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  • @flyingpillarsinternational9776
    @flyingpillarsinternational9776 4 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    I will never take my wife for granted ..this story is an eye opener to me

    • @judynjerimwaura943
      @judynjerimwaura943 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      May the Lord bless your union and always find ways to cope together

    • @user-pi6bc1zw5p
      @user-pi6bc1zw5p 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God bless you for that..

  • @margaretmaina9430
    @margaretmaina9430 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    This reminds me my dad since my mum died my dad he brought up 9 children's all alone we love you dad you are a strong man I have ever seen

  • @highlights6176
    @highlights6176 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    This reminds me of my father, he raised and educated me. If you have your Mother, you are blessed. Take the chance to love her.

  • @anne_mwangi_
    @anne_mwangi_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I've learnt to be the best wife if i can while i can when i can.. 😐🙁

  • @wanjerimumbi8709
    @wanjerimumbi8709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    These men are the strongest men I know, right now. They've put themselves out there and showed us who they are. God grant them love and peace.

    • @Evalian198
      @Evalian198 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very true

    • @hezronmuigai1807
      @hezronmuigai1807 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Take heart my brother . The Lord is on the thrown.Shalom.

  • @paulngangah
    @paulngangah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This story is really touching.I will do better and appreciate my wife more.I know better,i must do better!!!

  • @MrKurenjiJNR
    @MrKurenjiJNR 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Happy father's Day to these legends, they deserve better.

  • @bryanjoseph970
    @bryanjoseph970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Everyone taking their spouses for granted should know that people are missing such opportunities.
    I remember my high school principal telling us the importance of a river is only realised when it dries up.Brethren cherish your spouses when the river is still flowing.
    Be blessed 🙏

  • @selpherpauline6424
    @selpherpauline6424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔 i know and seen how much pain my dad went through after we lost our mum😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭God please 😢 I want to love and see my dad till the last day of life after Forever. I love my father so much and anything else will come after him . I celebrate all widow father they are the strongest people on this planet 🤞💯.

  • @janewambui6608
    @janewambui6608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is true.After loosing my husband 8yrs ago,the thought of remarrying is just not possible. Issue of comparison, is very real.

  • @theresemaina1020
    @theresemaina1020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I really respect these men for not remarrying. Despite the pain despite the struggles of trying to be both the father and the mother. It's not easy for sure.

  • @JC-el5ic
    @JC-el5ic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's so heart breaking to hear Roger Ogolla's story (my primary school art teacher). I did not know that he had lost his wife and his story on single parenthood. Pole sana mwalimu.

  • @winniewa37
    @winniewa37 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Widowers.. Most times they are overlooked, may the Lord help us to be intentional about standing with them 🙏

  • @angiewamuchomba8106
    @angiewamuchomba8106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Loosing a loved one is not easy,Only God Suppresses Death,You are strong God bless u...

  • @judyjepchumba1638
    @judyjepchumba1638 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Also one dad to cellebrate, Tedd Josiah he is a strong man too who needs to hit this screens some day his story is great .

    • @faithkarimi5685
      @faithkarimi5685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He'll be on the screen today with Grace Msalame

    • @judyjepchumba1638
      @judyjepchumba1638 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@@faithkarimi5685 oooh wow thank youu i will make sure to cath that

  • @odongonicholas1569
    @odongonicholas1569 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    May God bless and protect these legends. They've offered what fatherhood is.

  • @claremayaka8474
    @claremayaka8474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Never take your spouses for granted no matter what

  • @agneskatuvee5523
    @agneskatuvee5523 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This made me cry, God bless you wonderful Dads for stepping in

  • @dorcaskirigo118
    @dorcaskirigo118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so refreshing that our men are getting in touch with their feelings even though it is through such a painful experience.

  • @simonkimani7062
    @simonkimani7062 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What an emotional story. Those fathers are the best. Lesson learned. I will never take my wife for granted. I will endeavor to be there for her forever

  • @virginiamuya56
    @virginiamuya56 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My great teacher Rodgers Ogolla he has raised great kids .

  • @misss7758
    @misss7758 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Life is painful for singles even more. They never had the comfort of the spouse. Some will never have kids. But the pain of widows and widowers is more socially accepted.

  • @macynyawira6452
    @macynyawira6452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Losing a mum/wife is really tough.I never thought I would ever be deppressed in my life.

  • @zoesoteria5327
    @zoesoteria5327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I salute every wife and the men who step up for the family.

  • @lynda78
    @lynda78 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It is great that they came up with a group to console each other. Praying for them and their families.

  • @connie7192
    @connie7192 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm so proud of this men. May God continue giving you strength.

  • @lillymumbi.3969
    @lillymumbi.3969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    😭It broke my soul when this man said "if someone should leave, let it be the man" it's true men do suffer when they're windowed but most people don't really understand them.

    • @kihato80
      @kihato80 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I shared the same sentiments when my wife passed on. You feel so inadequate and realize that void all too well, in my times of grief and pain I prayed so many times for positions to be switched seeing my 1 year old crying and feeling so inadequate. Now we are 6 years old 😊

  • @estherwanjiru2154
    @estherwanjiru2154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Rose wangui.. thank you for giving us stories that is giving hope to society and educating us to

  • @olgarkitur7710
    @olgarkitur7710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Being a widow and a widower is not easy. God will protect and provide for us all. Never judge single people know the story behind their singleness. Touching stories 😢

  • @maryndaba4651
    @maryndaba4651 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    We lost our Dad in 2018. We really miss him and it has been really tough at times.But I know for sure, had it been the other way round, that my Mum passed before my Dad, I know my Dad would not survive a year. My Mum was my Dad's rock and she made sure that Dad had everything together. Made sure that Dad took his medicine everyday. They were so good together. So good. It would however, have been worse had it been the other way round. From what I have seen, men find it hard to cope after the loss of their wives.

    • @simonkimani7062
      @simonkimani7062 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True, we are strong physically but very weak at heart

    • @lornanaitore4735
      @lornanaitore4735 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pole my dear, praying for you

  • @angelabuzz2691
    @angelabuzz2691 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    There's importance in doing things together with your spouse.. like shopping..cooking..making bed discpline kids so when they are not there you have a clue..

  • @shirumama6489
    @shirumama6489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    May God continue comforting you, and everyone else who has lost their better half🙏

  • @joyobessa1364
    @joyobessa1364 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A very beautiful and inspiring compilation! They are all super dads! May they continue to find peace! 🙏

  • @shamixevents5102
    @shamixevents5102 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Listening to this just moved me since i recently lost my mom😥😥😥

  • @hobbygirlsworld1817
    @hobbygirlsworld1817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Happy Father’s Day...May God continue giving you strength she was beautiful

  • @thedaringunravel
    @thedaringunravel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is deep, I felt sorry for the losses these men suffered, I don't have a clue of what they go through but I shed a tear.

  • @smileboxbettie3736
    @smileboxbettie3736 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This has really made me cry.... Too emotional. May God see them through, Numbers 6:24-25.

  • @mercyowino2981
    @mercyowino2981 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You don't know strength until it's the only option,,Kudos to this heros.Death is cruel!!

  • @gorogoro9693
    @gorogoro9693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This made me cry coz it's 10yrs now since my husband passed away and i was left with my daughter when she was 3yrs.... But i can say am not only me we have single caring dads out there bravo

  • @rukungahjohn4631
    @rukungahjohn4631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sure you can't replace, NTV thanks for the share. When you go Meru My Dad's success story is there. He raised up the 8 of including the 2yrs old. God's sufficient.

  • @kezndiangui7
    @kezndiangui7 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Having a dad as my mum and dad as well since I was 9 ,I have developed a higher respect for men out there....three children all alone with very little just love for us.... that's what makes me love my favorite dad ....he did his best and still doing the same till today....he tried to fill every inch he could.....love all dad's and much respect

  • @Bahatiedit
    @Bahatiedit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lord I pray for Divine health and long life with my family, hubby me and our kids long life is our portion in Jesus name

  • @hopeinallah5112
    @hopeinallah5112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Da vulnerability you have let us in is admirable . I never experienced a father's love so let me wish u happy fathers day dear ones

  • @DocHub254
    @DocHub254 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Am moved by their stories. Things we take for granted. Waah!!!

  • @annmaxwell1249
    @annmaxwell1249 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this remind me of my dad passed on in 1996. 25 yrs down the line my mom have been single. with 3girls babies we are grown n we left to abroad now mum is all by herself i feel like she need someone i wish she can get married again and have a company.she is 56 yrs . i will make sure she joins that group.

  • @samuelmjomba4043
    @samuelmjomba4043 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nothing is hard like loosing your partner. Just like a hand loosing one finger. Hard to cope. Take heart my brothers n sisters.

  • @mvilika
    @mvilika 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Maybe the curriculum should be rechecked, content that children learn...it should be parents cook or do this and that and avoid gender role-ing'! Our curriculum should aim at bringing and educating our children to think broadly, well rounded.
    I am so touched by these stories. I feel their pains and also their bounce backs. Thank you for hosting this.

  • @margaretmuiru005
    @margaretmuiru005 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Men with Golden hearts...the grave yards tell it all...R.I.P Queens

  • @VJMASTERMIND
    @VJMASTERMIND 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    May God give you all the strength you need.

  • @patricrenison4362
    @patricrenison4362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I never had the opportunity to grow with my dad but I believe dad's are great people. To those men who are growing up kids alone I want to congratulate you and wish you God's guidance. You truly great men.

  • @terrywarui482
    @terrywarui482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such an emotional piece. Thank you for sharing your stories. Let's appreciate our spouses when they are still alive

  • @noellasakwa4107
    @noellasakwa4107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I thank God for my mom everyday.

  • @mpendamuziki
    @mpendamuziki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Never take your spouse for granted. Losing a spouse is like losing half yourself. The pain in all these men is evident. Hope they take courage to soldier on.

  • @rosemarywambui8133
    @rosemarywambui8133 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I thought it's only widows goes ups and downs,I term it as a dark side of life, may God give enough grace to over come ,not easy at all

    • @sharonjumba4648
      @sharonjumba4648 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      We must shed more light on the men's perspective. This is great.

    • @sarahloimabus3080
      @sarahloimabus3080 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sharonjumba4648 in

  • @pamelarombo7940
    @pamelarombo7940 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This stories are really sad but encouraging too , this men are real men,they really had the love to their wives, l just love this ,God is watching over you,because you have children to take care of,,where there is children there is God always,,l have always raised my children alone,but the presence of God in the family has made me reach this far,,God is great l can tell you this without fear. Amen

  • @ritaopiyo7163
    @ritaopiyo7163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel for these men. you will only realize the importance of someone once she is gone. people should treat each other with love and respect.

  • @hellenndungu4987
    @hellenndungu4987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I think mother's should not die its painful

  • @patriciaanyembe9441
    @patriciaanyembe9441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Waaaa...may God continue giving you the peace of mind and strength you need! This was emotionally draining for me.

  • @pamelamonyangi7125
    @pamelamonyangi7125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Losing a loved one and a partner is a painful experience that time will heal. i dint know that even men go through such. Take heart and one thing for sure i can tell you, having been in these for the last 14 years, is that God is faithful, He will see you through. Spend time with Him and He will show you the way. Sorry for the lose

  • @christinemwikali461
    @christinemwikali461 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am so sudden to hear about the death of my friend Mrs Keboi she was the best with such a beautiful soul and smile. Be encouraged the Lord is our comfort 🙏

  • @mercylinenzaro1104
    @mercylinenzaro1104 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's painful I am a widow I know the cry when everyone is asleep. Above all you are strong men

  • @miriammwangi1520
    @miriammwangi1520 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am mesmerized by how much you loved your. wife I have always believed that men dont liove take heart brother and get another companion.

  • @achiengnyasuba
    @achiengnyasuba 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's never the same. And when you try to move on after and that next person hurts you. You close doors, never to be reopened. May God grant ppl in this situation peace that can only come from him.

    • @culateemma349
      @culateemma349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It really hurts when you try to move on then you find it's the wrong decision you ever made.

  • @edwinoketch3364
    @edwinoketch3364 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mike you are a strong pillar to your family. These are inspiration stories to overcome grief. Happy Father’s Day to all.

  • @steveomondi2839
    @steveomondi2839 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The story is great. let me complement on the cutaways and how you've used them to add to the story. brilliantly done!

    • @simonkimani7062
      @simonkimani7062 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She told the story in the best way possible.The editing was super fine

  • @dorcusnjeri4251
    @dorcusnjeri4251 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jeeez chess you are always strong it's hard to tell that you've gone through all this...and to all fathers who played the role of a dad and a mum at the same time we always celebrate you

  • @lilianlee9775
    @lilianlee9775 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great Ecncouragement..Death is so cruel.💔

  • @glorykk1364
    @glorykk1364 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! Very encouraging. May God bless you all for even when u were about to fail you can tell God still held you. May he give u happiness not just for your Kids to see but for your own personal joy. Be blessed

  • @florriewairimu3408
    @florriewairimu3408 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy fathers day to this man and dear dad ..i wish i had a dad 😢

  • @metrinekaxoha8997
    @metrinekaxoha8997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great piece NTV, May God grant all widowers strength, resilience and wisdom.

  • @KIM-xl6zs
    @KIM-xl6zs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The first borns don't accept early, they just have to be strong for the others, I think I know mr chessana

  • @blessedjackeykarii4612
    @blessedjackeykarii4612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Who cooks at home😥😥 painful

  • @janies3581
    @janies3581 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so proud of this gentleman

  • @Suesinging
    @Suesinging 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Woie mpaka tuchapo wanapikanga....may God give strength...

  • @Joyful-gu5bj
    @Joyful-gu5bj 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Belated happy Father's Day to this amazing Fathers. May the Holy Spirit continue to strengthen you all. Congratulations to taking care of your children. God bless you all.

  • @rosegathungu6640
    @rosegathungu6640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    His father to the fatherless and husband to the widows! Take heart and know that God is with you all. Shalom

  • @faithgatwiry
    @faithgatwiry 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh my, may God bless those kids that were left with their mothers.

  • @nancynjoki9002
    @nancynjoki9002 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry for the loss may our good Lord continue to help you accept those things you can't change.

  • @hassanpixels5938
    @hassanpixels5938 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    His strength to share the story. A very good story teller!

  • @karenmuthoka1574
    @karenmuthoka1574 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    V touching.God bless you dads.May he continue upholding you as you take care of your children.

  • @marysteve1814
    @marysteve1814 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That thought of me passing away makes me reluctant of adding more kids. It's scarely. This dads are 1 in a million. Wengi wao watoto huteseka.

  • @fridajeremy6445
    @fridajeremy6445 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I lost my mom 5/5/2018 for the first time I saw my Dad crying, but to some extent some men suffer after losing their wives due to quilty cos they never treated them well when they where alive a wife anapelekwa kuishi bara & the man is in city na tu slayqueen.

    • @geoffreymwaura5733
      @geoffreymwaura5733 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Men May Almighty God help us to love our wife's always , because they mean great to us,,,,, Mungu wetu tupe upendo kabisaaaa, thanks mother's of our children kudos.

  • @cutecutecute7970
    @cutecutecute7970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The most painful thing is when you know it that the father to your children is alive, and he seriously make sure he avoids those children, to avoid any responsibility,.

    • @milcahsamoei6696
      @milcahsamoei6696 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

    • @KIM-xl6zs
      @KIM-xl6zs 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This are the kind of men who give us a bad name

  • @valerieokoiti9010
    @valerieokoiti9010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    May God continue giving you all strength to endure 🙏🏽

  • @giannazanelle8751
    @giannazanelle8751 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These dad's are very strong and a very good example to the society. May God bless them.

  • @njokiwaititu3964
    @njokiwaititu3964 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is my former Boss...and my mentor @chess this is so sweet...

  • @henixobuchunju6454
    @henixobuchunju6454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kudos Rose Wangui, such a nice piece

  • @kananu578
    @kananu578 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I salute those men may the good Lord keep them save to take care of their kids

  • @jazzwambu575
    @jazzwambu575 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The teacher should had ask why does the father cook not punising the kid.

    • @joanmungai7573
      @joanmungai7573 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True...felt sad for that kid😥😥got me sooo mad btw...smh

    • @Monnie_Noniot
      @Monnie_Noniot 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      True.. some teachers thou. Nkt! !

    • @KIM-xl6zs
      @KIM-xl6zs 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The stupidity of this society

  • @perismugo138
    @perismugo138 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The dads are so strong,may God continue give strength

  • @wekesamoses5316
    @wekesamoses5316 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    "There is no school on parenting. Its figured out. " Wise words from a father.
    May God strengthen and comfort us who have lost our loved ones.

  • @kihahu248
    @kihahu248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    RIP my dear sister..u left 2 weeks old baby

  • @rukungahjohn4631
    @rukungahjohn4631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That remends me what Dad used to say. He never remarried.

  • @dodosmile7744
    @dodosmile7744 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    How painful it is to have a dad but you can't be with him because he decided to leave and listen to her mum ,ooooh God I miss him but only God knows why I love you thou

  • @lucykaranja3287
    @lucykaranja3287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I know this first family. Fantastic people

  • @dennismuvaa6029
    @dennismuvaa6029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So sad for these men. May they find peace and comfort

  • @vokstheboss
    @vokstheboss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I shed some tears after hearing stories from these men, where did death come from?

  • @jackieben1844
    @jackieben1844 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Have you realised all those men had beautiful wives...mungu kumbuka hawa baba

  • @sharonjumba4648
    @sharonjumba4648 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My condolences to the young children who didn't have a chance of growing up with their mum and the husbands for loosing the love of their lives.
    I think it's time men learn how to do house chores just like women have to learn to provide, the future is unknown.
    Lastly, let's appreciate our spouses.

  • @danielogana3972
    @danielogana3972 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are all blessed for the job well done. Keep it up!