much better looking than he is. But right now he’s like a little puppy dog for her so I don’t know if she is considered a narcissist or not. She doesn’t know how to apologize, she doesn’t know how to say she’s sorry, she is always right, and never wrong. She doesn’t know how to say. I love you. When you tell her that you love her, she responds with, I know that. Why do I feel so empty inside that I miss her, feeling with low self-esteem.
What about std ,s
Like anything new, you give it all your attention and care. But, it'll all become old and used and then given away or discarded and that's ok, life goes on. Take care of yourselves and the ones and things you treasure period. Life is not fair or perfect, just make the best for you and yours.
I've accepted the fact she was toxic and she was a full blown covert narcissist and she checks 8 out of the 9 traits so I know what she is what the relationship really was and I done my best and then some until I was fully ghosted and discarded just can't shake my care for her and time I've waisted good people I've pushed away from me for her
crazy isn’t it? How many people try and tell you that they don’t like her or attitude or she’s rude and you just ignore it until it’s too late one hell of a lot more complicated when you’ve got a kid believe me and she has a restraining order against me and I’m worried about my little boy. I’ve got him at the moment, but he’s not acting like he was she seems to be struggling for money I think even though I’m paying way over the odds worried about my little boy he’s got a bad chest and she still keeps sending him to school because she needs to do the dayshift because we are no longer together because her new supply probably doesn’t want to look after my kid really horrible situation not gonna say I was perfect. I messed up too but never wanted to end like this.
Haha , at the start with you it was also wonderful 😉
They treat everyone better except the ex
My ex-Narc: said once,..why is it that everything I touch, dies......he was a man who slipped in and out of depression, yet he refused to seek theopy, assured himself he was cursed because he was highly intelligent!
Indeed this is crazy sick behavior of the narcissist I know they have so much supply but yes it won’t last and the narcissist will collapse they don’t treat anyone good ever these people are evil there toxic and miserable they need serious help nobody deserves to ever be abused ever nobody deserves to be treated like that we are human beings real human beings narcissists are absolutely the worst so yes narcissist won’t ever be happy or satisfied in there lives!
You’re right about the weirdness. They really are the weirdest and most bizarre creatures on the planet, and just vile. So calculated and manipulative. I just don’t get it. Once you get past the texts, the games and their B.S u really do come to that exact realization .. they’re damn weird. All I wanted to do w my nex was drink coffee, go walk the dog, live life in the moment and have fun. But noooo. It’s got to be this whole cycle of defamation, gaslighting, flying monkeys and the list goes on. Their brains are just always conspiring and planning to destroy the next person. They’re surely strange and boring monsters.
Yes everything is for show...
I’d like some advice, I was with my girlfriend for 18 months and she left me over the most stupid thing. To give you some context she was very controlling, it started when she limited the amount of peanuts I ate, she said I could only have 30g, then she said I ate too much ham. I had 2 ham sandwiches. She used to kick off big time at the stupidest things like if I didn’t replenish the toilet roll or something like that and it would result in her saying the most horrible personal things to me. This happened all the time. She said I wasn’t allowed an alcoholic drink in the week. All this stuff.
She left me because I had 1 glass of southern comfort and lemonade on a Wednesday and I went back to my old job that she didn’t want me to do. She threw me out of her house, and packed everything, even down to some bread I bought, cleared every memory of me out and that was it. She went away on holiday and when she got back we met and she was insistent that she wouldn’t give me another chance, because I had that drink on the Wednesday she said I was on a slippery slope to alcoholism and made me feel like I was going mad so I begged her. She was crying her eyes out telling me she loved me but she’s going with her head not her heart and we were done. A few days later she’s on dating sites. I just don’t understand how this has happened and I’m devastated. Does she sound like a narcissist? She never cheated but she was friends with her ex’s on social media and would refuse to delete or take any pictures of them together down. She made me feel like I was never good enough for her
im sorry u experienced this. good for u for not being w her anymore. u shouldnt be treated this way. dont ever let anyone treat u rhat way. youre worthy. it doesnt matter if she's a narc. what matters is she treated u poorly and the best thing is that ur no longer w her. 🎉hugs❤
I don't care
Welcome to the Grand Illusion-STYX
I'm definitely not watching. None of my business ; I don't want to know. We all know that they did the same to us before they buried us with their mask off actions 😂😂... No worries... Move on ; ignore.
Can it be an act for years after breakup , remarried and 2 more children, new career with the new supply later, all within a year (it started) of leaving?
Mine seems happier than ever, completely changed who she is, i see no toxicity at all or she's hiding underneath ?
thanks
The new supply is no longer new, after moving her in after a week she never left, he paid for everything, bought her a puppy, holiday’s everything. Now they’ve bought a new build and getting married. After 3 years of still reeling me in and few days before he was moving into the new build with her he was still telling me he needs my photos to ‘help him’ as she’s unattractive, yet she’s treated like a queen. I finally told me to leave me alone and he was furious. I’ve avoided him this whole year but I’m broken, a half a million pound house, travelling all over the world but he put me down, told me I was useless (after the love bomb). But years later he’s still lovely to her so does he actually genuinely love her as a love bomb can’t last for years can it 😢
Bet they have fights every day. U dont want that. They travel because their life is empty. Its fun, the more u see people travel/party aka leaving home, the less they are happy with themselves. They need external input.
The narcissist didn't do the love bombing in the beginning it was terrible words and it got worst when I shared my ideas. Continually got worst with yelling at me. That's when he told me of his new girlfriend who was ten times while I was in a car wreck coming home to him and my dogs for the holidays. Please share with me what I did wrong?
Im sorry you experienced this. i hope u went nc. the only thing u did wrong was believe that u did something wrong. u didnt deserve to be treated that way. i hope ur doing a little better now that six months have gone by. hugs ❤
Yes…. And on top of that… they KNOW the new supply won’t last as long as you did… and that’s why they try to still hang on to you…. My ex is in a new relationship now… everything is going great… she is NUTS about him…. Haha ….he calls me every day… I just tolerate him because I need him to send me money occasionally ( he owes me big time) . Little does he know how much I despise him for all the abuse and trauma he has caused me….I do tell him occasionally to remind him … just to keep things in perspective so he knows I mean business….
My question is this…. What do we care how the new “supply” is treated? Why triangulate ourselves? What does that have to do with healing from narc abuse?
If you have been in a relationship with a narcissist then you wouldnt be asking that question. Lol....I'm just sayin.....
@@SherryG370 I have been. And my question remains the same. If you’re no longer in that relationship, stop watching what they’re doing with their new supply. It’s self-inflicted triangulation.
@@user-cq9vk5gt7o I agree. Who cares whom they with and wtf their doing. Just thanking God removing the devil from my precious life!!
@@user-cq9vk5gt7o because alot of ppl who date narcs have their own issues and insecurities that leave us wondering....why we arent worthy and the new partner is of our X's love. You are a rare breed...not being curious. In her video she's addressing the ppl that are spending too much time wondering about the Narc than working on the things that they need to do in order to be in a healthy relationship
Background music is very disturbing
Really I don't care my new lady looks better better personality in thick in curvy like a snicker😋💯💯
My soon to be ex narcissist husband has the new supply trying to look like me! Is that typical?
Yes it can be typical of Narcs. Watch Professor Sam Vaknin.
My soon to be ex chose someone who looks like a copy of a copy of me. In every way she is 1/3 of who I am. Sadly she will get 100% of what I endured. If it takes her 1/3 as long as it took me to realize how abusive the relationship is, she will only suffer 10 years 😢
He married her so...
Since we marry he treated me like and object in bed !
Does he gonna behave better with someone else ? Never .
For years I asked myself a question what do I loose for living him???
My answer was : his pay check !!!
He looks like 50, I look like 35 so I will enjoy life with my kid and get older regretting not divorce him when I was way young but our creator help us to figure it out !!!
And yes they are pure evil 👿
WHO CARES 🤣
Please can u off this music when u speaking that i can listen well...npd is just fake and make theatre with new toy
I would reaky love yo takj yo u , i hooe we reach out to me for u need your help 🙏❤