Tbf, she tried to let him down easier than that by saying, “I don’t really think of you like that” Which was a nicer way of saying, “bro I’ve never thought about you and definitely NEVER gonna think about your peen” 😅
The crazy thing about this is that the only reason he thinks she's autistic is because she won't pay attention and respond to him. She clearly hangs out/talks with other guys but she's probably creeped out by him. And instead of thinking ''what do I do that makes her feel so awkward'' he thinks she's autistic instead. This is next level.
As an autistic person i will say we're experts at not responding or paying attention to people. It comes naturally to us and i wouldnt have it any other way. This guy is just upset he's the one being ignored.
The irony is that he's not getting the message that she's creeped out by him. Making him, much more autistic than her. He actually does a tiny bit but he's too much in denial to even see it at all. He thinks that if he keeps pushing he can somehow change things around, but really if a woman is that creeped out by you, it's nearly impossible to change her mind.
And it's worse because he's describing behaviors that anyone else would interpret as pure disinterest and rejection but he doesn't catch the social cues
Well I mean it does seem like he notices that she hangs out and talks with the other guys, maybe even to a bigger degree than with him, and it's like he WANTS an answer, but at the same time the answer needs to either be the "fault" of the girl (i.e. - autistic; asexual), or something that he can "fix" (i.e. trauma, jealousy) or she's lying or "performing." I mean as a 31 year old gay man, when I was in high school, a guy had a crush on me to an overwhelming degree and would message me every day on Facebook.....he wasn't a bad person by any stretch of the imagination, but he was incredibly overbearing and constantly trying to message me in a way to try to create an "evolving" friendship, but I had absolutely no intention of a relationship, I wasn't attracted to the guy, and worst of all I didn't want to create a false sense of interest and have him turn down a chance with other guys for something I knew wouldn't go anywhere. I definitely tried telling him I had no interest in romance or a partner at the time and didn't want to lead him on, and he said that was okay and he wanted to still be friends, but I'd still be bombarded with messages until I'd answer, which I knew meant we still had different intentions in communicating.... I almost wish he became as unhinged as the man in these messages just so I didn't feel as bad....I mean it really seems like that's where this was at, at first. I mean reading between the lines, it appears like this woman clearly is trying to give this guy a "chance" while trying to still also send some clear "not into you, sorry" vibes....which either creeped her out and that's why she became distant, or she became distant to try to avoid leading him on when she doesn't have feelings.
Her: "Reflect on your words when you go to bed tonight." Him the next day: "What's your problem. Is this some sort of trauma response?" Bro did not reflect on his words
She really did give him good advice. I remember sending texts in my 20’s that seemed like a good idea at the time lol. Texts conversations can get tricky, always proofread 😅
i think its just manipulation lol its pretty common for ppl like this to just accuse the other person of being mentally ill or crazy for not acting the way they want. kinda just a poor attempt at gaslighting
Yea. Dude has the self awareness of a rock. Avoids eye contact, doesn't laugh at his jokes, gets up when he goes near, the "i don't think of you" line are all pretty blatant indicators that she's just not into you.
Right after hearing that imma quit wasting my time n go on to the next 😮💨 IF SHE LIKES SALEM WITCH TOWN AND WHAT? RED FLAG I woulda been onto the next one as soon as she told me that weird shit .
Honestly, I think he's just so delusional that he genuinely thinks there must be something wrong with her if she's not into him, but he's willing to put that aside because he sees her as an object to win over rather than a person with wants and preferences and feelings and shit, and a pretty object with a mental illness or disorder is still a pretty object. I don't think he really came in with a strategy here. He acts like she's an NPC with no choice but to play into his desires because he's the main character.
Well I mean, that's what everything boils down to, doesn't it? Is it just awkward because nobody likes seeing the truth out in the open? Any living organism assesses it's surroundings and any potential mates, for health, status, etc. Don't get me wrong, every single word out of the guy's mouth was a mistake, but we do know why women cake on make-up, spend hours making their hair shiny, wear push-up bras, hide their amounts of sexual partners - right? Like we understand it's to present full breasts and hips as being suitable for possible child-rearing, shiny hair and smooth youthful skin displaying hormonal suitability and immune system strength etc. Or are you guys so far into the society matrix that you think it's like "prettiness"? Because that shit don't exist, when you see women without make-up, you realize they just have faces - like men do. Just faces.
I love how liking trains are the default autistic trait Like, you can't appreciate the engineering prowess or majesty of trains *unless* you're autistic
I'm from a family of generational railway workers and I'm currently getting a degree at a respective university (where they all studied and worked). And most of my family is perfectly neurotypical, even too neurotypical for me. Because I'm not lmao
There’s a difference between being confident in yourself and thinking you’re literally made of gold. Standing straight? Confidence. Thinking someone is autistic because they’re quiet? Well 😭
big rule i learned in highschool that many grown-ass adults still are yet to learn: If you've reached the point of trying to LOGIC someone into liking you, the war is already lost. You aint solving a mathematical equation chief.
Men who try to logic someone into a relationship don’t have the grasp on women being humans they should have. Only a dude who thinks women are objects could even think “maybe if I just make it clear how logically this is the best choice” makes sense.
As someone who is autistic, people have asked me if I’m autistic in the same accusing tone that this guy does because I don’t behave the way they expect. They’re making it clear that they think less of you for it and it’s so uncomfortable.
I HAD a best friend who would ask people (including me) the same but say acoustic instead of autistic. They got a pretty bad concussion a couple years before that so I blamed it on that in the beginning but then started distancing myself.
Girls have asked me that numerous times. Ion really think nothin of it, but sometimes if they playin in my face I'm like "Really?" But it's mostly a genuine question
As someone on the spectrum I say I'm acoustic he might be altruistic too. Who knows everyone can be a little bit eclectic sometimes. Since you are also a cool stick you get it right?@@MedicoreMacaroni
I mean he learned everything about her through these texts. She is autistic, likes trains, has a sever mental disorder, is asexual and she obviously loves him.
The entitlement is unreal, he really believes any person he's interested in HAS to give him the time of day and want him back, not even considering for a second the other person may not be interested or just find him weird, which isn't hard to see with texts like these. Asking a person if they're asexual just because they're rejecting you is peak delusion.
@@RobbieStacks90 bruh I'm a man, so listen to me for a minute: Women aren't under any obligation to treat you any type of way. You're not owed a relationship or whatever your definition of "courteous" is. Women are allowed to not be interested in you and to express that they're not interested in you. Stop it.
@@senpaiobiwan the title is “Guy in my friend group is annoyed that I'm quiet, asks if I'm autistic (context in post)” on r/texts. I’m following the user now and really hope she gets support from law enforcement :/
Indeed 👍 people often confuse Autism with Savant Syndrome or Dawn Syndrome 😅 I’m just odd with people, and prefer to stay on my own and I have a more logical brain… other than that I’m very much alike everybody else.
I am genuinely surprised to learn this, i was assuming it would be the same reaction as saying to ugly people that they are ugly ... oh... wait... nvm... i think i get it now...
He is SCARY. You look healthy? Makes me wanna be a daddy? Y/n everywhere? Aggression paralleled with love bombing? I am legitimately afraid of this man.
This dude actual sounds dangerous, honestly. He seems to be delusional, talking about the idea she's trying to "teach him a lesson" when it seems like she's displayed less than no interest in him.
he simultaneously has an ego and deep Insecurities he's a medical anomaly. I'd say she dodged a bullet but she was never even into him in the first place
The lines like that one and the "you either have a severe mental disorder or asexual" as a reason for not being into him were giving me MASSIVE incel mass shooter vibes. That guy needs therapy but also to be on a watch list..
Guy used the Reverse Nice Guy Move - be aggressive and insult her first, then when she still ain't interested, get all creepy and flirt with the worst compliments imaginable.
Okay but the way he already describes her behaviour (not hugging him, not wanting to sit next to him, not laughing at his joke, avoiding eye contact) she is so clearly uncomfortable with/around him and NOT interested. And from the first three texts (one word responses) you can see that too. She never even gave a hint that she liked him and he can't believe her? Scary
In the UK, what he did would have broken several laws including the new sex-based harassment, malicious communications, (general) harassment and stalking laws. If a woman believes it is unwanted communication or attention, it's illegal. It just hasn't been tested in a court of law yet.
@@tgheretfordI by no means agree with this guy and think he’s a cringey weirdo for sure but to think he could be potentially charged for something like this if he’s in the UK is insane. Post the convo and clown on him online i’m all for it i love when Charlie posts these but i can’t imagine being charged for doing this lmao. That does make me wonder how something like that would be implemented into law over here in the US if it could be at all considering the first amendment, im sure it could be to some extent once a person starts impeding on the other sides rights but i dont think they’d ever be able to use weird and cringe texts as substantial evidence
@@beandip461 Verbal harassment is still illegal here, this could easily be construed as that. Even the first amendment has exceptions when you're using it to hurt others and make them feel unsafe. Otherwise threats would be legal too. That being said, we would miss out on funny cringe content and I'm sure some people that don't actually deserve it would get caught. Not to mention how full our jails are already. Ultimately I'm not sure where I fall on the subject I suppose.
@@Silvercanth Surely there is a line between "verbal harassment" and actually threatening someone. There is no way this guy could get arrested over what he sent. He was being a weirdo obviously, but he never actually threatened her with any of his texts, it was just insults. If we get to the point where we arrest people for insulting someone... Well I don't want to think of that sort of dystopian hell, well we do sort of live in one already I guess
I'm not even a woman and texts like this scare me. Like dude acts like he's literally entitled to her. I mean, I'm willing to bet that he's never once actually showed any interest in her in person, but he just went off like this just because it was over text
this fear of behavior is universal tbh 😭😭 getting texts like that would be obnoxious and nerve wracking from anyone (coming from a bi person if it matters?)
Dude I’ve known guys who were exactly like this. Super meek and awkward in person, but through the phone they’re the most pushy, obnoxious people ever. It’s the perfect example of someone who feels entitled to your time and will do ANYTHING to get your attention. Doesn’t matter if it’s good or bad attention, they just want your time and energy. Like in this example, they try negging to get a response, then I’d that doesn’t work they try flattery, then negging again/say something insulting. It’s insulting to your intelligence when someone does that, as if you won’t realize that just 5 seconds ago they were calling you a bitch or whatever. Ugh it gives me the creeps
@kaitlynmorgan4613 It doesn't matter. Sexuality doesn't add or take away anything to your opinion, but you are right. That behavior is universally off-putting.
Its annoying how some extroverts think something is wrong with introverts just because they can’t stand being ignored. the whole time we just feel uncomfortable with YOU.
Please never stop posting these. I was targeted by one of these guys when I was recovering from a bad mental health episode and the damage he did to me really screwed me up. Watching you go through these messages and clown on these fools is so cathartic and healing.
dude this is so good. ive had a girl (similar to this guy, wacko as fuck and thinks shes entitled to me) message me and she was pretty much pissed off at me right off the bat saying my current gf doesnt deserve me. and then she asked this exact same question "what do you think of me?" and i said "thats the neat part! i dont." i swear she started typing so much insults to me like 50 words/second typing speed it was cinema LMAO
I understand why people think this, but i just dont agree, what she could say to be more kind? Genuinely curious, i think that line is quite okay because its the truth but i would like to hear different thoughts.
@@SoulFighter27I feel like we’ve probably been spared some context: it’s clear their interactions in real life haven’t been very nice either, it isn’t that malicious but it’s clear she already feels creeped out by this guy prior to these messages
Her responses are an inspiration honestly. Completely unfazed by this creepy af guy and never giving him an inch of closeness to latch onto and he STILL didn't get the message....big yikes
She handled that perfectly. So clever. Actually, she seems like a real catch... Maybe I should join her friend group and ask her why she doesn't pay attention to me 2 months later! Yeah. That should work.
@@mustchoosewiselyyea, that’s honestly the best move… people like him are the type to assault women.. Like sa or sh… They are narcissistic or share narcissistic traits, they obsess over someone and feel entitled to “possess” them as if they are an object
I am sorry that this video was not published later, because new information has emerged according to which he is literally stalking her, and she is looking for advice on how to protect herself, because he shows clear signs of not just a narcissist, but a real stalker who sooner or later will attack you because in his sick brain perceives the victim as someone who is destined to be with him and if she does not want to, he can try to fix her
The way he switches so fast between "loving" and batshit crazy is evidence that this guy is probably a psychopath of sorts. If I were that girl I'd be very careful around him.
@@ThomasSawyers he likely has some form of anti social personality traits. He used multiple manipulation techniques as well as believing it impossible for anyone to not love him, believing that simply being in someones life makes it 10x better. And that everyone else is the problem with no self reflection. Checks off multiple boxes
As someone who is actually diagnosed with Autism along with ADHD, this guy really seems to hate people with Autism and I am not even in the situation and I feel insulted by this guy to be honest.
i've also been diagnosed with both ADHD and Autism among other things, and i'm like second-hand insulted, i'm so very tired of the hatred towards people who have autism, the bad "jokes" that are always somehow popular, if i get called "acoustic" one more time
@@sleepdeprivedbutstillalive5808 I agree. I am so sick and tired seeing those jokes towards us. It's all over Instagram comments and I am tired of seeing them. They aren't funny at all.
I got autism, and the jokes that gave autism a "stereotype" always fly over my head, but I still get mad at them since it is still making fun of a real problem and not just a word
Oh. My. God. This had me cringing and hysterically laughing. This guy was projecting so much of his own shit onto her, he must have mistook her for a movie screen.
By the way, Town of Salem isn't about the actual town Salem, it's a werewolf/mafia type game that's been around for ages, with a dedicated community. She must be really good at it, because those responses go hard
@@sonicartzldesignerclan5763 chill, I’m just relating to the woman in the story. The guy brought up her hobbies like it was a bad thing, not a big deal
@@gunsandroses896 "BUT I CAME ALL THIS WAY, ARE YOU REALLY TELLING ME TO GO HOME AFTER I TOOK ALL THIS EFFORT TO RESCUE YOU?!?! LEAST YOU CAN DO IS SEND ME A TOE PIC!!!!!"
As an autistic person, the straight up ableism in the first conversation was so weird. Implying being autistic is a problem, implying autistic people can’t really be pretty (he said “don’t get me wrong you’re pretty but I considered the possibility you’re autistic” as if autistic people are usually ugly), and kept dwelling on it. It’s not inherently bad to wonder if someone is on the spectrum, but the way he dwells on it and the reasons he gives is just ridiculous and ignorant. And also, asking if someone is autistic is also really personal. That’s not an appropriate way to ask someone! Like saying “you may not be autistic but you sure act like you’re into trains or some shit” was actually so ridiculously ableist and stereotypical. The way he brings autism into this and his obvious ignorance towards it to someone who isn’t even autistic is crazy. Imagine being so ableist that you use it to insult a neurotypical. The obsession with disliking someone with a disability and then bringing it up to people it’s really odd to me. To be honest, I’m perplexed with his ridiculous obsession with autism. “Oh, she doesn’t like me so she must be autistic, and my view of autistic people is that they’re anti social and idiotic” like what the actual heck. Did an autistic girl hurt him in the past or something?! because WTF
I dont have diagnosed autism (though I've considered possibly being on the spectrum in the past), but as a neurodivergent person, i genuinely don't get how people like this exist. Like, what has to happen to a person to where they actively look for autistic traits in someone just so they can belittle them? I'd rather just get called a slur atp.
@@thesenate5956 it's not creepy if it's just a simple compliment like that. the truth is everyone likes a compliment:) but don't try to escalate it and make it worse. just leave it at that. sometimes the simpler the better
Morty, why won't you return my calls, Morty? Are you autistic, Morty? Are you really, really into trains, Morty? I need to know about your unresolved childhood trauma, Morty. Let me in, Morty. It's the only way, Morty. Help. Me. Under. Stand. Morty.
As someone with autism let me tell u, I would've swooned immediately. Fallen head over heals. I mean, im smitten right now to be honest. What a gentlemen.
I know youre joking but the guy doesnt even like trains! Surely he likes large ships, right? Excavation equipment? Or aircraft perhaps? How can one go through life without some interest in self propelled modes of transportation? Or overland logistics and distribution of some kind? He sounds like a loser with the personality of a burlap bag full of broken shopping cart wheels. Team Autism does NOT claim him.
Forward: check Recognizes diagnoses: check Wants to discuss childhood trauma: check Never gives up: check Prefers text over calls: check Seriously a real winner. I'm flying over right now.
"i don't really think of you" that should've been the end of it, but noooo! this crybaby just had to keep digging his own grave even deeper afterwards.
My goodness, she just eviscerates him with those one-liners. I cannot fathom the level of insanity he has attained to press on in the face of such odds.
@Cherry-pu4mx Guess her remarks hit a little close to home, huh? You can just say you're thin-skinned instead of trying to twist the situation to make her in the wrong somehow.
@@paigemosher8697 and why are you defending the this behavior? Is it because you enjoy content? Is it because he was a trashy and egotistical? Why are you so blindsighted by her behavior
He wasn't hitting on her. He was trying to get to the root of her apparent social issues. It's not normal to abruptly stop replying to a conversation. Where are her manners? Where was her father growing up?
I'm surprised he didn't immediately lay claim to that first. Girl goes to speak.. eeeeehhhh as she breathes in AUTISTIC... AMIRITE?? AYE AYE.. Points AND Looks Around THE ROOM..
The triple whammy at 12:56 made me pause, lean back in my chair, clutch my desk, and say, "Ohhhhhhhh....." as I reeled from the cringe. Holy crap, that was bad.
not recognizing social boundaries. random aggressive outbursts. delusional beliefs. huge instant mood swings. for someone accusing others of psychological issues... hmmm....🤔
@@vindemiaAutism is neurodevelopmental yes, but it does as a result affect someone psychological state naturally. But it isn’t in and of itself just a psychological issue.
As a 52 yo woman who used to be very attractive to men in her younger days, I've encountered *lots* of creeps and I can tell you this guy would've been bad news. I'm talking controlling and emotionally abusive at the minimum.
As a mildly attractive guy in his 20s, It's strange. women flirt with me. Straight up saying they wanna kiss me. But i wanna respect their limits. So, I laugh it off, and sometimes they think I'm gay.
@@evanmcclure67that's kinda a random thing to reply to this woman. Are you okay? Edit: I misunderstood the comment. I thought it was about respecting other people's boundaries, not having his (Evan's) respected. I'm extremely sorry for the confusion, and I meant no disrespect or to invalidate his experience.
@@cyanidesmile7263you misunderstood what he said. He’s relating from the viewpoint of a man. Let me clarify, he is stating as a man (even on the more attractive side) it’s uncommon to meet a girl that makes the advances even more so he is saying he’s encountered uncomfortable moments with creepy women who cross lines because of his appearance
10:52 bro when the guy thinks that theres no possible way she wouldnt like him and and thinking shes teaching him a lesson is enough to show how delusional he is😭😭😭😭
This is textbook of how NOT to flirt. This is also the prime example of SHE’S NOT THAT IN TO YOU. She’s being polite. Uncomfortably polite. Take the hint and retreat with your dignity while you can.
The Traumatic Aftermath of Theists vs. Objective Reality. "Intersex = PP+Vagina there is nothing else going on in peoples brains Man is Man Woman is Woman because we say so." Ridiculous. Adolf Hitler ran incinerators.
To be fair, I think he had already given up by the time he asked if she was autistic. Think he maybe had a small drop of hope and continue messaging her
the worse thing I think is that this guy is so oblivious that he doesn't realize she'll probably forward this to the other ladies in the group so he won't be getting anything from them either, literally cock blocked himself by being a weirdo.
My version of flirting was telling her three hours of Warhammer 40K lore and then when she asked me follow-up questions / wanted to know more, I knew she was the one. Granted we're both on the spectrum, but still.
tbh i did ask if my gf was autistic when we met and she was like "yeah i am actually, you can tell?" i told her i am too and it was obvious then we hit it off from there and we've been autistic together happily nearly 5 months now and shes the most amazing person ive ever met
Disclaimer: That line's only really going to work, if both parties involved are on the spectrum and bantering with one another. Neurotypical men should not attempt this line, unless they're cool with being blocked on sight by people, who dislike the implications. (Read: NTs calling neurodivergent people "special" can come across about as charming as saying they're "touched in the head" to some.)
As a 32 year old guy who's never had a girlfriend, i died at the "you sat next to him" part, actually slayed me for real, legit almost lost my jaw to the floor.
I literally just assumed these were early high schoolers until he said “im more successful than 90% of men”. Realizing this guy was a grown ass man really threw me for a loop! What a silly billy!
Love it when people say that shit. As if it means anythingoh good, you're more successful? Then you likely also have less time for me and less time for potential kids in the future. Aka chances are high you're not dating material or father material. In my experience, women don't care that much about your success
As an autistic person, can confirm, the main sign of autism is not laughing at this guy's jokes, that's the standard testing measure now, they bring you in a room and show you a video of this guy specifically doing a bad comedy routine and if you don't laugh, you get stamped on the forehead with the autism sticker
This is red pill 101. He's trying to neg her and make her jealous of other women, then has a full meltdown when he realises his "game" pushes her further and further away. These losers never learn.
Yep! And then they just get angrier and angrier and wonder why all women start avoiding them like the plague... Red pill echo chamber teaches them all this bs
@@EmeraldaKasim except every human is different and you can’t possibly believe every single woman and man like this type of interaction. Nor do I hope you believe that, or any young man. 8 billion people will never share the same values, perspective or life as another.
the "two months of being single is so suspicious" thing is fuckin crazy to me. got out of a three year relationship and ive been single for goin on six months now and im perfectly content with being single for another six. flings here n there are cool but i have no capacity for anything serious in the foreseeable future. some people jus don't have the energy for a relationship idk why that's crazy
I think it's laughable for other reasons, too (although your reason is entirely valid). To me, being able to be single shows that you take the relationships you get into seriously, rather than just hopping between them just for the sake of not being alone. This is coming from someone who hasn't been single for years.
Back when I was 12, I used to watch dating advice stuff and one of the tips they mentioned was to call someone by their name often. This guy was probably giving that a go 😂
He's probably using her name so much because he read the "say her name a lot to get her to love you" advice, not knowing it only works when she already likes you
Im autistic too and was looking for this comment! Autism as an insult is bad enough (it's sad that people believe autistic = undesirable) but also insulting someone to the point of finding them a diagnosis is WILD
@@alexandragood7364and then and he doubled down on it with “dgmw, you’re pretty BUT…” feels very similar to how racists will go “you’re pretty for a black girl” like “you’re the least appealing thing I can think of but I am horny enough to make an exception for you” disgusting.
As someone that is autistic, if someone asked me in that way, I would've responded that I'm not comfortable talking to them anymore and ask them to stay away from me. They can assume the answer was yes if they want, but they won't get an actual answer.
Good. I think we have a right to keep that information to ourselves, or share it, how and when we see fit. My ASD diagnosis, or any other medical thing, is not anybody else's business unless I say it is. Good for you standing up for yourself 💜
“You’ve known me since March 12th!” This means 2 things which are both equally sad. 1. He has the exact day he met her memorized 2. They’ve known each other for less than a year
It's the "lol no" for me, he has no problem asking the question to someone without really any cause, but when the same is done to him he finds it so ridiculous that someone would consider asking him that. Big red flag.
@@gmusic7268 Gmusic i wanna see you follow up on that claim and explain to antitroll why that is. Or else im taking the "music" out of you user name God of sound approved-
actually disturbing how much he talks about "loving" her and finding her "beautiful" but only ever talks about her body between accusations of trauma and autism.
He almost certainly didn't. He also mentions past girlfriends height for no reason. Dude is just showing that girls in the past were interested so she should be too, even if it's not even true. It's actual child like thinking, I would not be surprised if the dude actually had a severe developmental disability himself.
I mean sleeping around a friend group is fine if you’re considerate about it. But bragging is for sure not the way. He should’ve just put his best foot forward with each of these women and trusted in the girlfriend grapevine to get the word out.
@@OldManRiv3r like I don't necessarily think that putting this man on blast is the right idea because he could actually have a serious disorder and this could trigger something more
@@vansocks84 yeah maybe. Too late though, no one has a time machine 😅 plus unhinged folks that snap usually always snap at some point anyways. Finged crossed he just doesn't hurt anyone and he gets aggressive with police and they "solve the issue". That's best case scenario in my book.
Update: It only has gotten worse from here unfortunately he has started to harass and stalk her. She said, "Recently it has got even worse. Over the last few days he's been loitering outside my home and knocking on my door repeatedly. Today he left a "gift" on the window with a note attached" Don't know what the note said or what the "gift" was she never said. She has also went to the police twice about it and they said "They can't do much right now"
“I don’t really think of you” was such a brutal read. love to see it.
Tbf, she tried to let him down easier than that by saying, “I don’t really think of you like that”
Which was a nicer way of saying, “bro I’ve never thought about you and definitely NEVER gonna think about your peen” 😅
I feel like people would say that to me even if I asked normally and I was normal and everything
@@raidiscool9144I know right, that could be a genuine reply lol
She was being honest, but he's too immature to get ut
The crazy thing about this is that the only reason he thinks she's autistic is because she won't pay attention and respond to him. She clearly hangs out/talks with other guys but she's probably creeped out by him. And instead of thinking ''what do I do that makes her feel so awkward'' he thinks she's autistic instead. This is next level.
As an autistic person i will say we're experts at not responding or paying attention to people. It comes naturally to us and i wouldnt have it any other way. This guy is just upset he's the one being ignored.
The irony is that he's not getting the message that she's creeped out by him. Making him, much more autistic than her.
He actually does a tiny bit but he's too much in denial to even see it at all. He thinks that if he keeps pushing he can somehow change things around, but really if a woman is that creeped out by you, it's nearly impossible to change her mind.
And it's worse because he's describing behaviors that anyone else would interpret as pure disinterest and rejection but he doesn't catch the social cues
Well I mean it does seem like he notices that she hangs out and talks with the other guys, maybe even to a bigger degree than with him, and it's like he WANTS an answer, but at the same time the answer needs to either be the "fault" of the girl (i.e. - autistic; asexual), or something that he can "fix" (i.e. trauma, jealousy) or she's lying or "performing."
I mean as a 31 year old gay man, when I was in high school, a guy had a crush on me to an overwhelming degree and would message me every day on Facebook.....he wasn't a bad person by any stretch of the imagination, but he was incredibly overbearing and constantly trying to message me in a way to try to create an "evolving" friendship, but I had absolutely no intention of a relationship, I wasn't attracted to the guy, and worst of all I didn't want to create a false sense of interest and have him turn down a chance with other guys for something I knew wouldn't go anywhere.
I definitely tried telling him I had no interest in romance or a partner at the time and didn't want to lead him on, and he said that was okay and he wanted to still be friends, but I'd still be bombarded with messages until I'd answer, which I knew meant we still had different intentions in communicating.... I almost wish he became as unhinged as the man in these messages just so I didn't feel as bad....I mean it really seems like that's where this was at, at first. I mean reading between the lines, it appears like this woman clearly is trying to give this guy a "chance" while trying to still also send some clear "not into you, sorry" vibes....which either creeped her out and that's why she became distant, or she became distant to try to avoid leading him on when she doesn't have feelings.
Maybe the autism was coming from inside the house...
Her: "Reflect on your words when you go to bed tonight."
Him the next day: "What's your problem. Is this some sort of trauma response?"
Bro did not reflect on his words
She really did give him good advice. I remember sending texts in my 20’s that seemed like a good idea at the time lol. Texts conversations can get tricky, always proofread 😅
That line was so cold, lol. Bro should have admitted defeat right then and there.
Lmao yeah
He reflected on them, and decided it wasn't enough.
Bro woke up and chose violence
“Is this some sort of trauma response?”. That is basic projection 101. Dude really was having a conversation with himself.
i think its just manipulation lol its pretty common for ppl like this to just accuse the other person of being mentally ill or crazy for not acting the way they want. kinda just a poor attempt at gaslighting
@@BlisaBLisanah it’s definitely projection like you can’t act that way and have a stable and validating childhood
@@BlisaBLisaranked gaslighting
the mental gymnastics is crazy he should compete w that
The fact that "I don't think of you" wasn't a run killer, tells you everything you need to know about this guy.
Yea. Dude has the self awareness of a rock. Avoids eye contact, doesn't laugh at his jokes, gets up when he goes near, the "i don't think of you" line are all pretty blatant indicators that she's just not into you.
Right after hearing that imma quit wasting my time n go on to the next 😮💨
IF SHE LIKES SALEM WITCH TOWN AND WHAT? RED FLAG I woulda been onto the next one as soon as she told me that weird shit .
@@nukiesduke6868 "I'm everything you look for in a guy, correct?" 🤣
@@bukirispj9911 town of salem is a cool game though 😭
@@bukirispj9911just FYI Town of Salem is a video game.
Try’s to break her down to make her feel like she has no self worth then assert himself like he’s doing her a favor. Total psychopath.
Little Boy manipulator energy lol
lol shut up, this guys a bum. no manopulative at all
It's called "negging" and only abusers do it
It's called negging, it's a terrible thing to do and he's terrible at it
Honestly, I think he's just so delusional that he genuinely thinks there must be something wrong with her if she's not into him, but he's willing to put that aside because he sees her as an object to win over rather than a person with wants and preferences and feelings and shit, and a pretty object with a mental illness or disorder is still a pretty object. I don't think he really came in with a strategy here. He acts like she's an NPC with no choice but to play into his desires because he's the main character.
bruh "you look healthy" like she's a broodmare i cant
Literally! Bro was one step away from calling her "breedable"
Well I mean, that's what everything boils down to, doesn't it? Is it just awkward because nobody likes seeing the truth out in the open?
Any living organism assesses it's surroundings and any potential mates, for health, status, etc. Don't get me wrong, every single word out of the guy's mouth was a mistake, but we do know why women cake on make-up, spend hours making their hair shiny, wear push-up bras, hide their amounts of sexual partners - right? Like we understand it's to present full breasts and hips as being suitable for possible child-rearing, shiny hair and smooth youthful skin displaying hormonal suitability and immune system strength etc. Or are you guys so far into the society matrix that you think it's like "prettiness"? Because that shit don't exist, when you see women without make-up, you realize they just have faces - like men do. Just faces.
Broodmares love trains
Wtf is that
@@Nikki_Midnight he was so close, especially with the making him want to become a dad comment.
bro is not human. literally 99% of people would give up then and there after their crush says "i dont think of you at all" to them.
They should. Sadly some guys don't get it. I learnt the hard way when I was in high school. Since then I have got much better with flirting.
nah a lot of guys wont take no for an answer and will keep pressuring
@@MyNameIsSalo not all men tho
@@CoreyTheTMFFan8”Not all men” Dude saying that phrase is a red flag.
ignore my user for a second LMAO but my high school BF said this to me and I have never been the same bc like ??? why are we together????
I'm an autistic man, and even I haven't acted as autistic as this man lmfao
LMAO
Exactly, same here
I truly don’t think anyone with a mental disability could replicate what this man did to this effect. Somehow did everything wrong 😭
For real. That guy *wishes* he had autism rizz.
(I am also autistic)
This man isn't autistic, that's why. He's straight up a creep.
I love how liking trains are the default autistic trait
Like, you can't appreciate the engineering prowess or majesty of trains *unless* you're autistic
I'm from a family of generational railway workers and I'm currently getting a degree at a respective university (where they all studied and worked). And most of my family is perfectly neurotypical, even too neurotypical for me. Because I'm not lmao
I have a friend who's autistic and he actually likes trains among other things. My default interests have always been music, art and theatre.
Well a lot of autistic people are REALLY into trains. It's not just an interest, it's often a whole hobby. That's all
I think he also might've meant a different kind of "train"...
If that's the case, autistic people have good taste. Trains are awesome.
There’s a difference between being confident in yourself and thinking you’re literally made of gold. Standing straight? Confidence. Thinking someone is autistic because they’re quiet? Well 😭
Not to mention the way he just switches how he is acting at the drop of a hat. He is a maniac
what if i stand gay. what then.
His name IS clapped-cheeks he really spittin fr
Ok i wont@angryasrielYFGATOD1025
Well it certainly *was* a _blunt_ question
big rule i learned in highschool that many grown-ass adults still are yet to learn: If you've reached the point of trying to LOGIC someone into liking you, the war is already lost.
You aint solving a mathematical equation chief.
LMFAO
Yeah dude if people loved others for actual logical reasons, then the world would be a very different place
Lmao yea so true. You can't logic your way into a relationship. Doesn't work like that.
Men who try to logic someone into a relationship don’t have the grasp on women being humans they should have. Only a dude who thinks women are objects could even think “maybe if I just make it clear how logically this is the best choice” makes sense.
The worst part is that they aren't even good at logic
As someone who is autistic, people have asked me if I’m autistic in the same accusing tone that this guy does because I don’t behave the way they expect. They’re making it clear that they think less of you for it and it’s so uncomfortable.
I HAD a best friend who would ask people (including me) the same but say acoustic instead of autistic. They got a pretty bad concussion a couple years before that so I blamed it on that in the beginning but then started distancing myself.
Girls have asked me that numerous times. Ion really think nothin of it, but sometimes if they playin in my face I'm like "Really?" But it's mostly a genuine question
Been 2 years with my gf who’s autistic, i only found out after she was comfortable enough to tell me. It changes nothing and I couldn’t be happier tbh
Are you autistic bruh ?
As someone on the spectrum I say I'm acoustic he might be altruistic too. Who knows everyone can be a little bit eclectic sometimes. Since you are also a cool stick you get it right?@@MedicoreMacaroni
"You look healthy" is the same energy as "Your hips looks exceptionally breedable this evening" and has me dead that hes using it unironically.
Imma have to use that second line next time I'm out lol
@@samuelmoore1635 remember to whistle like a creep
@@hiddenweebvillage9658 I feel like a grunt would seal the deal
@@samuelmoore1635 and a wink
stop projecting bro (i mean besides the context of the other texts)
You hug [redacted] AND [redacted] but not ME!!!!!!!!! lmaooooo
Just picturing him standing there mad he didn’t get a hug 😂
bros in middle school😭
“Where my hug at?”
geee i wonder why?
Sucks to be him 😂
“I don’t think of you” is the exact comeback you come up with days later after an argument
XD
Him at the beginning of their messages: “I don’t know anything about you”
Him at the end: “I love so many things about you”
right???? 😅
You make me wanna become a daddy.
I mean he learned everything about her through these texts. She is autistic, likes trains, has a sever mental disorder, is asexual and she obviously loves him.
He must have learnt a lot about her, how could she not like the guy who learns so fast?
He's clearly referring to her autism and asexuality, he has learnt it while talking with her lol.
"trains are cool" is the honestly best comeback she could have said.
and then naming every train ever made on top of that
That crushed him🤣
She played indigo park 😂😂😂😂
Naw the “lol what” the “trains are cool” and “honestly I don’t really think about you” goes crazy
As someone who was diagnosed autistic, I will say I find trains very interesting
The entitlement is unreal, he really believes any person he's interested in HAS to give him the time of day and want him back, not even considering for a second the other person may not be interested or just find him weird, which isn't hard to see with texts like these.
Asking a person if they're asexual just because they're rejecting you is peak delusion.
Seems like the dude is narcissistic
Out of subject but the girl in your pfp has a crush on her cousin, lol.
When will you people learn to be courteous toward men?
@@RobbieStacks90 bruh I'm a man, so listen to me for a minute: Women aren't under any obligation to treat you any type of way. You're not owed a relationship or whatever your definition of "courteous" is. Women are allowed to not be interested in you and to express that they're not interested in you. Stop it.
@@RobbieStacks90 Nice bait dude
I found OP's posts on reddit and they're now seeking legal advice for an acquaintance turned stalker...
can you link me the thread or the subreddit its from? I'd like to know how it turned out tbh
@@senpaiobiwan the title is “Guy in my friend group is annoyed that I'm quiet, asks if I'm autistic (context in post)” on r/texts. I’m following the user now and really hope she gets support from law enforcement :/
Oh god
@@ghostchaisshe uploaded the last update 9 days ago and deleted her account
@@soyalguien335yt4 Oh fuck
As someone who IS autistic, pointing out my traits and calling them weird in a negative way is the quickest way to get me to not like you forever
Indeed 👍 people often confuse Autism with Savant Syndrome or Dawn Syndrome 😅 I’m just odd with people, and prefer to stay on my own and I have a more logical brain… other than that I’m very much alike everybody else.
I am genuinely surprised to learn this, i was assuming it would be the same reaction as saying to ugly people that they are ugly
... oh... wait...
nvm... i think i get it now...
Are you actually autistic or just self diagnosing like most people do now a days ?
That's a FIGHT in my book, lol
OP, I'd trust autistic people over anyone not autistic anyday as friends. They're really loyal and trustworthy.
This is why I only flirt with my yogurt
real trick is to do it to milk, its free yoghurt
@RileyyysMain Stop
Pause
Gogurt will always be there for you
Vanilla or strawberry
The woman in this conversation is so chill and unbothered, I love her mildly amused answers amidst this fuckfest of deranged messages.
She is hilarious
Yeah she seems chill asf 😂
"fuckfest" 🤣
Definitely not her first rodeo with these type of guys I bet
Yeah thankfully she seems smart and confident 😂
He is SCARY. You look healthy? Makes me wanna be a daddy? Y/n everywhere? Aggression paralleled with love bombing?
I am legitimately afraid of this man.
What's Y/n
@@MrAwesomeone “your name”. While reading a text with this you’re supposed to replace it with, well, your name in your head
@@bubblegum_b thanks, I was getting mostly yes/no
@@bubblegum_b OHHH thanks for explaining that, I was stuck thinking the same as the other guy xD
This dude actual sounds dangerous, honestly. He seems to be delusional, talking about the idea she's trying to "teach him a lesson" when it seems like she's displayed less than no interest in him.
he simultaneously has an ego and deep Insecurities he's a medical anomaly. I'd say she dodged a bullet but she was never even into him in the first place
The lines like that one and the "you either have a severe mental disorder or asexual" as a reason for not being into him were giving me MASSIVE incel mass shooter vibes. That guy needs therapy but also to be on a watch list..
Those dudes at your work who will randomly say the most horrific thing to you thinking your response will just be like “omg right dude totally”
He does sound dangerous, but i think because he cant control his emotions. He insults her and next message he is giving creepy compliments....
i kinda find him dangerous the way he approach the girl by texting messages was crime...
Guy used the Reverse Nice Guy Move - be aggressive and insult her first, then when she still ain't interested, get all creepy and flirt with the worst compliments imaginable.
He got the brain power of a horseshoe crab😭😭🙏
@@astreusastresus198this response is making me cry I’m stealing this insult
When the bad boy shtick wasn't working he went full desperate simp to try and butter her up
@@Deafkid97That's fine but make sure to only use it when you encounter someone like this fine specimen because that's when it's actually true
@@unprovoked99 He should've went full throttle and tried to oil her up instead
Okay but the way he already describes her behaviour (not hugging him, not wanting to sit next to him, not laughing at his joke, avoiding eye contact) she is so clearly uncomfortable with/around him and NOT interested. And from the first three texts (one word responses) you can see that too. She never even gave a hint that she liked him and he can't believe her? Scary
Yeah it's kinda crazy actually. Dude has issues and could easily escalate.
In the UK, what he did would have broken several laws including the new sex-based harassment, malicious communications, (general) harassment and stalking laws. If a woman believes it is unwanted communication or attention, it's illegal. It just hasn't been tested in a court of law yet.
@@tgheretfordI by no means agree with this guy and think he’s a cringey weirdo for sure but to think he could be potentially charged for something like this if he’s in the UK is insane. Post the convo and clown on him online i’m all for it i love when Charlie posts these but i can’t imagine being charged for doing this lmao. That does make me wonder how something like that would be implemented into law over here in the US if it could be at all considering the first amendment, im sure it could be to some extent once a person starts impeding on the other sides rights but i dont think they’d ever be able to use weird and cringe texts as substantial evidence
@@beandip461 Verbal harassment is still illegal here, this could easily be construed as that. Even the first amendment has exceptions when you're using it to hurt others and make them feel unsafe. Otherwise threats would be legal too. That being said, we would miss out on funny cringe content and I'm sure some people that don't actually deserve it would get caught. Not to mention how full our jails are already. Ultimately I'm not sure where I fall on the subject I suppose.
@@Silvercanth Surely there is a line between "verbal harassment" and actually threatening someone. There is no way this guy could get arrested over what he sent. He was being a weirdo obviously, but he never actually threatened her with any of his texts, it was just insults. If we get to the point where we arrest people for insulting someone... Well I don't want to think of that sort of dystopian hell, well we do sort of live in one already I guess
I got an ad talking about how you shouldn't neglect therapy at the beginning of this video. Honestly, it's a good preface to this madness.
I'm not even a woman and texts like this scare me. Like dude acts like he's literally entitled to her. I mean, I'm willing to bet that he's never once actually showed any interest in her in person, but he just went off like this just because it was over text
this fear of behavior is universal tbh 😭😭 getting texts like that would be obnoxious and nerve wracking from anyone (coming from a bi person if it matters?)
@@kaitlynmorgan4613 nobody cares if you are bi
@@lfgaming5 I do
Dude I’ve known guys who were exactly like this. Super meek and awkward in person, but through the phone they’re the most pushy, obnoxious people ever. It’s the perfect example of someone who feels entitled to your time and will do ANYTHING to get your attention. Doesn’t matter if it’s good or bad attention, they just want your time and energy. Like in this example, they try negging to get a response, then I’d that doesn’t work they try flattery, then negging again/say something insulting. It’s insulting to your intelligence when someone does that, as if you won’t realize that just 5 seconds ago they were calling you a bitch or whatever. Ugh it gives me the creeps
@kaitlynmorgan4613 It doesn't matter. Sexuality doesn't add or take away anything to your opinion, but you are right. That behavior is universally off-putting.
bros giving off "i want to preserve your head in my freezer" vibe
im am in your walls.
@@maxthibodeau3627im am
@@SpectralSantino i am your skin.
I am pepperoni pizza
Hes literally stalking her now according to OP's profile 😔
This guy 100% has lamp shades in his apartment crafted from human flesh
there will be screaming, they stole their voices.
😂😂
Nahhh Ed had more tact than this weirdo.
What’s the backstory on this guy ? Is he just a random dude or an influencer ?
@@aidananimation123 just a random dude i believe.
Its annoying how some extroverts think something is wrong with introverts just because they can’t stand being ignored. the whole time we just feel uncomfortable with YOU.
Extroverts & introverts ain't a real thing bud
I don’t think this guys an extrovert, he’s literally just insane
@@ashtar3876 The guy who told you that obviously doesn't like you.
@@ashtar3876 Exactly, everyone thinks being an ""introvert"" is quirky and unique
This interaction has nothing to do with extroversion and introversion whatsoever. I think people throw those words around out of context too often
"What's your problem?"
- Someone with problems
It always do be like that huh lol
Honest question, they're simply hoping to trade them like Pokémon cards
@@MrNinja543 trading ur mother like a pokemon card
Please never stop posting these. I was targeted by one of these guys when I was recovering from a bad mental health episode and the damage he did to me really screwed me up. Watching you go through these messages and clown on these fools is so cathartic and healing.
Are you autistic?
❤
I pray you recover well and find a good dude❤
That's why Charlie is the best lol, he's unstoppable to creeps and morons. He single-handedly destroyed the Red Pill bs
My best friend just went through something similar. I’m glad you’re finding comfort
"What do you think of me?"
"No"
Lol
dude this is so good. ive had a girl (similar to this guy, wacko as fuck and thinks shes entitled to me) message me and she was pretty much pissed off at me right off the bat saying my current gf doesnt deserve me. and then she asked this exact same question "what do you think of me?" and i said "thats the neat part! i dont."
i swear she started typing so much insults to me like 50 words/second typing speed it was cinema LMAO
“No, are you” is the perfect response to that crazy ass question
He's trying so bad to manipulate her but she is too smart and has basic level self respect for his weak attempts
nuh uh ain't no one fallin for that shit bro 😭
@@GrimmDotExe Sadly, some people fall for this shit..
@@GrimmDotExeong (on gosh) 😭🙏
You don’t need to be smart to not fall for this 😂
If you call this manipulation then I’m a nasa scientist. He’s just a aggressive child throwing a fit why a girl isn’t liking him
"I don't really think of you" is SAVAGE
I understand why people think this, but i just dont agree, what she could say to be more kind? Genuinely curious, i think that line is quite okay because its the truth but i would like to hear different thoughts.
@@SoulFighter27I feel like we’ve probably been spared some context: it’s clear their interactions in real life haven’t been very nice either, it isn’t that malicious but it’s clear she already feels creeped out by this guy prior to these messages
It's a great line from The Fountainhead.
Nah, that was great. Why should she try to be more kind? That dude is a psycho lmao
@@the.ultimate.potato yeah exactly
nahhhh "you make me wanna become a daddy" is horrifying 💀💀💀
Bro really wanted to yell "breed me!" 💀
Yes, arguably one of if not the creepiest line.
That line activated my fight or flight response.
That text made me: 🤮
That line would’ve got my ass up out of the chair and making a bee line for the nearest gun store.
love to see the "where's my hug?" jumpscare only seven seconds in
You already know the video is going to be good when in the first ten seconds you see Charlie emoting and making comparisons to Homer
Fax
@@p-__Randy Marsh's bowel movements are better than Brandon's.
And white shirt
"Are you fighting yourself rn" "Am I involved in this argument?" I am taking notes, I wheeze laughed.
Her responses are an inspiration honestly. Completely unfazed by this creepy af guy and never giving him an inch of closeness to latch onto and he STILL didn't get the message....big yikes
She handled that perfectly. So clever. Actually, she seems like a real catch...
Maybe I should join her friend group and ask her why she doesn't pay attention to me 2 months later! Yeah. That should work.
me too holy shit
She has so much restraint for not screaming at him about how incredibly unattractive everything about him is
If she was smart no time for texts because too busy filing a restraining order on that psycho.
@@mustchoosewiselyyea, that’s honestly the best move… people like him are the type to assault women..
Like sa or sh…
They are narcissistic or share narcissistic traits, they obsess over someone and feel entitled to “possess” them as if they are an object
@@mustchoosewiselynah, messing with morons and embarrassing them for social media is way funnier.
Shes just trolling him 😭😭
@@Malosphere13 but it is dangerously tho cuz he’s the type to commit some fucked up crime cuz he feels entitled of her
I am sorry that this video was not published later, because new information has emerged according to which he is literally stalking her, and she is looking for advice on how to protect herself, because he shows clear signs of not just a narcissist, but a real stalker who sooner or later will attack you because in his sick brain perceives the victim as someone who is destined to be with him and if she does not want to, he can try to fix her
“Stop it. Get some help”
Haha. Perfect line.
"Stop existing".
The way he switches so fast between "loving" and batshit crazy is evidence that this guy is probably a psychopath of sorts. If I were that girl I'd be very careful around him.
That's not really what a psychopath is. But it definitely has some cluster B vibes lol.
@@Dice-Zdude didnt you hear? Everybody on youtube is a psychoanalyst lmao
Def a manipulator for sure
@@ThomasSawyers he likely has some form of anti social personality traits. He used multiple manipulation techniques as well as believing it impossible for anyone to not love him, believing that simply being in someones life makes it 10x better. And that everyone else is the problem with no self reflection. Checks off multiple boxes
@@Dice-Z ^^look, another one 🤣
As someone who is actually diagnosed with Autism along with ADHD, this guy really seems to hate people with Autism and I am not even in the situation and I feel insulted by this guy to be honest.
probably is autistic himself and is projecting.
(I am diagnosed with ADHD)
i've also been diagnosed with both ADHD and Autism among other things, and i'm like second-hand insulted, i'm so very tired of the hatred towards people who have autism, the bad "jokes" that are always somehow popular, if i get called "acoustic" one more time
@@sleepdeprivedbutstillalive5808 I agree. I am so sick and tired seeing those jokes towards us. It's all over Instagram comments and I am tired of seeing them. They aren't funny at all.
@@sleepdeprivedbutstillalive5808 I am tired of those jokes too. They aren't funny at all.
I got autism, and the jokes that gave autism a "stereotype" always fly over my head, but I still get mad at them since it is still making fun of a real problem and not just a word
This guy makes me feel unsafe, and I'm nowhere near him
Yea telling someone that "they make you wanna be a daddy" is hella uncomfortable.
People who repeatedly name drop in conversations have this weird thing where they think using your given name gives them some power over you.
No it's to show you are interested in them but saying it too much is definitely weird but once maybe twice is okay
@@randomvidz8742 it does show interest fs, and some ppl like it. but when it becomes *this* obsessive its just creepy and gross
@@kaitlynmorgan4613 no shit, that's why I said once or twice and not numerous times.
they learned it from Rumpelstiltskin
I kind of do that but in my defense, sometimes I have to say someone's name a few times cos I have trouble remembering
Bro is 24 texting paragraphs when he already took the L when he tried the good ol "asking if someones autistic rizz"💀
Ong he need to rethink his strategy
At 24, your sole mission should be to get as many of them as you can. They travel in packs at social events, and that's what makes things challenging.
It's the only rizz you need. I'm gonna try it on my crush 😏
@@RobbieStacks90 challenging? nice self report 💀
@@RobbieStacks90ran through
To be a grown man and say he's better looking and more successful than 90% of men really says something😭
24 is still a kid imo
Dude is 24, his brain isn't even fully matured yet.
If anything he's a 70% grown male.
Shows you his age for real 😂😂
I want to see a picture of him so bad. I am so convinced he is severely exaggerating. Nobody talks like this AND brushes their teeth every night.
He pulled that data out of his ass
Oh. My. God. This had me cringing and hysterically laughing. This guy was projecting so much of his own shit onto her, he must have mistook her for a movie screen.
@MeimnnmNorm 😂😂
When she replied “trains are cool” I died 😂😂😂 every response was so good tho
She had no business having so much fun with this interaction. 😂
She utterly maimed him, you love to see it
She just didn't give one flying fuck lmao
By the way, Town of Salem isn't about the actual town Salem, it's a werewolf/mafia type game that's been around for ages, with a dedicated community. She must be really good at it, because those responses go hard
Man I used to love that game, so much fun.
To be honest that game is bad
Back in the days it were funny but nowdays where everyone plays it of course to much trolls
I’m a girl and I love that game… bro needs to let a woman have hobbies like damn lol
@@an_is_cool It dosnt matter if youre an women or a men if you play games play games
Why do you need to bring your gender out?
@@sonicartzldesignerclan5763 chill, I’m just relating to the woman in the story. The guy brought up her hobbies like it was a bad thing, not a big deal
This man sounds like a desperate knight at the bottom of a tower screaming while the princess is at the top telling him to go home
This man wouldn't be a knight. More like a tax collector
@@MrSlaughterrific the irs 😭
"Go home. I have everything I want up here. Food, water, free wifi, a gym. I don't need saving"
@@gunsandroses896 "BUT I CAME ALL THIS WAY, ARE YOU REALLY TELLING ME TO GO HOME AFTER I TOOK ALL THIS EFFORT TO RESCUE YOU?!?! LEAST YOU CAN DO IS SEND ME A TOE PIC!!!!!"
"Rapunzel Rapunzel, let down your hair!"
"Not interested, sorry."
"Are you autistic"
As an autistic person, the straight up ableism in the first conversation was so weird. Implying being autistic is a problem, implying autistic people can’t really be pretty (he said “don’t get me wrong you’re pretty but I considered the possibility you’re autistic” as if autistic people are usually ugly), and kept dwelling on it. It’s not inherently bad to wonder if someone is on the spectrum, but the way he dwells on it and the reasons he gives is just ridiculous and ignorant.
And also, asking if someone is autistic is also really personal. That’s not an appropriate way to ask someone! Like saying “you may not be autistic but you sure act like you’re into trains or some shit” was actually so ridiculously ableist and stereotypical. The way he brings autism into this and his obvious ignorance towards it to someone who isn’t even autistic is crazy. Imagine being so ableist that you use it to insult a neurotypical. The obsession with disliking someone with a disability and then bringing it up to people it’s really odd to me. To be honest, I’m perplexed with his ridiculous obsession with autism. “Oh, she doesn’t like me so she must be autistic, and my view of autistic people is that they’re anti social and idiotic” like what the actual heck. Did an autistic girl hurt him in the past or something?! because WTF
I dont have diagnosed autism (though I've considered possibly being on the spectrum in the past), but as a neurodivergent person, i genuinely don't get how people like this exist. Like, what has to happen to a person to where they actively look for autistic traits in someone just so they can belittle them? I'd rather just get called a slur atp.
Autistic girl here, and I’ve met two men like this in my life who manipulated me and were abusive. Sadly they’re fairly common it seems like.
@@Euph3mia Starting to think Ultron was onto something.
who uses the word Ableism? never heard of that word in my life
@ it’s not that uncommon
I really don't understand why "I think you're cute and I'd like to get to know you better" is so hard for people.
The hard part for these guys is “oh you’re not interested? That’s cool I respect that! [end]”
Would that even work? I feel like the cute comment might come off as creepy.
@@thesenate5956 it's not creepy if it's just a simple compliment like that. the truth is everyone likes a compliment:) but don't try to escalate it and make it worse. just leave it at that. sometimes the simpler the better
Insecurity.
prolly feeling like a creep
Morty, why won't you return my calls, Morty? Are you autistic, Morty? Are you really, really into trains, Morty? I need to know about your unresolved childhood trauma, Morty. Let me in, Morty. It's the only way, Morty. Help. Me. Under. Stand. Morty.
aw geez
Lollll good one
Miss that show aw geez🥲
@@alek.mccutcheom3007same.
Wasn’t it another fake me too attempt that killed the show?
HEKSJDJJSJKFB GOOD ONE BROTHER
As someone with autism let me tell u, I would've swooned immediately. Fallen head over heals. I mean, im smitten right now to be honest. What a gentlemen.
HAHA ME TOO
As a fellow autist, you had me in the first half. Well actually I had to read it twice to get the sarcasm 😂
@@0tterMom Lmao I was worried people wouldn't get the sarcasm
I know youre joking but the guy doesnt even like trains! Surely he likes large ships, right? Excavation equipment? Or aircraft perhaps? How can one go through life without some interest in self propelled modes of transportation? Or overland logistics and distribution of some kind? He sounds like a loser with the personality of a burlap bag full of broken shopping cart wheels. Team Autism does NOT claim him.
Forward: check
Recognizes diagnoses: check
Wants to discuss childhood trauma: check
Never gives up: check
Prefers text over calls: check
Seriously a real winner. I'm flying over right now.
"i don't really think of you"
that should've been the end of it, but noooo! this crybaby just had to keep digging his own grave even deeper afterwards.
The guy thinks he went in like Romeo but left like Gaston.
Nobody flirts like Gaston!
Now wait just a second… Gaston was kind of a chad (KIND OF) but still don’t give him even that much of credit. 💀💀
Romeo was a fckboi too, just look up Roseline.....
😂😂😂😂😂
No one leaves like Gaston!
My goodness, she just eviscerates him with those one-liners. I cannot fathom the level of insanity he has attained to press on in the face of such odds.
She made spaghetti out of him with ease
Not really no. She's being a childish attention seeking clout chaser and he can't get past his ego
@Cherry-pu4mx Guess her remarks hit a little close to home, huh? You can just say you're thin-skinned instead of trying to twist the situation to make her in the wrong somehow.
@@paigemosher8697 You think it's normal behavior to carry on this conversation and then post it straight after for attention?
Whts wrong with you...
@@paigemosher8697 and why are you defending the this behavior? Is it because you enjoy content? Is it because he was a trashy and egotistical? Why are you so blindsighted by her behavior
Hitting on someone by calling them autistic is such an atomic level negging I almost have to applaud it lmaoo
I imagine whenever he tells one of his “jokes” (that he’s not trying to make HER laugh in particular) he stares straight at her with Manson eyes
He wasn't hitting on her. He was trying to get to the root of her apparent social issues. It's not normal to abruptly stop replying to a conversation. Where are her manners? Where was her father growing up?
@@RobbieStacks90This is some low quality troll bait right here.
@@RobbieStacks90 you're absurd.
I'm surprised he didn't immediately lay claim to that first.
Girl goes to speak.. eeeeehhhh as she breathes in
AUTISTIC... AMIRITE?? AYE AYE.. Points AND Looks Around THE ROOM..
The triple whammy at 12:56 made me pause, lean back in my chair, clutch my desk, and say, "Ohhhhhhhh....." as I reeled from the cringe. Holy crap, that was bad.
not recognizing social boundaries.
random aggressive outbursts.
delusional beliefs.
huge instant mood swings.
for someone accusing others of psychological issues... hmmm....🤔
Doesn’t seem like recognizing social boundaries, looks more like he doesn’t care about her boundaries
He's gotta be bi polar and a narcissist lmao to flip so quick and not even consider anyone could have a different opinion then his own 😂
The projection is real, lmao
Isn’t autism a neurological issue, not psychological?
@@vindemiaAutism is neurodevelopmental yes, but it does as a result affect someone psychological state naturally. But it isn’t in and of itself just a psychological issue.
As a 52 yo woman who used to be very attractive to men in her younger days, I've encountered *lots* of creeps and I can tell you this guy would've been bad news. I'm talking controlling and emotionally abusive at the minimum.
well now u old and not attractive so ur looks fade away😂 . be Humble
As a mildly attractive guy in his 20s, It's strange. women flirt with me. Straight up saying they wanna kiss me. But i wanna respect their limits. So, I laugh it off, and sometimes they think I'm gay.
@@evanmcclure67that's kinda a random thing to reply to this woman. Are you okay?
Edit: I misunderstood the comment. I thought it was about respecting other people's boundaries, not having his (Evan's) respected. I'm extremely sorry for the confusion, and I meant no disrespect or to invalidate his experience.
How is that random? Both comments were about having bad times with flirting.@@cyanidesmile7263
@@cyanidesmile7263you misunderstood what he said. He’s relating from the viewpoint of a man. Let me clarify, he is stating as a man (even on the more attractive side) it’s uncommon to meet a girl that makes the advances even more so he is saying he’s encountered uncomfortable moments with creepy women who cross lines because of his appearance
Bro really said "Baby you put the U in neUrodivergent"
PhD in Rizzology
Lmfaoo
@@p-__ Bro oil up
lmfao
The U AND I
10:52 bro when the guy thinks that theres no possible way she wouldnt like him and and thinking shes teaching him a lesson is enough to show how delusional he is😭😭😭😭
This is textbook of how NOT to flirt. This is also the prime example of SHE’S NOT THAT IN TO YOU. She’s being polite. Uncomfortably polite. Take the hint and retreat with your dignity while you can.
Nah he just needs to try ONE more time. Shes for sure coming around
idk dude seems like its too late for this dude
Flirting is undignified. You're basically trying to get someone to have sex with you without saying as much. Unbecoming a of a gentleman or a lady
What dignity?
It's the "Maybe if I be polite he won't go nuts and retaliate any way he can" type of polite.
It just KEPT GETTING WORSE
The Traumatic Aftermath of Theists vs. Objective Reality.
"Intersex = PP+Vagina there is nothing else going on in peoples brains Man is Man Woman is Woman because we say so." Ridiculous. Adolf Hitler ran incinerators.
The last page lmfao 😂😂 you look healthy, how tall are you
Holy shit I'm crying
To be fair, I think he had already given up by the time he asked if she was autistic.
Think he maybe had a small drop of hope and continue messaging her
@@nr1NPC that's not a "to be fair" comment, Englishman.
the worse thing I think is that this guy is so oblivious that he doesn't realize she'll probably forward this to the other ladies in the group so he won't be getting anything from them either, literally cock blocked himself by being a weirdo.
@Runastabzzzz ragebaiting, 12 years old, or braindead?
I know they had a good laugh 🤣
I mean she is autistic if she does that 😂😂
Please don't stop making these, absolute gold!
He won't be stopping for a long time
My version of flirting was telling her three hours of Warhammer 40K lore and then when she asked me follow-up questions / wanted to know more, I knew she was the one. Granted we're both on the spectrum, but still.
The spectrum of gaming. GG.. good for you:)
it's very much the way to do it, actually have a connection and share things about yourself
Reminds me of the meme of explaining the lore of my minis to my gf and her wanting to know which is the horse from the horse heresy
pro gamer move bro
Epic gamer moment ❤️
tbh i did ask if my gf was autistic when we met and she was like "yeah i am actually, you can tell?" i told her i am too and it was obvious then we hit it off from there and we've been autistic together happily nearly 5 months now and shes the most amazing person ive ever met
u did this right. this other guy did not
Aaaaaaah I have the same story with my bf! Together for 2+ years now!! love how you did that ❤
@@zzBaBzzyou think pfizer has some vaccine for autism?😭
@@zzBaBzz holy shit. just reading this comment completely got rid of my autism, you’re literally a miracle worker.
Yeah, but the other's guy's intentions weren't good lol. It was clear, he meant "are you autistic (derogatory)" not "are you autistic (curious)"
9:31 I love how he adds *respectfully* to the end like it softens the blow or something
Lmaooo
You're an Ageist
i have never seen such a projection before
blud's that prism where you shine a light through it and it creates a rainbow
he should have said: "Are you autistic, cuz you're special to me."
that could have worked. because of the cheesy cute angle. but this dude just really doesnt know how to talk to others
Sweet, I am going to steal your line 😍
yeah also why cant these dude talks like normal human being they scaring the hoes away
Disclaimer: That line's only really going to work, if both parties involved are on the spectrum and bantering with one another. Neurotypical men should not attempt this line, unless they're cool with being blocked on sight by people, who dislike the implications.
(Read: NTs calling neurodivergent people "special" can come across about as charming as saying they're "touched in the head" to some.)
He needed you as a wingman out there bro lmao
As a 32 year old guy who's never had a girlfriend, i died at the "you sat next to him" part, actually slayed me for real, legit almost lost my jaw to the floor.
Wishing the best for you, I've never dated anyone either
But like…you’ve boned right?
Ey wishing you the best of luck with dating man. You look amazing compared to this loser
@@spiceweaselGood lord, let’s hope so, that’s just too long to live with your V-card.
32 years old never had a girlfriend?
Just proves to me that Charlies fans are bunch of losers lmao 😅
I literally just assumed these were early high schoolers until he said “im more successful than 90% of men”. Realizing this guy was a grown ass man really threw me for a loop! What a silly billy!
Love it when people say that shit. As if it means anythingoh good, you're more successful? Then you likely also have less time for me and less time for potential kids in the future. Aka chances are high you're not dating material or father material.
In my experience, women don't care that much about your success
damn im gonna have to start using silly billy now
Such a loose goose!
@@112523 the ones that want to take half your money when they divorce you seem really concerned about it
As an autistic person, can confirm, the main sign of autism is not laughing at this guy's jokes, that's the standard testing measure now, they bring you in a room and show you a video of this guy specifically doing a bad comedy routine and if you don't laugh, you get stamped on the forehead with the autism sticker
This is red pill 101. He's trying to neg her and make her jealous of other women, then has a full meltdown when he realises his "game" pushes her further and further away. These losers never learn.
That is not red pill, that is pure creepiness, he's fighting himself and no one is there to guide him.
Yep! And then they just get angrier and angrier and wonder why all women start avoiding them like the plague... Red pill echo chamber teaches them all this bs
@@flakes773 I would argue that a major component of red pilled dudes behavior is simply "pure creepiness"
@flakes773 there’s a difference?
@@EmeraldaKasim except every human is different and you can’t possibly believe every single woman and man like this type of interaction. Nor do I hope you believe that, or any young man. 8 billion people will never share the same values, perspective or life as another.
the "two months of being single is so suspicious" thing is fuckin crazy to me. got out of a three year relationship and ive been single for goin on six months now and im perfectly content with being single for another six. flings here n there are cool but i have no capacity for anything serious in the foreseeable future. some people jus don't have the energy for a relationship idk why that's crazy
I've been single my whole life. It's always weird to me that people think it's weird to not want to be in a relationship. I have other priorities 😆
@@GmmBeastsame! And I’m happy single!
I think it's laughable for other reasons, too (although your reason is entirely valid). To me, being able to be single shows that you take the relationships you get into seriously, rather than just hopping between them just for the sake of not being alone. This is coming from someone who hasn't been single for years.
@@GmmBeast Arent you afraid of dying alone?
@@fullaccess2645No, who gives af. Nobody comes with you when you die.
Truly a masterclass in how not to woo someone. Carrying an assumption about someone's mental condition as a pick-up strategy is never a good idea.
I love when Charlie does these, this is the best conversation ever.
Back when I was 12, I used to watch dating advice stuff and one of the tips they mentioned was to call someone by their name often. This guy was probably giving that a go 😂
12 is too young you should have studied at that age
@@motherisape But he studied... Dating advice.
@@motherisape👆🤓
@@motherisape lol what? Most kids start at like 10 with the datingstuff, Chill😂
@@topcat5233 that's not serious it's just kids game
She just posted the 3rd update, the guy is fully stalking and harassing her now
Is there a link to the post? Or the Reddit username for the poster’s account since TH-cam’s a bit fucky with links right now
Yo whats the username
Yeah would love to know where I can see the rest of this. This dude is unhinged.
@@bittiebeeRadiantLie4042
I’ve been trying to find the link too
He's probably using her name so much because he read the "say her name a lot to get her to love you" advice, not knowing it only works when she already likes you
Not knowing that it only works on tools
11:03 ”And I’m what you want in a guy, correct?”
- ”Incorrect.”
Ahahah I died laughing lmaooo
big moist channeling his inner therapist for this one
"Big Moist" is WILD 😂
@@GooGooGloopsWhy so
“I’m gonna try something else.”
Dude, she’s not a Sierra text parser. Wish her a good day and DROP IT.
Guys really went "Oops picked the wrong dialog option lemme load my save" irl
@@legoworld246”Thanks for trying to rizz up a girl. As usual, you’ve been a real pantload!”
dat reference😂
seriously though his courting logic is more insane than any puzzle roberta williams could concoct
@@notsusan “Girl, are you a softlock? Cuz you driving me crazy ;)”
As someone with Asperger's, calling someone autistic and referring to it with negative connotations in a sad attempt to flirt is WILD.
Im autistic too and was looking for this comment! Autism as an insult is bad enough (it's sad that people believe autistic = undesirable) but also insulting someone to the point of finding them a diagnosis is WILD
@@alexandragood7364and then and he doubled down on it with “dgmw, you’re pretty BUT…” feels very similar to how racists will go “you’re pretty for a black girl” like “you’re the least appealing thing I can think of but I am horny enough to make an exception for you” disgusting.
But, do you like trains though? 🧐😂
@@LuizAlexPhoenix trains are cool
@@LuizAlexPhoenixthat’s a stereotype but fuck yeah trains are awesome
2:42 This info came to me like a flashbang lmao
As someone that is autistic, if someone asked me in that way, I would've responded that I'm not comfortable talking to them anymore and ask them to stay away from me. They can assume the answer was yes if they want, but they won't get an actual answer.
Good. I think we have a right to keep that information to ourselves, or share it, how and when we see fit. My ASD diagnosis, or any other medical thing, is not anybody else's business unless I say it is. Good for you standing up for yourself 💜
No, you must bare your soul to every stranger that crosses your path!!
No, you must bare your soul to every stranger that crosses your path!!
That’s no fun , you gotta completely own them this woman did an amazing job tho that’s just me lol
“You’ve known me since March 12th!”
This means 2 things which are both equally sad.
1. He has the exact day he met her memorized
2. They’ve known each other for less than a year
2 months
They’ve known each other for less than a quarter of the year…
Bro has never taken “no” for an answer
I think he truly is the autistic one here, but keeps projecting it on the girl
We've known each other,
For so long...
His ability to continue responding after she hit him with the "I don't think of you at all" is remarkable.
It's the "lol no" for me, he has no problem asking the question to someone without really any cause, but when the same is done to him he finds it so ridiculous that someone would consider asking him that. Big red flag.
Mans literally said "wheres my hug?" Lmfaooo
This guy is the perfect example of someone who views women as objects
Not really
@@gmusic7268 Gmusic i wanna see you follow up on that claim and explain to antitroll why that is.
Or else im taking the "music" out of you user name
God of sound approved-
Definitely, if he thinks a woman needs to be autistic for her to not fall for his "charms" 💀
actually disturbing how much he talks about "loving" her and finding her "beautiful" but only ever talks about her body between accusations of trauma and autism.
How ironic that you used the word "women" as a direct object
God made women so that we could swoon them.
This dude straight admitting to sleeping with this person's friends then still thinking they have any so called rizz after that is funny as hell
He almost certainly didn't. He also mentions past girlfriends height for no reason. Dude is just showing that girls in the past were interested so she should be too, even if it's not even true. It's actual child like thinking, I would not be surprised if the dude actually had a severe developmental disability himself.
I mean sleeping around a friend group is fine if you’re considerate about it. But bragging is for sure not the way. He should’ve just put his best foot forward with each of these women and trusted in the girlfriend grapevine to get the word out.
@@OldManRiv3r like I don't necessarily think that putting this man on blast is the right idea because he could actually have a serious disorder and this could trigger something more
@@vansocks84 yeah maybe. Too late though, no one has a time machine 😅 plus unhinged folks that snap usually always snap at some point anyways. Finged crossed he just doesn't hurt anyone and he gets aggressive with police and they "solve the issue". That's best case scenario in my book.
Update: It only has gotten worse from here unfortunately he has started to harass and stalk her. She said, "Recently it has got even worse. Over the last few days he's been loitering outside my home and knocking on my door repeatedly. Today he left a "gift" on the window with a note attached" Don't know what the note said or what the "gift" was she never said. She has also went to the police twice about it and they said "They can't do much right now"
Fake
@@kyoguro_rengoku
How is this fake? Do you even realise how common this all is? Or do you just want to ignore it because it's never happened to you?
I love spreading misinformation
@BloodInTheStrawberries it's fake he doesn't even know this girl he wants TH-cam likes don't tell me your gonna fall for his little story lol 😆