Asking my BROTHER about why he doesn't like me, BTS, my dating life + more! 😂
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 มิ.ย. 2024
- I sat down my real younger brother to do a Q&A with me about all sorts of topics including: why I'm still single, naming all the members of BTS, and more deep chats about life and our mum's passing.
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Best way to jugde your sibling is when you in struggle or really2 hard time, then if he ignore you it's mean trully2 he really don't care anymore.
Handsome brother. I would truly like to see you travel to other Asian countries and vlog while you're there. Like Thailand, Vietnam, Indonesia and Philippines. Maybe even Japan. I think that would be so much fun to watch.
Thank u Anna for sharing a part of your life with us. Lots of love from us watching the love/hate relationship we all can relate to or have with our siblings 💕❤️
Most salient point for me...the laughter between you and your bro. Makes me miss my siblings back in the US. Thanks for putting effort into making interesting and relevant content for all of us!
I thought this was gonna be a fun siblings bickering video but it ended up being quite wholesome how you guys bonded over your mom. I actually appreciate how deep the convo got and how candid you guys were sharing about a rather painful and personal moment. A rather apt video for thanksgiving, Happy Chuseok!
Despite the hardships, your parents did a great job! Both of became great adults with a beautiful mindset. Thanks for sharing such personal experiences and opinions .
Came here after a very long time and thought this is gonna be a fun q & a but this turned out to be very deep and meaningful video. You and your brother share a great perspective about life.
What began as a conversation between siblings who had been separated by distance and seemed to not have much in common, turned into a beautiful discussions about death and life. Thank you Anna's brother for participating.
I am a 52 year old mother of 3. I can’t help but feel your mother would be proud of both of you. Your experiences have shaped you both to be kind and beautiful members of humanity. Something the world needs more of.💜
Thank you 🥰
Anna, your brother is funny. At first it seemed like he would be uncommunicative and not a very deep thinker. But then he opened up and showed his deep side, and I understood why you decided to interview him. Thank you for discussing your views on life, death and happiness - I think what you said is very accurate and I want to get to that same place that you and your brother are on these pretty important topics. Thanks.
This vlog shows how bonding can happen under not so great memories. Sibling bonds are the greatest when things are not going so great, even if you dont communicate regularly. Big sis/ little Bro vibes happening in full view. Loved it.❤❤❤
Such a good interview. Very wholesome. I think you have to do more episodes with your bro. Your mom binds you both. It is indeed freeing to not fear death. You’re stronger because of your mom.
Well... Hi from Ukraine. I like how you point out that difficult events and painful experiences can change the worldview and perception of reality. We felt it here too. After all, there are a lot of simple everyday things for which you can and should be grateful - relatives near you, their health, their lives, friends, wherever they are... and every new morning when you wake up alive and realize that you are given another day and another chance.
Prayers for your family and your country 💜
I didn't know your mom, but hearing you guys talk about her and reflect on life was like free therapy.
These meaningful conversations with your loved ones are much more entertaining than your dating videos. I hope you will do more of these with your friends and your brother. His voice is delightful to listen to. 🤗
Yes I thought his voice was pleasant and he was well spoken and his British accent was so lovely.
You both gave me so much to think about especially for a mother of two. Thank you for being honest and sharing your deep thoughts and experiences. When I’m sad or worry too much, I’ll re-watch this video to bring me peace.
It was nice to see you with a family member talking about many things in life. I think I was similar in age to you when my mom died suddenly I was 26 at the time and she was 51. It takes something out of you but at the same time it puts a push in you to be different if that makes sense. With the sudden passing I realized how fragile life was and that I should live a kinder life that was not only more pleasant to me but to others. I started ticking off things on my bucket list of things I wanted to do or accomplish that I use to say "one day", but one day doesn't always come. I think the goal for me now is to be happy, and do what I want when I want and not caring as much. Also to always see things from many sides as you never know what someone else is going through so being kind to others is such a small thing but could mean so much that you don't even know. I hope you both are having a great time with your family. Our "thanksgiving" here in Canada isn't until next month (10 October). If you want to see scenery, nature and wide open spaces....well you should come here! :)
They say, no matter what age you are, when one or both of your parents pass away you 'grow up'. Great video.
P.S. You didn't keep the blur on your brother's face the entire time and that gave me a chuckle.
so good Anna! You guys nailed it! I'm 50 and lived long enough to realize I wasted so much time in my youth with people that didn't care about me. Another tip to living your best life.....don't give yourself to anyone not worthy. Whether it be romantic, friendships, or work. ;)
Include family in that statement.
I have to say, I came to this channel because I wanted to learn more about you as a person after watching David's channel. This is actually the first video I've watched on this channel, and it made me cry. I really appreciated the perspective that you shared. I've always envied people who were fortunate enough to live abroad at a young age, but I realize now that everyone experiences pain.
It was awesome to see you and your brother interacting, I think you actually have a very good relationship. Your life experiences have shaped you both in similar ways, and I share a little of that as I lost my Dad when I was 19 - losing a parent is hard, and traumatic, and I agree, when you realize that, although the grief is still there and always will be, but you have survived the loss, somehow you got through the trauma, and now you are changed, irrevocably changed, you understand more of what is important in life, and how insignificant certain things are, in the greater scheme of things. You let go of the crap. I really related to this - thank you very much. 💜💜
This is by far one of your best videos. Thank your brother for being apart of it. It was an amazing conversation and very relatable to everyone at different points in their lives. Your mom would be proud of both of you.
Wow! This was so beautiful and impactful. Thank you for your vulnerability and for sharing. I too can relate. Love your brother’s calm and peaceful demeanor.
I loved this conversation....you both are so profound and well rounded personalities. I lost my mom in 2015 and your experiences resonated with mine like 100%. I almost felt like sitting with you guys and talking about it. Its indeed life changing and helped me understand how transitory our existence in the world is, so probably we should be more light footed and relaxed in this journey
I really loved the gained perspective you and your brother have in life with after your Mom’s passing! ❤ I love it! Life is short, yet meaningful and meant to be lived everyday to the fullest!
My condolences to you both. I'm sorry that you both lost your Mother at such a young age. I'm sorry you had to watch her go through so much pain and suffering.
I hope and pray that you continue to carry her memory and her love throughout your daily lives and into your relationships and possible marriages and families of your own.
What a wonderful conversation between siblings. It feels like we were a fly on the wall listening to a deep conversation. Bless you both.
Your mom is proud of you both and I’m sure you bring your dad so much joy!
Wow this is quite a treat! Thank you for sharing such a lovely interview with your brother. Even though you might not have many things in common, I can see how much he actually respects and cares about you. As challenging as it was to be your mom's children, you are both amazing people who are well-poised to handle any future obstacles you encounter. Happy Chuseok to you and your family, Anna!
Hey Anna - I have been an avid subscriber of your channel past 6 months following every video of yours and this is the first comment that I am adding under a video of yours. This video was so relatable to me, even I lost my mum to Covid in 2021 and all the things both of you told was so relatable and I am happy to see how strong you have grown after facing so many rough patches in life. I wish all happiness in your life. Keep up the good work🙂
More power to you!! Love from Seoul 💕
You look so alike and I enjoyed this conversation a lot. Enjoy your life the best you can and be good to each other, you two! :)
Thank you for this ! it was very wholesome and raw.. and I was surprised to relate on some things about your mom. Sometimes they can be all over the place and bring us down. I'm glad you found your peace 💜
Thank you for sharing the Q&A. I am 65 and ARMY and I found BTS while I was mourning my Mother's passing in 2017, loosing my parents is one of the hardest experience I have ever had. Lost my Dad to cancer when I was 22 and my Mom was 89 both were sick for some time and seeing them sick was very hard. I have a daughter and grandson and I pray I that I go first the scariest thought to a parent is loosing their child. Live your life as you please w/o harming anyone and try to make as many memories as possible with your loved ones that is the only thing you take with you in the end. BLESSINGS to you and family.💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Happy to see you Anna with your bro!! Interesting conversation with both of you. Your family story makes me sad, lost my dad recently in cancer. I feel you! ❤
I love how you guys were honest ..........Your ''story'' has lessons and tbh i've learned something.
Anna, you are a great interviewer! Your questions are insightful and you put your guest(s) at ease, which allows them to be genuine.... I think you chose the right profession! You are a natural... great job!
Anna, I lost my mom as well… She passed on to Heaven in front of my eyes. It is so tragic to lose a parent. I’m glad you talked with your brother about her. My mom said that talking about our loved ones that have died helps us to grieve & process our feelings. There are stages of grief, at some point most people go through all of them. People are so unique that the timing & order of the stages is vastly different for each person. Yes, you’re right, you can get through anything.
Since everyone grieves differently, realize that people may show more or less denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance than you did or still do. When I saw my dad get so angry that he couldn’t save her, It broke my heart and I was scared at the same time…In the beginning there are more times of emotional outbursts as you navigate your life without your mom. Later, if/when you get married & have kids, you’ll probably miss her thinking about what she’d be like as a grandma to your kids or a mother-in-law to your spouse. Just wanted to share some of my story & what I’ve learned just to maybe help you if you can learn anything valuable from it.
Also, to me the meaning of life is, like you, loving others & accepting Jesus for who He is & what He sacrificed for us. Praying for you & your brother & your father 🙏🏻
When you guys talked about your mom I cried a little. Thank you for sharing that.
I am an only child and if I could chose someone to be my older sister it would be you Anna, I really admire you, sometimes I am in my head and I would think to myself what would Anna say to me rn or what advice would she give. You make me feel excited to be alive and to live my life. Happy Chuseok Anna, wish you nothing but the best for you and your family and your brother is very handsome but what should I expect when you're his sister.
Hello from New York, I respect your mum so much from this Q&A. She raised you two in a wonderful way. Hope you guys doing great in the future
Honestly I really appreciate the perspective you guys highlighted in this video. We tend to take life so seriously and it's so important sometimes to remember that our existence in the grand scheme of things is merely insignificant. Thank you so much for sharing this ❤ 💗
It's amazing how similar your experience of losing your mom is similar to mine. Before she passed, I lived as if everything lasted for ever. Her death thought me that life is finite as you said. The moment you're born, you start your journey toward death. That's actually life. When she passed, I thought the world ended. But it didn't, life went on. Eventually, I also moved on and continued with my own journey.
Hi Anna . I really love you and your brother. And i am so sorry for your lost..As a person who lost my brother a few years ago ,I totally feel what you 've been through. At that time,i always told myself that he was gone but on the other hand he made me feel some kind of free (I don't know if i express correctly)and just like you said,this is a gift . Nowadays i feel like a little bit lost ,but i try to find a way to go on.. I am watching your videos.Thank you for making me feel good.Love you🙏🥰💜 Borahae🎈
Anna thank you for sharing a little bit of your upbringing with us. It was good to hear the background noise of your family enjoying themselves during Chuseok. It means that you are lucky to have a family to celebrate with. Please take the time to communicate more with your brother. Even if it is just to say, are you still alive? How are you doing? As you say nothing last forever. Your mom would be glad to know how well both of you are doing so far. Work on getting that special someone and hook your brother up with one of your girlfriends. He sounds like a nice guy. Happy Chuseok🎊⚜️
This was such a nice video. Videos like this are most times so superficial but I really connected with the sentiment of also losing a parent and how it marks you going forward. Happy Chuseok guys!
I really want to hate your brothers personality but at the end I love it! Lol.. You guys are strong people.. I send you lot of lot of love, happiness and the best for you. Happy Chuseok for you and your family.
Why did you want to hate his personality?
"... the meaning of life? Nothing!" - I loved how straightforward he was. thank you for sharing these thoughts and experiences❣
This was a really lovely video. Thank you for sharing such a personal story. It was a timely reminder to not take life too seriously and to enjoy it while you can 🥰 Happy Chuseok!
This is such a unique relationship, it's really interesting to watch you guys and hear your story
I loved this video so much! I agree on the fact that there is really no meaning to life other than be kind to others and yourself ❤️ Greetings from Austin, TX!
Thanks for the video, it was really eye opening your really and what you guys have been through. Bring your brother back! You guys make a good team. Xox
I really resonated with your perspectives on life and hearing about the ordeals that changed how you perceive the world, goals, and societal pressures. Also, your brother is adorable and appears to have a calm personality that is opposite to your bubbly hype personality. Good combo!! 👍Honestly surprised your both still single LOL 😜
You guys are amazing people!! Always know that, I’m going through something similar with my dad. It’s been really hard and going through the motions.. but yeah both your perspectives and what you’ve been through has really helped me. Thank you for this 💜 I really appreciate it 😘
I don't know why this was on my recommendations bc I'm not a subscriber & I never watched a video of yours or knew about you before.
But this was such a pleasant talk to watch! ^^
My grandpa died a short while ago and as we were really close it's still shocking me through my bones. You are right, life is so short (and meaningless?). I'm not doing very well, I'm riddled with guilt and lost opportunities, missing my grandpa horribly and I'm not coping very well. I've had depression for over 15 years now and this all set me back so much, I rly went back on some progress I made.
I do hope I can overcome it as strongly as you both did and maybe become a stronger person aswell..
Life to me is finding myself. When I was younger I had all those plans & goals implanted in my mind, things society would want from me but I eventually figured out that that's a load of bullocks and atleast for me surviving in my own skin, managing daily stuff and caring for these few human relationships that I have is what is important and my "goal" in life.
Thank you for sharing your personal views and emotions and I hope you both & your family have a great Chuseok!
I think just being present and being happy in the moment is key! You’ll be ok :)
I loved the talk, I love this relationship, and I love you two♥️
I really liked your brother's mindset, he's such a good human, rational, calm and just he is Him♥️
My brother and I were separated at a young age by our parents divorce and grew up away from each other. I can relate to the two of you not knowing a whole lot about each other. As adults, my brother and I have reconnected through the death of our mother. He has become my friend, and the person I trust the most in life. It's sounds like as adults you two are forming that connection that didn't happen in youth, and maybe you'll discover that you can depend on each other more than in the past. Thanks for sharing Anna! I love your vlogs, especially when you get real about life. There's no pretense with you, and I think the world needs more people like you keeping it real, being yourself, living authentically, and finding joy with others, with nature, and fulfillment with your work.
same...me and my twin brother both half east asian were seperated at 8 years old and sent to different places( me the Uk for school).and him another english overseas region...we connected again at our fathers funeral in hong kong then again at his ancestral rites ceremony in busan.
Such a heart warming video. Thank you for sharing your life experiences with us.
Anna, thanks for your video with your brother. I've just had a rough time and come across your video that reminds me a lot of the things i've been through and how much I should treasure the time I have when I'm alive.
You're right....Life is short. Anything unexpected can happen in any minute.....(by the way, please let your brother knows he has a very attractive voice. If he ever holds any radio show, I could listed to him all night long 😆
Aww this was a really good video I’m so sorry that you guys lost your mother. One of my friends lost her son a couple years ago and she said now that she has lost her son she no longer fears death. Before she feared it now she looks at things differently . Currently I am so scared to die but hopefully I can come to peace with it like you guys. What you said anna is so true we are so small and the truth is we are a fleeting moment what we can do is live and love and enjoy even the small moments while we can!! This was a cute video you guys should do more videos together in the future!
For your Mum, I pray that you and your brother will work at improving your relationship and bond. You need each other. Mum was "special" so she deserves to rest in peace knowing the two she cared the most for also care for each other. I loved this conversation! (Your brother is so nice on the eyes).
I really like watching and listening in on converastions like this between siblings. It's funny how it's not just me who isn't paricularly close with his sisters
This video is full of life experiences of both of you. Thank you for sharing this with us Anna, you & your bro are amazing! Hopefully to see your video with ur dad again soon? That would be fun 😆
This is such a raw conversation. I really love it. Thank you so much for sharing 💕
Anna Lee u and ur brother are so cool I mean u have a very refreshing-so impressive mindset and personality, I wish my kids would feel that way too about the world and life in general... and prayers for ur mother may she rest in peace I'm sure she is a super proud mum 💜
Thanks for sharing! I love your channel and learning a lot about Korea. Love you and your brother's connection. Even if you are different, you still care about each other❤ Hope to meet you on my next trip to Seoul!
I am glad you learned the positive view from a tragic loss one learns in 2 ways first by following good or positive behavior 2nd by avoiding what is destructive or negative, you and your reaction to your beloved mother is great example, good luck 👍
*Your brother is handsome❤*
Wow...you guys just gave me hope...was kinda depressed. Thanks you so much....God bless you two.🥰
Now why I’m crying! Lol! So rare to find people that talks about life like this. New subbie here, my first video I watched from you! And you’re an army 💜 too. 😂 yayyyy!
둘이 안 친한것 치고 대화내용이 끈끈하고 서로의 가치관을 알수있는 영상이라서 너무 좋다! 더불어 내 가치관도 돌아보게하는 넘 좋은 내용들👍
언니이 🥰 러뷰!!
That was great! I lost my Dad 8 years ago & I really believe that when you had so much love from a parent when they're gone those resounding feelings are what you're left with. My worst fear was losing one of my parents, so once my Daddy passed I sort of felt like...my worst fear just happened. I also got divorced right around then. He was a complete asshole so it was a fabulous thing, but even more so I was like ok...Loss, Divorce, Starting over...no more fear. Let it all go. Just live because life is short.
It's fascinating to see familial relationships. I am very close to my siblings. We live in different states but call and text regularly. After our mom passed we drew closer. Family was the most important thing to her. It's been fun seeing my own kids get my worst traits. 😆😳
Thank you for sharing your thoughtful conversation. Happy Chuseok! 💜
I enjoyed this interview with your brother. Why is he single? He sounds like a really good person & cute too. Thanks for the sneak peaks of him. Try to get to know each other a little more. Wishing you two the best of 2023.❤️💜💙🇺🇲
This was such an awesome conversation between siblings! Appreciate your vulnerability and openess! 🥰
I am sure your mom would be proud of you guys seeing how strong you are also being such great people.... I love you so much Anna.. Happy Chuseok belated ig.... My love and respect towards you keep increasing with time 💜💜💜💜
We appreciate this conversation thanks Anna 💜
This was a very meaningful video. It is true that we should do what we like despite people's opinions and objections. Anyway I'm so glad that you are able to speak British English, I could understand it with ease!!
I understand what you talked about your mother's death and a parting gift thing. My father passed away last year,and the last few months ig is just tough and very stressful and that's why they are infact the last days, we only realize that later on.
Aw I love how you both talk about your Mom, and how she shaped how you live your lives. This was a really sweet interview. Also...I'm sorry I saw a peak of your brother's face and he's very handsome. 🥺🌹He seems like a really sweet guy. And his voice is really soothing haha.
this was a very inspiring video, thank you I need this ❤️💜
You two should think about doing a regular vlog. You guys have a yin yang vibe going on. About the death and cancer a lot of us have the same feelings afterwards. a relief of sorts.
I appreciate you both talking about your mom and also death. I'm having my first baby in a few weeks and both things - motivating my daughter, giving her opportunities, how do i leave a legacy if i die younger - are on my mind - thank you for sharing
My life philosophy is "Stop and smell the flowers" "Always grateful" and "Money is not everything"
Cute Q&A with your brother, I enjoyed it. It reminds me of my relationship with my siblings. I’m lucky I have 2 older sisters and 4 older brothers. Family is everything. Death does change your views on life and love. We lost my mom 14 years ago. It made my stronger and like you I don’t care about others opinions, as long as I’m happy.
About your mum, I also think there's something to be said for just taking a "Damn the torpedoes" stand and just going for it and worrying about the details later. Sometimes we get caught up in analysis paralysis, and get so bogged down in the details that we end up not taking action or letting fear take over. Sometimes it's best to just act and figure out the details later (sometimes the details take care of themselves too).
I can only imagine how adorable both of u were as kids. Adorable brother and sister ,
Acts of kindness are cool right now. We have to be the reason someone believes in good people. I love your video content with your brother. Please keep on posting. Thank you for your hard work. Take care 💜
Enjoyed this video so much. Thank you for sharing 😊
This is my favorite video you’ve uploaded anna
Thanks for sharing, Anna. Sorry about your mother. You and your brother stay strong.
Hi Anna,
Happy Korean thanksgiving.
Your brother has a cool accent just like you.
This was just a lovely conversation with your brother.
I don’t know why, but your videos really inspire me❤️ You are such a good influencer Anna❤️
Y'all woke as heck! It's good that you've been enlightened this early in life. Watching this reminded me to be more thankful for my life. Thanks for the wake up call! Keep being awesome!
How did i miss this video...Omg the sibling " i don't care about yourr business because you're my boring sibling "energy...i love it...
Your brother sounds so down to earth, I really liked his perspective.. it will be nice to hear him speak again… even a blind date sounds like a no to me, but with your brother? I don’t like the feeling of pressure too, but a chat with him with no expectations will be so cool :)
The meaning of life is to experience everything but never have an unhealthy attachment to anything, This realm is an experiential school of sorts. When you truly think about who you really are; you are nothing but an energetic memory complex and energy is just information which constantly changes form, thus all your life times are an accumulation of knowledge giving you your own uniquely structured outlook within the energetic framework of all creation!
Extremely proud of you guys♥️
I love your videos, Anna. Happy Chuseok
The more I watch this video, the more I treasure the conversation. Thank you for sharing
Anna, thanks for introducing us your brother 😍. Very interesting questions . Aren't you different? Anna ,have a great week!
Excellent advice for all!
this was so wholesome
Ok… I saw your brother’s face at 15:46 when he moved out of the blurred frame 😛….he’s very cute!!!