A whole lotta and Tamar still has a little more growing to do because she's only seeing things from her point of view and is being argumentative I can see, however I do feel as though he loves her a lot
@@wuzzy5894 yes he love her but believe me his face expressions be saying can't I say anything with out her interrupting her family and ex husband said only thing is her mouth that's true my thing is where's the ring 🤔
JR always makes a lot of sense. I love hearing his perspective and gems of wisdom. As a man, he has definitely learned when, and how to choose his battles. We witness it in every video. Listen more Tamar. You often listen to respond, and not to understand
That last sentence of yours was BEYOND a gem! “You often listen to respond, not to understand” My God Raven!!!!!!! A triple round of applause to you👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I am saving this gem for a certain someone (husband) who does this to me ALL THE TIME! Thank you & have a wonderful day sweetheart 🙏🏼
@@shirionjohnson7935 he really do wasn't for him being a man show wouldn't be nothing she need let him be man and just shut up his face expressions look like he's saying can I say something without Tamar interrupting
I really love how JR teaches Tamar how to love in a new way. You can tell she has been so hurt in the past and how God put a good man in her life, that is soft. When he looks at her she replies softly. She is learning what being truly loved is,and we can see it in her beautiful smile. Tamar and JR God bless your union and may you keep being happy in your beautiful relationship and experiencing God’s Blessings🙏🏽✨
Bingo! It’s gonna take some work, but I truly believe they love each other and that alone is going to make it last. This podcast/tv series is going to heal them in more ways in one. I’m rooting for them ❤
That look Tamar gave JR at the end, when he explained that 'nagging' is actually caused by reoccurring issues, shows that she respects that man. Tamar is grateful for that man! I hope JR practices what he preaches, and I hope this couple grow old together.
That was very short-lived. How sad. I always knew Tamar should have kept her r/ship private, but I understand this may have been her 'healthiest' relationship. My worry: she's not as healed as she makes out to be. My other worry: he gave up too soon.
See (?) this is the thing. Many black women don’t have this with black men because they don’t respect black men no matter how well earned. However, any white person can swoop right in and get respect when they don’t deserve and have not earned it…it’s part of our conditioning. Now we see the reality, he’s a dog, all for the applause, and now we see the truth. It’s embarrassing to see so many folks keep falling for this.
JR is correct by stating to pick your battles. There’s no reason to bring up everything that bothers you about your partner or what your partner does. That would drive someone crazy.
JR is the BEST thing to have ever happened to Tamar. He doesn’t give her the poison she’s used to and that her subconscious seeks after. I respect this man!!!
This was a very great and interesting conversation. God knew what he was doing for bringing JR into Tamar’s life he complete her and he definitely is seems pretty well balanced in his mental state.
Loved JR’s point of view. He sounds very experienced in this situation. He is definitely a listener and he weighs his words before he says something. I also think you can never keep score in arguments and the things you do for your partner.💕
Tamar, you will continue to have a history of complicated relationships if you keep up the need to be right or what you think is “being heard”. Validate yourself so that you do not always have to seek it externally. This will help you with letting the small things go. We all can tell that man walks on eggshells so that you can continue with whichever point you are trying to express. You can do better. “Do you want to be right? Or do you want to have relationships?”
Lol, not the eggshells… so, it is my observations that she has been through a lot. The man (quite handsome and smooth btw) brings her a brand of love she has never experienced before. He is VERY patient and understanding with her. And sometimes I think she is testing the strength of his love. She seems to love hardt and you can tell by the way she looks at him at the end of this video that she truly loves him. Maybe all the antics is because she is not trying to be hurt again,,,
You are correct. I’ve shared this truth on her channel before but it doesn’t seem to move either of them. Tamar is gorgeous, sexy, and smart. But she suffers from low self esteem and it shows up colossally when she’s in a relationship. Now, the only reason JR tolerates the behavior is because she’s turning him out. But let’s be clear, if the right one comes alone Tamar will be history. Her arrogance makes her believe he want leave. I just can’t see him taking her to a business meeting or Law Firm Gala popping her lips and speaking loud-maybe she’s different in her private life.
JR is giving ALL the sense!! He's demonstrating how to pick and choose battles in real time. The older we get, we ain't about to put energy into scenarios that aren't warranted....LEOS BABY! 🦁
Love you guys❤ I really do have to agree with JR!!!!! Everything isn’t worth the energy! In a relationship some things are better left unsaid! Choose your battle!!!!💕🙏 God bless you guys!!!!!!!!!
Gurl she in LOVE LOVE and you can tell it’s healthy you can see my gurl just all soft and in love my boy JR is a man man so she feel safe I absolutely love this for her 🫶🏾
It's a slippery slope having a public platform to discuss relationship issues... especially when the relationship is so new. He definitely is more chill and doesn't like to be stressed out. I hope they can find a good balance that works for their relationship in order to sustain and flourish in the long hall.
I AGREE I WOULD HAVE WAITED FOR THE RELATIONSHIP TO BE LOCKED IN AND SEALED ..BEFORE I START SHARING WHAT I VALUE ( WHO I LOVE)..AND SHARING MY RELATIONSHIP WHEN IM STILL BUILDING A FOUNDATION FOR A GREAT FUTURE..BUT EACH PERSON IS DIFFERENT. BUT SOCIAL MEDIA CAN MAKE A GOOD THINK GO BAD.
Exactly!! and that's where I feel the "pick and choose your battles" come in play because she has opened the door to what she clearly says she doesn't want 🤨ijs
The goal is to keep peace in our relationships. Sometimes I, as a woman have to mask how I feel when the hubby and I disagree , not because we can’t talk about it or that I’m right or he wrong, it is choosing which battles to fight and which ones can be seen as bs, and not worth it and move the hell on.
I hear what you're saying...I get it. Let's not call it "masking" though? That's the same term Tamar used. You see, I don't see it as such...that terms denotes negativity...imo.
I’m a Leo. We are fair to the core but don’t try over powering us cause you will always be happy with us if you don’t try us negatively. We have a natural charm and we upgrade our partner in the relationship. We are low key people and straight to the point no bs😊😊😊😊love your content.
I love Seeing Tamar so happy, I am happy she found someone she truly loves. And they balance each other, JR has a lot of patients. Wishing you all a lifetime of happiness
I really enjoy y’all’s content. The realness of the conversations, the mutual adoration and love you two exudes is what’s been missing from these TH-cam streets!
I love you guys together ❤️ I'm here for it. This was a great topic...we all want to be heard but like you said check the tone.. you guys are dropping real gems love the realness and different perspectives you both have...
Pick and choose your battles is absolutely correct! The fostering of anger over the little things is definitely bound to arrest the relationship from glowing and growing🌻👍♌️♌️♌️🇯🇲
JR is sooooo dope 🤍🤍🤍and mature about where he chooses to use his energy. I actually understand both their views, Tamar got some more growing to do. JR is right…PEACE is important daily, and everything doesn’t have to be addressed. Tamar has…….. HAS to respect that his point of view is different. And that’s an asset.
Tamar is a beautiful soul , funny and sweet.,JRweww knows that! She is healing not healed. In her rightful way but was blessed if She stops to understand yes expression is what those Last relationships didn’t give but Jr is different don’t have to so much express what’s understood. Tamar Braxton You said it urself if someone comes against those things that brings u peace it’s a situation so turn around look in the mirror and understand the center is you as long as u Place ur love into energy to balance and breathe growth into better outcome will deliver stop the drinking if u can’t handle it know one is responsible or needs to support u when circumstances arrive if u can withstand the center to depend on if u go outside of that they still not reliable to input so much energy into ur shenanigans when emotions are on high because if u loud without drinking just think what drinking does to u taken u outside the box when u are not a kid. If u go for a fight then handle it stop getting mad cause someone like JR that has a job to do and prefer to hang with u but every time end up in some foolishness then blame him cause u mad at somebody else. JR is helping u to cross completely over and if u can’t handle his love then walk away know and I can promise u this He will not be single long there is no coming back . Pull it together let things go easily rather u feel u need to talk or not make better choices listen to Jr he’s not trying to hear u it’s just not worth it to Him but since it’s worth it to u try healing through before attending all these functions with ur Man that put him in situations u better off at home not ready for all that cuz just because dishnation and a movie and some songs and a child don’t make u right all the time who cares about wrong or right be peaceful humble and integrity change ur ways then u can see his ways meant u well. I love u and praying for u and believe me when I tell u this. You will not ever find another like JR baby so mature so more and some more it’s not easy but don’t walk in ego. Love I and God Bless
Jr you are such a sweetie you really are such a patient man very sweet. I see how patient with this young lady Tamar and it's amazing that you are like that. And I don't think she really caught it at heard you when you said you pick and choose your battles cuz some things are not worth it and they're Petty and you just like to keep your peace. I hope and pray that tomorrow replace these videos have the opportunity to see watching them by herself and processing things.
Although in recent news, it seems like they didn't follow their own advice, this is still great advice and I can see why they are fighting to be together. I'm happy to see this side of both of them. Every rose has its thorns, so there is no judgment here. PEACE AND LOVE ALWAYS TAYTAY
And be sure to never over talk your partner if you ask them a question allow them to answer also slow down when addressing your partner because you want to make sure that they could hear and understand the question and watch the wild hand movements because that could throw a person off making sure they don't accidentally get hit, having a conversation like two mature adults is priceless it definitely doesn't take all the extra it's doesn't take over powering the conversation to be heard and not listen, J R was so calm and on point and he's a very patient man, even if the conversation can become overbearing, love you guys look forward to seeing you all again and it's great he excepts you the way you are and allows you to be you just don't over do it because at some point it won't be so cute anymore,he's a keeper and it's obvious you're very happy with him and he with you and that's great God bless yall love and make it last forever with peace and happiness and maturity ❤❤
*****THEY BOTH have valid points..... it's about compromise, folks!!!! And u don't have to compromise your values, your integrity, nor your spiritual compass to do so.....Be willing with temperance to meet the other halfway....*****
I’m a female Leo and I agree with JR 💯 I pick what’s important because some things aren’t that serious enough to bring up. Bringing up every little thing after a while it turns into something more serious and it comes across as nagging and that’s a problem.
I agree. I never disrespect my partner in public. Even if he disrespects me. Some may say I’m weak but I think there’s a time and place for everything. You have to learn how to pick your battles.
Honey, Tamar was not finish with that conversation. I think what you saw was "the light" in her brain shining on all the things she still wanted to say andthe questions she still had for him. Ijs.😏
JR is a jewel. I appreciate you guys perspective of the what ifs. In a lasting relationship neither party wants to hurt or embarrass the other. Good topic.
Public confrontation is not the best on any front. If you having a disagreement don't put all your business in public thats for the car or the house. Periodt. There's a time and a place for everythang
I CANNOT WAIT UNTIL YOU BOTH DO ANOTHER LIVE!! YOU ARE TRULY ONE OF MY FAVORITE CELEBRITY COUPLES. I WAS SO HAPPY TO SEE THAT YOU TWO WERE BACK TOGETHER! I WISH YOU BOTH ENDLESS LOVE, PROSPERITY, AND ABUNDANCE IN 2024 & BEYOND!! LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING WHEN YOU FIND YOUR TRUE BOAZ!! TAMAR YOU ARE GORGEOUS AND MY CAJUN BROTHER JR IS FINE AH! DO YOU & JR PLAN TO HAVE A BABY??!! I SURE HOPE SO!! I THINK YOU & JR WOULD MAKE THE PERFECT BABYGIRL. A BEAUTIFUL ANGEL BABY WITH A BLEND OF JR'S PRETTY BLUE EYES, 🆒 , CALM, & COLLECTED DEMEANOR AND TAMAR'S PHYSIQUE, VOICE, CLASS, & SASS!!🙏🏼👼🏼🥰 KEEP GOD 1ST & THEN EACH OTHER!❤
Okaaayyy! Use that 20 second rule JR. Most arguments are that we as women try to get a response out of our partner. Men will always just wanna shut it down quick cuz they aint trying to hear that. Sometimes its ok to take the time to listen. It may not always be confrontational.
Don’t react to everything you disagree with in the moment because sometimes you need time to process the entire situation. You can be free and emotionally disciplined. Choose your battles wisely. Approach a disagreement with a well thought out strategy to work towards a solution. You will be heard. ❤️❤️❤️
I agree with both of y’all but if he expressed himself as much as you do then it would be a lot going on so he gives that balance where he doesn’t express everything to keep the peace in the relationship but i also see where you are coming from because you must be able to let your partner know how you feel so there is no future issues from those build ups 💯
Food for thought Tamar, Scripture tells us that silence can help us avoid sinning (Proverbs 10:19), gain respect (Proverbs 11:12), and is deemed wise and intelligent (Proverbs 17:28 - not to say that you can't speak your mind and stand up for yourself. But use Gods spirit and wisdom to know when to speak and when not too. Pick and choose your battles. A marriage is about give and take. Not about me,me,me and always wanting to make a point or be right and need to be heard. You seem to have matured in your therapy but remember a Godly women uses wisdom and love. God bless you both and wish you all the best.
16:00 -- JR said "the way HE lives his life is: everything has to be peaceful and if I take everyday to talk all the things that I DON'T like that you do, then my life is CONTROLLED by focusing on the NEGATIVE things!!! LISTEN TO HIS WORDS AGAIN! Tamar you bring negativity daily (15 times a day)! And this relationship is unsustainable if a person/JR had to take in that energy, high pitch, over the top, unnecessary foolishness that makes you feel heard! Its exhausting! He sounds exhausted tryna explain it to you! Bring it down Sis! You want to be free? You're free to get hit by a car but you shouldn't bring harm to yourself that way! Don't bring harm to your relationship! Compromise on all that negativity you're bringing to him! He doesn't like it, it's so obvious! Course correct or another one bites the dust!
Tamar is rare, I enjoy her. If she doesn't start to listen with intent, this love story will fizzle out. You can read the room and see JR is trying to hold on to what they have. His career is demanding, then incorporate family and responsibilities. He needs PEACE. It's a wonderful experience to embrace Tamar's energy. But, her voice carries and you can't be too much ALL THE TIME. If the complaints are coming in, pink slip after pink slip. It's time to close that curtain ❤️🩹
True to me just saying her mouth gonna run this man away she want to be the one know all won't let him say nothing disagree with him but he speak the truth she don't like that
OH MY God you did right by this comment baby!!!! I'm so scared for her man. He is really trying to keep it together, keep a G. He keeping a smile on his face when he probably doesn't really want to smile all for the sake of love. Man a GOOD MAN IS HARD TO FIND OR HARD TO COME ACROSS and she one of the lucky ones that happens to have gotten a good man. You have to look at your man and feel his energy and that should make you want to calm down and observe self. I don't like when she makes him feel less than and after the video gets ready to end she grabs his hand to make it all better. Noooooooooooooooo that will get played out baby. It won't work all the time. If this marriage doesn't work out the issue has always been Tamar because JR IS A GOOD MAN AND IT IS NOT HARD TO SEE. We can feel his energy through the screen.
@theresawright294 Hey T! We agree. Did you hear that JR'S children's mother's complain about him not financially supporting his kids. I don't know what to think, I hope Tamar does her research. Being a lawyer, he has his advantages. The very thing, that'll make you laugh will make you cry. I think he's holding back his real personality. But, you can't be polished and tucked all the time. It's hard to be anything other than your true self. I do wish them the very best. New love is everything, but can it weather the storm?
You're preaching JR...PEACE is a high commodity, worthwhile to be guarded even at the expense of being heard. We are never "not" heard...being honest with God about your feelings, struggles, sin, and questions is His desire. The Bible says God wants your broken and contrite heart (Psalm 51:17) because He is the only one who can heal you and truly help you overcome your struggle.
And he tries his best to make sense or explain to us what you're trying to say he tries his best to might not make you look gray gray. He must really be your yin to your yang❤
I love y’all I just pray y’all keep going strong don’t let the disagreements ruin y’all relationship. Please listen to one another and don’t talk over each other to try to be right all the time
The BIG difference here is perspective. When you speak from a place of hurt not LOVE it comes out differently. JR really seems to speak from a place of peace, power, and forward thinking! He is a keeper Tamar. Definitely listen more and compromise. I've been married 3x (2x to same and current husband after 10yrs apart). We are 20yrs together and had to drop the need to be "right" but being open to express, forgiving, and be heard without nagging, disrespect or feeling the need to say everything! I give it to the Lord and he works many things out without me needing to nag and complain. A man respects this strength. ❤ Love yaw together, keep growing! #blessings #letmenlead #godlymen
This is a great comment. She can't understand that he's chosen peace because she only knows drama. Once she chooses peace, she'll then understand why shutting up can be peaceful.
I agree with both of you. You both get to decide what is important for you to express in your relationship. Just because at the end of the day one of you might have 2 things to address and the other might have 7, doesn’t invalidate either concern. You are individuals that need different things, that’s what communication is for.. to understand each other. If one person has to limit their expression, they will start to feel closed off and possibly resentful.
JR, is very impressive and intelligent. I am very happy for Tamar. She finally got the right one. Slow down Tamar JR is not going anywhere. JR got you. The love is showing all over both of you'll faces. ❤❤
The last part of that conversation Tamar, take your own advice hunni. Listen to that man sometimes to hear and not just to respond. Not to take away from your great perceived personality on camera, but sometimes not being so loud and talking over him and interrupting him would be a better approach! As women we have to look at ourself and I'm sure we do plenty to make a man have valid complaints and arguments. But if we keep up that, we will be arguing with someone in a nursing home eventually because you done tried to win every battle. He's a lawyer and your probably doing more arguing them him😂. Anyway, marriage counseling with a pastor, beautiful wedding wether intimate or public and then a beautiful baby! Im here for it and may God bless your union! 🥰
I agree with Tamar...I don't like to hold back. But it can be expressed in a respectable way. This is one of the major issues in any relationship. Good conversation.
I'm a Leo also and I commend JR for his patience and hopefully he won't get tired of her! For me personally It's too much of everything! I wish them the best!
This man is amazing. I love Tamar, but she talks too much at times. I pray she doesn't lose him bc he's a good ,intelligent man. I encourage Tamar to listen to her man he will make you a better woman. God bless your relationship!
Tay hold on to this man i am sensitive to energy he exudes wisdom,intelligence and maturity.
Lol agree now he got her on his page
Yes he does.
@@theresawright294 They had to wait 8 months to show each other til the reality show was done.
@@keyaveetalks It was because of the contracts they couldnt show each other for months almost a year.
@@EmpathPOV_5kSubs whatttt I didn't know that 😳 😅 🤔
JR MAKES A lot OF SENSE
A whole lotta and Tamar still has a little more growing to do because she's only seeing things from her point of view and is being argumentative I can see, however I do feel as though he loves her a lot
Yes he do and as usual Tamar always got to be first don't let him hardly get word in
All the time
@@wuzzy5894 yes he love her but believe me his face expressions be saying can't I say anything with out her interrupting her family and ex husband said only thing is her mouth that's true my thing is where's the ring 🤔
Always she can't stand it cause he's right everything he saids hope he can hold on
JR always makes a lot of sense. I love hearing his perspective and gems of wisdom. As a man, he has definitely learned when, and how to choose his battles. We witness it in every video. Listen more Tamar. You often listen to respond, and not to understand
Truth be told
That last sentence of yours was BEYOND a gem! “You often listen to respond, not to understand” My God Raven!!!!!!! A triple round of applause to you👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I am saving this gem for a certain someone (husband) who does this to me ALL THE TIME! Thank you & have a wonderful day sweetheart 🙏🏼
Great observation, I totally agree!!!👍👍👍
It’s hard to watch some times. But, JR saves the moment.
@@shirionjohnson7935 he really do wasn't for him being a man show wouldn't be nothing she need let him be man and just shut up his face expressions look like he's saying can I say something without Tamar interrupting
I really love how JR teaches Tamar how to love in a new way. You can tell she has been so hurt in the past and how God put a good man in her life, that is soft. When he looks at her she replies softly. She is learning what being truly loved is,and we can see it in her beautiful smile. Tamar and JR God bless your union and may you keep being happy in your beautiful relationship and experiencing God’s Blessings🙏🏽✨
Yes! I heavily agree !
FACTS
I think this is gonna last. You can tell they truly love each other!
Bingo! It’s gonna take some work, but I truly believe they love each other and that alone is going to make it last. This podcast/tv series is going to heal them in more ways in one. I’m rooting for them ❤
She will learn a lot from his calmness.
He said he like a peace of mind. Imagine that..yall see it coming.
That look Tamar gave JR at the end, when he explained that 'nagging' is actually caused by reoccurring issues, shows that she respects that man. Tamar is grateful for that man!
I hope JR practices what he preaches, and I hope this couple grow old together.
❤yes ❤
Amen 🙏🏽❣️
That was very short-lived. How sad. I always knew Tamar should have kept her r/ship private, but I understand this may have been her 'healthiest' relationship.
My worry: she's not as healed as she makes out to be.
My other worry: he gave up too soon.
See (?) this is the thing. Many black women don’t have this with black men because they don’t respect black men no matter how well earned. However, any white person can swoop right in and get respect when they don’t deserve and have not earned it…it’s part of our conditioning. Now we see the reality, he’s a dog, all for the applause, and now we see the truth. It’s embarrassing to see so many folks keep falling for this.
It's not about "winning" Tamar.. one can be heard without being LOUD & gregarious. In-depth, calm communication is a must.
Ikr she's to dam silly loud we can hear her let the man say something
Exactly shut her mouth listen and learn
TAMAR HAS SHWOWN NO GROWTH...she needs a new therapist
I agree! However, she did say something about needing attention and being heard as she said it LOUDLY!😂😂
Exactly
JR is a wise man with high emotional intelligence.
😂😂😂😂
JR is correct by stating to pick your battles. There’s no reason to bring up everything that bothers you about your partner or what your partner does. That would drive someone crazy.
JR is the BEST thing to have ever happened to Tamar. He doesn’t give her the poison she’s used to and that her subconscious seeks after. I respect this man!!!
JR has so much grace and patience and always down to listen😘😘
I agree but you could have kept those kissing emojis. It’s disrespectful ma’am.
This was a very great and interesting conversation. God knew what he was doing for bringing JR into Tamar’s life he complete her and he definitely is seems pretty well balanced in his mental state.
Being heard isn't important of he/she isn't listening. Pick and choose your battles and let the small things go.
Absolutely
Right come on Tamar
“Let it go” then it turns into resentment (like Tamar said) ? 🤔 yeah, no. Speak up about what bothers you, even if it’s small.
@@AliasssExactly
AMEN!!!’
Loved JR’s point of view. He sounds very experienced in this situation. He is definitely a listener and he weighs his words before he says something. I also think you can never keep score in arguments and the things you do for your partner.💕
Agree with JR maturity to pick and choose battles.
Absolutely
That’s true
Tamar, you will continue to have a history of complicated relationships if you keep up the need to be right or what you think is “being heard”. Validate yourself so that you do not always have to seek it externally. This will help you with letting the small things go. We all can tell that man walks on eggshells so that you can continue with whichever point you are trying to express. You can do better. “Do you want to be right? Or do you want to have relationships?”
Lol, not the eggshells… so, it is my observations that she has been through a lot. The man (quite handsome and smooth btw) brings her a brand of love she has never experienced before. He is VERY patient and understanding with her. And sometimes I think she is testing the strength of his love. She seems to love hardt and you can tell by the way she looks at him at the end of this video that she truly loves him. Maybe all the antics is because she is not trying to be hurt again,,,
She just don’t know how to stop or when to shut up I was just overwhelmed by Her say I want to be heard I wanna be heard 🤦🏾♀️it’s too much
LOL especially when she said *free" he chuckled and I picked up on that SMH it's too much going on with this free-ish in the world today
You are correct. I’ve shared this truth on her channel before but it doesn’t seem to move either of them. Tamar is gorgeous, sexy, and smart. But she suffers from low self esteem and it shows up colossally when she’s in a relationship. Now, the only reason JR tolerates the behavior is because she’s turning him out. But let’s be clear, if the right one comes alone Tamar will be history. Her arrogance makes her believe he want leave. I just can’t see him taking her to a business meeting or Law Firm Gala popping her lips and speaking loud-maybe she’s different in her private life.
This 🎯
JR is giving ALL the sense!! He's demonstrating how to pick and choose battles in real time. The older we get, we ain't about to put energy into scenarios that aren't warranted....LEOS BABY! 🦁
Love you guys❤ I really do have to agree with JR!!!!! Everything isn’t worth the energy! In a relationship some things are better left unsaid! Choose your battle!!!!💕🙏 God bless you guys!!!!!!!!!
Pick your battles and don't sweat the small stuff. JR you appear to be a good and level headed man. Keep it classy!
Awee the way Tamar was looking at jr at the end 🥺🥺❤️❤️ . Love that you guys can agree to disagree !
Gurl she in LOVE LOVE and you can tell it’s healthy you can see my gurl just all soft and in love my boy JR is a man man so she feel safe I absolutely love this for her 🫶🏾
@@Letsberealplz agreed ! She look like she’s living her soft girl era & i love that for her .
Y’all look good together. Love the energy!!!!
It's a slippery slope having a public platform to discuss relationship issues... especially when the relationship is so new. He definitely is more chill and doesn't like to be stressed out. I hope they can find a good balance that works for their relationship in order to sustain and flourish in the long hall.
I AGREE I WOULD HAVE WAITED FOR THE RELATIONSHIP TO BE LOCKED IN AND SEALED ..BEFORE I START SHARING WHAT I VALUE ( WHO I LOVE)..AND SHARING MY RELATIONSHIP WHEN IM STILL BUILDING A FOUNDATION FOR A GREAT FUTURE..BUT EACH PERSON IS DIFFERENT. BUT SOCIAL MEDIA CAN MAKE A GOOD THINK GO BAD.
I think they've been in a relationship been goina longer than we're assuming...definitely over a year.
@nolakat8457 I still would have waited till I got married 1st...just my opinion
Exactly!! and that's where I feel the "pick and choose your battles" come in play because she has opened the door to what she clearly says she doesn't want 🤨ijs
@@Sunflowers-sz7nvLOL heck no don't wait until the marriage it shouldn't happen regardless
I like the way Tamar looks at JR. You can tell she feels safe and protected by him. I'm glad to see Tamar happy. I love these type of conversations.
That’s a grown man 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
The goal is to keep peace in our relationships. Sometimes I, as a woman have to mask how I feel when the hubby and I disagree , not because we can’t talk about it or that I’m right or he wrong, it is choosing which battles to fight and which ones can be seen as bs, and not worth it and move the hell on.
I hear what you're saying...I get it. Let's not call it "masking" though? That's the same term Tamar used. You see, I don't see it as such...that terms denotes negativity...imo.
Does he do the same for you?
Edit: I am actually truly curious.
@@nolakat8457 - agreed.
I believe Tamar could be an excellent lawyer too😂😂😂😂 I know she will win every case for sure
I’m a Leo. We are fair to the core but don’t try over powering us cause you will always be happy with us if you don’t try us negatively. We have a natural charm and we upgrade our partner in the relationship. We are low key people and straight to the point no bs😊😊😊😊love your content.
Perfect description of a Leo…I really rock with JR after this interview…Make it an issue when it needs to be an issue🤷🏽♀️
L I E S!
Yessss so true about leos she's trying him leos will just walk away cause they not about all that mouth drama
True words because everything you said about a Leo is true I'm a Leo also ❤.
@@Rachelw-yl4gs yes I'm Sagittarius and I know leos Aries very good
You Go JR, I Like The Way You Explain Yourself, So Sincere, and Very Understandable
JR seems like a really down to earth man. Seems very good for Tamar.
I love Seeing Tamar so happy, I am happy she found someone she truly loves. And they balance each other, JR has a lot of patients. Wishing you all a lifetime of happiness
Jr. Is absolutely right about holding it back sometimes everything doesn’t have to be said 💪🏾❤️
Y'all make good couple ,also look good together,yes❤
I really enjoy y’all’s content. The realness of the conversations, the mutual adoration and love you two exudes is what’s been missing from these TH-cam streets!
I love you guys together ❤️ I'm here for it. This was a great topic...we all want to be heard but like you said check the tone.. you guys are dropping real gems love the realness and different perspectives you both have...
I agree with both
Absolutely love them together
I agree Tamar. He’s use to living by himself but when he has something to say I bet he want u to listen
Pick and choose your battles is absolutely correct! The fostering of anger over the little things is definitely bound to arrest the relationship from glowing and growing🌻👍♌️♌️♌️🇯🇲
JR is sooooo dope 🤍🤍🤍and mature about where he chooses to use his energy. I actually understand both their views, Tamar got some more growing to do. JR is right…PEACE is important daily, and everything doesn’t have to be addressed. Tamar has…….. HAS to respect that his point of view is different. And that’s an asset.
FACTS!!!!!
Remember Tamar was a wife for years, and trust she knows how to be a wife and understand The maturity of a long-term relationship ❤
This was intense. You guys keep bringing it.
Tamar is a beautiful soul , funny and sweet.,JRweww knows that! She is healing not healed. In her rightful way but was blessed if She stops to understand yes expression is what those Last relationships didn’t give but Jr is different don’t have to so much express what’s understood. Tamar Braxton You said it urself if someone comes against those things that brings u peace it’s a situation so turn around look in the mirror and understand the center is you as long as u
Place ur love into energy to balance and breathe growth into better outcome will deliver stop the drinking if u can’t handle it know one is responsible or needs to support u when circumstances arrive if u can withstand the center to depend on if u go outside of that they still not reliable to input so much energy into ur shenanigans when emotions are on high because if u loud without drinking just think what drinking does to u taken u outside the box when u are not a kid. If u go for a fight then handle it stop getting mad cause someone like JR that has a job to do and prefer to hang with u but every time end up in some foolishness then blame him cause u mad at somebody else. JR is helping u to cross completely over and if u can’t handle his love then walk away know and I can promise u this He will not be single long there is no coming back . Pull it together let things go easily rather u feel u need to talk or not make better choices listen to Jr he’s not trying to hear u it’s just not worth it to Him but since it’s worth it to u try healing through before attending all these functions with ur Man that put him in situations u better off at home not ready for all that cuz just because dishnation and a movie and some songs and a child don’t make u right all the time who cares about wrong or right be peaceful humble and integrity change ur ways then u can see his ways meant u well. I love u and praying for u and believe me when I tell u this. You will not ever find another like JR baby so mature so more and some more it’s not easy but don’t walk in ego. Love I and God Bless
Jr you are such a sweetie you really are such a patient man very sweet. I see how patient with this young lady Tamar and it's amazing that you are like that. And I don't think she really caught it at heard you when you said you pick and choose your battles cuz some things are not worth it and they're Petty and you just like to keep your peace. I hope and pray that tomorrow replace these videos have the opportunity to see watching them by herself and processing things.
Although in recent news, it seems like they didn't follow their own advice, this is still great advice and I can see why they are fighting to be together. I'm happy to see this side of both of them. Every rose has its thorns, so there is no judgment here. PEACE AND LOVE ALWAYS TAYTAY
Yeah JR is right. Picking and choosing your battles is very important.
And be sure to never over talk your partner if you ask them a question allow them to answer also slow down when addressing your partner because you want to make sure that they could hear and understand the question and watch the wild hand movements because that could throw a person off making sure they don't accidentally get hit, having a conversation like two mature adults is priceless it definitely doesn't take all the extra it's doesn't take over powering the conversation to be heard and not listen, J R was so calm and on point and he's a very patient man, even if the conversation can become overbearing, love you guys look forward to seeing you all again and it's great he excepts you the way you are and allows you to be you just don't over do it because at some point it won't be so cute anymore,he's a keeper and it's obvious you're very happy with him and he with you and that's great God bless yall love and make it last forever with peace and happiness and maturity ❤❤
TOTALLY AGREE AMEN!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Tamar has always been this way (sister’s confirm).
*****THEY BOTH have valid points..... it's about compromise, folks!!!! And u don't have to compromise your values, your integrity, nor your spiritual compass to do so.....Be willing with temperance to meet the other halfway....*****
I REALLY AM PRAYING THAT TAMAR & JR HAVE A BEAUTIFUL BABY GIRL TOGETHER ... 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
I ❤ him for her. I love her in this season of her life. She's grown and now you can see her true beauty.
I’m a female Leo and I agree with JR 💯 I pick what’s important because some things aren’t that serious enough to bring up. Bringing up every little thing after a while it turns into something more serious and it comes across as nagging and that’s a problem.
Yay!!! ❤❤❤❤❤ Another episode with JR and Tamar!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yes in relationships Tamar has to come from humbleness
I agree. I never disrespect my partner in public. Even if he disrespects me. Some may say I’m weak but I think there’s a time and place for everything. You have to learn how to pick your battles.
Tamar better hold on to that man with RESPECT.
Tamar I pray that your relationship last along time
Right because that mouth gotta go he going to run 🏃
I'm sorry to say it's not I feel like she chose him to get back on top and people can stop talking about her past issues
Sorry, I think it's doomed. Tamar appears so happy.
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I think he's going to get tired of Tamar and her mouth. She's always so extra! I hope it works out.
I’m so glad you heard JR that time Tamar. I saw the light 💡 go off in your head at the end there. God bless you guys.
Honey, Tamar was not finish with that conversation. I think what you saw was "the light" in her brain shining on all the things she still wanted to say andthe questions she still had for him. Ijs.😏
JR is a jewel. I appreciate you guys perspective of the what ifs. In a lasting relationship neither party wants to hurt or embarrass the other. Good topic.
Public confrontation is not the best on any front. If you having a disagreement don't put all your business in public thats for the car or the house. Periodt. There's a time and a place for everythang
I CANNOT WAIT UNTIL YOU BOTH DO ANOTHER LIVE!! YOU ARE TRULY ONE OF MY FAVORITE CELEBRITY COUPLES. I WAS SO HAPPY TO SEE THAT YOU TWO WERE BACK TOGETHER! I WISH YOU BOTH ENDLESS LOVE, PROSPERITY, AND ABUNDANCE IN 2024 & BEYOND!! LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING WHEN YOU FIND YOUR TRUE BOAZ!! TAMAR YOU ARE GORGEOUS AND MY CAJUN BROTHER JR IS FINE AH!
DO YOU & JR PLAN TO HAVE A BABY??!! I SURE HOPE SO!! I THINK YOU & JR WOULD MAKE THE PERFECT BABYGIRL. A BEAUTIFUL ANGEL BABY WITH A BLEND OF JR'S PRETTY BLUE EYES, 🆒 , CALM, & COLLECTED DEMEANOR AND TAMAR'S PHYSIQUE, VOICE, CLASS, & SASS!!🙏🏼👼🏼🥰
KEEP GOD 1ST & THEN EACH OTHER!❤
Okaaayyy! Use that 20 second rule JR. Most arguments are that we as women try to get a response out of our partner. Men will always just wanna shut it down quick cuz they aint trying to hear that. Sometimes its ok to take the time to listen. It may not always be confrontational.
Tamar is showing soooo much healing and growth...Communication is key, Peace of Mind is Priceless! Continued Love and Blessings! ❤
Don’t react to everything you disagree with in the moment because sometimes you need time to process the entire situation. You can be free and emotionally disciplined. Choose your battles wisely. Approach a disagreement with a well thought out strategy to work towards a solution. You will be heard. ❤️❤️❤️
Yes! Emotional intelligence is important. Who wants to battle all the time?
I agree with both of y’all but if he expressed himself as much as you do then it would be a lot going on so he gives that balance where he doesn’t express everything to keep the peace in the relationship but i also see where you are coming from because you must be able to let your partner know how you feel so there is no future issues from those build ups 💯
Food for thought Tamar, Scripture tells us that silence can help us avoid sinning (Proverbs 10:19), gain respect (Proverbs 11:12), and is deemed wise and intelligent (Proverbs 17:28 - not to say that you can't speak your mind and stand up for yourself. But use Gods spirit and wisdom to know when to speak and when not too. Pick and choose your battles. A marriage is about give and take. Not about me,me,me and always wanting to make a point or be right and need to be heard. You seem to have matured in your therapy but remember a Godly women uses wisdom and love. God bless you both and wish you all the best.
👏🏽 well said
JR is calm and on point.
They really balance each other…..cute couple.
16:00 -- JR said "the way HE lives his life is: everything has to be peaceful and if I take everyday to talk all the things that I DON'T like that you do, then my life is CONTROLLED by focusing on the NEGATIVE things!!! LISTEN TO HIS WORDS AGAIN! Tamar you bring negativity daily (15 times a day)! And this relationship is unsustainable if a person/JR had to take in that energy, high pitch, over the top, unnecessary foolishness that makes you feel heard! Its exhausting! He sounds exhausted tryna explain it to you! Bring it down Sis! You want to be free? You're free to get hit by a car but you shouldn't bring harm to yourself that way! Don't bring harm to your relationship! Compromise on all that negativity you're bringing to him! He doesn't like it, it's so obvious! Course correct or another one bites the dust!
Tamar is rare, I enjoy her. If she doesn't start to listen with intent, this love story will fizzle out. You can read the room and see JR is trying to hold on to what they have. His career is demanding, then incorporate family and responsibilities. He needs PEACE. It's a wonderful experience to embrace Tamar's energy. But, her voice carries and you can't be too much ALL THE TIME. If the complaints are coming in, pink slip after pink slip. It's time to close that curtain ❤️🩹
True to me just saying her mouth gonna run this man away she want to be the one know all won't let him say nothing disagree with him but he speak the truth she don't like that
OH MY God you did right by this comment baby!!!! I'm so scared for her man. He is really trying to keep it together, keep a G. He keeping a smile on his face when he probably doesn't really want to smile all for the sake of love. Man a GOOD MAN IS HARD TO FIND OR HARD TO COME ACROSS and she one of the lucky ones that happens to have gotten a good man. You have to look at your man and feel his energy and that should make you want to calm down and observe self. I don't like when she makes him feel less than and after the video gets ready to end she grabs his hand to make it all better. Noooooooooooooooo that will get played out baby. It won't work all the time. If this marriage doesn't work out the issue has always been Tamar because JR IS A GOOD MAN AND IT IS NOT HARD TO SEE. We can feel his energy through the screen.
My theory Jr is gonna get tired very soon
@theresawright294 Hey T!
We agree. Did you hear that JR'S children's mother's complain about him not financially supporting his kids. I don't know what to think, I hope Tamar does her research. Being a lawyer, he has his advantages. The very thing, that'll make you laugh will make you cry. I think he's holding back his real personality. But, you can't be polished and tucked all the time. It's hard to be anything other than your true self. I do wish them the very best. New love is everything, but can it weather the storm?
They seem so happy . I really love them as a couple . They seem equally yoked . 😊
You're preaching JR...PEACE is a high commodity, worthwhile to be guarded even at the expense of being heard. We are never "not" heard...being honest with God about your feelings, struggles, sin, and questions is His desire. The Bible says God wants your broken and contrite heart (Psalm 51:17) because He is the only one who can heal you and truly help you overcome your struggle.
And he tries his best to make sense or explain to us what you're trying to say he tries his best to might not make you look gray gray. He must really be your yin to your yang❤
I love JR view points very on point 🎉🎉🎉
Jr got in trouble after this yall😂😂😂
Hi Tamar I always look forward to Tuesdays for your show. You guys always make my day !! ❤
I agree lots of sense JR.❤❤❤❤❤❤
You guys exude happiness. ❤
I also believe in pick and choose your battles my husband and I really believe that!
I love y’all I just pray y’all keep going strong don’t let the disagreements ruin y’all relationship. Please listen to one another and don’t talk over each other to try to be right all the time
Waste of time but true I would love see Tamar sit and listen to her man for chance stop trying wear pants and the skirt
The BIG difference here is perspective. When you speak from a place of hurt not LOVE it comes out differently. JR really seems to speak from a place of peace, power, and forward thinking! He is a keeper Tamar. Definitely listen more and compromise. I've been married 3x (2x to same and current husband after 10yrs apart).
We are 20yrs together and had to drop the need to be "right" but being open to express, forgiving, and be heard without nagging, disrespect or feeling the need to say everything! I give it to the Lord and he works many things out without me needing to nag and complain.
A man respects this strength. ❤
Love yaw together, keep growing!
#blessings #letmenlead #godlymen
This is a great comment. She can't understand that he's chosen peace because she only knows drama. Once she chooses peace, she'll then understand why shutting up can be peaceful.
@chrisssy9016 thanks so much, it is certainly Godly wisdom! 🙏🙏🙏
JR speaks volumes his Perspective is Relatable .this is Refreshing ❤
I agree with both of you. You both get to decide what is important for you to express in your relationship. Just because at the end of the day one of you might have 2 things to address and the other might have 7, doesn’t invalidate either concern. You are individuals that need different things, that’s what communication is for.. to understand each other. If one person has to limit their expression, they will start to feel closed off and possibly resentful.
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Yes pick and choose your battles 👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾😉
Growth in relationships come from what you do without arguing
That's us Leo!!! That's how we do. But we're also very humble.
His perspectives is so smart and classy..love it..wishing u both blessings 🙌 💖
I’m an Aquarius and my husband is a Sag and we are day and night and it works. Jr loves the energy she brings trust me
Absolutely lived this topic, it was needed. Learned alot from this.❤
Come on JR!!! That’s a grown a$& man Tamar!!! Happy for you on so many levels!! 😊😊😊
I love these segments. It’s giving me aunt and uncle talking at the cookout about real life.
Omg jr reminds me of my husband. Pull you to the side or change convo .when we in public.I’m so opposite but I need to work on it . True facts
JR, is very impressive and intelligent. I am very happy for Tamar. She finally got the right one. Slow down Tamar JR is not going anywhere. JR got you. The love is showing all over both of you'll faces. ❤❤
The last part of that conversation Tamar, take your own advice hunni. Listen to that man sometimes to hear and not just to respond. Not to take away from your great perceived personality on camera, but sometimes not being so loud and talking over him and interrupting him would be a better approach! As women we have to look at ourself and I'm sure we do plenty to make a man have valid complaints and arguments. But if we keep up that, we will be arguing with someone in a nursing home eventually because you done tried to win every battle. He's a lawyer and your probably doing more arguing them him😂. Anyway, marriage counseling with a pastor, beautiful wedding wether intimate or public and then a beautiful baby! Im here for it and may God bless your union! 🥰
He’s So Mature! Sometimes Tamar brings that immature energy. (Just sometimes) However He is definitely good for her!
I agree with Tamar...I don't like to hold back. But it can be expressed in a respectable way. This is one of the major issues in any relationship. Good conversation.
JR makes a lot of sense. He could help a lot of men out here. Love you guys, see you both next week
I'm a Leo also and I commend JR for his patience and hopefully he won't get tired of her! For me personally It's too much of everything! I wish them the best!
AGREE!!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
JR will definitely keep Tamar grounded. I love him for her. She is so smitten with him. They way she sits and looks at him is lovely.
Tamar seems to really like him. I’m happy for them
Yes I can tell she’s in love with him
Yes, a lot should have listened to this video ...please share...they both had a very good conversation that we all can relate to. Awesome guys.❤❤❤
Got to love ❤️ Tamar & JR Law love is in the air !!!!!
I just love this show ❤❤
Man we Love JR! We love y’all together!!
Ok Tay Tay Jr is a wise man and is making a lot of good points.
Tamar man we love y’all ❤
This man is amazing. I love Tamar, but she talks too much at times. I pray she doesn't lose him bc he's a good ,intelligent man. I encourage Tamar to listen to her man he will make you a better woman. God bless your relationship!