Stop Living In Your Past! ᴴᴰ ┇
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Stop Living In Your Past! ᴴᴰ ┇ #Ego ┇ by Ustadh Hamza Tzortzis ┇ TDR Production ┇
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Speaker: Ustadh Hamza Tzortzis
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Stop Living In Your Past! ᴴᴰ - Ustadh Hamza Tzortzis ┇ TDR Production ┇
You live in a drama. We need to start living in reality. What do I mean by this? Our drama, brothers and sisters and friends, is our previous experiences, our limited perspectives, ideas, interactions with others and we take all of that and we super impose it on to reality, on to the present. We are always living in the past from that perspective because we are so attached, our egos become so attached to, 'but he did that before' and 'she's always been like that!' etc. etc... And you superimpose that onto reality. So as if we have three filing cabinets in life - the filing cabinet of the past, the filing cabinet of the present, and the filing cabinet of the future and we take the files from the past and we are always putting it into the future, so we are never living the present and our whole life and the rest of our life is just one big retake of our past. This is ridiculous! This drama and reality is not the same thing. And the reason we think it is the same thing is because of the ego. When we reflect upon the Quran, Sura Baqara, Chapter 2, verse 30, we can really derive this knowledge. Allah says to the angels. He announces that He is gonna send down a vicegerent on earth and the angels reply, 'are you gonna send someone down to create bloodshed, calamity while we sing Your praises?' What does Allah say, 'I know that which you do not know.' Ibn Kathir, the classical commentator, essentially says that, 'God has a totality of wisdom and knowledge, we have its particular.' God has the picture, we have the pixel. So, this should really teach us about our own lives! Are we gonna live in our own drama, our limited experiences? Just like what the angels said! 'Before Adam, before this man you are gonna send down this vicegerent on earth, there was bloodshed! So therefore, what are you going to do now, is going to be the same.' But Allah says, 'Don't think like this! Don't be like this! Don't be in a state of being that you are always living on your own ego.' Your own interpretation of the past! Your limited experiences of the past, super imposing on everybody else, on yourself, your family and the entire world! This is why you are living a circle! Your whole life is a one big circle. But Allah says, He knows that which we don't!
So if we truly rely on Allah and His wisdom and we understand that my previous experiences just like the angels, my previous understanding, my limited ideas, thoughts and perspectives are not reality and I can't super impose them on the present, or on the future all the time because they are not reality. I rely on God's wisdom and plan. Then it creates a new realm of possibility for us to do what we can to interact with others in a positive way and the past is just the past, meaningless! Absolutely meaningless from this perspective! So just by reflecting on one small verse in the Quran, it enables you to have a new realm of possibilities with other people. So divorce your drama from reality! It's meaningless! Be a black canvas and connect with people in ways that they should be connected with. Not via the lenses and prism of your limited experiences and perspectives.
I hope this helps.
Assalaamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah
I know it might sound silly, and there are people who are surviving tough times, but being a teenager is not easy, and you guys helped me alot.
Are you Muslim
Yes its natural to be hurt by an upsetting past...but slowly it's good to learn from the past. After all its part of being human to be hurt. And ask Allah for help and we will find a no better helper and Allah is with the patient.
Allah u Akbar!!!
May Allah help me forget my past and help me actually live the life in the present and for the future. Ameen
May Allah grant me and the ummah good in the dunya and grant me and the ummah good in the akhirah and protect me and the ummah from the fire ( jahanum). Ameen
Ahsan ButtP Amiin Yaa Allah!
Ahsan ButtP Aameen
Ameen
Ameen
This is so relevant to anxiety and depression.May Allah bless you immensely for sharing the reminder above ^ oh may Allah forgive us all and grant us deeper understanding. ameen.
Gawdessxo Aameen
Ameen
Same here. I always think about past how good I was in my past life. Its because of my anxiety.
Stop living in the past! Stop living in pain!!!
OMG THIS IS THE BEST THING I'VE EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE!
Salaam Alaikum, I agree with the speaker that we should try to forget our past and move on, but to say that it is meaningless would be insulting to those who have had bad pasts. He is basically saying to one that was abused, or harmed, or to whom injustice was caused that it was meaningless. A person can learn from his past and use what he has learned to better his future. But, for one to forcefully forget his bad past would simply make that person a non-human. It has to come willingly, the person has to learn to let go either by forgiving the wrong that was done to him, or simply not remembering it.
I agree totally
"but to say that it is meaningless would be insulting" you should listen carefully what he said. He said "absolutely meaningless FROM THAT PERSPECTIVE". From the perspective of interacting with people, from the perspective of moving on in life and looking only forward, not back. As-salamu alaykum
@@JoffreyB Alhamdulillah
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ الْعَفْوَ وَالْعَافِيَةَ فِي الدُّنْيَا وَالآخِرَةِ
Allahumma inni as’alukal-‘afwa wal-‘afiyah fid-dunya wal-akhirah
" O Allah, I ask You for forgiveness and well-being in this world and in the Hereafter "
I need to let go of my past i had a few truamatic experiences as a teenager growing up that really effected me and i just been letting it hold me back and mess with my head. but ive been doing better i just think i need to speak to a therapist about it to help me truly move on from it.. May allah make it easy for me and everyon one else Ameen.
I have difficualties moving on from the past, from a very spescial divorce, where i didnt get any sort of closure or reasons, just a sielent treatment. Im left thinking and thinking ruining my life. I keep blaming myself, then the other part. Its so draining emotionally. I have alot of regrets, of what i should have done and what shouldnt. :(. Seems like this feeling and thinking never gonna end. Appriciate similliar experiences and tips for help. Make dua.
Allaah hu akbar
so tru
so real
May Allaah grant us and accpet us and give us strenght courage to follow and let go of our ego.
Allaah huma ameen
Thank you brother Hamza!
This comes in a right time alhamdulilah
Allah Hu Akbar
Always live ur life as if u are a student..Always curious to learn new things...Always humble...And respect the life which Allah Subhana wa Taala has given u...Dont waste it..
We should try to help and support each other with affection in tough times. May Allah have mercy upon all of us!!!
I really find a lot of benefit from watching this video (: thank you for this wonderful reminder and videos that u upload to TH-cam, Alhamdullilah a lot of us muslims has learned good things from this channel (: Assalamualaikum
Such a good reminder. I knew that it's quite hard for me, but i will try my best because i do believe that nothing is easy unless Allah makes it easy on me.The difficulty is based on the level of Divine help. " Nothing is difficult if you seek it through your lord and nothing is easy if you seek it through yourself"
Very well said
الماضي ذهب، والمؤمَّـل غيب، ولك الساعة التي أنت فيها
I ask for your prayer that Allah may grant me the ability to establish this wise advice in my life. May Allah grant you the same, Amen.
Needed this... Allah showed me this.
Mashaa_Allaah! Jazakallaahu_Khair!!
JazakAllah khayr.💚
Very profound words. May Allah give all the patience and the Iman to push forward through hardships. Always know that Allah has a plan for you brothers and sisters.
it surely helps n I pray that will start living present. Inshallah
Al hamdoulilah
Jazzakhala khairan
All my past Astergaffirullah and Alhamdulillah for all my presents,
Subhanallah....I just love this video...Its a very strong and major part of any teenagers life...They always live in their ego..But my brothers,bcoz of ur ego u will always lose..plz open ur eyes and accept with Happiness whatever Allah subhana wa Taala gives u in ur life...
This is very powerful. I was explaing this exact situation with my wife
So helpful thank you❤️
Alhamdulillah for this advice, jazakallah khair brother hamza, ameen
Alhamdulillah, it just emerged in my recommendation when i needed it so badly
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Well said..... May Allah bless U
Brilliant Reminder, we Should certainly take heed from this lecture, and entrust our entire belief in Allah SWT, as he alone knows our true destiny . JazzakAllah brother HAMZA
Very wonderful hikmah from the interpretation, brother... jazakallah, jazakallahu khair..
Thanks so much for the lovely post...
Jazzak Allah Khairan! I really benefited from this and hope the Ummah can benefit from this. May Allah increase your team with blessings for this.
It's not that I have bad memories. It's just that I have strong nostalgia for good memories and times of my childhood. I can't let go of good memories but they upset me it's weird...
Jazakhallahu khair
This video reli means alot to me. Its nt dt easy, but Allah (swt) wil help us. Ameen
Jazakallahhu khaiaran
Alhamdulillah, thankyou for helping me.
it definately helps Jazka Allah
Subhanallah!!
jazakAllah o khair
wa alaykoum assalaam
asalam Wallekum brother
thank you very much this video had helped me to over come my sadness thank you so much
Yaa Allah help us all.
Allahu Akbar!
ALLAH HU AKBAR !!!
Brother please check my channel out i upload Islamic videos like Quran recitations, reminders, Nasheeds and more.
deep
Yes bcs past is just a past
maa shaa Allah
oh, yes, it helps big time, thank you for these words :)
Jazakallah
Wooow, beautiful! #SubhanAllah ❤️
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmarullah and
Barakallahu feekum
o Allah help me
alhamdulillah it's does help.
In reality, we grow up selfish, coveting, and friending..often selfishly. Our ego, ties us to that which we covet, our selves, friends, and families. As we grow, responsibility slowly loosens our selfishness in favor of respect for society such that finally our maturity is driven by our ego, that holds respect for our reality in check. Once you destroy your ego, you destroy your civility, your coveting, your civil stasis. Now at this time you might become a monk, give up cigarettes, hell maybe even sex, but also, you might kill your friends, because everything that ties you to reality is anchored to your ego, that Hamza just destroyed. Hamza has a very specific message and he thinks he is so smart. But we see what he is doing. And it is not going unnoticed. And do not divorce your Drama from your reality. it is what keeps you sane. lol
amazing
please check my channel out i upload Islamic videos like Quran recitations, reminders, Nasheeds and more.
I will check out ur channel for i love the Islamic religion and i am Muslim and also u seem desperate so i will help out by looking at ur channel.
subhanallah.
How do you get rid of emotional wounds from the past that always comes when your in the present?
With forgiveness and compassion
it happened to me a lot but just think in the good way ,and try to ignore those bad emotions
and seek help from ALLAH
Lima bean by remembering and loving someone Who is always worthy for it , Allah Almighty. Make Allah your best friend and put every matter bofore Him, He will help you as He has been helping you since u were clogged in womb.
Hamza Awan Well said Mansha Allah
Allahu Akbar!
By relying on the fact that Allah allows everything in your life to happen due to solid reasons. So rely on Him. Theres a lot of Blessings in disguise but we dont understand. I lost a eeally really good job.. and i was sad back then but due to that my city changed and i found other opportunities that were more halal n i was more content with it. Just an example.
great
❤️
how can you. connect with people when they have hurt you in their past. they come beack into your present and might hurt u again.. Wen it goes same again you really think your past is your future. people who have been through this can relate to me. it's not easy to let of past then.
Super Vortrag :)
how do you forgive and forget trauma caused by others
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ja der er ingen tid at spilde allau akbar(((((((:::::::
0:23 Aiman Azlan is that you?
yes he is.
yes I'm also that type of person who thinks that I'll always get the worst in life May b I'm wrong I should leave it to Allah(swt) He has already written everything so who the hell am I to assume from my poor intelligence
Anum Khan Khan you should always positive and hopeful because everything is a blessing even hardships, they remove your sins and teach you lessons and get you closer to Allah so try and change your perspective and see this life as a blessing and try be happy 😊
I'm a bit confused by this message. Isn't it a bit like saying leave your past and the lessons that came with it? Like, forget what you learnt and focus on now, start all over again?
What ive derived from this Video Post is that : Dont let the negative things that happened in ur past make u suspect or fear when u find urself in a similar situation while taking on a new endeavor.
Which is to say if u were working on an assignment and while doing so followed all the right steps yet met failure due to maybe an error committed by someone else who was also part of that assignment dont allow the let down by that person effect ur future dealings with newer people,but if u failed in ur assignment because u followed certain wrong steps without being aware that they were wrong and later came to realization what the right steps would have been u sure can carry that lesson for the future.
Hope i made some sense.
JazakAllah khair, thanks! That's defo helped me understand more.
Take the lessons you learned from your past so you don't make the same mistakes again but at the same time live your life the way you know is best for you. For example, don't be suspicious of every single person just because one person betrayed you in the past. Take every individual and treat them individually with respect. If you happen to see the signs of disloyalty, then you can decide not to trust this person. I hope this also makes a bit sense to you.
Thanks Alexis Lexie ! Definitely helped.
great video. Does anybody know the name of the nasheed which starts at 3:00?
I love these beneficial reminders!
But why are there so many attractive men in all of them!
Please only film them from the back. If this video was full of equally attractive women everyone would be making a fuss. Its not fair! Women have a hard time lowering their gaze too!!
Assalamu alaykum TDR,
just wanter to suggest a small correction; in the last sentence the speaker says 'blank' canvas which seems to have been mistakenly transcribed as 'black canvas'. I hope you could make the correction bi 'ithnillah!
JazakumAllahu khayran katheera for your endeavours wa feekum baarak.
Warmest regards,
Wassalam,
a grateful sister :)
Why you need donation??
He said blank canvas, not black canvas =)
make sense
Can somebody tell me who recited at 2:10?
Nevermind, found it.
Who was the Bruda reciting the quran on that one lecture?
killa kam You can see it in the video, it says who recited it
I dislike the voice which comes at first saying "welcome to daily remainder" please remove in every videos
Your intepretation of Surah Baqrah is False, the Angels didn't say that there was bloodshed before Adam. The angels said that Adam will cause bloodshed on Earth. Stop misguiding people for your views.
YES YES ALAHU AKBAR EXPLODE AN TAKE THEM WITH YOU ahhahahahaha
jazakAllah o khair
Thanks so much for the lovely post...