What I'm left wondering is if she's been molested as a child by a family member. Because that can lead to behavior like this, not having boundaries of this kind and not understanding that some things just aren't acceptable or healthy.
@@annika5893 that was the vibe I was getting as well. It wasn't directed at me, but my friend told me about how a friend she thought was her cousin (too much history to get into in a comment) told her "it's not sex if it's family, it's fine" when they were both 12. And I have a strong feeling that the niece may have been told something similar in the past. This sort of behavior doesn't come from nowhere, something plants the seed. Not excusing her actions, though. A victim of abuse can become an abuser. She needs serious therapy to get the help she needs
Re. Story 3: I’d frame the discussion with OPs dad as “I’m concerned Uncle has some sort of medical issue going on, like a brain tumour or dementia. He’s made graphic sexual comments and propositioned me, which is totally out of character for him. Someone needs to talk to him about seeing a doctor. Until we know what’s going on, I’m going to keep my distance”. If this truly did come out of nowhere, it’s possible that’s what has happened. And it gives OP a ‘delicate’ way to approach the issue.
OPs sister mocking her for not being able to carry to term is honestly horrifying, but honestly her sister needed that whiplash. I’m surprised OP didn’t say something sooner, but her sister is gunna remember that forever. Cold as ice, OP, but what a power move!
But she didn’t though, because rslash misread the post. She said “you shouldN’T be ashamed to be barren”. 16:30 for the time stamp. Probably shouldn’t have said ‘barren’, bad word choice, but of COURSE you’d try and refute those ideas, because she’s probably internalising them now. The sister would have to be blind not to see that
Karma came for the sister, and I hope karma comes for the other people that agreed with her. People who are so vile in this manner shouldn’t reproduce. The lack of empathy she had for her sister shows she would not have been a good parent at all. You can’t be a good parent without empathy.
@@itzTeTe best case scenario is that she learns from this and *never says this to anyone ever again*. Net positive for the world, she’ll be able to apologise to her sister, and she won’t beat herself up over something terrible and wrong (which yeah, you *specifically* prob wouldn’t care, with the whole ‘I don’t have empathy for people like this’ thing but I like to think people can change and shit just gets better for everyone) Also edit and completely unrelated but is this where I learn yt has a discord style text format system?? Why is some of my text bold from asterisks
@@itzTeTeI don't blame OP at all. I knew a grown woman with her sister's mentality. Let's call her Kelly. She always had to have her way. She had no respect for boundaries, zero comprehension of the word no being a completely valid response and no sense of accountability. Therefore she had no expectation of there being reprisals or consequences for her actions. If people wouldn't kowtow to her, tell her what she wanted to hear or simply disagreed with her or had a different opinion, she would interpret those people as being purposely mean to her. For context, imagine, if you will, a middle-aged woman with two grown children and was also a grandmother but had the emotional maturity of a spoiled five-year-old. Her first reaction whenever she didn't get her way or had a disagreement over something extremely petty or inane, was to talk crap about the other person. The end result was her usually throwing a temper tantrum that would have embarrassed a toddler. Eventually social media came around and she had a new source to get all the attention she ever desired. Naturally, Kelly being Kelly, she had a false sense of security that she could say and do whatever she wanted on whatever platform she was using without any fear of reprisals. Like with anything else in life, she didn't pay attention to the fine print. In this case, the terms and conditions of using said social media platform. She often got into flame wars in the comments section whenever someone disagreed with whatever paper thin argument she had. Read that as she only ever agreed with what was popular at the moment. Whenever anyone offered a rebuttal or told her she was wrong, she couldn't handle it. She would resort to personal attacks, name-calling and juvenile insults. I had to explain to her, shockingly, that what she was doing constituted libel. She refused to heed my warning and brushed me off. She was a former paralegal-in-training (I later found out that was a total lie) and she knew better. Well, to make a long story short she as well as everyone in a comment thread that were talking crap about someone's daughter were threatened with a libel suit. Kelly called me up flipping out. I wouldn't let her talk and simply said that I had warned her that her behavior was going to come back to bite her on her flabby butt. She said she had learned her lesson. I told her I didn't believe her and the next time she got herself into hot water I would remind her that she had claimed she had learned her lesson and would keep her nose clean. Naturally, if you're following along, I think you can figure out what happened next. The person she tried to screw over was me. Let's just say I went scorched earth on her and made her a pariah. Kelly is nothing but a lying grifter with zero skills or talent with no friends, no prospects and no contact with her grown children or grandchildren. Karma is a bitch.
In the last story, OP actually said she SHOULDN’T be ashamed of being barren. She literally wasn’t even as mean as her sister was but of course, sister can’t take it 😂 Classic dishing it but can’t take it
I mean, I'm planning to stay a single virgin forever. This doesn't mean, I'm not a real woman. Because I still see myself as a woman and am definitely not a figment of someones imagination. People need to learn better coping mechanisms. But I do think OP and the sister may both need therapy. I have issues too, which is why I'm currently in therapy. But yeah, people should never be shamed for not wanting or not being able to have kids. We have science for that now. I do hope we can make better robots at some point.
@@erima4270 To be fair to him, I make mistakes like that when reading aloud as well. Reading quietly to myself? No issues at all. Reading aloud? Somehow I make these kinds of silly or stupid mistakes.
In some ways it was more brutal this way. Phrasing it as if she was being comforting and supportive but at the same time grinding it home that sister's situation was completely hopeless, she would never have a child.
I love how we went from funny and wholesome stories about people helping others on accident to, “my husband is a pedophile and tried to cheat on me.” I started a fucking war
@@Milk-ck1wv Them being equally bad is exactly why people don't care about the distinction, it's just how language works. It's not wrong, it's just a reflection of our beliefs.
@@Milk-ck1wv Yeah and there are so many stories where it's the mother's boyfriend and the mother gets jealous and punishes the child for it. They pick any guy over the child, even letting the guy continue to rape the child to keep them sometimes. Of course later they claim they "didn't know" after doing so much damage to their own child.
Story 1: There's an infamous story about a Japanese girl whose misaligned spine was fixed because she got a large sex toy stuck in her. Absolutely wild.
Story 3: if your family actually tries to sweep under the rug that your biological uncle wants a sexual relationship with you, then people are not your family. That just disgusting the fact he not only asked but try to convince you. First of all collect all the proof you have and show your father first, not even the half decent man would let this s*** stand.
He's the uncle by marriage but still. Known OP since she was a young child. I do where why her family has spent decades living with the aunt and uncle. That's very unusual...
@@Milk-ck1wvit’s because the og commenter called him the biological uncle. Which he’s not, but it doesn’t make it any less disgusting and fucking creepy as hell. He’s still as much family as he would be by blood.
@@thefitnessgrampacertest5732 from op’s post I genuinely think this was her trying to refute her sisters belief for her sisters sake, and not a dish. So maybe accidental on op’s part, I’d argue the universe making her infertile was the biggest ‘dish’
My dad's nose was broken by his brother, and 10 years later during a rugby match he got his nose broken again and could finally breathe normally for the first time in years
Here ya go Rslash, another story! My mom had bursitis in her hip that required steroid shots and physical therapy to continuously treat. One day, she tripped in the basement and landed on her knees on the concrete floor. She's had no more hip bursitis issues since then! Even her doctors are amazed!
Last story; OP wasn't cold as ice. She literally said the sister SHOULDN'T feel barren because of this. She literally killed her with kindness while letting her know she had heard the cruel things the sidter had said back then. OP is a very, very kind person. She deserves all the best. I hope she and her husband can have their child and have a long, fulfilling and wonderful life with their kid/s.
"Several months ago he asked if I would consider an "open relationship" - this is the point where I get divorced. It's not an "no, I want to stay monogamous" it's "this is something you want, enjoy yourself, I'm leaving.". Also, 40 something and 18 is not okay in my book, I get 18 is legal, but to me it's disgusting. I'm 34 and even women in their early 20s seem like children to me.
It is bad enough he wants an 18 year old-but an 18 year old they knew since the boy was a kid. This makes me think grooming and pedophilia is involved. Friends, family, and CHILDREN of friends or family is a straight up RED FLAG
I hope the family friend and the son get a restraining order agains OPs spouse. He’s wrong on so many levels. Being bisexual isn’t justification to be a predator. He’s a predator hiding behind his sexuality.
Yep, and when someone asks for an open relationship, they’re asking so they don’t feel guilty anymore or so they no longer have to hide things. But could you really trust them to be faithful just because you didn’t go along with the idea of an open relationship? More than likely, they’ll just cheat anyway. At that point, the two of you just want different things.
Story 2 (Foster 18yr Old): The revelation that the guy OP's husband tried to sleep with was an 18yr old foster kid of a mutual friend (wow that's a mouthful) really made things worse. Like, the possibility exists that the husband had been making these texts even before the guy was 18, so yeah everyone needs to run Story 3 (Creepy Uncle): And this. The family NEEDS to do something about OP's Uncle, because someone else could get hurt by this creep, and sweeping it under the rug would just indirectly enable him. If the family won't take OP's side, then she needs to run and cut off from the rest.
@@mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072 some people you just know. My ex told me my younger brother was gay when he was maybe 13 or 14. In hindsight he had quite stereotypically mannerisms. I just hadn't given it much thought, but yes, he came out as gay and has been with his life partner for 20 years. It's entirely possible the husband knew the lad was gay, but a whole carnival of red flags.
@@disgruntledmum4916 Sure Jan. You can’t just know.. stereotypical mannerisms are just invented by haters. Also, what’s a life partner? Aha. You’re acting like they spend so much time together when they aren’t even related ! The fact of the matter is, we don’t know a lot of other things.
Story 5: nope, the sister absolutely deserved to hear her own words repeated back to her. That was the PERFECT moment for that lesson to come home to roost. She is taking it badly because she is taking it to heart. She needs to unlearn her own cruelty, and that was a lesson she'll never forget.
An Ob.Gyn told me that people really underestimate the average miscarriage rate. She said it pains her to see her patients get excited from day 1, even though, that early, a good third of them will end up grieving. When OP said they tried to do "everything right", it broke my heart. We need better global education.
I know that feeling all to well. I have a very rare condition im highly fertile and get pregnant very easy while on contraception, and I'm not talking about been on the pill as anyone can mess that up 🙄 I'm talking about been on depo injection and the implant, im actually on both the implant and the pill at the moment !!. However my body has a sick personality as i also don't produce enough hormone to keep baby in place, and as a result I misscarry usually by 12 weeks. I've had 14 pregnancies, 2 of them actually did give me children, however I didn't do pregnancy very well I got to 31 weeks with my first and 26 weeks with my second. I was shocked I carried at all but my drs think I was actually carrying twins and lost one tricking my body into sort of carrying my kids. When I say I don't produce enough hormone I have never had a positive pregnancy test result even 20 minutes before the delivery of my kids !! Although that did have its perks as I didn't get any pregnancy issues such as morning sickness etc. People.have no idea just how heart breaking it is to have a misscarrige or how common it is. Ok, my condition is very, very rare, one in a million rare. I've had people say well you lost it before 12 weeks so it's not really a baby until I point out actually a 12 week gestation misscarrige is actually a very very small perfectly formed baby, that usually has a shocked result. I couldn't imagine working in a job where I would be seeing women who go through this and seeing that situation over and over again that would be beyond heartbreaking, I truly don't know how they do it. 😢
Story 3: OP needs to have another conversation with her Uncle, this time with a hidden recording device. She needs to get proof of what he’s saying. Then present it to her Dad.
For the last story, it really is karma. To say that someone is less of a woman because they can't have a child is downright horrible. I wouldn't even blame op if she went to just mock her for not being able to even have a child. It's only fair
OP wasn’t mocking though because rSlash misread the post. OP said she should NOT be ashamed of being barren. OP was trying to kill with kindness and not mocking.
Tbh I think OP went a little low, but I think it would’ve been better to add a “Those were your words wasn’t it? Now you truly understand what I went through”
Story 1: A similar story happened with MY MOM!! She had a crooked nose she didn’t like. When my brother was a toddler, he kicked off his shoe. Somehow, he flung it hard enough it flew across the room and hit my mom in the face. Slammed her nose, and probably broke it. It has been perfectly straight ever since.
Story 1 : That boyfriend is a straight Dawg.. he literally slapped op into an alternate dimension... Story 2 : as Dierks bently says in one of his songs " 5-1-5-0 somebody call the popo yeah yeah yeah " well op you know what you need to do.. my youngest kid is 19 and if i found out anyone tried to sexually advance on him without his consent ohhh boy they won't have any jaw.. Story 3 : Ahhhhh WHAT THE ACTUAL FRANK And BEANS kind of "uncle" is this.. op shouldve counterproposed to putting 3 bullets in his head and chest .. next time you talk to the creepy bastard record him just so his "reputation " doesnt hold up.. Story 4 : yooooo Wtf is this a cletus and brandien spuckler story ?? Story 5 : File sexual Harrasment charges against donna and just Harrasment against the monster in law.. Story 6 : Karma is a stitch.. lol now thats really funny..
She needs to tell on her uncle who knows how long he's been wanting incest he needs to be watched around other kids in the family. The husband texted a friend's son he's known for years also needs to be watched.
I mean… I have TMJ and had issues most of my life. One day an older kid started trying to bully my autistic toddler at the park. I told him that’s not ok, and if he doesn’t want to play with us and his little sister that would be ok, but he would have to be kind to keep playing with us and our toys. The kid yelled and the mom ran over full Karen mode, after not looking up from her phone for the past hour, and tried to yell at me and my son. Being a veteran and a mama bear, I yelled back in my DS voice. She hit me in the face with her oversized purse as hard as she could. I tackled her and held her until the police nearby made it into the play area fence, only like 2-3 minutes. At this point her kids were both crying and my son was blowing bubbles happily. I realized that night after icing my jaw that I could flex it without stiffness. No, I did not press charges (though I didn’t have to since it was in front of police), but I did speak for her husband during their custody hearing.
*First OP:* OP's boyfriend slapped OP's jaw into alignment? Sounds like a keeper! Side note: as someone who experiences "Too Much Jaw" (lol), it hurts like heck. If someone could slap my jaws into alignment, I'd appreciate it. *Second OP:* What in Jerry Springer's (RIP) name? If the situation mentioned in the update is what I think it is, I hope OP's friends "take care of" OP's STBX. Best of luck to OP and the young man. *Third OP:* OP's uncle knew OP since she was 7, and wants to have relations with her?! OP _should_ raise a stink! If her family _does_ sweep this under the rug, then OP needs to cut off contact and let _them_ figure out their new living arrangements. I also agree with rSlash's advice that OP should tell her dad. If for nothing else, so that her dad would go Papa Wolf on the creepy uncle. *Fourth OP:* Sounds like OP's husband needs to go No/low contact with his family. And the family needs to get Donna some help because ... 😧 *Fifth OP:* You know what they say about karma. :/ When OP mentioned her husband and her sister, I thought the the story would be about her catching them having an affair. I must be jaded.
I even have a story to share for the first story. A friend of mine, a diabetic, collapsed and hit his head one day, and lost his sense of taste and smell for quite a few years. Then, about a year before he unfortunately died, he again collapsed, hit his head, and suddenly fixed his smell and taste issues. The look on his face when he realized that he could smile again was like a kid in a candy store. I miss that man greatly.
Hopefully. They knew that boy since he was young, so her husband could’ve been grooming a little here and there over the years. The fact he was “talking” with him, someone he’s known, and not some other guy he met online or something makes the difference to me. He’s taking advantage of his position as an authority figure towards someone who has probably trusted him.
Something happened to my mom like the first story. She had gotten into a fight years ago, and it caused a small part of her nose bone to lodge into her brain. Then, a screen door fell on her face while she was reinstalling it. And she swears to god that it pulled her nose down a bit because she immediately fell to the ground and screamed in pain. After 20 mins, she walks around with a gleeful step and says that her headache is finally gone! Strange happenings.
This whole uncle thing kinda happened to me too. He wasnt technically my uncle. He was my aunt's brother. He didn't propose sex but wanted to date. Ick. I had known him my whole life and was totally creeped out. My lovely mother didn't what the big deal was because he had a good job. Unreal
15:46 confronting, not comforting. OP didn’t call out her sister and friends for the hurtful things they were saying about her behind her back. 16:32 shouldn’t be ashamed, OP‘s post made it clear that while she didn’t directly insult her sister, she made it very clear that she knew what the sister said about her and that’s the part that made things awkward. OP wasn’t being savage back, but she did dish out some humble pie to her sister. Edit: there might’ve been a little bit of coldness in OP’s words.
Yeah, thanks! I came here rinse OP for being as awful as her Sister. When a misread line completely changes the context of a story I think it's time for a do over.
Have to admit, I know you're using "Bro" as a general term for guy, but after two stories about incest today from Rslash, I legit was worried if you thought the first story OP was having rough sex with her brother. XD
I had a root canal this week that was complicated by the fact that I physically couldn't get my mouth to open as much as it usually can because of my TMJ issues and let me tell you I've genuinely never been as jealous of someone as I am of op in the first story lmao
My husband's 40yr old nephew found out about my 20yr old daughters OF. He's known her since she was 9. I was absolutely disgusted. 2 years before that, he and his wife asked her to be their nanny, living in their home. We agreed she wouldn't do it. Not only would they take advantage of her, I knew that creep would hit on her. Men make me sick.
First story reminds me of the scene from ATLA where Ozai slams Aang against a rock at just the right angle and it completely realigns his body and spirit and enables him to reach his full potential as the Avatar.
I hate people who are under this delusion that just because you didn’t act on those feelings, that means that your partner doesn’t have a right to be upset at you for having those feelings at all
It’s OKAY to be upset it’s not okay to guilt your partner or make them feel like THEY are wrong for their feelings. You both are having feelings you can’t help, it’s what you then do about them that make it wrong. It’s not wrong to have un-asked-for feelings and it’s not wrong fr your partner to feel jealous or insecure about it. It’s the actions you both follow up with that matter.
@@The_Great_Depression Exactly this. You can't control your feelings (much), only what you do about them. And that husband was very clearly acting on those feelings, so the anger is absolutely justified
@@insu_na Yeah, emotional regulation is very difficult to master. As someone born with very little emotional control (autism), I can say you can learn to regulate emotions. But it's super hard to do. So I wouldn't hold it against anyone if they felt a certain way. It's what they do with those feelings that counts.
Last story : karma is a bitch and so is OP's sister. "How did you deal with it?" Not trashing, laughing and mocking the person who is the victim with other people is ideal 🤡
Story 3: 🥴 goodness gracious. I was going to suggest maybe the uncle is slipping into dementia lmao but the fact that he mixed in how they’d hide it from their significant others feels very coherent. YIKES.
Story 3, phone in pocket recording. Ask him if he was joking around, get it all on tape/video. If your family doesn't back you up, get out and get a restraining order on that creeper.
Something similar happened to Mr. Incredible, he was fighting a big robot. In one moment of the fight, he hurt his back and when the robot was trying to kill him, it fixes his back.
Rslash guessing that TMJ meant "too much jaw" had me cracking up. I'm so glad that story turned out wholesomely. Also huh my FIL has that same story with the brother who broke his nose once and then broke it back in the other direction o_O Not perfectly aligned, you can still tell, but apparently it was much worse before the second fight. Weird!
That last story though... My sister and brother in law tried several time using the natural way and invented twice only for investor to show signs of taking but failing a few weeks in both times. Sever years later and I now have a 7 year old nephew they adopted at birth and I find myself as worried as any parent with him in 2nd grade hoping another Uvalde or Sandy Hook doesn't happen to his school. He is no less a part of family to me, my sister and brother in law and my parents. If I overherad someone talking like that about my sister after one invetro failed, I'd go off on them like no tomorriw.
Last story, idk if im hearing it right but i think rslash had a little brain fart, he read it as: ''she should be ashamed of herself for being barren'' with the karen voice, when OP said: ''she shouldn't be ashamed of being barren'' so OP wasnt THAT brutal
i have tried something like the first story. I am a hunter and back when i was getting a shotgun license (a requirement in my country) i kinda messed up my shoulder using a shotgun which had had its stock twisted for left shoulder but over time had twisted back to right, this made my shoulder slightly bad as in it would do those small clicks sometimes but did not hurt. Fast forward a year and i'm skiing in Austria somewhere when i fall with all my weight on my bad shoulder and hear a SNAP. I was afraid it might be broken and when i checked nothing wrong and i later realised it no longer made those clicking noises. Guess it somehow fixed my bad shoulder? :P
My husky had the zoomies and headbutt my dad square in the nose. We heard a CRUNCH and thought 'we're gonna have to take him to the hospital at some point'. By the next day, he yelled "SHE FIXED MY NOSE!" Turns out, Ocean straightened his nose out. Didn't fix the snoring, but she got extra treats that day
"If somone is sick, just start beating them around" made me laugh so hard. Makes me wonder if someone should punch me in the gut, it just might fix my tummy issues......
The Creepy Uncle Story: She needs to tell someone about him trying to sleep with her, if hes doing that to her he's definitely doing it to her younger siblings that are still living with him...
I used to have an extreme overbite and overjet. Basically it looked like I had crooked beaver teeth. One day I got mugged. The guy jumped me from behind, and I landed mouth first on the pavement. The pain was unreal! Pushed my teeth back and chipped them, so I had to get them filed down. Now it looks like I had braces. My teeth are nice and straight and normal sized. 😁
This first story makes me think that I need to ask my fiance to hit me in the face, too. My jaw's been off since elementary school due to a bully punching me, and I was told I'd need surgery where it's broken in 4 places if I want it fixed. (13 years ago, mind you.) I can't open my mouth wide, and if I do, I feel one side sliding out of it's hinge.
The incest posts make me think of my situation. My father figure was a guy I went to church with. I called him my dad, his wife was my second mom, and their sons are my younger brothers. When I was 18/19, I found out that my "dad" had a crush on me since I was FIFTEEN. It was a horrendous revelation, and I'm still grossed out to this day. I don't talk to him or his (now ex) wife anymore. But I try to stay in touch with my younger brothers, who are (thankfully) not like their dad in that regard.
When I started having tmj issues, my coworker suggested getting punched cause he knew someone in the Army who had gotten better after a fight. After hearing these stories, I wish I had tried it... too late for me. The disk was stuck for years, causing a hole in the cartridge. I am 99% sure a good slap wont fix that 😂
The last story: I kept seeing posts on r/sh*tmomgroupssay that was exactly what the sister said about OP. They also claim that you’re a real mom if you have a c-section birth or bottle feed. OP was perfectly savage in her response.
Last story: I hear stories about women having 10+ miscarriages and wonder to myself why they would continue to torture themselves and don’t just accept that they weren’t meant to have children. OP was wise to accept it. Those other people are just horrible, and I have absolutely no sympathy for the sister.
According to my mom because there’s hope the next one would be it she had 4 miscarriages. One after I was born and before she had my younger brother, then the other three almost back to back after my little sister was born and before my baby brother. My cousin also added she always wanted a baby and experience motherhood and pregnancy and she had 3 or 4 miscarriages and one stillborn before she had her miracle baby. So I think it’s hope that but even then hope can sometimes be the most cruelest thing people can have. Personally after 2 miscarriages I would’ve just stop and get I won’t be having a baby (even though I never want kids).
Honestly I think Rslash should have 1 video per week that is just pure wholesome and funny stories instead of what we usually get (unless he already does that and I’m just being dumb)
Story 5: OP said she “SHOULDN’T” be ashamed, that was misread. I think that was a beautifully subtle way of saying, “hindsight’s 20/20, huh sis?” People also need to understand that more pregnancies end in miscarriage than in viable fetuses, and even then miscarriage is super common before 13 weeks. Growing a human inside of us is a very complex process and our bodies sometimes need time to get it right. That’s not a reason to keep trying if you’re physically and emotionally drained, but it’s definitely a reason not to blame yourself.
That gross uncle story reminds me so much of my stepfather, who told me, when I was around 23, that he would like to sleep with me and has wet dreams about me. He was my father figure since I was 4 years old, and it grossed me out so much that I stopped trusting him ever since. I tried to brush it off and ignore this knowledge, but whenever I sat next to him, he would touch my legs. I told my mother about it, and she said she'd talk to him. The same evening, he came to me and yelled at me for telling her, but at least he never mentioned it again. I still make sure to always be fully clothed when I'm in the same house with him, tho, as he still sometimes tries to touch me a bit more intimate than a father should, so I know he's still having these thoughts.
Don't ever dismiss family members who are accused of being creepy. It needs to be addressed no matter the situation. I have a creepy family member and I was told "he's just being nice." Spoiler alert: he was an abusive creep.
So I hear all of the stories of getting hit hard and feeling better afterwards. I play Roller Derby which is a full contact sport, and sometimes I tell my teammates to hit me really hard to crack my neck and back in one go. I call it "Roller Derby Adjustments" it feels amazing.
When i was ypunger my teeth were so janked that they gave me jaw problems, open my mouth too wide and it would lock, youre now telling me that instead of paying 2k for braces i could have just had some kid punch me in the face??
Story 1: A lot of us have weird physical issues that can easily be solved by a good hard whack. 😂 Story 4: If Donna and her parents keep pestering your family, cut all contact with them because they aren't worth it. 🙅
Last story: it was ice Cold by can't say I blame OP, she took joya out of her sisters misery, and insulted her when she was in the same house, I did she's going through something but it's kind of hard to feel bad for the sister when she have no room to talk.
16:30 and the op is even MORE of a saint because she didn’t actually throw it back in her face. Rslash misread it, she said “you shouldn’t feel bad” not “you SHOULD feel bad”
Story 5 (Miscarriages): Man, the "Real woman" joke was pretty disgusting. Like, OP was having miscarriages, so she took surrogacy, why is the sister insulting her for that? And then karma strikes and the SISTER starts having miscarriage problems. Well, I think the conversation where OP brings up the "Real woman" thing is just an example of "Don't dish it if you can't take it." Maybe the sister was jealous at the time or something, but man that joke was NASTY
Last story, wow was that savage AF. But also F that sister. Don't throw stones when you live in a glass house. All OP really did was reminded the sister of her own judgmental BS. Her feelings are hurt because now she's applying her views to herself and understanding how they made her sister feel. She deserved that reality check. Maybe she'll learn from it and become a better person with more empathy going forward.
First story: I had something similar, but with my chiropractor 😂 I had TMJ w/jaw clicking, pain, etc for about ten years. One time I mentioned it to my chiropractor, and he brought out this little device and gave my jaw a huge “THUNK.” Fixed, and never returned!!! (Been about 8y since)
The story regarding the fertility issues was... rough, for several reasons. I've always felt incredibly uncomfortable listening to "revenge stories", and even on a smaller scale like this it felt so... unneccesary. Yes, the sister was BEYOND horrible having said what the said, but here she was given a unique opportunity to reflect on how she acted in the past with her newfound empathy, and in her moment of weakness OP chose to get that revenge instead of talk about it. I'm not saying she didn't deserve it, she certainly did! But, I just can't help but think of what could've been if she didn't. Hopefully, the two of them will have an open, honest talk about it later, and hopefully the sister will get a chance to apologize and reconnect.
I really wanna know if this comment was made with the knowledge that rslash misread the post and said ‘should’ instead of ‘shouldn’t’ at the end. I haven’t been able to find any comments talking about it
@@ellaelf5055 the more comments there are the more likely people will see them? Idk, I hope he makes a pinned comment with clarification because this ONE slipup just completely changed the story. He says usernames! That could get dicy for the op
@@Need2disconnect I did notice that before writing my comment, yes. Him misreading that part of the post was a bit painful though haha, it definitely made OP seem a lot harsher than she was.
Similar story to #1- But it actually saved my life instead of just fixing something. When my brother and I were younger (him about 13 and me 6-7), it was the 1980s. He had one of this toys that when you pulled a string, the toy would fly off and fly around the room. He was mad at me and aimed in my direction. It hit me and actually cut off the end of my nose. Blood everywhere and the tip of my nose just sitting on the floor. My mom heard me crying, scooped me (and the piece of my nose) up, and drove us straight to the ER. The doctor said they couldn’t reattach it, but then he looked closer at the piece and pulled out a little magnifying glass and flashlight. He said it looked suspicious, and sent it off to be biopsied. Turns out the doctor was a dermatologist doing an ER rotation as part of his continuing education. And that piece that was cut off- turned out to be skin cancer. I had to go back to see him, but the piece actually had clear borders, so I was cancer free! And since it was cancer, insurance covered reconstruction surgery, so you can’t even tell it happened (except it turns white when I get really hot, red, and sweaty).
RE the woman with the perverted uncle.... if he has such a great reputation, you're going to need proof. Set him up somehow to 'discuss the situation' and record every second of it. But do it in a safe public place like a restaurant, not in his car some evening.
Last Story: OP said her sister SHOULD NOT be ashamed. The story was way less 'savage' than that. OP still tried to help her despite what the sister said
First story: If I had a nickle for everytime I'd heard of someone geting the hell knocked out of them fixed their body alignment issues i'd have a whole quarter. Which isn't much but that's way weirder than how that phrase usually goes!
First story: I had a similar thing myself. I had a septum deviation for a long while, but never thought in doing surgery to fix it because it wasn't annoying or necessary. Well, one day I was at the bus, the driver had to do a sudden brake because someone tried to cross the street on front of it, and I literally flew through most of the bus' corridor and fell face-flat; I broke my nose, and my face was a mess for a while, but when it healed... NO MORE SEPTUM DEVIATION. After it broke, it healed back in the position it should be normally, without the deviation. I even joked with my cousin when he did the surgery to fix his own septum deviation I could simply 'hit him in the face and save him the surgery's money.
I have a somewhat similar story to ones in the beginning. Around 2 years ago, I was cleaning the back area of the house, because my dog used it to do necessities. Now, in the coutry that I live, grassy backyards are not common in cities and the one we had had a tiled floor that go really slippery with water. If you hadn't guessed, while I was finishing and hosing the floor, I slipped, feel on my butt and, because I put my arms behind my back to catch myself, one of shoulders dislocated. I was screaming in pain and yelling for my parents to come, because it hurt just to move, but my dad was taking a while to come. While he was coming down, I tried to get up so I could get closer to the door and shoulder just popped back in place, and other than hurting for a couple days, it was just fine.
My mom (almost 50 now) used to have a knee that clicked when she walked. One day when she was walking it suddenly hurt a lot, and since then it hasn't clicked at all or hurt. It's really amazing how our bodies can just magically realign themselves from getting hit or improperly distributing weight
People who have dislocated body parts getting slapped and magically fixed is the equivalent to slapping a broken TV to make it work
I have TMJ, maybe I should get into sports/BDSM/a fight with a family…
I used to have a Gameboy you had to occasionnally throw across the room to fix 🤷🏼♀️
Why is this so underrated?😂😂😂
@@sugarkane1571bdsm with a family seems more fun honestly
Yes, percurssive maintenance works!
"She's had issues with incest in the past" is a WILD statement. Especially knowing the context that it was consensual. What the hell
fr. ew
What I'm left wondering is if she's been molested as a child by a family member. Because that can lead to behavior like this, not having boundaries of this kind and not understanding that some things just aren't acceptable or healthy.
@@annika5893 that was the vibe I was getting as well.
It wasn't directed at me, but my friend told me about how a friend she thought was her cousin (too much history to get into in a comment) told her "it's not sex if it's family, it's fine" when they were both 12. And I have a strong feeling that the niece may have been told something similar in the past. This sort of behavior doesn't come from nowhere, something plants the seed.
Not excusing her actions, though. A victim of abuse can become an abuser. She needs serious therapy to get the help she needs
Alabama moment
Welcome to grooming.
Re. Story 3: I’d frame the discussion with OPs dad as “I’m concerned Uncle has some sort of medical issue going on, like a brain tumour or dementia. He’s made graphic sexual comments and propositioned me, which is totally out of character for him. Someone needs to talk to him about seeing a doctor. Until we know what’s going on, I’m going to keep my distance”. If this truly did come out of nowhere, it’s possible that’s what has happened. And it gives OP a ‘delicate’ way to approach the issue.
Brother: **Punches OP in the nose**
OP: "Thanks for fixing my nose."
Brother: **Visible Confusion**
*percussive maintenance*
OPs sister mocking her for not being able to carry to term is honestly horrifying, but honestly her sister needed that whiplash. I’m surprised OP didn’t say something sooner, but her sister is gunna remember that forever. Cold as ice, OP, but what a power move!
But she didn’t though, because rslash misread the post. She said “you shouldN’T be ashamed to be barren”. 16:30 for the time stamp. Probably shouldn’t have said ‘barren’, bad word choice, but of COURSE you’d try and refute those ideas, because she’s probably internalising them now. The sister would have to be blind not to see that
Karma came for the sister, and I hope karma comes for the other people that agreed with her.
People who are so vile in this manner shouldn’t reproduce. The lack of empathy she had for her sister shows she would not have been a good parent at all. You can’t be a good parent without empathy.
@@itzTeTe best case scenario is that she learns from this and *never says this to anyone ever again*. Net positive for the world, she’ll be able to apologise to her sister, and she won’t beat herself up over something terrible and wrong (which yeah, you *specifically* prob wouldn’t care, with the whole ‘I don’t have empathy for people like this’ thing but I like to think people can change and shit just gets better for everyone)
Also edit and completely unrelated but is this where I learn yt has a discord style text format system?? Why is some of my text bold from asterisks
@@itzTeTeI don't blame OP at all. I knew a grown woman with her sister's mentality. Let's call her Kelly. She always had to have her way. She had no respect for boundaries, zero comprehension of the word no being a completely valid response and no sense of accountability. Therefore she had no expectation of there being reprisals or consequences for her actions. If people wouldn't kowtow to her, tell her what she wanted to hear or simply disagreed with her or had a different opinion, she would interpret those people as being purposely mean to her. For context, imagine, if you will, a middle-aged woman with two grown children and was also a grandmother but had the emotional maturity of a spoiled five-year-old. Her first reaction whenever she didn't get her way or had a disagreement over something extremely petty or inane, was to talk crap about the other person. The end result was her usually throwing a temper tantrum that would have embarrassed a toddler. Eventually social media came around and she had a new source to get all the attention she ever desired. Naturally, Kelly being Kelly, she had a false sense of security that she could say and do whatever she wanted on whatever platform she was using without any fear of reprisals. Like with anything else in life, she didn't pay attention to the fine print. In this case, the terms and conditions of using said social media platform. She often got into flame wars in the comments section whenever someone disagreed with whatever paper thin argument she had. Read that as she only ever agreed with what was popular at the moment. Whenever anyone offered a rebuttal or told her she was wrong, she couldn't handle it. She would resort to personal attacks, name-calling and juvenile insults. I had to explain to her, shockingly, that what she was doing constituted libel. She refused to heed my warning and brushed me off. She was a former paralegal-in-training (I later found out that was a total lie) and she knew better. Well, to make a long story short she as well as everyone in a comment thread that were talking crap about someone's daughter were threatened with a libel suit. Kelly called me up flipping out. I wouldn't let her talk and simply said that I had warned her that her behavior was going to come back to bite her on her flabby butt. She said she had learned her lesson. I told her I didn't believe her and the next time she got herself into hot water I would remind her that she had claimed she had learned her lesson and would keep her nose clean. Naturally, if you're following along, I think you can figure out what happened next. The person she tried to screw over was me. Let's just say I went scorched earth on her and made her a pariah. Kelly is nothing but a lying grifter with zero skills or talent with no friends, no prospects and no contact with her grown children or grandchildren. Karma is a bitch.
@@Need2disconnect I came to sau exactly this, lol! But I think you're the only other person who noticed. 😂
In the last story, OP actually said she SHOULDN’T be ashamed of being barren. She literally wasn’t even as mean as her sister was but of course, sister can’t take it 😂 Classic dishing it but can’t take it
Yeah Rslash misread a lot of words in this one-- like I think he said "comforting" when the post actually said "confronting. " Hope he's ok
I mean, I'm planning to stay a single virgin forever. This doesn't mean, I'm not a real woman. Because I still see myself as a woman and am definitely not a figment of someones imagination. People need to learn better coping mechanisms. But I do think OP and the sister may both need therapy. I have issues too, which is why I'm currently in therapy. But yeah, people should never be shamed for not wanting or not being able to have kids. We have science for that now. I do hope we can make better robots at some point.
@@erima4270 To be fair to him, I make mistakes like that when reading aloud as well. Reading quietly to myself? No issues at all. Reading aloud? Somehow I make these kinds of silly or stupid mistakes.
In some ways it was more brutal this way. Phrasing it as if she was being comforting and supportive but at the same time grinding it home that sister's situation was completely hopeless, she would never have a child.
@@erima4270 He evn thought the creepy uncle in the uncle story was the mom's brother when OP explicitly said he was her mom's sister's husband.
“TMJ. too much jaw?” Only rslash can think of that 😭
seems about right XD
My mother had TMJ. It was caused by being punched from her first husband. She had to have experimental surgery in the 1970's
My fianceé has TMJ and I give her shit about it being Too Much Jawjacking
My first thought upon seeing TMJ was trigeminal neuralgia. One of the most painful conditions out there.
@@gandydancer823 “experimental surgery” is the worst sounding kind of surgery. Was she okay??
I love how we went from funny and wholesome stories about people helping others on accident to, “my husband is a pedophile and tried to cheat on me.”
I started a fucking war
idk if this counts as pedophilia but there is another word for people that go after specifically teenagers
What do you mean wholesome those were mostly fights with family that lead to 'dis'location
@@Milk-ck1wvHonestly , I don't care to specify. Either way he was abusing his authority and relationship with a very young guy, and it's disgusting.
@@madeline6951Well duh but you need to use the correct terms and not mix them up just because they are both equally as bad.
@@Milk-ck1wv Them being equally bad is exactly why people don't care about the distinction, it's just how language works. It's not wrong, it's just a reflection of our beliefs.
It grosses me out that OP is being sexually harassed by her uncle and just wouldn’t be believed, I’m really hoping her dad believes and helps her.
I think they would believe her and then pretend it didn't happen to keep the peace in the family as they are dependant on that uncle.
@@Iflieunfortunately that’s the likely scenario.
Its so mf weird how so many families will assault kids or family members and then protect those creeps
@@Milk-ck1wv Yeah and there are so many stories where it's the mother's boyfriend and the mother gets jealous and punishes the child for it. They pick any guy over the child, even letting the guy continue to rape the child to keep them sometimes.
Of course later they claim they "didn't know" after doing so much damage to their own child.
Hope the dad Mortal Kombat's the uncle.
Story 1: There's an infamous story about a Japanese girl whose misaligned spine was fixed because she got a large sex toy stuck in her. Absolutely wild.
The dragon one ?
God damn
I know, I adore how ridiculous it is!
@@TheKoriKasai i once had f**ked my bf at the time, and she corrected a fucking back problem I haf
YOU'RE LYINGGGG/playful
Story 3: if your family actually tries to sweep under the rug that your biological uncle wants a sexual relationship with you, then people are not your family. That just disgusting the fact he not only asked but try to convince you. First of all collect all the proof you have and show your father first, not even the half decent man would let this s*** stand.
He's the uncle by marriage but still. Known OP since she was a young child. I do where why her family has spent decades living with the aunt and uncle. That's very unusual...
@@fdm2155idk why the way he joined the family cares
Story one: percussive maintenance for the win
@@Milk-ck1wvit’s because the og commenter called him the biological uncle. Which he’s not, but it doesn’t make it any less disgusting and fucking creepy as hell. He’s still as much family as he would be by blood.
Yeah that's disgusting as f***. If my uncle did that s*** my mom and dad would beat the living crap out of him.
Last story: absolutely justified. That woman is a classic case of someone who can dish it out but can't handle it coming back to them in return.
16:30 too bad it’s not a real dish, because rslash misread the post. She said “you shouldn’t feel bad” not “should”
@@Need2disconnectnah it’s still dished out. When someone speaks like that you immediately assume they’re being sarcastic
@@thefitnessgrampacertest5732 from op’s post I genuinely think this was her trying to refute her sisters belief for her sisters sake, and not a dish. So maybe accidental on op’s part, I’d argue the universe making her infertile was the biggest ‘dish’
@@Need2disconnect- Absolutely this. I got the impression she was trying to tell her sister “it’s not all bad, that belief is wrong”.
My dad's nose was broken by his brother, and 10 years later during a rugby match he got his nose broken again and could finally breathe normally for the first time in years
Dude is this just a UK thing? (Or I guess you could be in multiple other countries playing rugby.) But my FIL has basically the same story!
Here ya go Rslash, another story! My mom had bursitis in her hip that required steroid shots and physical therapy to continuously treat. One day, she tripped in the basement and landed on her knees on the concrete floor. She's had no more hip bursitis issues since then! Even her doctors are amazed!
Last story; OP wasn't cold as ice. She literally said the sister SHOULDN'T feel barren because of this. She literally killed her with kindness while letting her know she had heard the cruel things the sidter had said back then.
OP is a very, very kind person. She deserves all the best. I hope she and her husband can have their child and have a long, fulfilling and wonderful life with their kid/s.
That's what I was going to point out. I'm glad a few other people noticed it too
I'm late to the party but I was also going to say this haha
"Several months ago he asked if I would consider an "open relationship" - this is the point where I get divorced. It's not an "no, I want to stay monogamous" it's "this is something you want, enjoy yourself, I'm leaving.". Also, 40 something and 18 is not okay in my book, I get 18 is legal, but to me it's disgusting. I'm 34 and even women in their early 20s seem like children to me.
It is bad enough he wants an 18 year old-but an 18 year old they knew since the boy was a kid.
This makes me think grooming and pedophilia is involved.
Friends, family, and CHILDREN of friends or family is a straight up RED FLAG
Yeah. There’s legal and then there’s moral. Not always the same thing
I hope the family friend and the son get a restraining order agains OPs spouse. He’s wrong on so many levels. Being bisexual isn’t justification to be a predator. He’s a predator hiding behind his sexuality.
Yep, and when someone asks for an open relationship, they’re asking so they don’t feel guilty anymore or so they no longer have to hide things. But could you really trust them to be faithful just because you didn’t go along with the idea of an open relationship? More than likely, they’ll just cheat anyway. At that point, the two of you just want different things.
Yeah, at that point, chances are, he's already cheated.
Story 2 (Foster 18yr Old): The revelation that the guy OP's husband tried to sleep with was an 18yr old foster kid of a mutual friend (wow that's a mouthful) really made things worse. Like, the possibility exists that the husband had been making these texts even before the guy was 18, so yeah everyone needs to run
Story 3 (Creepy Uncle): And this. The family NEEDS to do something about OP's Uncle, because someone else could get hurt by this creep, and sweeping it under the rug would just indirectly enable him. If the family won't take OP's side, then she needs to run and cut off from the rest.
Before he knew he was gay?
@@mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072 some people you just know. My ex told me my younger brother was gay when he was maybe 13 or 14. In hindsight he had quite stereotypically mannerisms. I just hadn't given it much thought, but yes, he came out as gay and has been with his life partner for 20 years. It's entirely possible the husband knew the lad was gay, but a whole carnival of red flags.
@@disgruntledmum4916 Sure Jan. You can’t just know.. stereotypical mannerisms are just invented by haters. Also, what’s a life partner? Aha.
You’re acting like they spend so much time together when they aren’t even related ! The fact of the matter is, we don’t know a lot of other things.
Story 5: nope, the sister absolutely deserved to hear her own words repeated back to her. That was the PERFECT moment for that lesson to come home to roost. She is taking it badly because she is taking it to heart. She needs to unlearn her own cruelty, and that was a lesson she'll never forget.
Who even NEEDS enemies, when they got families like these?!
An Ob.Gyn told me that people really underestimate the average miscarriage rate. She said it pains her to see her patients get excited from day 1, even though, that early, a good third of them will end up grieving. When OP said they tried to do "everything right", it broke my heart. We need better global education.
I know that feeling all to well. I have a very rare condition im highly fertile and get pregnant very easy while on contraception, and I'm not talking about been on the pill as anyone can mess that up 🙄 I'm talking about been on depo injection and the implant, im actually on both the implant and the pill at the moment !!. However my body has a sick personality as i also don't produce enough hormone to keep baby in place, and as a result I misscarry usually by 12 weeks. I've had 14 pregnancies, 2 of them actually did give me children, however I didn't do pregnancy very well I got to 31 weeks with my first and 26 weeks with my second. I was shocked I carried at all but my drs think I was actually carrying twins and lost one tricking my body into sort of carrying my kids. When I say I don't produce enough hormone I have never had a positive pregnancy test result even 20 minutes before the delivery of my kids !! Although that did have its perks as I didn't get any pregnancy issues such as morning sickness etc. People.have no idea just how heart breaking it is to have a misscarrige or how common it is. Ok, my condition is very, very rare, one in a million rare. I've had people say well you lost it before 12 weeks so it's not really a baby until I point out actually a 12 week gestation misscarrige is actually a very very small perfectly formed baby, that usually has a shocked result. I couldn't imagine working in a job where I would be seeing women who go through this and seeing that situation over and over again that would be beyond heartbreaking, I truly don't know how they do it. 😢
@@annied1827 What a cruel condition. I'm so sorry for your losses, but I'm glad you've gotten to meet two of them.
Story 3:
OP needs to have another conversation with her Uncle, this time with a hidden recording device. She needs to get proof of what he’s saying. Then present it to her Dad.
... Then present it to police
@@bella-rolland
Absolutely this!
For the last story, it really is karma. To say that someone is less of a woman because they can't have a child is downright horrible. I wouldn't even blame op if she went to just mock her for not being able to even have a child. It's only fair
OP wasn’t mocking though because rSlash misread the post. OP said she should NOT be ashamed of being barren. OP was trying to kill with kindness and not mocking.
Tbh I think OP went a little low, but I think it would’ve been better to add a
“Those were your words wasn’t it? Now you truly understand what I went through”
Story 1: A similar story happened with MY MOM!! She had a crooked nose she didn’t like. When my brother was a toddler, he kicked off his shoe. Somehow, he flung it hard enough it flew across the room and hit my mom in the face. Slammed her nose, and probably broke it. It has been perfectly straight ever since.
Story 1 : That boyfriend is a straight Dawg.. he literally slapped op into an alternate dimension...
Story 2 : as Dierks bently says in one of his songs " 5-1-5-0 somebody call the popo yeah yeah yeah " well op you know what you need to do.. my youngest kid is 19 and if i found out anyone tried to sexually advance on him without his consent ohhh boy they won't have any jaw..
Story 3 : Ahhhhh WHAT THE ACTUAL FRANK And BEANS kind of "uncle" is this.. op shouldve counterproposed to putting 3 bullets in his head and chest .. next time you talk to the creepy bastard record him just so his "reputation " doesnt hold up..
Story 4 : yooooo Wtf is this a cletus and brandien spuckler story ??
Story 5 : File sexual Harrasment charges against donna and just Harrasment against the monster in law..
Story 6 : Karma is a stitch.. lol now thats really funny..
She needs to tell on her uncle who knows how long he's been wanting incest he needs to be watched around other kids in the family.
The husband texted a friend's son he's known for years also needs to be watched.
Could OP tell her bf? I understand why she’s reluctant to tell her parents but what about him?
I mean… I have TMJ and had issues most of my life. One day an older kid started trying to bully my autistic toddler at the park. I told him that’s not ok, and if he doesn’t want to play with us and his little sister that would be ok, but he would have to be kind to keep playing with us and our toys. The kid yelled and the mom ran over full Karen mode, after not looking up from her phone for the past hour, and tried to yell at me and my son. Being a veteran and a mama bear, I yelled back in my DS voice. She hit me in the face with her oversized purse as hard as she could. I tackled her and held her until the police nearby made it into the play area fence, only like 2-3 minutes. At this point her kids were both crying and my son was blowing bubbles happily. I realized that night after icing my jaw that I could flex it without stiffness. No, I did not press charges (though I didn’t have to since it was in front of police), but I did speak for her husband during their custody hearing.
*First OP:* OP's boyfriend slapped OP's jaw into alignment? Sounds like a keeper!
Side note: as someone who experiences "Too Much Jaw" (lol), it hurts like heck. If someone could slap my jaws into alignment, I'd appreciate it.
*Second OP:* What in Jerry Springer's (RIP) name?
If the situation mentioned in the update is what I think it is, I hope OP's friends "take care of" OP's STBX. Best of luck to OP and the young man.
*Third OP:* OP's uncle knew OP since she was 7, and wants to have relations with her?! OP _should_ raise a stink! If her family _does_ sweep this under the rug, then OP needs to cut off contact and let _them_ figure out their new living arrangements.
I also agree with rSlash's advice that OP should tell her dad. If for nothing else, so that her dad would go Papa Wolf on the creepy uncle.
*Fourth OP:* Sounds like OP's husband needs to go No/low contact with his family. And the family needs to get Donna some help because ... 😧
*Fifth OP:* You know what they say about karma. :/
When OP mentioned her husband and her sister, I thought the the story would be about her catching them having an affair. I must be jaded.
I even have a story to share for the first story. A friend of mine, a diabetic, collapsed and hit his head one day, and lost his sense of taste and smell for quite a few years. Then, about a year before he unfortunately died, he again collapsed, hit his head, and suddenly fixed his smell and taste issues. The look on his face when he realized that he could smile again was like a kid in a candy store. I miss that man greatly.
Way to go, OP, you prevented grooming in its earliest stages 🎉
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Hopefully. They knew that boy since he was young, so her husband could’ve been grooming a little here and there over the years. The fact he was “talking” with him, someone he’s known, and not some other guy he met online or something makes the difference to me. He’s taking advantage of his position as an authority figure towards someone who has probably trusted him.
@@stevenandcarminabeedle9089 I wouldn’t say authority figure?? Especially since we are assuming he knew he was gay before hand
@@mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072 You're under literal every comment defending the husband. Wonder why?
@@llamaniaman4002?????
Something happened to my mom like the first story. She had gotten into a fight years ago, and it caused a small part of her nose bone to lodge into her brain. Then, a screen door fell on her face while she was reinstalling it. And she swears to god that it pulled her nose down a bit because she immediately fell to the ground and screamed in pain. After 20 mins, she walks around with a gleeful step and says that her headache is finally gone! Strange happenings.
In the last story the sister deserves it. Next time she’ll stfu laughing at other people’s misfortunes.
This whole uncle thing kinda happened to me too. He wasnt technically my uncle. He was my aunt's brother. He didn't propose sex but wanted to date. Ick. I had known him my whole life and was totally creeped out. My lovely mother didn't what the big deal was because he had a good job. Unreal
15:46 confronting, not comforting. OP didn’t call out her sister and friends for the hurtful things they were saying about her behind her back.
16:32 shouldn’t be ashamed, OP‘s post made it clear that while she didn’t directly insult her sister, she made it very clear that she knew what the sister said about her and that’s the part that made things awkward.
OP wasn’t being savage back, but she did dish out some humble pie to her sister.
Edit: there might’ve been a little bit of coldness in OP’s words.
Yes, thank you. The first misread was one thing. The second completely changed the tone of the story.
Yeah, thanks! I came here rinse OP for being as awful as her Sister. When a misread line completely changes the context of a story I think it's time for a do over.
The fertility revenge was just warranted, nothing more and nothing less
Bro slapped the health back in her jaw, I'm fkin crying.
Have to admit, I know you're using "Bro" as a general term for guy, but after two stories about incest today from Rslash, I legit was worried if you thought the first story OP was having rough sex with her brother. XD
I had a root canal this week that was complicated by the fact that I physically couldn't get my mouth to open as much as it usually can because of my TMJ issues and let me tell you
I've genuinely never been as jealous of someone as I am of op in the first story lmao
"Doctor! help I got shot in the chest! I need medical treatment!"
"Don't worry I got you **puts on boxing gloves** "
My husband's 40yr old nephew found out about my 20yr old daughters OF. He's known her since she was 9. I was absolutely disgusted. 2 years before that, he and his wife asked her to be their nanny, living in their home. We agreed she wouldn't do it. Not only would they take advantage of her, I knew that creep would hit on her. Men make me sick.
First story reminds me of the scene from ATLA where Ozai slams Aang against a rock at just the right angle and it completely realigns his body and spirit and enables him to reach his full potential as the Avatar.
I hate people who are under this delusion that just because you didn’t act on those feelings, that means that your partner doesn’t have a right to be upset at you for having those feelings at all
It’s OKAY to be upset it’s not okay to guilt your partner or make them feel like THEY are wrong for their feelings. You both are having feelings you can’t help, it’s what you then do about them that make it wrong. It’s not wrong to have un-asked-for feelings and it’s not wrong fr your partner to feel jealous or insecure about it. It’s the actions you both follow up with that matter.
@@The_Great_Depression Exactly this. You can't control your feelings (much), only what you do about them. And that husband was very clearly acting on those feelings, so the anger is absolutely justified
Husband tried to claim he "didn't have a chance" to explore his sexual identity. He was 36 when he met his wife!! Dude is just closeted/in denial.
@@insu_na Yeah, emotional regulation is very difficult to master. As someone born with very little emotional control (autism), I can say you can learn to regulate emotions. But it's super hard to do. So I wouldn't hold it against anyone if they felt a certain way. It's what they do with those feelings that counts.
Last story : karma is a bitch and so is OP's sister. "How did you deal with it?" Not trashing, laughing and mocking the person who is the victim with other people is ideal 🤡
Story 3: 🥴 goodness gracious. I was going to suggest maybe the uncle is slipping into dementia lmao but the fact that he mixed in how they’d hide it from their significant others feels very coherent. YIKES.
Donna needs help, the op and husband are doing things right.
Story 3, phone in pocket recording. Ask him if he was joking around, get it all on tape/video. If your family doesn't back you up, get out and get a restraining order on that creeper.
Something similar happened to Mr. Incredible, he was fighting a big robot. In one moment of the fight, he hurt his back and when the robot was trying to kill him, it fixes his back.
You’re telling me that percussive maintenance can fix my jaw???????? Maybe I need to get punched in the face
Or get into bdsm lol
Rslash guessing that TMJ meant "too much jaw" had me cracking up. I'm so glad that story turned out wholesomely. Also huh my FIL has that same story with the brother who broke his nose once and then broke it back in the other direction o_O Not perfectly aligned, you can still tell, but apparently it was much worse before the second fight. Weird!
That last story though...
My sister and brother in law tried several time using the natural way and invented twice only for investor to show signs of taking but failing a few weeks in both times.
Sever years later and I now have a 7 year old nephew they adopted at birth and I find myself as worried as any parent with him in 2nd grade hoping another Uvalde or Sandy Hook doesn't happen to his school. He is no less a part of family to me, my sister and brother in law and my parents.
If I overherad someone talking like that about my sister after one invetro failed, I'd go off on them like no tomorriw.
Last story, idk if im hearing it right but i think rslash had a little brain fart, he read it as:
''she should be ashamed of herself for being barren'' with the karen voice, when OP said:
''she shouldn't be ashamed of being barren''
so OP wasnt THAT brutal
That's exactly what i was thinking too.
Yeeep
i have tried something like the first story. I am a hunter and back when i was getting a shotgun license (a requirement in my country) i kinda messed up my shoulder using a shotgun which had had its stock twisted for left shoulder but over time had twisted back to right, this made my shoulder slightly bad as in it would do those small clicks sometimes but did not hurt. Fast forward a year and i'm skiing in Austria somewhere when i fall with all my weight on my bad shoulder and hear a SNAP. I was afraid it might be broken and when i checked nothing wrong and i later realised it no longer made those clicking noises. Guess it somehow fixed my bad shoulder? :P
My husky had the zoomies and headbutt my dad square in the nose. We heard a CRUNCH and thought 'we're gonna have to take him to the hospital at some point'. By the next day, he yelled "SHE FIXED MY NOSE!" Turns out, Ocean straightened his nose out. Didn't fix the snoring, but she got extra treats that day
"If somone is sick, just start beating them around" made me laugh so hard. Makes me wonder if someone should punch me in the gut, it just might fix my tummy issues......
The Creepy Uncle Story: She needs to tell someone about him trying to sleep with her, if hes doing that to her he's definitely doing it to her younger siblings that are still living with him...
2:42 There is a reason why percussive maintenance is so popular.
Story 2: The fact that op’s husband is trying to flirt/groom his friend’s parents is just, ick, why!
That last story shows you the true meaning of Karma!!! Yikes!! 😬
I used to have an extreme overbite and overjet. Basically it looked like I had crooked beaver teeth. One day I got mugged. The guy jumped me from behind, and I landed mouth first on the pavement. The pain was unreal! Pushed my teeth back and chipped them, so I had to get them filed down. Now it looks like I had braces. My teeth are nice and straight and normal sized. 😁
This first story makes me think that I need to ask my fiance to hit me in the face, too. My jaw's been off since elementary school due to a bully punching me, and I was told I'd need surgery where it's broken in 4 places if I want it fixed. (13 years ago, mind you.) I can't open my mouth wide, and if I do, I feel one side sliding out of it's hinge.
The incest posts make me think of my situation. My father figure was a guy I went to church with. I called him my dad, his wife was my second mom, and their sons are my younger brothers. When I was 18/19, I found out that my "dad" had a crush on me since I was FIFTEEN. It was a horrendous revelation, and I'm still grossed out to this day. I don't talk to him or his (now ex) wife anymore. But I try to stay in touch with my younger brothers, who are (thankfully) not like their dad in that regard.
How to fix poor bone alignment:
Step 1. Hit the afflicted person as hard as you can in the afflicted area.
Step 2. Fixed
When I started having tmj issues, my coworker suggested getting punched cause he knew someone in the Army who had gotten better after a fight. After hearing these stories, I wish I had tried it... too late for me. The disk was stuck for years, causing a hole in the cartridge. I am 99% sure a good slap wont fix that 😂
The last story: I kept seeing posts on r/sh*tmomgroupssay that was exactly what the sister said about OP. They also claim that you’re a real mom if you have a c-section birth or bottle feed.
OP was perfectly savage in her response.
That last story is exactly why we don’t define “woman” as being able to carry a child.
My thoughts exactly, that talk is sickening to me. Just the most cruel shit.
The Last Story explains that old saying quote revenge is a dish best served cold quote... cold as ice! Lol
Last story: I hear stories about women having 10+ miscarriages and wonder to myself why they would continue to torture themselves and don’t just accept that they weren’t meant to have children. OP was wise to accept it. Those other people are just horrible, and I have absolutely no sympathy for the sister.
According to my mom because there’s hope the next one would be it she had 4 miscarriages. One after I was born and before she had my younger brother, then the other three almost back to back after my little sister was born and before my baby brother.
My cousin also added she always wanted a baby and experience motherhood and pregnancy and she had 3 or 4 miscarriages and one stillborn before she had her miracle baby.
So I think it’s hope that but even then hope can sometimes be the most cruelest thing people can have. Personally after 2 miscarriages I would’ve just stop and get I won’t be having a baby (even though I never want kids).
Getting my wisdom teeth removed fixed my jaw issues LOL
Honestly I think Rslash should have 1 video per week that is just pure wholesome and funny stories instead of what we usually get (unless he already does that and I’m just being dumb)
Story 5: OP said she “SHOULDN’T” be ashamed, that was misread. I think that was a beautifully subtle way of saying, “hindsight’s 20/20, huh sis?” People also need to understand that more pregnancies end in miscarriage than in viable fetuses, and even then miscarriage is super common before 13 weeks. Growing a human inside of us is a very complex process and our bodies sometimes need time to get it right. That’s not a reason to keep trying if you’re physically and emotionally drained, but it’s definitely a reason not to blame yourself.
The first story and comments are litterally that proZD skit where the villain accidentally helps the city he's trying to harm. 😂😂😂
*fires gun*
"You fixed my back"
"Goddamn it!"
That gross uncle story reminds me so much of my stepfather, who told me, when I was around 23, that he would like to sleep with me and has wet dreams about me. He was my father figure since I was 4 years old, and it grossed me out so much that I stopped trusting him ever since. I tried to brush it off and ignore this knowledge, but whenever I sat next to him, he would touch my legs. I told my mother about it, and she said she'd talk to him. The same evening, he came to me and yelled at me for telling her, but at least he never mentioned it again. I still make sure to always be fully clothed when I'm in the same house with him, tho, as he still sometimes tries to touch me a bit more intimate than a father should, so I know he's still having these thoughts.
First story went from r/trueoffmychest to r/handsomesquidward.
That last story, the sister deserved it. She talked a big talk; but as soon as OP dished it all out, all of a sudden she couldn't handle the walk.
I rely on these videos to come out exactly as my break begins at work lol
It seems like whenever someone approaches their spouse about an open marriage, they already have someone specific in mind
Don't ever dismiss family members who are accused of being creepy. It needs to be addressed no matter the situation. I have a creepy family member and I was told "he's just being nice." Spoiler alert: he was an abusive creep.
So I hear all of the stories of getting hit hard and feeling better afterwards. I play Roller Derby which is a full contact sport, and sometimes I tell my teammates to hit me really hard to crack my neck and back in one go. I call it "Roller Derby Adjustments" it feels amazing.
When i was ypunger my teeth were so janked that they gave me jaw problems, open my mouth too wide and it would lock, youre now telling me that instead of paying 2k for braces i could have just had some kid punch me in the face??
Story 1: A lot of us have weird physical issues that can easily be solved by a good hard whack. 😂
Story 4: If Donna and her parents keep pestering your family, cut all contact with them because they aren't worth it. 🙅
Last story: it was ice Cold by can't say I blame OP, she took joya out of her sisters misery, and insulted her when she was in the same house, I did she's going through something but it's kind of hard to feel bad for the sister when she have no room to talk.
16:30 and the op is even MORE of a saint because she didn’t actually throw it back in her face. Rslash misread it, she said “you shouldn’t feel bad” not “you SHOULD feel bad”
So you’re telling me humans are just like TVs where you just have to hit it a couple times to fix it?
Story 5 (Miscarriages): Man, the "Real woman" joke was pretty disgusting. Like, OP was having miscarriages, so she took surrogacy, why is the sister insulting her for that?
And then karma strikes and the SISTER starts having miscarriage problems. Well, I think the conversation where OP brings up the "Real woman" thing is just an example of "Don't dish it if you can't take it."
Maybe the sister was jealous at the time or something, but man that joke was NASTY
16:30 time stamp, she literally didn’t mock her, rslash just misread a ‘shouldnt’ for a ‘should’ and completely mischaracterised the story
That last story was so satisfying. It makes me happy when people get their just deserts
I hope that everyone is having a good Saturday!
I needed that boost since today is my birthday
@@BurntMeat_Productions Hey same! Happy birthday, birthday twin! 😂🎉🎂
"Saved me some chiropractor money". I think I get a sense of why the problem wasn't getting better in the first place !
Last story: Sis deserved that and more. As do the other family members being so nasty.
Last story, wow was that savage AF. But also F that sister. Don't throw stones when you live in a glass house. All OP really did was reminded the sister of her own judgmental BS. Her feelings are hurt because now she's applying her views to herself and understanding how they made her sister feel. She deserved that reality check. Maybe she'll learn from it and become a better person with more empathy going forward.
The thing I've learned the most from marriage stories is NEVER trust your MIL.
Yeah the ones where the mil is trustworthy are few and far between.
From a niece being propositioned unwanted by her uncle to a niece unwantedly propositioning her uncle. This is the Sweet Home Alabama episode.
1:02 I like too much jaw better lol
First story: I had something similar, but with my chiropractor 😂 I had TMJ w/jaw clicking, pain, etc for about ten years. One time I mentioned it to my chiropractor, and he brought out this little device and gave my jaw a huge “THUNK.” Fixed, and never returned!!! (Been about 8y since)
The story regarding the fertility issues was... rough, for several reasons.
I've always felt incredibly uncomfortable listening to "revenge stories", and even on a smaller scale like this it felt so... unneccesary. Yes, the sister was BEYOND horrible having said what the said, but here she was given a unique opportunity to reflect on how she acted in the past with her newfound empathy, and in her moment of weakness OP chose to get that revenge instead of talk about it.
I'm not saying she didn't deserve it, she certainly did! But, I just can't help but think of what could've been if she didn't. Hopefully, the two of them will have an open, honest talk about it later, and hopefully the sister will get a chance to apologize and reconnect.
I really wanna know if this comment was made with the knowledge that rslash misread the post and said ‘should’ instead of ‘shouldn’t’ at the end. I haven’t been able to find any comments talking about it
@JB-zl1rk I was making this same comment, then I saw yours. Yes! 16:30 I guess people were listening instead of watching
@@ellaelf5055 the more comments there are the more likely people will see them? Idk, I hope he makes a pinned comment with clarification because this ONE slipup just completely changed the story. He says usernames! That could get dicy for the op
@@Need2disconnect I did notice that before writing my comment, yes. Him misreading that part of the post was a bit painful though haha, it definitely made OP seem a lot harsher than she was.
Why do those first stories remind me of "Just smack the TV to fix it"
Similar story to #1-
But it actually saved my life instead of just fixing something.
When my brother and I were younger (him about 13 and me 6-7), it was the 1980s. He had one of this toys that when you pulled a string, the toy would fly off and fly around the room.
He was mad at me and aimed in my direction.
It hit me and actually cut off the end of my nose. Blood everywhere and the tip of my nose just sitting on the floor.
My mom heard me crying, scooped me (and the piece of my nose) up, and drove us straight to the ER.
The doctor said they couldn’t reattach it, but then he looked closer at the piece and pulled out a little magnifying glass and flashlight.
He said it looked suspicious, and sent it off to be biopsied.
Turns out the doctor was a dermatologist doing an ER rotation as part of his continuing education.
And that piece that was cut off- turned out to be skin cancer.
I had to go back to see him, but the piece actually had clear borders, so I was cancer free!
And since it was cancer, insurance covered reconstruction surgery, so you can’t even tell it happened (except it turns white when I get really hot, red, and sweaty).
RE the woman with the perverted uncle.... if he has such a great reputation, you're going to need proof. Set him up somehow to 'discuss the situation' and record every second of it. But do it in a safe public place like a restaurant, not in his car some evening.
Last Story: OP said her sister SHOULD NOT be ashamed. The story was way less 'savage' than that. OP still tried to help her despite what the sister said
First story: If I had a nickle for everytime I'd heard of someone geting the hell knocked out of them fixed their body alignment issues i'd have a whole quarter. Which isn't much but that's way weirder than how that phrase usually goes!
Bro, those stories are like Fixit Felix in Wreck-It Ralph in the laffy taffy scene. I bet you know the one.
First story: I had a similar thing myself. I had a septum deviation for a long while, but never thought in doing surgery to fix it because it wasn't annoying or necessary. Well, one day I was at the bus, the driver had to do a sudden brake because someone tried to cross the street on front of it, and I literally flew through most of the bus' corridor and fell face-flat;
I broke my nose, and my face was a mess for a while, but when it healed... NO MORE SEPTUM DEVIATION. After it broke, it healed back in the position it should be normally, without the deviation. I even joked with my cousin when he did the surgery to fix his own septum deviation I could simply 'hit him in the face and save him the surgery's money.
I have a somewhat similar story to ones in the beginning. Around 2 years ago, I was cleaning the back area of the house, because my dog used it to do necessities. Now, in the coutry that I live, grassy backyards are not common in cities and the one we had had a tiled floor that go really slippery with water. If you hadn't guessed, while I was finishing and hosing the floor, I slipped, feel on my butt and, because I put my arms behind my back to catch myself, one of shoulders dislocated. I was screaming in pain and yelling for my parents to come, because it hurt just to move, but my dad was taking a while to come. While he was coming down, I tried to get up so I could get closer to the door and shoulder just popped back in place, and other than hurting for a couple days, it was just fine.
My mom (almost 50 now) used to have a knee that clicked when she walked. One day when she was walking it suddenly hurt a lot, and since then it hasn't clicked at all or hurt. It's really amazing how our bodies can just magically realign themselves from getting hit or improperly distributing weight