I was going to make the same point. She had the opportunity to own up for her abrasive and insensitive behavior at this reunion. But instead, she chose to go deeper into the hole of so called reasoning... it's really a personal problem that she needs to address. Where is the maturity in her to where she couldn't just come correct about this??
Her and her friends made a drinking game based off how many times he said "u feel me", but those same friends didn’t correct her for saying "LIKE" after every sentence. She ain’t correct herself for wearing that drawstring ponytail tho….
@@sy3248 and she said it like he’s some emotional person that gets upset easily but he handled himself like a G every time. She’s definitely the type that only communicates through manipulation
I never ever heard my grandparents say “ya feel me”? lol Chicago baby!! We start everything first and make everything popular!! Chicago has a huge influence on the nation ✅ Pidd!!
Basically this what men go thru, women find the smallest things, magnify them to the umptenth degree and the insult you about their observations and then expect you to do everything to win her over 😂
Exactly naw thought you said my socks were slightly too high and my hair was a centimeter too long here 😂😂😂 Naw baby go bother some other dummy bc it ain’t me 😂😂
He really killed her with the line "what about me made you direct every little thing about me." He didn't say it exactly like that but it was close to it.
I'm a female and from my perspective she is scorned. Her feelings got hurt because she noticed that he didn't acknowledge her his attention went to the other women. It's obvious someone you don't like you move on, but she completely fixated herself on him.
Here is the correct psychological understanding of what is occurring in this video: This woman is a miserable person who is reacting to someone who came from where she's from, and is succeeding in life more than her, in her mind. Miserable people don't like anyone to find peace of mind or joy, and they exibit the most hatred for people that came from the same level that they are on, and have leveled up. She isn't secretly obsessed with him, she wants to connect to him in any way possible to tear him down and drag him back down to her level. People like this woman don't believe they can put in the work and apply themselves to improve their conditions, so they stay stuck in the same place, and it makes them miserable. They don't want to see anyone improving in life in general and they are negative when they see that, but they absolutely can't control the severe outbursts of hatred, vitriol and anger toward someone that they percieve as having come from the same level that they are on and that person has leveled up. She is essentially saying, "you ain't nobody, how you get your life together, you ain't nothin, just like I ain't nothin, and you want to act like you better than me just because you got this and that supposedly goin on for you, well everything you've done and everything you got ain't sh*t, and you ain't sh*t". So, as the old adage goes 'misery loves company'. He is a direct reflection in her mirror of life, shining a big bright light on how little she and all of her associates has accomplished with their lives, and it enrages her to see his success, because someone who was just like her and all of her friends and family, who are all currently stuck in the same place in life, has worked on themselves in order to level up in life. You have to learn to simply cut people like this off from having access to you immediately and very coldly. I would have heard the 1st or 2nd negative comment at most, and shut her off by saying, "ok cool, I wish you the best of luck in life", and stopped talking. If she said anything else to me, then I would have turned my back on her and ignored her existence. Then once the next person started talking I would have spoken with them.
It also hurt my own feelings she kept throwing her little brother in it comparing him to a grown man. She said all that mess about him but still trying to give him hugs and stuff. 😮
Exactly! I hate when people say people are obsessed with them or other people. Fact of the matter is the hood has people with a crab in the basket type of mentality. The reason why successful business owners will get their business destroyed or simply killed for being successful. She didn't like how he was holding himself so she wanted to bring her back down to her level... sad. You can always tell who grew up in the hood based on how they act.
Before he gave his response. I was like I hope went back watched and appreciated who he is cuz 10yrs ago I would have gave it to her... And for him to say the exact theing This about about me. He needs roses. I felt that God in him. More black men need to know that skill. Reflect and reassess. Or realize u don't have to and say GROWTH I wish I could personally applaud u my boy!. U made me feel like I have a rare skill as u do.. thank u be blessed
4:35 the first thing out of her mouth should’ve been an apology. Period. She’s insane. Who cares if you have a “higher vocabulary” when you have absolutely nothing to say. Give dude my number he seems kind and humble. That’s my type…people of good character. He chose his words so well. You go Darryl!
I’m pretty sure she meant day to day SPEECH rather than “speak”. I heard nothing but nonsense on her part 🥴🥴🥴 bro handled this with absolute class, extremely commendable 💯‼️
Shorty was doing too much especially with fake hair on her head!!!!! Heavily in a nasty way criticising people And the funny thing is ...even the guy who chose her on pop balloons finds her to be annoying...like she needs heavy work with herself!!!!
Saying it was a correction is crazy. You a wmn on a whole tv dating show, you can’t correct shyt but urself. Homeboy with the dreads nailed it when he made that statement . And then homeboy she tried to burn dunked on her with everything he said in response to her “explanation “. Bravo
He did well. May he continue to grow and find happiness and love. I think she does like him. Sis is so pressed about him that she and her friends had a drinking game about him.
First😂 she definitely want him she only popped on dude the first show cause he was checking out the other ladys like he should and felt he didnt want her cause he double looked at the other ladys twice 😂😂😂smh
I completely agree 💯 scorned her feelings got hurt and she basically projected her insecurities on him. It's obvious if a person doesn't like you they move on, but she fixated on him hard.
Never try disrespecting another person coz u don't know where they from, what they bn through to get where they're, if u dont like someone just be straight up frank, as simple as that, but not taking a dig at them, that's why sentences that come out of our mouths, n actions tell a lot about us, our level of maturity, she literally clowned herself 😄😄
Im surprised she's even made it in chicago because she couldnt even read the room, not one person was in her corner, laughed with her or thought she was in the right. Even the woman next to her is looking at her with disgust.
Yoooo listening to that recap of that first viral moment was hard ! The man said it best “when you’re from where I’m from you just don’t talk to people any kind of way” and he is absolutely correct. As a Chicagoan if you’re not interested to still say that shit in a sweet tone and a smile cause you might get K.O. if they feel disrespected. I’m not condoning that kind of behavior just stating facts.
True intelligence recognizes that everyone has their own slang and vernacular. That has no bearing on a person’s intellect because we all sound like the area we’re from.
@200_acres I don’t think it’s obsession. She feels dumb, and she wants to get on his good side so she won’t feel as bad. It’s like she reaching to ask him we’re good right? So he can take it easy on her.
If she would've took the time to actually listen and understand what he was saying she would've understood his "Vocabulary" is actually pretty high and how she gonna tell him whats true or fake about him, she barely knows him!!😬😬
This was an excellent video. I already knew he handled himself with immaculate responses and actions. What I didn’t know was how he mentioned he sees growth within himself from watching that clip, letting us know, a younger version of himself would have absolutely crashed tf out (deservingly so) Darrell (Daryl, Derrell, idk how you spell bros name) Leading by example. Teaching young men when and how to control their emotions, when they start to spiral.
The Ego of the modern day black wombman (woman) is out of control; beyond the stratosphere. How this should have went, between the two. Him expressing his thoughts about that episode, her listening objectively, then apologising. I can guarantee that she doesn’t have a lot of men, wanting her beyond physical attention. Lastly, her ridiculing his “you know what I’m saying” retorts, while she says “like” at least once per sentence; per thought.
@@BeachBallCrusherNo he isn’t, less men get more women pregnant than majority of men getting women pregnant. Meaning women are messing with the same players as well as sharing the same guy.
A briefcase is an accessory to carry things. Im 31 years old with a laptop for work, if i didn't have a computer bag for it then I'd get a briefcase lol. That's not playing a role.
She should have just said I was being immature and childish. Thank you for not entertaining my immature behavior. I sincerely publicly apologize please forgive. I'm gonna grow and do better. Moving on.
She digs herself into a deeper hole every time she speaks.
Sounding slow asab lmao
She’s ANNOYING AF 🙄
She famous now. Pure pump and dump to the world now if anyone dares to bother with her.
His “Ya feel me” = Her “like”
Even the other contestants can’t stand her
She had a perfect moment to redeem herself in this video by apologizing to him and she still fumbled
Bruh, no more truth than this can be spoken!
Not the case for a lot of single people, but it's a solid reason why she's single...
I was going to make the same point. She had the opportunity to own up for her abrasive and insensitive behavior at this reunion. But instead, she chose to go deeper into the hole of so called reasoning... it's really a personal problem that she needs to address. Where is the maturity in her to where she couldn't just come correct about this??
🤷🏽♂️ ya know... I don't think I've ever heard/witnessed a BW sincerely apologize for her behavior.
Women don't apologise, the Devil doesn't allow them to unfortunately.
@@dallasmckay1455 she looks mixed.
She's 4'8" and very insecure. She is self-deprecating and tries to eliminate herself before she is rejected.
This is the truth
Crazy part is a lot of the men were attracted to her until she spoke
Crazy part is a lot of them were attracted to her until she spoke. Lady next to her was absolutely gorgeous though
Facts, good eye and these type of women tend to put down men who they’ feel is out of their league in order to feel better about themselves.
She 4ft8 😆😆😆😆 no wonder 🤔 she A🐍🐍 🕳️🕳️
I’m a 56 year old man and this young man handle himself with class
What's scary is he is Chicago bred gangsta and he chose not to react with any hostility whatsoever
56? go do something because you are too old to be here
Facts
He proved her point. He can barely speak English.
@@BeachBallCrusherand she could?
She is projecting her emptiness. And attacking his presence. Everything she said was how she felt inside.
💯🎯
She doesn't feel empty on the inside. In fact, it's the opposite. She thinks too highly
@@jeremiahsymonette4781no she’s empty girls like that will be lonely 4L
bro was inarticulate and showed up with an empty briefcase
@eddycarpenter8989 he articulated himself perfectly. You're in the minority vs the rest of the entire internet
She was extra for no reason pissed me completely off
She wants attention by any means.
She said like a thousand times
She was annoying AF!!
Facts
Yeah she extra annoying like she definitely is one of those females that will be by yourself
That 4'1 troll is full of herself, annoying and will end up frustrated and alone.
She spoke down on him because she wanted to go viral.
Thats it and that's all. 💯
She likes him, plain and simple. She gives him too much energy. She even tried to talk to him behind the scenes and hit on the socials. She mad corny
I said the same thing! She likes him obviously
Very corny
Hey 👋🏾 @@Jesuslovesmeandyou0801
Then why on earth she rejects him? Why?!🤦🏻
She thought she was going to get some laughs saying that drinking game ish.
Factz I was looking for this comment 💯
Facts
😂😂
Just looked like a obsessed wierdo
So glad she didn’t. Very immature.
What would be considered a fake briefcase is a question that needs to be answered😂
She was and still is on some other shit...its something in her. He definetly held his own👏
$Rpowell38
Every 3 words out her mouth she says "LIKE" but she thinks her vocabulary is immaculate? foh lol
Day to day speak
@@roylle6346💀💀
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Her and her friends made a drinking game based off how many times he said "u feel me", but those same friends didn’t correct her for saying "LIKE" after every sentence. She ain’t correct herself for wearing that drawstring ponytail tho….
She probably lying she definitely doesn't have any friends 😭🤣
Man I didn't read down far enough in the comments.....I just commented about the "like".
“Please don’t get upset” is crazy after you say you made fun of him with your friends. wtf 😂 crazy lady
Exactly! A drinking game after the show which means they opened their phones or TV's to watch him talk only to make fun of him.
Right. When upsetting him definitely was the point of her telling him.
@@sy3248 and she said it like he’s some emotional person that gets upset easily but he handled himself like a G every time. She’s definitely the type that only communicates through manipulation
"don't take this disrespectfully" said by every person right before they get disrespectful 😂💯
You can tell she is extremely insecure .
🎯🎯🎯
Saying “ya feel me” is definitely an up north/ Midwest lingo 😂
Right!!
and the Bay area and I grew up NYC brooklyn to be exact but shoutout my vallejo, oakland and San Francisco
You feel me
We say that down south too a lot of Midwest lingo especially Chicago from us cause a lot of y’all grandparents and families from down here as well
I never ever heard my grandparents say “ya feel me”? lol
Chicago baby!!
We start everything first and make everything popular!!
Chicago has a huge influence on the nation ✅
Pidd!!
Let have a shot for every time she say “like”
She talking about he fake but she was up there with a fake ponytail on girl gone somewhere
A drawstring ponytail in 2024 is crazy and she’s correcting ppl. The Chinese girl in the hair store shoulda corrected her an told her that wasn’t it.
@@Stixandstoned420 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 not drawstring 😮@@Stixandstoned420
Basically this what men go thru, women find the smallest things, magnify them to the umptenth degree and the insult you about their observations and then expect you to do everything to win her over 😂
Exactly naw thought you said my socks were slightly too high and my hair was a centimeter too long here 😂😂😂
Naw baby go bother some other dummy bc it ain’t me 😂😂
facts
He really killed her with the line "what about me made you direct every little thing about me." He didn't say it exactly like that but it was close to it.
My answer is she likes him!
For got her name lady in the red dress next to her was looking like you cant be foreal😂😂
On god she looking like “girl shut up” 😂
Everyone looking at her crazy lol 😂😂
Tryna show out but nobody felt that 😂
I'm a female and from my perspective she is scorned. Her feelings got hurt because she noticed that he didn't acknowledge her his attention went to the other women.
It's obvious someone you don't like you move on, but she completely fixated herself on him.
She says "like" a LOT! 😂
But she wants a man with a higher vocabulary 💀 you can’t make this 💩 up
Here is the correct psychological understanding of what is occurring in this video:
This woman is a miserable person who is reacting to someone who came from where she's from, and is succeeding in life more than her, in her mind. Miserable people don't like anyone to find peace of mind or joy, and they exibit the most hatred for people that came from the same level that they are on, and have leveled up. She isn't secretly obsessed with him, she wants to connect to him in any way possible to tear him down and drag him back down to her level. People like this woman don't believe they can put in the work and apply themselves to improve their conditions, so they stay stuck in the same place, and it makes them miserable. They don't want to see anyone improving in life in general and they are negative when they see that, but they absolutely can't control the severe outbursts of hatred, vitriol and anger toward someone that they percieve as having come from the same level that they are on and that person has leveled up.
She is essentially saying, "you ain't nobody, how you get your life together, you ain't nothin, just like I ain't nothin, and you want to act like you better than me just because you got this and that supposedly goin on for you, well everything you've done and everything you got ain't sh*t, and you ain't sh*t". So, as the old adage goes 'misery loves company'. He is a direct reflection in her mirror of life, shining a big bright light on how little she and all of her associates has accomplished with their lives, and it enrages her to see his success, because someone who was just like her and all of her friends and family, who are all currently stuck in the same place in life, has worked on themselves in order to level up in life.
You have to learn to simply cut people like this off from having access to you immediately and very coldly. I would have heard the 1st or 2nd negative comment at most, and shut her off by saying, "ok cool, I wish you the best of luck in life", and stopped talking. If she said anything else to me, then I would have turned my back on her and ignored her existence. Then once the next person started talking I would have spoken with them.
It also hurt my own feelings she kept throwing her little brother in it comparing him to a grown man. She said all that mess about him but still trying to give him hugs and stuff. 😮
@@briserenity Well Said! I beleive you are exactly right on this!
Exactly! I hate when people say people are obsessed with them or other people. Fact of the matter is the hood has people with a crab in the basket type of mentality. The reason why successful business owners will get their business destroyed or simply killed for being successful. She didn't like how he was holding himself so she wanted to bring her back down to her level... sad. You can always tell who grew up in the hood based on how they act.
“Let the clown, clown herself l.” I like that!
Pride Comes Before a Fall
Before he gave his response. I was like I hope went back watched and appreciated who he is cuz 10yrs ago I would have gave it to her... And for him to say the exact theing
This about about me. He needs roses. I felt that God in him. More black men need to know that skill. Reflect and reassess. Or realize u don't have to and say GROWTH I wish I could personally applaud u my boy!. U made me feel like I have a rare skill as u do.. thank u be blessed
4:35 the first thing out of her mouth should’ve been an apology. Period. She’s insane. Who cares if you have a “higher vocabulary” when you have absolutely nothing to say. Give dude my number he seems kind and humble. That’s my type…people of good character. He chose his words so well. You go Darryl!
What was she correcting? You don't make sense. Just how she keep using the word "LIKE"!!!
I also caught that lol
I was searching for this comment
Need to increase her vocabulary 💀
But she took issue with him saying you feel me. Smh she really makes herself look weird ignorant and slow.
Arguing with a fool, proves there are two, and from a distance no one can tell who is who.
No it doesn't prove that their are two, but it soes look that way from afar
I’m pretty sure she meant day to day SPEECH rather than “speak”. I heard nothing but nonsense on her part 🥴🥴🥴 bro handled this with absolute class, extremely commendable 💯‼️
She really wants to have buddy kids.
Them poor kids don't deserve that
I was thinking the same thing
She said ol boy is not my type but oh your Gorgeous smh i swear you cant just make these things up smh 🤦🏿♂️ 🤦🏿♂️
He would've already smashed if that was the case....
Shorty was doing too much especially with fake hair on her head!!!!! Heavily in a nasty way criticising people And the funny thing is ...even the guy who chose her on pop balloons finds her to be annoying...like she needs heavy work with herself!!!!
Saying it was a correction is crazy. You a wmn on a whole tv dating show, you can’t correct shyt but urself. Homeboy with the dreads nailed it when he made that statement . And then homeboy she tried to burn dunked on her with everything he said in response to her “explanation “. Bravo
I love when she tried to make a joke and the camera showed the other people with straight faces. She was the only one laughing😂
I ain't never messing with short girls again. They always extra and tryna correct something and hiding behind plausible deniability
And get so easily offended when you say something in the Right smh 🤦🏿♂️
@@jameleason6124 facts! Then do the same shit that made u correct em, like they get off in bothering us 😒
@@mrsnipermask936 same sh.. different day smh 🤦🏿 🤷🏿♂️ lol 😂
Because they are small and child looking, they think they can get away with a lot. Some of the most manipulative individuals
😂😂
This need to be a reality show.
It kinda is
She actually wanted bro. That’s the crazy part
He did well. May he continue to grow and find happiness and love. I think she does like him. Sis is so pressed about him that she and her friends had a drinking game about him.
First😂 she definitely want him she only popped on dude the first show cause he was checking out the other ladys like he should and felt he didnt want her cause he double looked at the other ladys twice 😂😂😂smh
I completely agree 💯 scorned her feelings got hurt and she basically projected her insecurities on him.
It's obvious if a person doesn't like you they move on, but she fixated on him hard.
But she hadn’t even popped her balloon yet while she was talking shit to dude. She still had her balloon lmao
I love how everyone looked at her while she talked. Like, they was not feelin her at all.
All I have to say is “day to day speak”.
Never try disrespecting another person coz u don't know where they from, what they bn through to get where they're, if u dont like someone just be straight up frank, as simple as that, but not taking a dig at them, that's why sentences that come out of our mouths, n actions tell a lot about us, our level of maturity, she literally clowned herself 😄😄
200 acres is out here cooking something about clown , that was very slick brother and facts!😂👍
When she criticized his vocabulary I thought she was trolling. Her vocab and articulation left MUCH to be desired
“Day to day speak” 😂😂 $beans2121
That lady in the long red dress is wow! Would like to hear her speak.
I like this dude.
That section of the video was so hard to watch...
Im surprised she's even made it in chicago because she couldnt even read the room, not one person was in her corner, laughed with her or thought she was in the right. Even the woman next to her is looking at her with disgust.
Did any of the women actually call her out? I agree with you, but I feel like they should have
You the same age as him, who are you to correct!?
No one is above correction
@@abramlittle7102everyone doesn't have the right to correct someone😂especially when they need to correct themselves
Yoooo listening to that recap of that first viral moment was hard ! The man said it best “when you’re from where I’m from you just don’t talk to people any kind of way” and he is absolutely correct. As a Chicagoan if you’re not interested to still say that shit in a sweet tone and a smile cause you might get K.O. if they feel disrespected. I’m not condoning that kind of behavior just stating facts.
I didn’t think it could get worst smh. And he still handled her like the youngin she is.
True intelligence recognizes that everyone has their own slang and vernacular. That has no bearing on a person’s intellect because we all sound like the area we’re from.
Lol she got on him for using “you feel me” repeatedly, but how many times did she use the word “like”? Cmon sis 🤣🤣
Dark dude with dreads called her out on her shit then she says I made a mistake lmaooooo hypocrite
And THIS is why she's single. Nobody wants someone that will tear them down at any moment in life. #singlebychoices
@200_acres I don’t think it’s obsession. She feels dumb, and she wants to get on his good side so she won’t feel as bad. It’s like she reaching to ask him we’re good right? So he can take it easy on her.
Facilitated Trauma Bonding… gotta love that.
She says "like", like 20 times... 😂😂😂
Bruh definitely on another level! Taking notes! 📝
Best vid you dropped I definitely enjoyed this!
That’s the way an attractive lady makes herself look bad.
She can't stop saying like🤨
She was digging big up bro what he said touched me 😢
She is talking about him saying "you feel me" while she keeps using the word "like" if you want you can count how many times she said it more then 10x
Practice what you preach 🙌🏾
Great breakdown
If she would've took the time to actually listen and understand what he was saying she would've understood his "Vocabulary" is actually pretty high and how she gonna tell him whats true or fake about him, she barely knows him!!😬😬
This was an excellent video. I already knew he handled himself with immaculate responses and actions.
What I didn’t know was how he mentioned he sees growth within himself from watching that clip, letting us know, a younger version of himself would have absolutely crashed tf out (deservingly so)
Darrell (Daryl, Derrell, idk how you spell bros name) Leading by example.
Teaching young men when and how to control their emotions, when they start to spiral.
I love seeing the sight of future single motherhood. Brings a tear to my eye every time.
The Ego of the modern day black wombman (woman) is out of control; beyond the stratosphere. How this should have went, between the two. Him expressing his thoughts about that episode, her listening objectively, then apologising. I can guarantee that she doesn’t have a lot of men, wanting her beyond physical attention. Lastly, her ridiculing his “you know what I’m saying” retorts, while she says “like” at least once per sentence; per thought.
Only a group of witches get together in a circle and attack somebodies Essences
These be the same ones 35, single, with a newborn 😂
But you're the one giving them the newborn and leaving them a single parent.
😏
@@BeachBallCrusherNo he isn’t, less men get more women pregnant than majority of men getting women pregnant. Meaning women are messing with the same players as well as sharing the same guy.
@BeachBallCrusher she decided to sleep with the bum right? Make betrer choices
Shawty sound crazy asab dawg…
$Dre681
Shes Jealous of him plain and simple smh 🤦🏿♂️
“D- list music videos..” nooo😭😭
She makes fun of him saying you feel me but said okay and like 100 times each
A briefcase is an accessory to carry things. Im 31 years old with a laptop for work, if i didn't have a computer bag for it then I'd get a briefcase lol. That's not playing a role.
Who is she to give a grown man a correction?
Who is he to come on a dating show carrying a briefcase with nothing in it? Answer that first.
@@BeachBallCrusherHe is himself, he can do whatever he wants
@@BeachBallCrusherLimit yourself don’t limit others
I realize he did the best he could but I'm mad that he was trying to explain himself to her as if he's looking for her approval
she the only one laughing💀
13:24 Bro you gotta do a part two 2️⃣ 😂😂😂
I am from chicago and that "you feel me" is annoying. I never say you feel me it is like someone constantly saying "like" or "um".
Yeah Darryl is cool.
Not to mention she said “like” 11-13 times in her beginning dialogue.
Hmm. Let them clowns clown.
Man I just started my TH-cam. And I definitely like your content bro
Don't judge a book by a cover
I wish they would have talked about how many times she said "like"
She hasn't learned that it's sometimes best to stay quiet not everything needs a reaction/reply.
She should have just said I was being immature and childish. Thank you for not entertaining my immature behavior. I sincerely publicly apologize please forgive. I'm gonna grow and do better. Moving on.
"on your day to day speak..." 🤔😒
Love your commentary 😂
Women who think youre like a family member are a walking red flag
Ladies, this is not the example to be if youre in the dating market
She just has a bad attitude.
She needs to be by herself. Or with someone that will give her the same negative spirit.
Now let’s play a drinking game for how many times she said ‘like’
Still no remorse😂🤦🏾♂️
It be the 6s, talking like they 9s.