Why divorce is hard on men too: Tony Hutia Speaks
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 พ.ค. 2024
- After divorce, men go through a crisis that is too often oversimplified in the eyes of the society. Tony Hutia Founder Eden Place, explains why it is important to provide men with a safe space to heal .
Your problem is placing your happiness on people.
I learnt this a while back, your happiness is you alone.
In my relationships I don’t even bother to ask how can we resolve issues. If it doesn’t work I drop it like a hot potato and move on. The only relationship that can stress me is if my barber moves out of town.
Ii yako ni kali aki😅
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in the christian life dating is not even allowed we have pastors who mislead us
Exactly.. these men need red pill they are so blue
Thanks for your story, I know the pain of being divorced, i also got my self in this situation in that my husband married a university student then kicked me out of my house, after that i decided to go Qatar for house maid, 7 years now have never go back to my home country Kenya, my surprise is, he already divorced again the lady he married, now he has again started looking behind tying the best how we can come together to our marriage again, men's you need to think twice before you divorce.
Tony I know your growing up in a humble Christian way. It's good to make the right turn my son.
Everyone suffers during a divorce, man, woman but mostly... Children.
It's highest time men and women know why they are marrying or why they Want children, coz the biggest problem is when a lady just want children she marries because she wants children. it's very wrong coz after she gets the kids she will see no need of marriage again men be very carefully.
Well said,...I see this all over social media. A parent keeps posting pictures with the kids alone and not with the other partner...and this raises a lot of questions...
Such courage! Thanks, Tony Hutia for sharing your story.
It's very true my friend, I was also affected and it was like I was in another world. From 2013 up to today I have not yet heels and I'm affected up to know. Because I'm a Christian (catholic) it's hard for me.
U really need to wake up from your slumber (Catholic??????????,,,,,
It's true divorce will affect th chemistry of ur thinking affecting every area of ur life .reinventing urself is th only way out of this
where is the place?
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on divorce. We need to have an organisation. I wish to invite all the divorcees in my land and give moral support to each others. Who knows we might as well get back to track 👣.
Men should come together and support one another.
I met a divorcee who is still hurting 10 years later.
This man is a case of loosing a good wife then realizing it later in life.
The wife could not keep up thats why she left...sorry about this but you lost her to find your self.
To everyone reading this, Jesus loves you 😍
Jesus loves you too
Thanks. You too.
Jesus is a big fat lie
_Hutia ria keri Ngai wakwa, ndige kuona marundurundu_ 🎶
Nigetha nyone wega baba bururi uria nderirageria 🤗
@@sarahngugi2779 🙏🏿👊🏿👋🏾
Hutia renge
@@marywairimu8006 🤗😜
Personal responsibility begins with myself Steve Irungu Jermaine
Iko kitabu uliandika...inaitwa personal responsibility ama ni ujinga ya irungu Jermaine
@Steve Irungu, totally true, when people take accountability & stop focusing so much on blaming the partner & does a self reflection first, it helps in resolving certain issues & helps you grow to be a better person, just like in business..when it fails or about to, you can revisit the mistakes to make you a better & successful business person by correcting the mistakes but if you are stuck on blaming others & not changing things around then you’ll be going merry go rounds all your life & will remain stagnant!
This guy was my former boss at LG ! I'm shocked!
Don't be shocked it's life reachout tukule kanyama
@@tonyhutia i definitely will
That's true, ma wife realized I used 2 drink and go clubs until morning, but when I was courting she never new that, only after in marriage for 2 months, I continued for 8years thank God I stopped never drink again
Wonderful you made the turn
Greetings 🙏
Where can I find him
My friend please move on with life period by Steve Irungu Jermaine
When the foundation of a man is shaken, what can a man do?
He is our strength...
Go back to God the creator, your maker he will give direction. Second get into the company of good men who can walk with you
It seems to be the easiest....
Women be very careful with whom you want to marry some men are never serious with love, may be they just want children and someone to look after the kids and you will end up being his maid in his house after you give him children he will loose love for you Women be very careful.
To both men and women check out your partner you want to marry before deciding to marry him or her, put love btn you two before everything coz the two of you met first for love not other things.
Love does not exist my dear. People look at what you have., your potential, your looks, how nice or bad one is etc....
I would rather live alone period so help me God in Jesus Christ name Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 by Steve Irungu Jermaine
Steve that is a choice, However the Bible says it's not good for the man to be alone
I still don't understand wanaume wanaoa kwanini in 2022 ujinga.
Inafaa waoe mwaka gani? 😁
@@stanisadavaji8704 never get married 😒
@@stanisadavaji8704 🤣🤣🤣🤣
True... hizi marriages zinaproduce watu jinga kama wewe. They should not happen
@@clementineonami marriage is for women and fools
Marriage is a stupid institution period so help me God in Jesus Christ name Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 by Steve Irungu Jermaine
An institution started by God you are saying that it's stupid, yet you want God to help you. A bit contradictory.. As far as I know, after creation, God saw everything that he had created and it was very good, including marriage.
I think you have huge problems to say stupid is marriage who or what are you bitter with
@@nancyoni1234 are you sure God made marriage? It's a creation of us mortals
This guy is ever negative shida yake hukuwa Nini surely
@evans Ogelo Read Genesis 2:20-25
Kjjj
It's not an easy road.