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@@eggroll9766 Nah, after 2 thousand years only 1/3 of the current world population identify as Christian in all its various forms, and I suspect most of them do so as a kind of insurance policy i.e. Pascal’s wager. The truth is life is merely a hiccup of consciousness between oblivions. Acknowledging this “Truth” is rather liberating and frees up the inner self to get on with enjoying the brief time we have in the sun.
@@raheli7155 My first wife and mother of my older child was pure sex on a stick, but man did she nag. I traded her for a much younger, shy and flat chested girl I had known for a while. 30 years and a couple of kids later she still abides by the “ do not nag” clause of our relationship. The other non negotiable clauses were I get to go surfing and fishing whenever I want, of course these agreements work both ways and she does whatever she wants.
I think marriage is sacred & so is the bed, Its to be enjoyed between the two, The word also says that your body is not your own but it belongs to your spouse. Submitting to God and to one another saved the whole relationship, Humility & honoring one another ❤❤❤
@@alanparedes2034 *"Why can't it be enjoyed by three or more?"* As a Christian, I'm not sure that it can't, provided of course that the man is married to only one woman at a time and not multiple women at once. Marriage is --- and has always been in all cultures --- defined as a union between one man and one woman. What some people fail to consider is that the union between one man and one woman can occur multiple times. In other words, as long as each marriage is between one man and one woman, it wouldn't matter than the man happens to be the same in each case. Each woman marries one man, the man marries multiple women (i.e. has no concubines, only wives), and nobody gets divorced. These are only my thoughts on the subject.
@@bricaaron3978 NO AND NO.... Marriage cannot occur multiple times per your liking, why people trying to deflect the Bible meaning to human standards sounds demonic.
@@bricaaron3978 A man and woman marry one time (barring any issues as abuse, divorce legally, or death …). Not marriage x10 per your human whims, not exactly what the Bible intended.
Biblical truths. If a spouse is heavily involved in pornography and asks his spouse to do unsafe and demeaning acts this is also condemned in the Bible. There’s no room for abuse in marriage.
Save yourself a ton of problems and figure all of this out before you get married. That's what the kids of today do. Sure the older crowed is just spinning their heads but that is exactly what happened when you were a young one.
This video has not enough likes. I know that this wisdom convict most of us but we still have to be humble enough to confess and repent (and like this video) to push this blessing to others.
Yes they avoid it because God said not to speak of those things. There's still a few decent pastors unlike most of you so-called Christians that don't want to give up your sin. You try to find foolish teachers to tickle your ears and convince you it's okay to continue in sin.
@@godbot-ff1550Read Song of Solomon with Strong's concordance or other Hebrew/Greek vocabulary translation clarity. Very clear you can enjoy the pleasures of the flesh with your husband or wife. There's no specific list of "what sex acts NOT to do." Well, except for beastiality. It's not evil to enjoy the gift of sexual pleasure in marriage. It's a gift from God which is psychologically + emotionally + physically bonding. The two become one. Relax folks; God designed the human body. Sheesh. smh
Sorry to bust your bubble, Tim -- but The Holy Bible IS NOT "God's Word" -- it's what SOME MEN THOUGHT were "God's Word", but they were WAAYY wrong. Translated to English from several different ancient languages, the KJV is A KING'S version of Christianity, and America doesn't do kings.
It’s important to note that sex actually isn’t very unifying for most wives unless there is emotional, mental, and spiritual intimacy outside the bedroom. Without these, sex is just another chore to get done.
"There is nothing from without a man, that entering into him can defile him: but the things which come out of him, those are they that defile the man."- Mark 7:15
Song of Songs 7:6-9 “How beautiful and how delightful you are, My love, with all your charms! Your stature is like a palm tree, And your breasts are like its clusters. I said, ‘I will climb the palm tree, I will take hold of its fruit stalks.’ Oh, may your breasts be like clusters of the vine, And the fragrance of your breath like apples, And your mouth like the best wine! It goes down smoothly for my beloved, Flowing gently through the lips of those who fall asleep…”
"Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest, So is my beloved among the young men. In his shade I took great delight and sat down, And his fruit was sweet to my taste." Song 2:3 Right there, baby.
I agree with you👍 Also another reason why oral sex is sinful has to do with God's design for sex: God made sex for two purposes namely for procreative purposes and unitive purposes (meaning to deepen the love and bond between the spouses) However one must never separate the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes because God never intended for the two to be separate. For every act in marriage to be chaste it must meet both the procreative and unitive purposes of sex. Let's take IVF for example: it's procreative but it's not unitive because there is no sexual union which takes place between the spouses which bonds them together. Therefore it's not within God's will because it separates the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes. Birth control (all forms including condoms, the pill, coil ect.) does the opposite of IVF. The sexual union takes place but it's closed off to procreation thereby rendering the act sterile. So birth control separates the sexual union from it's procreative purposes. Let's take BDSM as another example. It is possible for BDSM to be procreative but hitting, choking, tying up your spouse during sex does not bond you together so it's non unitive and therefore BDSM should also not be practiced in a Christian marriage because it also separates the procreative from the unitive. Unnatural sexual acts (oral sex, anal sex, masturbation, sex toys ect.) are all non procreative and non unitive so it's not within God's design. Not saying God wants us to conceive every time we have sex but we should at least be open to life resulting from that act so if it is impossible that a baby could result from the act you are doing or it's contraceptive then it's wrong. Christians can look up natural family and use that instead of condoms, birth control and artificial contraceptives if you wish to space out having children. God bless!
Yes, traditional sex in Christian marriages is the best way. And the fact that this question was being asked at all about oral sex proves that this type of sex wasn’t always so. It was mainly found in prostitution and pornography.
Nope, most Christians aren’t ignoring the Song of Solomon but it has Nothing to do with oral or anal sex. In America this mainly started back in the 60’s with drugs and the “sexual” revolution and then it continued on with prostitution and porn. Those sexual practices were most likely invented by Non-Christian males and that’s why pastors and other Christian leaders are reluctant to talk about it. Plus the fact that it was very embarrassing and demeaning for women and initially it wasn’t the wife’s idea to take part in this. It was never the norm for Christians or even for most lost people.
Oral sex, touching any part of anyone's body in a sexual way is a SIN outside of marrige. Within marriage to one other person is NOT sin. It's the covenant part with God in the centre that's important.
Oral sex is still a sin within marriage... God made sex for two purposes namely for procreative purposes and unitive purposes (meaning to deepen the love and bond between the spouses) However one must never separate the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes because God never intended for the two to be separate. For every act in marriage to be chaste it must meet both the procreative and unitive purposes of sex. IVF for example is procreative but it's not unitive because there is no sexual union which takes place between the spouses which bonds them together. Therefore it's not within God's will because it separates the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes. Birth control (all forms including condoms, the pill, coil ect.) does the opposite of IVF. The sexual union takes place but it's closed off to procreation thereby rendering the act sterile. So birth control separates the sexual union from it's procreative purposes. BDSM for example is possible to be procreative but hitting, choking, tying up your spouse during sex does not bond you together so it's non unitive and therefore BDSM should also not be practiced in a Christian marriage because it also separates the procreative from the unitive. Unnatural sexual acts (oral sex, anal sex, masturbation, mutual masturbation sex toys ect.) are all non procreative and non unitive so it's not within God's design. Not saying God wants us to conceive every time we have sex but we should at least be open to life resulting from that act so if it is impossible that a baby could result from the act you are doing (you could never make a baby through oral sex) or it's contraceptive then it's wrong. If people have a serious reason to avoid pregnancy then they can use natural family planning instead of unnatural sexual acts, condoms, birth control and artificial contraceptives.
@@504Chosenone ??????? what? would you ask god for any other type of sex? that's maybe the most bizarre and unrealistic response to this topic I've EVER seen.
@@ABezuidenhout370 Pretty sure this is a copy-paste response as I'm 90% sure I've seen it before... regardless, where is your biblical backing for all this? you didn't quote scripture at all.
@@red_phoenix0570 Maybe, I can help: 1) God made sex for two purposes namely for procreative purposes (Genesis 1:27-28) and unitive purposes (Genesis 2:18-24). 2) However one must never separate the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes because God never intended for the two to be separate. This principle is found in Mark 10:9 - "Therefore, what God has joined together, no person is to separate.” 3) For every act in marriage to be chaste it must meet both the procreative and unitive purposes of sex. In other words, sexual relations, in order to be pure in the eyes of God, must be natural - follow His design. The Lord calls relations that are contrary to nature vile, impure, dishonoring, degrading, and shameful (Romans 1:18-32). When they are practiced by married couple, the husband and the wife become sexually immoral and the marriage bed is defiled (Hebrew 13:4). 4) Unnatural sexual acts such as oral sex... "That which is known about God is evident within them [people]; for God made it evident to them" (Romans 1:19). Even the world teaches that the mouth is part of the digestive system, while the genital organs are part of the reproductive system. I googled the functions of the digestive system, nowhere was providing sexual pleasure listed, because it is contrary to nature to use any part of our digestive system for that purpose. So yes, those who practice oral sex 'exchange natural relations for that which is contrary to nature'; they are in error (Romans 1:26-27). May the Lord help us all to make the difference between sin and righteousness! I had never seriously thought about this subject, but I find oral sex gross (no offense). What brought me here is the following testimony: Dream of Hell on Prophetess Grace YT channel. She said that some pastors teach that oral sex is not a sin, and I was so surprised that I checked out a few Christian websites. I hope that you will take the matter to the Lord in prayer.
I DO believe that a pre- marital couple can have conversations about what each other deem " permissible ", "unsure", or "admissible " sex acts before consumating marriage. Simple communication can give each other an honest assessment of what to expect,or..... perhaps even decide that they wouldn't be sexually compatible.
I couldn't desagree more. Sexual incompatibility doesn't exist. A true couple, where both are determined to love and give pleasure to each other will sort it out. Conversation, practice and pacience will eventually get it together. We live in a wicked, completely sexualized generation. This has destroyed our minds and elevated our expectations -very unrealistically- of what real sex looks like. Men and women are filled with weird pornographic unnatural fantasies in their heads, which, off course, are accompanied by the desperate desire to be fullfiled. I"ve seen couples that decided to wait untill marriage, and they've never had issues with sex. The reason for that is simplicity: they were not sexually corrupted by the world - so normal sex, allied with communication, was enough to bring them satisfaction. What you proposed doesn't make any sense. If you met a girl, and she had everything you've ever looked for in a woman, but she doesn't do oral, would you still drop her off? Don't you see how this animalistic desire for satisfaction reflects the perspective of a broken, weak and sexually immoral generation? In fact, your idea couldn't even be applied at any other generation, and still, there were happy God fearing marriages, even if they didn't discuss "sexual preferences" when they were just dating. Breaches like this are what often bring young couples to fall in fornication. Topics like this could lead women to back way - if she is a true Christian, she probably will - and you would have lost a good oportunity. I advise you to pray for sexual purity, and eliminate anything that has been contaminating your mind in that sense. May Jesus bless you.
@@vitz9352 and I have to disagree with your statement. For the most part, the average male is sexually compatible with the average woman. 9/10 times if you follow God's design for marriage, you will have no issues in the marriage bed. However, there are some physical conditions people may have that can affect sexual activity in marriage. Things like this should be talked about with your potential spouse before you get married. Additionally, some people may have sexual trauma that should also be discussed before marriage. As long as talking about your future sexual activity doesn't tempt you to sin before marriage, it is a good idea to talk about things before you get married. It also ensures you both hold the same beliefs about what a God-honoring sex life is.
@@vitz9352facts. Sex is not hard to figure out. If people stop watching porn and having 50 sexual partners they would be more than happy with their spouse.
“As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste.”
I would have to disagree when a woman start saying no it becomes a sexless marriage and sex in a marriage is very important why do you think 50% of marriages end in divorce mostly all of those marriages were sexless marriages The man wants sex no matter what the situation is if you respect your husband and want to make him happy and Fulfilled then you take one for the team “The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.” 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 So if you both agree not to have sex then that’s fine but if one of you does then you give her or him there conjugal rights. And we know from statistics That a woman who doesn’t say no to her husband there marriages are actually a lot better and that’s facts once again the Bible is correct.
The only two things that he was right about is that any sex outside of marriage is a sin and the fact that oral sex is Not in the Bible. That’s why some men use to seek it out through prostitutes and pornography…such as Bill Clinton and Jimmy Swaggart.
Without love perversion increases. Giving in to sodomy will increase the desire for more and more. Perversion isn’t “love” it will lead to more unnatural desires. Where there is perversion there is no love.
@@harrihaffi2713 both say I do and consent to it in front of the priest. If one party doesn't mean it then marriage invalid. Hence you can't force someone to marry. But priest blesses marriage but doesn't do it. It's the spouses that confer the sacrament
I've never thought of it as being something sinful in the context of marriage. To me, it seems like the step between heavy kissing and full intercourse. It's not something that goes beyond full intimacy, but rather an optional warm-up leading to it. But when it comes to things like sodomy or gross fetishes (that I won't bother detailing other than to say they're literally dirty and... stinky), that's when I'd say you're starting to twist and mock the gift that has been given to you both as a married couple.
I sent this to a gal condemning everyone to hell over o.s. "On your topic on o.s., since someone had mentioned the forbidden act! Look in Song of Solomon - That book has a dual meaning. One is about Yahushuwa’s intimate relationship with the church and is considered a love letter from Him to us. And the other is about physical sex between a husband and wife. I found a few interesting tidbits that look very much like o.s. It talks about pomegranates - in one place they are the woman’s cheek but in another they are referred to as the man’s “shoots are a paradise of pomegranates, with precious fruits” (in 4:13). Then in verse 16 it says “…Let my beloved come into his garden, And eat its precious fruits.” And in 6:11 it says “I went down into the garden of nuts, To see the verdure of the valley, To see whether the vine budded, Whether the pomegranates blossomed.” (doesn't it seem to be talking about the lower body - nuts, valley, vine budding, and pomegranates (fruit) blossoming)???? If you don't want to have o.s. with your spouse, then don't, but stop telling everyone else it is a sin, because there is no commandment for a married couple to not do that.
I agree, these references in Song of Solomon likely are to o.s. Thanks for listing these verses. This question came up for my wife and me, so I looked this up before. This video is making a false claim that o.s. is not mentioned in the Bible. I do not agree that o.s. is a sin for a married couple. Any sex outside of marriage is, of course, a sin.
@johneaton4345 Song of Solomon has nothing to do with oral sex. That scripture has been perverted and twisted to mean something it does not mean and I have been guilty of justifying oral sex by that scripture. The Lord Himself gave me a gentle rebuke for receiving oral sex from my husband and also giving my husband oral sex. God said the tongue was not made for sexual pleasure and called it an abomination that was introduced by the fallen angels. This came about because my husband became horribly obsessed with oral sex out of nowhere. The Lord says it’s a gorgan spirit, also called a nymph or sea nymph. I always thought a nympho was someone obsessed with sex but a nympho can be someone that is also obsessed with a specific sexual lust. This spirit can take root in a person that watches or watched pornography, fornicates or commits adultery. If I’m being honest I was disappointed to know oral sex was a sin because I really enjoyed it. However, in obedience to Christ I will no longer partake of oral sex.
@@evelissdevaux5350 this doesn't contradict anything in the video though. oral sex, just like any marital sex, must be god-honoring. if your husband became "horribly obsessed" then it was clearly not god-honoring. if is though, then there is nothing wrong with it.
@@evelissdevaux5350lol in what scripture the lord says not to use your tongue? How about fat people that can’t stop eating ? Gossiping? Talking lies? Where is the scripture…
Amen! I can’t believe how many Christian TH-camrs are trying to convince other Christians that oral sex within marriage is a sin. Finally! Someone who speaks intelligently about this matter. Consensual oral sex amongst married Christians is not a sin. PERIOD.
Thanks for talking about this because as far as I was able to tell it wasn't ok, but ppl make you think it is. As for oral sex within marriage...how is it "God honoring"? I think you're wrong to say it's ok within marriage.
The Holy Spirit answered the question for me that it is perverted and not God's original intent. Sex that procreates is a natural urge, but most people are put off by the thought of oral for a reason....And I know of too many married women who felt pressured into it and are uncomfortable with it. That is not love and does not lead to procreation, much like anal and lone masturbation do not lead to procreation. All of those are wrong. Love is not "self seeking" (1 Corinthians 13:5). Just speaking truth. James 3:16 says "For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are there." Self-seeking sex acts in marriage have caused great marital harm, and that is NOT God-honoring.
That was my exact question. How does putting your mouth on the body parts that are meant to excrete toxins from the body honor the Lord? It makes zero sense to me. These people are allowing their flesh to determine their decisions instead of the Holy Spirit.
What I've noticed is that Christians who don't really believe in the spiritual realm and that it affects us today, will be FOR oral sex. Just by looking and comparing different articles online you can tell that it's the case. Baptist-type websites will always be FOR it. On the other hand, websites that are focused on the spiritual realm, deliverance ministries, etc, will say that it's an unclean practice. That's because there are many Christians who even make fun of people who live according to the Spirit. I mean the fact that people not only read the Bible, but also listen to the Holy Spirit. That's laughable to some Christians and they say "oh yeah, the Holy Spirit told you that? Can you prove this with a Bible verse?". These types of Christians are mocking the spiritual realm and all they know about Christianity is theory - Bible reading. They don't have spiritual discernment and they prob don't know what it is, so they make fun of people who say that the Holy Spirit revealed something. They will always be FOR oral sex, because the Bible says to not deprive the spouse of sex. But is it even normal sex in God's eyes? In your eyes, yes, but what about God? You can't say it's deprivation of sex, if God doesn't even see it as normal sex. There are some practices that you just can't find a Bible verse against them, but they are unclean practices. Injecting drugs - which Bible verse is directly against it? None. See, some things aren't written in the Bible. You need spiritual discernment. You need to feel what's going on in the spirit. Demons do enter through unclean practices, but of course, there are Christians who don't believe in demons (even though the Bible talks about them🤔) so I don't know how you can be a Christian who believes in theory only. Because the Bible does say that the spiritual realm is real, but do you believe it? I personally received a revelation from the Holy Spirit, that it's an unclean practice and I'm ready to be mocked by people who don't have a relationship with the Holy Spirit and have a theory-pope-Bible schrolar type of Christianity, but no spiritual discernment and no substance in them
auto declared saint detected. don´t be more saint than God wants you to be! there is NO rule in scriptures about sex in marriage! what means God doesn´t care.
Thank you sister for this comment! A lot of Christians I see in the body will always try to justify this by quoting the Song of Solomon. On which however is twisting scripture to their own destruction. They don’t read between the lines and love to look at the Bible out or context. This is why I can’t stand religion man!
“May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. A loving doe, a graceful deer- may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be intoxicated with her love.” Proverbs 5:18-19 NIV
Oral sex is a form of sex and as long as it is physically safe which usually it is, it is totally honorable inside marriage but yes, it must be with consent, anyone who forces even inside marriage is committing big sin and violating the marriage.
kinda feel you dodged giving and outright answer! Besides, if all forms of sexual activity are kept exclusively with one marriage partner, there is no possibility of transmitting STDs, so since you are saying rightly that all forms of sexual activity outside marriage are sinful, and that is the only context where STDs may be acquired, your final comments about transmission in oral sex were really not relevant to marriage
Without taking STDs into account please consider this: Oral sex is mentioned in the Bible it falls under sodomy. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples. Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
How did he dodge giving an outright answer? At the 4:00 mark he very clearly states "Within the confines of marriage oral sex is free of sin". Seems pretty clear to me.
@@Rass7rasS No, I won't thank you for your modern understanding clouding the truth. Sodomy comes from Sodom. We don't hear a WORD from God about what the dictionary calls "sodomy" in the Word that pertains to a husband and his wife... Only that he destroyed Sodom because they not only embraced homosexuality ("going after strange flesh"), but sought to rape men who came through town. You need to forget what has been taught you, ask God to lead you into HIS truth... AND GET INTO A BIBLE BY YOURSELF, REJECTING ALL THAT THE "CHURCH" HAS TAUGHT YOU. After all... This is supposed to be about what GOD says about it, not Webster's or Google, RIGHT? John 16:13
@@Rass7rasS Tell me where you find the word sodomy in the Bible to describe what acts are forbidden. The term sodomy does not appear anywhere in the bible.
What does Song of Solomon Chapter 4 Verse 16 mean? She is enticing her lover and making herself so alluring, that he becomes mad with desire. She is not merely passive, but ardent and eager. She wants him to feel her attractiveness, her desirability. She wants him to enter her garden and taste its exquisite fruits.
Hi brother, please consider this: Oral sex is mentioned in the Bible it falls under sodomy. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples. Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
Please don't hang your hat on the word or interpretation of others. For not he that commendeth himself is approved, but whom the Lord commendeth. 2 Corinthians 10:18 Read God's Word, pray, and study for yourself in order to get understanding. Don't allow your eternal salvation to rest upon man's possible flawed (intentional or unintentional) interpretation of God's Word. Study to shew thyself approved unto God.. 2 Timothy 2:15
Thank you for making this video ❤ I deeply appreciate how you bring up the different questions related to the topic and point out the Bible verses that apply in the subject matter. It is refreshing how it is naturally explained AND how at the end, you point the many risks of oral sex that people dont talk nor think about. I wanted to ask if you have a youth oriented ministry that brings light and truth on sex, sexual behaviours, body honoring, etc... i would be interested since I interact with young people and have a young daughter myself. Church seems to run away from these topics and young look for answers or information in the world... some feel shame to ask their parents, some of which are not equipped to taalk about this and actually avoid it like plague! In today's world, we should be transparent, allowing to talk about anything in a godly safe space with godly guidance and full of His love... afterall, God knows our bodies and created them... Thank you once again and i hope to hear from you! God bless you and your ministry 😊
Please consider this: Oral sex is mentioned in the Bible it falls under sodomy. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Oral sex also falls under the sin of Onan as well. In Genesis 38:8-10 where Onan spilled his seed on the ground and God struck him dead on the spot. Oral sex is fruitless to God's kingdom and it directly goes against His command to "be fruitful and multiply".- Genesis 1:28. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples. Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
As the Hebrew Old Testament is based on the Babylonian and Sumerian Cultures, it is not surprising to find the joys of oral sex praised regardless of martial status.
@@davidfrisken1617 That does not in any way, shape or form, condole, encourage oral sex as something acceptable and right in God's eyes, therefore, should be the same for us.
@@evasccl7846 . Stop throwing extra biblical stumbling blocks before your brothers and sisters. Your personal hangups do not equal biblical truth. Stop this now.g
A REAL preacher was just talking about this. And of course, there a scripture to back up that this is true that it causes cancer. The preacher was talking about how when a woman is performing oral sex on a man or a man on a man sperm is blood. And we know that the Bible says the life of the flesh is in the blood. Anyway, he was saying how sperm one released looks for an egg because that’s what it was designed to do. Well, when that sperm goes down someone’s throat or into someone’s butt- it only knows to look for an egg. So it goes through the body attacking other organs, trying to find the egg. This causes all kinds of diseases and not just cancer. But let them all carry-on because the Bible said.- Romans 1:27-32 KJV and likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.-- the Bible doesn’t say don’t drink out of the toilet- so why you don’t you drink out of it?
@@Proverbspsalms So this anonymous preacher obviously knows little or nothing about what he is talking about, but ignorant people just accept it as a fact. This is just made up nonsense. Please provide us with any research or evidence to support what he is saying.
@@josephham thank you Joseph. These people want to argue about it. Let them go on. We are not the ones with throat cancer like that actor who said he knows where he got cancer from
Oral sex is mentioned in the Bible it falls under sodomy. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples. Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
So how do you reconcile that Scripture about not having authority over one's body with someone who is happy to be intimate, but absolutely wants _nothing_ to do with oral sex?
Not sure why people have determined that oral-to-genital sex is “wrong”. “The husband’s body belongs to the wife, & the wife’s body belongs to the husband”. “Body”, as in all of it. Not “genitals” as in part of it. If u r married & u enjoy oral-to-genital sex then go for it. If not, then don’t. Trust me, if oral-to-genital sex in marriage were wrong, God would have informed us.
I have, in the past, read the Bible from cover to cover. I don't recall ANY mention of oral sex. Adultery, yes, that's mentioned - as are homosexuals. But nothing about oral sex, at least not that I've ever seen.
😢😮 I felt the same way until the lord appeared to me in a dream one night and said to me that oral sex in his eyes was UNCLEAN! Impure and was forbidden for members of the body of Christ. Married or not and I’m married. I was totally shocked. So seek God in prayer and tread those waters carefully sir.
A lot of people are pretty passionate about their own beliefs. There are things that are specifically laid out as a sin and an abomination, such as homosexuality, adultery, pornography, etc. IF the Bible does NOT say anything about a specific subject, it is best to default to Romans 14. What may be sin and a conviction to YOU Is NOT to be put on and projected to others. Just because it is sin to YOU does not give you the right to make it gospel and try to bring condemnation to others because of your own convictions.
exactly! many people are in this comment section saying that oral sex is wrong because it led to bad outcomes for them or their spouse. yet not one can quote scripture. the bible is very clear that different things tempt people to sin in different ways.
'True Christianity & False Religions' gives the biblical perspective on the issue. The only correlative that is oral is the pre-intercourse conversation. How can so-called Christians engage in things they condemn homosexuals for? God gave us intercourse to gratify each other. If that was approved of God, when do we use the same tongue to pray or interpret, before or after. Is this the same tongue also by which the Spirit giveth utterance?
Agree, your mouth is not made for that. Also another reason oral sex is not allowed haa to do with God's design for sex: God made sex for two purposes namely for procreative purposes and unitive purposes (meaning to deepen the love and bond between the spouses) However one must never separate the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes because God never intended for the two to be separate. For every act in marriage to be chaste it must meet both the procreative and unitive purposes of sex. IVF for example is procreative but it's not unitive because there is no sexual union which takes place between the spouses which bonds them together. Therefore it's not within God's will because it separates the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes. Birth control (all forms including condoms, the pill, coil ect.) does the opposite of IVF. The sexual union takes place but it's closed off to procreation thereby rendering the act sterile. So birth control separates the sexual union from it's procreative purposes. BDSM for example is possible to be procreative but hitting, choking, tying up your spouse during sex does not bond you together so it's non unitive and therefore BDSM should also not be practiced in a Christian marriage because it also separates the procreative from the unitive. Unnatural sexual acts (oral sex, anal sex, masturbation, mutual masturbation sex toys ect.) are all non procreative and non unitive so it's not within God's design. Not saying God wants us to conceive every time we have sex but we should at least be open to life resulting from that act so if it is impossible that a baby could result from the act you are doing (you could never make a baby through oral sex) or it's contraceptive then it's wrong. If people have a serious reason to avoid another pregnancy (not just because of selfish reasons for example you are tired of changing dirty diapers)then they can use natural family planning instead of condoms, birth control, unnatural sexual acts and artificial contraceptives.
Its ok if everyone is conesting. Actually women if they really love their husbands they will have no issue but be happy to do it. Its a service of appreciation.
The bible does mention oral sex, in song of Solomon talks of tasting of his fruit. Pretty sure it not talking of apples or oranges he brought to the bedroom.
@@Rass7rasS The word sodomy is not used anywhere in the Bible, so the modern dictionary definition is irrelevant when deciding what the Bible describes as forbidden sexual activities.
@@Rass7rasS Oral sex was added to the definition of sodomy later on. Catholics & Protestants added because the birth rates were low. If you dig a little deeper it’s also only considered sodomy when two men are engaging in the acts and it can be argued same-sex. God wants men and women (married) to be intimate and enjoy each other in a consenting manner. The bedroom is undefiled when you’re married. I don’t believe God is that technically or cares what goes on in a consenting married couples bedroom. He looks at our deeds, our hearts, and over walk of salvation!
exchanging natural for unnatural is sin Romans 1:26 Because of this, God gave up them to passions of dishonor. For even their females changed the natural use into that contrary to nature.
The Bible isn't a sex guide. So long as the man and women (yes, MAN and WOMAN) are married then anything they do sexually is between them. However, if a spouse feels uncomfortable performing oral sex then they shouldn't be forced to.
Please consider this: Oral sex is mentioned in the Bible it falls under sodomy. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Oral sex falls under the sin of Onan as well. In Genesis 38:8-10 Onan spilled his seed on the ground and God struck him dead on the spot. Oral sex is fruitless to God's kingdom and it directly goes against His command to "be fruitful and multiply"- Genesis 1:28. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples. Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
In Islam, It is also not directly highlighted about in Quran or Hadith, But Scholars and references from the guidance lead to Oral sex being a not appreciated activity (Makhruh). It's fully haram (prohibited) before Marriage.
When I look at the scripture, And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. Romans 1:27. That tells me that oral sex with one's wife is leaving the natural use of the woman. For the mouth was not made for the vagina and neither is the mouth for the penis as this is the sex of the homosexuals. This kind of sex does not produce fruit. Of course the fruit of the womb is a child. Oral sex will not bring forth a child. Jesus told us to look at the fruit. If one would think about it, if a man shoots his seed into the mouth of his wife, is that not a waste of his seed? And also no fruit can be produced.
Very well said brother :) I agree with everything you said. Also another reason why oral sex is sinful has to do with God's design for sex. God made sex for two purposes namely for procreative purposes and unitive purposes (meaning to deepen the love and bond between the spouses) However one must never separate the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes because God never intended for the two to be separated. For every act in marriage to be chaste it must meet both the procreative and unitive purposes of sex. Let's take IVF for example: it's procreative but it's not unitive because there is no sexual union which takes place between the spouses which bonds them together. Therefore it's not within God's will because it separates the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes. Birth control is sinful because it does the opposite of IVF. The sexual union takes place but the act is closed off to procreation thereby rendering the act sterile therefore birth control seperates the unitive purposes of sex from it's procreative purposes. Let's take BDSM as another example. It is possible for BDSM to be procreative but hitting, choking, tying up your spouse during sex does not bond you together so it's non unitive and therefore BDSM should also not be practiced in a Christian marriage because it also separates the procreative from the unitive. Unnatural sexual acts (oral sex, anal sex, mutual masturbation, sex toys ect.) are all non procreative and non unitive so it's not within God's design either. Not saying God wants us to conceive every time we have sex but we should at least be open to life resulting from that act so if it is impossible that a baby could result from the act you are doing (you could never make a baby from oral sex) or it's contraceptive then it's wrong. Christians can look up natural family and use that instead of unnatural sexual acts like oral sex, condoms, and artificial contraceptives.
@@matjj676Tell me, what do you think of this passage here?: “Then Judah took a wife for Er his firstborn, and her name was Tamar. 7 But Er, Judah’s firstborn, was wicked in the sight of the LORD, and the LORD killed him. 8 And Judah said to Onan, “Go in to your brother’s wife and marry her, and raise up an heir to your brother.” 9 But Onan knew that the heir would not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in to his brother’s wife, that he emitted on the ground, lest he should give an heir to his brother. 10 And the thing which he did displeased the LORD; therefore He killed him also.” Genesis 38: 6-10
@@ABezuidenhout370 🤣 You people are crazy! The height of legalism fanaticism, hyper-spiritual religiosity. Please do the opposite sex a kind courtesy and stay single.
i have a question. in 1Tim 1:3 it says to not teach any different doctrines. Why are there so many Christian churches that all teach different doctrines?
Because the scripture also says that there will be doctrines of demons that come about to deceive. They have some truth wrapped up in a lie. People are following these doctrines of demons because it aligns with their fleshly desires. And they don’t realize that they are not following God.
I was taught that oral sex is a sin in the same way masturbation can be a sin, similar to the use of birth control, it can prevent procreation. However, oral sex when engaged as a form of 'foreplay' bringing husband and wife closer together both physically and spiritually is not sinful.
Might be important to remember that different parts of the bible were written at different times by different people. I believe in god and I’m not trying to sound like some snarky atheist as I am not. I’m just trying to point out that these are harder questions and perhaps the answers are more circumstantial. Interesting take you have here though. Much appreciated.
but all inspired by God! that´s why you have thousands of rules of how to live, but nothing about sex in marriage, cause God doesn´t care. except he forbid sex in the menstruation phase for health reasons in this time.
It IS addressed in the Bible. What do you think was going on in Sodom and Gomorrah? Even secular dictionaries know what to call it. The fact that one would feel the need to question whether it's wrong, ought to indicate to that person that it's wrong.
poeple base theyr religion on dictionaries and not the scriptures, Gods Word. that´s the problem, God mentioned NOTHING about sex in MARRIAGE. so please stop to repeat "saints" bs
As long as both of you LOVE and RESPECT each other, EVERYTHING is on the table. Both of you are ONE union and are blessed by the Covenant of Marriage. You do what you want as long as the OTHER is willing. Do not force one another to do something they don't want to do, that is WRONG.
@Nullius_in_verba I'm confused by your response, "...but not true from a religious point of view." It seems to me that Anthony covered all criteria and is consistent with the pastor: 1.within marriage; 2.loving and respectful; 3. consenting between the two of you (no coercion).
@@incorrigiblycuriousD61 The statement is ineccepible from an aethical point of view. But is wrong from a religious point of view, where is most important to obey to dictated rules than have a subjective, functional moral conception of human's relationships. About sex, everything beyond the finality of conception is condidered sin, figure it out something exclusively oriented on pleasure like oral sex..indeed is considered aberration, against nature, ecc. Woman consense is less relevant than this point, if relevant at all. Im talking about bible, not politically correct's church rettified thoughts.
@@Nullius_in_verba Where in the Bible does it say sex in marriage must have the goal of procreation. And don't say "Onan." That was about refusing to give his dead brother a family lineage and his dead brother's wife full status in her new family. He refused to impregnate her most likely because he didn't want the father's resources further divided upon his death. And dude, do not say that a woman's consent is less relevant, if relevant at all. What century are you from?
@@incorrigiblycuriousD61 I said that is less relevant from the religious point of view, not mine, I was considering the fact that teaches the submission of the women to men. "If relevant at all" was just rethorical. No the bible anyway, my fault, but the Church teaches these things. Not that I ever cared about all this stuff..but really good to know that Bible doesnt see things this way too.
@@Rass7rasS The term sodomy does not appear anywhere in the Bible, so the dictionary definition of sodomy is irrelevant in determining what is forbidden in the Bible. The Bible is very clear in forbidding homosexuality, bestiality, adultery and fornication, but never uses the word sodomy.
@@Rass7rasS So you are saying that what a married couple does in private is now your business because you don't approve? Nonsense! It's still not our business!
🎯 Before few weeks i was reading the Bible and the verse was about "keep the bed .." i forgot the chapter, but it was about adultery, so God the Holy Spirit is clear, only the husband and the wife must be in the bed, what they do there is between them, it's not a sin, HalleluYAHYESHUA✝✝✝
Pastor, is not the physical definition of sodomy both anal and oral? That is every definition of it I can find online. With numerous passages from the bible condemning this act.
Yes both oral and anal sex is sodomy. Another reason why oral and anal sex is not allowed has to do with God's design for sex: God made sex for two purposes namely for procreative purposes and unitive purposes (to deepen the bond and love between the spouses) However one must never separate the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes because God never intended for the two to be separated. For every act in marriage to be chaste it must meet both the procreative and unitive purposes of sex. Let's take IVF for example: it's procreative but it's not unitive because there is no sexual union which takes place between the spouses which bonds them together. Therefore it's not within God's will because it separates the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes. Birth control (all forms including condoms, the pill, coil ect.) does the opposite of IVF. The sexual union takes place but it's closed off to procreation thereby rendering the act sterile. So birth control separates the sexual union from it's procreative purposes. Let's take BDSM as another example. It is possible for BDSM to be procreative but hitting, choking, tying up your spouse during sex does not bond you together so it's non unitive and therefore BDSM should also not be practiced in a Christian marriage because it also separates the procreative from the unitive. Unnatural sexual acts (pornography, phone sex, oral sex, anal sex, masturbation, mutual masturbation sex toys ect.) are all non procreative and non unitive so it's not within God's design. Not saying God wants us to conceive every time we have sex but we should at least be open to life resulting from that act so if it is impossible that a baby could result from the act you are doing (you could never make a baby through oral sex) or it's contraceptive then it's wrong. Christians can look up natural family and use that instead of condoms, birth control and artificial contraceptives if they wish to space out having children. God bless!
there is no definition of sodomy in scriptures like you find "online". God condems sodomy, what means what happens in Sodom, nothing to do with marriage!
I will agree that oral sex outside of marriage is a sin, in which I am guilty of, but within a marriage, I don't believe that it is a sin, as long as both parties are in mutual consent.
It’s not about what you think is right or wrong. There is a reason we are watching this channel. What matters is what God has to say. Read Romans 12:4-8
Consider this: Oral sex is mentioned in the Bible it falls under sodomy. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples. Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
@@lasirius1 -- The mouth is made for talking, for eating, and for sexual foreplay and interaction as well. The lips are made from the same kind of tissue as the labia.
John Piper addresses this question in one of his "Ask Pastor John" podcast. He concluded that some if the verses in the Song of Songs actually refer to oral sex.
@@trudewhite876 Romans 1 reveals that nature shows the world that there is a God. That all people know wrong from right in God in our consciences Rom 2. The honest Christian in particular should know that it is not the holy God's intent to pervert our bodies with what is not His Will when He made man, the mouth was not made for it in the eyes of God, it's a perversion of the way of God. Sin
I am not guided by any exterior authority claiming the knowledge and wisdom of Bible. The only voice of God I listen is coming from inside me. Having said that - the oral sex is disgusting, regardless marital status.
Yes I agree. It also violates God's design for sex. God made sex for two purposes namely for procreative purposes and unitive purposes (meaning to deepen the love and bond between the spouses) However one must never separate the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes because God never intended for the two to be separate. For every act in marriage to be chaste it must meet both the procreative and unitive purposes of sex. IVF for example is procreative but it's not unitive because there is no sexual union which takes place between the spouses which bonds them together. Therefore it's not within God's will because it separates the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes. Birth control (all forms including condoms, the pill, coil ect.) does the opposite of IVF. The sexual union takes place but it's closed off to procreation thereby rendering the act sterile. So birth control separates the sexual union from it's procreative purposes. BDSM for example is possible to be procreative but hitting, choking, tying up your spouse during sex does not bond you together so it's non unitive and therefore BDSM should also not be practiced in a Christian marriage because it also separates the procreative from the unitive. Unnatural sexual acts (oral sex, anal sex, masturbation, mutual masturbation sex toys ect.) are all non procreative and non unitive so it's not within God's design. Not saying God wants us to conceive every time we have sex but we should at least be open to life resulting from that act so if it is impossible that a baby could result from the act you are doing (you could never make a baby through oral sex) or it's contraceptive then it's wrong. If people have a serious reason to avoid pregnancy then they can use natural family planning instead of unnatural sexual acts like oral sex, condoms, birth control and artificial contraceptives.
@@shaunsteele6926 YES! There is a lot disgusting about oral sex. Kissing your intimate partner ON THE LIPS is not disgusting. Hope it clears your confusion. The basics of psychology are explaining the oral fixation and where it comes from. It is the result of Mother's Milk depravation causing permanent adolescence, obesity and/or depression. All done to us by design!
Very nice topic!! A question I could not have asked in church when I was a teen w/new hormones. We were quoted Hebrews 13:4, “Marriage is honorable" a lot so I just applied it to all my internal questions...incorrectly. Thank You ❤
Yes, oral sex is a sin outside of marriage...not because it's oral, but because it's sex. And yes, oral sex is okay in a marriage, because sex is okay in a marriage.
Could we look at the origins of “oral sex” and why it has found its way into Christian marriages where both partners are born again believers? Of the origins of oral sex is pagan and idol worship then why are many Christian’s desirous of doing or having this done within their marriage bed? Isn’t that lusting for an unnatural sexual act?
Agree. The reason oral sex is sinful has to do with God's design for sex. God made sex for two purposes namely for procreative purposes and unitive purposes (meaning to deepen the love and bond between the spouses) However one must never separate the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes because God never intended for the two to be separated. For every act in marriage to be chaste it must meet both the procreative and unitive purposes of sex. Let's take IVF for example: it's procreative but it's not unitive because there is no sexual union which takes place between the spouses which bonds them together. Therefore it's not within God's will because it separates the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes. Birth control is sinful because it does the opposite of IVF. The sexual union takes place but the act is closed off to procreation thereby rendering the act sterile therefore birth control seperates the unitive purposes of sex from it's procreative purposes. Let's take BDSM as another example. It is possible for BDSM to be procreative but hitting, choking, tying up your spouse during sex does not bond you together so it's non unitive and therefore BDSM should also not be practiced in a Christian marriage because it also separates the procreative from the unitive. Unnatural sexual acts (oral sex, anal sex, mutual masturbation, sex toys ect.) are all non procreative and non unitive so it's not within God's design either. Not saying God wants us to conceive every time we have sex but we should at least be open to life resulting from that act so if it is impossible that a baby could result from the act you are doing (you could never make a baby from oral sex) or it's contraceptive then it's wrong. Christians can look up natural family and use that (with good reason) instead of unnatural sexual acts, condoms, and artificial contraceptives.
@ABezuidenhout370 if all of that were true, people who are past the age of conception shouldn't have sex and people who are known to be infertile shouldn't have sex. Since God designed sex as pleasurable and God designed marriage, nothing in the marital bed is sinful if both are consenting. And since marriage is life-long, so is sex within the marriage.
You know, I’m pretty sure that we all get the idea that sex outside of marriage or with someone other than a spouse is wrong. If you left that out of this video, this video would be about 5 seconds long. Just sayin.
And this is why people get confused. You have a group of ministers who say it’s not a sin and another group saying it is. Now, some people just don’t want to do it because they feel like it’s nasty and it is given what comes out of those places. But if it’s not a sin and my partner wants it then I’ll do it to satisfy them. However, we may love having oral but if it’s a sin we wouldn’t do it because we don’t want to sin. The Bible doesn’t mention the rapture either but there are implications that it will occur. To me oral sex is perverted, it’s an unnatural way of having sex. Homosexual engage in it in an attempt to make the tongue a penis and the anus a vagina. Unfortunately, this has infiltrated heterosexual relationships as well as Christian marriages. A lot of people are addicted to this kind of sex preferring it over Gods natural way. The Bible speaks of unnatural affection, unclean acts and just because it doesn’t say oral sex exactly doesn’t mean it’s not included. So what, are champagne showers, is that ok ( peeping on each other) , or licking in each other rectums, oh and anal sex is that ok as well because the Bible doesn’t say that it isn’t. It’s nasty! And let’s face it, the divorce rate is high even in so called Christian marriages. Can you imagine do all this to someone and doing it to different people over and over again because divorcing and remarrying as many times as you want is not a sin either right. It really depends on what minister you ask which is a shame and a sin God is going to hold them accountable for. Some where, Christian ministers have got to get on the same page with this stuff. Sin separates us from God and that’s Hell right. I forgot we don’t talk about Hell anymore it makes people uncomfortable. Just ask yourself this question and it should bring clarity to the truth. What is the natural function of a Vagina, Penis Rectum and Mouth. In closing, people always ask is oral sex a sin. I wonder why they don’t ask is it a sin to put my penis in my wife’s Vagina. Because, it’s clear they go together. You can’t mess that anatomy up unless you’re delusional which is what the world operates in these day a bunch of false beliefs. We have to pray for these teachers because Gods going to judge them in really serious way! Lord help us!
@@Rass7rasS Where does the word sodomy appear in the Bible? No where! It makes no sense to say the Bible forbids something based upon the definition of a word that is never used in the Bible.
Point well taken. It feels great, but it is indeed a sin. A lot of things that feel great are actually not good for you. Rememer, 'the road to death & destruction is wide and accomodating. (It have room for plenty. However the road to righteousness is narrow😉
Once again people are quoting verses here against oral sex in irrelevance, none of those verses say anything against oral sex, if you have some integrity left in you come with a verse which supports your claim , don't play and twist God 's word. Out of context irrelevant verses are what most people putting up here to speak against oral sex which is totally good but only in marriage.
@@souvikguha The term sodomy also applies to heterosexual sex meaning any oral or anal sex. It is prohibited by God. And it does not matter if a person is married. It is NOT "totally good", in fact it is the opposite of that. Look up the definition of sodomy and also check the Bible in terms of what it says about Sodomites.
Hi brother, please consider this: Oral sex is mentioned in the Bible it falls under sodomy. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples. Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
@@chrisnalina1755"sodomy" doesn't exist in the bible. In the bible you have sodomite and a sodomite was a homosexual who engaged in anal sex. "Sodomy is also oral sex" Sir no, that was added on to the word years later.
purity is the best gift you can offer to your future spouse...
Wrong, the best gift is not to nag.
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@@eggroll9766 Nah, after 2 thousand years only 1/3 of the current world population identify as Christian in all its various forms, and I suspect most of them do so as a kind of insurance policy i.e. Pascal’s wager.
The truth is life is merely a hiccup of consciousness between oblivions. Acknowledging this “Truth” is rather
liberating and frees up the inner self to get on with enjoying the brief time we have in the sun.
@@mitseraffej5812Bruuh if you don’t want nagging don’t get married 😀
@@raheli7155 My first wife and mother of my older child was pure sex on a stick, but man did she nag. I traded her for a much younger, shy and flat chested girl I had known for a while. 30 years and a couple of kids later she still abides by the “ do not nag” clause of our relationship. The other non negotiable clauses were I get to go surfing and fishing whenever I want, of course these agreements work both ways and she does whatever she wants.
I think marriage is sacred & so is the bed,
Its to be enjoyed between the two,
The word also says that your body is not your own but it belongs to your spouse.
Submitting to God and to one another saved the whole relationship,
Humility & honoring one another ❤❤❤
Why can't it be enjoyed by three or more?
@@alanparedes2034 *"Why can't it be enjoyed by three or more?"*
As a Christian, I'm not sure that it can't, provided of course that the man is married to only one woman at a time and not multiple women at once.
Marriage is --- and has always been in all cultures --- defined as a union between one man and one woman. What some people fail to consider is that the union between one man and one woman can occur multiple times.
In other words, as long as each marriage is between one man and one woman, it wouldn't matter than the man happens to be the same in each case. Each woman marries one man, the man marries multiple women (i.e. has no concubines, only wives), and nobody gets divorced.
These are only my thoughts on the subject.
@@bricaaron3978 NO AND NO.... Marriage cannot occur multiple times per your liking, why people trying to deflect the Bible meaning to human standards sounds demonic.
@@sammyalabamy111 *"Marriage cannot occur multiple times per your liking..."*
What do you mean, exactly?
@@bricaaron3978 A man and woman marry one time (barring any issues as abuse, divorce legally, or death …). Not marriage x10 per your human whims, not exactly what the Bible intended.
Biblical truths. If a spouse is heavily involved in pornography and asks his spouse to do unsafe and demeaning acts this is also condemned in the Bible. There’s no room for abuse in marriage.
Oral with your spouse isn't demeaning.
@@tedbundywastheultimatechad8400 oral sex is considered fornication....which is a sin
Save yourself a ton of problems and figure all of this out before you get married. That's what the kids of today do. Sure the older crowed is just spinning their heads but that is exactly what happened when you were a young one.
Why would it be abusive both once it in the marriage it’s okay
@@tedbundywastheultimatechad8400 and what if she wants nothing to do with that?
This video has not enough likes. I know that this wisdom convict most of us but we still have to be humble enough to confess and repent (and like this video) to push this blessing to others.
Some pastors avoid these more personal topics, I appreciate your in depth study and attention to detail regarding this topic!
Yes they avoid it because God said not to speak of those things. There's still a few decent pastors unlike most of you so-called Christians that don't want to give up your sin. You try to find foolish teachers to tickle your ears and convince you it's okay to continue in sin.
@mountuplikeaneagle where in the Bible does it say oral sex is a sin in marriage?
@@godbot-ff1550 If you were born again and baptized in the Holy Ghost you would ask stupid things.
@@mountuplikeaneagle that doesn't answer my question lol
@@godbot-ff1550Read Song of Solomon with Strong's concordance or other Hebrew/Greek vocabulary translation clarity. Very clear you can enjoy the pleasures of the flesh with your husband or wife. There's no specific list of "what sex acts NOT to do." Well, except for beastiality. It's not evil to enjoy the gift of sexual pleasure in marriage. It's a gift from God which is psychologically + emotionally + physically bonding. The two become one. Relax folks; God designed the human body. Sheesh. smh
I respect him for calling it exactly what it is 👊
cunilinginus?
@@florinaschilean6143
All you had to do was orally (audibly speak) Google this. It's named cunnilingus.
Thank you for covering this sensitive topic and supporting it w/ God’s Word
Amen
Sorry to bust your bubble, Tim -- but The Holy Bible IS NOT "God's Word" -- it's what SOME MEN THOUGHT were "God's Word", but they were WAAYY wrong. Translated to English from several different ancient languages, the KJV is A KING'S version of Christianity, and America doesn't do kings.
It’s important to note that sex actually isn’t very unifying for most wives unless there is emotional, mental, and spiritual intimacy outside the bedroom. Without these, sex is just another chore to get done.
This is the worst yt channel ever.
@ggrace1133 lol No doubt it can still be a lot of times We don't like chores lol
@@7He_is_ablespeak properly. Not ebonics
@@ChooseLife.YourLife yt stands for TH-cam. How is that ebonics? I'm white and use that abbreviation all the time.
Totally agree with you
"There is nothing from without a man, that entering into him can defile him: but the things which come out of him, those are they that defile the man."- Mark 7:15
Well done for addressing this issue from a biblical perspective...plenty of non biblical 'opinions' out there
Song of Songs 7:6-9 “How beautiful and how delightful you are, My love, with all your charms! Your stature is like a palm tree, And your breasts are like its clusters. I said, ‘I will climb the palm tree, I will take hold of its fruit stalks.’ Oh, may your breasts be like clusters of the vine, And the fragrance of your breath like apples, And your mouth like the best wine! It goes down smoothly for my beloved, Flowing gently through the lips of those who fall asleep…”
@Nicholas TV I am fine 🙂
"Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest, So is my beloved among the young men. In his shade I took great delight and sat down, And his fruit was sweet to my taste." Song 2:3
Right there, baby.
@@Pamledger478the verse doesn't seem to be talking about oral sex
as someone who is preparing to get married someday, this video really helps in what to do and what not to do in marriage. God bless you more.
Nice godly advice, in everything we must honor God and each other.Let word of God be a lamp unto my feet and light unto our path! Psalm 119:105
That's why it is more important to have sex with one woman, married, love is love under consensual, if both enjoy it, let it be.
I'm in Australia. Hi. Thank you for clearly explaining this Topic. Let us all honor the Lord God in all ways. God Bless mate.
I agree with you👍
Also another reason why oral sex is sinful has to do with God's design for sex:
God made sex for two purposes namely for procreative purposes and unitive purposes (meaning to deepen the love and bond between the spouses)
However one must never separate the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes because God never intended for the two to be separate. For every act in marriage to be chaste it must meet both the procreative and unitive purposes of sex.
Let's take IVF for example: it's procreative but it's not unitive because there is no sexual union which takes place between the spouses which bonds them together. Therefore it's not within God's will because it separates the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes.
Birth control (all forms including condoms, the pill, coil ect.) does the opposite of IVF. The sexual union takes place but it's closed off to procreation thereby rendering the act sterile. So birth control separates the sexual union from it's procreative purposes.
Let's take BDSM as another example. It is possible for BDSM to be procreative but hitting, choking, tying up your spouse during sex does not bond you together so it's non unitive and therefore BDSM should also not be practiced in a Christian marriage because it also separates the procreative from the unitive.
Unnatural sexual acts (oral sex, anal sex, masturbation, sex toys ect.) are all non procreative and non unitive so it's not within God's design.
Not saying God wants us to conceive every time we have sex but we should at least be open to life resulting from that act so if it is impossible that a baby could result from the act you are doing or it's contraceptive then it's wrong.
Christians can look up natural family and use that instead of condoms, birth control and artificial contraceptives if you wish to space out having children.
God bless!
Yes, traditional sex in Christian marriages is the best way. And the fact that this question was being asked at all about oral sex proves that this type of sex wasn’t always so. It was mainly found in prostitution and pornography.
Seems people ignore book of Solomon.
Nope, most Christians aren’t ignoring the Song of Solomon but it has Nothing to do with oral or anal sex. In America this mainly started back in the 60’s with drugs and the “sexual” revolution and then it continued on with prostitution and porn. Those sexual practices were most likely invented by Non-Christian males and that’s why pastors and other Christian leaders are reluctant to talk about it. Plus the fact that it was very embarrassing and demeaning for women and initially it wasn’t the wife’s idea to take part in this. It was never the norm for Christians or even for most lost people.
not too sure why this popped up on my feed, but what an insightful video! thanks for taking time to explain in the context of the bible, god bless
Probably you spoke about it and the phone heard you 😂
@@Dash-sf9gu as always 😂
"God" not "god", He is so very Holy 🤲
Are u born again? John 3:3
I appreciate the clarification of this topic
No answer. An agreement must be made between spouses
Oral sex, touching any part of anyone's body in a sexual way is a SIN outside of marrige.
Within marriage to one other person is NOT sin. It's the covenant part with God in the centre that's important.
Oral sex is still a sin within marriage...
God made sex for two purposes namely for procreative purposes and unitive purposes (meaning to deepen the love and bond between the spouses)
However one must never separate the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes because God never intended for the two to be separate. For every act in marriage to be chaste it must meet both the procreative and unitive purposes of sex.
IVF for example is procreative but it's not unitive because there is no sexual union which takes place between the spouses which bonds them together. Therefore it's not within God's will because it separates the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes.
Birth control (all forms including condoms, the pill, coil ect.) does the opposite of IVF. The sexual union takes place but it's closed off to procreation thereby rendering the act sterile. So birth control separates the sexual union from it's procreative purposes.
BDSM for example is possible to be procreative but hitting, choking, tying up your spouse during sex does not bond you together so it's non unitive and therefore BDSM should also not be practiced in a Christian marriage because it also separates the procreative from the unitive.
Unnatural sexual acts (oral sex, anal sex, masturbation, mutual masturbation sex toys ect.) are all non procreative and non unitive so it's not within God's design.
Not saying God wants us to conceive every time we have sex but we should at least be open to life resulting from that act so if it is impossible that a baby could result from the act you are doing (you could never make a baby through oral sex) or it's contraceptive then it's wrong.
If people have a serious reason to avoid pregnancy then they can use natural family planning instead of unnatural sexual acts, condoms, birth control and artificial contraceptives.
This how you know if it’s still wrong would you ask god for head
@@504Chosenone ??????? what? would you ask god for any other type of sex? that's maybe the most bizarre and unrealistic response to this topic I've EVER seen.
@@ABezuidenhout370 Pretty sure this is a copy-paste response as I'm 90% sure I've seen it before... regardless, where is your biblical backing for all this? you didn't quote scripture at all.
@@red_phoenix0570 Maybe, I can help:
1) God made sex for two purposes namely for procreative purposes (Genesis 1:27-28) and unitive purposes (Genesis 2:18-24).
2) However one must never separate the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes because God never intended for the two to be separate. This principle is found in Mark 10:9 - "Therefore, what God has joined together, no person is to separate.”
3) For every act in marriage to be chaste it must meet both the procreative and unitive purposes of sex. In other words, sexual relations, in order to be pure in the eyes of God, must be natural - follow His design. The Lord calls relations that are contrary to nature vile, impure, dishonoring, degrading, and shameful (Romans 1:18-32). When they are practiced by married couple, the husband and the wife become sexually immoral and the marriage bed is defiled (Hebrew 13:4).
4) Unnatural sexual acts such as oral sex... "That which is known about God is evident within them [people]; for God made it evident to them" (Romans 1:19). Even the world teaches that the mouth is part of the digestive system, while the genital organs are part of the reproductive system. I googled the functions of the digestive system, nowhere was providing sexual pleasure listed, because it is contrary to nature to use any part of our digestive system for that purpose. So yes, those who practice oral sex 'exchange natural relations for that which is contrary to nature'; they are in error (Romans 1:26-27).
May the Lord help us all to make the difference between sin and righteousness!
I had never seriously thought about this subject, but I find oral sex gross (no offense). What brought me here is the following testimony: Dream of Hell on Prophetess Grace YT channel. She said that some pastors teach that oral sex is not a sin, and I was so surprised that I checked out a few Christian websites. I hope that you will take the matter to the Lord in prayer.
I DO believe that a pre- marital couple can have conversations about what each other deem " permissible ", "unsure", or "admissible " sex acts before consumating marriage. Simple communication can give each other an honest assessment of what to expect,or.....
perhaps even decide that they wouldn't be sexually compatible.
I couldn't desagree more. Sexual incompatibility doesn't exist. A true couple, where both are determined to love and give pleasure to each other will sort it out. Conversation, practice and pacience will eventually get it together.
We live in a wicked, completely sexualized generation. This has destroyed our minds and elevated our expectations -very unrealistically- of what real sex looks like. Men and women are filled with weird pornographic unnatural fantasies in their heads, which, off course, are accompanied by the desperate desire to be fullfiled.
I"ve seen couples that decided to wait untill marriage, and they've never had issues with sex. The reason for that is simplicity: they were not sexually corrupted by the world - so normal sex, allied with communication, was enough to bring them satisfaction.
What you proposed doesn't make any sense. If you met a girl, and she had everything you've ever looked for in a woman, but she doesn't do oral, would you still drop her off?
Don't you see how this animalistic desire for satisfaction reflects the perspective of a broken, weak and sexually immoral generation? In fact, your idea couldn't even be applied at any other generation, and still, there were happy God fearing marriages, even if they didn't discuss "sexual preferences" when they were just dating.
Breaches like this are what often bring young couples to fall in fornication. Topics like this could lead women to back way - if she is a true Christian, she probably will - and you would have lost a good oportunity.
I advise you to pray for sexual purity, and eliminate anything that has been contaminating your mind in that sense. May Jesus bless you.
@@vitz9352 and I have to disagree with your statement. For the most part, the average male is sexually compatible with the average woman. 9/10 times if you follow God's design for marriage, you will have no issues in the marriage bed.
However, there are some physical conditions people may have that can affect sexual activity in marriage. Things like this should be talked about with your potential spouse before you get married. Additionally, some people may have sexual trauma that should also be discussed before marriage.
As long as talking about your future sexual activity doesn't tempt you to sin before marriage, it is a good idea to talk about things before you get married. It also ensures you both hold the same beliefs about what a God-honoring sex life is.
@@vitz9352facts. Sex is not hard to figure out. If people stop watching porn and having 50 sexual partners they would be more than happy with their spouse.
A very good response to a very difficult topic. Thanks.
John 14:26 🕊️
See the definition of sodomy in your dictionary or on Google you will thank me later
There’s nothing difficult about it. It’s only difficult for people who want to continue to do it.
“As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste.”
Exactly. Song of Solomon does include - or certainly imply - it in marriage.
WHEN your WOMAN or MAN say NO ......... PLEASE RESPECT
No means yes
@@rudyperez7680 what?
You sound like a real blast at a party
@@rudyperez7680 I’m predicting prison in your future.
I would have to disagree when a woman start saying no it becomes a sexless marriage and sex in a marriage is very important why do you think 50% of marriages end in divorce mostly all of those marriages were sexless marriages The man wants sex no matter what the situation is if you respect your husband and want to make him happy and Fulfilled then you take one for the team “The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.”
1 Corinthians 7:3-5
So if you both agree not to have sex then that’s fine but if one of you does then you give her or him there conjugal rights.
And we know from statistics That a woman who doesn’t say no to her husband there marriages are actually a lot better and that’s facts once again the Bible is correct.
Great video based on God's word... Thank you sir.
He was wrong. Oral sex is in Songs of Solomon.
The only two things that he was right about is that any sex outside of marriage is a sin and the fact that oral sex is Not in the Bible. That’s why some men use to seek it out through prostitutes and pornography…such as Bill Clinton and Jimmy Swaggart.
If you can't control yourself and respect boundaries before marriage, what makes you think you will be able to do it after marriage.
Without love perversion increases. Giving in to sodomy will increase the desire for more and more. Perversion isn’t “love” it will lead to more unnatural desires. Where there is perversion there is no love.
Diseases cannot be transmitted if the couple are loyal to each other only.
How much does loyalty cover? Is loyalty enough to constitute the marriage itself or are they married first after a priest announces it?
@@harrihaffi2713they are married when they both say" I do"
@@robertkolinsky1286 As in both consent or both say I do in front of a priest?
@@harrihaffi2713 both say I do and consent to it in front of the priest. If one party doesn't mean it then marriage invalid. Hence you can't force someone to marry. But priest blesses marriage but doesn't do it. It's the spouses that confer the sacrament
True but stds can be spread by more than just sex and kissing unfortunately
I've never thought of it as being something sinful in the context of marriage. To me, it seems like the step between heavy kissing and full intercourse. It's not something that goes beyond full intimacy, but rather an optional warm-up leading to it.
But when it comes to things like sodomy or gross fetishes (that I won't bother detailing other than to say they're literally dirty and... stinky), that's when I'd say you're starting to twist and mock the gift that has been given to you both as a married couple.
I sent this to a gal condemning everyone to hell over o.s. "On your topic on o.s., since someone had mentioned the forbidden act! Look in Song of Solomon - That book has a dual meaning. One is about Yahushuwa’s intimate relationship with the church and is considered a love letter from Him to us. And the other is about physical sex between a husband and wife. I found a few interesting tidbits that look very much like o.s. It talks about pomegranates - in one place they are the woman’s cheek but in another they are referred to as the man’s “shoots are a paradise of pomegranates, with precious fruits” (in 4:13). Then in verse 16 it says “…Let my beloved come into his garden, And eat its precious fruits.” And in 6:11 it says “I went down into the garden of nuts, To see the verdure of the valley, To see whether the vine budded, Whether the pomegranates blossomed.” (doesn't it seem to be talking about the lower body - nuts, valley, vine budding, and pomegranates (fruit) blossoming)???? If you don't want to have o.s. with your spouse, then don't, but stop telling everyone else it is a sin, because there is no commandment for a married couple to not do that.
I agree, these references in Song of Solomon likely are to o.s. Thanks for listing these verses. This question came up for my wife and me, so I looked this up before. This video is making a false claim that o.s. is not mentioned in the Bible. I do not agree that o.s. is a sin for a married couple. Any sex outside of marriage is, of course, a sin.
amen
@@fisherofmen9212
I didn't know this about oral sex. I need to go pray about this and ask God for repentance.
Read book of Song of Solomon, one could actually interpret that yes the Bible does have something to say about oral sex.
@johneaton4345 Song of Solomon has nothing to do with oral sex. That scripture has been perverted and twisted to mean something it does not mean and I have been guilty of justifying oral sex by that scripture. The Lord Himself gave me a gentle rebuke for receiving oral sex from my husband and also giving my husband oral sex. God said the tongue was not made for sexual pleasure and called it an abomination that was introduced by the fallen angels. This came about because my husband became horribly obsessed with oral sex out of nowhere. The Lord says it’s a gorgan spirit, also called a nymph or sea nymph. I always thought a nympho was someone obsessed with sex but a nympho can be someone that is also obsessed with a specific sexual lust. This spirit can take root in a person that watches or watched pornography, fornicates or commits adultery. If I’m being honest I was disappointed to know oral sex was a sin because I really enjoyed it. However, in obedience to Christ I will no longer partake of oral sex.
@@evelissdevaux5350 this doesn't contradict anything in the video though. oral sex, just like any marital sex, must be god-honoring. if your husband became "horribly obsessed" then it was clearly not god-honoring. if is though, then there is nothing wrong with it.
@@evelissdevaux5350lol in what scripture the lord says not to use your tongue? How about fat people that can’t stop eating ? Gossiping? Talking lies? Where is the scripture…
Could you please tell me where to find it in scripture? The depraved nature of oral sex.
Amen! I can’t believe how many Christian TH-camrs are trying to convince other Christians that oral sex within marriage is a sin. Finally! Someone who speaks intelligently about this matter. Consensual oral sex amongst married Christians is not a sin. PERIOD.
PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@elmyra.jackson Love the enthusiasm. LOL.. But yeah, how is this even a discussion?
@@michaelpalermo354 Because the prudish hyper religious zealots keep telling Christians it's sin
Amen!!!! I hope I find a spouse who is comfortable about sex as me
@elmyra.jackson but why do they? Why try to rob people of guiltless pleasure? (Within godly marriage)
THANK YOU FOR CLARIFYING THIS POINT!!
See the definition of sodomy....don't be deceived by ignorant preachers
@@Rass7rasS Definition of sodomy is irrelevant since the word sodomy never appears in the Bible.
@@trudewhite876 sudoku*
Thanks for talking about this because as far as I was able to tell it wasn't ok, but ppl make you think it is. As for oral sex within marriage...how is it "God honoring"? I think you're wrong to say it's ok within marriage.
The Holy Spirit answered the question for me that it is perverted and not God's original intent. Sex that procreates is a natural urge, but most people are put off by the thought of oral for a reason....And I know of too many married women who felt pressured into it and are uncomfortable with it. That is not love and does not lead to procreation, much like anal and lone masturbation do not lead to procreation. All of those are wrong. Love is not "self seeking" (1 Corinthians 13:5). Just speaking truth. James 3:16 says "For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are there." Self-seeking sex acts in marriage have caused great marital harm, and that is NOT God-honoring.
That was my exact question. How does putting your mouth on the body parts that are meant to excrete toxins from the body honor the Lord? It makes zero sense to me. These people are allowing their flesh to determine their decisions instead of the Holy Spirit.
Its a sin if you are a hyper religious zealot, but over many many years we continue to see "Christians and their leaders" exposed practicing the sin.
Yep… I totally agree with everything that’s spoke about here bubba… Thank you ;)’
What I've noticed is that Christians who don't really believe in the spiritual realm and that it affects us today, will be FOR oral sex. Just by looking and comparing different articles online you can tell that it's the case. Baptist-type websites will always be FOR it. On the other hand, websites that are focused on the spiritual realm, deliverance ministries, etc, will say that it's an unclean practice.
That's because there are many Christians who even make fun of people who live according to the Spirit. I mean the fact that people not only read the Bible, but also listen to the Holy Spirit. That's laughable to some Christians and they say "oh yeah, the Holy Spirit told you that? Can you prove this with a Bible verse?".
These types of Christians are mocking the spiritual realm and all they know about Christianity is theory - Bible reading. They don't have spiritual discernment and they prob don't know what it is, so they make fun of people who say that the Holy Spirit revealed something. They will always be FOR oral sex, because the Bible says to not deprive the spouse of sex. But is it even normal sex in God's eyes? In your eyes, yes, but what about God? You can't say it's deprivation of sex, if God doesn't even see it as normal sex.
There are some practices that you just can't find a Bible verse against them, but they are unclean practices.
Injecting drugs - which Bible verse is directly against it? None.
See, some things aren't written in the Bible. You need spiritual discernment. You need to feel what's going on in the spirit. Demons do enter through unclean practices, but of course, there are Christians who don't believe in demons (even though the Bible talks about them🤔) so I don't know how you can be a Christian who believes in theory only. Because the Bible does say that the spiritual realm is real, but do you believe it?
I personally received a revelation from the Holy Spirit, that it's an unclean practice and I'm ready to be mocked by people who don't have a relationship with the Holy Spirit and have a theory-pope-Bible schrolar type of Christianity, but no spiritual discernment and no substance in them
Exactly
1 Corinth 2 v 14-16.
It is sin and an abomination before God.
Anything with the Holy Ghost,,,,,sensitive to the Holy Ghost knows that its sin.
auto declared saint detected. don´t be more saint than God wants you to be! there is NO rule in scriptures about sex in marriage! what means God doesn´t care.
Thank you sister for this comment! A lot of Christians I see in the body will always try to justify this by quoting the Song of Solomon. On which however is twisting scripture to their own destruction. They don’t read between the lines and love to look at the Bible out or context. This is why I can’t stand religion man!
@@MrPositiveguyAlso baloney.
@@henryrogers5500 God does not want us behaving like dogs. We are to have dominion over the animals; not act like them!
“May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. A loving doe, a graceful deer- may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be intoxicated with her love.”
Proverbs 5:18-19 NIV
@Jocelyn Mattila yes
The fountain be blessed?? That sounds like the danger. A blessed Wang dang.
It says the gazelle grazes amongst the lilies. Save it for your spouse of course and respect their wishes.
Amen Pastor Nelson
See the definition of sodomy in your dictionary or on Google you will thank me later
Oral sex is a form of sex and as long as it is physically safe which usually it is, it is totally honorable inside marriage but yes, it must be with consent, anyone who forces even inside marriage is committing big sin and violating the marriage.
That would mean there are other bigger problem that need dealt with first. Because he covered submitting our bodies to one another in marrage.
So if pornography is done in a family with both consents is not a sin? 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
@@SaintNjuguna thank you
Nope, it is sodomy. Check your dictionary.
Oral sex is a sin both in and out of marriage
kinda feel you dodged giving and outright answer! Besides, if all forms of sexual activity are kept exclusively with one marriage partner, there is no possibility of transmitting STDs, so since you are saying rightly that all forms of sexual activity outside marriage are sinful, and that is the only context where STDs may be acquired, your final comments about transmission in oral sex were really not relevant to marriage
Without taking STDs into account please consider this: Oral sex is mentioned in the Bible it falls under sodomy. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples.
Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
How did he dodge giving an outright answer?
At the 4:00 mark he very clearly states "Within the confines of marriage oral sex is free of sin". Seems pretty clear to me.
After 40 years of reading the Bible, the answer is...
Nothing.
See the definition of sodomy in your dictionary or on Google you will thank me later
@@Rass7rasS No, I won't thank you for your modern understanding clouding the truth. Sodomy comes from Sodom. We don't hear a WORD from God about what the dictionary calls "sodomy" in the Word that pertains to a husband and his wife...
Only that he destroyed Sodom because they not only embraced homosexuality ("going after strange flesh"), but sought to rape men who came through town.
You need to forget what has been taught you, ask God to lead you into HIS truth...
AND GET INTO A BIBLE BY YOURSELF, REJECTING ALL THAT THE "CHURCH" HAS TAUGHT YOU. After all...
This is supposed to be about what GOD says about it, not Webster's or Google, RIGHT?
John 16:13
@@Rass7rasS Tell me where you find the word sodomy in the Bible to describe what acts are forbidden. The term sodomy does not appear anywhere in the bible.
What does Song of Solomon Chapter 4 Verse 16 mean?
She is enticing her lover and making herself so alluring, that he becomes mad with desire. She is not merely passive, but ardent and eager. She wants him to feel her attractiveness, her desirability. She wants him to enter her garden and taste its exquisite fruits.
Hi brother, please consider this: Oral sex is mentioned in the Bible it falls under sodomy. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples.
Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
Thanks for making this video. Many need to see this
Please don't hang your hat on the word or interpretation of others.
For not he that commendeth himself is approved, but whom the Lord commendeth.
2 Corinthians 10:18
Read God's Word, pray, and study for yourself in order to get understanding. Don't allow your eternal salvation to rest upon man's possible flawed (intentional or unintentional) interpretation of God's Word.
Study to shew thyself approved unto God..
2 Timothy 2:15
Thank you for making this video ❤ I deeply appreciate how you bring up the different questions related to the topic and point out the Bible verses that apply in the subject matter.
It is refreshing how it is naturally explained AND how at the end, you point the many risks of oral sex that people dont talk nor think about.
I wanted to ask if you have a youth oriented ministry that brings light and truth on sex, sexual behaviours, body honoring, etc... i would be interested since I interact with young people and have a young daughter myself.
Church seems to run away from these topics and young look for answers or information in the world... some feel shame to ask their parents, some of which are not equipped to taalk about this and actually avoid it like plague!
In today's world, we should be transparent, allowing to talk about anything in a godly safe space with godly guidance and full of His love... afterall, God knows our bodies and created them... Thank you once again and i hope to hear from you! God bless you and your ministry 😊
Please consider this: Oral sex is mentioned in the Bible it falls under sodomy. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Oral sex also falls under the sin of Onan as well. In Genesis 38:8-10 where Onan spilled his seed on the ground and God struck him dead on the spot. Oral sex is fruitless to God's kingdom and it directly goes against His command to "be fruitful and multiply".- Genesis 1:28. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples.
Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
As the Hebrew Old Testament is based on the Babylonian and Sumerian Cultures, it is not surprising to find the joys of oral sex praised regardless of martial status.
@@davidfrisken1617 That does not in any way, shape or form, condole, encourage oral sex as something acceptable and right in God's eyes, therefore, should be the same for us.
Read Isaiah 22;14
@@evasccl7846 . Stop throwing extra biblical stumbling blocks before your brothers and sisters. Your personal hangups do not equal biblical truth. Stop this now.g
It doesn't say anything about oral sex. I think that is a private thing in marriage. It's up to the couple.
A REAL preacher was just talking about this. And of course, there a scripture to back up that this is true that it causes cancer. The preacher was talking about how when a woman is performing oral sex on a man or a man on a man sperm is blood. And we know that the Bible says the life of the flesh is in the blood. Anyway, he was saying how sperm one released looks for an egg because that’s what it was designed to do. Well, when that sperm goes down someone’s throat or into someone’s butt- it only knows to look for an egg. So it goes through the body attacking other organs, trying to find the egg. This causes all kinds of diseases and not just cancer. But let them all carry-on because the Bible said.- Romans 1:27-32 KJV
and likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.-- the Bible doesn’t say don’t drink out of the toilet- so why you don’t you drink out of it?
It's a sin
@@Proverbspsalms So this anonymous preacher obviously knows little or nothing about what he is talking about, but ignorant people just accept it as a fact. This is just made up nonsense. Please provide us with any research or evidence to support what he is saying.
@@josephham thank you Joseph. These people want to argue about it. Let them go on. We are not the ones with throat cancer like that actor who said he knows where he got cancer from
Oral sex is mentioned in the Bible it falls under sodomy. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples.
Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
So how do you reconcile that Scripture about not having authority over one's body with someone who is happy to be intimate, but absolutely wants _nothing_ to do with oral sex?
Who asks questions like this? I'm not asking a preacher what kind of sex is okay with my wife. Just read the book. You'll know as much as they do.
Not sure why people have determined that oral-to-genital sex is “wrong”. “The husband’s body belongs to the wife, & the wife’s body belongs to the husband”. “Body”, as in all of it. Not “genitals” as in part of it. If u r married & u enjoy oral-to-genital sex then go for it. If not, then don’t. Trust me, if oral-to-genital sex in marriage were wrong, God would have informed us.
I have, in the past, read the Bible from cover to cover. I don't recall ANY mention of oral sex. Adultery, yes, that's mentioned - as are homosexuals. But nothing about oral sex, at least not that I've ever seen.
Guilting people. Let one's coscience be their guide. There are much more iniquities that are worse.
I understand all of you watch this video for a reason. I highly suggest that you read songs of Solomon
😢😮 I felt the same way until the lord appeared to me in a dream one night and said to me that oral sex in his eyes was UNCLEAN! Impure and was forbidden for members of the body of Christ. Married or not and I’m married. I was totally shocked. So seek God in prayer and tread those waters carefully sir.
How do you know it wasn't your subconscious mind making up the "lord" in your dream
You are dumb! Look yourself in the mirror and acknowledge the dumbness!!
It was popularized by sodomite homo community, I think the issue is that it's one wayed, but song of Solomon does mention it
@@oreocarlton3343 Which verses?
Christ is risen😌
@@vijdamvsichko9077 where fruit is mentioned
A lot of people are pretty passionate about their own beliefs. There are things that are specifically laid out as a sin and an abomination, such as homosexuality, adultery, pornography, etc. IF the Bible does NOT say anything about a specific subject, it is best to default to Romans 14. What may be sin and a conviction to YOU Is NOT to be put on and projected to others. Just because it is sin to YOU does not give you the right to make it gospel and try to bring condemnation to others because of your own convictions.
exactly! many people are in this comment section saying that oral sex is wrong because it led to bad outcomes for them or their spouse. yet not one can quote scripture. the bible is very clear that different things tempt people to sin in different ways.
'True Christianity & False Religions' gives the biblical perspective on the issue. The only correlative that is oral is the pre-intercourse conversation. How can so-called Christians engage in things they condemn homosexuals for? God gave us intercourse to gratify each other. If that was approved of God, when do we use the same tongue to pray or interpret, before or after. Is this the same tongue also by which the Spirit giveth utterance?
Agree, your mouth is not made for that. Also another reason oral sex is not allowed haa to do with God's design for sex:
God made sex for two purposes namely for procreative purposes and unitive purposes (meaning to deepen the love and bond between the spouses)
However one must never separate the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes because God never intended for the two to be separate. For every act in marriage to be chaste it must meet both the procreative and unitive purposes of sex.
IVF for example is procreative but it's not unitive because there is no sexual union which takes place between the spouses which bonds them together. Therefore it's not within God's will because it separates the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes.
Birth control (all forms including condoms, the pill, coil ect.) does the opposite of IVF. The sexual union takes place but it's closed off to procreation thereby rendering the act sterile. So birth control separates the sexual union from it's procreative purposes.
BDSM for example is possible to be procreative but hitting, choking, tying up your spouse during sex does not bond you together so it's non unitive and therefore BDSM should also not be practiced in a Christian marriage because it also separates the procreative from the unitive.
Unnatural sexual acts (oral sex, anal sex, masturbation, mutual masturbation sex toys ect.) are all non procreative and non unitive so it's not within God's design.
Not saying God wants us to conceive every time we have sex but we should at least be open to life resulting from that act so if it is impossible that a baby could result from the act you are doing (you could never make a baby through oral sex) or it's contraceptive then it's wrong.
If people have a serious reason to avoid another pregnancy (not just because of selfish reasons for example you are tired of changing dirty diapers)then they can use natural family planning instead of condoms, birth control, unnatural sexual acts and artificial contraceptives.
There is no God. This is all ridiculous!
Its ok if everyone is conesting. Actually women if they really love their husbands they will have no issue but be happy to do it. Its a service of appreciation.
Thanks! Can I ask what camera you use for your videos? Great quality
The bible does mention oral sex, in song of Solomon talks of tasting of his fruit. Pretty sure it not talking of apples or oranges he brought to the bedroom.
See the definition of sodomy in your dictionary or on Google you will thank me later
LOL
@@Rass7rasS The word sodomy is not used anywhere in the Bible, so the modern dictionary definition is irrelevant when deciding what the Bible describes as forbidden sexual activities.
That's assuming "tasting his fruit " means tasting his privates.
@@Rass7rasS Oral sex was added to the definition of sodomy later on. Catholics & Protestants added because the birth rates were low. If you dig a little deeper it’s also only considered sodomy when two men are engaging in the acts and it can be argued same-sex. God wants men and women (married) to be intimate and enjoy each other in a consenting manner. The bedroom is undefiled when you’re married. I don’t believe God is that technically or cares what goes on in a consenting married couples bedroom. He looks at our deeds, our hearts, and over walk of salvation!
exchanging natural for unnatural is sin
Romans 1:26
Because of this, God gave up them to passions of dishonor. For even their females changed the natural use into that contrary to nature.
thank you very good presentation..
If you honour God with your body. Make sure your in good shape.
The Bible isn't a sex guide. So long as the man and women (yes, MAN and WOMAN) are married then anything they do sexually is between them. However, if a spouse feels uncomfortable performing oral sex then they shouldn't be forced to.
I love love this ministry
See the definition of sodomy in your dictionary or on Google you will thank me later
Please consider this: Oral sex is mentioned in the Bible it falls under sodomy. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Oral sex falls under the sin of Onan as well. In Genesis 38:8-10 Onan spilled his seed on the ground and God struck him dead on the spot. Oral sex is fruitless to God's kingdom and it directly goes against His command to "be fruitful and multiply"- Genesis 1:28. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples.
Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
Thank you for sharing
Man, you're all over the road on this..
In Islam, It is also not directly highlighted about in Quran or Hadith, But Scholars and references from the guidance lead to Oral sex being a not appreciated activity (Makhruh).
It's fully haram (prohibited) before Marriage.
When I look at the scripture, And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. Romans 1:27. That tells me that oral sex with one's wife is leaving the natural use of the woman. For the mouth was not made for the vagina and neither is the mouth for the penis as this is the sex of the homosexuals. This kind of sex does not produce fruit. Of course the fruit of the womb is a child. Oral sex will not bring forth a child. Jesus told us to look at the fruit. If one would think about it, if a man shoots his seed into the mouth of his wife, is that not a waste of his seed? And also no fruit can be produced.
Very well said brother :) I agree with everything you said.
Also another reason why oral sex is sinful has to do with God's design for sex.
God made sex for two purposes namely for procreative purposes and unitive purposes (meaning to deepen the love and bond between the spouses)
However one must never separate the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes because God never intended for the two to be separated. For every act in marriage to be chaste it must meet both the procreative and unitive purposes of sex.
Let's take IVF for example: it's procreative but it's not unitive because there is no sexual union which takes place between the spouses which bonds them together. Therefore it's not within God's will because it separates the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes.
Birth control is sinful because it does the opposite of IVF. The sexual union takes place but the act is closed off to procreation thereby rendering the act sterile therefore birth control seperates the unitive purposes of sex from it's procreative purposes.
Let's take BDSM as another example. It is possible for BDSM to be procreative but hitting, choking, tying up your spouse during sex does not bond you together so it's non unitive and therefore BDSM should also not be practiced in a Christian marriage because it also separates the procreative from the unitive.
Unnatural sexual acts (oral sex, anal sex, mutual masturbation, sex toys ect.) are all non procreative and non unitive so it's not within God's design either.
Not saying God wants us to conceive every time we have sex but we should at least be open to life resulting from that act so if it is impossible that a baby could result from the act you are doing (you could never make a baby from oral sex) or it's contraceptive then it's wrong.
Christians can look up natural family and use that instead of unnatural sexual acts like oral sex, condoms, and artificial contraceptives.
No, the context of the passage is a prohibition on homosexuality, it has nothing to do with sexual activity between a married man and woman.
@@matjj676Tell me, what do you think of this passage here?:
“Then Judah took a wife for Er his firstborn, and her name was Tamar.
7 But Er, Judah’s firstborn, was wicked in the sight of the LORD, and the LORD killed him.
8 And Judah said to Onan, “Go in to your brother’s wife and marry her, and raise up an heir to your brother.”
9 But Onan knew that the heir would not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in to his brother’s wife, that he emitted on the ground, lest he should give an heir to his brother.
10 And the thing which he did displeased the LORD; therefore He killed him also.”
Genesis 38: 6-10
@matjj676 it's like saying drunk drivers and then you tear into someone who drinks alcohol socially with trusted friends
@@ABezuidenhout370 🤣 You people are crazy! The height of legalism fanaticism, hyper-spiritual religiosity. Please do the opposite sex a kind courtesy and stay single.
Great content.
i have a question. in 1Tim 1:3 it says to not teach any different doctrines. Why are there so many Christian churches that all teach different doctrines?
Because there's a market for everyone.
Because the scripture also says that there will be doctrines of demons that come about to deceive.
They have some truth wrapped up in a lie. People are following these doctrines of demons because it aligns with their fleshly desires. And they don’t realize that they are not following God.
Very well said tanya
I was taught that oral sex is a sin in the same way masturbation can be a sin, similar to the use of birth control, it can prevent procreation. However, oral sex when engaged as a form of 'foreplay' bringing husband and wife closer together both physically and spiritually is not sinful.
Might be important to remember that different parts of the bible were written at different times by different people. I believe in god and I’m not trying to sound like some snarky atheist as I am not. I’m just trying to point out that these are harder questions and perhaps the answers are more circumstantial. Interesting take you have here though. Much appreciated.
but all inspired by God! that´s why you have thousands of rules of how to live, but nothing about sex in marriage, cause God doesn´t care. except he forbid sex in the menstruation phase for health reasons in this time.
An excellent video, thank you. It reinforced why I gave up organised religion.
Lol exactly.
Thank you for sharing your commentary. It helps navigate marriage and gives clarity.😊
The bed is undefiled between a married man and woman!!!
scripture does mention it! Song of songs 2:3b, AND 4:16c!!! (it goes both ways fellas.) but ONLY in MARRIAGE!!!
Well said!
See the definition of sodomy in your dictionary or on Google you will thank me later
It IS addressed in the Bible. What do you think was going on in Sodom and Gomorrah?
Even secular dictionaries know what to call it.
The fact that one would feel the need to question whether it's wrong, ought to indicate to that person that it's wrong.
poeple base theyr religion on dictionaries and not the scriptures, Gods Word. that´s the problem, God mentioned NOTHING about sex in MARRIAGE. so please stop to repeat "saints" bs
AMEN! I WHOLEHEARTEDLY AGREE WITH YOU IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE BIBLE\WORD OF GOD. AMEN!
Just make sure you do it to someone you are married to
As long as both of you LOVE and RESPECT each other, EVERYTHING is on the table. Both of you are ONE union and are blessed by the Covenant of Marriage. You do what you want as long as the OTHER is willing. Do not force one another to do something they don't want to do, that is WRONG.
True in a civilized world, but not true from a religious point fo view
@Nullius_in_verba I'm confused by your response, "...but not true from a religious point of view." It seems to me that Anthony covered all criteria and is consistent with the pastor: 1.within marriage; 2.loving and respectful; 3. consenting between the two of you (no coercion).
@@incorrigiblycuriousD61 The statement is ineccepible from an aethical point of view. But is wrong from a religious point of view, where is most important to obey to dictated rules than have a subjective, functional moral conception of human's relationships.
About sex, everything beyond the finality of conception is condidered sin, figure it out something exclusively oriented on pleasure like oral sex..indeed is considered aberration, against nature, ecc.
Woman consense is less relevant than this point, if relevant at all. Im talking about bible, not politically correct's church rettified thoughts.
@@Nullius_in_verba Where in the Bible does it say sex in marriage must have the goal of procreation. And don't say "Onan." That was about refusing to give his dead brother a family lineage and his dead brother's wife full status in her new family. He refused to impregnate her most likely because he didn't want the father's resources further divided upon his death. And dude, do not say that a woman's consent is less relevant, if relevant at all. What century are you from?
@@incorrigiblycuriousD61 I said that is less relevant from the religious point of view, not mine, I was considering the fact that teaches the submission of the women to men. "If relevant at all" was just rethorical. No the bible anyway, my fault, but the Church teaches these things. Not that I ever cared about all this stuff..but really good to know that Bible doesnt see things this way too.
Hi can you please make video on different bibal versions . The question we face from other religious 😊
What goes on between two married couples in the bedroom is none of our business. 🙄
Biblical scripture references to voyager
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@@Rass7rasS The term sodomy does not appear anywhere in the Bible, so the dictionary definition of sodomy is irrelevant in determining what is forbidden in the Bible. The Bible is very clear in forbidding homosexuality, bestiality, adultery and fornication, but never uses the word sodomy.
@@Rass7rasS So you are saying that what a married couple does in private is now your business because you don't approve? Nonsense! It's still not our business!
🎯 Before few weeks i was reading the Bible and the verse was about "keep the bed .." i forgot the chapter, but it was about adultery, so God the Holy Spirit is clear, only the husband and the wife must be in the bed, what they do there is between them, it's not a sin, HalleluYAHYESHUA✝✝✝
Pastor, is not the physical definition of sodomy both anal and oral? That is every definition of it I can find online. With numerous passages from the bible condemning this act.
Yes both oral and anal sex is sodomy.
Another reason why oral and anal sex is not allowed has to do with God's design for sex:
God made sex for two purposes namely for procreative purposes and unitive purposes (to deepen the bond and love between the spouses) However one must never separate the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes because God never intended for the two to be separated. For every act in marriage to be chaste it must meet both the procreative and unitive purposes of sex.
Let's take IVF for example: it's procreative but it's not unitive because there is no sexual union which takes place between the spouses which bonds them together. Therefore it's not within God's will because it separates the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes.
Birth control (all forms including condoms, the pill, coil ect.) does the opposite of IVF. The sexual union takes place but it's closed off to procreation thereby rendering the act sterile. So birth control separates the sexual union from it's procreative purposes.
Let's take BDSM as another example. It is possible for BDSM to be procreative but hitting, choking, tying up your spouse during sex does not bond you together so it's non unitive and therefore BDSM should also not be practiced in a Christian marriage because it also separates the procreative from the unitive.
Unnatural sexual acts (pornography, phone sex, oral sex, anal sex, masturbation, mutual masturbation sex toys ect.) are all non procreative and non unitive so it's not within God's design.
Not saying God wants us to conceive every time we have sex but we should at least be open to life resulting from that act so if it is impossible that a baby could result from the act you are doing (you could never make a baby through oral sex) or it's contraceptive then it's wrong.
Christians can look up natural family and use that instead of condoms, birth control and artificial contraceptives if they wish to space out having children.
God bless!
@@ABezuidenhout370 Excellent summary of the good and just will of God's natural law.
there is no definition of sodomy in scriptures like you find "online". God condems sodomy, what means what happens in Sodom, nothing to do with marriage!
Yk the Bible wasn’t written in english
@@ABezuidenhout370chapter and verse?
How about if we just look at each other and don't do anything
I will agree that oral sex outside of marriage is a sin, in which I am guilty of, but within a marriage, I don't believe that it is a sin, as long as both parties are in mutual consent.
@@lasirius1 the sea is for fish. The sky is for birds. Therefore swimming and boating at sea is a sin. And traveling by plane is a sin.
It’s not about what you think is right or wrong. There is a reason we are watching this channel.
What matters is what God has to say.
Read Romans 12:4-8
@@lasirius1 Your mouth was indeed intended for love. Kisses a woman's breasts is certainly the act of love, so yes the mouth does play a huge part.
Consider this: Oral sex is mentioned in the Bible it falls under sodomy. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples.
Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
@@lasirius1 -- The mouth is made for talking, for eating, and for sexual foreplay and interaction as well. The lips are made from the same kind of tissue as the labia.
John Piper addresses this question in one of his "Ask Pastor John"
podcast. He concluded that some if the verses in the Song of Songs actually refer to oral sex.
Between married couples.
He's wrong
@@MAZZAR0TH Not at all, it's unnatural before the Lord regardless of who does it, it's sin, not God's will.
@@GodsView1 According to who?
@@trudewhite876 Romans 1 reveals that nature shows the world that there is a God. That all people know wrong from right in God in our consciences Rom 2. The honest Christian in particular should know that it is not the holy God's intent to pervert our bodies with what is not His Will when He made man, the mouth was not made for it in the eyes of God, it's a perversion of the way of God. Sin
I am not guided by any exterior authority claiming the knowledge and wisdom of Bible. The only voice of God I listen is coming from inside me. Having said that - the oral sex is disgusting, regardless marital status.
Yes I agree. It also violates God's design for sex.
God made sex for two purposes namely for procreative purposes and unitive purposes (meaning to deepen the love and bond between the spouses)
However one must never separate the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes because God never intended for the two to be separate. For every act in marriage to be chaste it must meet both the procreative and unitive purposes of sex.
IVF for example is procreative but it's not unitive because there is no sexual union which takes place between the spouses which bonds them together. Therefore it's not within God's will because it separates the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes.
Birth control (all forms including condoms, the pill, coil ect.) does the opposite of IVF. The sexual union takes place but it's closed off to procreation thereby rendering the act sterile. So birth control separates the sexual union from it's procreative purposes.
BDSM for example is possible to be procreative but hitting, choking, tying up your spouse during sex does not bond you together so it's non unitive and therefore BDSM should also not be practiced in a Christian marriage because it also separates the procreative from the unitive.
Unnatural sexual acts (oral sex, anal sex, masturbation, mutual masturbation sex toys ect.) are all non procreative and non unitive so it's not within God's design.
Not saying God wants us to conceive every time we have sex but we should at least be open to life resulting from that act so if it is impossible that a baby could result from the act you are doing (you could never make a baby through oral sex) or it's contraceptive then it's wrong.
If people have a serious reason to avoid pregnancy then they can use natural family planning instead of unnatural sexual acts like oral sex, condoms, birth control and artificial contraceptives.
there's nothing "disgusting" about oral sex. Is kissing your spouse on the lips also disgusting?
@@shaunsteele6926 YES! There is a lot disgusting about oral sex. Kissing your intimate partner ON THE LIPS is not disgusting. Hope it clears your confusion. The basics of psychology are explaining the oral fixation and where it comes from. It is the result of Mother's Milk depravation causing permanent adolescence, obesity and/or depression. All done to us by design!
Very nice topic!! A question I could not have asked in church when I was a teen w/new hormones.
We were quoted Hebrews 13:4, “Marriage is honorable" a lot so I just applied it to all my internal questions...incorrectly.
Thank You ❤
Well according to Bill Clinton, oral sex is not sex, just ask Monica.
Yes, oral sex is a sin outside of marriage...not because it's oral, but because it's sex.
And yes, oral sex is okay in a marriage, because sex is okay in a marriage.
Probably, most things are
Could we look at the origins of “oral sex” and why it has found its way into Christian marriages where both partners are born again believers? Of the origins of oral sex is pagan and idol worship then why are many Christian’s desirous of doing or having this done within their marriage bed? Isn’t that lusting for an unnatural sexual act?
Agree.
The reason oral sex is sinful has to do with God's design for sex.
God made sex for two purposes namely for procreative purposes and unitive purposes (meaning to deepen the love and bond between the spouses)
However one must never separate the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes because God never intended for the two to be separated. For every act in marriage to be chaste it must meet both the procreative and unitive purposes of sex.
Let's take IVF for example: it's procreative but it's not unitive because there is no sexual union which takes place between the spouses which bonds them together. Therefore it's not within God's will because it separates the procreative purposes of sex from it's unitive purposes.
Birth control is sinful because it does the opposite of IVF. The sexual union takes place but the act is closed off to procreation thereby rendering the act sterile therefore birth control seperates the unitive purposes of sex from it's procreative purposes.
Let's take BDSM as another example. It is possible for BDSM to be procreative but hitting, choking, tying up your spouse during sex does not bond you together so it's non unitive and therefore BDSM should also not be practiced in a Christian marriage because it also separates the procreative from the unitive.
Unnatural sexual acts (oral sex, anal sex, mutual masturbation, sex toys ect.) are all non procreative and non unitive so it's not within God's design either.
Not saying God wants us to conceive every time we have sex but we should at least be open to life resulting from that act so if it is impossible that a baby could result from the act you are doing (you could never make a baby from oral sex) or it's contraceptive then it's wrong.
Christians can look up natural family and use that (with good reason) instead of unnatural sexual acts, condoms, and artificial contraceptives.
Thank You for being bold enough and brave enough to speak the Truth!!!
@@ABezuidenhout370No where in the Bible does it say any of this.
@ABezuidenhout370 if all of that were true, people who are past the age of conception shouldn't have sex and people who are known to be infertile shouldn't have sex. Since God designed sex as pleasurable and God designed marriage, nothing in the marital bed is sinful if both are consenting. And since marriage is life-long, so is sex within the marriage.
@@HEi-vi1fethat & their comment makes it sound like if you don’t “finish” then sex with your spouse is sinful.
You know, I’m pretty sure that we all get the idea that sex outside of marriage or with someone other than a spouse is wrong. If you left that out of this video, this video would be about 5 seconds long. Just sayin.
Oral sex is disgusting.
Its a matter of taste...
@@ciaran82359 😀
@@ciaran82359literally 😂😂
You might stay single
Please stop depriving yourself of Godly pleasure if this a moral issue, if not, then that's OK everyone has preferences
Thank you for this video.
And this is why people get confused. You have a group of ministers who say it’s not a sin and another group saying it is. Now, some people just don’t want to do it because they feel like it’s nasty and it is given what comes out of those places. But if it’s not a sin and my partner wants it then I’ll do it to satisfy them. However, we may love having oral but if it’s a sin we wouldn’t do it because we don’t want to sin. The Bible doesn’t mention the rapture either but there are implications that it will occur. To me oral sex is perverted, it’s an unnatural way of having sex. Homosexual engage in it in an attempt to make the tongue a penis and the anus a vagina. Unfortunately, this has infiltrated heterosexual relationships as well as Christian marriages. A lot of people are addicted to this kind of sex preferring it over Gods natural way. The Bible speaks of unnatural affection, unclean acts and just because it doesn’t say oral sex exactly doesn’t mean it’s not included. So what, are champagne showers, is that ok ( peeping on each other) , or licking in each other rectums, oh and anal sex is that ok as well because the Bible doesn’t say that it isn’t. It’s nasty! And let’s face it, the divorce rate is high even in so called Christian marriages. Can you imagine do all this to someone and doing it to different people over and over again because divorcing and remarrying as many times as you want is not a sin either right. It really depends on what minister you ask which is a shame and a sin God is going to hold them accountable for. Some where, Christian ministers have got to get on the same page with this stuff. Sin separates us from God and that’s Hell right. I forgot we don’t talk about Hell anymore it makes people uncomfortable. Just ask yourself this question and it should bring clarity to the truth. What is the natural function of a Vagina, Penis Rectum and Mouth. In closing, people always ask is oral sex a sin. I wonder why they don’t ask is it a sin to put my penis in my wife’s Vagina. Because, it’s clear they go together. You can’t mess that anatomy up unless you’re delusional which is what the world operates in these day a bunch of false beliefs. We have to pray for these teachers because Gods going to judge them in really serious way! Lord help us!
See the definition of sodomy in your dictionary or on Google you will thank me later
@@Rass7rasS Where does the word sodomy appear in the Bible? No where! It makes no sense to say the Bible forbids something based upon the definition of a word that is never used in the Bible.
@@trudewhite876 it is in reference to what took place in Sodom, the city
Point well taken. It feels great, but it is indeed a sin. A lot of things that feel great are actually not good for you. Rememer, 'the road to death & destruction is wide and accomodating. (It have room for plenty. However the road to righteousness is narrow😉
@@forward_ever_ever2595 it's a sin...it is uncleanness...
There is no defilement of the marriage bed
Excellent job
Hebrews 13:4 KJV
Once again people are quoting verses here against oral sex in irrelevance, none of those verses say anything against oral sex, if you have some integrity left in you come with a verse which supports your claim , don't play and twist God 's word. Out of context irrelevant verses are what most people putting up here to speak against oral sex which is totally good but only in marriage.
Sodomy is okay?
@@chrisnalina1755 homosexual relationship is sin. If that's what you wanted to mean with the word sodomy.
@@souvikguha The term sodomy also applies to heterosexual sex meaning any oral or anal sex. It is prohibited by God. And it does not matter if a person is married. It is NOT "totally good", in fact it is the opposite of that.
Look up the definition of sodomy and also check the Bible in terms of what it says about Sodomites.
Hi brother, please consider this: Oral sex is mentioned in the Bible it falls under sodomy. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples.
Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
@@chrisnalina1755"sodomy" doesn't exist in the bible. In the bible you have sodomite and a sodomite was a homosexual who engaged in anal sex.
"Sodomy is also oral sex" Sir no, that was added on to the word years later.