The TRUTH about networking for tech job

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ม.ค. 2025

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  • @chewelanthani432
    @chewelanthani432 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I really wish I could send you an Audio message. Sir, I understand what you are going through. You are inspiring ME to forge ahead. I only have younger Siblings. But I feel the weight of the responsibility quickly building up. And I know it DOES get better. I am looking to you for inspiration. And I know we can do this. I am a Christian myself. And one thing that gets me through the hard days is remembering that there are people who are praying to be at your level right now. I would LOVE to have your skills. I know I will soon. But I would LOVE that right now. But God's timing is the Best.
    Jesus Loves you.
    And I love you sir.
    I am praying for you.
    And we WILL get through this. Yes we will

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! WE will get everything we pray for and more! Sending prayers 🙏

  • @CodingAfterThirty
    @CodingAfterThirty 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Keep it up, you will get there. I got my first job at 39 I am now 43. One place I found success is looking for jobs with digital agencies that work with sites like wordpress, or even squarespace, yeah it is not something you would write home about but it will at least get you paid.
    That is kind of the path I started with, worked for a local digital agency in my home town doing minor edits wordpress sites and content updates, this allowed me to make some money to pay my bills and at night I focused on learning React and Javascript, nothing wrong with wordpress and PHP, just wasn't my passion.

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is what I do in my LLC. I'll look into some more thanks

  • @Cameron8325
    @Cameron8325 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I stumbled across your videos as a fresh bootcamp graduate a month or so ago. I had celebrated my graduation, my first son coming into the world, and 5 years clean. You gave me hope.
    You're absolutely right, it's really tough in today's market. I still haven't even gotten a call back. But I know if anyone, before even myself, can land a job in tech, it's you.
    Even if you have to get a supplementary job in the meantime while you practice your skills, I feel the time and energy is worth it. If you want to collaborate on a small project, I'd be down.
    I don't have much but I'm going to subscribe because I want to see you succeed.

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Congratulations Cameron!!! That's huge stuff man.
      Also thank you for your kind words. I've just been in funk and want people to see the truth even if it's ugly.

  • @austnsauce2543
    @austnsauce2543 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am in the same boat, sorta. I have a CS degree but didn’t break into a job right out of college. I have had a couple of years “off” from daily work at this, but am starting to get into a groove now.
    This challenge will not last forever. Keep it up!

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Right I will find a solution but right now it's hard and I don't want to hide that. I know others are going through it too

  • @CodingMountainMan
    @CodingMountainMan 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Something will work out. Genuine and from the heart.

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you brother.

  • @brookesweedar
    @brookesweedar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This market is horrible. I’m so sorry that it hasn’t happened for you yet, but Will I know it will. It may not make you feel any better with the reality that you’re facing, but you’re such an inspiration for so many. It’s just a numbers thing sometimes, and I want to thank you for making this video. So so blessed to call you my homie 🙏🏻

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for saying that. I'll keep working at it just in a funk I can't seem to get out of. I hate coming off negative on here but being honest about it all is important!

  • @Jason-co9ep
    @Jason-co9ep 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're missing the same thing I am I think; a birthday in the 90s/00s. I left IT to get into software development but hasn't happened yet. That was longer ago than I care to admit. I truly wish you the best man!

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I hadn't known ageism was a real thing till tech.

  • @MidtownShoota
    @MidtownShoota 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wish you the best of luck. It’s going to come. I’ve been looking since 2020. It’s hard. Keep your head up and keep grinding.

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I appreciate that. YOU got some real perseverance!!

    • @MidtownShoota
      @MidtownShoota 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thetechdad87 yea it’s been rough being in my 30s luckily I have an analyst job and family. But ultimately it’s my dream job. I’m hoping oneday.

  • @gahangwasteve8789
    @gahangwasteve8789 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    keep on Walking Brother! Hope Skies bless you man.

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you!!!

  • @BigStupidTech
    @BigStupidTech 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Got the noti that a new vid dropped and went crazy 🥳

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I appreciate the support! This one is a little different tone.

  • @GambillDataEngineering
    @GambillDataEngineering 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You will get there man! Keep your head up! If there is something I can share or do ping me on one of the other socials!

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I appreciate it man. Just in a funk I need to start working again. I'll feel better when I get some money flowing.

  • @UndyingFrost
    @UndyingFrost 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sometimes its also worth remembering that networking is half the job, but not the whole job. The other half is showing your skills and selling them. So don't worry about it. Keep working, keep moving forward. That's the onyl real way :)

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My dude! I've realized this is the piece I'm missing. I'm going to start doing something different now.

    • @UndyingFrost
      @UndyingFrost 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thetechdad87 I'm happy I could help :)

  • @CoachCNY
    @CoachCNY 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've heard the market is terrible from every angle. But I also watched a lot of friends' ambitions die on the networking hopes.... Tech, creative, education. They invested heavily in networking, and it amounted to nothing. It was crushing to watch, unimaginable for them.
    I've also plenty of people nose down and build from the ground up, starting their own small businesses that scale into, eventually, their own networks.
    Have you given hard thought to starting your own gig or, as I'd feel being a dad myself, are you concerned that the income might be too low for too long to make it work?

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am actively working on building a business I have made some money from it. But it's not stable enough yet. So I just need a job with a stable income while I build

  • @gdj777
    @gdj777 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Things are getting harsh. I did some web design bout a decade a go and now upskilling to get back in the game. But inflation is ravaging evrything. Not impossible to find work but very challenging now. Im hoping for good things after the election n getting my skills intop shape by then. In the meantime even a dominos job is a challenge to get.

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah we can hope things get better. I'm applying to other jobs now and seeing it's pretty bad everywhere!

  • @wixmich08
    @wixmich08 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What positions are you applying for? why not start with content management or email marketing?

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am considering this since I offer it thru my LLC. But the dream was a nice remote dev position

  • @keshavjuneja6499
    @keshavjuneja6499 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    its okay sir, I am also struggling to get a job if I don't get a job I am thinking of learning something new idk that yet but not ai shit maybe game dev..... who knows. But i am very young compared to you and dont have responsibility while you have alot of things going on. I really envy your family because the about of work you are putting just to keep them happy is something else mate. I dont know what i should say or idk. When you are jobless and u see other idiots(YES LIKE U MENTIONED HELLO WORLD IN DEC GOT A JOB) getting a job while u are working your ass off for yrs still not able to get a job it hurts man just hurts.
    PS
    sry idk if what i said is bs or not but atleast try to get some mental peace in this chaos (if thats possible)

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm working on it I just want to share with people my real feelings let people know it's ok

    • @keshavjuneja6499
      @keshavjuneja6499 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ahh sry it felt like WHAT MORE should i do to get a job.. and bro u r lucky someone made a ppt about u lol

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@keshavjuneja6499 that is from the power of networking and building those relationships

  • @brookesweedar
    @brookesweedar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy to make a PowerPoint about you anytime!!!

  • @tharushi-c7x
    @tharushi-c7x 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m sorry to ask this again and again. In a previous video I commented about asking about your deployment process for websites you build for freelancing and you said you have one for deploying on Netlify. Can you mention the video link for that or the video title,as I couldn’t find it? Thank you

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      th-cam.com/video/oKfahgH2Kh0/w-d-xo.html

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'll drop updated one soon when I get out my funk 🤣

    • @tharushi-c7x
      @tharushi-c7x 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you

  • @electrictrojan6719
    @electrictrojan6719 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Would you be willing to say anymore about those people who only started with "Hello world" in December...?

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No, the point is that anything can happen and somethings just aren't in your control

  • @CloudNexus1
    @CloudNexus1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What kind of tech job do you want?

    • @thetechdad87
      @thetechdad87  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The kind that pays alot and requires little time