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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 มิ.ย. 2024
- Are you thinking of ending the relationship? Or are you contemplating whether your relationship is actually working out or not? A relationship involves two individuals who love, support, and care about each other. However, it’s not always going to be easy to maintain a relationship.
In today’s video, let’s take a look at signs your relationship is ending.
We also made a video on the behaviors you should never tolerate in a relationship: • 7 Relationship Behavio...
Researcher & Writer: Ananya Sawarkar
Script Editor: Denise
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
Animator: Ira Alifia
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References-
Andrea Bonior (December 23, 2020). 20 Signs That a Relationship Is Over. Retrieved from www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/friendship-20/202012/20-signs-relationship-is-over
Lindsay Dodgson (July 24, 2018). 5 signs your relationship is over, according to a counselor. Retrieved from www.insider.com/signs-your-relationship-is-over-according-to-a-counselor-2018-7
Julia Malacoff (October 16, 2019). 20 Surefire Signs Your Relationship Is Over. Retrieved from bestlifeonline.com/relationship-ending-warning-signs/
Stacey Laura Lloyd (March 16, 2021). 6 Signs a Relationship Is Over, According to an Expert. Retrieved from www.brides.com/how-to-know-when-a-relationship-is-over-4164309
What's the first sign you notice when your relationship is ending?
I’m not in one yet but thanks for the tips
Not sure because I have not been in a relationship before
The lack of communication
we stop talking as much
The lack of healthy interaction
This popped up an hour after my breakup 🙂
Wow really?
After 1 day😊 for me
same my gf and i just broke up right now : (
Month and a half after my breakup. I have plans to kill myself 🤭
So sorry for u guys🥺
Hope you all feel better❤
1. 0:41 No one can agree what the problem is
2. 1:12 You would rather spend time anywhere else but with them
3. 1:47 You’re getting ‘cold feet’ about the future
4. 2:19 You’re both firmly growing in different directions
5. 2:58 You only see their flaws
6. 3:42 The prospect of another partner seems more appealing
7. 4:15 Your arguments are escalating
Hope this helps ❤
Thank you for the timestamps!
Yay!
The second timestamp tho
In my case:
- 1 is not the case or at least, I can see it;
-2 is very present;
-3 is growing altough she's pregnant;
-4 I definitely have a different perspective of growing;
-5 altough we still see the qualities, flaws are more noticed;
-6 sadly more and more. Especially when I know that there is other people interested in me;
-7 argument become indeed more intense over time...
I would say most of these apply to platonic relationships too
The worst breakups are the ones you don’t even see coming
No one knows the future and no one can ever prepare for it, all we can do is be strong when the moment happens
@@Psych2go True. We are stronger than we think we are. We become wiser with heartbreak even though it won’t feel like that in the moment ❤️
There are always clues though
I hope you're doing okay truly
Especially when she cheats on you with her abusive ex, and tries to blame on you, and act the victim. At least she came out on her own to admit.
1. What IS the problem? No one can agree
2. You would rather spend time anywhere else but with them
3. You're getting serious cold feel about the future
4. You're both family growing in different directions
5. You see only their flaws
6. The prospect of another partner seems more appealing
7. Your arguments are escalating
Thank you for your timestamps!
We constantly get this idea with modern mental health about knowing when things are ending, cutting things off, walking away, or Nipping the bud. But I feel like we don't get enough information about knowing when to fight (work on) for love/relationships/marriages. So many people on social media talk about being lonely but I think it's because we've gotten used to communicating online so much and learning to constantly let things and people go. Maybe it's time to turn against the norm and we learn to figure out how to keep meaningful people and relationships in our lives.
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Agreed, I'd like to see the same 🧐
for real even if they do have red flags cause what could be better than helping more people become the better versions of themselves not saying anyone should put them selves through abuse or not being happy.
The best relationship I've ever had is also one that my logical mind knows became untenable and unhealthy by the end. That said, when a person is lonely on a Friday night, it is easy to see a past relationship through rose tinted glasses. On the flip side, when things are going poorly, it can be easy to ruminate on what is wrong until you convince yourself it is unsalvageable. It's important to take a step back and ask yourself if you are getting swept away by emotions one way or another. This isn't always easy to do, but it is a skill, and one can improve skills through practice. Mindfulness helps with many things.
absolutely right!
I broke up with my girlfriend earlier 2022. I am still pretty depressed about it tbh. I really loved her. We did so much together only for it to end so hideously. It was quite devastating. I look back and I just feel guilty for not being better for her. It is still hard to move on but there's no other way than forward I guess. We don't talk much anymore. And honestly I don't mind being single. I don't have to worry about that emotional crap. But now I feel like I will never find anyone because of my personality. I am just bad at character. It sucks.
Time heals everything....
This reasonates with me so much because im in the same boat as you , i really wanted to find someone new but i feel like i lack time for myself so theres no way i could pair up with someone...
Sorry if this only gets you down but i needed to post it Somewhere where no One i know can find about it
@@oddeyes1613 no sweat man. Im sorry to hear that.
I don’t know how a random comment on TH-cam may help, but don’t think that you’re “just bad at your character”. Think about what you would like to be for your future partner, and try to grow in that direction even with very little steps. That’s what I did when I was heartbroken. Used the energy to… become more mindful about how I treat others and how can I make feel them more comfortable around me. Cheers buddy!
I'm sorry to hear that, i Hope you doing Great day :)
Oof this one hit deep. My husband and I have been married for 5+ years, together for over 11 years. We lost our fur baby in September and I have not been handling it well, she was the only one who comforted me through our difficult marriage. And this past Wednesday before thanksgiving, he told me he believes it’s over and we need to separate. The hardest part is when one person is done, it doesn’t matter how you really feel anymore- I didn’t want a divorce, I wanted counseling and I wanted to work harder. He said no and refused counseling. Best part of my life right now? We’re broke so currently living with my in-laws and their multiple family members in one tiny home. I can’t afford to leave yet so may have to take out another personal loan before I’m on the street. It’s heartbreaking after giving someone your entire 20s, it feels like your youth was wasted
I was married to an abusive Naga myself for 5 1/2 years, and I had to leave 2 years ago myself.
It gets better; Just ask Jesus for His peace, and lean on family.
Your best is yet to come...
😢😢😢😢😢
i hope youre in a better place now 😢
Sorry Shelby :(
We become what we think about. Energy flows where attention goes
True
your focus determines your reality - qui gon jinn
time to solely focus my mind on Donald Duck
This precisely described my walking out and ending a long term abusive relationship with my partner. I'm at peace now and started healing. Lately been focusing on myself and healing ❤
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I broke up with my boyfriend 1 month ago and while watching this video I realised that all the signs were there.
I feel much better and happier now 😁 please don't stay in a relationship just because you feel like you have to for the other person, your happyness is important too ❤
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I love how this got recommended to me just as I was thinking abt my current relationship eventually ending 🗿
Why do you think your current relationship will end?
The fact that people often do grow apart has lead me to the conclusion that it's a mistake to make a lifetime commitment to anyone in the first place. You're not hitching yourself to a fixed quantity and you may end up twenty years later tied to someone you would never dream of committing to.
Resentment and Contempt are the big alarm bells, where the writing is in bold-print on the walls... It doesn't get mentioned too much, but around the time relationships turn toxic between otherwise decent or even good people, there's usually an incident or two where they just started rearing up as issues...
AND that's DEFINITELY when one should consider "getting space in the relationship" at the least, and probably leaning toward breaking up altogether. You can't have Love for someone you find contemptible. ;o)
One important caveat: just because you identify with all of these doesn't mean that your relationship is doomed. It may be possible to salvage things by talking it out, whether it's between you and your partner or with a counselor, or by taking a break. That said, don't force yourself to keep things going if your gut feeling is that it's not going to last.
This video was uploaded the same day I broke up from an emotionally draining relationship, the break-up made me cry and seeing this video on my recommended got me close to crying again since I’m not yet totally over them
The six sign was really good I love this video. Just had a breakup that had been ending a long time before it really did and it's been hard but the healing is worth it. Hope anyone else dealing with breakups is ok out there. :)
Greet video, not in a relationship, but good work as always!
There's no emotional connection.
Communication breakdown.
Aggressive or confrontational communication.
You don't trust them.
Fantasising about others.
i really needed to hear that last part of nothing good comes east and to give it more time thank you
It’s also a struggle when it’s your first actual relationship where you live with the person and they care about you. It’s especially hard with past traumas and having a hard time moving on or wanting to move on from it because when you’ve dealt with the trauma for so long, it becomes a part of you and your identity
I’m not in a relationship, but I feel like this is pretty important information I should have for when I do if I ever get into one.
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I know there was a text that my girlfriend sent to me
Reading the words I literally felt something snap in my chest. Not even two weeks later we separated. Probably one of the worst breakups I'll ever have.
TBH, I started watching your videos as "terms and conditions" for relationships.
Now I know what to do, why and when to do it,
I really love them so much
thanks for making them
I know this feeling from my exes. There were quite a few I had that would argue for no reason. I tend to try to not argue a lot but have a healthy argument with my current bf. So far it's been working out okay, other than a few things we did, but hey we are human..it happens and we both seem to forgive and forget the screw ups we had over the 8 years being together. So far we seem to want to be with one another no matter what. :3
Great video
❤ your cute depictions of relationship challenges with common sense suggestions…which keeps me coming back.
My significant other wanted to break up with me a month ago and actually went along with it. We got back together again after only four days broken up because she initially didn't know how to address some of the issues in our relationship, which correlate with some of the issues state in the video. All in all though during that time, we found our way back to each other and we are even stronger because of it. Love is not just about the natural feelings you get instinctually, but also the idea that despite the flaws you see and this veil of perfection you may have of them that you still wish to be with them.
This is also a really big one imo because it’s not mentioned in the video but please assess your own as well as your partner’s mental health because it can also play a huge factor in the relationship. They can start out perfect and overtime depending on what’s happening in their life and happened in the past can really start to affect them, and you.
I started having a lot of intrusive thoughts about the relationship with my bf the past few days and when I saw this video I immediately thought "shit, here we go, now I'll know all the reasons for why I'm gonna break up with him" but it didn't happen. It's a long distance relationship (don't judge please) but we both really and I say REALLY want to meet in the near future, we text each other everyday and try to talk on voice chat so I can hear his amazing voice, I'll never get tired of it, now will I ever get tired of him.
He is the best person I ever met and I'm glad to have them, I prayed and prayed and prayed for having someone like him and I ended up having someone even better.
Sorry for the story but I just wanted to share this and want to tell you all that if you don't feel like keeping your relationship up, there's only one thing to do: listen your heart, not other people's opinions, that won't do anything other than increase intrusive thoughts like it does with me. YOU have to decide what you do
That's all I have to say, peace ❤
I really hope you meet him soon, best wishes love.
@@swastikasuyambu6992 I really hope so too, like, he's soooo fricking cute and I'd do everything for him 😭
I've been into the exact same experience. keep hoping and looking after yourself, you will get there one day.🦋🦋✨✨
awww, that’s amazing. Long distant relationships are difficult to maintain, and they come along with several challenges. I’m glad to hear that the relationship been going well for the two of you. You are experiencing a very special experience. Anyways, good wishes for the both of you, and thank you for sharing
I've heard this bg music before and I really like it. I think it went good with the mood of the video
This video spoke to me too hard. I recently ended a long relation and have been struggling with keeping my head above water. I am realizing a few of these points where the reason and I know I handled it poorly, and I never truly wanted to leave because I care so much for them, but I finally decided to focus on myself and what I needed and its just been sad to feel ever distant to my best friend until we were too far apart. (the biggest hurt is they were only growing closer to me, I have felt more pain and guilt over leaving them than ever before. I never wished to hurt them, but I need to realize things happened for a reason. Time for us to grow on our own for a while)
this is what is happening to me rn, it's super weird to be on this end
@sweetpea41292 a year later my biggest condolence is to tell you if you are ending it; you are not the villain. You are not evil or being a bad person. The fact it hurts means you care, but care is not enough to put yourself in a relationship where you are not happy. I hope you will find someone that makes you happy though :)
Ok, this following piece was given by some music I was listening to, and recent experience, I make a bunch of story snippets and short stories, in case your wondering
“You should break up, you deserve better.” His friend said. He seemed genuinely concerned, but- “Well that’s just the problem isn’t it?” he replied. “People are always saying you deserve better, but that ends becoming, oh, he deserves better than me. Never taking into account what I want. I end up being some sort of idol or hero, so good that it ends up hurting myself, driving people away, thinking they’re not good enough. It’s always about what I deserve, not what I want. I just want someone to show they care and love for me. To show that I’m not alone. Someone to be there with me in the hardest of times. And when a single person shows that, she and I always get ‘you deserve better’ I don’t want better. I don’t need better. I just want someone to show me that I’m loved; not alone."
This is similar to something that recently happened to me and it has driven my only ever girlfriend away. Please, do not say they deserve better unless something truly bad is happening. It's easy to say that they deserve better, but you probably don't realize how much it hurts them when you say it. I know some men/women/boys/girls can relate to this. It becomes painful because there ends up not being anybody who is deemed or deems themselves "worthy." If you have someone you think your not good enough for them, asks them, you have no clue how hard it can be, and it's sure to help with a lot of the anxiety and depression that comes with it
Very nice video ^-^
I think I can luckily say that my relationship with my bf is not ending and going well.
We are having a lot of trouble rn and spend more time apart but we love each other and don't argue.
I love him a lot so it's good to know that both of us will continue it like that.
I've been together with him like 7 months now and there have been ups and downs but never things that really made me draw a line to end it.
Anyway, as always a wonderful video :D
And thank you for helping people with their mental health ^-^👍
To anyone reading this, you are amazing, have a wonderful day ❤️
Sending you blessings to your relationships and with many more years to come!
@@Psych2go
Thank you very much ^-^
I highly appreciate that
7 months and already fighting? Good luck lol
@@brycejarrell832
I said we don't argue.
We never fight or anything
Thanks though haha
@@brycejarrell832
By trouble I meant just difficulties.
We don't fight though
Been missing your videos. Not that I haven't seen them. I hope everyone and everything is fine.
Also:
UwU outro dance UwU
She actually left me for another on that day...8 years of me being a terrible person gave her room to grow into a better person.
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Hey, don't put all the blame on you.
I don't know who you are or their story, but we all grow, we become more emotionally intelligent. What's important now is that you recognize your errors which everyone does and learn from it
being able to admit you may have not been the best person means youre doing a good job of growing too.
Probly not the mood, but psyce to go has helped me a lot, trough togh times, and made me see my error's because i was more open to listening here. I truely want to learn but that's hard for me.
Anyway thanks psyce to go 😅
Change is good 🌱
Stay strong kings we will get our chance
I recently had someone I knew for 3 years talk bad about me behind my back and covered me with compliments in person :( I tried to confront them about it but they kept giving me insincere apologies, as a result I came clean to my friends about how they pushed my boundaries and it ended pretty badly, I just wish I saw the signs sooner :( I wish we could have worked it out, I still care about them
this really saddens me and i miss them so badly 😞
some of these we do but most we dont... i dont see it as an end but more a reason to change some things
For 2 weeks now, my boyfriend has been going through changes, trying to be mature at a young age. He is changing, however, I’m just not used to it yet. I keep talking about all his flaws, realizing it now, there were a bunch of things he has done for me. We go to different schools, but he still says hi to me everyday. I don’t like discussing our problems, but maybe it is time. I wanna still be with him.
This video is just magical, it just appeared after a few hours of breakup of mine🤯 and amazingly these signs fits me a lot... And this video helped a lot to think what I did was right...thank you psych2go for this wonderful video
This popped up just after our relationship ended.
This is a good one. Could you please do it for friend breakups next? Way more painful.
Your work is beautiful,keep up the good work ! ❤️ God bless you ! 🙏
Thank you for your kind words! What do you love most about psych2go?
How most of your advice can be helpful to lots of people who are having trouble finding solutions to get out of that problem.
Not lots of people find your work inspiring, but your work can in fact help a lot of people in need of help . 👍
Thank you so much for the video. This channel is really helpfull.
Pov: can relate with most of the situations.
This came up right as I almost lost my best friend and it was awful. We’re good now, but I still wanna watch this and see if I didn’t fight for our friendship if we would even be friends still. 😶
I'm happy this video came to you at the right time! How are you both feeling now after fixing the problem?
I can somehow relate
@@Psych2go much better!! We both mean so much to each other so our friendship being good is so good for both of us and our mental health! ❤️
Omg yes! We need more conversations about the fight for love and friendship.
I relate to this more than i wished i didn’t. I already think we’re not even friends anymore. It hurts a lot.
i like how this got put on my recommended and i don’t have a relationship which burns more
I have all these signs but I'm still "trying to work it out", whatever that means. I still enjoy her presence and admire some of her virtues. But her shit bothers me to no end. She used to blame me for both of us not being able to lose weight, I am now on a diet and am making it on my own. She has a couple of health issues due to the lack of self-discipline. She's made decisions about the house without considering me like adopting another cat (we already had 3) and wants to buy a motorcycle. I don't want to play the victim, I myself am making less on an effort in certain areas and I am definitely not able to stay calm like I used to when she loses her shit; in the last few arguments we've had I have said hurtful things which had come from thoughts I've been having for months now. Honestly, I don't know how I feel. I don't know if this is still salvageable. And if it is, I don't know if I shoud continue trying. But often, I just want to be alone, I just want to be free...
Bold of you to assume i maintain relationships
Can't relate. I'm 22 years old and have never been in a relationship. I don't know when it will happen or if it ever will but I still find myself here watching this video
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Hmmm every single one of these apply to me… and yet I keep hoping we can figure it out.
hey Psy team! please consider expanding the relationship theme towards this vulnerability we give each other and how dangerous it is to use it against your partner.
English is not my first language so sorry if it's hard to understand me
my marriage is falling apart because my wife exploited the confidence i put in her by taking a jab at my unhealed wounds in a moment of anger she had
I'm not in a position i can end it right now but i don't know what to do either, and believe me I'm trying to make this work.
many thank yous to all the team, I've followed you for at least 3 years and you helped me help other as much as you've helped me!
much love, hugs, pats on the back and faith
you never have enough faith
You know what’s funny? This video was bookended by two different dudes saying they can save your relationship.
I think the thing that breaks my heart the most is that long term relationships are the exception, not the norm. My relationship ended at the beginning of October (not my choice, although I had thought about breaking up with her at times over the previous 2 years), and I think what hurts most is now she acts like we were never even together, like I’m some acquaintence and nothing more. Looking back, she started pulling away about May or June of this year, if not sooner. I tried hard to pull us through it. I wasn’t perfect over 3-3.5 years, but I tried. It was a last chance relationship for me. I wasn’t looking for it, but I figured why not give love one more chance. Well, there you go.
Is Christmas 🎄 Season we all deserve to be happy with our lovers around why not connect with Dr Clinton to restore back your happiness and remove anything that's makes you unhappy his 100% sure ####
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I tried to reconcile with my exwife and after 2 years of trying I ended it because we were growing in different directions and I rather spending time at home then with her and it got to the point I was "window shopping" on dating apps for a better connection prospective. I knew it was time to end things and salvage the friendship we built up over years even though the original marriage failed due to infidelity (on both ends) and the reconciliation was just spinning tires in the end.
this popped up when we are not okay😃
To me
This ain't no breaking heart is breaking up how we decided to move forward somewhere else because we can't be whole like this☯️ we spread out and that was best ending for us.
I miss her so much.
It hurts how I can relate to every point of this video 😔
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Im rlly sorry for you dude
I love how calming their voice is ☺️
Amanda's voice has that effect on people!
A relationship that wasn't going anywhere? A relationship that I haven't seen or heard or any of that offline
This popped up just as me and my boyfriend went on break today...
But what if your in a relationship but you love him so mutch but he doesn't love you back enymore and you can't move on?
Is it worse to have had several relationships that haven't worked out or to never have been in a relationship to begin with.
Thank your for telling us plus is the truth relationships can’t be perfect
At the beginning is great but sometimes you have to is better to be alone and stick to life than still following for love relationships are not always perfect
We can go to Canada one day, find a spot so deep in the taigas that no sane person or authority will ever take a walk there and then make a micro-civilisatikn using dr. Stone knowledges, so that no one's dependent on society for stuff like food, water, iron, glass, shelter, hygiene and much more. Glass can be made with calcium oxide, silica sand and sodium carbonate (or potassium carbonate could be used as a substitute ingredient).
Ohh you totally save me from breaking off my 8 yeard old realationship
Thank you
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Good to see a new psych2go episode. They really can make a mood better. :3
I'm happy to hear that we made your mood better! How are you feeling now?
@@Psych2go Lately I kinda feel burn out and I have a big cold. But thank you for asking dear psych2go. And many thanks for the heart, it made me smile x3 I also hope that you will upload all new episodes on youtube as well ^^
such a beautiful Channel i'm so thankfull that i found it
Does breakup hurts ???
Maybe but not more than losing a best friend
What a fantastic video have a great weekend
Wishing you a great weekend as well!
Thanks for this beautiful video btw!❤️
Thank you! What do you love about this video?
awesome video, but i want to point out one thing:
relationships can end even without the "growing in different directions."
an ending relationship can also be them losing affection/interest in you, and i find my friends tend to deny that a lot and shrug it off when people point it out. if you are constantly looking out for them, contributing to the relationship more/as usual, but you don't see them doing the same (or they keep giving you mixed signals), you should question what you value in them.
Been single for almost 5 years, this made me sad.
Me who's not in a relationship: Imma watch this anyway.
Perfect animation as always ❤️❤️
Thank you for your kind words! We will let our animator know
Funny how I see that happening between my parents who are somehow still together
Hi - I am a huge fan of your videos and I have a video suggestion. Over the years I have met lots of people and have had trouble distinguishing whether I fell in love with them or it was just people pushing the fact I was. Could you please make a video on this? It would help a lot.
I’m never ending my relationship evon tho we don’t cuz we shy unhappy I only know she smile and eye contact I never had a girlfriend in my tie life if I started a romantic relationship with her I be happy again I wish she was in my class in odyssey (that my class) and have bully come out of odyssey swop I do miss her think about she best person I hope she we can talk I don’t what hurt her feelings
I was confused about #6, but i understand now what she was trying to say
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before my ex and I broke up... I noticed that he was very distant and avoiding me (cancelled plans). tbh I'm relieved that it's over. our relationship was great, but he wasn't ready for a relationship. I do care of him, but I have moved on and...I have someone else in my sight (and tbh... he seems to be so much better match for me, so maybe it's faith)
The fact I have to watch this is just sad. I love him more than he loves me and it sucks.
I wish I saw this video about a year ago. Went through the absolute worst breakup I've ever had that I'm still hurting from, and if I was able to see the signs of failure in our relationships we would have been much better equipped to more gently let eachother go.
I'm with someone else now and he's been the diamond in my soil, but I can't help but fear repeats.
3,5 but don’t want to be in a relationship just bc I don’t want to be that’s how I feel.
Crawling here because I really wanna know if it's ending (we broke up 10 months ago)
Clear signs, french kisses stop, sex stops, makeup stops, disrespectful language & yelling, social media as single when she's engaged, and doesn't wear her ring.
Well then 😃 -Vi
Recognise that I have some obsessive behaviour, but I love my partner genuinely. Recently we have had lots of fights in a month which are not healthy. I want to get out of this ? Wanna know how to overcome it! I need help
I’ve been feeling pretty down lately and my partner has been telling me the exact opposite of comforting sometimes. I feel like we’re growing distant, having more arguments. What I had planned for my future was simple, is now super complicated and involves lots of money. I gave up a lot to compromise with my partner. But I feel like I’ve given more than I should’ve. I’m worried that maybe out relationship won’t make it.. he’s accused me of loving someone else, and now it feels like he makes me sad mor than he makes me happy. I’m beginning to doubt.. and I don’t know whether it’s because of my emotions that’s causing this, or if it’s our relationship.
i believe that during dating > youre not happy ( even u do love the person ), its time to get out of the relationship. there is someone God has in mind for you..we need to use our head, too.
From my point of view, it feels like your partner has felt entitled to you. He doesn't/can't understand you nor your situations. And on top of it, the unequal give and take, has made you miserable in your own relationship. And your person's accusations of you loving someone else is not actually improving the situation. To me, it is the misunderstanding mostly that caused a rift and then everything followed naturally. This is what is it maybe, well it's an outsider's pov on your relationship, so it also can't be the truth. 🤷♀️
A lot of relationships just don't reach the potential it's supposed to be because of something so simple yet so complicated like misunderstandings. But it's complicated enough to make us have intrusive thoughts about that person. If you want to know if you should break up or not...just think apart from the misunderstanding part did he make you happy? Was he considerate of your feelings. If yes...then you should totally give it a chance but now with a lot of boundaries. Don't give too much. That'll be enough to make him feel much less of a 'king'.
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