Mrs. B - Shutting The Narcissist Game Down - Like A Boss
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Mrs. B - Shutting The Narcissist Game Down - Like A Boss
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Royal Promise so happy to hear you sounding so positive and uplifted! God is so Good I agree dear Royal! 🥰❤️❤️❤️
Jamie Lanouette ??????
Don’t be dragged into their PATHETIC and PITIFUL games!!😡
They LOSE their power when YOU go GREY ROCK and NO CONTACT 🙌🏾
Stay NO CONTACT - Like a BOSS🙌🏾
ya nothing like a good buzz kill!!!!!!!
@ Lauryn Rose
It TOTALLY finishes the Narc off when you go NO CONTACT! 🙌🏾
Grey Rock!,,,, All the way 🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊
@ SalonSavy64 💯
Be strong!! 👊🏾
There’s no such thing of closure with a narcissist because they are not normal. They are cold and calculated. It’s best to just block them everywhere, and move on. You get closure from these videos because you now know the truth. Thanks, Dave!
Jeanette Mora sad but true 😢
Jeanette Mora Totally agree! Well said Jeanette. 👏👏💕
Saeda Issa They never want to end things with us on a good note because they want us to feel at our worse. When they leave us feeling broken, they return and think we’ll just take them back. They are manipulative, it’s all part of their game
cmf cmf It is a true blessing! I agree that it is the most painful thing to deal with. I had never felt so low in my life when this happened, but it was a blessing in disguise.
Pretty Puppy Thank you! 💕💕
I was Mrs. B, realized I was fighting to hold on to a ghost, an illusion, he will never be right for anyone, because he isnt right within.. fell for it time and time again, I became Mrs.A and let him go. For good, funny everyone knew what was going on but me. Mrs. A, is the way, thanks Dave❤👍!
Trying to be with someone you know deep down you can’t trust is heartbreaking. I’m glad I found this channel because it helped me realize no it wasn’t me.
This channel saved me. Glad you found it too.
Me too ❤️😘
Your pain and suffering is just another fuel supply for them. They actually LOVE to see you falling apart. For me I actually saw her smirk a little when she saw me emotionally distraught. I saw that and that was the end. Never again would I treat myself with such disrespect. She could devalue me but never again would I devalue myself. Finding joy in someone's pain is PURE EVIL.
Yup, as drug addicts get off on getting their fix, narcs get off on seeing us suffer at their doings. When we learn to recognize this, we find the way to our true freedom. It's not always instantaneous, tho, but pray that we stay on our life paths, and never forget what they have been trying to do to us... bless you all and thank goodness i'm not the only one awake to this...
My ex narc said it turned him on when I cried... Sick...
the same happened to me, when i finally knew what he was doing and the evil he was. that disgusting smirk.
Funnily enough, the day I calmly asserted myself and the ex realized I was done and dusted with him, he accused me of having a smirk on my face. I don't believe I was smirking, but I do believe he was seeing my freedom written on my face.
Sadism is the enjoyment of inflicting pain and humiliation. It is the defining characteristic of being demon possessed
IM GETTING CHILLS BECAUSE THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED. I’m not alone, and you’re right, this truly brought me closer to God. I am so grateful for the pain because I see how much God has been here for me. Ive flourished more in one year than I did in 7 years with him. I’m starting to really love myself...THIS IS CRAZY! You really understand. I need a hug guys 🤗 let’s stay strong. No more MsB!!! #MsA’stheway
This just happened to me too .. you're not alone! Stay strong!
Bee Davis I got chills too Bee! Dave is a Visionary of God! His incredible insight and knowledge is definitely Holy Spirit guided. Praying for you and your healing journey and sending you lots of love and hugs 🙏🏼❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗
Hugs, Bee Davis!
Am from india, I too experienced the same..
i was confused with this title it sounded like mrs B was the way- no way - I went & still am Mrs a
I left my narc, but I didn't go out and pick up anyone else. I realized that jumping into another relationship doesn't make the situation better. Why imvolve any other person in any drama? Working on myself for a short x month period Is what the doctor orders. Now that I recognize narcissist traits, I know how to block and stay no contact.
i couldnt pick my head up off the couch - I was in badd shape. i couldnt breathe let alone date i still dont have any desire for that shitttt. i do have few very good friends which I m so grateful for
Lisa Collins Super wise decision, a decision none of narcs can make, because they are immature, infantile, capricious children who cannot sustain their lives being by themselves.
Yeah, I had a feeling that he was playing two women at the same time and u was the "new" supply that he was grooming, I asked him if he was in a relationship, to please let me go. He then went into this begging narrative and I stayed longer than I should have. Then when I found out that he really was in another relationship, I ghosted him and cut off communication. I made the decision to leave because I have the wisdom now. Thanks Dave!
Lisa Collins narc divorced me in December(thank God) and is someone else (poor woman)
@@christarmypurple6436 it's how they operate. They start searching for a new "supply" when you start catching inconsistencies in their behavior. He maybe realized you weren't going to put with his crap any more and they can't stand being alone so he ran off with the new"supply" the good news is that your lucky. Now you can find some someone much better and you have the gift of decernment
I think there are more narcissists than Empaths. I have met many narcissists and have yet to met an Empath. I want an Empath in my life.
Olivia Moreno-Carlson we have meet many Empaths, but we didn’t understand due too our emotional connection too narcissistic people, but we are learning now with the internet. Keep learning but watch the new narcissist one saying there an Empath gos they are snakes 🐍
You are still trauma bonded
Empath here :)
Wouldn’t, it be nice 😊
IKR,
They say opposites attract
Narcissist: you need to change
Me: * Changes through healing and wisdom *
Narcissist: No not like that! Rheeee
I agree with the 2:1 ratio. Us empaths don’t always learn until we’ve gone through hell more than once. I am so glad that my eyes are open now.
Sigma emphatic we try to fix the toy lmao my whole life I took care of my younger siblings ❤❤❤we hate arguments 😂😂❤❤
I went through that hell on a continuous run starting with my mother then every relationship I got myself into until I was 57 years old and figured it out thanks too Dave mostly and all the rest of these channels on narcissism with their experience to teach me how to live a new life and get on with it. I really thought I was going to die before I get started getting better and it's been a long road away from that mess of a previous lifetime now. I still listen everyday to something about narcissism to keep me fresh in knowing that they are out there and they're not going to stop. That is up to me and God. My life is awesome now. I love being single and having my own life to choose what I want to fill my self with. I have no desire for a relationship as my own life was so neglected for so long that I'm still picking up pieces to see if they still fit somewhere or if they're just old junk needs to be tossed. I'm grateful to have animals that love me and a house that's mine. That's a great start. Anybody new to this path don't give up. It's the hardest thing I have ever had to do is to just keep moving forward and trusting God. It works though and my life gets better every single day because of people like Dave who tell it like it is and show there is a way out and through and that life is worth living and God is worth the time it takes to get to know him better
You feel more alone with a narcissist than actually being alone. That’s when it’s time to get out. Being single you have so many options not being tied. So many opportunities for growth.
Listen close, everyone 16:28 *"...why answer a hoover? Do you wanna feel more alone? Than you do now? Then answer a hoover."* -Dave
Thx for this! Got a Corona hoover text last night. All caring, concerned🙄 - thinking about me..a nurse on the front lines...blah, blah...”be safe”. NC! I can do this.
Why get Sucked back to misery?
Sucker for Punishment ...you want more S--t & Abuse...really ?!?
He said, “I need to work on myself and reflect and I suggest you do the same.” This was after he told me that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. Not confusing at all.
Walking away from my ex narc was the best decision I have ever made. I walked away from a demon to walk towards the light. The light of God almighty & I've been blessed ever since. 02/07/20 is the day I walked away. It's the date of my Awakening.💓thank Lord Jesus for your guidance & love.❤️I'm aSurviver
Whoo hooo !,,, yea !,,, feels great doesn’t it ?,,,, Empowering!🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊
NEVER CONSIDER "MARRIAGE" UNTIL YOU HAVE "PROVEN", OVER A SIGNIFICANT AMOUNT OF TIME, THAT THEY, (THE OTHER PARTNER) IS MADE OF "SOLID, 24K GOLD"!!....
That was my biggest mistake he wanted to marry very quickly....I fell for it hook line and sinker. Who knew these devils existed 35 years ago or, for that matter a year ago.
Worst mistake l ever made. Was with him 10 years. He intentionally got me pregnant. Our daughter is 8. He hasn't talked to her or saw her in 7 months. He messaged me on Sunday. Telling me how he missed the life he had with me and didn't want a divorce. But, he left us like we were trash in October. Moved in with a new supply. Signed a lease with her. He is a whole married man and signed a lease with his whore!?!? I am about to file for divorce! I do not believe in divorce, but l will not be done like that! He had it made here. I am sure he does miss his old life. The only thing he was missing was a throne! Smh!
To answer your questions of the day:
1: During this crisis wouldn’t shut down anything to get at the narc - I’m at the point now where I don’t care what he’s doing. Or how he’s feeling... two fingers to them all!! 2: I don’t know or care whether there’s a new supply or not... if there is, God help her!
Sylvia Knox I could have wrote this 😆
Wow! Thats pretty much what i would've responded with.
I don't know and DON'T care! I was discarded on
3/14/20 and I've
just been LOVING the Peace and Quiet with no more DRAMA!!
And i DON'T miss Her!!!
Elliot Foster good for you. Me too. I’m enjoying the peace and don’t miss him either 🙏✌️
Lol!! Thank youuu. And Congrats to YOU alsooo (:
Mrs A, all the way! Game over for more than a year now. Moving on gave me my life back. I can breathe easily again.
RUN FOR COVER.
FIGHT IS OVER.
Don't curl over and die man, that's exactly what they want 🤦♀️
I found out about the new supply, when we were still dating, because I caught him hiding his phone from me. He went on his messages, and I saw him hesitate and he turned the phone away from me. Even now, they claim to be just friends, but he is still getting supply from her because she gives him attention, defends him, and protects him. He painted me as the abuser, and said that I’m jealous and controlling. Of course he isn’t going to tell her how shady his actions have always been. Good luck to her because thank goodness he is no longer my problem.
I wanna think like you. The new supply is showing him off around. Looks like my healing went to zero..
GIOVANNA PANDOLFO I completely understand how you feel because I once felt like that too. I tried to keep reminding myself of how awful he was because remember, he hasn’t magically changed. The way he treated you, is the way he is going to treat everybody.
@@gioovannabp don't look at his social media, it's all fake.
Same thing happened to me except that he was triangulating me with a female flying monkey. He discarded me twice and went to Cancun with her. It didn't matter to me because thanks to channels like these one I knew that he was mentally ill.
Mariela D. I’m so sorry that happened. They are heartless people with no empathy, they only feel for themselves. I’m glad you are out of that now!
Currently watching the demon ex narc have a full blown Narcissistic Collapse all displayed on social media. 🍿
Holly Jackson glad you’ve got plenty of popcorn!! 🥳🥳😆
Yep get the popcorn 🍿 going to be better than a movie with this crisis, mine keeps telling me he lives alone 😂 what happened to all those women you were seeing? They gone? Of course not!
So am I! And it's the new supply creating the most drama...wow. 🍿🧂🧈
Lol, God is good!!!
An angel actually told me to grab some popcorn and enjoy the unfolding which I couldn’t understand until now. The narcs are going crazy with this social distancing and even with the masks on tight they are losing there grip only after week 1 .lol imagine another month or so I would imagine they will implode on Facebook live for all to witness.
The narc claims they cried themselves to sleep not knowing what's going on with me during "this pandemic "situation" Always over-the-top.
Everytime I watch you Dave, I feel at ease 🙏. It's comforting knowing I'm not the only one going through this. You've provided so much valuable knowledge and everything you say is dead on. Thank you kind soul ❤🙏
The narc is a man/woman that never grew up and was a spoiled brat. Selfish, self centred with a mummy and/or a daddy complex. 😃
Brigitte Reddin most were not emotional loved, not spoiled.
Sounds like that child needed love rather than material objects. Its all about how you shape and mold your child.
What kind of daddy issues?
I have never heard about the dad's narc. Maybe his problem is related to his daddy 💭
@@Jessica_BR usually men have problems related to their mothers, but if he had an absent or abusive father...
The new supply showed up as a friend. He swore they were just friends but then he started having her over staying in the guest room. I told him I didn't want that but he told me I was being insecure and unreasonable. I caught him using the guest bathroom in her room so he could say goodnight to her. He told me he used that bathroom because ours was too cramped. He told me to cut all my hair off like hers. I had waist long hair and she had hair at her shoulders. He played me for months making me feel like I was just going crazy. I would lay in bed or in the tub for hours not realizing I was depressed and he didn't even notice or care. I finally had enough when she decided to bring her laundry over. I told him she needed to go. I went to work and did not get any kind of call or text from him all day though I tried a few times. When I got home she was still there. I was in tears and they were laughing. They both were narcs and both thought it was hilarious that I tried to put my foot down. My sadness quickly turned to anger and the girl ran out got in her car and sped off. I chewed my ex out for 2 hours about what an awful person he was till he ran from the home crying himself. I packed my bags and never came back.
He swore he was happy with her but it's a year and a half later and they are no longer together. I caught wind that they fought in public alot as well. I am with someone new and have no desire to go back to him. My new partner helps me and cooks for me. He wants me to spend more time doing what I love rather than cater to his every need. He himself was involved with a narc and we have both have a strong relationship because of the pain we went through with our partners. Did I also mention I've been friends with this guy for 3 years prior? I never even considered dating him prior because my loyalty blinded me to the possibility.
Im so happy for you i end up with a Narc after losing my hubby through death and it was just a illussion all a fantasy to my Ex NARC GOD WILL SEEK OUT JUSTICE FOR ME I FORGIVE AND HAVE MOVED ON i pray to God to find me the right Man pray for me too i find happiness like you did a REAL HAPPY ENDING GOD BLESS YOU BOTH 🙏😌🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼
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@@tammyfitzgerald5336 I apologize I realize you laughed and then agreed. 🫣❤️ I appreciate it. I thought you were just laughing 😅
I became Mrs. B , I wish I hadn't gone down that muddy, bumpy road. It definitely wasn't worth it. I am now Mrs A!!!! Mrs A all the way!
Amstella Same here, but searching for answers is what led me here & I’m so grateful for channels like this. I’m so much stronger than before!
Amstella Don't be miss A be miss C!!💃🏽 that bitch will learn her lesson u movin on and start a new boo💋
pink_kisses I am thankful for channels like this also. I have never known such wonderful people helping eachother under the guide of such a great person as Dave. I know that my healing will take time and that’s ok. I do not want to move on with another right now as I am not ready.
I learned about the new supply after her dead body was found( less than 2 months after I ESCAPED) and my ex narc is being investigated. They can be dangerous it's important to understand this also.
Yes! My husband told me many times he was going to kill me. Had the police at the house many times I bought mace and maced the bastard. I always told him that he was messing with the wrong person. I've got JESUS on my side, you lose.
I left the narc two years before he was found dead. I knew something was very wrong but did not know what narcissism really was. I was saved shortly after I left and two years later he was dead. God spared me from this. It is important to not take your focus off of God. He gives you a way out and delivers you from the depths of hell. To all who read this, run away from this narc and run to God through Jesus Christ. Just turn to Christ. He is the only Way.
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I'm going to go out on a limb here (not!) and just call it as it is: the new supply is an enabler..
Your understanding of the sick narcissist's mindset to the T is profound. It's commendable sharing this with others to save their mental/emotional well-being!
QOTD: How did you learn about the new supply?
She will call his mobile non stop and text him and like and comment on ALL of his posts on Instagram. The idiot also replied to her and I knew something was going on. She was actually recycled supply😂
I caught him driving her vehicle & when I confronted him he lied! So I bowed out gracefully packed his stuff as he slept, woke him up told him he has to go because I knew @ that point I wanted her to have him so she could see he wasn't anything special & to relieve me of my headache later I found out she knew all about me! I knew he didn't want her for real just her possessions & what she could offer can I say once he saw I wasn't letting him come back after that betrayal their shituationship was very short lived! I think in his warped mind he dumped her as punishment for permanently losing me poor gal
She came into a support group in Lower Hutt at the Maori Womens Refuge which they all allowed. They are all my ex's flying monkeys - but their karma is yet to come lol.
Anyway, she sat there pregnant, surrounded with her gang mates 😆 all targeting me to say that she was pregnant to my (partner at the time).
But the funny thing is, I don't walk around with my mind in the gutter, so I didn't realise she was talking to me.
I did go all out 2wks later destroying so much property of his and learned my lesson. They all continued to destroy me since 2018 and even tried witchcraft on me 🤣
I moved away, am now building 2careers simultaneously, have a nice home, got offers from well-to-do suitors, my kids know who mama is and I came out on top... like a BOSS. 👑💖🔥 And now he reidealizing me but no I'll pass and just stay loving for the kids.
@ Know Love
That’s awful😡 Karma will catch up with him! You watch!!😡
continued... 🤣😝
All these other supplies starting coming out of the woodworks and mostly from the family violence organisations that were in my area, so the new supply was actually part of a multiple, so I don't even know what she was on about 🤪.
All I know is that I was THAT PURE ONE of the lot and I like that title. Better than having a Monkey title 😁
@@themarro6695 Karma has caught up to him he goes from supply to supply hobosexual he is 😂😂😂 I was his longest relationship 10 yrs (don't ask me how felt as tho I was under a demonic spell I swear) All his other encounters have been very short lived he gets bored easily & loves to discard 1st so I'm enemy #1 bein I discarded him 1st over 2 yrs ago
Every video you make I can relate to. Thanks Dave, for putting all the pieces of the puzzle together.
Your channel has saved me from being Mrs B to being a Mrs A. God bless you Dave for saving me. I hope your channel keeps saving so many other empaths. Sending big love to you and all your followers
I found out who he was when I started really looking at his body language and the light caught his eyes and I saw what looked like a crocodile eye. No expression, no soul just cruelty then I just knew. I was so deflated that I listened to a tarot card reading which alerted me that I could be with a narcissist. I didn’t know what that was. I was shocked but then things started to make sense. Dr Les Carter saved me then found your site and you helped me deepen my understanding. I never knew such people existed and they don’t deserve our time or our love. Run and be free to be the lovely human being that you are and shine. That is the best revenge you can have. Namaste 🙏🏻
My narc told me I needed to stop blaming him for my problems when I brought up issues in our relationship. He said it's not his fault things aren't the way I wanted and I could walk away and change things but I choose not to. I am determined to prove him wrong. Blocked him on everything and going no contact.
Your videos have greatly helped me! I’m a registered nurse and consider myself fairly smart, but not when it came to my narc husband! I have been going thru a divorce for a year! We have been married for 20 yrs.... cannot believe the pain I have allowed myself to endure! Found out he cheated with several different women this last yr and actually tried to see if we could make this work..... then I found his 2nd cell phone! Done! Became Mrs B and now am moving into Mrs A! Thank you for these videos! Stay safe and healthy
During the lockdown it's a perfect time to really cement the no contact, grey rock policy. I got a text the other night. "How are you doing?" from ex-wife Narc of 14 years. A 1 word reply - as we share 3 kids. "Fantastic". I actually was.
Perfect! The less energy you put into their shtuff, the better off you are. They are expecting us to feel panicked and helpless, but really, they have nothing to offer, and want to drag us down with them..... so they can stomp on our skulls and feel superior to is. DON'T GIVE IN TO THEIR STUPID GAME. AMEN.
The new supply messaged me 11/2019. I went NC Mrs A until the Hoover 3 weeks ago. I broke no contact and discarded him. He so thought he was back in. It felt so good. Back NC. Smear campaign is hilarious!
Good job!!!
With what Ive learned these last couple months, I realized that the girl who somehow got my phone number and was calling me private and harassing me was the new supply. I just ignored the red flag and my gut instinct at the time because other than a few things changing our relationship seemed good still. But again, being the kind, caring person that I am and always putting the people I love first, there were so many flags I ignored at the time. You live and you learn I guess I never knew there were really such EVIL people that look and find others to purposely and intentionally hurt. Never felt so much pain in my life and I have had two open heart surgeries (they break your ribs open). Thanks Dave, with your help I am healing still have rough days but couldn't have done it without you. #NC ❤
"What kind of martial law would you set up for narcissists?" My answer is MAKE THEM BE ALONE - no electronics, no social media, no nobody 😂
Lorraine M. I don't think they can be alone. Then they would have to be alone with the devil. My husband left, had his selfish little life, then he came back.I would scream and ask, why didn't you just stay alone? I know he needed his mommy,me.
I’m not a Ms. B anymore. Very much began that way. Great video. 💕
Christina Holtzclaw well done dear Christina! Mrs A is the only way 🥳🥳🤗🤗🤗
I left the Narc first but then a girl called me telling me she got my phone number that she was one of his fuel source and she wanted me to know he's been cheating on me and she came to find out he was a bad person. God will always show you the way.
I just knew i was heading down the right path by not warning the new supply, and everything in me wanted her to feel exactly how i felt when i was discarded & she partook in the narc's rescue...i appreciate with all my heart the time and the information you provide with each video...
I feel amazing knowing that this channel exists & i can get my daily antidote "life after loving a narc" thanks again Dav keep em coming!!!
And no contact is so real, and so healthy for the healing process.....
When I met with the narc after the discard she said I want to have a relationship with you “but just not right now”. That is when I know there was a new supply”.
''You'd make a fine girlfriend, I just need time, not ready yet''. Heard it!
I’m stoic Mrs. A :) God’s light has always been in me
Exactly Dave, if you feel empty and alone in a marriage or a relationship...walk away no matter how much you put in....stop your pain nobody else can stop it....pray
I went complete no contact in May 2019, even thru everything he did to me after that date. I know that he stalked, hoovered, and destroyed my property to try to suck me back in and lash out at him, to get me in trouble. I have been Mrs. A all the way, I stayed no contact thru it all and dealt with law enforcement and the courts instead. He is now tied up in the courts and has to wear an ankle monitor. I know that he will hear my victim impact statement his next court date, and how all his mess has affected me, but I don't care. As long as he leaves me alone and can't bother me or damage my property anymore, that's all that matters. Stay no contact and use law enforcement if necessary!! They're not worth your time, effort, or energy!
Im in the courts too
I have gone no contact and know I have to read Impact statement. I hate he has to know how it's affected me but it's healing for me and can maybe help save one woman from the pain I went through
April Shearer be encouraged because they do everything they can to get u back and get revenge! Be strong, keep standing and fighting! God bless u! He will see u thru this! ☺️
I did the court and he lied and paid his way out of it, it hurt so much, that was the other week, I took the blow and I’m moving on far far away, against anything he has put on me, I don’t care anymore
LizEarthAngel3 sometimes people have to move away. They lie all the time to weasel out of charges. It helped me that the detectives got proof because he lied every time I saw him stalking. I never got him on camera tampering with my car, but he tried to reach me on social media and called me a few times before I changed my number. Plus he already has the initial protection order violation. That’s what helped me prove my case. We’ll see what happens...
LizEarthAngel3 be encouraged and stay strong 💪🏾
Mrs A - Holy Spirit is leading her on from all of it with lots of lessons about Narcissism so she can light it up for others going through a similar thing
yes...happened just like this.
I think I am mrs.AB....lol.
I busted him and called him out in front of the new supply.
He cried like a baby.
i told him God showed me his true self...I feel I have some closure.
9 years....of a fake relationship.
she is 26...he is 59. I told him I hope he enjoyed being a sugar daddy. He even co signed for her a car.
they have already been together a year!
praying for all.
Hurts your empathic spirit.
Always follow your gut feeling.
Mine was right for a year.
God Bless everyone.❤🙏
I don't want him back. He is a soulless devil.
He was pissed when I called him out to his face.
Michell Burton mine did the same, hes 46, shes 25. We were together for 17 years....I said to him 6 months ago...when we first met she was 8....he even looked disgusted at himself 🤦🏻♀️
I was 18 and mine was 39 when he trapped me, now I see how sick it was 😢 I did 20 years with him than he found someone 15 years younger than me that I caught him with, it’s just disgusting.
@@rutholdfield1356 ...I am so sorry you went through that. I pray in time we can both heal from this.
I can't comprehend the mindset.
I still cry....but I think because nothing meant anything to him.
@@LizEarthAngel3
Prayers for you.
I don't know if I can ever accept the way I was treated. In time....I hope the pain eases.❤✌
Michell Burton it takes time for the pain, be gentle with yourself, if you have children with them it’s really hard as I still have to talk to him, but I’ve done over a year of counseling it’s helping, some days it still hurts, stay strong and love yourself 💕
Oh to be in love with someone who's in love with me, it just seems impossible
I'm just staying put, dreaming of it till that miracle happens
Definitely was Mrs. B, I made myself look crazy. And he just sat back like the man.
Hey Dave! After being in the r elatiinship with the NARCISSIST for 4 months, it only took me 4 months to get rid of the narcissist for good.!!! I even got hoovered after the ghosted me for 8 months... I went ahead and played their game for a week or two but I was already on to their game, thanks to you and other good people who are educating us about narcissism. . All they did was make me STRONGER. Thanks Dave!!!! I am single and happier than ever before.
I have closed the door behind me ,
ACCESS DENIED - NC xx isolation forever
I found out about the new supply when I drove by his house and her crappy Prius was in the driveway. Two nights prior he kicked me out of his life and said it was because I didn’t change. He left me for a woman that was supposed to be my friend that he works with. She was married at the time. He got engaged to her after being with her two months and her divorce wasn’t even final yet. Super awesome.
Omg yes I've always felt alone even tho they sitting right beside me or around me all the time!!!!!
I badly wanted to say my narc ex. to be safe now, coz of corona outbreak in India.. and I would have said that for sure if I didn't watched your videos, Dave.. Without you I would have spent years of my life wasting, thinking about her.. truly you have done a miracle in my life.. Thanks to you from the bottom of my heart...
The narc tries robbing you of closure: that's why my narc Ex tried using the 'wedge' technique to try and leave the door open for the future. I just went NC and Blocked and Relocated hundreds of miles away for a great new career opportunity. I ended it like a BOSS. I realized that it was up to me to determine what closure would be for myself - i.e., separately from any input from the narc. JOB DONE.
This made me realize as hard as you tried to show you were a decent person by conduct, actions and intent, it didn't matter. You were just an actor in the narcs alternative universe. No identity. No individualism. Nothing unique. Just an unwitting player in the game of narc.
" just an unwitting player in the game of narc " that's exactly what it is. Lol
They are an idiot to Ms. A.
I shut that narc down before anything got started. I just started seeing things that just didn't make sense.
@@keshia3061 I wish I had done quick. But I'm not ashamed for trying to be decent, nor giving benefit of doubt. The first one will be the last one though. Like you said, "shut it down" once your gut says too much crazy.
@@bradmcewen you should not be ashamed for being a good person and coming from the heart. The narc in my life tried coming back around again and I just ignored him. I don't have time. I rather be single and happy.
Amen to you, and the fine fellow who mentioned our Savior... who does answer His children's prayers. The good Lord bless your channel, and all your subscribers.
I walked in on the NARChole and his new supply. And he looked at me with such rage even though I was walking into OUR house- it was as if I disturbed him. All he could say was “we’ve had problems for years, how could you not see this coming” - I left shattered, but I’m so proud of myself for remaining stoic Ms.A. I blocked him and his family via phone and social media and have been no contact for about 3 months!
Wow Dave, thank you so much. I am officially Mrs. A after a long weak stint of being Mrs. B. Let me tell you, the feelings of self-respect, self-confidence and dignity are fast returning and I will never let Mrs. B. have coffee at my table ever again. Love you and thank you!
I found out through the grape vine, and I tried to contact the new supply through her ex-husband. But she didn't want any contact. But her ex-husband wanted to know what was going on, and I told him. From that day on I was relieved.
Definitely shut down dating sites to narcs! Be blessed Dave! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🥰
Blocking is so powerfull. I am feeling my happiness come back. No confusion no uncertainty These vidios help me so much Thankyou.
I love this channel, God is healing me♥️
Mine left his wedding band on my dresser. He then told me because I was so attractive I wouldn’t be alone long. That’s how he ended our marriage. No closure. I was devastated. After 20 years of marriage, this was it. I said nothing. I moved out, went NC and moved 50 miles away so I would never have to see him again. I blocked him, his family and all our mutual friends. I spent 20 years watching him cheat and lie while I treated him like a king. His discard was my way out. I will never speak to him again. God saved me from him knowing I would never leave. I am free.
This was me a couple months ago after he followed me home from a club. And no contact for a year.. lol
Great video and so true
Dave, I watch and listen to you everyday ,sometimes several times a day, and this video is exactly how things went in my life for the last 20 years. I’m so glad I have found your videos.
Didn’t there was these kind of people out there. Til it happened to me 13 years together and outa nowhere thrown to the curb. It’s very hard to get over her but no contact rule is the way. Thanks for helpin me be strong !! God bless
Your take on narcissism is profound and so user friendly and non judgmental. Omg, thank you for your candor and bravery! I too want to confront their arrocities and spread the word to spread the healing!!!
My ex narc would say "you need to find yourself" or "things need to change". I discarded him before he discarded me. NC for two months and I am so much stronger and closer to GOD 🙏
I would shut off their phone plans and their internet access. No way to hoover and no way to troll for supply. 📵
JESUS Christ is the way thank you Dave for allowing the conversation and healing .
I was Mrs. B. And I looked psycho. Six years later I’m a Boss! I was laughed at it’s horrible! But I ended the game, thanks to you and my dedication to change this horrible predicament I was put in.
Yep, I fell for that one, 'You said you hated cheaters'. Mine told me, 'I would never cheat, because I know how it feels...if I would end the relationship before finding someone else'. And I held him to this 'truth' and he was looking to cheat and actually cheating for years as it turned out.
When you said miss B Shutting the game down like a boss I lmao. great videos man.
The pain ends by the way quicker than you think 🤔
Narcissists and FB messenger are where they live their lives! This is where they dwell and manipulate most. If it shut down, narcs would be trapped and have to come out into the world of texting; chancing exposure to their primary supp!y.
Dave it went down exactly as you said. Thank you for the answers. From day two I shut him down like a boss!!! He hoovered just like you said they do and wanted me to go back to his apartment one week later. I told him I just got settled in here and he flew into a rage and hung up. Haven't heard from him since!!! YAHOOOO!!! STOIC Ms. A. THANK GOD JESUS DELIVERED ME!!! His rejection is my protection. My rejection of him is his EJECTION!!! To the curb!!! LOL!!!😁 LIKE A BOSS!!! Put respect on my forehead!!! No sucker sign here!!!! Colleen🤐 The game stops here!!! The buck stops here!!! A year and a half and the more time that goes by and the more narcissist videos you watch....the more the path gets clearer!!! Then comes the day you say I don't even care about no relationship that never existed anyway!!! It's like waking up out of a coma!!!
Dave you have helped my mind make sense of all the confusing games. I so appreciate this knowledge and your faith. It’s helped me so much in healing from this push pull gaslighting game I didn’t even know existed. What a disgusting sickness. One less car in the garage.
He answered the phone through facebook messenger while they were together.
Boy I laughed and told him how stupid he was.
I told her all about him while he acted like he had told me i knew for a year he had a new girlfriend!
Nope.....we had just slept together 2 days before and I told the knew supply.
Apparently....she stayed with him. 33 years in age difference.
Now I know why he was dying his long salt a pepper hair. 😂I told him he looked ridiculous!
I'm glad I went with no contact. After I found out who and what he was, inwas done!
Dave...keep your sense of humor...a cheerful heart doeth good like a medicine...God has promised to heal the brokenhearted...
I have definitely been Mrs. B...I was never able to just walk away and not have to put all the puzzle pieces together and figure out when I was cheated on etc. I always had to go back in my mind to the times he went missing and what that meant. Who was he visiting? Was he already in another relationship before we broke up...all these questions I could never get an answer from him on, and when I realized I never would, I finally became Mrs. A and I don’t care. I know I’d be terrible supply for him now because I don’t believe a word that comes out of his mouth and I understand this disorder now. I’m thankful for your channel!!!
This title resonates so much Dave 😆
Your initial analogy had me hearing that song " I saw you (and him) walking in the raiiiin You were holding hands and I'll never feel the same" 🎼🎼🎼
Just knowing that the narc ended up with one of his Flying Monkeys and now reidealizes me is BOSS enough. They know my name and I'm satisfied to say that 🤣
Dave! I have to say that I love all your videos but THIS one....oooooh, really really resonated with me and I wish I’d seen it sooner. I want you to know that I’ve graduated from Ms. B to now MS. A!!! It’s such a hard process. Especially when they Hoover like they do, telling me that I crushed his heart. Makes me feel horrible. BUT I refuse to feel sorry for him anymore. Thank you for making such great videos and opening my eyes WIDE open! Much love 💕
Wow, thank you!
I Miss B....I'm care, but no more F's to give.
What kills me is sitting everyday thinking how my life was great and amazing before this fucked up relationship , I took everything for granted before never knowing that I’ll be wishing for my old me and life back
You nailed it. "You're out of control." The narc is always obsessed with control. Even battling a narc at work with all my knowledge and experience...I looked a little unhinged laying out her abuse, moves, plans and pathology. It's baked into the cake if you don't walk away quietly. I'm not quiet so I unloaded...
Correct! Just change. There's no change that needs to happen except leaving them alone@
Oh yes it was so very cathartic to put those pieces together. It was so satisfying and delayed the pain for a minute. There was hardly relief after I had done all I could to put the puzzle together and still had missing pieces. No closure and yes it hurt. But God really did help me see the truth especially by discovering this channel and while it still cuts deep because it's just so surreal and baffling to go through such an experience like that, I am now so very grateful that I am more free than I've ever been.
Mrs B collects the pieces, builds the jigsaw then becomes Mrs. A with all the knowledge. I think this process helps with the cognitive dissonance. WE'RE NOT NUTS... Thank God for your intelligence and strength of character. Acceptance is the relief moving on is blessedness . Stay true everyone. Thanks Dave...
You're actually
Amazing
= actualized
Love your analogy tells very intuitive to self & others.. ♡
You’re such a life savor.
You make me smile and laugh out loud on days when my heart is heavy. Thank you, Dave.
I never gave into the narc and walked away Ms. A.
Thank you for making sure to read the comments. I usually focus on the video but you made me read and I’m glad that I started following this community. I have been following you more than a year now and I really appreciate every single video and everyone’s comments ❤️❤️❤️
I’ll try to answer your questions next time 🤦♀️
Former Mrs B, reformed into an A. It took me 2 years. I am healed. Thank you Dave. No more puzzles.
QOTD: I will SHUT DOWN their internet subscription 😂
This will CUT of their ways of obtaining supply!!😂
QOTD - It's Tyler's Tarot in the house 🎼 and I'm here to do your reading todaayy.. 😁
Heh heh you right :-)
OMG Dave. Once again...you hit it out of the park. "Who is going to be the better slave." Towards the end of my marriage, it got so bad, I actually started calling my ex-narc, "Master" in jest. Ha! There is truth in humor. I'm a genealogist...I recently found an ancestral grandmother who eluded my detective work for years. I was able to find her through DNA and court papers from 18th Century Maryland. She was a slave. I'm white. My heart broke for her because I can only imagine what she went through. I believe we carry memories in our DNA and I urge everyone to "know thyself". Do your family history and get to know who you are and why you are the way you are. God bless.
We can also carry generational curses and blessings. Sometimes we have to cut off the demons carried down by our ancestors. Mine are Native American and also European... Witchcraft and pagan stuff, but also strength, resiliency and bravery. But I know God carried throughout my family and saved me when I was 15 and Jesus is the best friend I've ever had.
Mrs A from day 1. Narc called to tell me, "You're the dominant one. You know the game. You are the boss."
Been there done that. Solved many puzzles in my day. No more. No contact.