General Counsel for an NBA Team Is About to Sign a Love Contract | Dear Future Wifey S5, E405
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- Interracial couples trigger others who are often unaware of their own biases. Sekou Lewis and Mattie Steger are no strangers to judgmental stares by onlookers. As they approach their wedding date, June 25, 2022, they transparently share their love story. It will truly challenge viewers on, “The Color of Love.”
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Dear black men- when you date outside your race, do so with love and without insulting and degrading black women. I think this is a lovely couple and I'm happy that he has the foresight and self love to find a woman that works for him without being disrespectful to the women who look like his mother. I wish this couple all the happiness, and love in the world.
Beautifully stated.
@@DearFutureWifey Thank you Laterras for sharing your journey and thoughts. Love your podcast ☺️
Women as well.
Absolutely agreed very lovely put
@@MicahLWebb Thank you ☺️
First thing: I rock with them. Their relationship is built on a foundation of mutual love, respect, transparency, and honesty with themselves, one another, and God. It doesn’t get much better than that. I LOVE that they decided to have hard conversations early. It has set a precedent in their relationship. From now on it will be their “ normal “.
Second thing: I have ALWAYS wanted a Black man, but in my forties I opened my mind to men of other ethnicities.
I told God: I really want a Black man, but if You have a man of another color for me, I’m open, and I would never want to block my blessing. That’s been a few years ago. Still single.😆😆😆😆. But I’m open to the Husband God has for me regardless of his ethnicity.
amen sister!
🥰
I love how transparent Laterras is because I was triggered when I saw the couple but because I am open minded and don’t judge I decided to watch and so far so good. Although I do love to see black families being built up. I can appreciate how he talked about his nieces and him not tearing one race of woman down to build another up.
Congratulations to them and may God bless their union 💕
Ditto, for sure.
Thank you for acknowledging and affirming your nieces, because their tender hearts must be protected. We sisters are good with your choice because we are learning to make the best choice for us as well.
The question is.. "How does his marriage effect your life?"
I think black women get upset because they feel rejected. But that man or any man's choice has absolutely nothing to do with you or your worth as a woman, especially as a black woman
Yes, thank you for reminding me.
When I first seen who was apart of this interview I was triggered. They really seem like a lovely couple and I'm happy they have found love as that is something I dream of having one day. With that said I was triggered because I'm an educated successful black woman most likely in similar social circles as Sekou yet I don't have access to men like Sekou. Its also triggering because as a black woman I am expected to provide child rearing support when the men in my life that partner with non black women realize the cultural gaps that impact their children. If I decline I am seen as bitter so I must smile and teach their wives how to cook, comb hair, and reinforce the beauty of their children when the white community rejects them...Its a lot which makes it very hard for me not to be triggered when I see couples like this.
Totally understand
I can totally empathize by how you could be triggered however in your statement you said you do not have access to men like Sekou. That is not true what you speak into the world will be reflected back at you. So speak the man you want into the universe your spirit and God and he will definitely show up. Manifest this man and call him into your life. Positivity is the key, focus on your great thoughts about beautiful you. A guy with the great attributes of a Sekou can and will be yours!!
This couple seems genuine so I wish them nothing but the best. However, I agree with this statement and appreciate your transparency. I am an accomplished woman myself and I too was triggered . Black men of this caliber typically don’t date within their race, and there’s a number of reasons why. The “stares” aren’t from jealously or bitterness, it’s a feeling of resentment and betrayal. Black women have been in the front lines supporting our men, even when they’ve turned their back on us it seems. We are the reason justice was served for George Floyd, and laws were passed for Breonna Taylor. Our “attitude” , strength and perseverance plays an integral role in the legacy of a black man. You’re right, black women will be the ones coaching her on how to care for her black child's hair, and how to cook for her man, but will reap no reward from it. We are tired of being used and left with nothing. Black women deserve more access to happy and healthy relationships.
Wow very well said I agree and empathize with you. A lot of healing needs to be done in the black community, I had to check myself because immediately when I saw the picture I was triggered.
I emphatize in the fact that maybe you are not aware of who God is. So, I can understand why you speak that. Whether this man or woman was white, black, Hispanic etc, they explained that they did the work it required for them to meet. He explained that he loves her dearly because of her love for Christ. Don't try to validate yourself by your success, or what you have acquired because to have a successful marriage, God has to be the one leading you.
I knew Mattie in college. We were in the same sorority and I didnt fit the typical mold and was rly weird. She was always a very sweet and kind person. Congrats to you both. Sending so much love to you both. AOT.
Wow! Small world. That's amazing. There's a saying that we may never remember someone's name but we'll always remember how they treat us.
This was a good episode & great gems were dropped:
Find someone who meets you whole.
Wait for the person who accepts you for who you are.
Don’t deny yourself the blessing.
I just really appreciate how Sekou sat in the feelings & questions of how his nieces may one day think & feel. That was incredibly beautiful to me & brought tears to my eyes. There is a way to honor your past, respect who you now are, and to move forward into what life brings and I sense that they have done that. The emotional depth & connection of this couple resonated with me. I wish them both complete joy 🙏🏽
Thank you for this episode! I went from being triggered to being delivered…Seeing black men with non-black women almost always feels like rejection mostly because of the narrative that usually comes along with it. I also feel that the rejection is felt deeper because some black women only see themselves with black men. If a black woman is herself open to diversity in dating, the sting of the rejection may be reduced. With all that said, I felt so cared for by Sekou when he spoke of his concern over how his nieces and the other women in his family would interpret his relationship. I felt so much love in this episode and am hopeful that I too will find love like Sekou and Mattie! Praying for you both and I will let love light the way🙏🏾💜…
This is beautiful insight. ❤
She's very likeable. Without even talking of colour, their story just reminds you that there's hope. That there are singles out there working on themselves and who one day will be ready to be met by another who is also working on themselves to make something beautiful together. Yes Lord!
Her voice! Before she mentioned about the podcast I was just thinking about how unique and soothing her voice was. I would listen to her podcast. Rooting for them as a couple and pray I get to experience such a love that has peace and not turmoil 🙏🙏xx
Honestly, I had to examine myself when my notification came up. I was not as enthused to tune into this podcast. But I was wrong. The sincerity and conviction of this couple is apparent. Thank you for sharing your journey and opening my eyes to the reality that love and pride in an interracial relationship can co-exist. The way she grabbed her heart at the mere utterance of his words is so endearing. L- I saw your spark come back. Keep on hoping, she will come.
I totally understand. We're all on this journey together.
I felt it in my spirit when he said “she brings me peace”.
She’s absolutely stunning, but it gets better when you see her sweet spirit. Love what they stand for, wish more black men were this self aware and respectful 🙌🏾
Why is she stunning? Because you subscribe to the white standard of beauty? Nothing European is attractive to me.
Love this one Latteras!!! Sooooo good. I am one that has given "The Look" because I was raised to feel some type a way about interracial relationships. But this is very different from what I was raised to see. I see it differently now! Thanks for this!
Love that! Me too. I'm a student learning.
First off she’s absolutely beautiful( can’t skate pass that ), secondly before I watched this episode for whatever reason I was having thoughts of dating outside my race . And I wondered how would I be perceived by everyone else bc to know me is know that I love black ✊🏿 ! I also don’t want to miss out on the love of my life bc of skin color . So it was interesting to see this episode, makes me wonder now if God is opening me up to something new , bc I literally was having some random thoughts about dating outside my race & then this episode pops up in my feed . As usual great host & guest,
& I wish them much success in their journey together 🙏🏽
I love providing perspective.
@@DearFutureWifey creative;)
Well I think people keep a lot of their good stuff in relationships private cause people out here will want the good stuff u have and will go after it so I think u need discernment about how much of the good stuff in ur relationship u should share and with who but the glow of love is soo visible
Sis I promise you, I had those same thoughts and then it popped up! I was like Lord! 😂😂🙌🏾🙌🏾💜💜
Its the LOVE for me! I love how God aligns your connections. Great episode as always!
I truly enjoyed this episode. God gave me a thought. He has children of all races. When He put 2 of His children together, who cares if no one else accepts it. This episode helped me. I matured from this episode. Thank you 🙏🏾
This! ❤️❤️❤️
With these relationships, I tend to find the black Men especially, not liking who they are or thinking white is better, or wanting to go through the white door of opportunity (yes I have a lot of men friends and I'm married to a confident Black Man). My major concern is seeing the wealth transferred back into the white community. My professional soccer player friends told me, once they are traveling all that is presented to them are white women, other ethnicity and no black women, because these basketball , football industry, work with agencies that send these women to events, before they even reached their hotel or even know were they are staying. The Lord showed me my Nephew was dating a mix lady, before he even told me, bwoy the Lord warned me in that dream, so I had to hold a compassionate heart towards this situation. However these things are deeper than us. Once you have money, these women will hardly leave, lets be honest.
I’ve discovered that Blk men who pursue white woman are not appealing to me at all. I can be friends with them but nothing beyond that. I’ve tried to build a relationship with a few blk men with white women preferences and there’s always a disconnect. We’re just too different! So I’m happy those type of blk men can find love within their preference. I just wish they wouldn’t experiment with trying to date blk women and wasting our time.
Lol as a black college athlete. A lot of my teammates are into white women. I think a lot of it has to do with the environment they was raised in. I was raised in a predominately black and Hispanic environment so my dating preference always were a women that look like me. My teammates grew up in white areas and they like white girls. There is a big cultural difference between the two. I think that’s why I struggle to get along with them because we have different interest.
Just curious, what were your experiences like dating these men?
This episode was so amazing. So many good nuggets for everyone like being vulnerable, being comfortable in your skin, having difficult conversations, knowing who you are. So good. ❤️❤️
I will say, it is easier for a white woman to bring that peace and quietness when she has never experienced or understands the many challenges and the environment many black women and men have to endure. Unfortunately, we as women and a race are not given that luxury or privilege.
That's an assumption. We have no idea what people have gone through in their past.
@@DearFutureWifey I can only base it on my experience throughout my own life. ..as well as conversations I've had. At this time in my life, I don't have those conversations anymore. People love who they love and it doesn't have anything to do with my life. It's all about love.
Wholeness brings peace ☮️, that’s something all women can possess.
@Dear Future Wifey
Her walking around as a pretty blond white woman affords her an experience black women will never have. If you’re going to open this conversation we have to have it genuinely. White privilege is a thing and black women generally have more challenges and obstacles as white women that shapes most of us differently. Heck seeing “our” men often choosing someone like her over someone like us is something we have to process and work through. If nothing else I know she has and will never deal with that…
But there are a lot of black women who haven’t gone through any struggle and they still have terrible attitudes. I’m speaking from personal experience but God has shown me where my attitude needs huge overhaul/areas I NEED TO TAKE PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR instead of pinning the blame on how “we’ve gone through a struggle no one else has” bc personally (and thankfully) I haven’t gone through any struggle🙏🏾
Another great podcast interview!!!! When he said ‘the world has a way of being consistently inconsistent, & she didn’t run!!! I knew’ that’s paraphrased not quoted lol 😆! That is what stuck out to me & the solidness of understanding one another regardless of race. That’s a beautiful thing.
Thank you again!
"Let Love Light The Way!" What I like about this couple is not only do they love one another, they respect, they see, seek understanding, and they hear each other. Great interview!
You did it again King! You are healing the world one podcast episode at a time ♥️
Look at the way she looks at him, you can see the love in her eyes. Fellas be with who that gives you peace, no matter the race
Unpopular opinion: it literally hurts heart when black men say, “she brings me peace” when dating/marrying non-black women. Of course she brings you peace.
She’s not a black woman whom was raped by a slave master and bare his offspring; worked 2-3 jobs to feed her kids because the deadbeat dad left her; called ugly because of the color of her skin(too dark); whom life doesn’t matter in white America; have to pray everyday that your black son/daughter don’t get shoot by a cop; and looked down own by a black men. So of course a non-white woman bring black men peace. They use black women up until they become successful then go give it to a WHITE soul cyclist instructor🤦🏾♀️ I could careless that a black man chase non-black women. But let’s be honest! Those same women wouldn’t dare want you if you didn’t have a penny to offer. I’m just thankful that my husband’s parents taught him to love on black women. Cherish them because the world hates them. I’m thankful because I have a black husband that supports and believe in black love. Oh! And he definitely finds peace in me as I find peace in him…
Your opinion is not unpopular at all…quite the opposite. Thank you for sharing it.
Thank you for your beautiful comment… Cause babbyyyy… I’m laughing so hard at the soul cyclist… 😂😂😂
It's all about true love, God made us all. Best wishes to the couple as they continue their journey. Enjoyed the podcast!
I enjoyed these two ! In my parent’s language Sekou means relief . Wish you two nothing less than the absolute best!
“Let love light the way” I receive that! In this single season I want to be open to love even if it comes in a package that I wasn’t expecting.
Me too
This was a great podcast. This has open my eyes to love and communication
Really enjoyed this podcast!! Be with who helps you to maintain peace, regardless of their outer appearance. That’s called, Kingdom mindset. God created us all fearfully and wonderfully. Society + culture will have to catch up!! Y’all are a beautiful couple & it’s evident that you two are meant to be. God bless your union.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
There were so many great nuggets guys! Thanks a million for sharing!
Love their magnificent genuine love 💕
This Podcast gives me life/hope
We needed this message 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💞
Another great podcast congratulations 🎊 I think I watched this whole podcast with a smile on my face, what a beautiful couple, I love how he water's her with his words of affirmation ❤
This episode was amazing, I wept throughout the entire interview, and the prayer, powerful!
This is the best episode yet!
This is a beautiful episode. Not that you don't come across other instances with sessions like this, but there was intentionality, you could see but most of all here the genuine commitment they have with one another. I pray God's blessings upon this couple and their union. And for your show God bless you.
Totally. Thank you
@@DearFutureWifey keep up the good work and Ministry. It has a God assigned purpose to the show. And those who have ears to hear let them hear. Have a blessed day 🙏
Congratulations to the both of them in their love journey ❤️. LaTerras thanks for another great segment!
God didn’t look at skin color when He chose us..He looks at the heart!♥️♥️♥️🙌🏽😭😭😭
This conversation was so good, resonated in many ways! When I look at them, I don't see color, I see the beauty of love, bravery and hope. Their story is already shining bright, leading the way to a beautiful destiny. I pray God's continued covering over them as they begin to flourish as one🎉
That's awesome
Wow I have so much to say about the authenticity of this podcast. The guests were so articulate and clear about their journey and love. The interviewer was ministering both to them and me! There is something about a man with vision and direction in life - just as there is about a woman who is comfortable in their own skin🙏🏿🤲🏿🙌🏿
Their relationship is built on no pretense by accepting one another's experience. It's what you could hope for in any relationship. Blessing to them both!
This one is Definitely in my top 5 episodes! So much insight and a great perspective!
Awesome, thank you!
This was absolutely breathtaking!
I sent this to my son who had the same feelings and questions as Sekou and I felt that this would speak to him on a soul deep level. I wanted him to see that he wasn’t alone.
The pressure that comes from both communities, I love the transparency from both parties. God bless and May he continue to be at the center of your love. 🙏🏽
Great episode as always, wonderful couple. May God bless your union🙏🏼
Thank you for this episode! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I cannot imagine what would have happened if my great grandparents (on both sides) had not met, married (or not), and conceived my grandparents as mixed races. I don't look at my white aunt, uncles, or cousins any differently than my Native American, or African American family members. Nor my mixed race niece and nephews because my brother loved and supported their mothers. My family means so much to me. This helped me to see love as my great grandparents saw each other. What a marvelous heritage. ❤💜 Truly love has no color. Blessings to this couple and their union.
This was a great episode and definitely a great topic!!! Well done, Laterras
I just love the transparency in these discussions...Some great moments to ponder...Hard questions asked and no dodging the answers...Good luck to this lovely couple- what matters is the foundations their union is built on and it appears solid.
There were some good nuggets shared. I did not hear a lot about prayer and seeking God's face in making the decision. God surely would not have said to move in together before marriage.
Wow i love this episode so much. I can relate in so many levels
This resonates with me. I Love the Color of Love Episode. This Couple has a Beautiful Love Story. They are Seriously about the each other. I love how they had Deep,Serious Conversations Early in their Relationship. They way She Looks at him, and how he looks at her Just Beautiful. Congratulations and Blessings to both of you on Your Love and Marriage.💕🙏🏾
Christians shouldn’t live together before marriage. We Christians have no conviction anymore :(
I enjoyed this interview. Beautiful couple!! Best wishes to them.
Glad you enjoyed it
This is powerful. Kudos to her, for her honesty about her reactions within those tough conversations. I think in this day and age, we feel as if we have to pretend and process tough and difficult unprecedented situations immediately. Respond perfectly immediately. I love the fact that she allowed herself to be honest in not knowing, and that he was patient as she figured out her response as well. She wasn’t posing, and he gave so much grace as she navigated such a huge life reality for him. I appreciated their honesty and transparency!
I absolutely loved this interview. I pray you have a most beautiful union 💖💖🙏🏾
Thank you both for sharing your truth in respect, trust, love, understanding, and grace! Much Love to you
Wow Laterras...prophetic and so thoughtful with your words. This couple is sweet, kind and compassionate.
Amen
This was absolutely beautiful, delightful to watch. Incredible love story. Indeed...."Let love light the way"👌
"Let love light the way"... Beautiful!
Beautiful love story! Have faith in what God presented to you!!! I love it. Many blessings of forever to this beautiful couple on their upcoming marriage union.
Latteras!!!! I went back and watched your podcasts of all the beautiful, successful, intelligent single black women and cried! I'm not looking for marriage because I'm 60 , but I do hurt for the young beautiful black women who have so much going for themselves, but are not chosen to be wives, especially by wealthy Black men! Black men are making black women baby mamma's and not wives. This is devastating our community. This podcast just demonstrate the lack of unavailable black men. In this podcast we see you Latteras,( single)and a black man with a white woman...two unavailable men! I'm not just venting to you but I'm asking God what he has against black women? Why so much hatred and disrespect from black men? What's going to happen to my beautiful successful, educated niece's? Will they be alone for the rest of their life?
I need to unpack one more thing! You said your white assembly of God church family gave you their second hand clothes and shoes. How many of your white Christian friends marched in the street when George Floyd was murder? You know who was marching in protest....the women who are the least in the eyes of black men...black women!
Why would you say I'm unavailable? I'm very much available.
I know you asked this question of Latteras but I wanted to chime in. As a young childless, educated, unmarried black women I had to be real with myself about a lot of black men. A lot of them aren't equipped to be husbands, providers and shouldn't have the access to be fathers. The harsh reality for women like your nieces and myself is that we have to move away from being loyal to one group of men. Date who you want and don't ever let a man know he has your loyalty without giving anything in return. I feel like that's why some black men treat some black women so horribly because they know they'll be there marching for them and no other race of woman will. I've dated black men with various backgrounds and they all have the same mindset; what do you bring to the table, no gold diggers etc. I see all these channels on TH-cam telling black women how to get a "high value man" or nobody likes black women; not much on teaching these men much of anything. Except for how to sleep with a lot of women. I figured why that is. There are always droves of black women ready to show their undying loyalty to men who could care less. They going to date outside their race anyway because black women are too strong, aggressive and combative. And any other word they can think of to attack with. Are there available black men who are ready to be husbands, protectors, providers etc, I'm sure. But I hope black women don't sit around waiting for one. I hope black women stop being bothered or upset when they see black men dating other women. I use to be disappointed in the past, but for what! To any single black women that might read this do what's best for YOU.
Laney, sis, I totally understand your comment & perspective until 😵💫 the, “I’m not venting…” You are venting & that is OK! I do think you should look for the heart and sincerity in their exchange with one another, us as the audience, and Laterras as the host. You’ve got to process your hurt & anger with God and in a professional setting.
@@brittanymillner I feel like you gave good advice but you didn't understand her perspective. The original comment had 10% out of 100% to do with the couple in the video. The other 90% I feel was disappointment and frustration with the majority of the black community. She didn't say she wasn't venting; she said I'm not only venting to Latteras but God as well. Unfortunately I see a lot of black women express the same grievances all over TH-cam and Instagram due to interracial couples and them holding onto the idea of not getting their black love fairytale.
@@loveneisha black men aren't stopping other men from marrying black women, and you mentioned black men bashing black women. If anything, I see a lot more black women bashing black men, seriously even your comment is an example of this.
This blessed my entire heart! Grand love story!!! 💜💜
Be with someone who makes you happy
Great episode
Amen! I am very happy for them. In our society today, if you find true authentic love, who cares what color. Love conquers all!!!
Great questions. What an honest conversation!!! SN: the last few exchanges reminded me of an Anita Baker song "Lead Me Into Love"
I really enjoyed the podcast, peace and blessings.
I love this couple and their story. I pray that God keeps them.
Once again another great episode 👏🏾
It’s 2022 almost 2023, why are we still having discussions about who someone falls in love with. Aren’t we all human beings?
I loved their story!
Lead with Love!❤
Wow, wishing this beautiful young couple all the best in their journey ❤️
I have really enjoyed watching and listening to this interview..It was Dope
I enjoyed every minute of this 💛
You did it again later as...love your podcasts always informative...thanks for being and doing what God would have you to do 💕
I absolutely love this! ❤
I don’t comment so often on one post Mattie you a great woman , keep keeping on 👑
This was amazing.
WOW!!!!!! Powerful episode!!!🔥🔥🔥👏👏👏 Thanks for your excellent work Laterras! GOD bless you.👏🙏❤
Great interview
Beautiful letter to your beautiful Queen
I rock with them big time, just didn't want the episode to end, lover the breaker of all barrier, To love.
Best of luck you two!! Prayers for God's direction and covering as you move into the next phase of Love!
Another GREAT interview. I will admit. I had some of the same bias as you did. But after viewing this video. My mind has open. This couple is DOPE! Blessing to them on there future nuptials. 🙏👍👌🎊🎉
Will make my donation.to contribute to Kingdom Royale which is what we as a race should do support our brothers doing great works no matter how small bless
Lead with love not your ego. Let love light the way. Deep! Taking notes from Nairobi!!
I have absolutely no problem with black men choosing other races of women. I don’t think they owe black women anything nor vice versa ( ie black women should reconsider their loyalty). But I do have a problem with them being disingenuous with black women. I would have been fine if he said he chose a white woman and saw no issue with doing so - the implications never crossed his mind. But to acknowledge that he knew full well that his decision would, unfortunately, have an impact and contribute to one of the problems plaguing the black community, yet he chose her anyway perturbs me. That means he either deliberately foresaked black women for her (based him admitting that he understood the impact), or the story of his nieces and aunts and such is just something he made up after the fact to avoid being labeled. This is why black women stay on the hook. I wish black men would just come out and say whom they prefer so that black women can move on and stop looking crazy out here. He chose that white woman because that’s what he prefers. He should just say that (if anything) and keep that story about and the black women in his life who he apparently didn’t admire enough to want to build a family with someone like them. Sistas are out here devoting their lives to finding a “good black man” who for all her loyalty will fight his inner turmoil to the death to be with a white woman over a black woman. And, I think the only way black women will feel released from what they think is their assignment is if black men stop dangling the carrot if you have no intent to feed a black woman.
Yes!
You don't know him
My question is this, has he ever dated a black women?
@@dstreet43 Why does it matter, the other video with a black woman and a white man got a completely different reaction. Why is that?
@@tbcreloaded7529 I don’t need to know him. I know what he said and I reacted to that. In any case, my comment is less about him and more about this behavior and how I believe black women need to take heed and move accordingly. I don’t know what you mean about reactions on another video. But to be clear about my reaction, I don’t care about who bm choose. What I care about is black women’s image. My problem is that the world sees that bm have no devotion to black women (evident by their actions) but bw fail to accept that truth because some bm string bw along. Bw are out here looking like we’re desperate and have no standards. That’s partially our fault for not loving ourselves more (I’m not in that category but I am a bw I’ll lump myself in). But it’s also bm fault for taking advantage. If bm prefer white and Hispanic women, great. Stop using bw for sex, stop making them single mothers, stop giving them stds, stop using them for a come up then dumping them when you make it. Stop pretending. Unfortunately, I know it’s not going to stop. People are going to get over if they can. So, I want black women to really listen when men like this speak. I want bw to get some standards and require reciprocity. I don’t think bw should give bm the time of day unless and until bm desire and devotion to loving (not just sleeping with) bw is strong enough for them to resist pretty blonds.
Just like God, love is transparent and shows no boundaries of colors, it just loves.
Beautiful he laid the foundation Beautifully blessings to them both
Be your own peace. I rock with them. I love it! The transparency is beautiful!
You see why we needed you Sir. I for one have not seen this. Wow! This was real. Mostly we hear she married him for money or he married her to feel important. This couple just changed it. Thank you for showing us Mr Host! He really loves her and she's smitten.
#Love has no colour. Clearly.
I was not even dating this friend of mine. We just went everywhere together and we would sit in restaurants and not get waited on. Because he was with a black girl. So it's really hard what you guys have to overcome. All the best🙏🏾💖
Throughout this interview I heard words like vulnerability, transparency, brave, risk, truth, within my self, affirmation, and confirmation....and as they spoke, the volume of their love for one another got higher and higher.
When you are blessed to experience love God's way, it supercedes color and expresses the beauty God designed it to be.
Such a beautiful, refreshing couple, congratulations!!!!
Yes dancing the dance of transparency, more and more with every step. Now that's a beautiful song...True transparency, naked and not ashamed...Withholding Nothing
Enjoyed watching, different topic about ❤. I believe most of the time relationships start with attraction, respect, honesty n admiration for the other but when you embrace your own spiritual nature n your partner is willing as well, you both experience spiritual worship.. I also believe when you love,, physical, human n divine, it can truly be amazing. Great conversation n thank you for sharing your journey of love. God bless your parents n entire family members who have contributed in natruing you both. Both colours are beautiful, love has no colour. We are all God's creation..I like the words, Don't let doubt take away your blessings. Thank you n wish you well in life.
That's what love should look like...Honest and True, irrespective of race or culture. God Bless their union.
Oohhh, this was a "plot twist"...... and the folks were not expecting THIS experience. Cover this couple Lord and establish them in You! As I watch this their wedding is 4 days away. Peace and blessings....
Just Delightful!
I could bask in the Beauty of this episode and go on and on ☺️
l pray that our Heavenly Father continue to cover this beautiful couple.
Mr. L .. I love that you have the transparent and sometimes difficult conversations with people. 🖤