I used to have a friend that was exactly like this. I was having the darkest year of my life, my depression was at an all time high, I was hurting myself and getting to the point of suicidal, and any time I tried to talk to her about it she somehow always turned it around to her and how she somehow had it worse. And then when I finally realized what was happening and broke it off with her, she spread around that my other friends and I were targeting her and bullying her (which no one was actually doing. She was just trying to make us look bad to get back at us). It was the best decision I’ve ever made. Since then I’ve gotten help for my mental health and I’ve come a long way to being happy.
My ex was like this. I was in a really dark messed up place and I was breaking down because my life had literally just shattered into a million pieces at that point and I was spirally into a really bad place mentally then he pulls the “do you have any idea how much I’VE been suffering? What about ME?!” We didn’t last very long after that.
I think the worst thing about this kind of person is that, when there is help available, they won't take it. They're addicted to their pain, and the romanticized image of themselves as the sufferer, so the idea of going to therapy or setting goals to work on themselves is actually somewhat threatening. So I think if you worry about being this person, the best thing to do isn't try to prove to yourself that you are or that you aren't. It's to do something to take care of yourself. I think people like this are really kind of a spectrum. Some people are far gone on the narcissistic end of the spectrum and will never care enough about those around them to be motivated to change. If you worry about being this person, you aren't. The fact that you care proves it. Others fall into this accidentally but can wake up and get themselves out of it. And some people go to the opposite extreme, where they are so afraid of being a burden that they severely neglect themselves. But I don't think anybody becomes this person by deciding to take responsibility for their own mental health, in whatever means they have access to. Taking better care of yourself only makes you less like the subject of this song.
I think this is how I appear to people. I often rant about my pain and things that I’m going through. I don’t mean to do it or make it seem like I don’t care. I really do care about others I just struggle sometimes with listening to others instead of speaking about myself(my anxiety often kicks in and I ramble which doesn’t help but that’s not an excuse for ignoring the needs of others). I know I’m a bad friend I don’t even know if it can be fixed at this point. 6 months later: I have realized these actions were the product of a narcissistic home life and I’m working to improve myself so that I make sure the people I’m around are not subject to the same environment I was. 1 year later: Still working on it. It’s been a journey. I’m currently gaining my independence bit by bit. Even if it’s seemingly small things. But I can see a future outside this house which is amazing.
It can be fixed. Just when you are trying to listen their problems tell your mind to not bring up your story. It happened with me. And imma trying to improve. Well, i haven't became the perfect listener as of yet but i am better that what i was before.
Sometimes telling your own experiences, helps as well, and venting out emotions is good as well, just try not to overdo it and if someone is like struggling with something either just try and find someone you trust to vent to or just try and help them first and then vent out. Most of the time these things are just in your head. The type of people they are talking about in the song are people who pretend to care but actually don't. If you care then you do most likely not belong to this group.
I’ve done this before. For me what I do is focus on their problems. If I want to add a story or something to let them know they’re not alone, I make sure it’s not seen as worse than they’ve gone through and only speak for as long as they have.
Its okay to talk about yourself, it’s okay to rant. Just remember to acknowledge the other persons pain. Let them know you heard them. It honestly makes all the difference
I think it’s so sad that there are so many of us that have been through what this song describes. To everyone who has had or has someone in their lives that doesn’t acknowledge your pain, I truly am sorry. You all deserve so much better
No one should really say they have it harder to others, everyone has their own pain to deal with even if it isnt worse as you compare to yours or others. Its still their pain and suffering, it can affect them as much it can affect yours. I really love this song❤
"You're Exhausting" lyrics I'm so tired Of always trying to Build you up But when I'm feeling Low myself You make it about You somehow And I was there Each time you said you Needed me But you are nowhere To be found When I'm the one breaking down Now you come around and Barge into my space but All you want to do is Show off all your pain and Compare it to mine like You think we're the same But we're not You don't care what I've been through 'Cause you had it harder I gave you so much but You act like the martyr You tell me I'm sharp then Imply that you're smarter than me I can't keep Investing when there's No return Spend energy that I don't have And I'm never getting back 'Cause you come around and Barge into my space but All you want to do is Show off all your pain and Compare it to mine like You think we're the same But we're not You don't care what I've been through 'Cause you had it harder I gave you so much but You act like the martyr You tell me I'm sharp then Imply that you're smarter than me It's not some competition There's no prize for who's been hurt the worst It's gotten so toxic My god, you're exhausting 'Cause you come around and Barge into my space but All you want to do is Show off all your pain and Compare it to mine like You think we're the same But we're not We're not We're not We're not You don't care what I've been through 'Cause you had it harder I gave you so much but You act like the martyr You tell me I'm sharp then Imply that you're smarter than me Well babe, you're not smarter than me No no
This is painful but true... I myself have been hurt badly, But even then I am a fixer with no one to fix me... Always putting others before me... Such is the fate of a Fallen Goddess... To hold the weight of the world on my shoulders and keep the burden upon myself... Just gotta stay strong... Learn from yesterday... Prepare for tomorrow... Face today... It never is a competition who is hurting more than another... Staying as who you are at heart is whats most important... Everyone is in a different kind of pain... No matter the difference the suffering is always the same... And it can drive you insane...
@@gis-elle9301 I try... It's all we can do as people... Face forward jeep standing up... And keep moving... Never change who you are at heart no matter how much it hurts... No one is truly alone...
This is exactly what my trans friend is doing. I try to explain to him that pain is still pain and it’s still affects me, but he thinks that he should be catered to because he’s been through more. If I had the chance to explain 1 thing to him it would be: Each person has their own pain and it should never be compared, especially if it’s to down play their pain or to make it a competition. The pain they’ve been through may be nothing to you but it can be debilitating for them.
@@spleens4200 he is a friend and he’s chill most of the time and we have fun. It’s just when pain / trauma comes up that he treats it like a competition and “one ups” me with being trans and not having a supportive family. He’s a good friend and I love him, it’s just he doesn’t understand that there’s days where I want to kill myself just as much as he does.
@@libraofmojave2772 thank you so much. That means a lot. Stay safe, have fun, and remember, you are precious, you are beautiful, you are loved, and you are valid.
@@Voyek Thank you so much for writing that i need to read that, Iam trans too.and iam sending you hugs too☺️❤️ My family is not supportive either so i truly understand. Iam sorry you have to go trough that 🙁
Reminds me of a guy I was with recently its ironic cause he's out there on the news preaching how he's helping mental health, I was there for him every time here needed me dropping everything, putting him first but whenever I needed him he was no where to be found and when he was there he was just cruel
Lots of people wrote about their toxic friends or partners. For me it’s so sad song, because When I listen to it, I think about my dad. And it’s so awful because I remember the pain of this. But I love the “happy” music in this song. It helps show the absurd of the situation. Do what you do Beth! You are the only female singer I love to listening to 😊
I found this song at the perfect time. I've been best friends with one girl for years, but I've been beginning to notice a change in her. She's jealous, bossy, self-centered, and doesn't care at all about how she makes other people feel. She only cares about what others can do for her and it isn't right! She'll say nasty things, and then five minutes later expect forgiveness. This song reflects our relationship perfectly, and I am so blessed to have found it at the exact time I really needed it my life. You have a beautiful voice, Beth, and you use it well. ^-^
I had a friend that did this all the time. She's gone now. And I have the man in my life that does this, his relationship with my adult sons and my adult special needs daughter saves him. My kids never had a dad. I raised them alone
One of my friends once said that very thing about me and it made me feel so bad. Like, it wasn't my intention at all to sound like I was saying "I've been through worse than this", but the way I could think of helping her go through her problems was by telling her how I did it. It was supposed to sound like "if I survived this shit, you also can do it. Count on me", but apparently it didn't work. Based on it, I keep wondering how many times people around me might have thought of me as a toxic person and I didn't even know. Don't walk away from people around you before giving them the chance to explain themselves, understand your point, and try to do better.
I have a "friend" that does this. I try to be there for her becuase I know how she feels, but every time I tell her I'm stressed or upset, she makes it all about her. And somehow finds ways to make a daily crisis out of things that have zero significance. She just wants me to feel bad for her. One day I'll find the strength to cut her off.
Sometimes songs hit crazy close to home and in some ways I like that it does cuz it helps remind me I'm not the only one that's been through this. But it's not a song I can ever have on a playlist I listen to regularly because it's just too accurate and too soon.
Honestly have mix feelings about this song (not cause I don't like it, I love all ur songs) because it's so close to explaining a recent relationship but it also could be aimed at myself too in a way. Cause in that relationship I was blatantly honest and sometimes it came off as me being "smarter" but they would always call me out and then leave me. Only to come back and rant about their problems and I always stay and listen. Thinking it will go back to the beginning, but it never does.
Yea, I'm torn too. Mine because 5th final teenager graduates in 3days. Ima 60!!! Im f*kn exhausted. Prob being is boom, right over his head. I'm would be all about him. I'm exhausted.
I hate that I used to be this person. I never meant to be, it used to be how I helped people by sharing my own experiences and how I overcame them. I realized what I was doing last year and I hate myself to this day for it. This song is still beautiful, and I hope others don't relate to it ❤️
My mom just told me that my grandfather passed away months ago and now she's the one who wants to be comforted and that I shouldn't be angry. But she's known about it for months.
Had to put up with the emotional abuse for 4 years before finally leaving. Parents didn't like them. I never understood why. But I realize now that I was pushed to the side and had my feelings barely acknowledged. This song helps. I love singing it loudly.
This makes me cry every time I listen to it but it's so cathartic. This is exactly how my father is and I keep struggling with the guilt of letting go of him for my own sake...
Everyone fights their own battles . Does that make them toxic no . Some people really may have it harder than others. There are people out there that go through things one can't even imagine. I always listen to others and I relate to them by what I've gone through. Does that mean I think I had it worse not one bit. This hits home for sure. Keep your heads up .
Thank you beth you have been there with your music when i felt alone and your songs have helped me from cutting and suicide. I dont know if you'll ever see this but thank you so much.
Up until a few days ago, I'd never heard any of Beth's songs before, then YT started suggesting me a few of them, and I listened to them, so it gave me more and more. Didn't think I loved it so much, but some of them are now my favorites :)
It's amazing how much the visuals can affect the overall delivery of the song (in this case in a good way.) The one flaw music videos have is that they take away the abstract of the lyrics and turn it into one solid reality, but this ? This is the most creative music video I've ever seen ! And because only the lyrics themselves are being animated, it doesn't damage the abstract aspect of the piece. All around a lovely song !
I so love this song. This is the exact journey I went on with a guy I loved and he just took and took. An absolute Narcissist! Enough was enough! I’m free at last ! Thank you God❤️👼😇🙏
This song came on my feed when I walked away from someone whom I thought was a best friend when in fact they were the opposite and abusive. No matter what I did or said, they had a worse time, worse pain, everything. Whenever I cried they said I was playing victim for the billionth time and it was tiring, yet their mood determined the day. Always the same gripe. No change. Come to realize they were just abusing and using me. 4 years gone. Tossed out. I'm on my second month recovery. This song has helped!
Oh wow. First time hearing this song and if I didn't know better, I'd say you somehow read my mind. I often use your songs for inspiration for scene ideas in my books. This song fits the sequel to my first uploaded book so much but I haven't even begun writing it.
After listening to your song, I am overwhelmed by happiness Beth. You sure know how to show -- really visually show feelings-- not just write them and sing them. I cannot wait for this pandemic to be over and come to see you play/ sing at live concert. Please, if you can do a duet with Katelyn Tarver. Your voices would def sound perfect together. Thank you. Love you Beth! 🌹 🌹 ❤
Your music gives me so much. It’s like every lyrics of your songs could build a peace of my life and that‘s beautiful and I‘m very thankful that I‘ve found you and your music.
I can relate with this soo much yet idk why the depressed part of me says that the negative aspects (by this I mean the description of the toxic person ) in this song is also me (showing off to others when I try to call out for help ). ❤️💔
I had a friend like this, and we just broke off not so long ago. She was very manipulative since we were children, and was very rude, and because I just let it slide most of the time, it only got worse, and it started to affect my other friend, who became just like her. My first friend decided I wasn't good enough because I didn't cater to her anymore like how I did before, and she took all my other friends with her, including my second friend, who I had been very close to for many years. Saddest part is we were all friends since literal birth, and she dumped me like nothing because of it. It's sad but I learned something important that day. "People will always replace someone who is better for someone who is worse if they agree with them and their morals." Because I didn't, they left, and I figured out I just needed better friends. It's a bittersweet taste, but I'm thankful for it all the same. A person's true character shows when there's conflict.
I had a friend like this. I had realt bad depression and anxiety, and I was finally opening up, telling my friend about all my issues and she turned round and said she didn’t care.
This hit me like nothing else... I've spent so long keeping so many people in my life floating only to turn around and have it thrown into my face when I have a problem or can't take anymore emotional baggage. It's hard being the empath among a group of messed up people...
holy shit. I have no idea how I missed this one when it came out, but it's AMAZING!!! And, it's actually really relatable for me too. You're phenomenal, Beth!
Dear Beth, I love your songs so much, thank you for the emotions!!!! every song is like a catharsis in some way, I understand that I'm not alone, that so many people were facing the same problems, feeling the same pain. I just regret that I did'n know about you 10 -15 years ago, when I was a teenager)
Drowning is drowning, whether it be in a 20ft or 100ft as this point it's just over your head. Pain is pain, at those point it's just over your head. Keep it up, your stronger than you think.
Such a good narc mom song. Now if only I could find one that I could relate to my father who wasn't a deadbeat technically but he always was by no means a good dad
I used to have a friend that was exactly like this. I was having the darkest year of my life, my depression was at an all time high, I was hurting myself and getting to the point of suicidal, and any time I tried to talk to her about it she somehow always turned it around to her and how she somehow had it worse. And then when I finally realized what was happening and broke it off with her, she spread around that my other friends and I were targeting her and bullying her (which no one was actually doing. She was just trying to make us look bad to get back at us). It was the best decision I’ve ever made. Since then I’ve gotten help for my mental health and I’ve come a long way to being happy.
I'm happy for you! I hope you continue to be happy for years to come!
you can really be proud of yourself for being so strong
That shit sucks, I'm sorry dude.
@@skyethetsubaki thank you! ❤️
@@ShadowhunterARMY ❤️
My ex was like this. I was in a really dark messed up place and I was breaking down because my life had literally just shattered into a million pieces at that point and I was spirally into a really bad place mentally then he pulls the “do you have any idea how much I’VE been suffering? What about ME?!” We didn’t last very long after that.
i can relate to that
Can relate....
It's amazing how narcissistic people can be
@@demigoddess6662 prob the 666 actin up🤣
@@jasonriehl1114 lmao so true
The lyrics are so relatable😭
Every song she sings is relatable...she puts into words the way all of us have felt
Ikr
Just cane across these songs today. Only heard 2 so far can relate to both 100% she hit the nail right on the head
True bruh
I’m sending this to my parents. I cannot be stopped.
Love you Beth💗
your POWER
this omg😌
O...M...G...
Are they really that bad ? I think I can understand lol 🤣
@@annah4081 yep, they are that bad🤣
My greatest fear is being the person that their singing about...
Even though I've been her singing I often doubt myself.
Me too but I guess that's just the life of coming out of a gaslighting relationship for years and still feeling like their villian
@@starry3056
You described it perfectly
I think the worst thing about this kind of person is that, when there is help available, they won't take it. They're addicted to their pain, and the romanticized image of themselves as the sufferer, so the idea of going to therapy or setting goals to work on themselves is actually somewhat threatening. So I think if you worry about being this person, the best thing to do isn't try to prove to yourself that you are or that you aren't. It's to do something to take care of yourself.
I think people like this are really kind of a spectrum. Some people are far gone on the narcissistic end of the spectrum and will never care enough about those around them to be motivated to change. If you worry about being this person, you aren't. The fact that you care proves it. Others fall into this accidentally but can wake up and get themselves out of it. And some people go to the opposite extreme, where they are so afraid of being a burden that they severely neglect themselves. But I don't think anybody becomes this person by deciding to take responsibility for their own mental health, in whatever means they have access to. Taking better care of yourself only makes you less like the subject of this song.
If you have doubts then, yeah she singing about you.
@@emiliepruden528 No
Done with narcissistic or toxic relationships. Perfect lyrics.
Anybody else having specifics flashbacks of moments with a narcissistic parent? Just me? Damn 💔
No not just you.
your not alone
Not just you. I’m in that boat too 💜
So not alone🙌🏻😣😩
I have been summoned
Anson Seabra, Hayd, and now Beth all uploading a new song in the span of 24 hours of one another? Why are we being spoiled so much
I think this is how I appear to people. I often rant about my pain and things that I’m going through. I don’t mean to do it or make it seem like I don’t care. I really do care about others I just struggle sometimes with listening to others instead of speaking about myself(my anxiety often kicks in and I ramble which doesn’t help but that’s not an excuse for ignoring the needs of others). I know I’m a bad friend I don’t even know if it can be fixed at this point.
6 months later: I have realized these actions were the product of a narcissistic home life and I’m working to improve myself so that I make sure the people I’m around are not subject to the same environment I was.
1 year later: Still working on it. It’s been a journey. I’m currently gaining my independence bit by bit. Even if it’s seemingly small things. But I can see a future outside this house which is amazing.
I'm sure it can ^^
It can be fixed. Just when you are trying to listen their problems tell your mind to not bring up your story.
It happened with me. And imma trying to improve. Well, i haven't became the perfect listener as of yet but i am better that what i was before.
Sometimes telling your own experiences, helps as well, and venting out emotions is good as well, just try not to overdo it and if someone is like struggling with something either just try and find someone you trust to vent to or just try and help them first and then vent out. Most of the time these things are just in your head. The type of people they are talking about in the song are people who pretend to care but actually don't. If you care then you do most likely not belong to this group.
I’ve done this before. For me what I do is focus on their problems. If I want to add a story or something to let them know they’re not alone, I make sure it’s not seen as worse than they’ve gone through and only speak for as long as they have.
Its okay to talk about yourself, it’s okay to rant. Just remember to acknowledge the other persons pain. Let them know you heard them. It honestly makes all the difference
I think it’s so sad that there are so many of us that have been through what this song describes. To everyone who has had or has someone in their lives that doesn’t acknowledge your pain, I truly am sorry. You all deserve so much better
No one should really say they have it harder to others, everyone has their own pain to deal with even if it isnt worse as you compare to yours or others. Its still their pain and suffering, it can affect them as much it can affect yours.
I really love this song❤
Why does this sound like I should send this to most of the people I know...anthem of my life right here.
"Savior" After she heal and realizes how much she's worth; how she didn't deserve to be someone's emotional voodoo doll.
🎵I have grown too strong to ever fall back in your arms🎵
@@thesymphonyoflife3950 That's beautiful
Felt that
Exactly💯‼️🅿️
"You're Exhausting" lyrics
I'm so tired
Of always trying to
Build you up
But when I'm feeling
Low myself
You make it about
You somehow
And I was there
Each time you said you
Needed me
But you are nowhere
To be found
When I'm the one breaking down
Now you come around and
Barge into my space but
All you want to do is
Show off all your pain and
Compare it to mine like
You think we're the same
But we're not
You don't care what I've been through
'Cause you had it harder
I gave you so much but
You act like the martyr
You tell me I'm sharp then
Imply that you're smarter than me
I can't keep
Investing when there's
No return
Spend energy that
I don't have
And I'm never getting back
'Cause you come around and
Barge into my space but
All you want to do is
Show off all your pain and
Compare it to mine like
You think we're the same
But we're not
You don't care what I've been through
'Cause you had it harder
I gave you so much but
You act like the martyr
You tell me I'm sharp then
Imply that you're smarter than me
It's not some competition
There's no prize for who's been hurt the worst
It's gotten so toxic
My god, you're exhausting
'Cause you come around and
Barge into my space but
All you want to do is
Show off all your pain and
Compare it to mine like
You think we're the same
But we're not
We're not
We're not
We're not
You don't care what I've been through
'Cause you had it harder
I gave you so much but
You act like the martyr
You tell me I'm sharp then
Imply that you're smarter than me
Well babe, you're not smarter than me
No no
@@blazenkasekacic6839 now if someone wants to try to sing it ahead they know what lyrics are next
@@rubyrevolution1192 Exactly. I tried singing along but was late on the first word every time. It's more for myself than you guys.
Thank you!
I felt that
This is painful but true... I myself have been hurt badly, But even then I am a fixer with no one to fix me... Always putting others before me... Such is the fate of a Fallen Goddess... To hold the weight of the world on my shoulders and keep the burden upon myself... Just gotta stay strong... Learn from yesterday... Prepare for tomorrow... Face today... It never is a competition who is hurting more than another... Staying as who you are at heart is whats most important... Everyone is in a different kind of pain... No matter the difference the suffering is always the same... And it can drive you insane...
"A fixer with no one to fix me"... have you heard "The Fixer" by Brent Morgan?
Keep your head up queen!
@@gis-elle9301 I try... It's all we can do as people... Face forward jeep standing up... And keep moving... Never change who you are at heart no matter how much it hurts... No one is truly alone...
@@cassidymckinlay Yes...
This is exactly what my trans friend is doing. I try to explain to him that pain is still pain and it’s still affects me, but he thinks that he should be catered to because he’s been through more.
If I had the chance to explain 1 thing to him it would be:
Each person has their own pain and it should never be compared, especially if it’s to down play their pain or to make it a competition.
The pain they’ve been through may be nothing to you but it can be debilitating for them.
Doesn’t sound like much of a friend to be honest but I don’t know the full details
@@spleens4200 he is a friend and he’s chill most of the time and we have fun. It’s just when pain / trauma comes up that he treats it like a competition and “one ups” me with being trans and not having a supportive family. He’s a good friend and I love him, it’s just he doesn’t understand that there’s days where I want to kill myself just as much as he does.
As a trans I am so sorry hes like that. All pain is pain. I send you hugs my friend
@@libraofmojave2772 thank you so much. That means a lot. Stay safe, have fun, and remember, you are precious, you are beautiful, you are loved, and you are valid.
@@Voyek Thank you so much for writing that i need to read that, Iam trans too.and iam sending you hugs too☺️❤️ My family is not supportive either so i truly understand. Iam sorry you have to go trough that 🙁
Reminds me of a guy I was with recently its ironic cause he's out there on the news preaching how he's helping mental health, I was there for him every time here needed me dropping everything, putting him first but whenever I needed him he was no where to be found and when he was there he was just cruel
Lots of people wrote about their toxic friends or partners. For me it’s so sad song, because When I listen to it, I think about my dad. And it’s so awful because I remember the pain of this.
But I love the “happy” music in this song. It helps show the absurd of the situation.
Do what you do Beth! You are the only female singer I love to listening to 😊
I found this song at the perfect time. I've been best friends with one girl for years, but I've been beginning to notice a change in her. She's jealous, bossy, self-centered, and doesn't care at all about how she makes other people feel. She only cares about what others can do for her and it isn't right! She'll say nasty things, and then five minutes later expect forgiveness. This song reflects our relationship perfectly, and I am so blessed to have found it at the exact time I really needed it my life. You have a beautiful voice, Beth, and you use it well. ^-^
I had a friend that did this all the time. She's gone now. And I have the man in my life that does this, his relationship with my adult sons and my adult special needs daughter saves him. My kids never had a dad. I raised them alone
That....literally summarized everything I told my therapist today at relationship counseling 😂😂😂❤️ I love it.
I needed this song, this disciples everything I’m going through right now
One of my friends once said that very thing about me and it made me feel so bad. Like, it wasn't my intention at all to sound like I was saying "I've been through worse than this", but the way I could think of helping her go through her problems was by telling her how I did it. It was supposed to sound like "if I survived this shit, you also can do it. Count on me", but apparently it didn't work. Based on it, I keep wondering how many times people around me might have thought of me as a toxic person and I didn't even know.
Don't walk away from people around you before giving them the chance to explain themselves, understand your point, and try to do better.
I have a "friend" that does this. I try to be there for her becuase I know how she feels, but every time I tell her I'm stressed or upset, she makes it all about her. And somehow finds ways to make a daily crisis out of things that have zero significance. She just wants me to feel bad for her. One day I'll find the strength to cut her off.
Agh same, if you scroll up, feel free to read my comment. It's new and describes my situation.
Sometimes songs hit crazy close to home and in some ways I like that it does cuz it helps remind me I'm not the only one that's been through this. But it's not a song I can ever have on a playlist I listen to regularly because it's just too accurate and too soon.
I love that the images emphasizes the song
You and beautiful and I love your personality and can’t wait to read your book!!
How are your songs always so relatable!?
Such a relatable song! It hurts.
Honestly have mix feelings about this song (not cause I don't like it, I love all ur songs) because it's so close to explaining a recent relationship but it also could be aimed at myself too in a way. Cause in that relationship I was blatantly honest and sometimes it came off as me being "smarter" but they would always call me out and then leave me. Only to come back and rant about their problems and I always stay and listen. Thinking it will go back to the beginning, but it never does.
Yea, I'm torn too. Mine because 5th final teenager graduates in 3days. Ima 60!!! Im f*kn exhausted. Prob being is boom, right over his head. I'm would be all about him. I'm exhausted.
I can relate
it takes a strong person to introspect and admit to faults
I hate that I used to be this person. I never meant to be, it used to be how I helped people by sharing my own experiences and how I overcame them. I realized what I was doing last year and I hate myself to this day for it. This song is still beautiful, and I hope others don't relate to it ❤️
wow great song
My mom just told me that my grandfather passed away months ago and now she's the one who wants to be comforted and that I shouldn't be angry.
But she's known about it for months.
Yeaaaaaaah so prettyyyyy 😍 Looove it! ❤❤❤
Beautiful as always!
Literally a perfect song for me and my mother’s relationship
Had to put up with the emotional abuse for 4 years before finally leaving. Parents didn't like them. I never understood why. But I realize now that I was pushed to the side and had my feelings barely acknowledged. This song helps. I love singing it loudly.
I couldn’t breathe listening to this for the first time. Truth hits hard.
This makes me cry every time I listen to it but it's so cathartic. This is exactly how my father is and I keep struggling with the guilt of letting go of him for my own sake...
Perfect song for me right now!
My dad did this exact thing to me. Thank you Beth I know I’m not alone.
Everyone fights their own battles . Does that make them toxic no . Some people really may have it harder than others. There are people out there that go through things one can't even imagine. I always listen to others and I relate to them by what I've gone through. Does that mean I think I had it worse not one bit. This hits home for sure. Keep your heads up .
Thank you beth you have been there with your music when i felt alone and your songs have helped me from cutting and suicide. I dont know if you'll ever see this but thank you so much.
This is exactly the song I've been searching for
THE QUEEN HAS UPLOADED
this is so good 🥺❤️
Sending this to my parents... 😢 I feel this song so much
Wow awesome lyrics and animation
(🔥_🔥) 👍
Up until a few days ago, I'd never heard any of Beth's songs before, then YT started suggesting me a few of them, and I listened to them, so it gave me more and more. Didn't think I loved it so much, but some of them are now my favorites :)
I needed this song so remarkably badly.
It's amazing how much the visuals can affect the overall delivery of the song (in this case in a good way.) The one flaw music videos have is that they take away the abstract of the lyrics and turn it into one solid reality, but this ? This is the most creative music video I've ever seen ! And because only the lyrics themselves are being animated, it doesn't damage the abstract aspect of the piece. All around a lovely song !
Wow ! 👏
Beth, you’re so fucking talented. Istg, I do not understand how you don’t have a million subscribers.
Beth. I desperately hope a relationship like this has NEVER happened to you! I have someone like this in my life right now!
I so love this song. This is the exact journey I went on with a guy I loved and he just took and took. An absolute Narcissist! Enough was enough! I’m free at last ! Thank you God❤️👼😇🙏
This song came on my feed when I walked away from someone whom I thought was a best friend when in fact they were the opposite and abusive. No matter what I did or said, they had a worse time, worse pain, everything. Whenever I cried they said I was playing victim for the billionth time and it was tiring, yet their mood determined the day. Always the same gripe. No change. Come to realize they were just abusing and using me. 4 years gone. Tossed out. I'm on my second month recovery. This song has helped!
Every word is true!!! It’s exactly how I feel at the moment!
I can’t stop listening!
this lyric video is so satisfying to watch
Love this because this is so true and relatable. Such a wonderful song!!❤️❤️
I love this💜💜
Oh wow. First time hearing this song and if I didn't know better, I'd say you somehow read my mind. I often use your songs for inspiration for scene ideas in my books. This song fits the sequel to my first uploaded book so much but I haven't even begun writing it.
After listening to your song, I am overwhelmed by happiness Beth. You sure know how to show -- really visually show feelings-- not just write them and sing them. I cannot wait for this pandemic to be over and come to see you play/ sing at live concert. Please, if you can do a duet with Katelyn Tarver. Your voices would def sound perfect together. Thank you. Love you Beth! 🌹 🌹 ❤
Your music gives me so much. It’s like every lyrics of your songs could build a peace of my life and that‘s beautiful and I‘m very thankful that I‘ve found you and your music.
I can relate with this soo much yet idk why the depressed part of me says that the negative aspects (by this I mean the description of the toxic person ) in this song is also me (showing off to others when I try to call out for help ). ❤️💔
I had a friend like this, and we just broke off not so long ago. She was very manipulative since we were children, and was very rude, and because I just let it slide most of the time, it only got worse, and it started to affect my other friend, who became just like her. My first friend decided I wasn't good enough because I didn't cater to her anymore like how I did before, and she took all my other friends with her, including my second friend, who I had been very close to for many years. Saddest part is we were all friends since literal birth, and she dumped me like nothing because of it. It's sad but I learned something important that day. "People will always replace someone who is better for someone who is worse if they agree with them and their morals." Because I didn't, they left, and I figured out I just needed better friends. It's a bittersweet taste, but I'm thankful for it all the same. A person's true character shows when there's conflict.
I had a friend like this. I had realt bad depression and anxiety, and I was finally opening up, telling my friend about all my issues and she turned round and said she didn’t care.
this is everything i'm feeling right now. thank you so much, i needed this.
I’ve never related to a song more.. this is amazing
This has got to be one of my favourite songs at the moment. And defo relatable to a situation in my life at present. She has beautiful voice 😊
This is a great song. Your music is amazing. You must have been through quite a lot. I hope you're doing well and still doing what you love.
Awesome as always , ❤️❤️
This hit me like nothing else... I've spent so long keeping so many people in my life floating only to turn around and have it thrown into my face when I have a problem or can't take anymore emotional baggage. It's hard being the empath among a group of messed up people...
Gold, Beth, gold.
OMG your songs speak whats on my mind
I love this
Beautiful
And the universe hits it on the head yet again...
Once again, one amazing song❤
Love your new song. It really makes me think of What you need - a kind of similar theme and also a similar video stile
Amazing job Beth! Your music always helps me through these tough times!
Really love all the songs you sing! Keep going Queen ✨♥️
Omg amazing!!!
holy shit. I have no idea how I missed this one when it came out, but it's AMAZING!!! And, it's actually really relatable for me too. You're phenomenal, Beth!
This my hole life this song I'm done. Amen 🙏 ❤
Exactly what I went through prior to my divorce
Brilliant song, thank you!
Wow. This song depicts my relationship with plenty of others.
I feel this on a whole another level 😭
Looove!!
Dear Beth, I love your songs so much, thank you for the emotions!!!! every song is like a catharsis in some way, I understand that I'm not alone, that so many people were facing the same problems, feeling the same pain. I just regret that I did'n know about you 10 -15 years ago, when I was a teenager)
Drowning is drowning, whether it be in a 20ft or 100ft as this point it's just over your head. Pain is pain, at those point it's just over your head. Keep it up, your stronger than you think.
I hope he never sees this but this really has me in my feelings about my rather complicated relationship with my father.
Oh such good lyrics for today.
Simultaneously I can think of times when I’ve been in the singer’s perspective and I’ve been the person she’s talking about.
I stumbled upon this and I'm so happy. I needed this so much 😥
Ive fallen in love with your songs since 2018 thanks so much, and i hope things are better for you.❤
Such a good narc mom song. Now if only I could find one that I could relate to my father who wasn't a deadbeat technically but he always was by no means a good dad
OMG!!!! 😍😍😍😍
You have now sung my very soul in these lyrics . . .
💞 wow this song couldn't have come at a better time...Thank you