The quiet ones make people uncomfortable. It’s funny to me how I never say a lot and people get offended because I’m not eager to be in their face. I can’t stand drama and I have a low tolerance for bs. I’m just focused on what I need to accomplish. That’s it and that’s all. So, please don’t get offended…🤷🏽♀️
I don't say much bc if I open my mouth and have an unpopular but in my mind true opinion (that's not rude or anything) about the world or doing the right thing etc. they'll still be offended, lmao
It's the quiet ones who are always ignored yet people have the nerve to say that we're being rude because we don't join into conversations as often, I really hate that.
People assume I’m shy because I’m quiet until they cross me on the wrong day and I let them have it..they always look stunned. I’m quiet and don’t bother anyone but I also have a temper. I’ll let things go for a little while but once I think you’re totally out of line I let them have it
I've been labelled as being the 'quiet one' a few times by people & the one thing I've noticed about all these people who are quick to call me quiet is, none of them have ever once made a effort to talk to me. Half of these people haven't even made eye contact with me, let alone get to know me. How can you label someone as being quiet when you, yourself, have never spoken to them?? I find it to be quit hypocritical. If you're going to put a label on someone & you've never spoken to them or gotten to know them, then they can really say the same thing about you right?
Exactly. I was called "uppity" by a neighbor today, because I don't speak. This was an elderly black man who owns a dog, telling his dog to not associate with people like me. I used to say hi to him until he stopped saying hi to me.
@@telayajackson1.0 Communication really is a two-way-street, that's what some people seem to forget. You used to say hello to your neighbour & that was nice of you. Why you're being called a snob now considering his never gone out of his way to say hello to you, seems odd to me. If he says something like that again, just point out to him that you only stopped saying hello because you noticed he wasn't saying hi to you first. Hopefully it's something you can both look back on & laugh about oneday.
@@anonymousanon2993 I told him I get ignored by people too, which cause me to think they don't want to be bothered by me, so I leave them alone. I don't think I ever disrespected him.
Not true. I have a bowling team that I have been bowling with for over ten years and we are all good friends, but I'm the one who rarely talks. While the rest of the team is sitting at the table talking away. I'm sitting down at the lanes by myself not saying a word. They have come to accept me as I am and have never judged me for it. Just accepted the fact that I was different. Get a few drinks in me and then i open up and you can't shut me up, but it's rare that I drink anymore because then I tend to say too much. I guess there's no happy medium form me.
Being silent has a massive advantage in today's world. Less words means we can hear better, we're more trustworthy cause we don't participate in drama/gossip and we're mostly focus on the objective. My personality is like a fox, I socialize and crack jokes when required, most of the time I keep to myself.
Successful people usually have nothing to prove so they don't say much in situations when they think it's not necessary. Un-successful people usually talk a lot, with no substance, because many times they think by being "popular" they are successful. Maybe in their own minds. Also a successful person can glance at a group and already decide whether it's worth his/her time to engage.
Why people have a problem with quiet people? Like I usually don’t be doing nothing to people and sometimes I come across with people having an attitude
Same. I try to pay them no mind but they press me so I just walk away, if they persist don't be surprised if i snap at u. However that most likely won't happen, I'm pretty patient so it requires something extreme or excessive for me to to harm give a physical reaction
When I was much much younger, I was molested by a cousin and, prior to that, my brother also. When I asked to talk to my mother and my Aunts I was told "you talk too much, I'm watching tv." Later, at 35 when I found my voice and my power, I did not utilize either of them right away. I sat down and observed what I had been through. I'm a two time rape survivor and I still don't know what kinda monster can take anyone's dignity that way but it's the lowest of the low of the demons. I do NOT look like what I've been through. Now though, they gotta watch me shine. I've been saying for years that talk is cheap. Those lessons were not. I'm 45 now and I'm engulfed in the sweet soft spirit and enjoyability of silence. You're right, Noah. You're so right.
I’m always misunderstood and hard to speak up. Once you get to know someone you learn a lot. I often don’t say much and try to gain as much friends as I can after high school but realize the closest friends will understand you
The stereotype is that quite souls are mentally ill like crazy and extroverts are sane...This is a stereotype...How many cases can we see past and present in headlines of both the quiet ppl and extroverts doing violence.
Quiet people are the loudest.. They have depths to them.. They love conversation with people who can understand otherwise they are happy by themselves..
I agree Sir, reminds me of an old adage; "still waters run deep". Wish you success in your new endeavor(s) for you've already taken the first step i.e. listened to your inner voice/connection w/Spirit.
"If you think you're smart how can you shutup? You tell me. If you think you know everything about everything and are full of coached opinions how can you ever shutup? If you realize that no you're actually stupid and you don't know anything in this existence you're just another existence..then you can look at life for what you truly are which is just the life that you are..naive awareness is strength"- Sadhguru
I'm in my 30s and I have always been quite. I am extremely shy because I'm a recluse and I am a hermit. I can live in the woods for about a year all by myself. Most people couldn't do it for one week he'll not even a day. Now on to work every job I worked at I didn't seem to keep long than a year or 2 years because of always being quiet. People on my job would Stare at me because I wouldn't say anything to them they look at me like I'm crazy. I remember I was looking for isolated jobs on the internet because I wanted to work all by myself but decided to be an Author instead because writing is the loneliest job and that's what I want. Now being so quiet and loving to be left alone I end up being with a man that loves to hangout with a crowd of people, have fun, and hold conversation with anyone I guess it be like that sometimes but I love him with all my heart.
Wow thank you. I was starting to think I’m weird. Today at work someone was like why are you always quiet. Talk. And it happens a lot. They wonder why they see me on social media talking and laughing with my friends. But when I go to new places or work I just concentrate on what I’m doing or drink a cup of coffee etc.
I’m extremely quiet yet kind and polite …they think I’m weird and write me off but little did they know..I have so much in my mind and I’m a writer. When I share my art people cry and are touched..people who talk too much tend to be a little dumb…no offense
I’m shy, when I was younger, people would always ask why I’m quiet, tell me I should talk more. Wish they would’ve just asked about my interests instead. Now that I’ve been married and been a mom for years, I finally have things to talk about that interest people cause look at all the people that have at least one kid or a spouse or both.
I'm in this situation now. I go to the coffee shop and teach myself how to code forbAI and data analytics. I also like to learn about blockchain and digital marketing. Trading and investing. They also don't know that I have already piece together about them and the out of context gossip about me.
Is the most powerfull strength to be reserved and quite. I personally learned to regain myself through this type of state being. The most amazing and wise people are 99% the most beautiful souls and productive individuals. All the greatest and upgrades skill they possess simply because though this unique personality is a reverse wisdom continuesly. Choosing wisly your network is very the key of personal and professional advice to the greatest archivevment in this life time. Best wishes, Crys
Unfortunately human nature is to interact and talk to other’s sadly we live in an extroverted world so being quiet you will always stand out in a bad way most places. All the jobs I’ve had I always had someone question why I was so quiet. I just be trying to make my money and go home lol I was even recently told by a manager how I need to greet and interact with the coworkers everyday I come in and I’m like why ? I also hate how just because I’m not talking people automatically think I’m sad or angry about something when I’m literally the opposite most of the time.
I think gossip is a trait many people engage in. If you listen to many conversations of people who talk a lot, they are gossiping about others. The thought occurred to me long ago that a gossip to me will be a gossip of me. And this is true. If you know someone who likes to gossip about others with you, chances are they will gossip about you to someone else. Someone told me from my past that gossip is a double sin. Why? Because many times when you gossip you are lying and stealing! How? Many gossips exaggerate and lie to make their gossip more interesting about the person they are talking about behind their back and in effect they are stealing that person's reputation by speaking ill of them to others about things that may not be true or are private and confidential. The Bible says if you can't control your tongue, you cannot control anything else about yourself either.
Great observations! My only comment, coming from the perspective of a teacher and the mother of an introvert, is that sometimes they hate being singled out, in a classroom setting, to be called on as the "quiet" ones. In group settings (like a class), we introverts often prefer to keep our thoughts to ourselves.
No one in my family - neither my ancestors nor my offspring - know anything about me. I have real reasons for staying quiet when the people who have a tendency to invalidate everything I think/feel/say/do/etc are in the room. But if they're not there, then all the other people act as if there's nothing to me and they don't engage me in conversation. I have so much to say. There is so much to me. It's not about "acquiring assets", but about much deeper things. They don't even know. And they prolly never will.
Thanks so much for this , I’ve been always labeled as the quit person which I am when I’m not around people I do not feel comfortable interacting with. As I grew and understood that I am an introvert that’s when became more comfortable and understood myself a lot more. What you just in this video made tear just a bit because yes we’re often if not always overlooked at because of our quietness this video made even more proud to be myself.
I’ve found that when group settings arise, there are certain individuals who feel pressurised to appear interesting, another fake scenario is the telephone voice. But there are always a few genuine extroverts in any given group.
I just be to myself no pressure at all between us can sit in a silent room together doin our own thing but if I really need to or ask something or you ask me ill reciprocate
Some quiet ppl are better left alone! I've met some that opened up, then couldn't shut up, & I'm like 😳🤨🤬 daayum. They're one extreme or the other, so hell, let em be!
Its normal coz they rarely find ppl to open up to so they might get excited....in fact u should be grateful coz it shows that u are a good person and ppl open up to u easily
@@YellowPaint100 Yeah b you got people that see you as a good person man. I know shit tons of quiet people that keep they distance and I'm one of them. It's hard asf for most of us to open up. You a good and likeable person if you have multiple friends who open up to you
People are insecure about themself, so they tend to fill the silence with anything that comes to their mind. I enjoy silence and working on it, it got to a point here people around me just are afraid of me, 'cause not talking to people is seem as being rude or whatever, the thing is I observe others, what they say and do, if someone words and actions dont match I have no interest AT ALL in that person, in fact I tend to avoid them. Also talking about your personal life to literally EVERYBODY in the room is kind of lame, I have no interest in public things. People who rarely talk about themself are a puzzle (like me), I like to figure them out.
People think when you’re quiet you are weak or dumb for some reason. I had a job I worked at once where I was coordinating a lane through an auction for cars and someone who worked there previously just started again with them in a spot similar to mine but she used to run the lane I was running so she was always over there talking shit about how I can’t run the lane etc and even holding up my lane in an attempt to make me fail. In fact my lane overall was ram better than with her running it and that was from my drivers on the lane who also worked with her before and from the upper management. So when she failed she decided to get one of her buddies on my lane to talk shit too so I told her if she didn’t like the way I ran the lane then she could fucking leave it(she was talking good about it until buddy buddy came back). So I texted one of the upper management but he didn’t see it until after she ran and cried to him because “I told her to leave” and he tried to get pissy at me like it was my fault so I had to kinda snap back because of how he approached me about it and explain what happened. I asked we all talk about it in the big bosses office. The one that started it all got nervous and changed real quick and then left the room. Then the higher ups tried to hound me again a little softer and I had to put my foot down again and then finally they said “well we were just surprised because you seemed so quiet and passive it just surprised us you said that to her”. This place is ram pretty shitty so not surprising considering they view people who talk down and are loud and aggressive as “dominant” and “leaders” when in fact it’s usually the opposite, at least in its true form, but that’s how they pick their “leaders” for management. Point is they tried to hound me about something I was doing simply because they didn’t expect it from me and thought I was a pushover who wouldn’t stand up for myself so it would be easier for them to bitch at me and not the one who actually caused all that because she was loud and wild so they feared she would cause a big fuss but in the end she got scared and nervous and I was ultimately the one putting my foot down even to upper management just as I did her regardless of who they were. Aka she’s fake and that goes in line with a point of this video where the loud ones usually are just for show. It sounds like I’m ranting, and at the time it irritated me but in the end I found it hilarious because everyone was afraid of her and she ended up being a little bitch about shit 😂 I also get a kick out of that company is now going under lol, my cousin still works there and tells me about their shit and I find it so dumb that it’s funny 😆 Way longer comment than intended but I felt the detail was relevant to understand better.
Regards and respect to you from Australia mate 👍. Iam 63 years old now, I have seen a lot done somethings things but have not told a sole, but Iam going to tell you this much, with all that I have done, I have never hurt any women or kids that much Iam so proud of an the only advice that I would like to pass on to you is this, shut your mouth, those who know don't speak, an those that speak don't know, always do what you must an don't tell anyone, regards from this old man from Australia.
I was an instructor for a class for medical professionals. After a a year of teaching everyday I saw a pattern in who would pass the test and who would struggle. 9 times out of the 10 the loudest ones struggled the most and the quiet ones would ace. The weirdest thing was the quiet ones often outranked the louder ones but you wouldn’t know unless you asked their title. Idk if that applies to real life, but was kinda shocked when I saw that pattern.
I listen, I talk when I have something to say. Im not sure how to react when my sister tries to make me feel bad for not constantly talking like she does.
I'm sure people think I have a screw loose because I don't say or talk much and quite honestly, I don't care. I keep to myself because I don't trust anyone. People today are out to make others look bad by whatever info they can drag out of you to make you look like a POS. If my being quiet makes you uncomfortable, that's on you, not me. Even at work, if someone tries to give me praise for doing a good job, it makes me cringe because I feel their are others out there who have done more and deserve the praise more than I do. I've never seen myself as having much value or self-worth which is one of the reasons I keep to myself. I figured if I was worthy of having friends, I'd have some, but no one wants to be around someone nor do they take the time to get to know someone just because they are quiet and not very good at engaging in or starting conversations. It's easier to insult them as being weird, anti-social, this or that.
Introverts need extroverted people because they share their thoughts and look outward to see what other people think while introverts reflect on the idea and ask themselves "what do I think of this?"
25th Subscriber here. See im usually quiet, but i tend to speak more online than i do irl. I mostly share things i know with other people when i hear them talking about a certain topic because i want to let out my own knowlegde about it. Most of the time i am like this man you speak of but morely on the poor class side of society. You could make more videos about teaching others, both men and women to become these house things(i lost track for a second)...If you are still willing to continue youtube that is.
Part of the reason I’m quiet is because I don’t want people paying attention to me 🤦🏾♂️
Same I dislike being in the spot light
Yes same
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The quiet ones make people uncomfortable. It’s funny to me how I never say a lot and people get offended because I’m not eager to be in their face. I can’t stand drama and I have a low tolerance for bs. I’m just focused on what I need to accomplish. That’s it and that’s all. So, please don’t get offended…🤷🏽♀️
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I don't say much bc if I open my mouth and have an unpopular but in my mind true opinion (that's not rude or anything) about the world or doing the right thing etc. they'll still be offended, lmao
@@birdsofparadise1 yes. That too…lol
theres too much vicitimization like feminism is bullshit, too many times im quiet because im scared to say shit bruuh
I type and write a lot ( in comment sections) but in reality i don't talk that much.
It's the quiet ones who are always ignored yet people have the nerve to say that we're being rude because we don't join into conversations as often, I really hate that.
*Exactly*
Never confuse quietness for shyness either!!!!!
EXACTLY idk why people assume that's what it is
Nothing wrong with being shy and quiet!!
@@littleleah310 I know that?
People assume I’m shy because I’m quiet until they cross me on the wrong day and I let them have it..they always look stunned. I’m quiet and don’t bother anyone but I also have a temper. I’ll let things go for a little while but once I think you’re totally out of line I let them have it
i can be very quite and shy but disrespect me or cross a line with me and all that go's out the window real fast!
Be weary of those who seek out constant crowds, for they are nothing alone - Charles Bukowski
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coincidentally i just found out about this guy and was reading a bunch of his quotes less than an hour ago
Oh, you fuck with Ole Hank too?
That's My Dawg For Life G.
The ones that are so brave when their friends are around, but are cowards by themselves. Yeah, I know.
I've been labelled as being the 'quiet one' a few times by people & the one thing I've noticed about all these people who are quick to call me quiet is, none of them have ever once made a effort to talk to me. Half of these people haven't even made eye contact with me, let alone get to know me. How can you label someone as being quiet when you, yourself, have never spoken to them?? I find it to be quit hypocritical.
If you're going to put a label on someone & you've never spoken to them or gotten to know them, then they can really say the same thing about you right?
It’s easier for people to jump to conclusions rather than to use effort to understand something or someone
That is 100% true. Just because I don't like to start conversations doesn't mean I don't want to talk
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Exactly. I was called "uppity" by a neighbor today, because I don't speak. This was an elderly black man who owns a dog, telling his dog to not associate with people like me. I used to say hi to him until he stopped saying hi to me.
@@telayajackson1.0 Communication really is a two-way-street, that's what some people seem to forget. You used to say hello to your neighbour & that was nice of you. Why you're being called a snob now considering his never gone out of his way to say hello to you, seems odd to me. If he says something like that again, just point out to him that you only stopped saying hello because you noticed he wasn't saying hi to you first. Hopefully it's something you can both look back on & laugh about oneday.
@@anonymousanon2993 I told him I get ignored by people too, which cause me to think they don't want to be bothered by me, so I leave them alone. I don't think I ever disrespected him.
Ppl always underestimate introverts... Great story
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they dont underestimate introvert. they just dont see it comming
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True! 😤😤😤
I think quiet people are only quiet to strangers. Once you are a friend we are very talketive
That's what I've been told I do
Exactly! you are 100% right.
thats me but few people give me a chance cuz their intimidated by me or thing im weird.
Not always the case
Not true. I have a bowling team that I have been bowling with for over ten years and we are all good friends, but I'm the one who rarely talks. While the rest of the team is sitting at the table talking away. I'm sitting down at the lanes by myself not saying a word. They have come to accept me as I am and have never judged me for it. Just accepted the fact that I was different. Get a few drinks in me and then i open up and you can't shut me up, but it's rare that I drink anymore because then I tend to say too much. I guess there's no happy medium form me.
Being silent has a massive advantage in today's world. Less words means we can hear better, we're more trustworthy cause we don't participate in drama/gossip and we're mostly focus on the objective.
My personality is like a fox, I socialize and crack jokes when required, most of the time I keep to myself.
I didn't knew fox crack jokes hahaaa😂😂
I doubt you are like that
Successful people usually have nothing to prove so they don't say much in situations when they think it's not necessary. Un-successful people usually talk a lot, with no substance, because many times they think by being "popular" they are successful. Maybe in their own minds. Also a successful person can glance at a group and already decide whether it's worth his/her time to engage.
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The weak do in general but a man with wisdom looks listens and observers
You said it best . I feel the same way .
I loveeee quiet people
Don't see or hear anybody saying that shit lmao
Thanks
@@n8pk69 lmfaoo ikr😂
Wow! You're the first. Most avoid us like the plague.
At a party, I would be the one in a corner by myself.
I’d be the one in the basement, literally. I had a family party with everyone upstairs and I was in the basement.
Why people have a problem with quiet people? Like I usually don’t be doing nothing to people and sometimes I come across with people having an attitude
Same. I try to pay them no mind but they press me so I just walk away, if they persist don't be surprised if i snap at u. However that most likely won't happen, I'm pretty patient so it requires something extreme or excessive for me to to harm give a physical reaction
exactly
They're unsettled by you not needing their validation. They're insecure. Keep being you 😉
Because they are a threat the man that can come out of adversity alone is a dangerous man seriously
The majority feel threatened by us quiet ones .
It is human nature to fear and sometimes not understand the unknown.
Good point
True
There’s an old saying the one that talks the must knows the least. And another one is The loudest one in the room is the weakest one in the room
Usually the ones that judge me , have nothing to bring to the table .
Introverts are quietly successful people actually...
People around me don't pay attention when I talk because they think I'm useless, and that's the reason why I'm always quite.
When I was much much younger, I was molested by a cousin and, prior to that, my brother also. When I asked to talk to my mother and my Aunts I was told "you talk too much, I'm watching tv." Later, at 35 when I found my voice and my power, I did not utilize either of them right away. I sat down and observed what I had been through. I'm a two time rape survivor and I still don't know what kinda monster can take anyone's dignity that way but it's the lowest of the low of the demons. I do NOT look like what I've been through. Now though, they gotta watch me shine. I've been saying for years that talk is cheap. Those lessons were not. I'm 45 now and I'm engulfed in the sweet soft spirit and enjoyability of silence. You're right, Noah. You're so right.
I’m sorry you went through such a horrible situation and that your family didn’t protect you.
Bless up.
Its the same thing in jail. The quietest guy on yard is running the show.
The quietest guys on the yard aren't going to be the people that throw hands......
They will be the ones to leave you in a pool of blood
They hate the ones they want to be & the ones they don’t understand they fear
I’m always misunderstood and hard to speak up. Once you get to know someone you learn a lot. I often don’t say much and try to gain as much friends as I can after high school but realize the closest friends will understand you
The stereotype is that quite souls are mentally ill like crazy and extroverts are sane...This is a stereotype...How many cases can we see past and present in headlines of both the quiet ppl and extroverts doing violence.
I like people like you, very respectful to everyone. Respect!
The empty tin rattles the loudest
Quiet people are the loudest.. They have depths to them.. They love conversation with people who can understand otherwise they are happy by themselves..
I'm a very quiet person and keep to myself...I have no time for stupid games I don't like stupid prizes.
I'm quiet because I personally don't want any attention. I don't go to family gatherings because it's just too much for me honestly
I agree Sir, reminds me of an old adage; "still waters run deep". Wish you success in your new endeavor(s) for you've already taken the first step i.e. listened to your inner voice/connection w/Spirit.
They really do.
Introvert where yo at ?
Silent brief yet straight forward person is the real deal.
i'm a quiet guy and now i know why my teacher choose me rather than choosing my classmate 🤣😂
"If you think you're smart how can you shutup? You tell me. If you think you know everything about everything and are full of coached opinions how can you ever shutup? If you realize that no you're actually stupid and you don't know anything in this existence you're just another existence..then you can look at life for what you truly are which is just the life that you are..naive awareness is strength"- Sadhguru
I'm in my 30s and I have always been quite. I am extremely shy because I'm a recluse and I am a hermit. I can live in the woods for about a year all by myself. Most people couldn't do it for one week he'll not even a day. Now on to work every job I worked at I didn't seem to keep long than a year or 2 years because of always being quiet. People on my job would Stare at me because I wouldn't say anything to them they look at me like I'm crazy. I remember I was looking for isolated jobs on the internet because I wanted to work all by myself but decided to be an Author instead because writing is the loneliest job and that's what I want. Now being so quiet and loving to be left alone I end up being with a man that loves to hangout with a crowd of people, have fun, and hold conversation with anyone I guess it be like that sometimes but I love him with all my heart.
I hope he is very understanding and accepting of who you are. Are you comfortable being around his friends and family?
I cant relate on wanting to work alone and peaceful and im much more efficient
Wow thank you. I was starting to think I’m weird. Today at work someone was like why are you always quiet. Talk. And it happens a lot. They wonder why they see me on social media talking and laughing with my friends. But when I go to new places or work I just concentrate on what I’m doing or drink a cup of coffee etc.
I’m extremely quiet yet kind and polite …they think I’m weird and write me off but little did they know..I have so much in my mind and I’m a writer. When I share my art people cry and are touched..people who talk too much tend to be a little dumb…no offense
I’m shy, when I was younger, people would always ask why I’m quiet, tell me I should talk more. Wish they would’ve just asked about my interests instead. Now that I’ve been married and been a mom for years, I finally have things to talk about that interest people cause look at all the people that have at least one kid or a spouse or both.
I'm in this situation now. I go to the coffee shop and teach myself how to code forbAI and data analytics. I also like to learn about blockchain and digital marketing. Trading and investing. They also don't know that I have already piece together about them and the out of context gossip about me.
Is the most powerfull strength to be reserved and quite. I personally learned to regain myself through this type of state being.
The most amazing and wise people are 99% the most beautiful souls and productive individuals.
All the greatest and upgrades skill they possess simply because though this unique personality is a reverse wisdom continuesly.
Choosing wisly your network is very the key of personal and professional advice to the greatest archivevment in this life time.
Best wishes,
Crys
Unfortunately human nature is to interact and talk to other’s sadly we live in an extroverted world so being quiet you will always stand out in a bad way most places. All the jobs I’ve had I always had someone question why I was so quiet. I just be trying to make my money and go home lol I was even recently told by a manager how I need to greet and interact with the coworkers everyday I come in and I’m like why ? I also hate how just because I’m not talking people automatically think I’m sad or angry about something when I’m literally the opposite most of the time.
Such a wholesome story.
A nice amount of quiet ppl are intelligent
Ive personally always been the quiet type tbh
Not going to lie i looked at the bicep first then the title
I’m not successful and I’m quite… just waiting for someone to disturb my peace
Thank you for this video and congratulations on meeting a valuable person, yes those who are quiet have the loudest interiors.
Very true u the man Noah
I sincerely admire your outlook. As well as consideration of others. This was very helpful and insightful. Thank u for this and ur time.
I think gossip is a trait many people engage in. If you listen to many conversations of people who talk a lot, they are gossiping about others. The thought occurred to me long ago that a gossip to me will be a gossip of me. And this is true. If you know someone who likes to gossip about others with you, chances are they will gossip about you to someone else. Someone told me from my past that gossip is a double sin. Why? Because many times when you gossip you are lying and stealing! How? Many gossips exaggerate and lie to make their gossip more interesting about the person they are talking about behind their back and in effect they are stealing that person's reputation by speaking ill of them to others about things that may not be true or are private and confidential. The Bible says if you can't control your tongue, you cannot control anything else about yourself either.
Great observations! My only comment, coming from the perspective of a teacher and the mother of an introvert, is that sometimes they hate being singled out, in a classroom setting, to be called on as the "quiet" ones. In group settings (like a class), we introverts often prefer to keep our thoughts to ourselves.
No one in my family - neither my ancestors nor my offspring - know anything about me. I have real reasons for staying quiet when the people who have a tendency to invalidate everything I think/feel/say/do/etc are in the room. But if they're not there, then all the other people act as if there's nothing to me and they don't engage me in conversation. I have so much to say. There is so much to me. It's not about "acquiring assets", but about much deeper things.
They don't even know.
And they prolly never will.
Thanks so much for this , I’ve been always labeled as the quit person which I am when I’m not around people I do not feel comfortable interacting with. As I grew and understood that I am an introvert that’s when became more comfortable and understood myself a lot more. What you just in this video made tear just a bit because yes we’re often if not always overlooked at because of our quietness this video made even more proud to be myself.
I’ve found that when group settings arise, there are certain individuals who feel pressurised to appear interesting, another fake scenario is the telephone voice. But there are always a few genuine extroverts in any given group.
cool video here mate, pls keep making more
Im no danger i just got social anxiety
It's a nightmare having that
Meditate.
I just be to myself no pressure at all between us can sit in a silent room together doin our own thing but if I really need to or ask something or you ask me ill reciprocate
It's funny how you described me at this very moment.
Some quiet ppl are better left alone! I've met some that opened up, then couldn't shut up, & I'm like 😳🤨🤬 daayum. They're one extreme or the other, so hell, let em be!
Its normal coz they rarely find ppl to open up to so they might get excited....in fact u should be grateful coz it shows that u are a good person and ppl open up to u easily
@@ffhe5re7u54 🤔 hmmm, I'll keep that in mind for next time! 😏 thanks
@@YellowPaint100 Yeah b you got people that see you as a good person man. I know shit tons of quiet people that keep they distance and I'm one of them. It's hard asf for most of us to open up. You a good and likeable person if you have multiple friends who open up to you
ROFL!🤣🤣🤣
Lol!😂
I was quiet. I can talk your ear off now.
As an INTP I approve this message.
Thanks I needed to hear that
Most of the time quite people are shy or don’t want any attention don’t be fooled
This was such pure expression and just a beautiful story altogether.
People are insecure about themself, so they tend to fill the silence with anything that comes to their mind. I enjoy silence and working on it, it got to a point here people around me just are afraid of me, 'cause not talking to people is seem as being rude or whatever, the thing is I observe others, what they say and do, if someone words and actions dont match I have no interest AT ALL in that person, in fact I tend to avoid them. Also talking about your personal life to literally EVERYBODY in the room is kind of lame, I have no interest in public things. People who rarely talk about themself are a puzzle (like me), I like to figure them out.
Cool, the next time someone looks at me when Im quiet, Im gonna do the body snatcher-screech.
Quiet listening is creating wisdom, when our intention to humanity is true, miracles are never where we think
Just a thought
TW
People think when you’re quiet you are weak or dumb for some reason. I had a job I worked at once where I was coordinating a lane through an auction for cars and someone who worked there previously just started again with them in a spot similar to mine but she used to run the lane I was running so she was always over there talking shit about how I can’t run the lane etc and even holding up my lane in an attempt to make me fail. In fact my lane overall was ram better than with her running it and that was from my drivers on the lane who also worked with her before and from the upper management.
So when she failed she decided to get one of her buddies on my lane to talk shit too so I told her if she didn’t like the way I ran the lane then she could fucking leave it(she was talking good about it until buddy buddy came back).
So I texted one of the upper management but he didn’t see it until after she ran and cried to him because “I told her to leave” and he tried to get pissy at me like it was my fault so I had to kinda snap back because of how he approached me about it and explain what happened. I asked we all talk about it in the big bosses office.
The one that started it all got nervous and changed real quick and then left the room. Then the higher ups tried to hound me again a little softer and I had to put my foot down again and then finally they said “well we were just surprised because you seemed so quiet and passive it just surprised us you said that to her”. This place is ram pretty shitty so not surprising considering they view people who talk down and are loud and aggressive as “dominant” and “leaders” when in fact it’s usually the opposite, at least in its true form, but that’s how they pick their “leaders” for management.
Point is they tried to hound me about something I was doing simply because they didn’t expect it from me and thought I was a pushover who wouldn’t stand up for myself so it would be easier for them to bitch at me and not the one who actually caused all that because she was loud and wild so they feared she would cause a big fuss but in the end she got scared and nervous and I was ultimately the one putting my foot down even to upper management just as I did her regardless of who they were. Aka she’s fake and that goes in line with a point of this video where the loud ones usually are just for show. It sounds like I’m ranting, and at the time it irritated me but in the end I found it hilarious because everyone was afraid of her and she ended up being a little bitch about shit 😂
I also get a kick out of that company is now going under lol, my cousin still works there and tells me about their shit and I find it so dumb that it’s funny 😆
Way longer comment than intended but I felt the detail was relevant to understand better.
Regards and respect to you from Australia mate 👍. Iam 63 years old now, I have seen a lot done somethings things but have not told a sole, but Iam going to tell you this much, with all that I have done, I have never hurt any women or kids that much Iam so proud of an the only advice that I would like to pass on to you is this, shut your mouth, those who know don't speak, an those that speak don't know, always do what you must an don't tell anyone, regards from this old man from Australia.
I am quiet because of my chipped tooth that is visible when i talk 😭
Love this
Im quiet but its total opposite because people are still interested in me bad or good
I don’t like talking… because i don’t got nothing to add to situations
Love your video sm
Luv this video
I really appreciate this 😌🙏🏾
Wow! I love your story.
I was an instructor for a class for medical professionals. After a a year of teaching everyday I saw a pattern in who would pass the test and who would struggle. 9 times out of the 10 the loudest ones struggled the most and the quiet ones would ace. The weirdest thing was the quiet ones often outranked the louder ones but you wouldn’t know unless you asked their title. Idk if that applies to real life, but was kinda shocked when I saw that pattern.
From now on, I’m the quietest person in the room you didn’t look at me you won’t know I’m there
I listen, I talk when I have something to say. Im not sure how to react when my sister tries to make me feel bad for not constantly talking like she does.
When result speaks for itself, there is not much to say
I like this guy .
😃😃
I had a boss like that all talk, user, coward but loud and boostful.😅
Would definitely recommend biggerpockets podcast to learn more about real estate investing
waow, great story !!!
I'm sure people think I have a screw loose because I don't say or talk much and quite honestly, I don't care. I keep to myself because I don't trust anyone. People today are out to make others look bad by whatever info they can drag out of you to make you look like a POS. If my being quiet makes you uncomfortable, that's on you, not me. Even at work, if someone tries to give me praise for doing a good job, it makes me cringe because I feel their are others out there who have done more and deserve the praise more than I do. I've never seen myself as having much value or self-worth which is one of the reasons I keep to myself. I figured if I was worthy of having friends, I'd have some, but no one wants to be around someone nor do they take the time to get to know someone just because they are quiet and not very good at engaging in or starting conversations. It's easier to insult them as being weird, anti-social, this or that.
Great story man. Subscribed!💯
Introverts need extroverted people because they share their thoughts and look outward to see what other people think while introverts reflect on the idea and ask themselves "what do I think of this?"
The last thing you should do is pay attention to the quiet person.
Golden
He woke up in the morning and did a little reading and a hell of a lot of weight lifting. I wish I had guns like that.
Also , quite people don't want much drama.
25th Subscriber here. See im usually quiet, but i tend to speak more online than i do irl. I mostly share things i know with other people when i hear them talking about a certain topic because i want to let out my own knowlegde about it. Most of the time i am like this man you speak of but morely on the poor class side of society. You could make more videos about teaching others, both men and women to become these house things(i lost track for a second)...If you are still willing to continue youtube that is.
Just can’t let people know who I am lol. Better I see all and take my company where I feel is needed
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Nooooo extroverts are learning
Messi Messi Messi quiet guy but dangerous
Good for you and what about your investment did you got enough profits from investing ? 😅
If they are the quietest: they know something and/or is pretty smart
Orrrrr
They are psycho and plotting something
😂😂😂😂
@Visitor Sin it’s actually true
@@tynisewalker why can’t it be there just being themselves and minding their own business ? Why do y’all assume a quiet person is psycho ?
He bought to take all your money! Lol