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  • @FumiDesaluVold
    @FumiDesaluVold  2 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    What happened to the Mistress? The husband divorced her and custody of her 3 kids was hard on her too. She didn’t get the money she thought she could get and moved from their five bedroom home to a flat where the kids see her on the weekends. I think she also lost her job and loverboy ghosted 👻 her! She really went down hill and was cut off from a love of people and the neighborhood. ❌🚫

    • @jenniferwilliams6494
      @jenniferwilliams6494 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Ooohhh wweeeeeee!!! Thanks for the update. I really got invested in this story! 😂😣

    • @nadegeroach3311
      @nadegeroach3311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Karmaaa is such a beautiful thing!

    • @sebinaeady8857
      @sebinaeady8857 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You and the "girls" are looking FAB💜👌🕵💃💅❤

    • @gospelician
      @gospelician 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can you discuss realistic weight loss strategies and exercise.

    • @LEZLIE_PURPLE_PEONIES
      @LEZLIE_PURPLE_PEONIES 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wow,all I can say is...that'll learn her. When you do snake shit the day will come when you'll get 🐍 as well. Be careful of your actions and how you treat people.💅🏾😒

  • @ncaroln7
    @ncaroln7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    "Better than that sis. I got a picture." *screaming* that's a good brother. he came with evidence!!

    • @kellykade
      @kellykade 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Girl I was screaming also!!! 😱😱

    • @ajlocs2361
      @ajlocs2361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Honey he got a picture they where really into the Do!

    • @calitomms22
      @calitomms22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      🔥🔥🔥🔥👏👏👏👏

    • @Kari_Michele
      @Kari_Michele 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ikr? They were just too into it to even realized that he was taking a pic of them 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @kimivey285
      @kimivey285 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yesss!!! Brother had receipts!!! I can only imagine how he felt…….my goodness!

  • @fibiie7248
    @fibiie7248 2 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    Who else couldn’t wait fr the part two✋🏽✋🏽. 😍😍

  • @kayc421
    @kayc421 2 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    This is why my grandmother and mother always pushed that we (my sisters and I) have our OWN. Get the degrees, licences, and certifications even if you decide to be a stay at home mom. A man can wake up tomorrow and decide he doesn't want to be with you anymore.

    • @Ma1nguy
      @Ma1nguy ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Get your education. Dad told my sister that to always have your own money and your own career. Never depend on a man to take care of you.

  • @Tunenine
    @Tunenine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    I was so into this story, not actually the story but the storytelling way you put it out there. I was on the edge of my seat.

  • @anastasiahanna
    @anastasiahanna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    Fumi, even the icy water sipping and ice crunching are entertaining. You are an AWESOME Storyteller!

    • @gospelician
      @gospelician 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Truly!

    • @justmo6896
      @justmo6896 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Really captivating!🤣🤣🤣

    • @graceogechi
      @graceogechi ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow I appreciate you ma

  • @pattikaymakcian1473
    @pattikaymakcian1473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    I have 3 kids,i found out my ex was cheating,at the time my kids were mid teens,i was not really financially set,but i had to kick him out.As i all ways say ONCE A CHEATER ALL WAYS A CHEATER..But i raised my children alone and they turned great. Thank You SIS

    • @sandrawinfrey5176
      @sandrawinfrey5176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Mine after Almost 30 yrs. thought I would not get over it. Now new life happy kids, he has ALS and a wife who doesn’t care😉

    • @oronicaalleyne1899
      @oronicaalleyne1899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It's so challenging to cope with the betrayal but us women are resilient. We can land on our feet no matter the fall and keep it moving

    • @tijoinathompson7447
      @tijoinathompson7447 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I don't know if i could stay even for the kids cause they would know something is wrong, i can't pretend to love him ,it will show, then again, maybe she still loved him but hate how he is. Kids know stuff even when u think they dont,

  • @MwaleWaGitau
    @MwaleWaGitau 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I like the fact that Angel acknowledged her fault in the whole mess. She married a cheater she thought she could change. 😳

  • @ajadestone3376
    @ajadestone3376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    I love this story...... As a married woman we make decisions for the children sake to keep them happy and comfortable as possible.
    ... thinking of everything else later........it just really goes to show us.......YOU REALLY DO NOT KNOW WHAT YOU WILL DO UNTIL YOU ARE IN THAT SAME SITUATION!!!!

    • @infullbloom3246
      @infullbloom3246 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not related to the topic but I just heard about this study (I know it sounds crazy) Dr Karl Zimmer from Israel did a study on crabs and mice/cats. Study on crabs: he infested a male crab with specific parasite. The crab start digging the sand as he was about to lay eggs, thinking he was a female. Hence another study (look it up online) where a gay man took Pure Gum Spirit of Turpentine and became heterosexual. Study on mice/cats: doctor infested mice with a specific (not the same parasite as the crabs though) parasite that strives in cats intestines. It is normal for mice to fear cats. This parasite altered mice behavior to want to jump into cats mouth. I know for sure that 95% of humans are infested with various parasites. Cancer is/are parasites: worms, syphilis (syphilis is lyme, is lupus is rheumatoid arthritis renamed) and candida. Parasites have hosts and life cycles in different hosts.

    • @goodlife8784
      @goodlife8784 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@infullbloom3246 what type of bug did you say cause arthritis ?

    • @KM-eo8uw
      @KM-eo8uw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I was and I left! I have a girl n I'd never let er think staying in a toxic relationship is ok. Also I'm not wasting so much yrs!

    • @sashaeltekeh2618
      @sashaeltekeh2618 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KM-eo8uw I agree

  • @marilynfrancois6311
    @marilynfrancois6311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Sacrifice woman makes for their children is unbelievable
    Nice story

  • @Shavier777
    @Shavier777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Takes a special talent to narrate a story, give your feedback on said story, do your makeup and give product updates all at the same time with poise. You are an absolute talent. 🙏🏾💕
    So sorry for what your friend had to endure. But every side chick and mistress will reap what they sow.

  • @10byrdie
    @10byrdie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    My jaw dropped when the brother had evidence. That stunt at the fundraiser was chef’s kiss.

  • @LEbackstage
    @LEbackstage 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Angel made a hard decision.
    My mother was in the same situation - married to a cheater until she couldn't take it anymore. I was 8 when they split and always resented her for that, because I didn't know the reason at that age. Until I was 13/14 and we were at a Ghanaian party. My dad, his now longtime partner and her - that other woman. They were talking, but even for me at 13 they were too cosy with each other while my step-mum wasn't watching. It suddenly hit me that I recognized her and everything came together then. I was enraged, told my step-mum and confronted him then and there. Also made a scene and told her my mind loud and clear. We never really talked about it afterwards but my dad changed. About a decade or more later we came to this topic - the embarrassment and humiliation he felt that moment made him realize for the first time that what he did, didn't only effect him. And my mother divorced him because she didn't want us to see his infidelity because at some point we would have realized what was going on.
    This is also one reasons I have attachment issues. It's a ripple effect. Not because my parents separated, but not even my father is trustworthy-the man I adored growing up.

    • @attorneyreid7
      @attorneyreid7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      That is painful my dear, I'm so sorry to hear that. You need to pray for healing and overcome this feeling of rejection and distrust to men. In your country deliverance would help you because it deals with inner healing. You need to know that not all men cheats! You cannot go through life with that mindset. Cheating is not genetics or inherited but it's a conscious decision that people make. There are honest, loyalty, stand up men out there and those are the ones you want to pray to locate you.

    • @aramatoulayedabo3438
      @aramatoulayedabo3438 ปีที่แล้ว

      this is so painful to hear, i am so sorry to hear that and its true infidelity of parents affect the children's life forever.

  • @isadre
    @isadre 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    When the mistress said "John never loved you, he's only staying for the kids"my stomach dropped for Angel, I felt that. That moment cancelled any hope of potential restoration. it's the fact that the mistress knew her husband's deepest most sacred thoughts about her and shared it with her .. there's no coming back from type of emotional and spiritual EXPOSURE! My heart hurts.

    • @Ma1nguy
      @Ma1nguy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yet the other woman lost John and her husband too and the lifestyle she'd grown accustomed to. Naw payback is like an iceberg salad best when it's served cold.

    • @coureenlawrence4915
      @coureenlawrence4915 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And John could have been saying that to her just so he could sleep with her too. She just said that to her just to hurt her, even though it is hard to hear whether it's true or not.

  • @shynes23sh
    @shynes23sh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Angel is a PHENOMENAL WOMAN!!!
    I'm sorry she had to go through & endure through the years. I appreciate that she owned that she knew what manner of man he was, because... we as women sometimes know & move forward anyway. Help us, I've been there. I'm so proud of Angel putting herself back in first place 💓 💗. P.s. I'm sorry Gary had to witness that hurt too. Thank God he didn't react & harm them, he could've.

  • @dinyjp9075
    @dinyjp9075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    I'm impressed with Angel for staying in that marriage but living a divorced state of mind. I don't think I could've done that! The AUDACITY of the side chick to call anyone vindictive! I hope karma got both her and John.
    Once again Fumi, your look is stunning!!

    • @Rebecca57097ssss
      @Rebecca57097ssss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My goodness. You took the words out my mouth.

  • @dr-k1667
    @dr-k1667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    May "Angel" be blessed, happy and find joy like never before with an HONEST MAN who would be WORTHY OF THE QUEEN ANGEL IS.

  • @DanaConquersBoutique
    @DanaConquersBoutique 2 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Love you Fumi! Thank you for part 2. I love that Angel is willing to share her experience with us. While juicy, this is definitely a good life lesson for us all. Her patience and planning is astounding.

    • @lizzieovermeyer2986
      @lizzieovermeyer2986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanx Fumi for part 2.!!

    • @donnaadams6517
      @donnaadams6517 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She did the same thing Michael Jordan’s wife did. She waited years after she had proof of his cheating before filing for divorce.

  • @KakalinaCheung
    @KakalinaCheung 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Greetings from Atlanta.Just discovered your channel last night and could not stop watching your videos.
    Thank you for sharing your weight lost journey, your review on Peter Roth Instant Thomas products and wisdom . You are absolutely a beautiful elegant lady. Love your channel. I ‘ll be 60 soon ( divorce mother of five)and always looking for good advice from liked minded souls. 💐😌🙏🏼

    • @sandrawinfrey5176
      @sandrawinfrey5176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Greetings I’m also from Atlanta went through the same after 30 yeart

  • @marijanabahun3884
    @marijanabahun3884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    European woman here living in Australia. I am so happy I found you, Sister! I thought I was weird in my views and thoughts. Now I know I am not! We have quite the same view of life, and your storytelling is amazing. Thank you!

  • @thickbrownlegs1859
    @thickbrownlegs1859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    I have never click on an episode so far. Let me get my tea ready and ears open. Fumi thanks for the quick upload Part 2. 💚❤️‍🔥🌺🤙🏾

    • @faithfullivingwithEmezy
      @faithfullivingwithEmezy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same here !! 😂😂

    • @FisayoAdedeji
      @FisayoAdedeji 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      me too lolzzz

    • @reitaebohon7853
      @reitaebohon7853 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same here. I was on tiktok and made a dash! 😆

    • @ketennievaughn2317
      @ketennievaughn2317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sis. I am all in on her sis story time... I had to watch this on my t.v. as if it was day-time t.v. show.

    • @nellycinders9424
      @nellycinders9424 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      As in eh. Aproko things 😂😂😂😂

  • @lenetteranger8327
    @lenetteranger8327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Angel displayed them in action via PowerPoint presentation at the fundraiser, I hope they met their fundraiser goal! I bet Miss Side Chick will think twice about climbing on top of anybody else's kitchen island and screwing their husband cause she got served revenge ice cold!!!! Go, Angel!!!!

    • @abi010390
      @abi010390 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Not the fundraiser goal in all this 😭😭😭😭

    • @chrysterfung5983
      @chrysterfung5983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 I really hope they met their fundraiser goal too.

  • @thulibaby1627
    @thulibaby1627 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Angel is a very clever woman, I wish I can think like her

  • @teressacooks7928
    @teressacooks7928 2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Fumi: You have to be careful of "quiet" people.
    Me: Yes, you do. As a "Quiet Person" I can confirm this. When we're quiet, we're "thinking". When we're thinking, we're "plotting"!!
    Any person: "Hey, whatcha doing"?
    Quiet Person: "Thinking"
    Any person: "Whatcha thinking about"???
    Quiet person: "You don't wanna know"!

    • @kmlang6
      @kmlang6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This is sooooo me! When I stop talking...WATCH OUT! And watch me move! I don't get physical any longer....but I so believe in KARMA! And you will sit back and watch me SHINE!

    • @Justelineinabigos
      @Justelineinabigos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Fumi is really right about that...quiet person here!!!

    • @Creyole
      @Creyole ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I too, am a quiet person. Once I get quiet, either I caught him at something, a lightbulb went off, someone told me something or I’m just tired of the BS. In any event WATCH OUT! Things will NEVER be the same and like Angel…I play CHESS while others play CHECKERS.

    • @xoliswanengudza5877
      @xoliswanengudza5877 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm one of those, thinking through, process it, remain calm and when the pot is ready I dish it out with the most calm nature. Believe me, it hurts 100 x on the other side 😅😅😅

  • @shelikays5120
    @shelikays5120 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I love how you're switching between makeup and the story. If it was me I wouldn't remember where I left off ha ha. You're talented Fumi ♥️

  • @TheCards_HiddenLotusTarot
    @TheCards_HiddenLotusTarot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Fumi. You really are a teacher of self respect, self-love and the power of being human. I will be recommending your channel on my channel to my clients.
    Keep doing it as you truly are a gift.
    Thank you.

  • @Yahweh100
    @Yahweh100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Angel is a strong woman. Stronger than I. Fumi please keep telling stories your the best at it. Your makeup is great by the way.

  • @schoolwork232
    @schoolwork232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    The most scary part of it all is just how emboldened the mistress/ex-friend was towards Angel, confronting her and asking her why she destroyed the marriage. I mean, she should have been so ashamed of herself and not even want to be seen by Angel just for destroying her life. I just can't! Marriage is really something else and I think it is best as a woman to be constantly comforted in Jesus and to always be empowered to do the things that are healthy and beneficial for herself.

    • @coureenlawrence4915
      @coureenlawrence4915 ปีที่แล้ว

      Narcissistic people have no shame. It's all about them.

  • @estherbeamsforaballad3342
    @estherbeamsforaballad3342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Aw the fact that your friend watched the episode and you two even talked about it😭 I love that you told her story with care too. I'm glad this is cathartic for her 💕

  • @daphne5179
    @daphne5179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yess when children enter the picture you live and breathe for them and as a mother you consider everything based on the outcome you want for your children. I don’t think that nobody realizes how much pressure and weight sits on the shoulders of a mother in decision making. Talk about delayed gratification of a mother all for the safety and better outcome for her children. As a mom you always want the best for your children and what’s best without a doubt for yourself. It’s bittersweet I’m happy that your friend found happiness and peace for herself which she deserves I wish her long life to enjoy her grands and joy unspeakable in the decisions she made. Thanks FUMI for your continued exquisite storytelling capabilities. Yes we 💕 love 💕

  • @julianafrancis5699
    @julianafrancis5699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Trust No One. Not even a friend.
    And the man has to be blamed also, not only the woman because it takes two hands to clap!

  • @aliciametters2025
    @aliciametters2025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    It’s amazing how the non offending spouse is blamed for telling the truth! The offending parties try and justify it to the hilt! Wrong is wrong and that’s all there is to it! I know of what I speak. People were giving him kudos because he admitted it to me! Hogwash! What hurt the most he didn’t fight for me! They are married and have two children now I think! I forgave myself, him after the process and was able to move on! It left a sting for sure! I continue to pray for all! Ultimately it works out for our good!stay strong and courageous women and men!🙏🏽💯💙🖤

    • @j.j2846
      @j.j2846 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      God bless you love. I hope you have an abundance of peace that even money cannot buy x

    • @schoolwork232
      @schoolwork232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh my God. I am sorry to hear your story and that he moved on with the other woman and even had children with her. If he is not careful, one day, he will pay for his sins! :(

    • @blessingsbest6838
      @blessingsbest6838 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hope karma comes for her both of them!

  • @annkdrama-queen1254
    @annkdrama-queen1254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Facts Fumi, we all walk down the isle wanting forever and it’s one of the most painful experience a woman can go through ever. That frienenemy could’ve left that piece of jewelry in Angels home on purpose. We always stay for the kids unfortunately it doesn’t always work out. Luv you darling Fumi, you are amazing as usual.

  • @odeanlawrence1834
    @odeanlawrence1834 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sparkling and vavacious darling!
    Although I can't afford the luxury and glamour, I'm here for the wisdom.
    FUMI, YOU ARE NOW, OFFICIALLY, MY GURU 🧞

  • @roki5337
    @roki5337 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lovely storytelling. Crazy story but stuff like this truly happens. I Laughed out loud when you said the family came home and she had ripped out the island countertop! 🤣 I could see my self doing the same and she was right to put them on blast. Now how she was strong enough to still stay with him until the children went to University? She is a strong woman!

  • @jasminebaby3375
    @jasminebaby3375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I’m so nosey and invested in this story. Can’t wait to hear all of this story. Thank you Fumi the sister to sister.

  • @gldnglow
    @gldnglow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I'm not sure I could trust myself around him in the same house. Glad she's finally happy.

  • @patriciadavismoore4310
    @patriciadavismoore4310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    You made this beat look so effortless all while telling us this outrageous tale. You are magic. I am glad Angel has moved onto better things and is happy. Hopefully the mistress gets the karma she deserves on the regular.

  • @tinatochi5131
    @tinatochi5131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Always my super model.Your makeup is impeccable.I love the ways you describe anything.Its like sitting by the fire on the floor while the story is been told!

  • @zjm0317
    @zjm0317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    "I married him because I thought I could love him enough to change him." Profound! You can't change anyone who doesn't want to change, (e.g. cheater, lazy, lacking motiviation, undisciplined, etc.) Prepare yourself and marry the man you desire and derserve! CHANCES ARE HE WON'T CHANGE (We loooooove you Fumi btw)

  • @nellycinders9424
    @nellycinders9424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Why do I love Ms Vold with reckless abandon. I can listen to you for hours. Thank you for the gift of you 💕. So grateful I came across your channel. Even your advice from sister 2 sister of over 4years ago are still valid. I hope to be as wise and grounded as you're by the time I get to your age. God keep you for long . Amen

  • @tabitha8207
    @tabitha8207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Funmi, I just want to tell you that I love you and truly appreciate your videos. I learn a lot from them especially as a young single African lady. Your videos are educating, inspiring and life changing. I pray for more grace to delve into deeper issues that can help our girls and community. I for instance is from a broken home. My beautiful mum worked so hard to keep us(her children) sane and together but I can categorically tell you that I still felt the impact of the separation psychologically. I am in a good place don’t get me wrong, thanks to my mum. I just wanted to reinstate the fact that broken homes are terrible experiences for the children.

  • @juliettsstyleglam
    @juliettsstyleglam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Hi Fumi, I can't even tell you how much I am in love with this episode. It would be difficult for some people to have thought of exerting revenge in that way just because the wronged person feels ashamed for the wrong that was done to her. Angel's reasoning for her actions are so valid and I give it to her. I tell people that the fact someone doesn't or hasn't divorced a cheating partner most cases has nothing to do with being passive, but everything to do with timing. My love to Angel, she's areal one.

  • @DecorDiyHome
    @DecorDiyHome 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I don’t even know how to put words together to describe this woman named FUMI! Such a phenomenal bombastic woman!

  • @iamtrishpam.
    @iamtrishpam. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for the part 2. Angel is a brave /courageous woman. To even think of how to go about it and handle it, hmmm! She did well .

  • @renatacortopassi4661
    @renatacortopassi4661 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your story telling is out of this world. Like you say “I live for it”

  • @thefamilymix9160
    @thefamilymix9160 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Best storyteller ever! Lord, continue to enlarge Fumi's territory. Make her voice known throughout the world!!

  • @mwila1879
    @mwila1879 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautiful makeup. This story has a lot of lessons. I had to watch it twice to get the wisdom. It has opened my eyes.

  • @juliannesharpe3066
    @juliannesharpe3066 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honesty Is Best! The Wife did that thing! My My My : the mistress was Married too!
    That blue is Stunning!!

  • @christinaajayi1751
    @christinaajayi1751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Thank you my sis for the part two of this episode I got a bit teary to know Angel endured because of her kid's the sacrifices women have to make, and may he be forever miserable the grass is never greener on the other side! Have a fabulous evening 😘😘😘

  • @ZoeMaven
    @ZoeMaven 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    You make your tales come alive... hung on every word as the true story reached a screeching crescendo... Subscribed right away.... an the make up is fabulous....You're amazing Aunty Fumi and love from Nigeria...💖💖💖

  • @moniqueknowles1740
    @moniqueknowles1740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow.. what a powerful message👏🏾. Thanks for sharing. All women need to hear this ( single, divorced, engaged, married, etc) You should consider writing a book. Excellent storytelling skills.

  • @lindacharles3551
    @lindacharles3551 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like that you called the character Angel. Only an angel would be able to have the grit to stay for 10yrs after. It took BALLS!

  • @Rebecca57097ssss
    @Rebecca57097ssss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was heavy! I have to rewatch this. 💞 I feel appalled for Angel but also relieved that she is doing well now. And very commendable to have a 10 year plan to eventually leave.

  • @v.a.l.5165
    @v.a.l.5165 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I enjoyed this very much. I only agree to an extent. The 'staying for the children's sake' thing is a nice idea, but isn't a balanced response. What kind of environment does that create for them to grow up in? It is damaging to grow up in a household of upheaval and instability, true. But it is also damaging to grow up in a household with parents who hate, dislike, are angry at, or just plain don't love one another. Add in continuous cheating, and it's the perfect recipe for maladjusted children to grow into adults with emotional and mental instability, issues of insecurity, and anger.

  • @chanteprettycute
    @chanteprettycute 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Yesss.. I’ve been on my mark.. waiting for part 2… my ears were burning 🔥 .. now I gotta watch👀.. 😊

  • @winsomepotter7167
    @winsomepotter7167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    PERFECT!!!
    When you started talking about the social gathering and the PowerPoint presentation, I said to myself, I hope Angel exposed them at the party, and Whammy you said it. I jump out of my seat and shout out bravo to the betrayal of a confidant (a back-stabber).

  • @cathyrobinson5959
    @cathyrobinson5959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Fumi I watched part one and I couldn’t wait to hear the conclusion of this story. What a trifling so called friend. I am so glad that she handled the situation in the manner that she did. She is a true classy woman. God will continue to bless her because she put her kids first. I don’t know her but I am proud of her. Fumi sista girl, keep the stories coming, much love

  • @raeneishiashay7845
    @raeneishiashay7845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    While she’s telling the story I’m shivering 🥶🥶

  • @Nahnie-jb8wo
    @Nahnie-jb8wo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was engaged, wedding dress bought and all. The pastor of our marriage counseling sessions told me in so many words he was cheating and didn't really love me. I was crushed and holding onto him for dear life. Why? Because I just wanted to be 'married'; even to a cheater. I knew he was cheating. But I figured it's better to get married to a successful engineer, pushing my dignity to the backburner. The pastor refused to marry us and he (the cheater) finally broke our engagement. I needed that. Now, I will NEVER deal with disrespect from a man. Period. Thank you, Fumi for this wisdom to love yourself.

    • @mwila1879
      @mwila1879 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That was nice of your pastor. Their not so many out there these days. I'm happy you also did not marry him. You will have the marriage of your dreams one day soon. God bless you sis!

    • @Nahnie-jb8wo
      @Nahnie-jb8wo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mwila1879 In Jesus name, Amen! Thank you for that. That's sweet and yes, my husband is on his way. 💛

  • @eleniprovia7667
    @eleniprovia7667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fumi you should publish a book with beauty looks... you are very talented!
    That story really shook me, I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy.

  • @antoniaburnham8817
    @antoniaburnham8817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hi Fumi,
    Your story telling is exceptional👏. Love your expressions, tone and talent. Everytime you upload it's a teachable moment and points are well received. Sorry your friend had such a hard life lesson but I love her tenacity, her patience, her gumption to execute her planned exposure the way she did. To Angel, may God continue to bless you with abundant happiness. Cheers 🍻 Fumi congratulations and continued success to your channel 👏.

  • @kiyakisses8438
    @kiyakisses8438 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You are the best story teller ever!!!! 😍I loved when u took a drink and crunched the ice too 🤣🤣

  • @reginanjunge4658
    @reginanjunge4658 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ever time you share your stories you tell us your value, because you surround yourself with that energy. I'm learning and PRAY for life, so I may see my environment reflect my surroundings. thank you, your stories are such a different perspective and I live!!!!I love!!!

  • @fungaimvindi3847
    @fungaimvindi3847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This story is so touching if sorry for every woman going through the same situation 😭😭😭

  • @jeannestrickland7027
    @jeannestrickland7027 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is a woman who has reached the age of 70 and having seen it all, I would rather listen to your stories then watch a television show.
    I love your makeup tips, but the stories are so good that I wanted to skip the tips and go straight to the end of the story. Thrilled that I found you on TH-cam.

  • @shirleybereal4138
    @shirleybereal4138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I applaud your friend, a mother always think of her children and what is best for them. Thank you for sister to sister I know for a fact you helped someone that is going through the same thing.
    Thank you my FABULOUS one.

  • @lyndoraburroughs-robinson5663
    @lyndoraburroughs-robinson5663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ooh good part 2. I'm here for this Fumi. Cliffhanger addressed 😁❤👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯

  • @mzstep27
    @mzstep27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This story was so good!!!!!!!! I had to go back and watch part 1 and immediately came back for this one! Plus the makeup looks are beautiful!

  • @evelynj.amponsah8417
    @evelynj.amponsah8417 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fumi not only do we get a full makeup tutorial but we get a real story . You were very sincere in your opinion. Angel will find real love again.

  • @ecatheatre86
    @ecatheatre86 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's 2023 and I'm late to the fiesta but I'm overjoyed at this discovery of auntie Fumi. ❤
    Learning is for everybody and as a MAN, I've noticed there are few if any places where men are made accountable to anyone or to each other.
    The most eloquent man has no place amongst his male peers to learn, question how to gain and maintain a moral code.
    And in my particular case, add the lack of value of gay love, fidelity, monogamy in other gay men. Instances like this described by Fumi are just par for the course.
    Like in this scenario, my heart was to attack and burn the entire neighborhood down, let alone the house, lol.
    You know male rage, especially around sex or conquest, regardless of sexual orientation is often volatile, combustive and deadly.
    I take solace in my sisters tactical, tacit zen approach, as it showed me another way to skin a wretched piece of human excrement.
    Thank you ALL for sharing, as it educates EVERYONE.

  • @chiamakanwoko6262
    @chiamakanwoko6262 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂😂 it's the jollof rice and egusi with pounded yam. Shout out to Nigerians

  • @mischiefmanaged8275
    @mischiefmanaged8275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When you're invested then she goes for a commercial break about her makeup love it ❤

  • @sweetestscooby
    @sweetestscooby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I clicked on this video so fast! Auntie Fumi can tell a story for the gods!!!!! I will always always watch your sister 2 sister video.

  • @DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES
    @DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    13:28 "you have to be very careful with people who are EXTREMELY CALM" 💯 Truth. I don't think I've befriended quiet people...not to talk of double-crossing them. YOU NEVER SEE THEM COMING, and that's deadly.
    Side chicks are always not the problem ; the cheating husband is.

  • @ChenelleSimmmonds
    @ChenelleSimmmonds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your friend dealt with that situation with a bit of class and sassiness. I 👏🏿 her

    • @ChenelleSimmmonds
      @ChenelleSimmmonds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did her husband stay with her after that?

    • @Rebecca57097ssss
      @Rebecca57097ssss 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ChenelleSimmmonds She left her Husband after their children went to college.

  • @ivrosejoseph1659
    @ivrosejoseph1659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So glad I found your channel!! Love your storytelling!! Thanks for all that you do!!

  • @Blackscubaqueen101
    @Blackscubaqueen101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I hate that this happened to Angel but I love the storytelling. Lesson has been learned as well.

  • @paulinewairimu2347
    @paulinewairimu2347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fumi is such a good story teller. I couldn't miss this episode for anything

  • @1emyme
    @1emyme 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yessss fumi we love the make up💞💞💞💞thank you for coming back.

  • @joiil4814
    @joiil4814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hi Aunti Fumi! I have these same earrings! Again you look fabulous 😍! Ready for the rest of the tea 🍵!

  • @richellasairras4339
    @richellasairras4339 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    ❤ your accent. Fumi thank you for your sister to sister talks. I clicked as fast as i could...😂😂😂

  • @reneemosley8363
    @reneemosley8363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OMG I LOVE YOU FUMI!!! Your energy, your presence, your passion. You tell a story so in depth...I feel like I'm there.

  • @LivingwithCharnelle
    @LivingwithCharnelle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awww cute how her husband chose the earrings.

  • @Motswako
    @Motswako 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes 🙌🏿 I loove these episodes

  • @samlevy8880
    @samlevy8880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you my Sister-Friend for your honesty, your transparency, and just being you! I have a question what happened to that nameless mistress- monger!!! Is her family still in tact. She needs to be gone..gone..goodbye!!! As for Angel, JESUS-GOD Bless her!!! Keep those Vlogs coming!!! Hey!!! Yes now!!!

    • @dmc5163
      @dmc5163 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fumi did an edit with an update about the mistress. "She got what she deserved."!! I think you can find it at the top of the comments page for part 2.

  • @signoyasaygbah
    @signoyasaygbah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I couldn’t move while listening to this story, fire was on the mountain. This is sad because lots of women are still in these situations. These stories times are amazing.

  • @dorothymatthews6690
    @dorothymatthews6690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Fumi. I just love how you tell relationship stories! It better than watching a movie on Lifetime! My mind is seeing this movie in high definition. Oooh! This was so good! The sad part is, that was the first day of the beginning of the death of that marriage.

  • @kasiogbuehi6507
    @kasiogbuehi6507 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hello Funmi, thank you so much for this piece. I enjoyed it alot and....it got me emotional in the end. Sacrifice is bigger than we know.

  • @im_livonyango6136
    @im_livonyango6136 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fumi please start a podcast.... I'd listen to you all day especially the story times 🙏🏿❤️👑

  • @chafrajayfra32
    @chafrajayfra32 ปีที่แล้ว

    She was rightfully ruthless. Fumi you tell great stories. What a picture you paint.

  • @Faithy22
    @Faithy22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are a great storyteller! I was earnestly listening. Thanks for the message. Thanks for YOU!

  • @shirleyjack-antoine6449
    @shirleyjack-antoine6449 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's good to share these stories!!! Keep doing so.. it helps shape the decisions many of us have to make due to these selfish acts of indiscretion at some point... some sooner than later!!! Thank you. This is so relatable and many judge you when you stay for these reasons you mentioned.

  • @doreenonekalit9888
    @doreenonekalit9888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love today's updo on the side and the earrings. I have be binge watching and sharing 🙈💕💕💕
    You are so gorgeous.

  • @pheralyndove6611
    @pheralyndove6611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Queen Fumi,
    You are indeed a wise friend to me even though we are virtual and have never met. When I watch your videos, wisdom & life lessons levitate to the surface. Such sage advice you are offering. & I know this is random but my favorite videos are your bra hacks & the tender love story about when you & your husband first met.💕

  • @FemmedelaCaraibe
    @FemmedelaCaraibe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I enjoy these stories. Lots of lessons

  • @Vamparellame
    @Vamparellame 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Enjoyed this so much Fumi!! We definitely do things for our children sake.

  • @Hbk-gc7st
    @Hbk-gc7st 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That part where you said: Angel thought she was going to change him! That right there people is the most important message! Dont think you can xhange a person!!!!🙌🏽

  • @glamsam6098
    @glamsam6098 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I stumbled across your channel yesterday and watched part 1 and then part 2 today. Not only that you’re gorgeous, you are a great story teller too! I’m hooked

  • @sneak6957
    @sneak6957 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the makeup!!