Hey everyone, had to remove the last video and upload this replacement. Sorry about that. There were some very serious rendering issues with the last one. I know I've done this a few times recently and it's probably very annoying to have a video cut out mid-watch. I'll try to be better about this in the future
I can see it going like this: Fred: Hey Tiana Tina: *ignores* Fred: *taps her shoulder* hey I was talking to you Tina: Oh, I’m sorry Frank, what did you need? Fred: My name’s not Frank, it’s Fred Tina: And my name’s not Tiana, it’s Tina
Regarding the 1st story: Men are always asking how they can help women. THIS is how you can help women. The other men in that department should have been doing and saying something all year to keep that guy from creeping on the women. OP's plan was brilliant.
Someone probably did it... After 3 years theyre finally Out of prison because they helped a girl And the girl had "Personal trauma" That's why nobody helps nobody. Im Not about to get arrested.
If a crowed train witnesses a schizophrenic attacking a toddler and nobody does anything of course, a group of adults won't help a full grown adult during a business meeting. Humans are unfortunately brainwashed with the phrase "just ignore it and it will go away." AKA Bystander Syndrome, it's a real thing and quite an interesting phenomenon.
Me too! That’s a heartbreaking situation. I don’t think the mother is the asshole but neither is the daughter, she had to look out for herself and if this is less painful for her, well that sucks for everyone. But she can’t just keep putting her own well-being at risk. I get that mom means well and it’s not like she’s malicious in never showing up, but frankly that doesn’t matter! The result is that mom is never there for her and she get hurt. It doesn’t matter why, it doesn’t change anything. Her valid reason for not coming when she promised to doesn’t mean that she is there any more. She’s still never there and her daughter still feels like second place and get hurt. I understand that it hurts for her to lose her daughter but D have also been hurt, every time she promised to be there and never came. She has no right to demand a relationship. No matter how much it hurts she needs to accept that her daughter doesn’t owe her a relationship and D. has a right to put herself and her happiness and wellbeing first. And that’s what she has done. I get that it’s hard and painful. But she made her daughter feel like that and she can’t force her to therapy to accept that this is the way it has to be. D has stated her boundary, she will not be second choice. So mom has to either accept it or change. And even if she changes and finds a way to show her daughter that she’s equally important and loved she still isn’t owed forgiveness and may not get it.
Santenoturtle Me too. I think mom IS a butthole. She has put her daughter second. It’s something I know far too well. Why should the daughter have to put up with continued disappointment when it’s far healthier to cut contact. Does her mom really believe that anything is going to change? If daughter is engaged, is mom going to be there for picking out the dress, meeting with caterers or anything that needs to be done before the wedding? No she won’t. The same thing will happen the day of the wedding. Last minute, everything will go pear shaped and....oops! Mom can’t make it to the wedding. Personally, I hope that the daughter marries a good person that will always put HER first.
@@canyadigit6274 Yes!. Yes she is supposed to leave him at home. She'd taken care of his needs by getting a someone specifically trained in his condition who knew what to expect and how to deal with it. I know that having a special needs child will make any parent more protective of that child, but it shouldn't come at the expense of another. Doing so every now and again is understandable, but doing so EVERY time is just wrong. Imagine if your parents favoured one of your siblings over you because of something you couldn't control for your entire life. Would YOU be understanding? Special needs kids do have special needs, but if you are in that position, you should ALWAYS show... not tell... show... your other kids that you love and value them just as much or they'll just grow up hating you and resenting their siblings. Often,they won't even understand why.
"you want food?" "No." *gets food enough for one person* "BITCH! I WANTED IT! I WAS ONLY jOkiNg! PLUS, I'M YOUR GIRLFRIEND SO YOU MUST GIVE ME YOUR FOOD!" "wtf"
isn't it a meme about how some women will do exactly this? say they don't want food but then when you get some for yourself and only yourself they eat most of it?
This happened with every woman I've ever been with. Some much more than others. I'm also guilty of it too from time to time. I always get more than I really need for this reason, if it's too much food I'll put it away as leftovers for later. A solution to this problem isn't exactly hard.
I as a wife am guilty of this.. Im not hungry when he ask but when i smell it im like omg i need it... However i wouldnt bitch about what he got on his pizza lol
I’m just more like. You know she’s like this. Order extra food. Honestly him giving away that second piece a cake was the dumbest thing he could do. Did he just meet her? He knew enough to bring her that slice. Then he gave it away. You know how that saying goes. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me. If I had a girlfriend like that. I would just order extra food. It’s really that simple.
Had a mom like this, but as soon as she took some she'd offer some of hers to us or just give us what she couldnt eat. I'm semi like this too with my roommate, but we kinda do this to each other so we do not mind in the slightest.
@@0799qwertzuiop I disagree, she is not his small child and needs to learn to properly communicate. And this is coming from a notorious food thief, but at least I am aware of my shamelessness and will apologize if my thieving ways ends up offending.
@@lisgoldqn I had a person I in a class named that boy did I screw up roll call between him and the vietnamese kid named Dung which if I remember right was supposed to be pronounced something like Yoon.
I think secretly she enjoys the attention but feels shame for liking her situation so much. There's no reason as to why she should get mad at her boyfriend for handling it as discreetly as he did, unless on some level she gets off on the attention but feels shame for doing so.
Netherwolf6100 Or like ... she was just embarrassed. Confrontation can be extremely upsetting to people with anxiety and op literally said that there’d be backlash on her if he retaliated.
@@zoyaoyaoya6104 If she was a doormat, she wouldn't stand up to her boyfriend about the subject matter and chastise him for preforming a positive act. A girl who would rather get molested by someone she hates instead of being protected by someone she loves has deep psychological scars that needs professional help.
Netherwolf6100 As someone with a social anxiety disorder, I can’t stand confrontation with my coworkers or colleagues, but I can stand up to those close to me. It happens. She was CLEARLY uncomfortable with being touched but again, could’ve known she was gonna suffer backlash if her boyfriend intervened, as she SAID.
@@user-rx9ny4yo2e He could divorce her. The crux of the issue is that he asks, she says no, he makes a plate and she pilfers. She isn't going to change, he has made that clear. Stop asking. Make two plates and when she is hungry she can eat hers.
To the OP with the wife who keeps eating his food though she's "not hungry", you're NOT the b-hole. My mom did the same thing, and she hates spicy food, too. She learned her lesson when I brought home some delicious smelling ghost pepper seasoned teryaki (it was my personal medium spice), burst into my bedroom, and before I could say, "no" she took a bite. She regretted it. It's called RESPECTING BOUNDARIES, and karma has a way of smacking you in the back of the head when you don't respect other people's boundaries.
Lol, we all have our hungry voice, I'll bet HE was hungry when he read it. I'll bet op was hungry when he wrote it. I'm on the bus about to unleash the manliness in me from my belly, because I'm goddang HANGRY!
Uuuuugh I'm kinda angry with the fist girl, like GIRL IT'S NOT ABOUT MAKING A SCENE, IS ABOUT SELF-RESPECT!!! Girls need to love themselves more and know that they don't have to keep up with harassment, what makes me angrier is that she said her bf that he went a bit too far, like, seriously? It was an epic way because he didn't way for the "punch path"
Yeah I do agree however she does need to be smart about it. Unfortunately these types can get away with a lot because of what they can do. I feel like r/legaladvice and r/prorevenge are good examples of how to handle that guy. I think some put it best, better to be an alive bitch than a polite dead girl. Least her boyfriend is there for her. He's a good dude
@@SorenPenrose I agree. It's a tough situation this girl is in. I agree that she should stand up for herself and shouldn't have to put up with this. But my mom filed a complaint against her boss who made sexual comments to her, was racist towards her, and cussed her out a couple times. He was ultimately fired but she was fired too. So he was totally in the wrong but my mom suffered some consequences.
My wife has very bad social anxiety and she does worry about be causing a scene defending her (because I'm a very confrontational person). Now msotly shes worried about me getting hit with assault charges. However I applaud this OP. He got to this guy in a way that didnt cause a big scene like if he just called the creep out and everyone else was laughing at the antic.i know some victims are afraid its better to just weather the storm, but I'm sure deep down OPs girl is still appreciative
Karen Jun/Yun I go to chick fil a every once in a while because it’s really close. The woman calls me ma’am every time I walk in. Even though I have long hair, It is extremely obvious that I am a man. One time I was having a rough day and she referred to me as ma’am so I responded with “have a nice day sir”.
My name is Angela. People sometimes try to call me Angie. I hate being called Angie. I don't answer when people call me that anymore and it does solve the issue.
Good point, very passive aggressive and it really instills that that is not you. So long as you answer to the name that is what they will call you because at least you respond. I've had a similar but opposite thing happen most my life, for some reason unless it is my parent or a teacher with a class roster it is rare to find someone who knows how to spell my name right. I'm female and my name is easy as anything to me, its Toni. I've seen Tony, Tonie, yadda yadda. I really do not get some of the weirder spellings of my name, I mean yeah it sounds like my name but its not my name.
if tina works in an office i think she could just put a memo out that her name is tina, not tiana. at least to her boss. then whatever happens from there happens from there. you can't expect to be fired for that. doing what she planned to do will only sour her relationship with her coworkers, especially if some are just playing monkey see, monkey do after some people who should know better.
Absent mother: dont think this was just because this one event. I know how it feels, once someone snaps because of this than its over. Its really hard to fix it.
Also to the mother. I have 3 siblings. My first years of childhood was great. Then my brother came into the world. I have never been jealous at him, bit he drew trouble. And he did untill I moved away from home. (Both him and Me have ADHD) if he didn't want to to a certain thing, we wouldn't go. (Fx go to Tivoli) my sister came around, and again I was pushed back. I was billed but my parents didn't even care to go to school meetings. It was only if they really had to, (fx before a trip) and then they would complain about how unnecessary it was when I got home. I am also burning some brigdes there
@@GiordanDiodato So, because the brother is low functioning autistic means that the daughter needs to be neglected? I agree that the brother needs more attention, but being an autistic person myself i can assure you that you should never give him all your attention, because that way he will become to used to it which will cause more problems. If he does truely need all you attantion all the time, than you have to realize that you need to bring him to an institution or get extra help because its next to impossible to raise an 100% autistic child without the proper knowledge and/or experienced help. Thats also something the mother did wrong (due to lack of knowledge): you should help him get stability from things that are controllable, like a stable night routine or something instead of relying on a person. I know this can be extremely difficult especially with young children, thats what makes it extra important to get help from others with experience. But no matter what, you should never neglect your other children.
@@GiordanDiodato low functuoning autistic people may be below down syndrome but that still doesnt mean neglecting your other child. And no i dont mean be institutionalized, i think i made an error in my translation, i meant a place where they can offer help with all kinds of things from advice on how to handle certain situations to a assistant who can help you out if thats required. There are loads of people who specialize in dealing children with autism and assisting and advising their parents. As i said before, its really difficult to help him in the ways he needs if you dont know what that is or what he truely needs. Thats why she needs to go to someone who knows everything about this.
@@GiordanDiodato it can work even with a low functioning autistic child. It isn't an excuse. If it becomes that, the parent should find help. She have 2 kids. I have seen it working with 5 and a single mother. The boy was infantile autistic. He was living in a home friday-sunday. That way the mother have time for her other kids.
It's so difficult for a single parent of an autistic child to realise what they are doing to their other children. I get that you know your child and their difficulties, and you feel ultra responsible for them. Yet I know 2 single mums in this position and both have prioritised the one child over the other, including telling the "other" child that they expect them to care for the autistic sibling when mum is no longer around. It breaks my heart to hear the pain in those children's voices when they have told me how they feel; I just let them vent to me, maybe it helps somewhat. If anyone reading this is in this situation, you deserve a life too.
disgruntled mum i know how hard it can be to have an autistic sibling but if my dad die make it to something I don’t hold it against him because my sister is really hard to take care of. It breaks my heart that her daughter would cut her off just because her mom was trying to take care of her disabled brother
@@Ravenroth8088 Agreed. Same situation, different parent who died (it's my mom here). First 2 years of her leaving was a wreck for him, and my older brother ended up being taken care of by me, a mere 12 year old boy back then. Dad mostly took care of him in the daylight, and I learned to be as undemanding as possible since my early teen years. I can't blame both of them, since it's not their wish to be stuck in that situation. I ended up growing as a somewhat lonely kid without any real guidance on how to be a normal guy. I learned about puberty and all that from my teachers, who were kind enough to let me stay after school ended and learn new things with me. My father figure was a man in his mid 30s who turned into the man I ask for advices from. But then again, that was until 2 years ago. We're all bonded together now, and my brother's doing great for who he is right now. Dad still kinda miss Mom, but I told him that it's okay to move on.
Olivia Hood yeah but it wasn’t one e or twice was a lot of times. Her daughter even said that she can’t take the disappointment of her mom telling her that she will come then she doesn’t. The mom deserves to be cut out she never went to any of her events. The kid doesn’t have a dad to go either.
@@Ravenroth8088 But what's the difference between mom not being involved and getting cut out? Mom will not be in her life either way. Daughter needs to focus on people who truly want her in tgeir lives and have time for her. All the mom does is hurt, break her heart and trust, and disappoint her. Mom just needs to let the daughter go and finally allow her to live a genuinely happy life where someone will put her first for once.
For the food story, his wife never asks. She refuses when offered food, then eats it anyway. That’s a dick move and a party foul. If you want food, order some for yourself too.
ugh, that mother. i’m the only child of a single mum who, while she’s provided for me financially, has never showed up to an event on time if she came at all, which was rare. sometimes she’d even refuse to let me go to events that i’d been signed up for for MONTHS just because ?? she didn’t care to go and i was too young to go by myself ?? i specifically remember walking through town one day with her and bumping into classmates who were headed for one of these events and being asked about it, but she gave some half assed excuse. that ended up reflecting badly on me, i was viewed as unreliable and never got any big parts again because my part at that event was huge but i just ! couldn’t go i guess ! she’s shocked at how few friends i had, but not only did she not let me go to school events, she also didn’t let me go to any birthdays i was invited to. i mean i participated in a national championship for a pretty violent and exhausting sport in my late teens and was promised by my mum that she’d come around with lunch for me and cheer me on. she didn’t show up and i was left playing this tournament for two days with no support or food to eat during, because obviously she didn’t give me money to buy anything either. i got a concussion during one of the games and had no one to take me home. recently she forgot all three plans i’d made with her throughout a week. we were going to go to the movies on one day, a concert another, and shopping towards the end of the week. honestly, it’s made me want to never plan anything with her ever again because i just know i’ll be disappointed no matter what. emotionally neglecting your child will absolutely make them want to distance themselves, and you’re absolutely an asshole for doing it, regardless of your reasoning. an extra care child is no excuse to ignore your other child.
Your mom is in fault cuz she had no other priorities, she had one child. This mother in the video had two kids, one of which was autistic. She had another priority.
@@slurpdeedeedee she absolutely did not have another priority in this specific instance, there was a trained professional there. she doesnt have an excuse for most every time either despite us not knowing the specific circumstances, if she said she was going to go there, she should have taken preparations FOR THE ONE THING that we know could stop her. after a few times, maybe she should stop being braindead and think "maybe i should get someone else to look after my child who is incredibly prone to outbursts that would instantly stop me from doing what i should be."
@@slurpdeedeedee So? That's what the trained professional was there for. Heaven help son when mom is gone, she's made him so dependent on her, he could literally pine away.
The way I see it if their hand makes it to the food on my plate its gone😬👌, I'll even complain that 'their hand is raw and I demand they cook it properly! '
I mean, a little bit of an asshole for the whole "ME HANGRY CAVEMAN!" attitude, but he's TOTALLY justified by "protecting" his food by making it spicey. She didn't want any. He asked. She shouldn't complain that the pizza she didn't want was spicey.
Stealing someone's food is a sign of trying to be dominant. The pack leader divides the food. She's trying to dominate the marriage, probably unconsciously, but goes about it the wrong way, since she's female.
My father would consistently take food from my plate when I was growing up. He would only take things I liked as well, never vegetables or other, but steak, sausage, rice, fries, he'd always say I wasn't eating it. Funny how not eating vegetables never made him take those.
The same with pregnancies Everyone wants to touch the belly Its NOT fun Its NOT respectful Its NOT polite Then they seem hurt when the woman snaps Edit:Thanks for all the likes xd But what I said is the truth,like really? *RESPECT BOUNDARIES*
@@whatokay_ if I'm ever pregnant,I'll touch them back,disrespectful people,I understand what their intentions are,but pregnant woman are still people. You wouldn't walk up to a random person and touch them randomly But if their pregnant,wowee,they become things to touch and fondle
If I were the girlfriend in that first story, I wouldn't have kept "putting up with it," I would've pushed the guy out of the seat. If I were the boyfriend, I would've punched the guy, or at least said, "Excuse me, that's MY girlfriend!" Seriously, why do we raise our girls to put up with this crap?
Because they're raised more to care about the happiness of men than their own comfort. Just how patriarchal societies are unfortunately. We just have to try our best to make things better.
I totally understand the daughter that cut off her mom. My mom would always come up with reasons why she couldn't come. "Your mom had a migraine." "She worked late." "She needed to take a nap." "She's really tired." I know that mental illness is a lifelong battle, but that's so damaging for a developing child. She would always go out of her way for my sister, too. Adults know how to handle that kind of let down, but children don't have the coping mechanisms to deal with their parents essentially ignoring and abadoning them.
OMG the daughter of the absent mom posted this same story on r/entitled parents lmao Edit: I think I got the subreddit for the daughters side of the story wrong, I think she posted it in r/amitheasshole, sorry for getting it wrong my dudes
@@NoizuWilhelm I don´t really remember what video it was but the people i watch that post reddit videos are rslash, cuestar, bumfris and sorrow tv, I remebered the story from what the mom said her daughter said to her when the mom didnt go to her award ceremony.
Most people repost their story on other subreddit when the one they posted is inappropriate for the subreddit or the original subreddit thinks that people from the other subreddit will get a kick from it.
I would have just filed a complaint with HR. If it doesn't get fixed in a month, I would file a second complaint with HR and then inform them that the next complaint comes in the form of a lawsuit. And yes, I would take them to court.
You know what's sad about that second story. She expected everyone to be racists. Instead they are trying to relate and she still thinks they're still being sort of racists. I get they are getting her name wrong but if everyone says her name is Tiana it's kinda hard to fix but that happens. I have a buddy that everyone called the wrong name for 5 years. When he got his own office everyone was shocked because the plaque said "Aaron" and not Kevin. They called him the wrong name and he just embraced it because it didn't affect him. Then again he wasn't looking for a reason to be insulted. She may not be an asshole but she is an idiot.
And at that moment he should have given the guy the the most sexually deprepraved look he can muster, like he's undressing him with his eyes and either lick or bite his lip. I'd bust out laughing if I saw that happen in this situation.
@@KnittingGirl28 Damn! Good job making my night the best! I've stayed up all night and I was mad and sad but now I'm just happy and can't stop laughing
I would understand the wife wanting to go to the guys funeral to support his family members grieving. That’s typically what they’re for, but that’s not the reason she gave so I understand the husband’s decision
The absent mother had every chance to go to the daughters things. BOTH my brothers have autism and pretty high on the spectrum. My mom and dad went to everything I did and we always went out to eat afterwards. They still go to everything i do. My brothers dont usually go to my things because they dont like the noise. That mom had every chance to go the daughter's things, and the fact she doesnt trust TRAINED PROFESSIONALS with her kid and stayed home, showed her priority for her daughters event wasnt that high to begin with. Sorry I got mad. Since im the only child that doesnt have autism in my family i know how it works. I absolutely hate when people use it as an excuse.
@@AngelOfMusic20 yeah. I studied this. If your high, that likely means you have Level One Autism, or means you likely have a higher than average IQ, smart and only need a little help. What the woman in the story was describing was Level Three, or meaning this kid has a lot of issues, low IQ, and like she said, nonverbal. I can see Why the woman did it, but it wasn't right.
How the mother acted is especially bad because most trainer professionals would recommend she leave because you shouldn't give in and catered to your kids since it will cause a lack of dependence and play into any separation anxiety.
Yes! Also Scrubs where Turk loses it because Carla takes one of his fries (hypocritical though since a few episodes later he's stealing steak off everyone's plates).
Tina's idea reminded me of the time I dealt with a similar situation that way: My first name is Dana, pronounced "Day-na". People regularly pronounce both "a's" the same (like the in word haha). This teacher, Mr. Jamison pronounced it correctly at first but actually started pronouncing it incorrectly soon after. So after politely correcting him a few times, I finally started called him Mr Jam-is-on as a fun joke to remind him. We laughed about it but after calling him that twice, he remembered. So even though mine was just a fun reminder, it definitely works!
14:00 is a tricky one because the wife has lost a family friend who she has probably known since a child, in a sudden and horrid accident. But then she is also on borrowed time since she cheated, anything following her cheating on her husband should kinda be without any speculation or threat of cheating or the guy that she had an affair with. She can’t expect to treat this man with respect and be mad upset without causing all kinds of emotional pain for her husband as he was forgiving enough to forget she ever shagged him. But he can’t expect her to not mourn the death of a lifetime friend
I think her old connection to her friend. Life is short, and it's great for us to have our heart to go to all people in love while we have the chance. But, any benefit in this connection is morally questionable, as well as vague. The husband's concern for their own marriage well being are not questionable or vague.
Ezzeldin mohd he got demobilized for using fake buttholes? Lol. I was thinking more like the “pow!” type star emoji I can’t find now that I’m looking for it, or maybe peaches, not actual buttholes. No one wants to see that.
I was giving my nephew some relationship advice. I told him, "Always buy a little extra food from a restaurant or cook a little extra food for yourself because she will always want a sample, or part of it." That very night we went for Taco Bell(my wife had Arby's) and I ordered a couple of extra tacos. The Wife: "May I have a taco?" Me and my nephew looked at each other and laughed.
The wife's behavior in the last story almost makes me think she was still having an affair with him behind her husband's back and putting up a front the whole time. Maybe that's a little too crazy of a theory but she seemed awfully... desperate to go to that funeral, especially since she was doing it in spite of her husband's wishes
And what if it's not on purpose? Could be the coworkers are so concerned about appearing racist, they're so "woke," that they second guess themselves when they see or remember her name is Tina. They might say to themselves, "No, that's some colonialism thinking, she wouldn't be named Tina, it must be Tiana. Yeah, I know I've heard that as a black woman's name before."
Koda Hansen lol thats a bit of a reach around but i see where youre coming from. think its weird that even tho shes like “my names tina” they just keep calling her the wrong name.
yeah, whenever someone mispronunces or call me the wrong name i call them by the wrong name, but I use a really, really wrong opposite gender name to drive it home.
I would be so grateful to my boyfriend for doing this. I wouldn't be able to, way too anxious. And he didn't even cause a scene doing it. That's the perfect response
This is an unfortunate reality for women, though. They are subject to keeping quiet in lieu of placating men that would ruin their situation via their own favoritism.
What CG said is right. Many women feel they have to put up with good, because if we report our co-workers, WE tend to get in trouble, not our harassers. It's an unfortunate reality for us, and I think the girlfriend was worried about her job.
@@ExpertCobra-tn1vt She's talking about the first story about the male coworker harassing his girlfriend who then jumps up and screams "I'M NOT GAY" because the boyfriend was doing exactly what he was doing to his girlfriend.
With that parent story, Its one of the reasons I make sure I tell my parents they don't have to come so they can never disappoint me so I'll never get mad at them.
The food thing: I understand tasting a bite here or there to see if you wanted to determine if you want to make your own plate. My husband and I do that to each other, but not EVERY TIME!
Yeah, like I always take one my Hubby's fries, but literally just ONE because I have to watch my sodium. I asked him, and he said he's fine with it. Other times I might try his food is he gets something new, but I always actually wait until he is pretty much done (he doesn't generally finish all his food anyway!).
Hey, Tina! A supervisor always called me “Pat” when I went by my full first name. Day off… call at 4:30am… supervisor asks for “Pat”… in my stupor I say “Pat doesn’t live here!” and I unplug the phone!! 🤣🤣🤣
2nd story was a victim of a "foodie call". Women who agree to go on dates with men for free food without expecting a relationship or even meeting the person again.
About the first story, said outloud: "It would have been a powerplay if he started doing the exact same thing to this asshole." *OP does the thing.* Me: *Insert Proud, Nodding Ron Swainson meme.*
It just isn't that uncommon of a story tbh. It's too typical for siblings of special needs children to be overlooked and have to manage on their own. Parents doesn't do this to be mean but they get so wrapped up in the special needs child that they just let the "easy" child handle what it needs to handle on it's own because they just "have" to spend their focus on the special child. If they aren't aware of their behavior towards the "healthy" children it will become a really sore topic over the years of feeling unloved, unsupported and a childhood filled with disappointment, especially if there are only two children. I'm not surprised you've seen this story before.
12:40 NTA, You’re a man, You’re aggressive, You’re scary, You’re hungry, She is acting like a mother who says “I fed you for 20 years” You’re just proving that actions speak louder than words
There are several sacred things in this world that you don't ever mess with. One of them happens to be another man's fries. Now you remember that, and you will live a long and healthy life.
My sister gives me crap for being the same as that one husband/ OP when I complain About her eating my food, I have enough food for me not for her too.
With the cheated husband... it's iffy. Funerals aren't so much for the dead as they are for the living. Now admittedly the wife said she was going to 'pay her respects', which to him sounds like caring for the guy she had an affair with. But if his mother in law told them, that means the family's somewhat connected to the guy's family, and it's just courtesy to go and support those dealing with the loss. That being said, the fact the wife did make it about respecting the guy, makes it dicey. Though the guy IS dead, he can't take his wife away from him again, and the fact she's done her best to rectify her past actions is telling she wants to be with cheated husband. However, there were obviously something there, there's no threat to him anymore, and it's just his wife taking the last opportunity to say goodbye to the guy. She cut off communications with him in life. Overall it's a sucky situation, and I can get the guy feeling uncomfortable, but I dunno. It's really disrespectful to forbid someone from going to a funeral. Especially when he should consider it a victory, he can be glad the guy's gone, he tells his wife he's not thrilled about it, but if he let her go, what does he lose? Yes it implies she still holds a sliver of care for the guy, but he's DEAD. And his wife has again done everything she can to make up for her acting on her feelings. She told him what happened (didn't hide it), cut out the guy she cheated on him with (prioritized him the wronged husband) made amends (recognized SHE did wrong and set out to try and correct it), now had he been the bigger man and just let her go to the funeral. Whether it be for the guy, or for the guy's family, he'd be seen as the greatest husband instead of kind of sad. Yes he was very very hurt, but his wife shouldn't have to be forced to make up for it every day of her life. She TOLD him what happened, they worked it out like adults and decided to stay together. She was saying the final goodbye to this guy and the husband decided he needed to dredge all this up and say no. So he's kind of the butthole in this regards actually. If this was such a painful thing for him that it's going to color his relationship with her, and is making him unhappy, maybe he should give serious thought to divorce. It sounds to me like his wife has done everything she can to make up for her mistake, and if her wanting to say a final GOODBYE to the guy is enough to make him feel inferior. Then maybe he needs to leave her. Or he needs to recognize that holding onto that is doing him no good. He's letting it control him and it's made him be a butthole. Seriously is he expecting her going and saying farewell to this guy is going to suddenly make her feel all her emotions again and she's going to chain herself to the grave or run off with the dead guy in efforts to revive him 'a la Frankenstein's monster?' It'd be funny and sad if she did, but it's doubtful.
No your'e missing the point. Why tf would he want her to go to funeral for a guy she cheated with? How is that anyway respectful to him or theyre marraige? Yea he is dead and no she doensnt have to make it up to him everyday but going to that funeral makes 0 sense for someone who u "cut" out of your life. Shes not considering how that would make her husband feel...hell she alreaded cheated on him with this guy now she at her funeral that doesnt seem right. Honestly she has shown very little respect for him or their marraige and I would honestly feel some type of way too.
As much as I agree with this statement, SD was also married with children. If they knew about the affair her showing up might stir up drama and make that funeral a shit show.
To him, it likely is confirmation that she never truly let go. Because let's be honest here: She likely didn't. For all he knows, she'd actually kept cheating on him with this guy, just... in secret. As someone that doesn't give an actual F if my partner has physical relations with someone else, I understand the real issue here. It's not that she cheated on him. It's that she still loved him. And this is basically confirmation of that. If my wife hired a male hooker, I wouldn't care, because all it means is she wanted a good passionate hugging. If my wife went on a non-physical date with someone from her past, I'd care. Just because someone died, doesn't mean your emotional connection to them is gone. NOTHING can remove that, other than yourself. There's certain people out there that, if they showed genuine interest, I'd immediately drop my entire life to be with them. This is likely true of just about everyone. And on a base level, pretty much everyone knows this is true of their loved ones. And... you can't even always fault them. Some people ARE a better match than you, no matter what. If my GF/Wife had a genuine shot with someone like Keanu Reeves, I'd just straight up say "take it.". I'd be sad, but there's honestly no faulting that desire. If your wife wanted to go to her ex-husband's funeral, you'd consider that a bit of an issue, wouldn't you? Even if you let her go, it's a constant reminder that you were choice #2. Particularly if you were in her life back when she was married to him. It might be "selfish", but I could never blame someone for not wanting someone to do something like that. Because no matter how understandable it is, it still hurts you. Sometimes a LOT. And honestly, if the wife doesn't understand that it hurts you? That's just even more telling. It's basically confirmation and proof that you were never #1 in her mind. ...which, a lot of the mentioned behavior, kind of hints at. To me, trying to "make up" for it for THAT long, kind of tells me "she never stopped caring about the guy, and this is all some attempt to convince HERSELF that she cares more about me, but she actually doesn't.". Which pretty much just results in this singular point: People need to simply learn to be honest. Both with themselves, and with others. It never helps to lie to people about things that have that large of an impact on someone's life... particularly yourself. And yes, I'm speaking from experience here. My parents really haven't ever actually loved each other. But they're both too afraid of the consequences of separating to ever leave. They've basically been miserable their entire lives. And that's exactly the kind of behavior and feelings I get from the wife in that story. She didn't want to leave, because of what everyone would think of her, but she was never truly, truly happy. She wanted their kid, and potentially even their extended family, friends, etc. to all have a "normal" family relationship. But she never actually moved on, and always regretted not being with that guy. So yes, it's understandable. Both sides are, actually. She wants to go to the funeral not to "say goodbye to a family friend", but to lament and say goodbye to a life that never was. He likely realizes this, at least on some level, and hates it. Because really... who wouldn't? If your wife wanted to go to the funeral of the guy that always said no, that was never in her life past college... it would hurt you, wouldn't it? To be that utterly made aware of the fact you were always choice #2?
@@rubireynoso1273 It's a R/Kevin stories if I'm not wrong, about how stupid a person (aka Kevin) can be. I think he posted it but then deleted it after few minutes because there some mistakes in it, idk, read the pinned comment for more information
Re: mother/daughter incident. It reminds me of the teenager who is told to stay home instead of going to Prom because it is her job to babysit her STEP-sister. parents are doing their best most of the time, but need to remember and respect that they have n more than one child. Getting an academic award Is a Big Deal. I happens once if ever. A monthly dance recital is not as critical, but I understand how a young child would be upset if no one was in the audience for her. Both Mom-and daughter need to pick their battles.
I grew up as the oldest of 3 kids & I spent most of my childhood babysitting said other 2 kids long before I would have been legally allowed to do so. My father was a farmer & my mom helped from spring to fall. When I found out I was pregnant with my second daughter, I knew that it wouldn't be the same for my oldest daughter. Her stepfather & I decided to have a baby. She did not. In all my youngest's childhood, my oldest only ever watched her twice, for less than 2 hours both times until the sitter could get there, in emergency situations. I just don't think it's right to make one or more children give up their childhoods because of choices the parent(s) made. Idk it's kind of the reason why the Duggars piss me off. I don't care that they are uber religious & believe weird things that I do not. I do care that they kept pumping out babies & expecting their oldest kids to be pseudo-parents since it's impossible to successfully parent that many children as one person (while the father is at work). I just find it disgusting when parents put their choices on one or more of their kids tbh.
The one about the mom who doesn’t attend her daughters events, I felt that except with my grandmother. I don’t consider us to have a very good relationship for that and other reasons and she wonders why! 🙄
I'd do the same as op for friends or family but make it work to my advantage by acting like a total slob the whole time. If its family ill act as if they are basically my parent or sibiling. For a friend basically act as if I've already got the person he's hitting on as my partner (I actually do this a bit with my roommate on accident and purpose sometimes), if he dislikes being hit on by a gay so much he leaves then acting as if his Target is lesbian should make him lose interest.
Imagine your wife calling you sh---- because she doesn't like YOUR food that you bought with your OWN MONEY OP: Hey Babe want a pizza? Wife: I'm good thanks for asking OP: *gets pizza from delivery guy* Wife: *eats one sneakily* 10sec later Wife: Why did you order spicy pizza? OP: Cause I cannot stand you eating all of my food Wife: A--hole
Theyre both aholes, the wife should respect his food choice for himself, also if youre toghether you adapt to eachother, if she keeps stealing your food, order more instead of bitching. Be part of the solution, not the problem
@@TheEvanovitch Yea how about she open her damn mouth and tell him she wants some food instead of constanly taking his, she an adult not a child and need to stop acting childish about food he ordered for him. Also he ASKED did she want any food whuch she said no so kill that bullshit
@@jamarjoyner9365 calm down, i didnt say she wasnt the butthole, i said they both were. I dont think hes wrong in principle, i think hes wrong in execution. If it truly is that much of an issue, order more, seriously its not that hard. If you know shes gonna take some of your food every time, anticipate it instead of bitching about it.
@@TheEvanovitch While I thought the same at first, really, all that does is encourage bad behavior. When bad behavior is encouraged it usually gets worse, so no, never "adapt" to bad behavior.
I felt the one with the daughter. My mom missed so many of my events when I was young bc she was going to college. If my older sister couldn’t sneak out of high school to go. I would be alone, and I was an honor student, so it stung, she was also emotionally abusive be I “was just like my damn dad” :(
By “learn how to” you mean AGAIN test that (totally new and never previously conceived of in her mind before an oh so great teacher came along) boundaries “plan” and roll the dice on extreme to violent to the pettiest and most long-lasting reactions/punishments to challenging male entitlement that day. Maybe they learned that gambling with inappropriate mens egos gets them hurt more than any benefit to their comfort would be worth. Sad but true. It only proves that women can’t solve this problem alone by “learning” things about how to deal with aggressive/abusive men. It’s too broad a problem for your simple “learn this one great trick” logic, because life isn’t like that and women shouldn’t have to gamble those consequences vs continually enduring shit.
@@messiahofthefirst.3415 "dont say women should learn how to put up strong boundaries so the few men that dont keep their dicks in their pants despite being taught to and it being morally wrong to will be stopped by their prey, that would be terrible!" theres always going to be corrupt people, this is just life. why not put up an extra barrier? i completely agree with you to an extent but we cant be 100% reliant on that strategy because some people just dont fucking care. he didnt victim blame. he didnt shift any of the blame to her. all he said was "some girls won't put up strong boundaries and they all need to learn how to". they do. and so do all men. and literally everyone. strong boundaries are important.
@@olivermccarthy456 theres a difference between "boundaries" and strong boundaries. I'm sick that it has come to this, and don't try to fool me with "men needa do it to blah blah blah". tf they needa put boundaries up for? Anyways, have a lovely day/night!
Oof, that mother/daughter one hits me hard. When one sibling requires so much extra attention than the other "non-diagnosed" sibling, it's so easy to let the latter sibling fall to the wayside. It's not fair, even if the diagnosed sibling can't help the attention he/she needs, and it does end up breeding resentment. Can't blame the daughter, here.
Tina’s story reminds me of when I worked at a cafeteria in college. Noemi was a coworker of mine whose name I forgot once. From then on, she would deliberately call me Mark when addressing me (nothing at all like my actual name). I decided to give her a taste of her own medicine, and settled on calling her “Mindy”. After a while I realized that I probably picked that because of “Moro and Mindy”, which for you youngsters was a TV show from the ‘70s where Robin Williams’ catch phrase was “nanu nanu”. After I’d made that realization, I had to make an effort to not say “nanu nanu” whenever I saw Noemi. I did not always succeed in that effort.
I dont think the daughter is wrong. Not having a parent at an event for another sibling hurts. Dealing with that for years I would cut them off just to not feel that pain. The mom should have been more present in her daughter's life. I can understand sometimes but it was years.
I feel Tina's pain. Whenever tries to say my first name, they say it in every way possible except for how it actually is. IT IS SAID AS IT IS SPELLED, DEBRA! NO NEED FOR YOU TO GO THROUGH FIFTY DIFFERENT VARIATIONS AND NOT GET IT RIGHT!
Wow sexually harassing? Are you all idiots? Going to a funeral? Its not going to a funeral is what it represents. There is no excuse for cheating in a marriage, and then disrespecting your significant other.... I guess thats why most people don't agree with your logic, and the fact that you are making it a "women" issue, without any evedence, shows that the one with a bias is you.
I can’t decide on the absent mom, on one hand, she has a highly autistic kid, but on the other, she shunned her other daughter’s entire childhood. So...
I think they called the black woman "Tiana" because of "The Princess and the Frog." I once said a black classmate of mine looked like Princess Tiana and she got offended, though she calmed down when I explained it was because she was, in that moment, wearing a green ballgown for our play that looked a lot like Tiana's dress in the movie. But you know, there's honest mistakes (which in my case happened ONCE and I take accountability for it), and then there's repeating your mistakes after being corrected. Those people in the office were just being jerks.
Hey everyone, had to remove the last video and upload this replacement.
Sorry about that. There were some very serious rendering issues with the last one.
I know I've done this a few times recently and it's probably very annoying to have a video cut out mid-watch. I'll try to be better about this in the future
rSlash yo hi dude
**Bruh sound effect #2**
Hi r/slash I hope your having a good day
Hi
We understand. Do what you gotta do.
“I’M NOT GAY!!”
WELL OP’S GIRLFRIEND ISN’T INTERESTED!!
NGL your shading on the hair for your pfp is boppin
Thats how you know your girl will never cheat
@Tianruo Yang oh shit your right.
If I was that creep I would have waited until the end just to be like, soooooo threesome?
im gay
"I don't want any pizza."
"Okay, I'll take you at your word and get toppings I like."
"sELFISH"
Rachel Knight ELFISH
Rachel Knight yes
Wait hold the frick up u look like a diabetes’s type2 Karen
green3mix .1 ah shit! Here we go again
He should just start taking a little of her food.
"Except I'm not fine, I'm hungry."
The way rSlash said this made it perfectly relatable.
I'm exactly the same way, too; my sister went so far as to say I need professional help with how irritable I get when I'm hungry lol..
you dont mess with someones food!
It was so huffy I couldn't help but crack up
I can see it going like this:
Fred: Hey Tiana
Tina: *ignores*
Fred: *taps her shoulder* hey I was talking to you
Tina: Oh, I’m sorry Frank, what did you need?
Fred: My name’s not Frank, it’s Fred
Tina: And my name’s not Tiana, it’s Tina
{ *Insert awkward silence here* }
*[ insert Fred's embarrassment here ]*
"my name's not shane, kid"
Oho he angy now
Nice
Wait so the guys mother IN LAW told him to spice his food? The wife’s OWN MOTHER agrees with him? Lmao
She's probably stole food from other family members - brothers, sistrrs, dad, etc and Mom totally sympathizes with them.
She learned the right tricks from years of trial and error. She's just giving the husband her hard-earned cheat code.
How could she not? Wife is not being fair.
Regarding the 1st story: Men are always asking how they can help women. THIS is how you can help women. The other men in that department should have been doing and saying something all year to keep that guy from creeping on the women. OP's plan was brilliant.
i am a man and i approve this message or comment hell you know what i mean ok
Someone probably did it...
After 3 years theyre finally Out of prison because they helped a girl And the girl had "Personal trauma"
That's why nobody helps nobody.
Im Not about to get arrested.
Don't take me seriously what do you even mean?
And “your kind” lol
If a crowed train witnesses a schizophrenic attacking a toddler and nobody does anything of course, a group of adults won't help a full grown adult during a business meeting. Humans are unfortunately brainwashed with the phrase "just ignore it and it will go away." AKA Bystander Syndrome, it's a real thing and quite an interesting phenomenon.
@@inkshermit9055 Yeah groupthink sucks but it's a real thing.
That one with the mother and daughter hurt me so bad.
Me too! That’s a heartbreaking situation. I don’t think the mother is the asshole but neither is the daughter, she had to look out for herself and if this is less painful for her, well that sucks for everyone. But she can’t just keep putting her own well-being at risk. I get that mom means well and it’s not like she’s malicious in never showing up, but frankly that doesn’t matter! The result is that mom is never there for her and she get hurt. It doesn’t matter why, it doesn’t change anything. Her valid reason for not coming when she promised to doesn’t mean that she is there any more. She’s still never there and her daughter still feels like second place and get hurt. I understand that it hurts for her to lose her daughter but D have also been hurt, every time she promised to be there and never came. She has no right to demand a relationship. No matter how much it hurts she needs to accept that her daughter doesn’t owe her a relationship and D. has a right to put herself and her happiness and wellbeing first. And that’s what she has done. I get that it’s hard and painful. But she made her daughter feel like that and she can’t force her to therapy to accept that this is the way it has to be. D has stated her boundary, she will not be second choice. So mom has to either accept it or change. And even if she changes and finds a way to show her daughter that she’s equally important and loved she still isn’t owed forgiveness and may not get it.
yeah whatever he said ^^^
Santenoturtle Me too. I think mom IS a butthole. She has put her daughter second. It’s something I know far too well. Why should the daughter have to put up with continued disappointment when it’s far healthier to cut contact. Does her mom really believe that anything is going to change? If daughter is engaged, is mom going to be there for picking out the dress, meeting with caterers or anything that needs to be done before the wedding? No she won’t. The same thing will happen the day of the wedding. Last minute, everything will go pear shaped and....oops! Mom can’t make it to the wedding. Personally, I hope that the daughter marries a good person that will always put HER first.
Charlie Oscar ok, so what’s the mom supposed to do? Just leave her autistic child at home?
@@canyadigit6274 Yes!. Yes she is supposed to leave him at home. She'd taken care of his needs by getting a someone specifically trained in his condition who knew what to expect and how to deal with it.
I know that having a special needs child will make any parent more protective of that child, but it shouldn't come at the expense of another. Doing so every now and again is understandable, but doing so EVERY time is just wrong. Imagine if your parents favoured one of your siblings over you because of something you couldn't control for your entire life. Would YOU be understanding?
Special needs kids do have special needs, but if you are in that position, you should ALWAYS show... not tell... show... your other kids that you love and value them just as much or they'll just grow up hating you and resenting their siblings. Often,they won't even understand why.
“Do you want some pizza?”
“No.”
“Okay.”
“Hey! I can’t eat that pizza because it’s too spicy!”
“YOU SAID YOU DIDNT WANT ANY WTF?!”
He's married to Karen.
I really like your profile picture, did you draw it yourself?
Hello Peoplez yeah i did, thank you
Honestly why if a person asking you do you want anything and say no, and then once you get your food now you hungry plz get lost.
"you want food?"
"No."
*gets food enough for one person*
"BITCH! I WANTED IT! I WAS ONLY jOkiNg! PLUS, I'M YOUR GIRLFRIEND SO YOU MUST GIVE ME YOUR FOOD!"
"wtf"
Lol, when her own MOTHER is helping you there is no question you are not the A hole.
Yup 😂
Agreed
What if a psychopathic mother helps you murder someone?
@@johnthornton5715 ohhhh
isn't it a meme about how some women will do exactly this? say they don't want food but then when you get some for yourself and only yourself they eat most of it?
1:57
That sounded like the gayest "I'M NOT GAY!" ever.
Fr
So know what that sounds like do ya?
@@LucianCorrvinus
Well, the imrpessions sound like that.
BloxxingDinosaurus u skipped just to that then went back and I agree.
@@machy8515
I... don't understand your comment.
"Do you want pizza?"
"no"
*20 minutes later*
"why didn't you get me pizza?!"
This happened with every woman I've ever been with. Some much more than others. I'm also guilty of it too from time to time. I always get more than I really need for this reason, if it's too much food I'll put it away as leftovers for later. A solution to this problem isn't exactly hard.
I as a wife am guilty of this.. Im not hungry when he ask but when i smell it im like omg i need it... However i wouldnt bitch about what he got on his pizza lol
I’m just more like. You know she’s like this. Order extra food. Honestly him giving away that second piece a cake was the dumbest thing he could do. Did he just meet her? He knew enough to bring her that slice. Then he gave it away. You know how that saying goes. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me. If I had a girlfriend like that. I would just order extra food. It’s really that simple.
Had a mom like this, but as soon as she took some she'd offer some of hers to us or just give us what she couldnt eat. I'm semi like this too with my roommate, but we kinda do this to each other so we do not mind in the slightest.
To quote Joey from Friends " Joey don't share food!!!"
who else imagined the guy who OP harassed on story 1 whispering "Hey how you doing love momma let me whisper in ya ear. It's free real estate.
I did the same 🤣🤣
Saaaaaame
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if i was the firefighter husband i would probably have came back with "well you said you didn't want one so i put jalapenos on it.”
Happens to me too, but not with my SO, but her mom, to the point where I only eat spicy food because she's allergic to it
Or just put double the amount knowing shes coming to attack your food
If I was the firefighter husband I'd just get some extra food... imo he is being the dickhead there
@@thePanda_huma That will just further reinforce the behaviour.
@@0799qwertzuiop I disagree, she is not his small child and needs to learn to properly communicate. And this is coming from a notorious food thief, but at least I am aware of my shamelessness and will apologize if my thieving ways ends up offending.
Tina? TIANA? TIARA?! _BEYONCE?!_ *I THOUGHT HER NAME WAS SHALISSA!!!*
I thought she was called Lord Baelish
Shithead
Ethan Jamison iTs pRoNoUnCeD sHiHaE!!1!1!11!
Ethan Jamison IT’S SHI-THEAD
@@lisgoldqn I had a person I in a class named that boy did I screw up roll call between him and the vietnamese kid named Dung which if I remember right was supposed to be pronounced something like Yoon.
That first one was amazing. She's got an amazing boyfriend. Definitely not an asshole.
I think secretly she enjoys the attention but feels shame for liking her situation so much. There's no reason as to why she should get mad at her boyfriend for handling it as discreetly as he did, unless on some level she gets off on the attention but feels shame for doing so.
@@Netherwolf6100 yeah but people sometimes can be doormats too.
Netherwolf6100 Or like ... she was just embarrassed. Confrontation can be extremely upsetting to people with anxiety and op literally said that there’d be backlash on her if he retaliated.
@@zoyaoyaoya6104 If she was a doormat, she wouldn't stand up to her boyfriend about the subject matter and chastise him for preforming a positive act. A girl who would rather get molested by someone she hates instead of being protected by someone she loves has deep psychological scars that needs professional help.
Netherwolf6100 As someone with a social anxiety disorder, I can’t stand confrontation with my coworkers or colleagues, but I can stand up to those close to me. It happens. She was CLEARLY uncomfortable with being touched but again, could’ve known she was gonna suffer backlash if her boyfriend intervened, as she SAID.
They way he read: 11:28 "Except I'm not fine." was the hangriest way one could have said it. It made me chuckle. Thanks Slash.
And evidently, even knowing she is going to pilfer, he is unable to make more food to compensate. Easy way to peace.
@@willchase1952 why should he cave in to her bad habits?
@@user-rx9ny4yo2e He could divorce her. The crux of the issue is that he asks, she says no, he makes a plate and she pilfers. She isn't going to change, he has made that clear. Stop asking. Make two plates and when she is hungry she can eat hers.
Friggin killed me first time I heard it
To the OP with the wife who keeps eating his food though she's "not hungry", you're NOT the b-hole. My mom did the same thing, and she hates spicy food, too. She learned her lesson when I brought home some delicious smelling ghost pepper seasoned teryaki (it was my personal medium spice), burst into my bedroom, and before I could say, "no" she took a bite. She regretted it. It's called RESPECTING BOUNDARIES, and karma has a way of smacking you in the back of the head when you don't respect other people's boundaries.
I like the way you said "except im not fine, IM HUNGRY!"
That was a little scary tbh 😄
it's such a mood tho
Lol, we all have our hungry voice, I'll bet HE was hungry when he read it. I'll bet op was hungry when he wrote it. I'm on the bus about to unleash the manliness in me from my belly, because I'm goddang HANGRY!
WTF IS THIS PIC AND NAME? XDDDD
I would love to watch a sitcom episode with Tina's story when she starts addressing everyone with the wrong names.
Ayesha Irfan I would kill to watch the faces during the kickoff meeting of her plan !!
I thiNK you Got WRONG hEr naME Is TIana [?]
@@rinowichan naha, she's BeYoNcE
@@facundosilveira5535 haha dummy me 😔😔😔
People in my school called me Angle yet my name is Angel. Idk why people mispronounce names that are too obvious and easy to say.
Uuuuugh I'm kinda angry with the fist girl, like GIRL IT'S NOT ABOUT MAKING A SCENE, IS ABOUT SELF-RESPECT!!! Girls need to love themselves more and know that they don't have to keep up with harassment, what makes me angrier is that she said her bf that he went a bit too far, like, seriously? It was an epic way because he didn't way for the "punch path"
Yeah I do agree however she does need to be smart about it. Unfortunately these types can get away with a lot because of what they can do. I feel like r/legaladvice and r/prorevenge are good examples of how to handle that guy. I think some put it best, better to be an alive bitch than a polite dead girl. Least her boyfriend is there for her. He's a good dude
Sometimes standing up for yourself just gets you fired. Even if the other person was 100% wrong and even if you didnt have a choice.
@@SorenPenrose I agree. It's a tough situation this girl is in. I agree that she should stand up for herself and shouldn't have to put up with this. But my mom filed a complaint against her boss who made sexual comments to her, was racist towards her, and cussed her out a couple times. He was ultimately fired but she was fired too. So he was totally in the wrong but my mom suffered some consequences.
Same and I kinda felt guilty about it
My wife has very bad social anxiety and she does worry about be causing a scene defending her (because I'm a very confrontational person). Now msotly shes worried about me getting hit with assault charges. However I applaud this OP. He got to this guy in a way that didnt cause a big scene like if he just called the creep out and everyone else was laughing at the antic.i know some victims are afraid its better to just weather the storm, but I'm sure deep down OPs girl is still appreciative
Poor Kevin he never knew what hit him, now he knows how Claptrap feels when everyone bullies him.
Stair
Fucking stairs
I love ClapTrap😥
I fucking hate Claptrap
Clap trap is the homie
For the Tina post.... if it was me, if they call the wrong name... I will just ignore... I mean.. it is technically, and literally... not ME!
Karen Jun/Yun I go to chick fil a every once in a while because it’s really close. The woman calls me ma’am every time I walk in. Even though I have long hair, It is extremely obvious that I am a man. One time I was having a rough day and she referred to me as ma’am so I responded with “have a nice day sir”.
My name is Angela. People sometimes try to call me Angie. I hate being called Angie. I don't answer when people call me that anymore and it does solve the issue.
Good point, very passive aggressive and it really instills that that is not you. So long as you answer to the name that is what they will call you because at least you respond. I've had a similar but opposite thing happen most my life, for some reason unless it is my parent or a teacher with a class roster it is rare to find someone who knows how to spell my name right. I'm female and my name is easy as anything to me, its Toni. I've seen Tony, Tonie, yadda yadda. I really do not get some of the weirder spellings of my name, I mean yeah it sounds like my name but its not my name.
@@evanblalock9744 post a pic lets so what you look like.
if tina works in an office i think she could just put a memo out that her name is tina, not tiana. at least to her boss. then whatever happens from there happens from there. you can't expect to be fired for that. doing what she planned to do will only sour her relationship with her coworkers, especially if some are just playing monkey see, monkey do after some people who should know better.
Absent mother: dont think this was just because this one event. I know how it feels, once someone snaps because of this than its over. Its really hard to fix it.
Also to the mother. I have 3 siblings. My first years of childhood was great. Then my brother came into the world. I have never been jealous at him, bit he drew trouble. And he did untill I moved away from home. (Both him and Me have ADHD) if he didn't want to to a certain thing, we wouldn't go. (Fx go to Tivoli) my sister came around, and again I was pushed back. I was billed but my parents didn't even care to go to school meetings. It was only if they really had to, (fx before a trip) and then they would complain about how unnecessary it was when I got home. I am also burning some brigdes there
@@ЛйлиТеоьДворянство now that sounds more like asshole parents.
@@GiordanDiodato So, because the brother is low functioning autistic means that the daughter needs to be neglected? I agree that the brother needs more attention, but being an autistic person myself i can assure you that you should never give him all your attention, because that way he will become to used to it which will cause more problems. If he does truely need all you attantion all the time, than you have to realize that you need to bring him to an institution or get extra help because its next to impossible to raise an 100% autistic child without the proper knowledge and/or experienced help. Thats also something the mother did wrong (due to lack of knowledge): you should help him get stability from things that are controllable, like a stable night routine or something instead of relying on a person. I know this can be extremely difficult especially with young children, thats what makes it extra important to get help from others with experience. But no matter what, you should never neglect your other children.
@@GiordanDiodato low functuoning autistic people may be below down syndrome but that still doesnt mean neglecting your other child. And no i dont mean be institutionalized, i think i made an error in my translation, i meant a place where they can offer help with all kinds of things from advice on how to handle certain situations to a assistant who can help you out if thats required. There are loads of people who specialize in dealing children with autism and assisting and advising their parents. As i said before, its really difficult to help him in the ways he needs if you dont know what that is or what he truely needs. Thats why she needs to go to someone who knows everything about this.
@@GiordanDiodato it can work even with a low functioning autistic child. It isn't an excuse. If it becomes that, the parent should find help. She have 2 kids. I have seen it working with 5 and a single mother. The boy was infantile autistic. He was living in a home friday-sunday. That way the mother have time for her other kids.
It's so difficult for a single parent of an autistic child to realise what they are doing to their other children. I get that you know your child and their difficulties, and you feel ultra responsible for them. Yet I know 2 single mums in this position and both have prioritised the one child over the other, including telling the "other" child that they expect them to care for the autistic sibling when mum is no longer around. It breaks my heart to hear the pain in those children's voices when they have told me how they feel; I just let them vent to me, maybe it helps somewhat. If anyone reading this is in this situation, you deserve a life too.
disgruntled mum i know how hard it can be to have an autistic sibling but if my dad die make it to something I don’t hold it against him because my sister is really hard to take care of. It breaks my heart that her daughter would cut her off just because her mom was trying to take care of her disabled brother
@@Ravenroth8088 Agreed. Same situation, different parent who died (it's my mom here). First 2 years of her leaving was a wreck for him, and my older brother ended up being taken care of by me, a mere 12 year old boy back then. Dad mostly took care of him in the daylight, and I learned to be as undemanding as possible since my early teen years. I can't blame both of them, since it's not their wish to be stuck in that situation.
I ended up growing as a somewhat lonely kid without any real guidance on how to be a normal guy. I learned about puberty and all that from my teachers, who were kind enough to let me stay after school ended and learn new things with me. My father figure was a man in his mid 30s who turned into the man I ask for advices from.
But then again, that was until 2 years ago. We're all bonded together now, and my brother's doing great for who he is right now. Dad still kinda miss Mom, but I told him that it's okay to move on.
Olivia Hood yeah but it wasn’t one e or twice was a lot of times. Her daughter even said that she can’t take the disappointment of her mom telling her that she will come then she doesn’t. The mom deserves to be cut out she never went to any of her events. The kid doesn’t have a dad to go either.
@@Ravenroth8088 But what's the difference between mom not being involved and getting cut out? Mom will not be in her life either way. Daughter needs to focus on people who truly want her in tgeir lives and have time for her. All the mom does is hurt, break her heart and trust, and disappoint her. Mom just needs to let the daughter go and finally allow her to live a genuinely happy life where someone will put her first for once.
@@crunchberrychaos I agree with you
Gets food offered to them, says no, food comes, gets angry for it being spicy because she wants it???
Welcome to life
She's definitely 5/5 assholes
Kitten Mimi 6/5 for the wife
Thanks rSlash
Kitten Mimi he I know you mean’t wife let’s make it a 7/5
The first OP should've said,"but I can change you" when the perv screamed "IM NOT GAY"
outcreeping the creep huh?
@@GaladorLP it's in my blood
*james Charles mode*
FESC sucko mode
Lmao
Tina ( not Tiana) says "passive-aggressive" like it's a BAD thing.
It usually is. That said, she seems to have found a valid use for it.
It’s common courtesy in the Midwest to be passive aggressive
For the food story, his wife never asks. She refuses when offered food, then eats it anyway. That’s a dick move and a party foul. If you want food, order some for yourself too.
DEFEND YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER, Well played good sir mirroring the creeper.
I think he was brilliant
It was fu*king hilarious.
ugh, that mother. i’m the only child of a single mum who, while she’s provided for me financially, has never showed up to an event on time if she came at all, which was rare. sometimes she’d even refuse to let me go to events that i’d been signed up for for MONTHS just because ?? she didn’t care to go and i was too young to go by myself ?? i specifically remember walking through town one day with her and bumping into classmates who were headed for one of these events and being asked about it, but she gave some half assed excuse. that ended up reflecting badly on me, i was viewed as unreliable and never got any big parts again because my part at that event was huge but i just ! couldn’t go i guess ! she’s shocked at how few friends i had, but not only did she not let me go to school events, she also didn’t let me go to any birthdays i was invited to.
i mean i participated in a national championship for a pretty violent and exhausting sport in my late teens and was promised by my mum that she’d come around with lunch for me and cheer me on. she didn’t show up and i was left playing this tournament for two days with no support or food to eat during, because obviously she didn’t give me money to buy anything either. i got a concussion during one of the games and had no one to take me home.
recently she forgot all three plans i’d made with her throughout a week. we were going to go to the movies on one day, a concert another, and shopping towards the end of the week. honestly, it’s made me want to never plan anything with her ever again because i just know i’ll be disappointed no matter what.
emotionally neglecting your child will absolutely make them want to distance themselves, and you’re absolutely an asshole for doing it, regardless of your reasoning. an extra care child is no excuse to ignore your other child.
Your mom is in fault cuz she had no other priorities, she had one child. This mother in the video had two kids, one of which was autistic. She had another priority.
@@slurpdeedeedee she absolutely did not have another priority in this specific instance, there was a trained professional there. she doesnt have an excuse for most every time either despite us not knowing the specific circumstances, if she said she was going to go there, she should have taken preparations FOR THE ONE THING that we know could stop her. after a few times, maybe she should stop being braindead and think "maybe i should get someone else to look after my child who is incredibly prone to outbursts that would instantly stop me from doing what i should be."
@@olivermccarthy456 She did get someone to look after her kid, but he was crying and was upset and wouldn't stop without her.
@@slurpdeedeedee And the TRAINED profesional could have done something about so she could go to her daughter event.
@@slurpdeedeedee So? That's what the trained professional was there for. Heaven help son when mom is gone, she's made him so dependent on her, he could literally pine away.
So. about the firefighter husband.
Never EVER mess with a man who is hungry, you will always end up being on the wrong side on this one.
The way I see it if their hand makes it to the food on my plate its gone😬👌, I'll even complain that 'their hand is raw and I demand they cook it properly! '
@@KnittingGirl28 Just like Gordon Ramsay would say: "It's fucking RAW!"
@@KnittingGirl28 *hand hovers over plate* "FINALLY! SOME GOOD FUCKIN FOOD!"
I mean, a little bit of an asshole for the whole "ME HANGRY CAVEMAN!" attitude, but he's TOTALLY justified by "protecting" his food by making it spicey. She didn't want any. He asked. She shouldn't complain that the pizza she didn't want was spicey.
Stealing someone's food is a sign of trying to be dominant. The pack leader divides the food.
She's trying to dominate the marriage, probably unconsciously, but goes about it the wrong way, since she's female.
Wise words from RSlash “Food can be given, never taken. That’s going too far.”
My father would consistently take food from my plate when I was growing up. He would only take things I liked as well, never vegetables or other, but steak, sausage, rice, fries, he'd always say I wasn't eating it. Funny how not eating vegetables never made him take those.
Nobody:
Slash: *PASSIONATE HUGGING*
😂😂🤣
The same with pregnancies
Everyone wants to touch the belly
Its NOT fun
Its NOT respectful
Its NOT polite
Then they seem hurt when the woman snaps
Edit:Thanks for all the likes xd
But what I said is the truth,like really? *RESPECT BOUNDARIES*
@@Feynix4 IKR
I hate it! I’m not and have never been pregnant, but when I am, if someone does, I’ll punch them right in the throat
@@whatokay_ if I'm ever pregnant,I'll touch them back,disrespectful people,I understand what their intentions are,but pregnant woman are still people. You wouldn't walk up to a random person and touch them randomly
But if their pregnant,wowee,they become things to touch and fondle
@@turtleinashirt xD
How about animals like cow
If I were the girlfriend in that first story, I wouldn't have kept "putting up with it," I would've pushed the guy out of the seat. If I were the boyfriend, I would've punched the guy, or at least said, "Excuse me, that's MY girlfriend!"
Seriously, why do we raise our girls to put up with this crap?
He didn't want to make a scene since it would blowback on her
Because they're raised more to care about the happiness of men than their own comfort. Just how patriarchal societies are unfortunately. We just have to try our best to make things better.
I totally understand the daughter that cut off her mom. My mom would always come up with reasons why she couldn't come. "Your mom had a migraine." "She worked late." "She needed to take a nap." "She's really tired." I know that mental illness is a lifelong battle, but that's so damaging for a developing child. She would always go out of her way for my sister, too. Adults know how to handle that kind of let down, but children don't have the coping mechanisms to deal with their parents essentially ignoring and abadoning them.
OMG the daughter of the absent mom posted this same story on r/entitled parents lmao
Edit: I think I got the subreddit for the daughters side of the story wrong, I think she posted it in r/amitheasshole, sorry for getting it wrong my dudes
claudia stump I thought I had heard this story before
Really?? Can you link me to the story/video?
@@NoizuWilhelm I don´t really remember what video it was but the people i watch that post reddit videos are rslash, cuestar, bumfris and sorrow tv, I remebered the story from what the mom said her daughter said to her when the mom didnt go to her award ceremony.
@@claudiastump3493 do you know part of the story of the girl? I mean, maybe the mother doesnt tell a lot and just tries to make herself look good idk
Most people repost their story on other subreddit when the one they posted is inappropriate for the subreddit or the original subreddit thinks that people from the other subreddit will get a kick from it.
I like Tina's idea, but if i was her i would also buy a T-Shirt that says "My name is TINA!" :D
What would be funny is to watch the faces of the people on the receiving end.
I would have just filed a complaint with HR. If it doesn't get fixed in a month, I would file a second complaint with HR and then inform them that the next complaint comes in the form of a lawsuit. And yes, I would take them to court.
reply who are you? every time you get your name wrong from someone start calling them (hey you) until they get it right.
Also add "Like ""Tina come get some ham""
You know what's sad about that second story. She expected everyone to be racists. Instead they are trying to relate and she still thinks they're still being sort of racists. I get they are getting her name wrong but if everyone says her name is Tiana it's kinda hard to fix but that happens. I have a buddy that everyone called the wrong name for 5 years. When he got his own office everyone was shocked because the plaque said "Aaron" and not Kevin. They called him the wrong name and he just embraced it because it didn't affect him. Then again he wasn't looking for a reason to be insulted. She may not be an asshole but she is an idiot.
the OP in the bar after the creepy guy said "I'M NOT GAY!" he should of said "but I can make you gay" and wink ;)
And at that moment he should have given the guy the the most sexually deprepraved look he can muster, like he's undressing him with his eyes and either lick or bite his lip. I'd bust out laughing if I saw that happen in this situation.
@@KnittingGirl28 Damn! Good job making my night the best! I've stayed up all night and I was mad and sad but now I'm just happy and can't stop laughing
@@dumasss1239 Glad my temporary sleeplessness made someone's night. Take it easy~😪
@@KnittingGirl28 and I'm glad of this ad on to the story 😂
Joe Exotic INTENSIFIES
I would understand the wife wanting to go to the guys funeral to support his family members grieving. That’s typically what they’re for, but that’s not the reason she gave so I understand the husband’s decision
Yeah honestly I would've went just because of that
It likely is the reason but when in an argument you sometimes don't think rationally about it.
The absent mother had every chance to go to the daughters things. BOTH my brothers have autism and pretty high on the spectrum.
My mom and dad went to everything I did and we always went out to eat afterwards. They still go to everything i do. My brothers dont usually go to my things because they dont like the noise.
That mom had every chance to go the daughter's things, and the fact she doesnt trust TRAINED PROFESSIONALS with her kid and stayed home, showed her priority for her daughters event wasnt that high to begin with.
Sorry I got mad. Since im the only child that doesnt have autism in my family i know how it works. I absolutely hate when people use it as an excuse.
Lexa Feig I don’t think she meant for all of what happened to happen though
High on the spectrum means high functioning. Meaning they're most costly incredibly smart but quirky. Low means tantrums
@@AngelOfMusic20 yeah. I studied this. If your high, that likely means you have Level One Autism, or means you likely have a higher than average IQ, smart and only need a little help. What the woman in the story was describing was Level Three, or meaning this kid has a lot of issues, low IQ, and like she said, nonverbal. I can see Why the woman did it, but it wasn't right.
How the mother acted is especially bad because most trainer professionals would recommend she leave because you shouldn't give in and catered to your kids since it will cause a lack of dependence and play into any separation anxiety.
It's the mothers fault she's had it coming for r a long time
Anyone else just hear "JOEY DOESN'T SHARE FOOD!!"
Maybe they should've watched.
LMAO THAT'S ALL I WAS THINKING ABOUT DURING THE STORY
Yes! Also Scrubs where Turk loses it because Carla takes one of his fries (hypocritical though since a few episodes later he's stealing steak off everyone's plates).
YESS! That's exactly what I screamed in my head 😂
Lmao I'm so glad I found your comment. Because yeeessss.
ME TOO THOUGH!!!! HONESTLY, FRIENDS HAS TAKEN OVER AT LEAST 50% OF MY BRAIN!
Tina's idea reminded me of the time I dealt with a similar situation that way: My first name is Dana, pronounced "Day-na". People regularly pronounce both "a's" the same (like the in word haha). This teacher, Mr. Jamison pronounced it correctly at first but actually started pronouncing it incorrectly soon after. So after politely correcting him a few times, I finally started called him Mr Jam-is-on as a fun joke to remind him. We laughed about it but after calling him that twice, he remembered. So even though mine was just a fun reminder, it definitely works!
14:00 is a tricky one because the wife has lost a family friend who she has probably known since a child, in a sudden and horrid accident. But then she is also on borrowed time since she cheated, anything following her cheating on her husband should kinda be without any speculation or threat of cheating or the guy that she had an affair with. She can’t expect to treat this man with respect and be mad upset without causing all kinds of emotional pain for her husband as he was forgiving enough to forget she ever shagged him. But he can’t expect her to not mourn the death of a lifetime friend
I think her old connection to her friend. Life is short, and it's great for us to have our heart to go to all people in love while we have the chance. But, any benefit in this connection is morally questionable, as well as vague. The husband's concern for their own marriage well being are not questionable or vague.
Whenever R/slash said they weren't a butthole, it reminded me of: "Random name, you are not the father!" Lol
Beethebee 3193 I think he needs a “butthole” icon that comes up for the rating part!
so. he gets demonetized again he used to do that but he got demontized
“In the case of the dead dickhead, u/F***thatdeadguy...you are NOT the butthole!”
Ezzeldin mohd he got demobilized for using fake buttholes? Lol. I was thinking more like the “pow!” type star emoji I can’t find now that I’m looking for it, or maybe peaches, not actual buttholes. No one wants to see that.
I was giving my nephew some relationship advice. I told him, "Always buy a little extra food from a restaurant or cook a little extra food for yourself because she will always want a sample, or part of it." That very night we went for Taco Bell(my wife had Arby's) and I ordered a couple of extra tacos. The Wife: "May I have a taco?" Me and my nephew looked at each other and laughed.
If you know they're going to want some, just get a little extra. It shows that you know them well and care about them. :)
holy shit someone gets it thought i was one of the only people commenting on this that understands that simple idea
I'm totally that wife. I always want to try my hubby's food, especially since I'm pregnant and always hungry
Is it just me or is actually way more satisfying to hear him tell someone they’re not the ahole?
Story 5: "Joey doesn't share food!" And I wholeheartedly agree with that, it just reminded me of that scene
That's a clever double meaning name you have there ;)
I love the last guy's username; perfect example of "username checks out"
I respect you, u/fuckthatdeadguy.
I love the name!! Now as far as his wife wanting to go to the funeral, tell her it's her choice but if she goes, don't bother coming back
probably because its a throwaway account? check the tina AITA too
That food robber when she tried the spicy pizza🤣
It's the equivalent of stealing a car and then complaining that the owner didn't fill it with gas
The wife's behavior in the last story almost makes me think she was still having an affair with him behind her husband's back and putting up a front the whole time. Maybe that's a little too crazy of a theory but she seemed awfully... desperate to go to that funeral, especially since she was doing it in spite of her husband's wishes
Going out for coffee is a good first date.
Not every black women likes Beyoncé. And it’s very rude to constantly get someone’s name wrong on purpose.
I'm from Seattle, and lemme tell ya, that shit is SO common there.
And what if it's not on purpose?
Could be the coworkers are so concerned about appearing racist, they're so "woke," that they second guess themselves when they see or remember her name is Tina. They might say to themselves, "No, that's some colonialism thinking, she wouldn't be named Tina, it must be Tiana. Yeah, I know I've heard that as a black woman's name before."
Koda Hansen lol thats a bit of a reach around but i see where youre coming from. think its weird that even tho shes like “my names tina” they just keep calling her the wrong name.
yeah, whenever someone mispronunces or call me the wrong name i call them by the wrong name, but I use a really, really wrong opposite gender name to drive it home.
I love the way rslash said "except I'm not fine, I'm hungry" that was an amazing part and made me smile
Dear first guy: you’re not a butthole just because your girlfriend is willing to set herself on fire to keep others warm
I would be so grateful to my boyfriend for doing this. I wouldn't be able to, way too anxious. And he didn't even cause a scene doing it. That's the perfect response
This is an unfortunate reality for women, though. They are subject to keeping quiet in lieu of placating men that would ruin their situation via their own favoritism.
What CG said is right. Many women feel they have to put up with good, because if we report our co-workers, WE tend to get in trouble, not our harassers. It's an unfortunate reality for us, and I think the girlfriend was worried about her job.
Dezeray Hope wait you’d be thankful for your boyfriend giving a restaurant your information so you have to pay the price??
@@ExpertCobra-tn1vt She's talking about the first story about the male coworker harassing his girlfriend who then jumps up and screams "I'M NOT GAY" because the boyfriend was doing exactly what he was doing to his girlfriend.
“IM NOT GAY!!!!”
“That’s okay only one of us needs to be for it to work Mr.Creep.” 😉
He’ll never bother your gf after that sentence.
With that parent story, Its one of the reasons I make sure I tell my parents they don't have to come so they can never disappoint me so I'll never get mad at them.
The food thing:
I understand tasting a bite here or there to see if you wanted to determine if you want to make your own plate. My husband and I do that to each other, but not EVERY TIME!
Closet Gamer ikr!!!
Yeah, like I always take one my Hubby's fries, but literally just ONE because I have to watch my sodium. I asked him, and he said he's fine with it. Other times I might try his food is he gets something new, but I always actually wait until he is pretty much done (he doesn't generally finish all his food anyway!).
HOW DARE YOU GET THE FOOD TO YOUR PREFERENCE EVEN THOUGH I SAID I DIDN'T WANT IT
Hey, Tina! A supervisor always called me “Pat” when I went by my full first name. Day off… call at 4:30am… supervisor asks for “Pat”… in my stupor I say “Pat doesn’t live here!” and I unplug the phone!! 🤣🤣🤣
2nd story was a victim of a "foodie call".
Women who agree to go on dates with men for free food without expecting a relationship or even meeting the person again.
Why did you take down stories about kevin? I still watched it tho
Same lol
cuz the error at 6:30 the middle was cut out
Carl The Cupcake someone named Kevin prob claimed it for privacy lol
Cause of rendering issues ^^;
Noticed a couple of editing issues, might not have meant to send out this soon.
I loved the way you said "Except I'm not fine, I'm hungry"
It threw me off, It's great.
If your girl says "I could've just kept putting up with it" after you get her creep/harrasser to leave her alone, y'all need to have a talk...
About the first story, said outloud: "It would have been a powerplay if he started doing the exact same thing to this asshole." *OP does the thing.* Me: *Insert Proud, Nodding Ron Swainson meme.*
7:06 I swear I've seen the daughter's side of the story on Reddit
Ms Multifandom where? Add a link?
Ye if you find it again can u add link or add which r/ you found it under
I saw that one too
I thought the same damn thing! But it was a sister who had autism not a brother
It just isn't that uncommon of a story tbh. It's too typical for siblings of special needs children to be overlooked and have to manage on their own. Parents doesn't do this to be mean but they get so wrapped up in the special needs child that they just let the "easy" child handle what it needs to handle on it's own because they just "have" to spend their focus on the special child. If they aren't aware of their behavior towards the "healthy" children it will become a really sore topic over the years of feeling unloved, unsupported and a childhood filled with disappointment, especially if there are only two children. I'm not surprised you've seen this story before.
I love how real and frustrated rSlash sounds when he says 'Except I'm not fine, I'm hungry.'
12:40 NTA, You’re a man, You’re aggressive, You’re scary, You’re hungry, She is acting like a mother who says “I fed you for 20 years”
You’re just proving that actions speak louder than words
OP: *Eating french fries*
Person: *Reaches out towards OP's fries*
OP: *Pulls out knife* Do you want my fries?
Person: O_O
Joey doesn't share food!!!!
There are several sacred things in this world that you don't ever mess with. One of them happens to be another man's fries. Now you remember that, and you will live a long and healthy life.
Lol, I'd do the same. I don't know where you rank hands have been, but they sure as heck ain't touching MY fries.
I've had this happen. Except they took my WHOLE meal. Like all of my food. My mom had to get me more food 5 times and the check was $120
@@justarandomdudewithnoskill5170 120?! 5 times?! Who the heck were you eating with?
Tina just needs to make everyone call her Christina.. And if they screw that up, ignore them until they call you by your correct name..
Story #1 Genius!
Story #2 Bartender Is The Best. I hope you tipped him
Yes
Just imagining Tina’s plan in action makes me chuckle. Very witty.
RSLASH is like the Maury Show
You’re... NOT THE BUTTHOLE
My sister gives me crap for being the same as that one husband/ OP when I complain About her eating my food, I have enough food for me not for her too.
With the cheated husband... it's iffy.
Funerals aren't so much for the dead as they are for the living. Now admittedly the wife said she was going to 'pay her respects', which to him sounds like caring for the guy she had an affair with.
But if his mother in law told them, that means the family's somewhat connected to the guy's family, and it's just courtesy to go and support those dealing with the loss.
That being said, the fact the wife did make it about respecting the guy, makes it dicey.
Though the guy IS dead, he can't take his wife away from him again, and the fact she's done her best to rectify her past actions is telling she wants to be with cheated husband. However, there were obviously something there, there's no threat to him anymore, and it's just his wife taking the last opportunity to say goodbye to the guy. She cut off communications with him in life.
Overall it's a sucky situation, and I can get the guy feeling uncomfortable, but I dunno. It's really disrespectful to forbid someone from going to a funeral. Especially when he should consider it a victory, he can be glad the guy's gone, he tells his wife he's not thrilled about it, but if he let her go, what does he lose?
Yes it implies she still holds a sliver of care for the guy, but he's DEAD. And his wife has again done everything she can to make up for her acting on her feelings. She told him what happened (didn't hide it), cut out the guy she cheated on him with (prioritized him the wronged husband) made amends (recognized SHE did wrong and set out to try and correct it), now had he been the bigger man and just let her go to the funeral. Whether it be for the guy, or for the guy's family, he'd be seen as the greatest husband instead of kind of sad.
Yes he was very very hurt, but his wife shouldn't have to be forced to make up for it every day of her life. She TOLD him what happened, they worked it out like adults and decided to stay together.
She was saying the final goodbye to this guy and the husband decided he needed to dredge all this up and say no.
So he's kind of the butthole in this regards actually. If this was such a painful thing for him that it's going to color his relationship with her, and is making him unhappy, maybe he should give serious thought to divorce.
It sounds to me like his wife has done everything she can to make up for her mistake, and if her wanting to say a final GOODBYE to the guy is enough to make him feel inferior. Then maybe he needs to leave her. Or he needs to recognize that holding onto that is doing him no good. He's letting it control him and it's made him be a butthole.
Seriously is he expecting her going and saying farewell to this guy is going to suddenly make her feel all her emotions again and she's going to chain herself to the grave or run off with the dead guy in efforts to revive him 'a la Frankenstein's monster?' It'd be funny and sad if she did, but it's doubtful.
No your'e missing the point. Why tf would he want her to go to funeral for a guy she cheated with? How is that anyway respectful to him or theyre marraige? Yea he is dead and no she doensnt have to make it up to him everyday but going to that funeral makes 0 sense for someone who u "cut" out of your life. Shes not considering how that would make her husband feel...hell she alreaded cheated on him with this guy now she at her funeral that doesnt seem right. Honestly she has shown very little respect for him or their marraige and I would honestly feel some type of way too.
Lugialuvr I agree with you
As much as I agree with this statement, SD was also married with children. If they knew about the affair her showing up might stir up drama and make that funeral a shit show.
To him, it likely is confirmation that she never truly let go.
Because let's be honest here: She likely didn't.
For all he knows, she'd actually kept cheating on him with this guy, just... in secret.
As someone that doesn't give an actual F if my partner has physical relations with someone else, I understand the real issue here.
It's not that she cheated on him. It's that she still loved him. And this is basically confirmation of that.
If my wife hired a male hooker, I wouldn't care, because all it means is she wanted a good passionate hugging.
If my wife went on a non-physical date with someone from her past, I'd care.
Just because someone died, doesn't mean your emotional connection to them is gone.
NOTHING can remove that, other than yourself.
There's certain people out there that, if they showed genuine interest, I'd immediately drop my entire life to be with them. This is likely true of just about everyone. And on a base level, pretty much everyone knows this is true of their loved ones. And... you can't even always fault them. Some people ARE a better match than you, no matter what. If my GF/Wife had a genuine shot with someone like Keanu Reeves, I'd just straight up say "take it.". I'd be sad, but there's honestly no faulting that desire.
If your wife wanted to go to her ex-husband's funeral, you'd consider that a bit of an issue, wouldn't you? Even if you let her go, it's a constant reminder that you were choice #2. Particularly if you were in her life back when she was married to him.
It might be "selfish", but I could never blame someone for not wanting someone to do something like that. Because no matter how understandable it is, it still hurts you. Sometimes a LOT.
And honestly, if the wife doesn't understand that it hurts you? That's just even more telling. It's basically confirmation and proof that you were never #1 in her mind. ...which, a lot of the mentioned behavior, kind of hints at. To me, trying to "make up" for it for THAT long, kind of tells me "she never stopped caring about the guy, and this is all some attempt to convince HERSELF that she cares more about me, but she actually doesn't.".
Which pretty much just results in this singular point: People need to simply learn to be honest. Both with themselves, and with others. It never helps to lie to people about things that have that large of an impact on someone's life... particularly yourself. And yes, I'm speaking from experience here. My parents really haven't ever actually loved each other. But they're both too afraid of the consequences of separating to ever leave. They've basically been miserable their entire lives. And that's exactly the kind of behavior and feelings I get from the wife in that story. She didn't want to leave, because of what everyone would think of her, but she was never truly, truly happy. She wanted their kid, and potentially even their extended family, friends, etc. to all have a "normal" family relationship. But she never actually moved on, and always regretted not being with that guy.
So yes, it's understandable. Both sides are, actually. She wants to go to the funeral not to "say goodbye to a family friend", but to lament and say goodbye to a life that never was.
He likely realizes this, at least on some level, and hates it. Because really... who wouldn't? If your wife wanted to go to the funeral of the guy that always said no, that was never in her life past college... it would hurt you, wouldn't it? To be that utterly made aware of the fact you were always choice #2?
I agree
10:00 I couldn't agree less, sure maybe 2/5 but not completely she just cut OP out of her entire life
That you say “hugged” makes the story SO funny.
A special kind of hug...
Joe Mama, I know...
Dude, i still enjoying the love story between Sam and Kevina!
Hans Bloodsmith the plot twist in that story was insane
He used a comma so he got a heart
Whats the name of the video? This keeps popping up and y'know it sounds interesting.
@@rubireynoso1273 It's a R/Kevin stories if I'm not wrong, about how stupid a person (aka Kevin) can be. I think he posted it but then deleted it after few minutes because there some mistakes in it, idk, read the pinned comment for more information
Re: mother/daughter incident. It reminds me of the teenager who is told to stay home instead of going to Prom because it is her job to babysit her STEP-sister. parents are doing their best most of the time, but need to remember and respect that they have n more than one child. Getting an academic award Is a Big Deal. I happens once if ever. A monthly dance recital is not as critical, but I understand how a young child would be upset if no one was in the audience for her. Both Mom-and daughter need to pick their battles.
I grew up as the oldest of 3 kids & I spent most of my childhood babysitting said other 2 kids long before I would have been legally allowed to do so. My father was a farmer & my mom helped from spring to fall.
When I found out I was pregnant with my second daughter, I knew that it wouldn't be the same for my oldest daughter. Her stepfather & I decided to have a baby. She did not. In all my youngest's childhood, my oldest only ever watched her twice, for less than 2 hours both times until the sitter could get there, in emergency situations. I just don't think it's right to make one or more children give up their childhoods because of choices the parent(s) made.
Idk it's kind of the reason why the Duggars piss me off. I don't care that they are uber religious & believe weird things that I do not. I do care that they kept pumping out babies & expecting their oldest kids to be pseudo-parents since it's impossible to successfully parent that many children as one person (while the father is at work). I just find it disgusting when parents put their choices on one or more of their kids tbh.
The one about the mom who doesn’t attend her daughters events, I felt that except with my grandmother. I don’t consider us to have a very good relationship for that and other reasons and she wonders why! 🙄
I would straight knock the Jaw off the dude trying to put his hands on my girl
damn straight man
I'd do the same as op for friends or family but make it work to my advantage by acting like a total slob the whole time. If its family ill act as if they are basically my parent or sibiling. For a friend basically act as if I've already got the person he's hitting on as my partner (I actually do this a bit with my roommate on accident and purpose sometimes), if he dislikes being hit on by a gay so much he leaves then acting as if his Target is lesbian should make him lose interest.
Deadass the girlfriend is mad weird letting that happen and then getting her ass saved AND THEN WHINING hoes mad
“IM NOT GAY”
“Well my girlfriend isn’t interested in you”
Imagine your wife calling you sh---- because she doesn't like YOUR food that you bought with your OWN MONEY
OP: Hey Babe want a pizza?
Wife: I'm good thanks for asking
OP: *gets pizza from delivery guy*
Wife: *eats one sneakily*
10sec later
Wife: Why did you order spicy pizza?
OP: Cause I cannot stand you eating all of my food
Wife: A--hole
Theyre both aholes, the wife should respect his food choice for himself, also if youre toghether you adapt to eachother, if she keeps stealing your food, order more instead of bitching. Be part of the solution, not the problem
@@TheEvanovitch Or maybe she should be honest about wanting food in the first damn place
@@TheEvanovitch Yea how about she open her damn mouth and tell him she wants some food instead of constanly taking his, she an adult not a child and need to stop acting childish about food he ordered for him. Also he ASKED did she want any food whuch she said no so kill that bullshit
@@jamarjoyner9365 calm down, i didnt say she wasnt the butthole, i said they both were. I dont think hes wrong in principle, i think hes wrong in execution. If it truly is that much of an issue, order more, seriously its not that hard. If you know shes gonna take some of your food every time, anticipate it instead of bitching about it.
@@TheEvanovitch While I thought the same at first, really, all that does is encourage bad behavior. When bad behavior is encouraged it usually gets worse, so no, never "adapt" to bad behavior.
I felt the one with the daughter. My mom missed so many of my events when I was young bc she was going to college. If my older sister couldn’t sneak out of high school to go. I would be alone, and I was an honor student, so it stung, she was also emotionally abusive be I “was just like my damn dad” :(
tell her she's just like your dad
That first story was actually pretty damn clever. Bottoms up, bro. You've earned it.
Nope. Some girls won't put up strong boundaries and they all need to learn how to. The first guy was brilliant
And it's not the girls fault but it can come back to bite them.
By “learn how to” you mean AGAIN test that (totally new and never previously conceived of in her mind before an oh so great teacher came along) boundaries “plan” and roll the dice on extreme to violent to the pettiest and most long-lasting reactions/punishments to challenging male entitlement that day.
Maybe they learned that gambling with inappropriate mens egos gets them hurt more than any benefit to their comfort would be worth. Sad but true. It only proves that women can’t solve this problem alone by “learning” things about how to deal with aggressive/abusive men. It’s too broad a problem for your simple “learn this one great trick” logic, because life isn’t like that and women shouldn’t have to gamble those consequences vs continually enduring shit.
My god don’t victim blame. Let the men keep there fucking dicks in their pants
@@messiahofthefirst.3415 "dont say women should learn how to put up strong boundaries so the few men that dont keep their dicks in their pants despite being taught to and it being morally wrong to will be stopped by their prey, that would be terrible!" theres always going to be corrupt people, this is just life. why not put up an extra barrier? i completely agree with you to an extent but we cant be 100% reliant on that strategy because some people just dont fucking care. he didnt victim blame. he didnt shift any of the blame to her. all he said was "some girls won't put up strong boundaries and they all need to learn how to". they do. and so do all men. and literally everyone. strong boundaries are important.
@@olivermccarthy456 theres a difference between "boundaries" and strong boundaries. I'm sick that it has come to this, and don't try to fool me with "men needa do it to blah blah blah". tf they needa put boundaries up for? Anyways, have a lovely day/night!
Oof, that mother/daughter one hits me hard. When one sibling requires so much extra attention than the other "non-diagnosed" sibling, it's so easy to let the latter sibling fall to the wayside. It's not fair, even if the diagnosed sibling can't help the attention he/she needs, and it does end up breeding resentment. Can't blame the daughter, here.
Tina’s story reminds me of when I worked at a cafeteria in college. Noemi was a coworker of mine whose name I forgot once. From then on, she would deliberately call me Mark when addressing me (nothing at all like my actual name). I decided to give her a taste of her own medicine, and settled on calling her “Mindy”. After a while I realized that I probably picked that because of “Moro and Mindy”, which for you youngsters was a TV show from the ‘70s where Robin Williams’ catch phrase was “nanu nanu”. After I’d made that realization, I had to make an effort to not say “nanu nanu” whenever I saw Noemi.
I did not always succeed in that effort.
Rustedcornhole didn’t dodge a bullet
*HE MATRIXED THE BULLET*
With the absentee mom, it sounds like the son is dangerous when he has a meltdown, as an adult. I understand both sides, and would say ESH.
If he is though he really should have a trained carer, what if he hurts his mum? Shes not trained to deal with that situation
I dont think the daughter is wrong. Not having a parent at an event for another sibling hurts. Dealing with that for years I would cut them off just to not feel that pain. The mom should have been more present in her daughter's life. I can understand sometimes but it was years.
How does the daughter suck tho?.
6:04 I was thinking Tina from bobs burgers the whole story
I feel Tina's pain. Whenever tries to say my first name, they say it in every way possible except for how it actually is. IT IS SAID AS IT IS SPELLED, DEBRA! NO NEED FOR YOU TO GO THROUGH FIFTY DIFFERENT VARIATIONS AND NOT GET IT RIGHT!
So sexually harassing =4/5 but wanting to go to a funeral =5/5
I really like R/Slash but sometimes his views on women when they make mistakes is pretty severe.
The Cinema Pot ya he obviously has issues with women, cue is better anyway
I don't think he meant anything by it, but if you continue to dislike him just unsubscribe and block the Channel
Yea.. first dude was easy around 6/5
Wow sexually harassing? Are you all idiots? Going to a funeral? Its not going to a funeral is what it represents. There is no excuse for cheating in a marriage, and then disrespecting your significant other.... I guess thats why most people don't agree with your logic, and the fact that you are making it a "women" issue, without any evedence, shows that the one with a bias is you.
"JOEY DOESN'T SHARE FOOD!"
I reckon the blokes gf in the first one was silly for saying he took it too far
It's kind of annoying how the first girls work mates were like "yeah that guy's a creep" but didn't say anything when he kept touching her
I can’t decide on the absent mom, on one hand, she has a highly autistic kid, but on the other, she shunned her other daughter’s entire childhood. So...
I think they called the black woman "Tiana" because of "The Princess and the Frog." I once said a black classmate of mine looked like Princess Tiana and she got offended, though she calmed down when I explained it was because she was, in that moment, wearing a green ballgown for our play that looked a lot like Tiana's dress in the movie.
But you know, there's honest mistakes (which in my case happened ONCE and I take accountability for it), and then there's repeating your mistakes after being corrected. Those people in the office were just being jerks.
11:30-11:37 Literally a summary of my personality.
1:51 wow he should of yelled "AND SHES NOT SINGLE"