Kya kar rahe ho Papa? | Short Film
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ก.ย. 2024
- Witness the moment this young girl launches into a POWERFUL rant, as she finally loses it.
This gripping short film, inspired by real events, is a reminder of how we need to STOP taking things at home for granted!
Don't miss it, and watch till the end! 🙏
I really loved the way @DSP has highlighted the pain point of the society. On one side we worship females as "Lakshmi- the goddess of Wealth" but on the other side we do not even let them take their own financial decisions.
पुरुष-प्रधान समाज में आज भी ऐसे ही कुछ हो रहा है चाहे वह कितने भी पढ़े-लिखे और लाखों रुपये कमाने वाले पति-पत्नी हो...
Excellent portrayal of hypocrisy in male dominated society.
Look at Malavika Hegde,wife of Siddharth Hegde founder of CCD, how she pulled out CCD from huge debt. Even though we find so many instances in our daily life, yet men feel Investments and Financial Management is their forte.
Very nicely pictured and Shown that in today's world
a woman should also know about investment planning
So that she can plan her future
Time to look within ourselves before judging others. Change begins at home and yes I have seen this happen in the most intelligent-looking households too. We need to help daughters become strong and involve them rather than ignore them when it comes to investing. Great job DSP, in capturing the reality of India and in telling these stories
The portrayal of women's roles in finance has been beautifully captured, illustrating their resilience, intelligence, and leadership within a historically male-dominated field.
Blockbuster of an Ad film.. portrays how even today women are ignored and it's just a way of life for most!
The film certainly raises awareness towards this & hopefully goes beyond and brings about a change in this mindset.
A very nice message to our Indian Society and of course to our so called progressive males..
Whao! This is truly called - SABKAA SAATH........SABKAA VIKAAS. Empower women.
This film is a masterpiece! Loved that it touches upon a very regular topic that's part of many Indian households. Women are now leading the way in financial decision making too! Someone had to say it.
Thank you for writing in ❤
At 40, after finishing my mba while working, I started digging deep into the investments and managing money. Nobody taught me how to do that before this. My father would take all the investing decisions himself. He never taught me any finance matter, but helped my brother with his investing when he started earning. Anyways, ladies, managing personal finance is not a rocket science, you just need to have awareness of different funding and basic finance. Thanks for bringing this up
Thank you for sharing your story. You're right, eventually, one has to make themselves stronger by themselves, regardless of whether you got a mentor in life or not. But having someone unbiased being there for you in the space of personal finance can definitely be an amazing catalyst
This girl has played role wonderfully and made the story come alive. Emotional ad made me think of my daughter and son
Lovely film. It’s true that most of the financial decisions are taken by the man in the family. Time to change and empower the women in the house. ❤
Almost the same situation in all homes but happy to see that times are changing.Daughters are smart,confident ❤❤❤
Yes, true
Very blessed to be in a household where we are involved in all decisions, financial as well as household related.
Thank yourself and your parents on our behalf - this is so heartening to hear ❤
Investing is best done when knowledge is shared… And who better to share it with than family 💯
Couldn't agree more!
No offense to anyone but to me this seemed a bit exaggerated. Mother was always involved in domestic life, could be unaware of available investments out there. So father took it all by himself. He respects her otherwise you won't find men having house under wife's name. Even our flat isn't in my mom's name. But as it's purchased after marriage, so Mom holds equal rights to it.
He educated her so she became independent fund manager. He ask her opinion on choice of men for marriage. Not many women are this much blessed. My father abandoned me when I was just 16. And how some of his responsibilities landed on my tiny shoulder. How my mom always blamed me for being abandoned. The trauma, anger, failures despite hardwork, now come & expect me to sweet talk 😒
Thank you Payeli for sharing your point of view. Totally understand where you're coming from and glad you're a strong person to power through, despite the many challenges in your life. More power to you 💪❤️
Payeli you will perform beyond expectations
I have seen examples where the wife is more educated, independent, earns more than her husband. But she doesn't want to take the extra 'burden' and responsibility of investing. She just calmly "deligates" to her husband. It's a one-sided video.
Your point is valid. There are always two sides to any story. 🙏
@@StoriesForGood yes. Either way it's a good message shown in the video. I have shared it with my family group as well. :)
That's correct. Women happily delegate financial matters to men. This happens because we are conditioned from childhood that women's forte is kitchen and finances are men's forte...
However now it's changing. We need to accept the "New Normal" ;)
This story is a very pertinent one and very true. 😢
Thank you for writing in!
Lovely film.A great message to our male dominated society.I am a fund manager (CFP)and I manage our family investment after point wise discussion with my husband.Some times it needs to educate him about financial markets rules and regulations and it should be vice Versa.
Women as fund managers and being able to handle finances is still seen as a strange occurrence. DSP mutual funds has done well to point this out through an emotional conversation between a daughter and her father
Thank you so much for writing in
Extremely well written! Very powerful message. 💪🏻💪🏻
Thank you 🙌
Really Good. Now a days both men and women are equally equal in talent.
It's need of the hour to discuss with total family and get good out of discussions and move ahead.
By bad luck if any decision went wrong also it will not create any gap between the family members.
All The Best to The DSP MF & team who created this wonderful creation.
This video is so important! Sharing with my friends who need to see this
Such a brilliant story and told so well. It’s powerful
Thank you Vaidehi
The daughter could have conveyed all this in a respectful and loving way. The father who gave good education to his daughter and let her to pursue her career, deserves to be respected especially when he is after all the product of a typical misogynist society
Lovely film...
Extremely blessed to born in such a family where my father taught me very well regarding investment decisions whether it is related to money or gold or property and build confidence in me so that I can take my financial decisions independently....Thank you Papa!!!
Well said
Gr8 and very timely message
Good one.
Loved it.....this one is really needed 🔥
Very Encouraging Story for Women Empowerment and Financial Literacy.
Good massage 👏👏👏
Papa log bhut hi simple hote hai😄samash jate hai❤
Papas are incredible indeed ❤️🙏
Very very important issue..in 90% percent families men take the decisions..
Good short movie, the ending is superb.😊😊😊
But not taking this seriously as not all daughters are fund managers❤❤❤
now a days youngsters take there decisions, and parents know and accept it.
Father is progressive thats why he is asking his wife to sign the documents. Majority husbands don't bother their wives and prefer to sign on their behalf.
Thank you for sharing!
Best 😊
Very nice video
Financial Decision should be of the Person to whom the Money belongs to.
Earn your own & do whatever you want with it - Spend, Save, Invest, Gamble. Whatever you like no one can Question it.
If the Money in earned by her she has all Rights to do whatever she do with that Money. Her Father or Husband can't have any say in that.
If the Money is her Father's, he can Invest it anywhere without asking her. No matter she is Fund Manager or not.
If the Money is her Husband's he can do whatever he wants with his Money. She won't have any say in that, No matter she is Fund Manager or not.
@@jamshedkarai5524 That's wrong no.
Why relying on others Money.
Earn your own & do whatever you want with it - Spend, Save, Invest, Gamble. Whatever you like no one can Say Anything.
Very good story with strong message
Thank you!
Don't try this in front of ur papa. Pichle hafte kaan ke neeche khayi hai, just because I told him to invest in fundamentally strong shares instead of fixed deposit. Things escalated n I told u have no financial knowledge. Bss fir aur kya, laga dii kaan ke neeche mere🙂.
I feel so lucky becz mere papa kch bhi invest krne se phele mummy se dicuss krte hai even hum 2 sister hai chote se hi papa hum dono ko bhi batate aaye hai dicuss krte aaye hai humre views lete aaye hai even jb humko itni smjh bhi nhi thi n tb lgta tha ary papa humse kyu puchte hai humre views humko kya pta but shyd papa n mummy hum dono ko ready kr rahe the aur aaj main aur meri sister ko kafi knowledge hai baki meri shaadi ho gae hai mere husbnd ko bhi trust hai ki mujhe ata hai pta hai to wo bhi dicuss krte hai 😊
Wow! You are genuinely blessed. Kudos to your papa and mumma for being there for you and your sister in this amazing way ❤️
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Excellent messaging
Glad you think so!
Nicely made
Thanks a lot 😊
Very nice video ❤❤❤❤
Many many thanks, Latha
Good message
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As per top family counselors, the most common cause for breakup of a family is independacy.
Till we depend on each other, we bound. Dependency not for female only. If Female depends on male for finance/outside responsibility the male depends for food/home management.
Fantastic !!! ❤❤❤
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Message is good but can be done without humiliating the father, her father doesn't look like a bad guy.. don't normalize it that children can talk to the parents whatever way they want just because they're independent. Our movies are already doing this damage..
No my mum make all decisions. my father said my mum is a good financer.
This video shows the problem applicable to a few families. Maybe it applies to few families, most families take ladies opinion into account in India in financial decisions wherever they're interested.
Plz Mt rulao apne papa ko....😭😭😭
Moral of the story: Indian Financial Independence is yearned not at the cost of Blood relationship - Total Freedom(West) vs Sacrifice(East)!
Please make many more... such videos
In any married life, all decisions have to be mutual, not one-sided, because both partners have to be on equal footing for a successful and happy family. After all, a successful family means equal sharing, working, sorrows, happiness et al. Both partners must use each other's field of specialization just like two good friends without gender bias and upmanship. Today, how can a daughter be less equal to a son -- a big misconception. A good consultation prior to any final decision is a good habit.
Excellent 🎉❤
सभी को सोचना तो पड़ेगा ही
😅😅 but mere Ghar par Mummy hi ultimate decision deti hain ....
Mummy se upar kuch nahi ❤️💪😁
Yes very true
❤❤sahi baat hai ❤❤beti ko sirf beta❤❤bolna ❤❤or ❤❤beti jaisa❤❤hak Dene mai fark hota hai ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂❤❤bolna aasan hai❤❤❤ beti ko beti jaisa hak dena❤❤ mushkil hai ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤chahe ma❤❤papa hi❤❤kyu n ho❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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Sirf beti he nahi betoon pe trust hona chahiye
I know there are so many females out there who are not good in managing funds or good in handling investment and others do this job for them and seriously more then women i have seen way too men in such things and god no one blames men at all.
Good story. In my case i like investment in MF. Due to this i bought this MF. But my better half is against to it. She likes FD and post office in which money is always in hand. I am slowly moving and also liking her management.
I am a fund manager and same happens at my home..
Father earns money so he wants to make financial decisions himself it doesn’t means he do not want to give chance to others but it means that he is earning and he should be only responisble for any losses, and he don’t want his family to be responsible for any loss.
DSP M F EARNED ME A LOT
Completely outlandish and rude. Being cold and immediately saying sorry could have been avoided and explained in a better way if you are qualified to take investment decision. My wife is an educator and I am a CA and I do all the investing because I know it better. She manages the house because she does better. Every single investment and my net wealth is explained to her. Thus lets not make it a gender issue ( everyone seems to join the bandwagon) and relish it. My illiterate mother cherished the 11 FD taht my father left behind though she never new a word on investing.
Lets respect the expertise, the biological make up of individuals rather than making it dramatic. Yashpal Mehta aged 73
Ohhhhhh
This is okay...men are more aware and better informed about the financial world...what is there to compete in this.
It's not a competition, it is to bring more financial awareness and well being to everybody. Not just men, but to women as well.
My father always discussed with me
Investment is related to financial education, if you have knowledge then do it otherwise get an idea from someone who knows it. There is nothing related to gender.
One last thing, if you know how to manage funds, doesn't mean all should get advice from you and you should also learn to respect others freedom and decisions.
Before investing, learn how to talk with parents.
She may be intelligent but don't have manner to talk with her father, that why father don't discuss with her in the story
Good story.. but pride and vain making women fail at times.
Incomplete story, one side is reflected because it is sponsored by DSP
Faltu Gyaan Emotionally Appealing but moral of the story DSP piyo invest Fixed Deposit, Sukanya Samrudhhi, PF, PPF, VPF, KVP, GOVT BONDS
Sabkuch pehle hi sab decide ho or koi b adjust karne ko tayyar nahi...sabi apne me samjhdar.....fir shadiyan hongi hi kese
One sided story line and pathetic,
In fact,
The person who earns money should only manage his /her money,
It doesn't depend on gender in any case whatsover..🎉
What nonsense!Why are you conveying this negative message?The way this girl talks disrespectfully to her father is just unpardonable!Dutiful&affectionate fathers do take financial decisions for the well being of their family and not for their vested interests!And if the wife doesn’t understand finance there is no point in consulting her and considering her opinion!She is viewing her father’s decisions with suspicion without understanding that what she is today is because of him!!!Why are you promoting such toxic feminism???
Hamare yahan sadiyon se yahi hota hai tha or hoga
Ladies ki yahi soch Aaj k gharo ko Tod Rahi h
ક્યા હમ બેટે કૉ પિછે રખકર બેટીયૉ કૉ આગે કયુ બઢાના ચાહતે હૈ ?હમ કુદરત કે કાનૂન કે વિરૂધ કયુ જાના ચાહતે હૈ કયા હમ હમારી સંસકરૂતિ કા પશ્ચિમી કરન કરને જારહે હૈ ક્યા ભારત સરકાર કો ઇસ વિષય કે બારે મે સૉચના નહી ચાહીયે? કયા દેશ કે બેટે કૉ સમાન નજરીયે સે દેખના નહી ચાહીયે? અગર હમે બેટે બેટી કૉ સમાન અધિકાર દેના હૈ તૉ મિડીયા મે સિરફ બેટીયૉ કૉહી ક્યૂ? તવજુ દી જાતી હૈ બેટેકૉ ભી મૉકા કયુ નહી દીયા જાતા? બેટે બેટીયૉ કે બિચ ભેદ ભાવ કરનેકા પાગલપન કૉ કૉન બઢાવા દે રહા હૈ??
She needs to learn manners… seriously 😒
What is meant by You do you.... @ 5:43?
I think it should have been..
"Do you know?"... Your father is listening...
In my case I say do any thing money urns by you and no need to pay single rupee in home
I hope no problem to any one
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इस तरह के बर्तन से घरों में विज्ञापन पैदा हो जाता है इस तरह की चीज दिखाने से सोच तो बदल सकते हो आप आदमी के लेकिन बड़े और छोटे में तमीज गायब हो जाएगी कैसे होता है कुछ चुप अपने जिंदगी के निर्भर और अपनी चीजों को सिखाते हुए उसे हिसाब से वह उसे चीज को करते हैं लेकिन क्या करें आपकी सोच पैसा आ गया सब कुछ अच्छा है की मम्मी सब हमेशा होता है पानी में भी डाल दोगे वह चमकता है इसलिए बड़े बुजुर्ग उसी हिसाब से अपने इन्वेस्टमेंट को सही जगह लगते हैं लेकिन इस तरह हिंदी हिंदी हमारी सभ्यता ही खराब कर रहे हो
Government wants everyones money. 😂
Lolely.film.❤❤.
AISAI HE LADKIYA COURT ME CHAKKAR LGATE HUAY DIKHTI HAI
AISAI HE LADKIYA HE SHADIHOTE HE AISAI ME LADKIYA LADAI JHAGDA KARKE BOLTD HAI KI AAPNE MA BAAP SEAY ALAG HOJA YA TALAK DE DE ABHI KE ABHI
Bakwas, my wife forwarded this to me despite the fact that she manages all the money and has full freedom to manage home finances as well.
Aaj kal to karti hi hai
Suggest me good funds
Poorti Arya...
Pro feminist video ,we dont need a man ,we r independent bla bla ,