The way Alastair looks at him the whole time (5:06) just melts my heart. You can literally see the love. You guys are so genuine and...i love that you're so open about everything (also "deeper" topics). You deserve the best ❤
Self-sabotage is so destructive. It's good that you can recognize that about yourself and self-correct. You have really grown and matured, Zach. You seem more grounded and at peace with yourself. Alistair is such a calm gentle loving soul. He clearly adores you. I think he gives you the stability and confidence to take your life to the next level. You can tell that he really believes in you. ❤️ Now you just need to believe in yourself and stop sabotaging all the wonderful things that are coming your way. Good luck!
You two are so lucky to have found each other. It's a true blessing to find and marry your soul mate. Don't ever take it for granted. You have no idea how fortunate you are! Most people will never experience such joy. It is a rare and precious thing.
I just love how Al just keep staring at Zach, like he adores him so fucking much. You both are so lucky have eachother, specially Zach, never let Al go you cowboy!
Guys, as a retired psychologist who did couples therapy, I would recommend that couples set up a time during the week to discuss issues. Make sure you are both rested and fed so you are at your best. Put a piece of paper on the fridge and each can put things on it to discuss. AND make sure you do fun things together. Research shows that couples who do 5 fun things to 1 non-fun thing have better relationships. Dr John Gottman did empirical research on what works for couples. Best wishes, love birds.
You guys make my day! So nice seeing two people happy together and being able to share yourselves with us. In this shitty world, you bring some light and I thank you for that 🥰
Y'all make a great example for couples and singles alike. Being kind to each other and honest. It makes my heart happy. Thank you for your efforts. I know it's got to be hard to keep up with your broadcasting and your relationship. Happy Holidays:)!!!
Is it me, or does Alastair just always look like he's unbelievably proud of Zach, and being with him? Something tells me that Alastair is a true romantic. Anyway, nice to just see the purity of love from both of you. Hold on gents & enjoy the Ferris-wheel of life!
I am so impressed with your shared maturity. When I was in my 20's I did not have the self-awareness you both have. I am so happy that you represent so well a generation where the physical is not the only thing that allows us to bond with another man. And yes, what you broadcast is exactly therapy in that you shared with each other, you listened to each other and I have little doubt that you learned a little about each other. That constitutes a good therapy session.
You guys are so good together and healthy. I am having a grin while watching the video and my husband is giving me the side-eye. This one is too short, can’t wait for more vlogs.
It’s sooo good seeing you guys. Happy to hear Zach say more vlogs are coming. Also, it was cute watching Alastair look and listen to Zach while he was talking. He was really focused on what Zach was saying like a good listener. You guys are so adorable. You definitely brighten up my day.
8:30 funny you should mention that, because years ago, when I was backpacking through western Europe, I was just outside Barcelona, hiking in the foothills of Mount Tibidabo. I was at the end of this path and I came to a clearing. There was a very secluded lake and there were tall trees all around. It was dead silent, and across the lake I saw a beautiful woman bathing herself. But she was crying...
I’ve never said this to anyone anywhere before, but y’all are such a refreshingly CUTE couple, and you make me feel good. But the main aspect I appreciate is your devotion to each other. Zach makes sure he’s macho about it, but Alastair’s love is SO out there for us to vicariously live through. Thank you, Alastair, you are one in a million.
I came out went horrible for me and it was at a time where I was almost dying my family doesn't accept me at least on my dad's side. But I can be myself now. You guys are such a good inspiration. Been watching you guys since before your marriage.
Love the way y'all can actually laugh at yourselves. That's the key to a long lasting marriage. Stay happy and safe. And to Quote a saying from TorchSong Trilogy "No Problem Is More Lasting,Than The Solution" Not sure if I remembered that right but that's the gist.
@Josue2018 don't say that...don't say that...don't say that...why would you say that? Lol...you better buy a video game...paint a picture...If youre bored enough to leave your person...that's on you...especially if you got a husband like Alister...he would be a fool...lmao🤣...that dont makes sense to me lol.
@@the-symbol-of-the-umbran-way what's not true...that video games dont ended boredness as well as painting? Or that Alister is not a fox and if he's single that's dumb? lol and I'm not even gay or a man What is not true? You better take your partner on a date if you bored...go sit on the grass and read a good book together...have sex at California Adventures...be spontaneous...if you are bored that is your fault. (You were not talking to me. just noticed that. I just wanted to say that sex at California Adventures is an option lol (nobody is there they are all at Disneyland. Get the hopper pass) and that Alister is a fine !! That is my boo...but I'm a women though and I'm not even gay...lol...Alister can read me a book anyday of his life lmao...🤣...I'm not a homewrecker though...I'm a lot of things but that...)
Your wonderful guys. I have been with my husband for 35 years and just love him more each day. We still pick on each other, tell dirty jokes . Keep up making each other laugh. Your love for each other shows. Luigi & Chris
Zach I'm SO hearing you! AND I wanna'' encourage the hell outta' you right now!! I started a novel like 20+ years ago, and then when the now ex-wife bailed, I was so depressed for SO long, all my creative endeavors fell by the wayside. Here's the upside of this f'ed up year: I've picked back up so many projects, my novel among them. And I'm going great guns on it!! FINISHED chapters, linked several of them together, the story is GOIN'!! You're young, have a great relationship, and you're hella' talented. WRITE!, you can do it! And congrats on 4 years guys!
You two are fine and just keep being you! My husband and I are both 54 and still figuring each other out it feels . Times and experiences will keep you both together and stonger relationship as the years go by! We have been together for 29 years and there is no one else i would rather be with. My advice is keep communication open. Compromise if needed to keep each other happy if you like different adventures and no matter what NEVER go to bed angry! Love to watch the videos so keep them coming! 💙💚 Thom & Eric
Zach & Alastair, I'm so glad you posted today. I miss seeing you guys being so real about your relationship. I love to see your insights into keeping a relationship going. Hubby and I have been together for 18 years and married for two of that. No relationship is "perfect." It takes work and communication is one of the keys to a successful one. It was difficult for us in the beginning as I only speak English, and at the time, he basically only spoke Spanish, but we've made it work all these years because we learned how to communicate. I actually taught him English along the way. Having these Q&A/therapy sessions is a very good thing. Even if you don't post them, you definitely should continue them. But, I for one, appreciate each and every time you let us into your life. I look forward to all of your content, no matter what the subject is. I hope you will continue to post content for many years to come. Keep up the good work! Be Safe, Be Strong, Stay Healthy! Much Love from William & Lupe in Mesa, Arizona
I’m always impressed with your honesty and authenticity, as well as your obvious devotion to each other. It doesn’t matter whether this was really Couples Therapy or a Q & A; either way it was a delight.
It's imperative to talk through everything and be totally honest. You are such a lovely, lovely couple. As you grow independently, and as a couple, be honest to each other. Your relationship is stunning. Love from me in Sydney, Australia.
I'm so excited for your book! Don't over-stress about it or be TOO MUCH of a perfectionist to the point where it's overwhelming. I'm just happy to get it and read what you had to say and know you worked hard!
What’s completely bonkers is I’m watching this BEFORE my husband Joe Molloy! I saw the notification on Joe’s phone & he has no idea you guys posted a new video! Always nice to hear from Z&A! Cheers, Kenny from Philly
WOW 4 yrs where did the time go ..... ya'll make me so happy and have really have me rethink my own life i sworned off relationships for 18 yrs now ya'll have me looking at myself in the mirror and rethinking about relationships
You guys are an inspiration to so many us trying to navigate the craziness of our relationships. My partner and Ihave been together 23 yrs but we still have some of the same problems you guys have. Just hang in there its worth the ride.
Stats show that the most Major conversations of much of our lives happen in the car. It's like each seat is an autonomous nation/zone . Love you guys. Stay safe, strong and tender.
Up until this video, I hadn’t realized I’ve followed you, and seen your videos, since way before you were engaged. I think you were still single when I found your videos. Nice to see how you’ve grown, and I’m amazed on how fast time goes by. Keep it up :)
I have watched y’all through the years and continue to enjoy your videos. I will be watching in 50 years to see your retrospective. Be happy, stay safe and healthy. 👍❤️
Thank you so very much. Never doubt for one second that you have, and have had a tremendous positive influence on the lives of those you touch with these videos. You gave me courage to embrace myself. Also a big thanks to all in the loving community of followers you have gathered. I hope you stick to your intention of staying on TH-cam the next 50 years. Best wishes to both of you 👍😊
Liked the video, you two seem very happy. Keep working on your book, you are very creative. I have been watching since bark in the park. Little did I know that watching u tube videos by a young guy with a good old boy accent who winds up with a West Point graduate, helped me to learn to accept who I am & not feel worthless. So thanks
I think I may have said this before but, Zach you were one if the first channels I subbed to and I've loved all of them. I live my life looking for content from yall. This 61 year old is proud to do it. I think I've here from the time you started your channel.
Sooooo good to see you guys again!! Still in love and still setting the standard for hope and love for gay men in 2020 - thank you so much for sharing!
I love to see you guys together and communicating with each other. Communication is a very important thing in a relationship. I'm still waiting for my other half. Sometimes I get envious because I'm 26 and seeing you guys together makes me want to have the same thing. ❤❤❤
Hi, Zach. I can relate to the self sabotage issue. What may help is to already think of yourself as a writer instead of saying you will be a writer. A redefinition of who you are will change how you see things, and how you express your talent 😉
I love you guys! You guys sorta helped me along my way of coming out this year. And I know that no relationship is perfect and what we see isn’t that whole picture but you guys really make me hopeful for a future relationship like you guys.
You guys are a beautiful couple both inside and out! Good to see you back so soon and always fun to watch. Wishing you a Happy Thanksgiving. Please, Stay Strong, Be Well, Live It With Love!
Fella's, got home from helping mom today and found this new vid. Thanks, it made my day. You two show so much love, and just admitting that you are human like the rest of us is really a blessing. We all mess things up. I personally am happy Zach that you have cut back on the drinking for I feel like it wasn't the crutch you needed. Just be you brother. Alastair loves you for you and as long as you buy him things and give him the kids that he longs for, the house, the front porch and rocking chairs for when you are in your 70's, you got it made. Love will transcend all time. I do look forward to your book. One day at a time is all it takes. As for now, Couples Therapy or Q & A, we will take any time you want to drop by for we love you guys like the family you are. Stay safe and have a Happy Thanksgiving.
Watched your Christmas video from last year. Actually have watched all your videos. I think they have a lot to say. You seem, like me, where you let your families issues become heavy on your heart. A friend suggested to me a couple of years ago to go to an Al-Anon meeting. Huge game changer. The one topic that sticks out in my mind is “what’s your part in this?” It’s something I think about often. I thought going to these meetings was about “them” and it turned out to be about what I needed to do. Sorry to get so personal. I don’t know you but I do see the love you and Alastair share. Hope for all the best for both of you.
Zack and Alistair, love their life stories, experiences like marriage, that make their love reach everyone with simplicity, thank you for being and existing, I love you. It is difficult for me to interpret it if it is not subtitled but I try to understand them and be happy with you when you transmit your video. I send you a hug with all my love
It's amazing how I stumbled on your TH-cam channel and I have watched every single one. We need more. Love your love for each other it is so teaching to others to love unconditionally. Your love is so contagious and I love it. Please don't ever stop sharing your journey and growth with us. Much love and mad respect to you both.
That was GREAT; y’all are so adorably cute and hella-funny now as you were back then!! And loved hearing Alastair address us as gentle-viewers like in the good ol’days when y’all used to do those joint movie reviews!! God-I miss those!!
I always love what you and Alastair have so much. My fiancé Is from Peru and I just got back from an amazing couple weeks with him there. We are in the process of a fiancé visa so he can come to the United States and we will be married. he is amazing and incredible.
You two are GREAT! Loved your comments about where you would be 50 years from now. My partner and I are both in our 70's now and been together for 53 years! We don't have a compound as you hope for nor do we have any children & grandchildren, but we're still going strong and so grateful we have each other to spend our senior years together. It is such a different world today than it was for many of our years, especially the first 25 or so. Wished we had lived in a time that having the ability and legal rights to have children would have been an option for us. It just was unheard of back in the 60's, 70's and even well into the 80's. Never in our wildest dreams could we have imagined that same sex marriage would become legal, so a lot of positive progress has been made for gay people. Hopefully that will continue in the years ahead. Best of luck with your relationship. It isn't always easy, but if you work together and are able to compromise, you will attain at least 50 years together. It it appears you two have a great foundation already.
I Love and appreciate you guy’s!! Thank you for being such decent human beings and being so Transparent with your life’s with us. You’re both heaven sent... 🙏🏽💕🙂
I was so blown away by your poems. You really should publish them even if it is just in the form of a small, bite sized pocket book. You colored so many subjects with your refreshing and unvarnished candor (You should repost the video). And yes Zach this is a time capsule so you have to buy Alastair things in future!💕😉
It's always a nice surprise to log in and have a new video from either or both of you. Thank you for continuing to share these snippets of your life with us. And wishing you the best in finishing that book! The writing that you have shared on your channel and and you display with your video narration shows exceptional ability with words and sentence structure and conveying emotion. I, for one, will be excited to read anything you write.
Self sabotaging is an issue with looking to get control over a situation meaning you get to decide when and what bad things get to happen it’s helpful to be aware of our powerlessness and to surrender but also keeping in mind that no matter what we’ll be okay and trust ourselves enough to know we can go thru things and still be able overcome them.
I really wish you uploaded like you used to, I would get home from work around 8:30am and go straight to TH-cam to see if you had. Y'all are just so lovable. ♥️
So cute! You guys appear to be so happy and at peace. Glad to see that; there are so many that are struggling right now, you bring us joy. Zach ~ I'll be sending you a good program to increase your vocabulary, NO, not that you need it. More so to help you have a larger range of words to articulate your point as you return to writing.
As always, your videos bring hope and inspiration to so many. Reading through the comments about some that have gained the strength to come out to others who find your love so driving, it's helped them in their own relationships. Personally, your videos help to understand my own short comings and how to deal with it day to day. I hope you do start writing. Even if you never publish anything, which would be a shame, its a mental relief as well as inspiring. I love to write. With your creativity and support from Alastair, I have no doubt you would make a great writer. Forever Peace and Love
wondered where you went. So I meandered here and there. I hope you will continue to video for a long time because It is of value for your fans to see how things unfold as you go forward. I don't see either of you going your separate ways. And these once in a while videos are helpful on several levels. I have been with my husband for 20 years married since it's been legal. We keep evolving and in Covid times it has been a great step for what we have had and what we find now. Hasta pronto o cuando sea.
Hello guys! Its been a long time that I'm still waiting both of you . , and this is it. Hope your relationship keeps stronger and makes both of you happy and safe. Keep it up! I'm still one of your fan here in my place.
Hi there. I just want to say that my husband and I watch one a video of yours each night with our foster child. Your videos are pivotal in showing our child that love is love regardless of opinions. You and your husband help validate that it’s ok be to gay. Thank you for what you do! You may not know it but you do have a positive impact on me and my family. Thank you for that.
Hello Atlanta here. Do y'all realize how personable and completely interesting the two of you are to watch and listen to. I came out way back in 1976 and am probably old enough to be your grandfather. My husband and I have been together for a bit over 17 years. Thank you for reading my comment.
So thankful that TH-cam just recommended your channel to me. I just want you to know that I really enjoy your videos. Envy you .Love you.And thank you guys. Big love from China. Keep doing what you’re doing. Wish you guys the best of luck.
Apologies! Forgot to change the monetization settings. Just did. There shouldn’t be any TH-cam ads mid video now. Thanks for watching!
For y’all... I watch the commercials. And I can’t be the only one. Just don’t tell TH-cam that I was in the bathroom peeing while it was playing. 🤣
I think I want to support you guys by seeing the ads! Because I am dirt poor to give away money :"))
Wow. Dont care about the money making on ads love this youtube cannel
To be honest, I'm totally fine with the ad.
@@reacteverything1023 I care about the money haha. But ads throughout the video seems excessive.
Y’all seriously are one of the main reasons that I am comfortable being who I am. Like seriously. Damn
Sending love buddy
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@My andrew My point was that by seeing health gay relationships I was able to break through some of my internalized homophobia.
The way Alastair looks at him the whole time (5:06) just melts my heart. You can literally see the love. You guys are so genuine and...i love that you're so open about everything (also "deeper" topics). You deserve the best ❤
I noticed that too, so lovely
Haha, there a few guys where I work that I feel that way for sure. They melt me. 🤣
I love that Alastair is now very confident compared to his shy persona before. Hahaha I miss this couple videos guys! Please make more again.
Self-sabotage is so destructive. It's good that you can recognize that about yourself and self-correct. You have really grown and matured, Zach. You seem more grounded and at peace with yourself. Alistair is such a calm gentle loving soul. He clearly adores you. I think he gives you the stability and confidence to take your life to the next level. You can tell that he really believes in you. ❤️
Now you just need to believe in yourself and stop sabotaging all the wonderful things that are coming your way. Good luck!
You two are so lucky to have found each other. It's a true blessing to find and marry your soul mate. Don't ever take it for granted. You have no idea how fortunate you are! Most people will never experience such joy. It is a rare and precious thing.
I just love how Al just keep staring at Zach, like he adores him so fucking much. You both are so lucky have eachother, specially Zach, never let Al go you cowboy!
Guys, as a retired psychologist who did couples therapy, I would recommend that couples set up a time during the week to discuss issues. Make sure you are both rested and fed so you are at your best. Put a piece of paper on the fridge and each can put things on it to discuss. AND make sure you do fun things together. Research shows that couples who do 5 fun things to 1 non-fun thing have better relationships. Dr John Gottman did empirical research on what works for couples. Best wishes, love birds.
Thanks for this comment I will look up Gottman's research, sounds interesting!
It helps not to do it when you’re drinking
This has always been my theory
You guys are so beautiful, genuine. If you're ever up in Connecticut, I would like to by you dinner & wine.
I remember when I first followed you guys a while back, gave me the motivation to come out, glad to see you guys are still uploading!
Thanks for watching. Congrats on being out. It’s a big thing
I’m the same Zach and Alastair have touched a lot of lives especially younger lives they inspired me to come out like they did for you
You guys make my day! So nice seeing two people happy together and being able to share yourselves with us. In this shitty world, you bring some light and I thank you for that 🥰
Yes they truly do. I wish you the best as well. We all need to be loved in this way. 😊
Y'all make a great example for couples and singles alike. Being kind to each other and honest. It makes my heart happy. Thank you for your efforts. I know it's got to be hard to keep up with your broadcasting and your relationship. Happy Holidays:)!!!
Is it me, or does Alastair just always look like he's unbelievably proud of Zach, and being with him? Something tells me that Alastair is a true romantic. Anyway, nice to just see the purity of love from both of you. Hold on gents & enjoy the Ferris-wheel of life!
I've been watching you since when you first started. I love seeing how much you all have progressed and the love that is there. You all are my heroes.
Alastair is so handsome, Zach is so cute. Your relationship, like any, might not be always perfect but it’s so healthy! Good on both of you.
I am so impressed with your shared maturity. When I was in my 20's I did not have the self-awareness you both have. I am so happy that you represent so well a generation where the physical is not the only thing that allows us to bond with another man.
And yes, what you broadcast is exactly therapy in that you shared with each other, you listened to each other and I have little doubt that you learned a little about each other. That constitutes a good therapy session.
You guys are so good together and healthy. I am having a grin while watching the video and my husband is giving me the side-eye. This one is too short, can’t wait for more vlogs.
Glad to see you two, it's been awhile. Hope you both are doing well and staying safe and happy, which I'm quite sure is the case, lol. 😃✌❤
Very glad to see you are still on TH-cam!!
It’s sooo good seeing you guys. Happy to hear Zach say more vlogs are coming. Also, it was cute watching Alastair look and listen to Zach while he was talking. He was really focused on what Zach was saying like a good listener. You guys are so adorable. You definitely brighten up my day.
Brings me hope that there is a chance to find love that is genuine and beautiful keep sharing your journey and growth it’s inspiring
8:30 funny you should mention that, because years ago, when I was backpacking through western Europe, I was just outside Barcelona, hiking in the foothills of Mount Tibidabo. I was at the end of this path and I came to a clearing. There was a very secluded lake and there were tall trees all around. It was dead silent, and across the lake I saw a beautiful woman bathing herself. But she was crying...
I’ve never said this to anyone anywhere before, but y’all are such a refreshingly CUTE couple, and you make me feel good. But the main aspect I appreciate is your devotion to each other. Zach makes sure he’s macho about it, but Alastair’s love is SO out there for us to vicariously live through. Thank you, Alastair, you are one in a million.
U guys would make great dads, thx for the video
I came out went horrible for me and it was at a time where I was almost dying my family doesn't accept me at least on my dad's side. But I can be myself now. You guys are such a good inspiration. Been watching you guys since before your marriage.
Love the way y'all can actually laugh at yourselves. That's the key to a long lasting marriage. Stay happy and safe. And to Quote a saying from TorchSong Trilogy "No Problem Is More Lasting,Than The Solution" Not sure if I remembered that right but that's the gist.
Y'all are the cutest little thing. Don't ever get divorced it will make me sad...
@Josue2018 don't say that...don't say that...don't say that...why would you say that? Lol...you better buy a video game...paint a picture...If youre bored enough to leave your person...that's on you...especially if you got a husband like Alister...he would be a fool...lmao🤣...that dont makes sense to me lol.
@@myshownvjhope chill he’s speaking the truth
@@ChewyRocksandiscute And so am I...lol
@Josue2018 legit not true but ok
@@the-symbol-of-the-umbran-way what's not true...that video games dont ended boredness as well as painting? Or that Alister is not a fox and if he's single that's dumb? lol and I'm not even gay or a man What is not true? You better take your partner on a date if you bored...go sit on the grass and read a good book together...have sex at California Adventures...be spontaneous...if you are bored that is your fault. (You were not talking to me. just noticed that. I just wanted to say that sex at California Adventures is an option lol (nobody is there they are all at Disneyland. Get the hopper pass) and that Alister is a fine !! That is my boo...but I'm a women though and I'm not even gay...lol...Alister can read me a book anyday of his life lmao...🤣...I'm not a homewrecker though...I'm a lot of things but that...)
Your wonderful guys. I have been with my husband for 35 years and just love him more each day. We still pick on each other, tell dirty jokes . Keep up making each other laugh. Your love for each other shows. Luigi & Chris
What a great couple! You guys are just so great together...Thanks for letting us be a little part of your lives together!
Zach I'm SO hearing you! AND I wanna'' encourage the hell outta' you right now!! I started a novel like 20+ years ago, and then when the now ex-wife bailed, I was so depressed for SO long, all my creative endeavors fell by the wayside. Here's the upside of this f'ed up year: I've picked back up so many projects, my novel among them. And I'm going great guns on it!! FINISHED chapters, linked several of them together, the story is GOIN'!! You're young, have a great relationship, and you're hella' talented. WRITE!, you can do it! And congrats on 4 years guys!
You two are fine and just keep being you! My husband and I are both 54 and still figuring each other out it feels . Times and experiences will keep you both together and stonger relationship as the years go by! We have been together for 29 years and there is no one else i would rather be with. My advice is keep communication open. Compromise if needed to keep each other happy if you like different adventures and no matter what NEVER go to bed angry! Love to watch the videos so keep them coming! 💙💚 Thom & Eric
Zach & Alastair, I'm so glad you posted today. I miss seeing you guys being so real about your relationship. I love to see your insights into keeping a relationship going. Hubby and I have been together for 18 years and married for two of that. No relationship is "perfect." It takes work and communication is one of the keys to a successful one. It was difficult for us in the beginning as I only speak English, and at the time, he basically only spoke Spanish, but we've made it work all these years because we learned how to communicate. I actually taught him English along the way. Having these Q&A/therapy sessions is a very good thing. Even if you don't post them, you definitely should continue them. But, I for one, appreciate each and every time you let us into your life. I look forward to all of your content, no matter what the subject is. I hope you will continue to post content for many years to come.
Keep up the good work! Be Safe, Be Strong, Stay Healthy! Much Love from William & Lupe in Mesa, Arizona
Every relationship is work and I am glad you are well. I have been with my other half for 38 years and still going strong Bravo
I’m always impressed with your honesty and authenticity, as well as your obvious devotion to each other. It doesn’t matter whether this was really Couples Therapy or a Q & A; either way it was a delight.
Great to see you guys! Stay safe, sane, happy, and healthy! And always be thankful every day that you found each other! Much love and many blessings!
Great to see you both back here. I think it is so awesome how much you both help each other to grow. That is an amazing level of love guys!,❤️
It's imperative to talk through everything and be totally honest. You are such a lovely, lovely couple. As you grow independently, and as a couple, be honest to each other. Your relationship is stunning. Love from me in Sydney, Australia.
I'm so excited for your book! Don't over-stress about it or be TOO MUCH of a perfectionist to the point where it's overwhelming.
I'm just happy to get it and read what you had to say and know you worked hard!
As always love how connected you guys and how the love is still very strong and its very clear whenever you guys look at each other
What’s completely bonkers is I’m watching this BEFORE my husband Joe Molloy! I saw the notification on Joe’s phone & he has no idea you guys posted a new video!
Always nice to hear from Z&A! Cheers, Kenny from Philly
WOW 4 yrs where did the time go ..... ya'll make me so happy and have really have me rethink my own life i sworned off relationships for 18 yrs now ya'll have me looking at myself in the mirror and rethinking about relationships
You guys are an inspiration to so many us trying to navigate the craziness of our relationships. My partner and Ihave been together 23 yrs but we still have some of the same problems you guys have. Just hang in there its worth the ride.
Stats show that the most Major conversations of much of our lives happen in the car. It's like each seat is an autonomous nation/zone . Love you guys. Stay safe, strong and tender.
Car therapy awesome idea, I've missed these vids just two blokes who love each other is a tonic for the soul. Bless you guys
Up until this video, I hadn’t realized I’ve followed you, and seen your videos, since way before you were engaged. I think you were still single when I found your videos. Nice to see how you’ve grown, and I’m amazed on how fast time goes by. Keep it up :)
Wish you both continued happiness and adventure on the years a head of you.
I have watched y’all through the years and continue to enjoy your videos. I will be watching in 50 years to see your retrospective. Be happy, stay safe and healthy. 👍❤️
You guys are both so good together. You compliment one another perfectly. I'm happy that you found each other.😊❤
Thank you so very much. Never doubt for one second that you have, and have had a tremendous positive influence on the lives of those you touch with these videos. You gave me courage to embrace myself. Also a big thanks to all in the loving community of followers you have gathered. I hope you stick to your intention of staying on TH-cam the next 50 years. Best wishes to both of you 👍😊
Liked the video, you two seem very happy. Keep working on your book, you are very creative. I have been watching since bark in the park. Little did I know that watching u tube videos by a young guy with a good old boy accent who winds up with a West Point graduate, helped me to learn to accept who I am & not feel worthless. So thanks
Excellent Guys!! Thanks . Always good to see you!!
I think I may have said this before but, Zach you were one if the first channels I subbed to and I've loved all of them. I live my life looking for content from yall. This 61 year old is proud to do it. I think I've here from the time you started your channel.
Sooooo good to see you guys again!! Still in love and still setting the standard for hope and love for gay men in 2020 - thank you so much for sharing!
You both are adorable and I like your honesty and how playful and devoted you are to each other!
I love to see you guys together and communicating with each other. Communication is a very important thing in a relationship. I'm still waiting for my other half. Sometimes I get envious because I'm 26 and seeing you guys together makes me want to have the same thing. ❤❤❤
Hi, Zach. I can relate to the self sabotage issue. What may help is to already think of yourself as a writer instead of saying you will be a writer. A redefinition of who you are will change how you see things, and how you express your talent 😉
I love you guys! You guys sorta helped me along my way of coming out this year. And I know that no relationship is perfect and what we see isn’t that whole picture but you guys really make me hopeful for a future relationship like you guys.
You guys are a beautiful couple both inside and out! Good to see you back so soon and always fun to watch. Wishing you a Happy Thanksgiving. Please, Stay Strong, Be Well, Live It With Love!
Fella's, got home from helping mom today and found this new vid. Thanks, it made my day. You two show so much love, and just admitting that you are human like the rest of us is really a blessing. We all mess things up. I personally am happy Zach that you have cut back on the drinking for I feel like it wasn't the crutch you needed. Just be you brother. Alastair loves you for you and as long as you buy him things and give him the kids that he longs for, the house, the front porch and rocking chairs for when you are in your 70's, you got it made. Love will transcend all time. I do look forward to your book. One day at a time is all it takes. As for now, Couples Therapy or Q & A, we will take any time you want to drop by for we love you guys like the family you are. Stay safe and have a Happy Thanksgiving.
Zach and Alistair for best gay role models 2020
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So glad to see you all you both are my favorite
They were inspirational tp me and I came out to a lot of people because them, and Im happier for it
Watched your Christmas video from last year. Actually have watched all your videos. I think they have a lot to say. You seem, like me, where you let your families issues become heavy on your heart. A friend suggested to me a couple of years ago to go to an Al-Anon meeting. Huge game changer. The one topic that sticks out in my mind is “what’s your part in this?” It’s something I think about often. I thought going to these meetings was about “them” and it turned out to be about what I needed to do. Sorry to get so personal. I don’t know you but I do see the love you and Alastair share. Hope for all the best for both of you.
Welcome back guys!!! Thanks to talk to us. 🤗 this will be fun
Zack and Alistair, love their life stories, experiences like marriage, that make their love reach everyone with simplicity, thank you for being and existing, I love you. It is difficult for me to interpret it if it is not subtitled but I try to understand them and be happy with you when you transmit your video. I send you a hug with all my love
It's amazing how I stumbled on your TH-cam channel and I have watched every single one.
We need more.
Love your love for each other it is so teaching to others to love unconditionally.
Your love is so contagious and I love it.
Please don't ever stop sharing your journey and growth with us.
Much love and mad respect to you both.
That was GREAT; y’all are so adorably cute and hella-funny now as you were back then!! And loved hearing Alastair address us as gentle-viewers like in the good ol’days when y’all used to do those joint movie reviews!! God-I miss those!!
It's great to see y'all laughing. And being human. I know it's still just what you want us to see. But we can see the genuineness. Ty
I always love what you and Alastair have so much. My fiancé Is from Peru and I just got back from an amazing couple weeks with him there. We are in the process of a fiancé visa so he can come to the United States and we will be married. he is amazing and incredible.
Sending y’all strength. long distance is tough
@@AdventuresofZachandB Thanks man. I know that you are very familiar with that yourself
@@TerminalFailSafe Thanks. It is definitely worth it.
You two are GREAT! Loved your comments about where you would be 50 years from now. My partner and I are both in our 70's now and been together for 53 years! We don't have a compound as you hope for nor do we have any children & grandchildren, but we're still going strong and so grateful we have each other to spend our senior years together. It is such a different world today than it was for many of our years, especially the first 25 or so. Wished we had lived in a time that having the ability and legal rights to have children would have been an option for us. It just was unheard of back in the 60's, 70's and even well into the 80's. Never in our wildest dreams could we have imagined that same sex marriage would become legal, so a lot of positive progress has been made for gay people. Hopefully that will continue in the years ahead. Best of luck with your relationship. It isn't always easy, but if you work together and are able to compromise, you will attain at least 50 years together. It it appears you two have a great foundation already.
I absolutely adore you two. Sending you prayers and peace for a loving and kind season.
The way Alastair looks at Zach is goals. So much love oozing from you two
Good to see you folks being the awesome couple you both are. We (the fans) have missed these vlogs.
Haven't seen you guys much. So glad you drop by now and then, .love you two.
I Love and appreciate you guy’s!! Thank you for being such decent human beings and being so Transparent with your life’s with us.
You’re both heaven sent... 🙏🏽💕🙂
This is my favorite video from you guys. It’s nice to see a sit down video from y’all again, it’s been forever. My favorite married couple right here!
Seeing you two together gives me a warm fuzzy feeling. I like you guys.
I was so blown away by your poems. You really should publish them even if it is just in the form of a small, bite sized pocket book. You colored so many subjects with your refreshing and unvarnished candor (You should repost the video). And yes Zach this is a time capsule so you have to buy Alastair things in future!💕😉
It's always a nice surprise to log in and have a new video from either or both of you. Thank you for continuing to share these snippets of your life with us. And wishing you the best in finishing that book! The writing that you have shared on your channel and and you display with your video narration shows exceptional ability with words and sentence structure and conveying emotion. I, for one, will be excited to read anything you write.
Your dining room looks really great! I like the black accent wall and the art work. Did you paint those too? Very nice! Also your husband is GORGEOUS.
Self sabotaging is an issue with looking to get control over a situation meaning you get to decide when and what bad things get to happen it’s helpful to be aware of our powerlessness and to surrender but also keeping in mind that no matter what we’ll be okay and trust ourselves enough to know we can go thru things and still be able overcome them.
You guys are a kick in the ass. Great video. All the best---Mick
I hope in near future that you guys can produce another special like your Halloween last year. Thank you for sharing your life to us.
You two are so lovely and endearing!!!!! Gives me great joy when you share with us!! Alastair I love your channel as well gave me some good reads 😊❤💕
I absolutely love Zach's laugh and sense of humor 😁
I really wish you uploaded like you used to, I would get home from work around 8:30am and go straight to TH-cam to see if you had. Y'all are just so lovable. ♥️
Good to see you guys again
Thanks for Sharing your therapy session with us.
Love Alastair's 'stache even though he shaved it already!!
No it’s still there. He had the shave the chin though
@@AdventuresofZachandB haha, can't wait to see it grown in then 😁 always look forward to your videos Zach. They get me through the hard times. 💜
The best alarm clock, sound when you get a notification about a new video of the guys. Thank you for the positive energy you radiate. I love you guys!
So cute! You guys appear to be so happy and at peace. Glad to see that; there are so many that are struggling right now, you bring us joy. Zach ~ I'll be sending you a good program to increase your vocabulary, NO, not that you need it. More so to help you have a larger range of words to articulate your point as you return to writing.
Haha I won’t pretend I have the biggest vocabulary. When I edit my writing, I usually have to go back and replace simpler words.
I love these kinds of sit down chats! You two are really sweet together and very inspiring. Thanks for continuing to share with all of us
It so good to see you two together on a vlog! We've missed this. Stay safe and healthy. Much love from Chicago.
As always, your videos bring hope and inspiration to so many. Reading through the comments about some that have gained the strength to come out to others who find your love so driving, it's helped them in their own relationships. Personally, your videos help to understand my own short comings and how to deal with it day to day.
I hope you do start writing. Even if you never publish anything, which would be a shame, its a mental relief as well as inspiring. I love to write. With your creativity and support from Alastair, I have no doubt you would make a great writer.
Forever Peace and Love
wondered where you went. So I meandered here and there. I hope you will continue to video for a long time because It is of value for your fans to see how things unfold as you go forward. I don't see either of you going your separate ways. And these once in a while videos are helpful on several levels. I have been with my husband for 20 years married since it's been legal. We keep evolving and in Covid times it has been a great step for what we have had and what we find now. Hasta pronto o cuando sea.
Hello guys! Its been a long time that I'm still waiting both of you . , and this is it. Hope your relationship keeps stronger and makes both of you happy and safe. Keep it up! I'm still one of your fan here in my place.
Hi there. I just want to say that my husband and I watch one a video of yours each night with our foster child. Your videos are pivotal in showing our child that love is love regardless of opinions. You and your husband help validate that it’s ok be to gay. Thank you for what you do! You may not know it but you do have a positive impact on me and my family. Thank you for that.
Hello Atlanta here. Do y'all realize how personable and completely interesting the two of you are to watch and listen to. I came out way back in 1976 and am probably old enough to be your grandfather. My husband and I have been together for a bit over 17 years. Thank you for reading my comment.
So thankful that TH-cam just recommended your channel to me. I just want you to know that I really enjoy your videos. Envy you .Love you.And thank you guys. Big love from China. Keep doing what you’re doing. Wish you guys the best of luck.
You guys are awesome! I wish you nothing but love and happiness! Love you!
adventures of zach and b you all are amazing go roll tide
Been quite a while since I have seen a video boys, glad you are still together
and things look like they are going better. I have missed you.
Iam glad to see u again... Miss y'all ❤️❤️
a very very handsome, fascinating couple. their eyes are astonishing and both are so cool.
It is always inspiring to watch you guys. Hope you guys have a very Happy Thanksgiving!! And a second glass of wine would not hurt anything. Cheers!