The Fatherless Crisis In America
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- America has the highest rate of children living in single-parent households. Homelessness, suicide, and people with behavioral disorders are all linked to fatherless homes. In today’s video, Patrick Bet-David talks about the fatherless crisis in America and the consequences in society.
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I've worked in a maximum security prison for over 20 years, and the number of inmates who were raised by single moms or their grandmother alone is staggering. PBD's words ring so true.
I think its something like 75% same thing with male addicts, Alchoholics as well.
I’ve heard this from EVERY SINGLE corrections officer I’ve met.
Funny how the single parents in other countries don't raise felons. Thanks for the 2 cents Einstein.
@@amsterdamcowboy9738 Which countries, specifically?
@@amsterdamcowboy9738, of course not! The alpha male leadership role has already been made extinct in such feminized nations, which further fuels the feminization efforts. Only one problem, when the whole nation is feminized, you need us to come bleed and die to rescue you from the criminal types that your effeminate utopia has invited to take over the whole limp lot of you…Marx, Lenin, Stalin, Mussolini, Hitler, Ceausescu, Franco, etc.
Turns out, Jesus was right again of course, when He said “…we aren’t wrestling with flesh and blood, but evil spiritual powers and principalities in heavenly places…” As many have said since those words were spoken but ignored: “The only thing required for evil to triumph is for good MEN to do nothing.”
Keyword: “men,” raised with and by men who embrace all the God-given roles of fathers, husbands, sons, daughters, wives and mothers…rather than dictate against any of them as feminism does. This is Satan’s greatest strategy and it started on day one with Eve and will continue until the Whore of Babylon is thrown into the lake of fire by the returning King of kings who will restore the blessing and prosperity of godly obedience to the Law of the Covenant by following it as the ruler of the Earth, and enforcing Torah with a rod of iron (without wavering, as He commanded us to continue to do in Matthew5:17-19, 7:21-23 and 25:1-12 and defined in Rev14:12, etc…).
…as if there are no criminals in Europe and “other countries”-pffft
You can ignore reality but you cannot ignore the consequences that comes from ignoring reality
Truth in its purest sense 🔥🔥🔥
Preach!
This sounds like something Tom Sowell would say 👍🏿
Deep
my dude!
I grew up in a fatherless home. I never knew my father. I grew up in an orphanage without any family, family means so much to me now as a father and husband. It’s very important that a child has a mom and a dad ❤️ GOD bless all the orphans
I know so many orphans that are so much more well-adjusted then people with parents that’s sad
Thank you for being strong. Children will do better emotionally when they have both parents in their life.
You mentioned God, so I expected a crazy atheist to foam at the mouth. Guess they're hiding right now.
You know most people who grow up in orphanage homes or people who are orphans are more likely to be criminals go to prison do drugs abuse their own family be violent and steal. Trust I’ve heard story of kids in orphanage homes in schools they’re bad inside the orphanage they smoke fight bother people there are even juveniles who live in orphanages.
Feminists and socialists have been doing their best to destroy the man and family structure. We must destroy them instead to save our society and civilization.
Single father of 2 here. I've had full custody of both my boys for 5+ years. Their mother was in prison for 3 years and was released in May of 2022. I was hoping she would make efforts to be in our kids lives and she did and it was great to see. They were happy to see her again. That hope was cut short when she overdosed and died in August 2022. Fentanyl was the culprit. RIP Lauren. I will sacrifice all for my kids. There are good fathers out there.
You're great dad, Godbless you.
Stay strong my man. I almost self-deleted and I'm glad I didn't. You are better off than I am. My kids used to love me,until she separated us and brainwashed them.
Hey i’d like to interview you… to get your story
Salute to you 👏
@@ShinkuGouki Use sorcery to take you children back. If you won’t use sorcery, you deserve what’s coming to you. Avoid westernised women.
My dad was tough on me and I despised him at times but when I grew older I really appreciated it some of the lessons he taught me. Our relationship is better than ever
My dad was tough on me too, and I cut him out of my life! Stop having Stockholm syndrome for your abusive parents.
@@queenterraofarchrist344 men and women reacts to these things differently. Obviously your feelings towards your father are valid, but my life was prepared because because my father taught me how it is to be a man. He’s my best friend now and we can talk about anything. He’s helped me through trauma and we’ve talked about how he raised me and he had regrets. But he wanted me to be prepared for how cruel the world is for men out there.
Same here now been a parent myself realized the hard choices he had to make...
Asian have this thing called tiger parents and that's applied to both.
I cried because I am unable to get into my favorite university.
"You've done your best" That's feel like world to me at that time, I expect them to be mad at me and lecture me for like 3 hours and nagging but it turn out different.
@@gkagara that's the wierd thing about Asians who come to the west. They want their daughters to have a bunch of kids but at the same time want them to uphold the male standards of elite academic achievement and work.
My father was barely present due to work demands and then split from my mother when I was 8. My parents were both never around after that. I would not have succeeded in life had it not been for 4 adult men who stepped up at various points to be a father figure to me. A big shout out to all those adult men who are spending time mentoring and teaching struggling boys. You make a huge difference.
Men can’t do that now ‘cause they’d be considered a pedo.
@@miamitten1123 lol well that depends on the nature of the relationship. In my case it was a teacher who helped me land my first job, my scout leader who taught me responsibility, my band manager who taught me loyalty, and my band teacher who taught me discipline. There a lot of ways adult men can mentor that would not be considered “pedo” lol.
I understand and went thru something similar, a real man will raise boys that aren't his own and never even question it, I look forward to being able to help my sons lost friends later in life like many men did for me
@@darinlagarry3091 so true and today us men are labeled as toxic masculinity.
Thank you for sharing.
I swear to be the best father I can be to my son. And the best husband I can be to my wife.
Just became a father last week. The world needs more strong fathers.
Congratulations!
Congratulations on being a father, you're definitely on the right track.
Father's create structure and instill a sense of self, confidence and identity in their children. This is why they are so so important in a child's life.
For the father's that never give up on your kids when you are being chased off. I salute you. 👑👑👑
The WOKE pushed single families, no-fault divorce, abortion and other anti-family policies. The WOKE universities, who set the standards for education, social sciences, journalism, etc.are pleased with the results. Woke destroys everything it touches.
I had the world's greatest father🙌 unfortunately my narc mom did a great job tearing down the family along with her narc friends in the Democrat party.
Men, if you can leave your mom's alone and enjoy your life. Modern wahmen feel life is supposed to revolve around them.
By this video alone, we know wahmen don't know how to raise strong happy healthy children. They Ditch the fathers because they want all of YOUR attention to themselves.
It's not fair that they are being chased off in the first place, absolute devilry imo. These women have gone from being a net positive for the kids AND the husband to being in competition with the husband and making his life harder.
It's not about the males...the FACTS are that modern feminism has pushed father's out of the homes‼️ told women there's always another man when you leave, that your kids don't need the dad around bc she's got it by herself, and she will break up a home bc he fk another girl he don't love and won't leave his family for 😒 kids come before your feelings
✊🏾
I grew up in a home with an adultering father who ran up credit card bills in my mom's name then moved to Alaska. We ate out of trash cans. No child support for years. It's because of my mom that I made it and am the man I am today. She taught me to sacrifice. Btw she earned a master's degree while teaching french and comparative literature at University of California Irvine while raising two boys by herself. Thank you and R.I.P. Mom!
You had a good mom not everyone has that in a single parent home
Well done so proud of you and kudos to mum
Outliers are not the norm. Good for her, we're talking about the general.
You still can't deny these facts!
You were very lucky. My father was a demon
I was a fatherless child, growing up without my father really hurt and I felt the effects even though I didn’t know what they were. I made a promise to myself that if and when I have children I’m going to be there and I have kept that promise. Cheers 🍻 to all of the real fathers out there that out their families over everything.
USA has no incentive to keep families together. Broken people are easier to control
Blessed
Alhamdulillah for Islam.☝💚
*“From among the portents of the Hour are (the following)…the drinking of alcoholic drinks will be very common, and (open) illegal sexual intercourse will prevail…”*
(Bukhari Volume 1 Hadith 80)
Also
*“The Last Hour will not be established until they (wicked people) commit adultery on the roads (public ways).”*
(Ibn Hibban and Bazzar)
And
*“The Hour will come when adultery becomes widespread.”*
(Al-Haythami, Kitab al-Fitan)
Well literally no one can dispute this. Alcohol is basically widespread and consumed by majority of people. Alcohol is glorified in the media, tv shows, music, social media etc. The exact same thing can be said about open sexual intercourse. With pornography being rampant in today’s culture it has led to the current state that we are all in.
However the statistics for this are shocking. About 41% of couples (one or both) have admitted to committing infidelity. This is for sure a clear cut prophecy coming true.
Furthermore there is more to this.
The Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم said:
*“O Muhajirun, (emigrants from Makkah to al-Madinah) you may be afflicted by five things; God forbid that you should live to see them… if fornication should become widespread, you should realise that this has never happened without new diseases befalling the people which their forebears never suffered.”*
[Sunan Ibn Majah, Vol. 5, pg. 222-223, Hadith #4019]
The key word is “diseases”. How scary is it that STDs such as HIV and AIDS are rampant due to sex outside of marriage. STDs are already rampant because more than half of all people will have an STD/STI at some point in their lifetime.
It is so rampant to the point where we have STD clinics and campaigns about safe sex. Such diseases never existed in ancient times and in today’s world it is a normal occurrence.
*“There will be an abundance of illegitimate children.”*
(Al-Muttaqi Al-Hindi, Muntakhab Kanzul Ummaal)
This is a massive prophecy and is happening right here and right now. Right now if you compare a country like USA they have statistic which show that even in 2012 that 40.7% of children are born out-of-wedlock
So the numbers are ridiculous and this is a huge modern phenomena. This is a clear cut prophecy coming true.
Also
*“Divorces will be a daily occurrence.”*
(Allamah Safarini, Ahwal Yaum al-Qiyamah)
Well to be frank divorces are already like this in this day and age. People take divorces as a normal occurrence but we can let the stats speak for themselves. 41 percent of first marriages end in divorce. In America, there is one divorce approximately every 36 seconds. That’s nearly 2,400 divorces per day, 16,800 divorces per week and 876,000 divorces a year
The media has normalised divorces and now we talk about divorce like it’s nothing. But in actual fact the daily occurrence of divorces is a prophecy by Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم
@Moddafkr yeah. But this sick society don’t care about race anymore.
@@blackpanthar906 sad but true
I grew up in a Fatherless home. My dad was a press photographer and got leukaemia, he passed away when I was 7. I grew up with a gnawing sense of insecurity. I survived Fatherlessness against the odds. True mentors are rare. Thanks Pat, I value this tainment! Good content! I would like to write a book on the subject of Fatherlessness from my first hand experience. I give major credit to my dear mother who raised 2 boys on a teacher's salary.
The gnawing insecurity is no joke I’m trying like hell but damn that void is hard to fill as a man.
@@doctormudbone4432 Look up to men that you admire and build up the traits that you look up to in those men. As hard as it may be, that void can be overcome, not by filling it, but by carrying it as a reminder to do better and by changing the course of the legacy that your father left for you.
I wish you strength and willpower to overcome whatever insecurities your weak father passed on to you.
All the best to you!
@@MasteryOrderI appreciate your comment bro but to add context he wasn’t weak he didn’t walk out on my life he just unfortunately passed away when I was like 12.
@@doctormudbone4432 My apologies then for misinterpreting the situation.
I hope that you can find ways to overcome the missing mentor in your life and if you had a good relationship with him when he was alive, carry that in your memory and allow it to push you in challenging times.
All the best to you!
Sorry for your loss but having your father die...is different than being abandoned. Your father didn't choose to leave you....
Damn Pat, bringing me to tears over here. My dad came to the US with nothing, not knowing the language, not knowing anything in life except work hard. He perfected speaking English, and mastered Refrigeration as his skill set. He does amazingly well for himself as an engineer. While he was striving towards his goals, he had 3 kids to raise alongside my mother. Growing up, he wouldn't miss a day when I had a field trip, a little league game, basketball games in high school. He had always pushed me really hard, and the results are interesting. At 26 now, I went through the cycle most people go through with their parents: you idolize as a kid, demonize as a teenager, and then apologize as an adult because you finally have enough know how to understand the lessons that were being taught. I'm now an engineer as well like my father, but I'm going further by taking the teachings you've taught through valuetainment, and applying them in two companies I'm trying to get off the ground. He's proud that I'm moving to take the family torch even further. I wouldn't have achieved what I've achieved, if it wasn't for him being there...
Too many young men and women are pressured into becoming parents by society when they are not ideal to be parents. If we look at it obkecticily the world is very screwed up as we have 100s of millions of highly irresponsible, selfish and even destructive people have children. Ideally people should consider Tubal Ligation when they turn 13 years old and then reverse it only when they feel really ready. At a minimum all girls should be put on daily birth control pills starting at 13 years old.
Love this comment. What a great dad.
A beautiful story! And such an unusual, lovely name! I have two engineer daughters and the third is STEM educated and work. Fathers matter.
But why wasn’t you this productive in your homeland?
@@landman1673
No one will ever know that, its like questioning what if gravity didnt exist what would the world be like? it didnt happen so no point in even wondering it as its pointless.
I presume your trolling so whatever but why be a prick to someone who done well, i mean immigration is a topic to be argued about and fair enough but if you go somewhere and welcomed and work hard and give back whats the problem?
I grew up in a fatherless home and envied friends who had their fathers at home. When they would complain about their fathers being strict by setting curfews, requiring to know where they were going, setting chores, giving discipline, etc., I would tell them how lucky they were. It showed that their fathers cared about their safety, success and wellbeing. Now that we are in our 30's, I hope they are appreciative of their fathers.
@VALUETAINMENTMEDIA. scam
There is a common phrase in my Community that the Women love saying its Men aint Sh.t Idont need no Man now we see the results
if ur father stayed he would've been a bad person but since he doesn't then he doesn't get blamed. instead u glorified fathers. that's crazy
@@jeromeisaacs4428 or man say that we can't resist girls half of our age
Hence we must abandon family for enjoyment
American men don't have good repo in my country in terms of long relationship partner
People don't prefer them .
@Tami* man wtf I’m sorry dear . That’s really messed up.
It's true. My son, who lost his father as an infant, would spend a day fishing with his grandfather and would come back good as gold and behave well at home and school. I asked my dad what he'd say to him, and he said nothing special, they just fished. This rang true b/c Dad was easy going and never raised his voice. My son would say, "Grandad is cool, I want to be like him." Every boy needs a good male role model.
No. Not a male role model. Their father.
@@TILLEYJS AGREED! I Just told my husband that. I don’t think this lady meant it that way, because her sons dad passed away. But kids NEED THEIR FATHER EVERY SINGLE DAY! NOT every other weekend. SONS ESPECIALLY NEED THIER dads EVERY SINGLE DAY!
🙂✌🏾❤ I can testify to that I was raised by a single women but learned how to be a man from my grandfather
@@sararlgarrett That's bs. If the father makes his present significant, even if it is one day a week ,it can be insanely influential for the children. The notion that fathers need to slave away in their houses is bs. The fathers need to make the bangs in the child's life. Strong impressions and strong experiences. This can even be done if the father is once a month present.
Indians are surely blessed, I'm a 24 years old girl and I know if the world goes against me,I'll still be okay because I have my dad. He is my teacher, mentor, permanent support system, I could not ask for anything else . A dad is the cool shade of a tree under the scorching sun, everyone deserves the love of a father.
Not all Indians are blessed like you. For me Dad is a horrible person. He is like my worst enemy. Now he want to kick me out of the house along with mum.
Some Indian fathers sell their young daughters to be young brides.
America should listen to you
@@ZeroOne130you need to forgive ur mom for turning u away from him, watch Jesse lee Peterson and u will understand
Fathers really are the backbone of a functioning society
Edit: Present fathers*
Yes but also mother’s. This is basically you saying no equality…God created Adam a wife to help him do his GOD TASK! If god didnt think adam needed help he wouldn’t have made EVE. In the eyes of GOD THERE IS EQUALITY
@@blackpanthar906
That's pretty powerful bruv.
@@ayuanabradford3206 wrong, Adam was lonely so they made eve from mans rib. Man came from god, women came from man. Stop telling false information on this comment thread. Liar. You are no equal to men, and that’s why we live in so much chaos. Women think they have the right to compete with men, while the kids suffer. SHAME ON YOU
@@ayuanabradford3206 yeah and how did that work out for Adam and humanity? Eve ruined everything. Kinda like modern society
@@ayuanabradford3206 I think boys need fathers more than they need mothers.
My father was mildly strict, He lead by example like cooking, cleaning the house and doing other house chores. We had our disagreements but we solve them right away. I spent a few weeks at my cousins house during the summer time, My uncle was very strict, There was one tv in the house, He made us do chores everyday early in the morning. My uncle would reward us going out fishing, going to the movies and playing video games. I understand now my dad and uncle were the leaders to thier family.
If your father had chosen a good woman - a REAL woman, to have a child with than maybe he shouldn't have had to do all of those things - raising kids cooking and cleaning is for women, and working and setting rules and boundaries are for men buuut if you cannot even set them for yourself how can you ever set them for your child?
@@roserevancroix2308 Well said. These days men are just expected to do literally everything as if they are machines, cook men and protect from a burglar men
Meanwhile Asian kids: first time ?? 😂😂🤣🤣😆😆😁😁
@roserevancroix2308 nope! The father and the mother taught them well! House chores are not boys or girls stuffs. It's everybody stuffs. If you live in that house, everyone must give contribution in making sure the house is intact.
The father give examples to their boys and girls to contribute the housechores. Teach by example is the correct thing to do. The father helping the chores is an example and teach the kids how to respect his wife too.
@@roserevancroix2308 lol good luck finding that today
As a middle-aged man, most of the good things that are in me are from my father that I have learnt emulating him. Punctuality, emotional stability, physical exercise, learning to do basic vehicle and household electrical repairs, honor, etc. I am so grateful to him, and will definitely pass these things on to my children.
I wish I had that.
I got overt seriousness... Nobody even gon fuck with me 💀
Alhamdulillah for Islam.☝💚
*“From among the portents of the Hour are (the following)…the drinking of alcoholic drinks will be very common, and (open) illegal sexual intercourse will prevail…”*
(Bukhari Volume 1 Hadith 80)
Also
*“The Last Hour will not be established until they (wicked people) commit adultery on the roads (public ways).”*
(Ibn Hibban and Bazzar)
And
*“The Hour will come when adultery becomes widespread.”*
(Al-Haythami, Kitab al-Fitan)
Well literally no one can dispute this. Alcohol is basically widespread and consumed by majority of people. Alcohol is glorified in the media, tv shows, music, social media etc. The exact same thing can be said about open sexual intercourse. With pornography being rampant in today’s culture it has led to the current state that we are all in.
However the statistics for this are shocking. About 41% of couples (one or both) have admitted to committing infidelity. This is for sure a clear cut prophecy coming true.
Furthermore there is more to this.
The Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم said:
*“O Muhajirun, (emigrants from Makkah to al-Madinah) you may be afflicted by five things; God forbid that you should live to see them… if fornication should become widespread, you should realise that this has never happened without new diseases befalling the people which their forebears never suffered.”*
[Sunan Ibn Majah, Vol. 5, pg. 222-223, Hadith #4019]
The key word is “diseases”. How scary is it that STDs such as HIV and AIDS are rampant due to sex outside of marriage. STDs are already rampant because more than half of all people will have an STD/STI at some point in their lifetime.
It is so rampant to the point where we have STD clinics and campaigns about safe sex. Such diseases never existed in ancient times and in today’s world it is a normal occurrence.
*“There will be an abundance of illegitimate children.”*
(Al-Muttaqi Al-Hindi, Muntakhab Kanzul Ummaal)
This is a massive prophecy and is happening right here and right now. Right now if you compare a country like USA they have statistic which show that even in 2012 that 40.7% of children are born out-of-wedlock
So the numbers are ridiculous and this is a huge modern phenomena. This is a clear cut prophecy coming true.
Also
*“Divorces will be a daily occurrence.”*
(Allamah Safarini, Ahwal Yaum al-Qiyamah)
Well to be frank divorces are already like this in this day and age. People take divorces as a normal occurrence but we can let the stats speak for themselves. 41 percent of first marriages end in divorce. In America, there is one divorce approximately every 36 seconds. That’s nearly 2,400 divorces per day, 16,800 divorces per week and 876,000 divorces a year
The media has normalised divorces and now we talk about divorce like it’s nothing. But in actual fact the daily occurrence of divorces is a prophecy by Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم
Then good for you.
Now how about a little help on your part to change this screwed up American family court system which awards the custody of children to the female parent by default.
Yeah, kids just need to learn to code these days.
I'm fatherless and i become sad everytime when i see a kid and a father together
This whole conversation is the typical TradCon *intellectual dishonesty*
It's not _fatherlessness_ "problem"
It's *SINGLE MOTHERHOOD* , they are using "fatherlessness" as a *euphemism* for it to subtly shift the blame onto *MEN*
Blaming *MEN* yet again.
To the uninitiated and low IQ it seems indistinguishable, but it's a _semantic_ game they're playing, as to not upset the _female_ base.
You don't get to blame men for poor ♀ *CHOICES AND BEHAVIOR.*
This intellectual dishonesty is why the traditional conservatives will _keep losing_ and _keep making the situation worse_ .
Until you solve the _actual_ problem (hint: it's not the _men_ ) society will continue to collapse.
Enjoy the decline. 💊
I deeply know that feeling I too was a fatherless kid who felt sad when I saw fathers and their sons play sports together bonding and all that type of shit I was pissed off mad and rebellious then randomly scrolling through ticktock I discovered these two guys called buybuy spirituality who had reparenting videos as well as their one on one sessions those truly helped me heal
same
I'm from India. Have 3 kids. My husband got transferred to a different state for job. He visits every 2 weeks.Even if he is not physically present, i feel his influence on the kids is far more than me. I cannot imagine separating them from him. I feel woman can nurture and care all they want. But the sons always look at the father as their role model. I'm sure my daughter will look for a man just like her dad when she grows up. That's why choosing the right man to marry is soo important. Ofcourse,Treat a man right and he'll work towards becoming the right guy.
Congrats .. your family is happy ..
@peace of mind
Transferred? And he comes every 2 weeks ?
Ahhh double check
2 weeks with side chick
And 2 weeks with u playing daddy daddy
😂
@@Amalekkkkk i wonder what kind of twisted family do you come from to have such a twisted view? No wonder women are divorcing left and right in America. No woman will have trust in a person like you.
@@Amalekkkkk Bruh, India isn't west. Stuff like that is looked down upon and neighbours can easily find out. Any such activity becomes an issue and people would kick you out.
@@gabbar51ngh well said
I have my son 3 days per week. He just turned 5. I fought to be in his life and went to court and got what I wished for. Things are going well im going to be there for my kiddo his whole life.
God bless you
Too many of us have to fight the court to be in our kids' lives. I've been there myself, and it's amazing how the system tears men. Thanks for standing up for yourself and your kid. It's not easy when everyone is after you. I have a 6 year old daughter. After 3 years of divorce court, I was able to get 50/50 custody. I tried going for the full 100%, but my budget won't allow it. The system is rigged, my friends. Stay strong and inform your male friends so that eventually, we can swing the pendulum back our way.
What is a mans perspective on staying with the mother of the child for the child instead of separation & shared custody? I know some women stay for the kids but do men do it as well? Genuine curiosity not judging
@@lt.2992 well men can't stay when the wife files for a divorce 80% of the time, you can't force yourself to be with a woman otherwise the court will just use it against you as evidence of you being 'abusive".
@lt.2992 I filed for divorce twice. The first time, my lawyer was a POS and dropped the ball on filling the papers and then got sick. . I thought that was a sign for a second chance. However, things didn't work out, there was too many outsides sources (family & friends) feeding her bad information. At the end I filed 6 month later again, myself, without a lawer, thinking I could do it without a lawyer. 2 days before court she lawyered up, and so did I. I wasn't able to see my child, who was 3 yrs old for the next 2 years. I missed fathers day, her 3rd birthday, that really messed with my head. Depression started to kick in. At the end I lost time with my child, almost the house I bought, and put over 150k for remodeling. Now she's getting money from me and her new daddy (the government) the lawyer don't give a fuck about you or your children. The judges don't give a fuck about your children well being (even though I had two female judges) she immediately moved into some strange dude's apt. And when I told the judge I don't even know where My daughter is staying cause she was hiding it from me, the judge said... maybe she's going to marry him. FUCK YOU JUDGES! What if he's a pedo, I have nothing but bad thoughts and the system is only helping women get away with making terrible decisions and hurting the kids future. Most men will die for their children to make sure they have a better future... most women don't see it that way. I have too many friends at the moment going through the same thing. Scary times for men.
I am a single father with full custody of my daughter since she was 9months old. This message brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for your kind words. I truly don't see it as service, it was a gift from God to be a father.
@Julian of course. How could I have her full custody ? That would indicate a court proceeding.. they just don't give children to their fathers
😢
you are a mere sperm donor in American feminist court's eyes
@Julian I understand what your saying! Thank you for looking out!
Dad🔥
This might be the most important social issue in the US, but unfortunately, there is no way that it is an easy issue to solve with straightforward solutions
Father-power baby! I tell people regularly that men and women, dad and mom, have equal value but different roles. This is a powerful and much needed message in society today. Thank you PBD.
Alhamdulillah for Islam.☝💚
*“From among the portents of the Hour are (the following)…the drinking of alcoholic drinks will be very common, and (open) illegal sexual intercourse will prevail…”*
(Bukhari Volume 1 Hadith 80)
Also
*“The Last Hour will not be established until they (wicked people) commit adultery on the roads (public ways).”*
(Ibn Hibban and Bazzar)
And
*“The Hour will come when adultery becomes widespread.”*
(Al-Haythami, Kitab al-Fitan)
Well literally no one can dispute this. Alcohol is basically widespread and consumed by majority of people. Alcohol is glorified in the media, tv shows, music, social media etc. The exact same thing can be said about open sexual intercourse. With pornography being rampant in today’s culture it has led to the current state that we are all in.
However the statistics for this are shocking. About 41% of couples (one or both) have admitted to committing infidelity. This is for sure a clear cut prophecy coming true.
Furthermore there is more to this.
The Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم said:
*“O Muhajirun, (emigrants from Makkah to al-Madinah) you may be afflicted by five things; God forbid that you should live to see them… if fornication should become widespread, you should realise that this has never happened without new diseases befalling the people which their forebears never suffered.”*
[Sunan Ibn Majah, Vol. 5, pg. 222-223, Hadith #4019]
The key word is “diseases”. How scary is it that STDs such as HIV and AIDS are rampant due to sex outside of marriage. STDs are already rampant because more than half of all people will have an STD/STI at some point in their lifetime.
It is so rampant to the point where we have STD clinics and campaigns about safe sex. Such diseases never existed in ancient times and in today’s world it is a normal occurrence.
*“There will be an abundance of illegitimate children.”*
(Al-Muttaqi Al-Hindi, Muntakhab Kanzul Ummaal)
This is a massive prophecy and is happening right here and right now. Right now if you compare a country like USA they have statistic which show that even in 2012 that 40.7% of children are born out-of-wedlock
So the numbers are ridiculous and this is a huge modern phenomena. This is a clear cut prophecy coming true.
Also
*“Divorces will be a daily occurrence.”*
(Allamah Safarini, Ahwal Yaum al-Qiyamah)
Well to be frank divorces are already like this in this day and age. People take divorces as a normal occurrence but we can let the stats speak for themselves. 41 percent of first marriages end in divorce. In America, there is one divorce approximately every 36 seconds. That’s nearly 2,400 divorces per day, 16,800 divorces per week and 876,000 divorces a year
The media has normalised divorces and now we talk about divorce like it’s nothing. But in actual fact the daily occurrence of divorces is a prophecy by Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم
I reckon just give the kid to the parent that ain't on meth. (Here in Australia 🇦🇺)
No no. Fathers are more important. Didn’t you watch the video.
If they had "equal" value, children of single fathers wouldn't be outclassing children of single mothers so hard.
Sounds to me like the data is clear, *the father matters MORE*
Accept reality. 💊
My dad came here as an immigrant. He worked hard for my mom, my brother and I to have a good life. He was hard on me, but he made me the person who I am. I am so glad I had a dad to raise me and that he never left and I appreciate him for being tough on me
Lucky you and blessed.
He was tough on you because life is tough. He was just getting you ready for life. Good father.
May ALLAH bless you, your father and your whole family.
I'm a female and raised by a 2 parent family. I can't imagine not having my dad in the house. My dad was the first man I ever loved. He showed me my worth, he showed me what love was, he showed me what a good man was, he showed me, via my mum, what a relationship looks like, he showed me how I should be treated. He taught me about the male mind, how men think, how dangerous men can be and how to keep myself safe from those men.
Both sons and daughters need their dad.
Showed you how dangerous men can be huh? Interesting
@@ljthirtyfiver Doesn't say that anywhere. Try again.
@@Nicci82 your comment literally says that .
“He taught me about the male mind, how men think, how dangerous men can be”
@@ljthirtyfiver and where in that quote do I say my dad showed me?
Showing is a physical performance. Teaching is the passing of knowledge and experience.
My dad didn't kick my head in to show me that certain men can be violent, how to spot them and what to do if I found myself in those situations. He told me that certain men can be violent, how to spot them and what to do if I found myself in those situations.
2 very different things.
Withou dads, daughters become disordered and promiscuous, boys become weak or criminal.
In India, if a child is fatherless, it is supported by his maternal uncle, paternal uncle, Grandma and Grandpa form both sides. This is the advantage having a joint family that US citizen won't understand ☺️
Oh my god.. Patriarcchyyy
You also have a dowry system that murders and aborts female children so as not to pay dowry to prospective husbands. Mother Theresa saved female children from rubbish bins. Your orphanages are full of female children
@@JJ-lr9sv third world countries can only blame themselves for their poverty. Third world cultures are all patriarchal primitive pagan polygamous cultures. The women are kept ignorant and uneducated and subservient chattels. You all want to live in white Christian countries
This is why I prefer asian culture family values because they have none of this stupid single mom fatherless crisis what the west has no wonder why western men like me prefer a wife overseas raised with strong family morales
@@Will.Flavell that’s why so many men go to Thailand to get little girls that are sold by their parents
There is a special love and affection when kids are brought up by both parents. I grew up with both parents; my dad was very tough while my mom was soft on us. We didn't like dad because of his straightforward decisions, but Alhamdulillah my siblings and I have come to realize dad had helped us greatly...
Alhamdulillah ❤️
🙏🙏
@clotshots9072 So true!
Growing up in with both parents is the sane growing up in single fathers houses. So don’t go and hate on with who leave their children.
@clot shots discipline is more important so don’t complain when women leave their children.
We are a selfish bunch today. We’ve bought the idea of ‘I deserve to be happy’ rather than ‘I need to be responsible for making my life, my marriage, my family work’… entitlement and quick fixes allow people to take the easy way out
This society won't last long
A culture of no one taking responsibility for their actions. Wether is corporate and political corruption, or things like abortion and racism. It can all be boiled down to people making poor choices and trying to escape having to face the consequences.
Not really. This is just the consequence of liberal policy. They have been pushing feminism so much that governments basically is even encouraging women to divorce as the justice system is heavily anti-men and the government is giving out subsidies for women to divorce... of course they are given fancy names like 'single mother subsidy' to compensate for the loss of income if a woman decides to divorce... that and the fact that their ex basically has to still provide for their living costs.... so yeah this is what happens if you encourage it. The boomers really fucked things up. But like everything in history it's a slow decline till you eventually start to realize where the fuck the good old times have gone and why the new generation are a bunch of mental basket cases. You don't need Sherlock for this one... just common sense, which especially judging from the past few years has been in extremely short supply. People like Peter Hitchens got depressed as he has warned about this for decades, but nobody wants to listen.
This whole conversation is the typical TradCon *intellectual dishonesty*
It's not _fatherlessness_ "problem"
It's *SINGLE MOTHERHOOD* , they are using "fatherlessness" as a *euphemism* for it to subtly shift the blame onto *MEN*
Blaming *MEN* yet again.
To the uninitiated and low IQ it seems indistinguishable, but it's a _semantic_ game they're playing, as to not upset the _female_ base.
You don't get to blame men for poor female choices and behavior.
This intellectual dishonesty is why the traditional conservatives will _keep losing_ and _keep making the situation worse_ .
Until you solve the _actual_ problem (hint: it's not the _men_ ) society will continue to collapse.
Enjoy the decline. 💊
*best comment
people dont really understand how important it is to have this discussion. i became a father at 20 years of age (im 26 now) and boy let me tell you it wasn't easy whatsoever. My father left when i was just 6 months, and it always stuck out to me as a little boy "how can a grown ass man just leave his bloodline like that, i made a promise to myself that ill never leave my offspring no matter how hard this shit gets. My boy is now 6, and plays sports and is number one in his class. needless to say...I'm a proud father.
One day he'll understand how lucky he is.
You became a father at 18, 8 years have passed yet your son is 6 years old?
@@louisgworld He's a great father not a great mathematician.
@@ألفومية-ح5ك lmao relax relax feels like almost a decade has passed. Let’s not get off topic 😂😂
That’s good for you. But what would you do if the state prevents you to be a father to your kid with. While the mother alienates the children from their father?
Growing up without a father has broken me. I was prisoned, subject of violence on both sides, diagnosed with mental issues. Stop looking for a father model though, you only had one!
I applaud Pat for speaking up on this issue in a nation that is preaching the opposite. My respect for this man grows with each video I watch!
He is preaching "let's raise kids like the Chinese". Or didn't you realize ding dong?
@@amsterdamcowboy9738 How so???
@@amsterdamcowboy9738 you would do well to emulate them
@@amsterdamcowboy9738 I'm thankful when others (to my defense) get to respond first to people like you who post negative comments for no good reason.
this video is A decade old and the topic has been covered ad museum
I'm a bw, and I grew up with just my father and two older brothers. Mr. Pat, you're speaking nothing but truth. My dad was hard at times when I was a teenager, but boy, oh boy, was his wisdom always on point! He saved me from so many tears. He and my uncle actually introduced me to my husband. Dad's are not important they are essential!
What’s a bw?
@@sunnywintermorning1941 black woman
100%
I absolutely hate it when people preface everything they say with a description of their physical characteristics. If your information is good, what you look like is irrelevant.
Why do u have to specify your race?
*I know the role my father played during my time of depression. He would not let me mope all day doing nothing or drop out of college. My mom on the other hand was a loving enabler*
Facts 💯 women can't raise men. They only lovingly enable them.
That is why it is important to have both energies. Both have a purpose for well balanced child.
You make a strong point. Something many may not want to hear, but it's necessary to learn from
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@@youtube_chaplain Hope you trying to reach your immediate family as well as people in your community. Js
This all adds up. I should’ve been locked up as a kid, many times. My mom was always working, and we were raising ourselves. I can’t imagine leaving my little dude, no matter how hard this marriage gets.
Raised by my dad and stepmother who filled the role extremely well. My dad was working a lot to make sure I had opportunities, but when we did spend time together he was packing every bit of knowledge into that time as he could. I'm grateful for my dad. Most of my friends are fatherless and I can see the difference in life is huge. Especially if they don't pull their head out of that rut.
Same situation 💯
@GenXalldayeveryday and that why those men needed their fathers.
@GenXalldayeveryday and all those men are raised by single mothers so...
It definitely hits home with this one . As a Single father raising a son after my wife passed away a couple years ago .
Every night we are at the gym working out together or riding bikes . He is doing amazing in school . He knows the difference between feels and reals . I teach him how to think and not let emotions control his life . At the same time he works cooks cleans for himself. High standards all the time . I take I very serious raising my son . He likes his steak 🥩 rare the only way it should be .
Respect to you...
@@VALUETAINMENT Why are you using a black child in the thumb nail for this discussion when the CDC reports that Black Father's are some of the most involved dad's. Why are you enforcing visual sterotypes Patrick!?
Good on you!
Salute to you.
@@Harold10ful He is using woke culture PR...part of the problem along with its insidious mockery of men.
I remember first time I had to leave for work for 5 days straight, oh my God, was that hard? My 4 year old daughter hugged me tight and would not let me go for like 10 minutes, no lie, all she was saying is PROMISE ME YOURE COMING BACK DADDY…And looking at all these stats I’m shocked how can someone leave their daughter/son behind and live a happy life. I just can’t wrap my head around this.
People don't remember Nixon stating that black unity is the biggest threat to America in rhe 70s and plotted to destroy family units? Take accountability. Theres a reason this happened in the USA and not everywhere else around the globe
Agreed. Your comment makes me think about how that aspect is not always discussed. It’s not every single father that has been forcibly pushed away from their child by the mother. For the fathers who leave, who chose to not get involved , who can relocated , start new families and move on - I always wonder how they can.
It’s evil for a mother to block a child from their father unless the father is abusive and dangerous. It’s also evil for a father to abandon his own child.
Kids need both parents
@@lindab3340 Yet a man has to go to court to get visitation of his children.Women automatically have this right.
@@lindab3340 Women should stop letting degenerates knock em up. They think they can tame the bad boy.
Nobody forces fathers o leave. You can't force a grown man to do anything. They choose to leave. Most men today don't give a shit about their kids.
It’s essential for a child or children to be raised in the environment of a functional father and mother. 🙏🏿
@@JJ-lr9sv agree, so sad 😞
This whole conversation is the typical TradCon *intellectual dishonesty*
It's not _fatherlessness_ "problem"
It's *SINGLE MOTHERHOOD* , they are using "fatherlessness" as a *euphemism* for it to subtly shift the blame onto *MEN*
Blaming *MEN* yet again.
To the uninitiated and low IQ it seems indistinguishable, but it's a _semantic_ game they're playing, as to not upset the _female_ base.
You don't get to blame men for poor female choices and behavior.
This intellectual dishonesty is why the traditional conservatives will _keep losing_ and _keep making the situation worse_ .
Until you solve the _actual_ problem (hint: it's not the _men_ ) society will continue to collapse.
Enjoy the decline. 💊
Even through a divorce, I fought tooth and nail to make sure I got 50/50. I was not gonna leave my kids with a single mother full time. The court system is stacked against us men, but it is beatable if you have resources. If you don't have money, then I'm sorry the system will screw you over. Unfortunately, serious changes need to be made to our system, including getting rid of no fault divorce. If you cheat or leave then you should be held accountable for your actions (86% of women initiating divorce). Men should not have to have 50k+ in lawyer fees just to be involved in their kids' lives....
Justin Di Vito sadly so true - I was one of those screwed but well said & God bless !
Justin divito. - doesn't matter whether 50/50 or every other weekend. What matters is you make the best with your kid. When he is with you that you are doing the best as his father
with him or her. Personally when a kid is less than 11 years old he needs more his mother. This guy is talking about fatherless fathers.
Truth
I spent around 25-30k and got my twin boys 25 days a month. Mom can't hold a job nor a place to live so I could have left it 50/50 but my sons were living in a car in a alley when with her. She lives with her parents now so she can claim she not homeless lol but the kids know. The kids always figure it out in the end. If not have the money yes the system RIGGED.
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Revelation 20:15 Anyone whose name was not found written in the book of life was thrown into the lake of fire.
"Salvation Prayer"
Dear Heavenly Father, I come to you, to confess that I am a sinner. I have done some things in my life that I am not proud of and I repent of my sins. I believe that Jesus died on the cross for my sins and that He arose from the grave and that He is alive today. I ask that you forgive me of my sins and come into my heart... I proclaim that Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior. AMEN...
My father died when I was 3.He was 24 and my mother 24 as well. War in Yugoslavia started right after my dad died.I was lucky that I had so powerful mother,she was a bad ass till this day I never cursed infront of her.I m 36 now and I still have so much respect for her that I can't even light a cigarette infront of her.I look at her with such awe and veneration throughout my life and I always did.She was my father and my mother,she was like general.Wake up at 05:40 go to sleep at 21h.If she sees that my and my brother watch TV she would turn off the electricity in the whole damn house..And now...every day I m getting older and everyday I respect that woman more and more..Especially when I saw this statistics...Good job mom I love you 😍
Your mother is a real G.
I love it!
Dude, literally no one asked about this. The topic was about father's and the role they play? Why are you shifting the conversation?
@@TheTwinkiefoot Because despite the fact single mother households are so bad his mum succeeded.
The big difference is his mum didn't choose to be single.
The reason she was successful is because she did what men do and most women don't.She set boundaries and enforced them 👍
@@TheTwinkiefoot the conversation was also about that fathers are more successful than mothers in raising law abiding citizens, and he gave an example that not all mothers are weak, some are real alphas and know how to discipline their kid/s.
As a fatherless young man (21) I can tell you it's quiete hard. I was lucky I've never been a drug or alcohol addict, I quit my tobacco addiction about three years ago. Now I am on my way to coming back in accounting school and taking control over my future.
All the best for you future. Wish you a life filled with love, peace, success, bliss, happiness and harmony.
@@jaho9873 Thanks so much,I appreciate your kind words.
GOOD FOR YOU. WHEN YOU HAVE A CHILD LOVE THAT MOTHER AND GET MARRIED!
@@livlaughlove4646 No, I honestly I don't want a family. I feel good alone.
This whole conversation is the typical TradCon *intellectual dishonesty*
It's not _fatherlessness_ "problem"
It's *SINGLE MOTHERHOOD* , they are using "fatherlessness" as a *euphemism* for it to subtly shift the blame onto *MEN*
Blaming *MEN* yet again.
To the uninitiated and low IQ it seems indistinguishable, but it's a _semantic_ game they're playing, as to not upset the _female_ base.
You don't get to blame men for poor female choices and behavior.
This intellectual dishonesty is why the traditional conservatives will _keep losing_ and _keep making the situation worse_ .
Until you solve the _actual_ problem (hint: it's not the _men_ ) society will continue to collapse.
Enjoy the decline. 💊
I had to raise my daughter without a father ( he started getting in trouble with the law and I left. He was in and out of jail for over a decade. My parents helped me) no child support. She hates me for having to work. She ran back to him and his family now he just recently got out of jail. I sacrificed a lot for her. You never know what kids will do. Interestingly her dad was raised by his mom and grandmother.
Kids need time to see who is really the parent, I am sure it's temporary.
This whole conversation is the typical TradCon *intellectual dishonesty*
It's not _fatherlessness_ "problem"
It's *SINGLE MOTHERHOOD* , they are using "fatherlessness" as a *euphemism* for it to subtly shift the blame onto *MEN*
Blaming *MEN* yet again.
To the uninitiated and low IQ it seems indistinguishable, but it's a _semantic_ game they're playing, as to not upset the _female_ base.
You don't get to blame men for poor female choices and behavior.
This intellectual dishonesty is why the traditional conservatives will _keep losing_ and _keep making the situation worse_ .
Until you solve the _actual_ problem (hint: it's not the _men_ ) society will continue to collapse.
Enjoy the decline. 💊
This whole conversation is the typical TradCon *intellectual dishonesty*
It's not _fatherlessness_ "problem"
It's *SINGLE MOTHERHOOD* , they are using "fatherlessness" as a *euphemism* for it to subtly shift the blame onto *MEN*
Blaming *MEN* yet again.
To the uninitiated and low IQ it seems indistinguishable, but it's a _semantic_ game they're playing, as to not upset the _female_ base.
You don't get to blame men for poor ♀ *CHOICES AND BEHAVIOR.*
This intellectual dishonesty is why the traditional conservatives will _keep losing_ and _keep making the situation worse_ .
Until you solve the _actual_ problem (hint: it's not the _men_ ) society will continue to collapse.
Enjoy the decline. 💊
What do you know scientifically about the MALE?
Both THEIR biological NATURE and neurological wiring and the effects of testosterone on the brain,their fragility?
Your ONLY issue here was your ignorance about this.. Forgive yourself and try not to repeat 🙏🏾
Don't discount the stepfather's either. My father ran out on my mom when she was pregnant with me & my stepfather married her when I was seven. Now I'm a total daddy's girl. That man is everything to me. He taught me how to fish, chop wood & so much more
My parents are divorced, and I lived with just my dad as a kid. Even with one parent, I called it a zero parent household. Doesn't matter if you have parents when they have to sacrifice all their available time working.
True it doesn't matter who is your parents is. When they are working all the time and you with them 24/7 is bad also because they control all the thing's
Well it's the two working parent trap isn't it? Society has fallen for the lie, lost their purpose in marriage and shunned the nuclear family.
We can't earn a living wage in this oligarchy.
@@ty194 I actually watched a Ted Talk a few years ago where this lady explained that teen pregnancy became an issue in America when both parents working became the trend. I wouldn’t be surprised if this also led to the higher divorce rates as well. Even the idea of 9-5 is kinda mythical now as more businesses extend their operating hours. It all adds up.
That’s why the problem dominates in the US which is a capitalist nation. Where I grow up, parents didn’t work round the clock. In other parts of the world people prioritize spending time with their families over work, that’s not the case in the US
At the park it is clear to see how much more fit and confident kids are with an involved father.
Facts !
And if your a dad at a park all the kids gravitate towards you and you end up running the whole park
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Lol this isnt like new info
@@wills242 Who said it was.
Hats off to father who don't just fall for adultery
but prioritise kids too
amen
@@truthwithes6690u make me wanna fall for adultery
My twins just turned 18 I've raised them since birth there mother was a demon but gave me the greatest gift my children and I chose not to hate my ex and love my children
@@scottkraft1062no one cares
@professionalpookie your mom does she told me
I remember a time when multiple generations lived in the same home and worked together as a unit. It's not one particular thing, it's a series of things. I'm grateful for that time, for that feeling of community, where ppl looked after another person's child regardless of relation, if someone became ill the community rallied around them. I remember seeing families going to church on Sunday, it may be a different church but I remember that. Times have definitely changed.
I think generally the state of mind has changed. Alot more doom and gloom. Ima just raise my family n teach them to work on a farm
@@rajivpaul9122 that's cool, but do you think you can get them to stay and appreciate what you are trying to provide for them
@@pswhite2961 I think so. I think back to me as a kid, peak childhood just playing outside in the dirt with some sticks. I think the location on top of the responsibility will leave a positive affect
Thank the Boomers for this
The USA is a post feminist nation and has been one for decades. This has not been an overnight problem either. It’s going to take generations for the nation to not be gelded.
Even tho I don’t get along with my dad I’m glad I had him in my life he taught me how to be a man.
When you’re young, you idolize your parents. As a teen you villainize your parents. But as an adult, you humanize your parents.
I heard this the other day on Valuetainment, and it struck a cord. As we become parents, and learn more about our parent’s upbringing, we can start connecting the dots of their lives and understanding them a little better. I hope you find peace one day with your father.
I never appreciated my dad enough till I became an adult. I was worried once that my husband (boyfriend at the time) will leave me. And my always strict and straightforward dad said “if he leaves you, it would be better for you. Because only an idiot can leave a woman like you”. That was the best self-esteem boost ever. I still live with these words in my mind :)
"You can ignore the truth but you can avoid it"
That’s truth
Have we not all come across the young man who's been zombified his entire life with ADHD medication, who's trying to figure life out all on his own during his 20's? The one who's been treated as nothing but a burden for his entire life? The one who hasn't been raised, hasn't been taught, hasn't been loved, listened to etc. etc. It's a shame that this has become the norm for so many people in our society.
What's ADHD medication have to do with it?
What kind of piece of shit drugs their own children. Real garbage parents out there.
@@the_traveling_man4284 Sometimes it's used as a bandaid to fix a discipline issue.
@@the_traveling_man4284 a lot of times it's used as a Band-Aid for disciplinary issue..
@@TheHaterSedater I don't need to know about the medication I was diagnosed in the 6th grade however I wasn't written off for a behavior issue I was tested and I do legitimately have it. I understand that it was certainly overly prescribed to the point of South Park making an episode about it. I'm asking for it's relation in regards to the original comment
Made a lot of hard sacrifices to make sure I am home with my 2 boys every single day. My sons see me every day, I wake them up and commit all of my day to them and I put them to bed. This just gave me so much validation. I grew up in a single parent household seeing my dad maybe 4-6 times in a month. I can agree with all of this. I struggled so much growing up and I refuse to let my boys grow up like I did. Thank you for posting this
Well if being fatherless means not wearing a suit/tie or buttoned up suit or doing handyman physical labor like construction or working on cars then I say it’s totally acceptable because those things are just really crappy.
@@cameronb3834 Who was that?
@@bluerobin2982 No one in particular just men and males in general like to wear stupid ties or buttoned up suits and do handy man jobs like construction or plumbing or HVAC technician and those are things I’m just not interested in whatsoever.
@@cameronb3834 Nah I'm asking who asked you?
@@bluerobin2982 No one did just making a comment
My dad died when I was 6. I did have a step dad who hated me growing up. I never got "fathered" and I think that has negatively impacted me in so many aspects of my life, especially my interactions with men.
About the interactions very likely yes. A year ago I was dating 24yo woman raised without a father, she was one of the worst women I ever met in terms of communication. Despite treating her like a princess she was always in a fight mode. She just didn't know how to behave around man.
When you know it yourself it's time to change
My Father grew up the same way, but he never knew his real father. He could NEVER Figure out why his younger bother (1/2 brother) got everything and could do no wrong. Then at 13, that man told him my Grandma was taken advantage by a family member and she got pregnant with him, hence HE was not his father. Then it made sense why he was treated so bad. My father aways respected his stepfather, but even us as grandchildren were never treated like the grandkids of my uncle. It was clear that I was 2nd best, never being asked to go fishing or anything, but my Uncle kids did everything with Grandpa. Then when we'd visit Grandpa and Grandma EVERY WEEK, Even Grandma would STUPIDLY tell us how much fun they had during the week if my uncle's kids were over. I wasn't told of the situation till I was in my mid-teens. Then I understood where I was in the pecking order.
Thank you so much 😊. The stats are definitely very disturbing 😳. I’m 39 years old and still live at home 🏡 in a dysfunctional household where my parents fight all the time and create so much unnecessary drama 🎭. None of the neighbors speak 🗣 to us because of our daily family drama.
I wish you strength and willpower to overcome the challenges of being born into a family that is not bound together. Unfortunately, as in many households, it is up to the current generation to strive for something better, even if the tools to do so were not given by the parents.
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We all got a story I swear but I’m really sorry you have to go though that
Life is so hard 😢
This is a true crisis indeed. Children need a father figure in their lives. Period. Without one, they have no direction, no guidance, no mentor. To all the dads out there keep fighting the good fight. You matter!
Yes, but also mother’s. This is basically you saying no equality…God created Adam a wife to help him do his GOD TASK! If GOD didnt think adam needed help he wouldn’t have made EVE. In the eyes of GOD THERE IS EQUALITY
Blame on america women they are un respect and ungrateful and rude they Don want to be true wives love their husband and don't want to have children
Children need both mother and father. Father is a strong features that child look up for to be independence, meanwhile mother is a soft nature that child learn to be kind. So that combination making the right man. At the least.
@@ayuanabradford3206 Women are not equal except intellectually. Feminism doesnt' fit in the sexist Bible where Adam is more in God's image than Eve, ergo he is more like God than woman. Women are not permitted to speak in the congregation of believers. The husband is the master, in the Judeo-Christian culture. You're a libearl trying to make God's way fit with Satan's. I maried a feminazi. Feminism ruined women. She acted equal, and that's why we had conflict. She broke her promise to submit. What man would marry a woman saying "We'll be equal"? That's nonsense. One will have the final word, or there will be time wasted to argue over who should have that word. That system is shit.
@@ayuanabradford3206Did you even read his comment?
That's literally what he typed. Stop trying to shame fathers
When I looked at the statistics for fatherless boys back in 2009 it shook me to my core and it was at that exact moment I took my life more serious. I didn’t want to be a bum or an embarrassment to myself or my mom who raised me. 14yrs later I have a beautiful family, my own home and my boys will never be without a father. Let’s do what our fathers couldn’t. Let’s be strong minded and raise men. Not boys who end up dead, in jail or drug addicts.
Your boys are blessed to have you.
Hope your wife dont destroy your psicology during this life...
@@iliaselbourji1865 why so negative? My wife is an amazing mother and spouse. Sorry you haven’t found that.
@@SaLvAdOriaN127 cz of experience and statistics...
@@SaLvAdOriaN127 When she divorces you, alienates your children against you, makes it difficult to have time for them as you pay for child support and alimony under threat of prison, get back to me.
I’m a product of a fatherless home with a single mom. I struggled a lot with so many insecurities, self esteem, and relationship issues plus anger. I felt very loved deprived, and I looked for love in men. I had no proper guidance, and I repeated the same mistake my mom did, it was a very hard situation. My children also suffered a lot.
Once I turn towards my spirituality and gained some structured I was able to learn how a family should be and so I got married and life was better.
In America there are no set of value system for the family!
We don’t teach kids how to be a father or a mother and how to nourish and raise a family.
At age 18 I wanted to get married EVERYONE was saying it was wrong.
Marriage with proper guidance, from elders, support from peers can help people thrive!!
People have to learn respect, how to treat each other with respect and not encourage sex, like it’s a sports game. The schools are teaching about sex not teaching the values of family, of a spouse and of a mom or dad. People don’t know how to love or give love. There is so much superficiality.
I agree with wish you said about marriage. They were saying it’s a big risk because people do fall out of love, and might end up hating each other. It’s a serious decision to make in this type of world at 18, but you’re right that it might be well worth it.
My mom was a married single mom. My dad was on drugs and in and out of prison. When he was there he didn’t do much. I feel like I turned out similar to you, so having a father in the home can’t necessarily be the answer. I guess the father or both parents need to be well.
Better to be married than just doing what married people do. People so screwed these days they think right is wrong and wrong is right.
This whole conversation is the typical TradCon *intellectual dishonesty*
It's not _fatherlessness_ "problem"
It's *SINGLE MOTHERHOOD* , they are using "fatherlessness" as a *euphemism* for it to subtly shift the blame onto *MEN*
Blaming *MEN* yet again.
To the uninitiated and low IQ it seems indistinguishable, but it's a _semantic_ game they're playing, as to not upset the _female_ base.
You don't get to blame men for poor female choices and behavior.
This intellectual dishonesty is why the traditional conservatives will _keep losing_ and _keep making the situation worse_ .
Until you solve the _actual_ problem (hint: it's not the _men_ ) society will continue to collapse.
Enjoy the decline. 💊
I grew up with my mother. My mother is very strict 💀 But she's the best person in the world for me❤️❤️❤️❤️
Me too ..my mom is everything to me 😪
Same. Although mum is not strict with me. Not sure if that's bad or not. They only times she gets angry if i play excessively on video games since i never been good at studies at all.
@@ZeroOne130 well she is right, lovely mum. Make her proud.
No doubt mother's r equally important as father but not make it individual this is for universal law which humanity had discovered by practicing more than 10000 years how to support and brought up new generation to with love and care of couple now we in name of freedom rewriting society which is failed model in gernalised sence
This whole conversation is the typical TradCon *intellectual dishonesty*
It's not _fatherlessness_ "problem"
It's *SINGLE MOTHERHOOD* , they are using "fatherlessness" as a *euphemism* for it to subtly shift the blame onto *MEN*
Blaming *MEN* yet again.
To the uninitiated and low IQ it seems indistinguishable, but it's a _semantic_ game they're playing, as to not upset the _female_ base.
You don't get to blame men for poor female choices and behavior.
This intellectual dishonesty is why the traditional conservatives will _keep losing_ and _keep making the situation worse_ .
Until you solve the _actual_ problem (hint: it's not the _men_ ) society will continue to collapse.
Enjoy the decline. 💊
I am 48, and notice this phenomenon firsthand as a single man.
Very rarely do I find ANY single women at this age without at least one child.
In fact, I very rarely find single, childless women AT ALL regardless of age.
When I was growing up, we always looked at kids with divorced parents or single mom households as abnormal... We felt bad for those kids but knew it was the exception and not the norm.
Not anymore.
YUp that is the norm my friend, sad to see a society going down the drain!
The us will not be able to compete with other nations, because they have no values!
Trying to cultivate a society without men to raise their children, how can that put your people on top!
Laughing Out Loud laughable.
Very true. I am one of those 40 something childless women though. I'm glad I didn't have children, and enjoying my life and career, travelling and renovating my own home. However, the older I get, the more invisible I become as I DON'T have children (& certainly choose not to) but society doesn't seem to know where I fit in. This makes me sad, and somewhat of a different worth to society, though I am a tax payer and work in the community.
I am Kenyan and could not agree more-its a growing cancer in Kenya too-thank you for shedding light!
It’s mind staggering especially among kikuyus
Stop lying, not all kenya, just Kikuyu tribe
In Kenya? Really? Men just leave their women and children? Why
Kifeee calls it out but society still don’t see the bigger picture.
@@samanth. statically Kenya is number 1 country in the continent for single parent households.
Fathers, men, brothers, sisters and friends, need to push harder than ever. To keep the family promoted and treasured.
Thank you for video. I lost husband when my child was just 7. And I see HUGE difference when child has both parents . It’s like a house where is child grow , but rood has just one side to protect you. It’s so sad that my child just has me no other relatives who give her love, attention and protect.
43 grew up till the age of 9 in a fatherless home. Then my mom got remarried and I lived with my step dad. They ended up have a baby together. Plus bringing other kids from past relationships into the mix. Now that I'm older not have all the same family ties together made all us kids not a cohesive family unit. Blending families is a BIG challenge! Based on my experience growing up. Kids all have the same set of extended family is important. And all the kids living together full time under the same roof is also important.
I agree. Divorced parents can’t choose new partners and expect their new fake family to be happy. 😢
Far better than than growing up in a single parent household. You had to learn to get along at a young age.
Alhamdulillah for Islam.☝💚
*“From among the portents of the Hour are (the following)…the drinking of alcoholic drinks will be very common, and (open) illegal sexual intercourse will prevail…”*
(Bukhari Volume 1 Hadith 80)
Also
*“The Last Hour will not be established until they (wicked people) commit adultery on the roads (public ways).”*
(Ibn Hibban and Bazzar)
And
*“The Hour will come when adultery becomes widespread.”*
(Al-Haythami, Kitab al-Fitan)
Well literally no one can dispute this. Alcohol is basically widespread and consumed by majority of people. Alcohol is glorified in the media, tv shows, music, social media etc. The exact same thing can be said about open sexual intercourse. With pornography being rampant in today’s culture it has led to the current state that we are all in.
However the statistics for this are shocking. About 41% of couples (one or both) have admitted to committing infidelity. This is for sure a clear cut prophecy coming true.
Furthermore there is more to this.
The Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم said:
*“O Muhajirun, (emigrants from Makkah to al-Madinah) you may be afflicted by five things; God forbid that you should live to see them… if fornication should become widespread, you should realise that this has never happened without new diseases befalling the people which their forebears never suffered.”*
[Sunan Ibn Majah, Vol. 5, pg. 222-223, Hadith #4019]
The key word is “diseases”. How scary is it that STDs such as HIV and AIDS are rampant due to sex outside of marriage. STDs are already rampant because more than half of all people will have an STD/STI at some point in their lifetime.
It is so rampant to the point where we have STD clinics and campaigns about safe sex. Such diseases never existed in ancient times and in today’s world it is a normal occurrence.
*“There will be an abundance of illegitimate children.”*
(Al-Muttaqi Al-Hindi, Muntakhab Kanzul Ummaal)
This is a massive prophecy and is happening right here and right now. Right now if you compare a country like USA they have statistic which show that even in 2012 that 40.7% of children are born out-of-wedlock
So the numbers are ridiculous and this is a huge modern phenomena. This is a clear cut prophecy coming true.
Also
*“Divorces will be a daily occurrence.”*
(Allamah Safarini, Ahwal Yaum al-Qiyamah)
Well to be frank divorces are already like this in this day and age. People take divorces as a normal occurrence but we can let the stats speak for themselves. 41 percent of first marriages end in divorce. In America, there is one divorce approximately every 36 seconds. That’s nearly 2,400 divorces per day, 16,800 divorces per week and 876,000 divorces a year
The media has normalised divorces and now we talk about divorce like it’s nothing. But in actual fact the daily occurrence of divorces is a prophecy by Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم
Meanwhile mine separated when I was 5 and since then we've went through 2 abusive relationships so far...
What you are describing is a disgusting mix of low IQ from two separate losers that will create more losers.
It is a typical "modern" (loser) family and two wrongs doesn't make a right, meaning your mom is a loser, the male she met was of course a loser - because losers date losers, birds of the same feather flock together, and together they created a new loser good job yay! I feel sorry for you that you had to grow up in that cesspool but I hope you learned how a healthy family should look like versus a dysfunctional one, and I hope you got some vales and dignity.
I'm fatherless . My mother really is a toxic person. But in my mind there's always a voice telling me Honor your parents. It's really hard. I'm a working progress. I'm 30yrs old by the way from the Philippines.
When my father was alive, he was "just there", didn't really instill many lessons in me and always looked down on me and comparing me to my older sibling. It's not only physical absense, but also emotional/spiritual absense...
I feel you, I had a father who didn't teach me anything, was emotionally absent and would beat me very rarely rightfully so, but for the most part he'd just beat me for no reason with no logic, talking logic to him would get a bigger beating. I'm 27 now and obey rules a little bit too much, I'm agreeable asf, basically a robot, if someone hits me I don't get angry, have an extremely dulled emotional response with only anxiety as a driving force.
@One Man No need to be sorry he's fine now as an adult also don't call me kid. I don't care how old you are old man.
Ya some fathers are not perfect, you should look up to the heavenly father, who loves you no matter who you are.
Right! Non active fathers in the home, leave just as much damage as absent fathers.
@@1976athletico shall i send you to meet your heavenly father?
BOTH, MOTHERS AND FATHERS ARE VERY IMPORTANT IN CHILDREN'S LIFE, FOR THEIR MENTAL WELL BEING.
Fathers more, the data vindicates this.
NO. MOTHERS MORE, BECAUSE CHILDREN DO NEED THEIR MATERNAL LOVE, AS THEY'RE GROWING UP. IT'S VERY IMPORTANT TO THEM. DATA OFTEN PROVIDES FALSE INFORMATION.
@@RS-ln3ns"maternal love" is a myth
The numbers show that children from *single mother homes* do the worst compared to any other type of home. Fathers are the number 1 factor of whether your life will be easier and better.
For god sake you're literally watching a video of a man reading off why fathers are more important.
The fact that you disagree with data and choose feelings, tells me you're low eye-Q and emotional
Absolutely NOT....
He's only important to a MALE child because he needs training!
Not to be coddled.
Women are so uneducated about MALE yet they desire having them..
Just delusional 🤣
@@RS-ln3nsIt’s true we shouldn’t always take data at face value but either way parenting is very important. It seems silly to argue which one is more important.
It shouldn’t be a competition.
I knew things were out of hand but never heard the stats this clearly. Thank you Pat! I am a black male who was raised and disciplined by my mother and father. Never seen the inside of a prison/jail and I have been married for 17 years with 2 wonderful children.
I don't live in the US. In my secondary school, most of the kids who were a failure (school failure, criminality, drug related stuff), were coming from single mother homes / divorced parents.
One was living with his father & turned out to be a HVAC technician, with his own company, employing 5 people now.
When I compare their current lives with mine (my father is a very hands-on, involved in our education since day 1), the difference is night & day !
Fathers, good fathers are a must for a functional society.
It's called market failures. Considering the single parent problem in USA, the problem isn't really fatherlessness only, its the liberal divorce culture. Considering the single parent numbers in US, even if we make child custody laws more fair (which might alleviate part of the issue), it wouldn't solve the problem, that being single parent households. Motherless children aren't going to be doing better than kids with both parents who have an amicable or loving relationship, at least statistically speaking.
Without several men that decided on their own volition to mentor and be like a father to me I would have been an absolute monster. My mother was a psychopath and my father wouldn't leave until I was a freshman in high school. My grandparents took me in and instilled a lot of values that would be considered outdated but it saved me. My brothers stayed with my mother since she didnt outright endanger them. My father was reamed by the court where we lived and was in absolute poverty until 4 years ago when he turned 50. Things have to change to save society. No one can tell me the way things are isnt intentional and meant to weaken us all.
When I was a kid I took two chocolates from a shop and came to my Father's office. I told him to pay the shopkeeper later. He told me that he will pay if I can add the price of the chocolates. I didn't know how to do decimal addition. He made me return those chocolates. It was so embarrassing. Today I am an Engineer and my knack towards mathematics started from that incident. Discipline has its rewards.
I was re watching a show from the mid 2000's and there was a scene where a mother was in the kitchen and broke down telling the husband "my life has to have more meaning than this" while she was preparing food for her kids. My jaw hit the floor. Once we convinced women that working in an office (to make another man rich) was more fulfilling than raising a family we lost everything.
The woman was right. She is more than just serving the man.
No it came from shit being too expensive so both have to work unless you have residual income an passive income aswell asset realestate etc...
@@chris-cy5ed That's not true. Women's liberation caused "shit being too expensive..." It's not a coincidence that women's liberation coincides with the end of wage growth in real money terms and the beginning of a stagflationary recession that lasted for 10 years.
This is the SLAVERY that many young women don't want in this era. If I don't have my own money, it means I'm permanently under your control, with no rights or freedoms of my own.
@@zengergazette9738 Luckily for you, you don't have a conscience so you can sleep at night.
I became a single parent when my partner died. It is very easy to put one's child first. I worked hard and hired a trained nanny to care for my baby. When she was 2, I put her into a great nursery where she was only 1 of 8 children of her age. She flourished. I made sure she had some great men in her life. Family and close friends become important. I enrolled her in a Waldorf school, which provides a child centred education. It was expensive but worth every cent. I never brought boyfriends into her life. I didn't want her to wake up to "new daddy" in mommy's bed. We, the mothers, must put our children first in these circumstances. I now have a daughter who is a lovely and successful young lady. She is cautious when dating, not interested in flitting from man to man. I'm extremely proud of her.
I'm over 50 and I'm still upset I never had a father. I know I would have made better decisions if I'd had a good father.
Same.
True it is same for me i am from India
I've blown away 🥰🥰🥰, you're not just a father to your Kids but also for the nation. Bless ya men.
I can't imagine my children without their dad. I am so proud of how he parents them.
USA has no incentive to keep families together.
@@suezcontours6653 Exactly. They have worked very hard to push fathers out the picture
@@nashbullet3213 Black American men just lack accountability. We all know this otherwise why is China colonizing Africa like you haven't learned a thing from Western colonialism and Arab slave trade. You're babies and want people to take care of you for eternity
@@suezcontours6653 And Wtf has black American men got to do with this? In a country where women initiate divorces regardless of skin colour, race and creed where there’s no incentive to stay married with men of every race being made to pay through the nose in child support and alimony, how then is this spun around to be a black men thing. This is the dumbest shit I’ve seen today. There are lazy men in every race so piss off with your derogatory remarks.
Yes, but also mother’s. This is basically you saying no equality…God created Adam a wife to help him do his GOD TASK! If GOD didnt think adam needed help he wouldn’t have made EVE. In the eyes of GOD THERE IS EQUALITY
I’m dead serious when I say this. I have no father but my mother also slept around. Even after I was born she had a different guy every weekend. I think she was a sex addict, she didn’t believe in birth control because she felt that real sex comes with risk of pregnancy. My mother got pregnant multiple times and used abortion as birth control. There’s three of us, all with three different fathers and only one of us knows who our father is. I’m the oldest, so while my mother was at sex parties, the club, looking for her next one night stand, I was my brothers mother. So, I never had a mother or a father. My mother was all about getting a load dropped in her. The pain of not having a dad never leaves you. But to know it’s because your mother doesn’t know who he is because she slept with so many different men brings a whole other pain that most ppl will never talk about.
I’m so so sorry. What a horrific experience 😔
Hope you had accepted the fate and took ctrl of your life....
Wow🙏🏽
I hope you break the cycle and heal from your wounds.
Sister or Brother , I feel and understand your pain. May you stay strong.
I'm so glad that PBD as an outsider, Iranian immigrant, has the perspective to realize that things are not going well domestically for most Americans. The social fabric of this country is deeply broken thank you for raising awareness of the issues.
is PBD not an american "domestically for most Americans"?!
I've had to go to court over 100 times in the last 11 years, i have done nothing wrong. My kids moms addiction is still in control. The system wrecked me took everything from me. Yet i still fight om amd will never stop for my kid, he is amazing!!!
Bro made me tear up when he said thank you for being a father because yes it’s extremely hard in the climate we are currently in. I love this guy
As a foreigner the concept of a “babymomma” or “babyfather” is so bizarre and weird to me. It’s also a concept I didn’t understand at first. Because in my culture who you have children with is the one you are married with.
And how normal it is. The term is used so casually is baffling
I am from India and the fact that some women in the west have no problem in having kids outside their marriage makes my skin crawl
@@arunasharma749 well the men are impregnating them and the men are the ones to ask for marriage. Men in the west aren't required by their parents to marry a woman
THATS WESTERN CULTURE THATS BEING PUSHED ON THE WORLD! You dont know how many times i go to the suprmarket seeing a child bitch out there mom and acting up in front of public. Sad!
One more thing... NEVER tell your child your their friend! Cause your NOT! I tell my kids, just what my father told me..."I dont need you to love me, i need you to RESPECT me, if you respected me as your father, love is a by-product of RESPECT!
As I write this, my wife and I are on the brink of divorce. The mere thought of it overwhelms me with anxiety because of how it will affect our very young children (3 and 1 y/o respectively). They were obviously born during the pandemic so we have been fortunate to see every single milestone because we both work from home (in NYC mind you). However that has caused a severe strain on the marriage because we have had very little help, not enough time apart to actually miss each other and many other stressors that come with being new parents. No abuse or infidelity, just pure exhaustion and infighting stemming from emotional and physical neglect. Also we don’t have enough healthy outlets, which we know we need but the diagnosis is easier than the remedy implementation. Anyway I say all that to say, I’m trying to hold it together even though the old adage of “don’t stay together just for the kids” rings in the back of my mind. These fatherless home statistics are exactly what I imagined and worse in some instances. No knock on mothers, it’s just simply incalculably difficult to raise a child alone without a father. Children need both spectrums, the masculine and feminine. A fathers natural role is to protect and provide; a mothers role is to nurture and soothe. Sure there are those who grew up with both parents and still have problems. But to try raising a child solo is unnatural. I’m giving it my all.
Stay in the fight
NO DIVORCE
You do not have a valid basis for divorce (physical abuse/infidelity).
Just pandemic stress like many had.
Get a therapist or talk to a mature friend or family member for help who can keep confidentiality.
Do not divorce and ruin your children’s life.
Focus on finding those healthy outlets or even moving out of NYC which is a yucky place to raise a family anyways
I'm crying writing this bro. You hang in there my wife and I are praying for you and your wife ( STAY TOGETHER FOR THE KIDS)!!!!!!!
Marriage is beyond difficult, two humans with two different ways of thinking, committed to be under this one roof, it is rough! but we see it too often divorce being first resort, it’s validated in Hollywood/media that’s it isn’t a big deal, it is 😢 children need stability to have a better chance of being stable adults.
It's really sad to see single-parenting becoming a new norm in the US. Having a father seems like a luxury these days.
I raised my daughter from age 5 all the way through,she’s 23 this year and a pretty good kid,given I raised her in my parents home and they did help out when needed but she was my responsibility and I raised her 💯🇦🇺
@@jihadi-against-oppression mate I’ve been a heroin addict for 27 years,she’s definitely seen some shit and no grand kids yet mate
This makes me appreciate my father even more. He refused to leave my mom even though she was abusive and just delt with it. Unfortunately he died when I was 12 so I mostly grew up without a father and I see some of the negative effects of it.
Most American women are abusive and they almost never make dinner. Very few men will tolerate their behavior for the rest of their lives.
Maybe your mom is a Toxic Feminist.
It's sad what's being done to our family units . It's a war to break families down .
STOP ALLOWING IT.....GET UP OFF THE COUCH.....STAND FOR SOMETHING, PLEASE !
WE NEED ALL 18-40 YR OLDS TO GET-UP AND GET-A-GRIP.....!
But why would they want to break up family units???
@@mr.anonymousmr.anonymous9856 depopulation. There is an agenda.
@@mr.anonymousmr.anonymous9856 it's a natural byproduct of a successful society. What goes up, must come down.
@@mr.anonymousmr.anonymous9856 make slaves
At any cost we Indians put our effort to the highest level from preventing broken down.
Now India is becoming much worse more divorce
My dad was very loving , but he told me “ Don’t come home pregnant “ and my mom told me “ find someone who is SINCERE . “ My dad taught me the Value of education and hard work and my mom gave me my faith and connection to God. Fast forward , I am married to my husband , we have a home , children and careers. I count my blessings and realize not everyone had this
I grew up with both my parents. Even after they divorced, my dad was still in my life. My mom understood that my siblings and I needed him and knew he was a good father. I think that him being present in my life helped make me into the person I am today. I wouldn’t be half the woman I am today if he wasn’t in my life. Even now, he’s always there for me. He comes running when I need him. Kids need good fathers. Kids were never meant to be a one person job. Reality has proven it.
Yeah, but Captain Murka is gay.
I've been thinking about this a lot during the past year. I have reason to believe it's one of the biggest problems facing the West. We've been raising men to chase sex instead of relationships, and raising women to chase short-term happiness over long-term family building. Children really need a two parent household to successfully develop and succeed in the world, and while there are exceptions, they are not the norm. Virtually every person I've come to build a relationship in my life who has significant problem was either raised by a single parent or by foster care. We need to redirect this ship, because we're leading our society into ruin. We need to start prioritizing and praising family and strong relationships, because this whole Instagram "me me me", casual dating, widespread sexualization, and the rest of it is NOT working.
Your 3rd line is awesome; We've been raising...
Men always chase sex it’s in our biology, what your implying is that all over the world were the family nucleus is working and is successful that “those men don’t chase sex or are monogamous” or at the very least “perfect husband’s to their wives”, my take is Men will be Men but that doesn’t and shouldn’t effect the success of the family, I say the problem is women, feminism and delusion, trying to be men. And the powers of the world backing them so they have false leverage non biological leverage but false leverage and perception that Men are bad because where the only double standard that benefits us as men ( if it is that you want to be that way, non monogamous) we ere exercising it. Women and humanity overall will realize that relationships only benefit the women in a way, so if she wants a successful and healthy family she must and should be feminine, servicesable to her Man and family and stay out the man’s way.. when this is done selflessly it’s ironic that the Man then comes around to be monogamous or respectful. Only when it is earned sincerely by the woman. That’s the only formula for a successful and loving family. Don’t let women gaslight you that your defective as a man, you heard the stats a Man is essential in a happy family life. Women also think they can hop around with out consequences wether they do it openly or discretely, my advice to them is, don’t lie to yourself in the you’ll loose a lot and be regretful, the less you indulge in the delusion that benefits your hedoism the more valuable you are as a women. And lastly to the women who say “ I’ll live alone forever, I’ll never settle” I say, you will have eternal bitterness and confusion causing missery and depression until you die, wether your rich and successful or not. Women repent give in, Men didn’t create life don’t be mad at us, there’s laws and principles in every kingdom.
@@johndiaz5925 you are an example of why society is going to ruin. 😒
@@justjackie4394 if you need advice or want to have a serious talk, let me know I’ll give you my email and we can have some discussions.. it’ll be very helpful for you
@@johndiaz5925 It’s actually impossible for women to be the problem when men are literally leading society. They are still the breadwinners, still biologically bigger, stronger and faster. I think the fear is that you have failed to lead us.
I came from a 2 parent household and was ready to get married and have a man lead. We’re not producing men that can lead and provide. We’re producing man children that would play video games and smoke weed all day if they could. That’s the fruit you men are producing. We can only go by your laws, in a country that you built.
I don’t know what would have become of me without my dad in the home. My mother obviously had/has an undiagnosed mental illness. I would be so much worse off if I’d had her alone raising me. I miss my dad so much. He passed away when I was 33. Even just the sound of his voice in the phone, as an adult, made me feel calm and safe.
I love this so much! Fathers are important! I’m a teacher and when I see my little students shout for their mothers and fathers as they drive up to pick up their kids, I love that! Life is about people. Without people, life is utterly meaningless
USA had no incentive to keep families together, they want a nation of broken kids to exploit
@@suezcontours6653 that definitely seems like the case today.
I am 40 yrs old. Never met my father. Apparently hes still alive. I do my best, never been arrested nor any criminal past. But even w all my individual effort, ive never had a guide, and grew up without a compass, never knowing true north. I know in my heart i wld be in a better place if id at least had some positive male figure there. That said, i am grateful for everything i do have.
I feel you bro I’m 32 and same I never met my dad. My life would of played way different but I’m grateful for the man I’m becoming . Discovering Dr. Jordan Peterson helped fill that void to some degree.
I encourage you to meet your father before he dies.
Hopelly grandspas should step in
I did that, cause I knew my single daughter was struggling, not easy at all, when I see my 2 grandkids happier, there I got my recompense.
Man, you made me tear up, thank you for your service! I Migrated to Canada 3 years ago from Argentina with my wife and daughter, and now the family's grown with my newborn son. I have grown a lot since I had them but it feels like I still have a lot to learn to give them what they need to thrive in life.
This is some of the best content I have seen all year!! I’m a single father and my kid is thriving!!! Thanks bro for the recognition, we need more of this 🙏
My mum was not present. It was the deepest heartache ever.
They've broken the family unit as an institution. 😔
who is they?
who is they?
@@IAintTheDaddyMaury if you ask that question, you weren't paying attention in class...
@@IAintTheDaddyMaury democrats and feminist
Heaven and Hell are real... Is your heart right with God? We can not hide our sins from God. Jesus Christ loves you and He died for our sins. If you will REPENT of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, you will be saved and your name will be written into the Book of Life.
Revelation 20:15 Anyone whose name was not found written in the book of life was thrown into the lake of fire.
"Salvation Prayer"
Dear Heavenly Father, I come to you, to confess that I am a sinner. I have done some things in my life that I am not proud of and I repent of my sins. I believe that Jesus died on the cross for my sins and that He arose from the grave and that He is alive today. I ask that you forgive me of my sins and come into my heart... I proclaim that Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior. AMEN...
Patrick. This is the truth about the future of America. Fathers have a definitive role in the character building of any child. When a father abandons the child, the child is scarred for life.
It was nice of you to speak on this extremely important subject.
Or or the government and baby mama terrorist keep fathers away from children
Fathers don't abandon children, mothers break up homes
This whole conversation is the typical TradCon *intellectual dishonesty*
It's not _fatherlessness_ "problem"
It's *SINGLE MOTHERHOOD* , they are using "fatherlessness" as a *euphemism* for it to subtly shift the blame onto *MEN*
Blaming *MEN* yet again.
To the uninitiated and low IQ it seems indistinguishable, but it's a _semantic_ game they're playing, as to not upset the _female_ base.
You don't get to blame men for poor female choices and behavior.
This intellectual dishonesty is why the traditional conservatives will _keep losing_ and _keep making the situation worse_ .
Until you solve the _actual_ problem (hint: it's not the _men_ ) society will continue to collapse.
Enjoy the decline. 💊