it hits home want he says. Been dating this guy for like two years.I am 27 he was 36. We met when i was 26 doing my masters then. And the stipend thing happened, he even wanted to pay my rent and even wanted to get me a car, i said no. As soon as i was done i applied to do my phd. I think he started to get scared, the relationship suddenly became quiet and a few days before i decided to end it. He called in a month to ask how i was and how sorry he was that he wasnt supportive of me to pursue my dreams. So i forgave him, 2 weeks later i was receiving calls like, uko wapi sahii, na nani, why are you not this and that, started even dming my male friends online... i decided to just call it quits. please dont waste your years. watch the red flags...n always put you first
Who else is watching while reading comments....I'm taking notes in every episode and I always feel transformed thanks Mr Zulu and your team every show is super
I just love Benjamin because he opened my eyes and everyone around me saying that have changed but it's you Benjamin who did a job in me. I really thank you am from Uganda love the show
wow this I totally agree. If as a woman you cannot pay for your own lifestyle, you ain't ready for dating....finally someone agrees with my thinking. Thanks Zulu.
Actually we are ending up with peolpe for wrong reasons .If you can take care of your needs,it's easier to choose a partner with the traits of a life long partner
Started watching shows of Benjamin Zulu when i had my first heartbreak recently... I feel he is God sent coz the wisdom he speaks is profound hits to my innermost core.. Jst at 20, i feel more focused in my studies, my dreams and my walk with God. I love u Mr. Zulu. Keep sharing these wisdoms, its saving lots of youth here. God bless 🙏❤.
Same here,,..am 21 and got heartbreak last week..I felt it was the end of the world but now am strong again...and just want to focus on my staff... dating now Ni Hadi nifike 25yrs... Thanks Zulu 😘😘I can't get enough of his shows
For a financially stable woman, sometimes u can just desire a man to give u money, not because u can't afford.... But Kuna that cute feeling that comes with it.
I just reflected on the fact that the things addressed on this show encompass the motivation, self-assurance and life advice young women without a doubt need as young adults from 16-30 years of age. It is the readily available precious information we should be seeking in self-development books surrounding matters to do with love and romance, finances and self-esteem. What makes the show such a treasure beside Benjamin's advice is the personal experiences of the Host and Guests interviewed that make you reflect on your own experiences hence connect with the topic of the day, and leave this chatroom a little better than you came.
Stand firm no one should pay for you fees my siz was paid fees and that guy married him after that she got several abuses until today and the guy keeps reminding him of the fees he paid its not worth it. I salute you benja wise words as usual.
I love Benjamin’s wisdom I wish I had this kind of advice in my twenties our girls listen in and build your Carreers so you have leverage and don’t make any important decisions before you are 25 food for thought 🤔 thank you
I like this. I wish he can do more of this relationship teachings. After watching this I know that I have made a blander in marrying someone I don't love at 23 years because of the pressure from my parents. My mom's biggest fear was that I might get a child out of wedlock. She mislead me in my life. It's a long story. But I did not have a good childhood. N when I met my husband I thought he will rescue me from my narcissist mom. Now I am 38 n three kids, a good job but unhealthy marriage. I keep cheating my husband from time to time to fulfill the feeling that I want because I don't have feelings for him. From South Africa.
I just learned of this beautiful show last night by "mistake", BUT I thank God. This show is absolutely a godsend. I am watching from Dallas, Texas, USA. Please keep doing a beautiful job in teaching and preaching. God bless you all!!!
I have been following full circle for some time because of Mr Benjamin Zulu and kindly asking if the host may speak english or production can look into putting sub titles for us who cant understand your beautiful language. I really feel left out. Ms Mwitwa - Zambia
Ben, you are just God sent. Thank you so much for all the life lessons that you pour into our lives. You never disappoint, always apt/on point. God richly bless you!!! Hello from Ghana.
Ooh my God! ! Benjamin Zulu you are a God sent. Thank you so much Sir, I wish to meet you one day and tell you how much you have really done in my life. How I wish I listened to you from the beginning. God bless
Man! Mr Zulu speaks so much sense into me. I am so glad I get to hear all this truth you share. Thanks for encouraging that 2-5 years to focus on yourself & career post graduation. I needed this. Asante!
I am 16 i have listening to you since forever dont worry am not in a relationship because of your advices you have saved from a lot of hyenas til i reach 25 relationships are bullshit i will focus on self development thanks so much
@@karuthisimon867 Hi Karuthi, I am doing great thank you. How are you too? It seems like you are looking for friendship, are you happy to be friends with Jesus? He loves you very much and deeply cares about you and you need Him. Please give Jesus a chance to love you unconditionally as your Lord and personal Savior ❤️♥️
19:13.....my life is soo boooring....oooh my God i want somebody to talk to....😂😂😂 Woow!!! Mr.bejamin i always salute you for pure enlightenment to us gal, môre grace🙏
Mwikali and Ben if you read the comments, you have a lot of foreigners who watch this show.. So they miss a lot when you switch to Swahili, please work on sub-titles. Great show!👌🏿🇰🇪
Switch TV- please, this show has great insight however... would you please include closed captions? I understand all languages spoken however I see lots of other Africans here concerned that they are missing your great advice.
This is a very very considerate comment Their attention has been called to this severally but they chose to do nothing about it. We really have no choice but to enjoy the little we can hear
Thanks to him he's always having such good advice so nice of them and somehow you get to know better about how this life is thanks so much Benjamin Zulu what is the best
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Let the presenter try to stick to English,we watching from other countries 😣
Please provide subtitles. Much love from RSA
@@ttenda2836 true
InstaBlaster.
it hits home want he says. Been dating this guy for like two years.I am 27 he was 36. We met when i was 26 doing my masters then. And the stipend thing happened, he even wanted to pay my rent and even wanted to get me a car, i said no. As soon as i was done i applied to do my phd. I think he started to get scared, the relationship suddenly became quiet and a few days before i decided to end it. He called in a month to ask how i was and how sorry he was that he wasnt supportive of me to pursue my dreams. So i forgave him, 2 weeks later i was receiving calls like, uko wapi sahii, na nani, why are you not this and that, started even dming my male friends online... i decided to just call it quits. please dont waste your years. watch the red flags...n always put you first
"Its foolish for a person who has helped you as a friend, to reward them with marriage"
I 100% co-sign with you
Ohhh I love that statement "A man who doesn't call you or check on you is dysfactional" period. Communication is key.
Who else is watching while reading comments....I'm taking notes in every episode and I always feel transformed thanks Mr Zulu and your team every show is super
I like his shows ,always enjoying them my mentor
I just love Benjamin because he opened my eyes and everyone around me saying that have changed but it's you Benjamin who did a job in me. I really thank you am from Uganda love the show
Ooh
Tulibanji mkn
Me to
🇺🇬🇺🇬💯💯🙌🙌
mi too
wow this I totally agree. If as a woman you cannot pay for your own lifestyle, you ain't ready for dating....finally someone agrees with my thinking. Thanks Zulu.
I concur wit U100%. Otherwise we r placing ourselves in a position of "U wldnt have that if it wasn't for me"..Ladies, we R beta than that 💪
Kabisaaaa
Actually we are ending up with peolpe for wrong reasons .If you can take care of your needs,it's easier to choose a partner with the traits of a life long partner
Trust me yes
I totally agree
"When you pass the interview, that's when you perform according to the position"..."Don't reward a friend with marriage." Wow.. Amazing wisdom.
"Don't date for 4 years. It is not a degree!" - Benjamin Zulu
What about 5 years...
@@positivesoul.9490 degree plus MBA? 🤣
@@kabebitube i dated for 5 years. Recently broke up. A PhD level
@@positivesoul.9490 hope you are doing okay. On PHD, 😁
@@positivesoul.9490 😊🎉congrats. Pole
Started watching shows of Benjamin Zulu when i had my first heartbreak recently... I feel he is God sent coz the wisdom he speaks is profound hits to my innermost core.. Jst at 20, i feel more focused in my studies, my dreams and my walk with God. I love u Mr. Zulu. Keep sharing these wisdoms, its saving lots of youth here.
God bless 🙏❤.
I actually wish every youth would subscribe.
Where can I watch more of his teachings. I am in South Africa.
@@jmoskat-ub5cf thank u
Same here,,..am 21 and got heartbreak last week..I felt it was the end of the world but now am strong again...and just want to focus on my staff... dating now Ni Hadi nifike 25yrs...
Thanks Zulu 😘😘I can't get enough of his shows
@@kaprincedeprince6685 🥳🥳🥳yeyyy that's the goal... 25 here we go🥳🧘💃
For a financially stable woman, sometimes u can just desire a man to give u money, not because u can't afford.... But Kuna that cute feeling that comes with it.
I agree with you
True sis!!
amen
Yes. True true true. And U don't need much from him... Just that gesture of offering you.
@@positivesoul.9490 😝😝exactly.... Now bringing them to understand this dimension of things ndio shida. They just put too much excuses on it.
We need to clone this man! Many women (young & old) need this wisdom. Thank you
Right?
to crown right i agree
sure, I'm 42 and still need his advice
"Even if he works for Redcross" 😂😂😂. I love Benjamin for free.
"An empty stomach is not a good political adviser" 😂😂😂
Benjamin is right... At 25 exactly my eyes got opened i knew what i wanted and where I want to go.
"Marry right or don't marry" lol!!
“You thought someone would Boomerang you to Success..”ahhhhhahhahha🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂🤣
I just reflected on the fact that the things addressed on this show encompass the motivation, self-assurance and life advice young women without a doubt need as young adults from 16-30 years of age. It is the readily available precious information we should be seeking in self-development books surrounding matters to do with love and romance, finances and self-esteem. What makes the show such a treasure beside Benjamin's advice is the personal experiences of the Host and Guests interviewed that make you reflect on your own experiences hence connect with the topic of the day, and leave this chatroom a little better than you came.
Stand firm no one should pay for you fees my siz was paid fees and that guy married him after that she got several abuses until today and the guy keeps reminding him of the fees he paid its not worth it. I salute you benja wise words as usual.
The fish and food analogy is on point!
May God keep you in good health Benjamin. You continue nurturing us with your wisdom into our best selves. Love from Uganda❤
And I just love how Benjamin is very comfortable around Mwikali. she let's Benjamin be himself. A beautiful host. Great Job Mwikali.
🙌🙌🙌🙌So True...
Wasn’t Joyce the same ?? 🙄
I love your passion when it comes to these talks Benjamin.
The ultimate truth given for free. Women let’s learn :) :)
If you take shortcuts , your life will be cut short ...go Benjamin 😂
Been watching this segment for the past 2 weeks, and the gems of wisdom Benjamin spills are exactly what I need in the season I'm in in my life
I love Benjamin’s wisdom I wish I had this kind of advice in my twenties our girls listen in and build your Carreers so you have leverage and don’t make any important decisions before you are 25 food for thought 🤔 thank you
Alice,i wish i heard this info@my twenties
Team Benjamin Zulu & Mwiks😍❤️
Can someone tell him short hair on us is expensive it's expensive like expensive! 🤣
More expensive than long hair, I only keep short hair and the maintenance is quite it
How expensive I don't understand
When I was having a short hair, the maintenance weee 😭. People have no idea.
I like this. I wish he can do more of this relationship teachings. After watching this I know that I have made a blander in marrying someone I don't love at 23 years because of the pressure from my parents. My mom's biggest fear was that I might get a child out of wedlock. She mislead me in my life. It's a long story. But I did not have a good childhood. N when I met my husband I thought he will rescue me from my narcissist mom. Now I am 38 n three kids, a good job but unhealthy marriage. I keep cheating my husband from time to time to fulfill the feeling that I want because I don't have feelings for him. From South Africa.
Just make a choice to be happy
Wow
It's not too late to leave I left and am okay with 2kods
"As a woman if you cannot pay for your own life style then you ain't ready for dating"
I'm a lady and I agree
I agree
I agree
@@raychonmulungi7538 Mulungi, oli mulungi kulwekyo😁
@Kithama Shadrach your Luganda is commendable ☺️
The only channel that all Kenyan Youths MUST subscribe.
I really like Benjamin because he talks about reality...Thanks for inspiring lives💞🙏
When you look for short cuts your will be cut short. Now that was a good one. May God continue to bless and keep you
I swear this has been my best show ❣️ much love and appreciation from Kampala
Benjamin is shoutiiiiing !!! The accuracy is at 100%!!!
Living within your own means..Very peaceful because you don't have to be a slave to anyone... Benjamin Zulu.. wisdom reloaded!
I know what Benjamin Zulu is talking about from experience. By resigning to care of the family through direct hands on approach.
Taking notes every episode thank you so much
I just learned of this beautiful show last night by "mistake", BUT I thank God. This show is absolutely a godsend. I am watching from Dallas, Texas, USA. Please keep doing a beautiful job in teaching and preaching. God bless you all!!!
Money is earned. No man gives it for free. I love what dad told us as we grew up. And it has kept me till date.
I don't look up for a man.
I have been following full circle for some time because of Mr Benjamin Zulu and kindly asking if the host may speak english or production can look into putting sub titles for us who cant understand your beautiful language. I really feel left out. Ms Mwitwa - Zambia
I landed on this platform in the right time.My guy is wondering about me and has become kind of afraid of me. Aahhhhh!!!
Oh this is so amazing.Benjamin always open my head and all topics he motivates me alot.
People perish because of lack of Knowledge. Keep up the good work Benjamin.
Benjamin is jus always on point.always glued to this show.keep it up guys.
Thank you Benjamin. so much insight.
“When you take short cuts you,ll be cut short!” 🔥🔥🔥🔥
That was a nice one
Always taking notes 📝, love you guys ❤️
Thank you so much Benjamin Zulu!
I don't have words to describe how I love and I am inspired by this Man right here! ❤️
me too
This the best speech ever ive listen from benjamin,i like it
Saying the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Thank you sir watching from Lagos Nigeria.
Thanks alot Zulu...always learning new thing each day. God bless 🙏
Ben, you are just God sent. Thank you so much for all the life lessons that you pour into our lives. You never disappoint, always apt/on point. God richly bless you!!! Hello from Ghana.
Thank you for the nice words Khadi. Please share this and more videos with your friends. It might mean something to them
I tell you.who ever goes astray this round,,, will be at his/her own risk.
OMG Benjamin Thank you for this whole topic!
Ooh my God! ! Benjamin Zulu you are a God sent. Thank you so much Sir, I wish to meet you one day and tell you how much you have really done in my life. How I wish I listened to you from the beginning. God bless
I always learn new things from these two wonderful soul am changing every new day🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Man! Mr Zulu speaks so much sense into me. I am so glad I get to hear all this truth you share. Thanks for encouraging that 2-5 years to focus on yourself & career post graduation. I needed this. Asante!
For sure thanks alot sir for the wisdom 🙏🙏🙏 am learning more each day
I have been a very independent lady Zulu amechoma mimi huweka music alafu I hold a container to work like a microphone in my house 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I am 16 i have listening to you since forever dont worry am not in a relationship because of your advices you have saved from a lot of hyenas til i reach 25 relationships are bullshit i will focus on self development thanks so much
Wow, thanks a lot brother for the great words. God blessed u both. much love 😍
May God bless you Benjamin Zulu for the good work. You are an eye opener.
The FISH thing oh my God! Zulu, yr wisdom is surely God given..thanks for sharing it freely. A very grateful soul here..grtgz Mary
My best episode yet. Facts left, right and centre.
Waoh,eye opener.i love this show.loyal follower.Benjamin God is using you to heal relationships and open our eyes.kudos.
Benjamin Zulu you are a blessing to many. I wish you could reach every young souls in Kenya...
I love Zulu 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 he talks FACTS ONLY .... TRUTHS ONLY ......
Wow this was Powerful and The Truth. Thanks again Mr Zulu for your Honesty.
Eeeeeeeiiiiish!!!! Benjamin is such a snack 💓. Thanks for taking the initiative to educate the youth.may God bless you,
Olivia, a snack in what sense?...lol
Benjamin Zul is really something else 😊you actually talk sense! 💯✔️👌
You fwaa to success😂
Thank you Benjamin for your advice.
I always look forward to new videos on this channel 🙌🙌
Enhe fellow ladies let's value ourselves and be principled...our bodies are the temple of the holy spirit.
Raechel how are you
@@karuthisimon867 Hi Karuthi, I am doing great thank you. How are you too? It seems like you are looking for friendship, are you happy to be friends with Jesus? He loves you very much and deeply cares about you and you need Him. Please give Jesus a chance to love you unconditionally as your Lord and personal Savior ❤️♥️
@@diplomatdiplomat2800 thankyou for that.
@@karuthisimon867 fine thanks
@@diplomatdiplomat2800 Amen, He is the only friend who sticks closer than a brother.
This is deep! Kudos Benjamin
The wisdom this guy oozes weee...
am 28 and am patiently waiting thanks to Benjamin
btw so long as I have a nice and well paying job,,am not bored at all
This just lifted my soul
Wise word's...keep up guys
Love the wisdom!❤ thank you Zulu❤💎
This is soo true thanks benjamin...I'm taking notes ✍✍
Your wisdom is unmatched 👍
Benjamin is so right ! As a woman alaways live by the saying there's no free lunch.
19:13.....my life is soo boooring....oooh my God i want somebody to talk to....😂😂😂 Woow!!! Mr.bejamin i always salute you for pure enlightenment to us gal, môre grace🙏
Benjamin speaks too much wisdom
Am Ann from Uganda am simply addicted to Zuluz words
mimi sijui kupinga zulu.....I wish I met this info in my early 20s singewaste time
Nice advice congratulations Benjamin and wikali.
Mwikali and Ben if you read the comments, you have a lot of foreigners who watch this show.. So they miss a lot when you switch to Swahili, please work on sub-titles. Great show!👌🏿🇰🇪
I was able to turn on the English captions for this video. I hope it also works for you.
@@kabebitube I'm ok coz i speak Swahili, asking for 1000 others 😊
Exactly!!!!
@@bellaolum9768 okay, thanks.
Thanks for reminding us to first of all focus on our purpose before anything else
Switch TV- please, this show has great insight however... would you please include closed captions? I understand all languages spoken however I see lots of other Africans here concerned that they are missing your great advice.
This is a very very considerate comment
Their attention has been called to this severally but they chose to do nothing about it.
We really have no choice but to enjoy the little we can hear
Full of wisdom Benjamin ❤️
Nowadays the word Bullshit is allowed on national media? 🤔
Thanks to him he's always having such good advice so nice of them and somehow you get to know better about how this life is thanks so much Benjamin Zulu what is the best
THANK YOU ZULU.
Jesus Holy Christ!! I boooww Benjamin...your analysis of things always blows me away. Trash has taken itself out🙌
Thanks Benjamin Zulu ....always true and real ....your words and wisdom has always saved me from soo many men.
Well said, Benjamin Zulu...
Thank you so much Zulu, am your number one student
Very educative! very very educative!
very enlightening and eye opener