Brent Morgan - The Fixer (Lyric Video)

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  • The official lyric video for "The Fixer" by Brent Morgan
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    #BrentMorgan #TheFixer
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  • @JuliaKyi
    @JuliaKyi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1914

    “Fixers never fix themselves”
    It hit hard...

  • @cesardanielgatuno969
    @cesardanielgatuno969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4797

    I dont care if I'm a man, I'm dedicating this to myself. Beautiful song.

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +278

      💚💚💚

    • @Brian-ph6of
      @Brian-ph6of 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Same, bro. Same.

    • @catlynnnounoute8953
      @catlynnnounoute8953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      This is the energy I want. A start to "fixing" myself.

    • @debbieoneal3371
      @debbieoneal3371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      @@catlynnnounoute8953 please do fix yourself. My sister was always the fixer until she took her life last year. I only wished she told me she needed fixed. She hid it so well. We all thought she was happy and she was always there fixing all our problems. I miss her so much.

    • @cesardanielgatuno969
      @cesardanielgatuno969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@debbieoneal3371 Sorry to hear that.

  • @muguure_1
    @muguure_1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +765

    To all the fixers out there…Here’s a guy who has us figured out.
    this song is deep🥺

    • @iriskain305
      @iriskain305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It really is. Makes me cry every single time, but damn it's beautiful.

    • @jodyrn03
      @jodyrn03 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very deep. My life song and it’s so hard.

    • @joycher
      @joycher ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, and mean.

    • @petergriffiinbirdistheword
      @petergriffiinbirdistheword ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😔 yep.

    • @itsimportant264
      @itsimportant264 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree😢

  • @aprille1927
    @aprille1927 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +156

    I'm dedicating this song to my past self-the old me.
    Hang in there, sweetheart. You are going to get through this, I promise, and things will get so much better.
    I love you. ❤

    • @Godisfirst21
      @Godisfirst21 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Thank you for the hope.

    • @matthewjames5598
      @matthewjames5598 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@Godisfirst21
      I almost killed myself. A small part reached out. Not even my parents realized what was going on. Everyone thought I had it together and was so happy. The cutting was 5 years ago.
      Hold on friend. You don't have to do this alone. Let someone in.
      It helped me.

    • @Godisfirst21
      @Godisfirst21 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@matthewjames5598 Thank you. I hope you have a great day today.

    • @lorraineanne7821
      @lorraineanne7821 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your beautiful ❤ take care of you beautiful soul ❤

    • @gingercats1067
      @gingercats1067 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤❤ for you~

  • @joyegbunu1838
    @joyegbunu1838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1313

    Who told Brent my life's story!!! Such a comforting song just cause someone else feels our pain!

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      love you!

    • @haleylemaire2262
      @haleylemaire2262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I know how you feel. My relationship is on the rocks. I am giving birth this Friday. I don't feel myself anymore. I always try to help everyone else... but I forget I need to heal my wounds as well

    • @karlahansen4976
      @karlahansen4976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was thinking the same thing!!!!

    • @strrwbrryjamjam2191
      @strrwbrryjamjam2191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tell me about it💕

    • @darlenenelson364
      @darlenenelson364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@haleylemaire2262 Congratulations on your new arrival. God bless you and your bundle of joy, and know that no matter what your never really alone. We are strong because we must be, but call on the Lord and JE will raise you up dearest new mama. Your in my prayers Darlene Marie

  • @amandaharper5681
    @amandaharper5681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2476

    I absolutely adore this song. This is the empath anthem I've always needed. People don't really understand what its like to feel others pain so deeply it brings physical pain to yourself.

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      thank you so much

    • @rebeccapetersen5613
      @rebeccapetersen5613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Indeed it is

    • @johnchavez410
      @johnchavez410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I understand I try to stay away from people because of it

    • @gracechristensen6355
      @gracechristensen6355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I too am a empath. And a healer... No one understands the physical pain and the emotional pain. Thank God for this song......

    • @susancarver3977
      @susancarver3977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I put everything into others because it takes focus off my needs and pain. Its actually selfishness on my part to be this way cause sometimes i hurt so bad my soul starts to grieve. This song seemed to be calling me out. Ive just cried and cried over this song

  • @saronh1488
    @saronh1488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +326

    I cried when i heard this song for the first time. it felt like someone finally understood what i am going through 😟 and how on edge i am. thank you for this song💛

    • @jojodouglas8468
      @jojodouglas8468 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly how I’m feeling

    • @user-gq6og7kz9q
      @user-gq6og7kz9q ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Praying for you my dear❤❤

    • @davidpotgieter4513
      @davidpotgieter4513 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kept in my tears till i saw your comment. Then the watrerfall started rolling down my cheeks

    • @aliyahadaanni
      @aliyahadaanni 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True . Me too 😢

    • @warriormom-ub6lr
      @warriormom-ub6lr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I just broke down myself. I needed this

  • @chelhartzell8254
    @chelhartzell8254 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The tears won't stop. This is my life in a nut shell.

  • @AlpacaLegion
    @AlpacaLegion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2203

    Smart choice of words!

  • @justtop4786
    @justtop4786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1603

    I didn't search for it ,I found this song by coincidence. what a lovely coincidence

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      💚💚💚

    • @justtop4786
      @justtop4786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@katerigolden2838 a lucky coincidence

    • @skrip_skrip4814
      @skrip_skrip4814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I normally don't click on song suggestions but this one seemed like it called out to me. It sings to my soul

    • @btsworlddomination5069
      @btsworlddomination5069 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same :')

    • @shawnashuman4847
      @shawnashuman4847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@skrip_skrip4814 same someone sent me another song to listen to and this was a suggestion and like you said it felt like it was callin me

  • @mrsperfectlyimperfect6363
    @mrsperfectlyimperfect6363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    As a fixer, I always focus my energy on those who need me. Focusing on myself only causes me pain and anxiety of the past and present that haunt my thoughts when I am alone. This is a beautiful song that has put perspective on my emotional health.

  • @Sparklescooby93
    @Sparklescooby93 2 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    Some songs just hit you so hard that all you find yourself doing is crying to them at almost 4am…thank you for this beautiful masterpiece!

  • @chickachickie
    @chickachickie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1593

    As a fixer, I've never heard a song more true to my mentality. You don't feel like you're worthy to be fixed. So to ignore yourself breaking apart, you fix others. Hoping one day you'll care about yourself as much as you care about others. At least that's what I do.

    • @michellealexander2365
      @michellealexander2365 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I can't relate more. I like to ignore the fact that I'm hurting to help others. I forget that I need help too and when I meet that breaking point I realize that I'm the one that needs fixed.

    • @hippiechickie5320
      @hippiechickie5320 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I'm finally fixing myself & it's tough and it's beautiful and it's a wake up call,my wish is for all the fixer's is to know your worth, don't wait till your 60 years old

    • @RobsMusicBox
      @RobsMusicBox 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      so there with you.

    • @altwreck127
      @altwreck127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I don't think I've ever agreed with a sentence more

    • @rebeccaweller8616
      @rebeccaweller8616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen! Right there with you

  • @gitangiie8634
    @gitangiie8634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +774

    "She's lover who won't love herself" damn, it stabbed me

  • @LisaCapron
    @LisaCapron 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Hospice nurse here… this could be our anthem in hospice. We take care of the patients and the families (no matter how crazy a situation we walk into) and we have to keep staying strong no matter what.

    • @Godisfirst21
      @Godisfirst21 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love hospice nurses. So much respect going out to you.

  • @saltywisdom
    @saltywisdom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    She's a fixer with no one to fix her
    She's a lover who won't love herself
    She's a heartbreak away from a horrible place
    'Cause fixers never fix themselves
    She's a fighter with no one beside her
    In a corner alone on the ropes
    She's a let down away from a terrible place
    She'll fix every scar but her own
    Oh, she fixes the lonely, fixes the broke
    But tends to forget who needs fixin' the most
    Buried in bandages, hiding the hell
    'Cause fixers never fix themselves
    She's a liar, a calm to the fire
    Shamed when we all follow suit
    She's a whisper away from a dangerous place
    'Cause lies aren't a fix for the truth
    Oh, she fixes the lonely, fixes the broke
    But tends to forget who need fixin' the most
    Packed with prescriptions, disguisin' the hell
    'Cause fixers never fix themselves
    She's a handful
    A whole lot to handle
    But worth every thorn in my side
    She's a sunset away from the darkest of days
    No fix for the fixer tonight
    She's a sunset away from the darkest of days
    No fix for the fixer tonight

  • @ochiochimi
    @ochiochimi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +863

    this songs hits you when you’re always by your friends side but they’re not on yours.

  • @xiins1923
    @xiins1923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +431

    YT is doing a fucking good job with the recomandations. Why am I crying, again?

  • @marissalondon4031
    @marissalondon4031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    As a fixer myself, this hit really hard. It's been a long and difficult journey to understanding that it's not my responsibility to fix anyone...especially when doing so only breaks me even more. Thank you for this.

  • @muthoninjauyah3968
    @muthoninjauyah3968 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I am a fixer who now prioritizes fixing myself first, and I now only fix people who ask for it, and appreciate my energy. We are learning 💪🏾.

    • @Anna.21.
      @Anna.21. ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How did you start?

    • @muthoninjauyah3968
      @muthoninjauyah3968 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Anna.21. I started by no longer allowing those who abused my kindness into my energy, or space. I completely cut them all off.
      It is now my fundamental rule to only give where I am appreciated, where my kindness is reciprocated
      💖🦋🙂🦋💖.
      I wish you all the love and wisdom in caring for your beautiful fixer souls 💯❤️🌹.

    • @jennymoser9750
      @jennymoser9750 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SO proud of you! It sounds simple, but most of us fixers understand how much fight it takes to get to where you are now. Good for you.

    • @muthoninjauyah3968
      @muthoninjauyah3968 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jennymoser9750 💖💝🌺💓💞💖

    • @janejuliet1
      @janejuliet1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I could've written this! ❤️

  • @dee-tx5jd
    @dee-tx5jd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3345

    She's addicted to fixing others, so she doesn't have to face and deal with her own brokeness.
    Saving other people is a coping mechanism. It's escapism. It's running away from a victim mentality by escaping into it.

  • @gracealexandrea2150
    @gracealexandrea2150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    "Lies aren't a fix for the truth" Yes thats true but it sure makes a great bandaid.

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      💚💚💚

    • @gracealexandrea2150
      @gracealexandrea2150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BrentMorganMusic Thank you for the like and comment. I hope you are doing well and have an amazing night/day!

  • @jayasree9280
    @jayasree9280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Beautiful song... why do i have tears in my eyes.... bless ur heart...

  • @claudiarobinson587
    @claudiarobinson587 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Oh what a beautiful song. The trumpet is beautiful.

  • @cuminurdadsass
    @cuminurdadsass 3 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    Reminds me of a Mother going through a hard time being a single mother

  • @AuraNetworkVision
    @AuraNetworkVision 3 ปีที่แล้ว +518

    I'm in love with this song 🥺💖

  • @raquelstrickland4966
    @raquelstrickland4966 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This song made me feel so raw and naked, all I did to hide away my issues and this song rips them from my hiding places slowly and painfully. I'm tired, I'm sad, I'm lost, I'm lonely in a house full of family this Thanksgiving. I can't get over them leaving me here, I miss them so much I can barely breathe 😪 I just want my dad, mom, and brother back 💔

  • @stephanieharrington4710
    @stephanieharrington4710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow!!!!! I'm in tears listening to this beautiful truth!

  • @1234Colormepink
    @1234Colormepink 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2637

    So I decided to write a response to it... Here y'all go. Same tune different words. I also just did a video of me singing this, vocals only, since there were many requests to do so. Thank you! - th-cam.com/video/u9D1HcZ3-Tw/w-d-xo.html
    I’m a fixer who found my fixer
    I’m a lover being loved in return
    My heart’s shattered and dazed from all the pain
    But this fixer has a fixer herself.
    I’m a fighter with people behind her
    In a corner they ensure my health.
    He pulls me away from a terrible place.
    He’ll fix every scar he can find.
    Oh, She fixed all the lonely, fixed all the broke.
    Now he’s fixing the one who needs fixing the most.
    Cleaning the wounds and fighting her hell
    This fixer found a fixer herself.
    I’m a liar, alive with a fire
    Shamed that I burden you
    But he whispers my name, and I am saved.
    No more lies, I’ll be honest and true.
    Oh, she fixed all the lonely, fixed all the broke.
    Now he’s fixing the one who needs fixing the most.
    Backed with persistence, fighting the hell.
    This fixer found a fixer herself.
    I’m a handful
    A whole lot to handle.
    But he says it’s no trouble, he’s fine.
    He’s my sunrise each day from my darkest place
    He’s fixing the fixer each night.
    He’s my sunrise each day from my darkest place
    He’s fixing the fixer each night.
    Hope you enjoy and thank you for this glorious song and inspiration!

    • @shanw.2948
      @shanw.2948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @hazelfabricante1337
      @hazelfabricante1337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Whooaah! Hand's up to you! 👏👏

    • @ksorangeeee840
      @ksorangeeee840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      I'm crying to this. I always believe no one is gonna fix this fixer. I hope someone will be willing to as I will fix that person too. I am glad you found yourself one 👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @1234Colormepink
      @1234Colormepink 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@ksorangeeee840 As am I! I think you'll find someone eventually, give it time.

    • @1234Colormepink
      @1234Colormepink 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@hazelfabricante1337 Thank you!!!

  • @courtneygahan551
    @courtneygahan551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +239

    I have never felt more personally attacked by a song in my life.
    And never had a song put my feeling into words better than this.

  • @leeeeemon4148
    @leeeeemon4148 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I almost forgot about this song. Thank you for recommending this to me randomly.

  • @Gwgwvwgywbvgyq14526
    @Gwgwvwgywbvgyq14526 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I'm dedicating this song to my mother because my mother is always helping us fix our problems while she always hides her problems and cries alone.

  • @lilithrosewood6829
    @lilithrosewood6829 3 ปีที่แล้ว +494

    Talked with a friend and we started talking about what each others theme songs would be. I sent him his theme song and then he took almost 10 minutes going through his history to find this song. And right after he sent it he said, "Just in case you thought nobody noticed what you've done for everyone around you.", and then he said he had to go. After the call ended I listened to this and I nearly cried. My heart you guys, it feels.

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      💚💚💚

    • @zety4228
      @zety4228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i think this comment suits to the book i just fished reading week ago😭❤️😊

    • @alpacakira6899
      @alpacakira6899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Did you two date? 🤗he appreciates you

    • @lilithrosewood6829
      @lilithrosewood6829 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      We are officially dating now! And I couldn't be happier, he is super caring about everyone he meets and makes sure to take extra care to help me when I'm nervous or upset.

    • @Jessica-nh7fo
      @Jessica-nh7fo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@zety4228 what book was that

  • @brinsley4599
    @brinsley4599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    As an empath, I really don't know how to feel about this song. I always reach out to people who are sad and I offer an ear when I think people need it cuz I love helping, but it's astronomically hard for me to open up about myself because I feel so misunderstood. I feel like a liar and an entitled person though, for relating to this...

    • @gingerjones5931
      @gingerjones5931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's all good but you sound relatable to me.
      We do need healthy boundaries.

    • @cmubabe07
      @cmubabe07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Observe others feelings and issues, don’t absorb them. You can’t help anyone when the weight of the world drowns you.

    • @luna-jj4cw
      @luna-jj4cw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I do to and as a fellow empath I can say that we need to realize we give everything and get nothing it’s not selfish to won’t help and praise or even some emotional stability its natural. Put yourself first it’s not selfish.

    • @ghanacryptogurl3574
      @ghanacryptogurl3574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You explained how i feel so badly, thank you for putting it in words

    • @tyleraaron2776
      @tyleraaron2776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I totally feel you, but try to understand that the way you feel is valid and just because you may not be able to help yourself with your problems yet doesn't mean you a lair just means you haven't figured out the puzzle quite yet.

  • @Anna...MayBug
    @Anna...MayBug ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am the fixer. But this fixer is done fixing others and things that can't be fixed. I am now my own fixer.

  • @shescountry0916
    @shescountry0916 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I never knew I needed a song, until I heard this beautiful song!

  • @kellinhell
    @kellinhell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1801

    All I did was click on this suggested song and now I’m crying

  • @ytownsend918
    @ytownsend918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    Fixers cant fix themselves because they are to busy fixing others. And maybe they are like me and run away when people try to help. This song hits home for me

  • @ML-HS
    @ML-HS 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This song paints a perfect image of me. River of tears shed. My friend's are pointing out how much of a fighter I am, but can't tell them I am a fighter with no one beside her. Oh, how I yearn for things to be different. Those animations with a hug is hit the most.

  • @tarau8695
    @tarau8695 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Somebody DOES understand !! Thank you for this song !!

  • @nanananna9667
    @nanananna9667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    "Buried in bandages
    Hiding the hell"
    Guys I'm 7 days free! I know it's not much but I'm very proud of myself!

    • @krizzannegayatgay3084
      @krizzannegayatgay3084 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m proud of you☺️❤️

    • @randomperson9961
      @randomperson9961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      THATS AMAZING IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!!!! :D

    • @msmsmarissa
      @msmsmarissa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      How is it going? Hopefully life is getting better every day for you!

    • @nanananna9667
      @nanananna9667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@msmsmarissa Honestly things were a lot better!But last night I did it again..I really hate myself for this...

    • @msmsmarissa
      @msmsmarissa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@nanananna9667 it's only one day..you didn't throw everything away! Don't hate yourself, just try again

  • @TheFlacapreciosa
    @TheFlacapreciosa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    My soul is naked and spirit is broken. This song was able to rip tears out of my eyes that I didn't even know I'd been holding back.

  • @Adhdgem
    @Adhdgem 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    When a song puts yourself into perspective and you know things have got to change.

  • @flathanger
    @flathanger 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This song found me. I've been listening for months. It's my go to when I need that reminder to fix myself before trying to help others.

  • @paruparo9750
    @paruparo9750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    to anyone who's listening to this with me, i hope you know that you are loved. you are enough. you are worthy of being loved and you should be kind to yourself, too. you can do that. when you feel that no one's there to fix you, you can come back to this song and remember that you are your own fixer... and you don't have to fix others.

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      💚💚💚

    • @whatachick83
      @whatachick83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This is exactly what I needed to see today, I have not been kind to myself lately. Thank you

    • @shaniceamira4201
      @shaniceamira4201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I cried after this comment 😭

    • @marysunshyne7375
      @marysunshyne7375 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you much

  • @amyedison8780
    @amyedison8780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    Lyrics:
    She's a fixer with no one to fix her
    She's a lover who won't love herself
    She's a heartbreak away from a horrible place
    'Cause fixers never fix themselves
    She's a fighter with no one beside her
    In a corner alone on the ropes
    She's a let down away from a terrible place
    She'll fix every scar but her own
    Oh, she fixes the lonely, fixes the broke
    But tends to forget who needs fixin' the most
    Buried in bandages, hiding the hell
    'Cause fixers never fix themselves
    She's a liar, a calm to the fire
    Shamed when we all follow suit
    She's a whisper away from a dangerous place
    'Cause lies aren't a fix for the truth
    Oh, she fixes the lonely, fixes the broke
    But tends to forget who need fixin' the most
    Packed with prescriptions, disguising the hell
    'Cause fixers never fix themselves
    She's a handful
    A whole lot to handle
    But worth every thorn in my side
    She's a sunset away from the darkest of days
    No fix for the fixer tonight
    She's a sunset away from the darkest of days
    No fix for the fixer tonight

  • @Vixen86ed46
    @Vixen86ed46 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you for such a beautiful lyrically written song from those who are highly sensitive and dealing with depression. This is a masterpiece the world needs to hear. We are all creatures of habit. Some of us just get sick in a continuous loop until someone is courageous enough to see the beauty beneath the broken!!

  • @feathershinecreations1636
    @feathershinecreations1636 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Beautiful lyrics.

  • @southerncross5360
    @southerncross5360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    I became the Fixer early in life, I was as a child when I was powerlessness over my mother’s mental and emotional health. When I was young the stigma of mental health problems meant my family survived by learning to hide the truth about the hell we were living behind closed doors. My mother was institutionalized many times, all her breakdowns and outbursts, being present or finding her after multiple suicide attempts, I was the daughter who learned to carry the burdens of others. Our family was about rescuing my mother in order to save our whole family. Over time I was conditioned to fix problems. So I’d respond to certain things like when I heard "I can't" that meant they can't, so I assumed the role that "I can". I saw my father as Superhero who always helped our family. I wanted to be like him so I helped him, I was the little superhero I assumed that role costume and all. It meant I was good and worthy for helping my family like my father. I spent many years in chaos where I learned to believe that’s what families, especially parents do, they help one another. Marriage meant in sickness and in health but that meant sacrificing my needs and myself. I was conditioned to carry the weight of others, and their problems. It takes a toll over the years as it became too heavy at times making me angry, and resentful when I couldn’t help the people I loved. I thought being needed was being loved. I placed the needs of others above myself sacrificing time and energy from my own life to help others on their path forgetting my own since I was a young child. I did like fairytales but I learned quickly the stories many girls are told are lies. People who become fixers learn that the only real way to connect with others is to rescue them and or fix them not realizing the cost is too much to carry and heartbreaks too many. I lived this life for over 40 years. The hardest thing I did was something nobody in my family had done before, I divorced my husband of 20 years, he became an alcoholic, and his anger grew with age. I believed for years if I did this or that he would change, but he didn’t want to change.
    I couldn’t make him care about me or our children, that was his job. It’s exhausting watching your family fall apart. I even felt guilty when he got in trouble, lost his job, went to jail, he had girlfriends who harassed me and my children. That wasn’t my mess to fix nor clean up so i quit helping him. The mess was his, he made that choice when he didn’t want to fix anything when he had that choice or he had to leave. He chose to leave our family behind. He looked for women like me, anyone to take care of him. I learned the hard way that it wasn’t my job to make him better. It’s hard to know my children suffer with the fact he left and the choices I made that kept him around too long. I know now that what he does is his choice and his problem. There’s times i feel the need to watch from afar and say it’s about our children but I know it’s me. Truth that’s hard to accept is that if he loved me or our children he would have stayed. His choices are not mine, his burdens of his choice aren’t mine either. I hope others realize their self worth and their identity is not found in someone else, and free themselves from a life in chains. I spent too many years caring for people who didn’t care for me. It’s hard to comprehend and heal the brokenness caused by giving your all to love someone and it’s not returned. Do not be a doormat or assume your own identity in someone else. If this is you know you’re drawn to unhealthy relationships, attracted like a magnet for anyone needing a rescue, it’s a vicious cycle, a cycle that has to be broken. You must love yourself before you can love someone else. Most important message I’ve heard in a song, thank you!

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Thanks for this comment!! Much love 💚

    • @emillyanyango805
      @emillyanyango805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      😊your strong and I got a lot from you

    • @Riverstar03
      @Riverstar03 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m sorry you’ve had to go through so much, and I know it’s hard to carry other people’s burdens and feel like they are more important than what you go through. It makes me glad to know there is more people that deal with the same things as me, and I’m glad you’ve kept going, even through all of that. I love you and you are so strong, I hope you find something and someone that makes you happy💕

    • @veronica1689
      @veronica1689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How are you? Hope you’re well and taking care of yourself

    • @deeanaholyoak3127
      @deeanaholyoak3127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You have found a way to so eloquently reach me with your story. Validated me in ways I didn't even know I needed. It is times like these that I love the internet. 🎶 " I guess you're just what I needed!" 🎵 - she sang in her head. 😊 Thank you. ❤

  • @Hevvers
    @Hevvers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Damn this made me emotional. This song is relatable as hell

  • @tenshi_senpai9854
    @tenshi_senpai9854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It really does get tiring comforting others because you dont want them to feel the pain you've been feeling but no ones doing the same for you

  • @Afauzanew
    @Afauzanew 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This song has a very deep meaning. 😭 love you Mom 🥺🥺🥺❤

  • @jillianjoys1443
    @jillianjoys1443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    You wrote this for me. No question. I’m her. The bleeding heart fixer of everyone. Yet drowning in my silence

  • @In8n8
    @In8n8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    I've never felt so understood in my life. This song makes me feel relieved whenever I feel stressed. Thank you!

  • @sweetmanggo4070
    @sweetmanggo4070 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks to Brent Morgan, whenever I feel like there's no room for me anymore, I come to his channel, and feel better in the end. God bless you because you may have saved many lives0

  • @strawberryteapot
    @strawberryteapot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "She's a let down away from a terrible place" got me

  • @munkyzzb7504
    @munkyzzb7504 3 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    I'm always trying to help ppl probably cause I can't help myself..

  • @fecalla4771
    @fecalla4771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Who else didn't want to miss a single line because when you heard the first line you already know that this song is all about youuu. 💓💓

  • @nativeamericanfeather9948
    @nativeamericanfeather9948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Beautiful❤️ I'm a broken fixer. I make others smile as I hide pain,I'm there for others as I fight demons alone.I've given sunsets to others,there isn't any left for me♡ seeing them shine makes me happy❤ God Bless the kind hearted & the broken fixers

  • @elanzablignaut7870
    @elanzablignaut7870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Most beautiful song ,awesome

  • @Lylia9000
    @Lylia9000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2390

    Admit it, you didn’t look for this song. It just found you and now you get to cry by yourself cuz it’s probably not the best that you relate lol. ;w;
    Edit: Whoa that's a lot of likes...

  • @alyssasamarro482
    @alyssasamarro482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    It's sad that we instantly have a name in our minds the moment we heard this song. I hope everyone finds someone who's willing to fix them and have someone to fix them.

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💚💚💚

    • @bloodysovy8026
      @bloodysovy8026 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's my mom, man. I just don't know how to help her sometimes, because she doesn't let me.

  • @katrinagutgsell6390
    @katrinagutgsell6390 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I was always told I was a fixer, even though I was the most broken inside. I was fighting my own battles and didn't feel like anyone was there to help me. This song relates to me so much. Thank you so much for such a beautiful song as this one.

  • @shirahivans9900
    @shirahivans9900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hands down... this is a beautiful song 🥰

  • @maryph4255
    @maryph4255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +399

    When youtube recommendations know you better than your friends.

  • @rainebeaumeyers8743
    @rainebeaumeyers8743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I never knew this song existed and now that I am sitting here raw, broken, and frustrated I feel like I just learned alot about myself. Thank you. -A fixer

  • @mayrii5362
    @mayrii5362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I.. cried.. thank you for this beautiful song.

  • @fleurpouvior2967
    @fleurpouvior2967 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My experience, is it's the hurt that makes us fixers. We know how bad it feels and how much it hurts, so we work, and fight like hell to keep others from that pain. I hurt, and someday it might kill me. But until then I can do everything in my power to make it mean something.
    Tell a stranger their outfit looks amazing and the color brings out their eyes. They might really need it.

  • @malissahayes1910
    @malissahayes1910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    My daughter told me to listen to this, after a traumatic event. I’m in tears!! 🥺 do the work!! Stand tall, even when it hurts it’s worth the work! Tape and glue only works for so long!

  • @kinseystokes4158
    @kinseystokes4158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I feel noticed when listening to this song. I'm listening to this everyday from now on and showing all my friends that need to hear it

  • @MysteriousMisfit
    @MysteriousMisfit ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful

  • @Theintuitivefairy
    @Theintuitivefairy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've only just today heard your music. Wow. Beautiful. Love from South uk xx

  • @lettygonzales2552
    @lettygonzales2552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I can’t listen to this without crying! 🎁It’s so meee!! A I agree, us empaths feel the pain and don’t worry about our own. Thank you for this beautiful beautiful blessing🥺❤️

  • @enamiibk715
    @enamiibk715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This is not just a song,this is a feeling 💜

  • @arvopraiseambrose244
    @arvopraiseambrose244 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So me... And I'm just hearing it for the first time. I keep making people smile but no one knows the storms I battle alone.

  • @SurfinLifeCaliGurl
    @SurfinLifeCaliGurl 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well, I certainly feel called out!! Beautifully tragic song that a lot of us who are healer’s that can’t heal ourselves but we absorb the suffering of others to lighten their burden.

  • @OscarMartinez-yx2hn
    @OscarMartinez-yx2hn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Super relatable as a male, my whole life story tbh. Ive always found it easy to help others but can never help myself. I choose others over me, i mean I am even pursuing a career in psychology... this song hits hard tbh

    • @mysterious7092
      @mysterious7092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen,which is how i became a doormat.Now only more focused on myself.

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can relate!

    • @the_sky_is_blue_and_so_am_I
      @the_sky_is_blue_and_so_am_I 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      U guys i hope this makes it to the top im a female but i hope u find someone to help fix u ♥

  • @julia-xz5ig
    @julia-xz5ig 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Much love to all Fixers who are trying their best to fix others and to survive this world

  • @missidefran8142
    @missidefran8142 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Does anyone else feel so comforted by this??

  • @hannahcaunga9511
    @hannahcaunga9511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I Really Love this Song it made me feel like Someone's Understand my Side.. really appreciated the lyrics and Brent Morgan Voice ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ilivetospiteothers9327
    @ilivetospiteothers9327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    "She's a lover, who won't love herself"
    Calling me out again I see

  • @cezarailincastanciu8780
    @cezarailincastanciu8780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Finished my therapy session, left crying and disturbed with thousands of questions, take out my phone, open TH-cam, this song pops up first. Damn you life with your coincidences, thank you!

  • @jhazelavilagentiles6845
    @jhazelavilagentiles6845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My friends tend to forget I need a fixer too!!

  • @rainewhitefield6923
    @rainewhitefield6923 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Powerful song 🎵 ❤

  • @t13434o
    @t13434o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I prayed for healing and comfort and this is what I got. Thank you!

  • @Snow17Kero
    @Snow17Kero 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Sitting here feeling numb and came across this song. I'm crying. I lost my myself in healing someone else and loving him too.
    Really loved these words sang.

  • @autumn2845
    @autumn2845 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's been over 2 years and each time this song plays, silent tears still flow without fail. The warmth from feeling seen turns into ache from becoming aware of my reality all over again. It is strong enough to lift the heaviest floodgates. Thank you, Brent. 💜

  • @ma.maricarpalco3926
    @ma.maricarpalco3926 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I tend to fix my friends problems, help them fix themselves but when im broke i couldnt even apply not even one of those things and words i used to give them. It's always easy to fix others and seems hard to fix your own self, hope we find genuine fixer who will fix us too😌

  • @anaholanda2515
    @anaholanda2515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    As an INFJ I can relate to this song in a spiritual level lol

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Much love ❤️

    • @ursulasolo8628
      @ursulasolo8628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I am too an infj n no one gets us or how deep our emotions n spiritual souls run deep but this song portrays the love we always strive to give n yet never seem to receive in the end! Blessings to u on our lonely n painful journey..

    • @lmao6919
      @lmao6919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It's literally the perfect INFJ song

    • @sorachanpaints583
      @sorachanpaints583 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Infp too

    • @amruthavalli1260
      @amruthavalli1260 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ikr, it hurts so much

  • @thefriendzonedpanda2100
    @thefriendzonedpanda2100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I don't even know why I'm here. But I'm crying when he sang the first line. And now I'm a crying mess. This song made me realize that I was always the "shoulder to cry on," the one who's always available and "one call away" and the one who listens to either the loudest rants or most silent chaos, but no one bothers to do the same for me.

    • @MoiraDelie
      @MoiraDelie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome to the club....

    • @siennapayne9485
      @siennapayne9485 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are not alone ❤ I know it's hard but you are loved and I'm here fighting just like you are

    • @aiosquadron
      @aiosquadron ปีที่แล้ว

      For me, it's not that nobody bothers to do the same for me... It's that I'm always too reluctant to reach out for their help until I'm super close to the despair even horizon...

  • @Rkz-rv7ys
    @Rkz-rv7ys ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This song got me thinking and drifting to all kinds of places . What a beautiful song 🎵

  • @angelahigham3322
    @angelahigham3322 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Am going threw recovery an I listen to 3 songs every morning to start my recovery na course some days love them thanks Brent x

  • @bubbletea6617
    @bubbletea6617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    its like when you hold everyone up to realize that your drowning and there's no one to hold you up.

  • @alissa9862
    @alissa9862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This song is so beautiful. This year I have faced being abused my husband, missing my son who would of been 2, I didn’t get to see my step daughter, I lost my job, he took the car, and I blamed myself for it all. I’m finally looking forward and trying to care for myself, and this reminds me I can’t help others if I don’t care for myself ❤️ I found my new repeat 🥰

    • @BrentMorganMusic
      @BrentMorganMusic  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thanks alissa!!!!

    • @rebeccacecil-wiley9205
      @rebeccacecil-wiley9205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You hang in there sweetei. I'm a former fixer and former abused woman. You can do anything you put your mind to!

    • @TheWinningNadz
      @TheWinningNadz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm sorry about all of this! There's a world still full of joy and love- it's for you❤❤

  • @aindirh
    @aindirh 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mom and dad is the best fixer I ever met :) Love them a lots!

  • @jamiekelly717
    @jamiekelly717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve never heard a more incredibly true song! Wow!!
    I can’t stop replaying!

  • @PokeJenn97
    @PokeJenn97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I study counselling psychology and counsel some people myself. While we are taught the importance of self care and keeping ourselves happy etc, I'm going to share this with my program classmates. A lot of them will resonate and others maybe can use this song to help put what the clients feel into words

  • @coolbeansdude2528
    @coolbeansdude2528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This song makes me think of my mom. Love her so much. Hope she never grows old

  • @jhasmedina305
    @jhasmedina305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This hit home run. Glad I stumbled upon this.

  • @ramchaorinhungyo8232
    @ramchaorinhungyo8232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The first 2 lines started and my tears started to roll down endlessly!! I don't know why listening to this, makes me feels like someone is comforting me.