For me, a big part of prioritising sex is to steer away from the mindset of sex being something that only happens at bedtime, which means, if you both have energy left by bedtime...which isn't that often, because bedtime is bedtime for a reason!
You two, and these honest, authentic videos, are just wonderful. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👍. I have been putting them in my ‘save’ file because I don’t want to lose them in the labyrinth of YT. Thank you so much for making them. 🙏💕
I think Lesbian Bed Death can totally be a thing, it's just not just lesbians, it's all couples. When you've been together for a long time and endorphines starts wearing off, it starts becoming more work to not let a relationship slip more into friendship instead. I hear a lot of straight couples feeling the same way. I think it's very natural and shouldn't be stigmatised, and like you guys say, if you want to do something about it, talk about it and prioritize it :) This was a great video, thank you for sharing and talking about it
still addicted to my wife's very fat ass after 17 years of marriage, I think that for some people being sexually frustrated is worse than death. so this "friendship scenario" can destroy a marriage if one of the parts really needs a lot of sex in order to be happy. There's a reason why there are brothels full of women and not full of men. we are not equal.
Thank you for being vulnerable with us and showing us the insides of what it really takes to make a relationship work. I really appreciate your honesty and your keenness on educating people about communication and love no matter what they identify with. You have been a source of comfort and joy and education for me personally through the rough patch I am going through right now.
Yay, Sadie!!! You’ve said you’re very reluctant to talk about sex ... but, since you and Hannah have made these videos about sex, you’ve (noticeably) become more comfortable!! I LOVE this!!! Thank you for your courage and bravery!! Hearing YOU speak about so many topics that you’ve struggled to talk about has helped SO MANY OTHERS!!! Including me..😉. I’ve said it before...you two are exceptional...I have so much respect and admiration for you both!! 💜🙏💜
At what point do these videos stop topping themselves for excellence and pure honesty and thoughtfulness?!?! it just doesn’t happen! I figure that you ladies, at some point, will have to produce a video that’s even “average” for you, maybe you’ll run out of topics, you’ll just be too tired or name any of a million things, but I don’t think it’s possible! Thanks again, ladies!!
Loved it ladies!! This so interesting and so so good.. You all made so many good points in this, from the lesbian death bed to the first time.. So thanks for sharing all of it!! You all are so amazing.. Love your outfits too.. Much love to you both.. Stay sweet and keep on rockin!!
Love this series and I hate expectations lol, and through this series it’s great that I noticed Sadie feeling more confident through the series but that could be because Hannah is next to her. Through this good communication in a relationship is vital and that’s how the relationship grows as well. I think sex changes through a relationship too I think not bad or good just changes due to need and wants. Thank you so much and love the topic so much.
You know the difference in gay people sex problems and straight people sex problems? NOTHING!!! We are all people and we have different needs and meeting someone can be scary. Having sex for the first time is scary! Sharing you needs and wants can be scary. It doesn’t matter what your sexual orientation is or what color, religion, height or weight you are. Listen to these ladies. I know they are talking to mostly a gay audience but everyone can benefit from what they tell us! I really enjoy this channel. Keep up the great work ladies!
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False, gay people don't understand sex,facts, science, humanity.
i was raised with the beliefs that you have to : question yourself, everything and everyones motives; expect the unexpected; value diversity in everyone. I agree that the lack of consent can come from fear or cowardice but also don't forget the ones, with an ego so disproportionate, who believe that it's normal, or it's a game to kiss anyone in front of their audience. I love Sadie's food analogies. Shell was very vocal today, she doesn't want any barrier between you and her that's cute and sweet.
Have you watched I may destroy you? I'd really recommend it if not, it adds a lot of nuance to the cultural conversation around consent (and, separately, recreational drug use) and is a brilliant watch
1. Sadie's Green Beanie is soOOoOOooOoO LOUD! 2. How attentively Hannah looks at Sadie. 3. Sadie's analogies 👍 4. Can the "kiss consent" hot scene get any hotter? U two R a BLESSING! 💗
Wait, what.....you mean French fries are not an aphrodisiac? Well my mind is blown.... Great series and you two are so absolutely genuine and real. Kudos!
Girls, you are so soft, gentle and serious when talking about sex and you are right... Two women relationship is even more serious, it's almost a 5th dimension communication...telepathy.... You can feel the energy, in the air, through the eyes, breathing, feeling the touch, how body exhales, the whole chemistry engaged with the emotions. I do understand what you say.... it is so beautiful... One must live this experiment to feel it. Thank you to expose this type of feelings. Dina (BR)
Hannah, could you please link to Emily N.’s info page or how to spell her last name? ☺️. It would be interesting to follow up with what you said here at 3:43. Thanks!
Me and my girlfriend have been together for a couple of years and it’s been increasingly harder to prioritise sex partly because life, but also because we’re both on the pill. The less sex we have, the more pressure I feel to make it great which results in me not wanting it anymore. How do I stop putting so much pressure on myself?
Already a few seconds into the video I learned that you can put mugs onto the tags of the teabags. What kind of magic wizardery is this? I always spent time to somehow knot them to the handle or sometimes attached them to a spoon. What have I been doing my whole life???
The only people we should filter (along with coffee) are those who want us to believe that our life belongs to them and try to turn us off with their beliefs. By the way, Sadie, the pineapple pizza is as delicious as w/ little fish. In Brazil there is a type of restaurant called "rodizio de pizza" where you pay a ticket and they bring you different varieties of pizza until you can't take it anymore, and anana or banana included
@11:28 "I do think we over hype it sometimes" As a hetro guy I want to say orgasm is pretty amazing at least from my perspective and I assume its just as amazing for women. So not I cannot agree that orgasm is over hyped. The truth is that orgasm is very difficult to achieve because it requires a lot of FOREPLAY which most are unwilling to do. I mean what man want to caress a womens body for hours? They're just going to want to do that. I'll give you some tips. Have sex in the dark. Most women are inhibited to some extent. If your a guy you gotta put a lot of effort into foreplay. Thats the biggest reason women just dont get enough affective stimulus. So yeah your hands all over her body for hours. Very gentle caresses and avoid the labia initially. Thats why some women prefer women because they are gentle. Any try that. I would tell you more still its a bit of a touchy subject if you know what I mean.
Sorry to break it to you, but lesbian bed death is a real thing for many couples. Sexual attraction and romance will fade - quicker for some couples than others - but if the partners still value the relationship and it still meets the needs of each partner, what remains is a deeper, more abiding and fulfilling love and companionship.❤️😍😘
evolution would not have made it so much fun if it was not meant to be enjoyed!!!! Considering wars have been nearly started over whether there should be pineapple on pizza, there really is no surprise that there are issues over talking about sex. Another excellent and rational video. total cuteness with that kiss...
For me, a big part of prioritising sex is to steer away from the mindset of sex being something that only happens at bedtime, which means, if you both have energy left by bedtime...which isn't that often, because bedtime is bedtime for a reason!
You two, and these honest, authentic videos, are just wonderful. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👍. I have been putting them in my ‘save’ file because I don’t want to lose them in the labyrinth of YT. Thank you so much for making them. 🙏💕
I think Lesbian Bed Death can totally be a thing, it's just not just lesbians, it's all couples. When you've been together for a long time and endorphines starts wearing off, it starts becoming more work to not let a relationship slip more into friendship instead. I hear a lot of straight couples feeling the same way. I think it's very natural and shouldn't be stigmatised, and like you guys say, if you want to do something about it, talk about it and prioritize it :) This was a great video, thank you for sharing and talking about it
still addicted to my wife's very fat ass after 17 years of marriage, I think that for some people being sexually frustrated is worse than death. so this "friendship scenario" can destroy a marriage if one of the parts really needs a lot of sex in order to be happy. There's a reason why there are brothels full of women and not full of men. we are not equal.
Thank you for being vulnerable with us and showing us the insides of what it really takes to make a relationship work.
I really appreciate your honesty and your keenness on educating people about communication and love no matter what they identify with.
You have been a source of comfort and joy and education for me personally through the rough patch I am going through right now.
Don't "Yuck!" other people's"Yum!"s is so simple yet profound. Thank you for making these videos.
Yay, Sadie!!! You’ve said you’re very reluctant to talk about sex ... but, since you and Hannah have made these videos about sex, you’ve (noticeably) become more comfortable!! I LOVE this!!! Thank you for your courage and bravery!! Hearing YOU speak about so many topics that you’ve struggled to talk about has helped SO MANY OTHERS!!! Including me..😉. I’ve said it before...you two are exceptional...I have so much respect and admiration for you both!! 💜🙏💜
I totally agree. Consent is the language for love and respect.. 💞
This is a fantastic video in which in my view, you guys again do a great job piercing the veil of heteronormativity and its archaic rules!
Consent is HAWT. YES.
Also, why are y’all so cute?!?! 🥰
Tyt Crack Grow up.
@Tyt Crack I have given a thumbs down 👎 to every one of your negative comments, go away
Great video and very good answers! As you said it absolutely correctly, consent is the most important thing!
At what point do these videos stop topping themselves for excellence and pure honesty and thoughtfulness?!?! it just doesn’t happen! I figure that you ladies, at some point, will have to produce a video that’s even “average” for you, maybe you’ll run out of topics, you’ll just be too tired or name any of a million things, but I don’t think it’s possible! Thanks again, ladies!!
Loved it ladies!! This so interesting and so so good.. You all made so many good points in this, from the lesbian death bed to the first time.. So thanks for sharing all of it!! You all are so amazing.. Love your outfits too.. Much love to you both.. Stay sweet and keep on rockin!!
It's so therapeutic listening to this conversation. We all needed to hear this.
Love this series and I hate expectations lol, and through this series it’s great that I noticed Sadie feeling more confident through the series but that could be because Hannah is next to her. Through this good communication in a relationship is vital and that’s how the relationship grows as well. I think sex changes through a relationship too I think not bad or good just changes due to need and wants. Thank you so much and love the topic so much.
I love you guys so much, thanks for blessing all of our lives with your honesty
Honesty? Fake relationships, don't last,so where's the honesty?
You know the difference in gay people sex problems and straight people sex problems? NOTHING!!! We are all people and we have different needs and meeting someone can be scary. Having sex for the first time is scary! Sharing you needs and wants can be scary. It doesn’t matter what your sexual orientation is or what color, religion, height or weight you are. Listen to these ladies. I know they are talking to mostly a gay audience but everyone can benefit from what they tell us!
I really enjoy this channel. Keep up the great work ladies!
False, gay people don't understand sex,facts, science, humanity.
If your religion is Christian you won’t be with a person that’s the same gender as you
This feels like having a discussion with your cool parents or aunts
Y’all are just a breath of fresh air ☺️
i was raised with the beliefs that you have to : question yourself, everything and everyones motives; expect the unexpected; value diversity in everyone.
I agree that the lack of consent can come from fear or cowardice but also don't forget the ones, with an ego so disproportionate, who believe that it's normal, or it's a game to kiss anyone in front of their audience.
I love Sadie's food analogies.
Shell was very vocal today, she doesn't want any barrier between you and her that's cute and sweet.
Thank you for the great video as always (and for taking up my question:))
Y’all are wonderfully respectful, very knowledgeable and also adorable as fuck together. Thanks for the smile!
Have you watched I may destroy you? I'd really recommend it if not, it adds a lot of nuance to the cultural conversation around consent (and, separately, recreational drug use) and is a brilliant watch
1. Sadie's Green Beanie is soOOoOOooOoO LOUD!
2. How attentively Hannah looks at Sadie.
3. Sadie's analogies 👍
4. Can the "kiss consent" hot scene get any hotter?
U two R a BLESSING! 💗
Wait, what.....you mean French fries are not an aphrodisiac? Well my mind is blown.... Great series and you two are so absolutely genuine and real. Kudos!
Girls, you are so soft, gentle and serious when talking about sex and you are right... Two women relationship is even more serious, it's almost a 5th dimension communication...telepathy.... You can feel the energy, in the air, through the eyes, breathing, feeling the touch, how body exhales, the whole chemistry engaged with the emotions. I do understand what you say.... it is so beautiful... One must live this experiment to feel it. Thank you to expose this type of feelings. Dina (BR)
So thought provoking and insightful as usual. Consent is hot and builds trust which is a fundamental requirement in any healthy relationship
"But we do sing"... oh wait it's not Friday hahaha Thank you for these videos and hey Shell just wanted to be part of the conversation 🧡🧡🧡
Hannah, could you please link to Emily N.’s info page or how to spell her last name? ☺️. It would be interesting to follow up with what you said here at 3:43. Thanks!
Yes! Emily Nagoski! I’ll add her name to the description. Thank you🥰
Am I the only gay woman who has never heard the term "lesbian bed death?"
I always enjoy your videos your both beautiful women your relationship is always interesting and educational love you Hannah and sadie
*you're = you are 😘xoxo Grammar Fairy 🧚♀️
Love love love these two!!!!🔥💯💋❣️
The absence of consent is assault and nobody wants to be the victim of assault ... so don't do it.
The truthiness of you two ladies has helped me be more honest in my life ! So thank you for sharing your thoughts on lesbian sexual relationship .
Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski is a game-changer of a book!
Love your pizza choice Sadie!!
Omgosh u guys are just the cutest
The "don't yuck other people's yums" is from Louis ck
Me and my girlfriend have been together for a couple of years and it’s been increasingly harder to prioritise sex partly because life, but also because we’re both on the pill. The less sex we have, the more pressure I feel to make it great which results in me not wanting it anymore. How do I stop putting so much pressure on myself?
love you guys. such a sweet couple!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Nice video.Greetings from Africa.
Already a few seconds into the video I learned that you can put mugs onto the tags of the teabags. What kind of magic wizardery is this? I always spent time to somehow knot them to the handle or sometimes attached them to a spoon. What have I been doing my whole life???
Love pizza with pineapple and jalapeno :) You two are so great at expressing your feelings and thoughts. Big props to you!
This series is awesome!!! I never want it to end! And YES CONSENT IS SEXY!!! I’m with you Hannah that whole situation Sadie described... ooomph 🤤🤤🤤
"taking control" sums up the exact problem with that TV scene. He took control away from the woman. Which is assault.
@Tyt Crack are you an incel or are you just trying to figure out what to do while your Dear Leader Trump is in the hospital?
@@coryburris8211 I think they may have been both!
The only people we should filter (along with coffee) are those who want us to believe that our life belongs to them and try to turn us off with their beliefs. By the way, Sadie, the pineapple pizza is as delicious as w/ little fish. In Brazil there is a type of restaurant called "rodizio de pizza" where you pay a ticket and they bring you different varieties of pizza until you can't take it anymore, and anana or banana included
Well said ladies 💞
@Tyt Crack if all men were like you, they and everyone else would have a reason to hate them. Go away, incel
"so, maybe this is weird, but I'd really like to...."
@Tyt Crack go away
Precious little puppy.. 🤗
NOOOOOOOooooooooo!!!!! I've been binge watching you guys and now I'm all caught up so I'll have to wait for new episodes like everyone else 😟😟😟
@Tyt Crack you should take your own advice
Love the Beanie
You 2 are beautiful
Have a great day
Happy Pride ❤️
Pizza with pineapple and jalapeno?!?! That's just disturbing.
@11:28 "I do think we over hype it sometimes"
As a hetro guy I want to say orgasm is pretty amazing at least from my perspective and I assume its just as amazing for women.
So not I cannot agree that orgasm is over hyped.
The truth is that orgasm is very difficult to achieve because it requires a lot of FOREPLAY which most are unwilling to do.
I mean what man want to caress a womens body for hours?
They're just going to want to do that.
I'll give you some tips.
Have sex in the dark.
Most women are inhibited to some extent.
If your a guy you gotta put a lot of effort into foreplay.
Thats the biggest reason women just dont get enough affective stimulus.
So yeah your hands all over her body for hours.
Very gentle caresses and avoid the labia initially.
Thats why some women prefer women because they are gentle.
Any try that.
I would tell you more still its a bit of a touchy subject if you know what I mean.
it just gets better every week. Keep the conversation going☺️ PS. Hawaiian pizza is the only true 🍕 pizza🍍🧅🐖🍅
"are you okay with my hands where they are?"
@Tyt Crack go away
@Tyt Crack go away, nobody here wants your negativity
Hannah and Sadie you both are so sweet and adorable
So cute moment ! Thanks !
Consent is sexy yall 👏👏👏
Sorry to break it to you, but lesbian bed death is a real thing for many couples. Sexual attraction and romance will fade - quicker for some couples than others - but if the partners still value the relationship and it still meets the needs of each partner, what remains is a deeper, more abiding and fulfilling love and companionship.❤️😍😘
@@FlashTrance 😊
Pizza hawaiana, en serio Sadie?
No puedo seguir así.
JK, Love you guys. I also don't want to know what happened after the video lol.
omg finally a kiss!!!! yessssssss
Consent 🔥🔥🔥
evolution would not have made it so much fun if it was not meant to be enjoyed!!!!
Considering wars have been nearly started over whether there should be pineapple on pizza, there really is no surprise that there are issues over talking about sex.
Another excellent and rational video. total cuteness with that kiss...
Can I kiss you?
Hmmm... meh...
Yep - Sarcastic.