"Men will settle for anything they get." This is true for most men under 40. After 40 years old men become very selective and women become less selective.
But people over 40 are almost always less attractive than when they were in their 20s and 30s and most people are settled by that age so there’s fewer options, so unless you are suddenly extremely rich in your 40s and looking for a woman to pretend to be attracted to you to gain access to your money then this isn’t a smart mentality. You don’t want to be one of those 40 year olds that thinks he is 20 at the club that all the girls are laughing at and trying to avoid.
@@emeraldalice8388 Women are naturally attracted to older men. So no, it does not work that way with men. Most men peak at about 50 yrs. I do advise men to work out and stay in shape.
One thing I learned early on, is that only complement a woman on something she controls, not what she is. Something like: Wow! you work so hard, it makes me tired just watching you."
@@ManhoodZone Borrow away, I don't own it. My target lady apologizes when I say thaT, Not only is she humble, and hard working,, which is charming, But she never pickes up on my humor, She's always GI about everything, I try a lottle banter and she takes it serious.
@@joebeta1837 Well, you know… There are attractive women in this world (for fun) and serious women (for marriage). We, as men, have to deal with that 😎
All of this confirms what I already know. Women are way too complicated. I’m only halfway through the list and I already have a splitting headache…… I’m good
Making her fall for you will make more issues for you then you really don't need. I'm not saying this from a young man's point of view which I condone go get her you have to experience and learn, but I am in the autumn of a very seasoned life and I like to keep things simple and unencumbered.
6:35 Telling her how you feel too soon takes the mystery, tension, and mental challenge out of the situation. It pops the balloon. Every woman's biggest fantasy is telling a guy her feelings about him. You're robbing her of that special moment. Instead, take her through it. She'll think it was her idea to fall for you. "We love to buy, but we hate to be sold." It has to be under the radar.
Why do women have to be so complicated??? I live alone in my own house. I'd love to have a woman by my side, of course, but you know what? If it's going to be a headache, I'd rather keep living alone. I'm very happy living this way.
@@ghanna7787 You're exactly right. I love women; I'm just not compatible with them. They do slow me down and ultimately, make me live unhappy. Sure, some will say that you (I) control my own happiness, not someone else. Not with a woman.
As a single man last 25 years the main thing is just walk up to any woman start talking to her and be friendly create a quick friendly conversation make her smile, then walk away that will Peak her interest and she will come to you❤
I was in a big bar last month and passed a group of ladies, noticed one give me a second look. When I walked by again a few minutes later I struck up a quick conversation (asked if I could set my drink down in her vicinity for a bit while I went outside to take a call). Came back in, grabbed my drink, said thanks. Then , " by the way, you're adorable" and walked away. She smiled and seemed a bit surprised. She didn't come looking for me.
NOT GIVING ATTENTION IS THE WORST ADVICE CAN BE GIVEN. JUST SAY, NOT THIS TIME - MAYBE NEXT TIME - WOULD YOU DO IT, IF YOU WERE IN MY PLACE? - DO ' ' YOU ' ' FIND THAT RIGHT - TRUE - WORKABLE . . . ?? THIS STYLE, SURE CAME IN FOR ME. IT WORKS FOR ME, IT MAY WORK FOR YOU / FOR OTHERS TOO.
It's a challenge the matter how careful you attempt to know someone more..great if we get through barriers..but the greatest if you stay compatible and relationship lasts.
Are you sure about what you're saying? I tried all this since my college days, and now at 64, there's no chance for this guy as the majority of girls 28 to 60 are used up and dilapidated!
One thing I like doing is saying, "Wow, you're winning a lot of (my first name) points with that!" It's a fun way to both complement something she does, and frame it as her playing the game of winning you over, not the other way around.
YOU MY FRIEND @sammark9146 Now you do know, what your talking of. just don't be too ofensive, or things your relationship will be ruined? Some - some women are keep saying; = Ahhh guys? who needs them . . . but when they get that, hm - hm, certain urge? Na - ahh, not htem? They need us guys / men, much a lot much more, than we need them girls / women!! = F A C T !! - !! And i'm not an egoist, I'm a realist!! - !1
True love is, when - 2 - person man & women are having mutual emotions toward each other. - when they sacrafice some things by love, to express love, for their counter parts.#3- Do communicate, talk out complications - plans - misunderstandings & come to a common understanding?mTha will asure both partys, of long, very long ter good relationship. Yes, yes I know, it's quicker & easier to say, thsan to do, but hey, it c a n b e d o n e!
Why is nobody commenting on how those two tips that he mention in the middle of the video, like how to hold her hand and this word to say, were actually never covered in the remainder of the video? Also, clickbait title. That "THIS" word is never revealed.
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COMPLET - TOTAL - EXACT TRUTH AND HONESTY, NEVER DID & NEVER WILL COME OUT, FROM - 1 - GIRL - LADY / WOMEN. YET - YET THEY WANT ALL THESE FROM US GUYS?THEY WANT PRACTICALY EVERYHTING, STRICTLY THEIR WAY. ONE OF THEM PUT FROSTING ON IT, THE OTHER COLORING BUT THEY ARE THE SZME IDEA? THEY ALL WAN'T TO TRICK GUYS = SOUNDS UGLY, BUT TRUE, THEY WANT TO OUT PLAY MEN / GUYS = TO OUT SMART - TO PLAY DIRTY TRICKS! ARE THY SURPRISED, WHY GUYS ARE LOOKING FOR NATURAL TRUTHFUL - BETTER GIRLS / /WOMEN! WELL DAHH - LINGS, THIS ALL SHOULD ANSWER! MOST - 93% OF WOMEN ARE SPOILED RUTTEN THEY SPOIL THEMSELVES AND THEY GIVE FALS IMAGES OF THEMSELVES! THINK ABOUT IT??!
Look for a women that does not spend most of her day painting toenails or sitting in front of the mirror. A good place is finding her volunteering at a Children's hospital or feed at a homeless shelter
Good point. I've watched enough videos here on you tube where women talk about how much they spend on themselves ($300 for nails, $800 for beauty products ?!?!?) and how they say they are 10's and perceive themselves as 'high value' women who deserve to be treated like queens - when in fact, they are merely high-maintenance. In my mind, such smokin' hot chicks who look like a $$$million are actually very low value women.
I dated a woman for about three weeks. I dated a few women between 18 and 21. But this woman, I totally fell in love with everything about her. After three weeks, I told her I was in love with her and no matter hell or high water I intended to Marry her. We did get hitched and now we have been hitched for 58 wonderful years. We had three children. What do you think of your way of reading minds? I would be interested!!
Love is transactional, temporary & tempermental - sure - you 'love' her.... she 'loves' chaos - drama - trauma - toxicity - danger - unexpected risk .... She is never yours - it is just your turn (maybe)
Yeah, if she into jerks not real men that we know how to treat a woman but she also always being picky such as not 6'1" she does not want you which is fine because I do not want her...
Gentlemen.. make sure you have YOUR life in oder. Have a Hobbie, be physically involved with conditioning, know how to cook some, know how to clean your house, know you skills to the fullest, know how to speak to other ... all this is for you own personal reasons not for a lady . But ! The benefits of knowing alot is key ! Women see that and chase you ..not the other way aroun let them want you . Always always be on top of your game .. its common sense.
Guys stop validating women… Don’t ever tell them you like them… Do not initiate contact… Don’t try to hold her hand… All you’re doing is showing how weak you are. … Let her pursue… Let her do those things… When you start doing this it just shows that you’re insecure and trying to see where she stands with you… Which shows your lack confidence🙄
U can do that in a subtle way, if u let her initiate it'll look like she's the man in a relationship. U need to lead her, and as a man u need to initiate, but do it in a subtle-playful way
I've done everything you've said many times throughout my lifetime. Do you know where I end up? Going back home alone, while the alpha male in school, or college, or conference, or at a workplace gets her instead. It's true.
Nah. I got a girl I'm looking at and I know she'd take most compliments as a pick up line. What you want her to feel is that you truly see her as she is, a whole person, not just for her looks. This girl, who's a fellow NCO in my reserve unit, is quite attractive, recently told me she feels like I'm the only one who really sees her. That's a powerful thing for us both. She feels safe with me and I know I'm doing the right thing(s) for her. All the other guys fawn over her because she's a knockout, but it's always obvious they're just there to look at her.
Like every other man, I'm still figuring out things. Sometime I need to be reminded of what I already learned. In your case, one of reasons women break up is because they no longer see anything to invest in the man. It's about the balance. You have to be the fish man and make fish believe the bait is still worth investing in. I assume that you play way too hard. It sucks because it boils down to playing games with women. Hopefully one day we master of naturally getting women to chase us without any efforts.
This is 100% failure when you are dating a high value woman. She knw all of these before you do these. She uses her mind not heart. Thus you cant play with her. If she knew/confirmed that youre playing games, she will dump you, even end the marriage. Not worth her time.
@@natureloverdude You were born an alpha male and you didn't know it. It was movies and television shows that taught you how to treat women and hence your brain was re-wired to become beta male. What we are doing, we are gradually reversing the brain damage. If it feel stressful, it is because we still have the beta wires. Keep trying to understand women and eventually once you understood women, you no longer care about them and hence it won't feel stressful because it become natural to you.
To many games being played and guys are confused, women want a man who is authentic rather than one who is trying too hard to look Alpha, when in reality is a beta, i think that if you're full blown beta who put women on a pedestal you need to add Alpha qualities and vice versa an Alpha male needs to have some beta qualities by showing you're a good person by occasionally put her on a pedestal but not excessively, beta's need to master the ability and the fortitude to not treat a women like she's a trophy they just won in a contest but to treat her like a human being and not a god to worshp
Yeah you really don't know women. Authentic is what a woman wants until it becomes boring then it's something else. Modern women have a billion choices and safety nets for them. Women are shallow, so trying too pin them down on anything they might want, is kinda foolish. When you're dealing with women just realize that you're just this seasons shoes she picked out.
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Bobby is right on Target when he says this has to be used sparingly. I must say I do use these techniques alot especially the one where she has to imagine because that is the great place where women go - they see the 20% and imagine the other 80% so you can divert them away from reality to generate that happy feeling they want. Hence why a guy who isn't really attractive can turn the table around by using his skills of personality .
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Everyone is different, say things that she likes hear and don’t say and do things that she doesn’t like. Pay attention to her reaction and listen how she talk to others.
Whether they're lying or not, it doesn't matter. She wants to make it clear to that man that either she is in a relationship after all, or she's not interested in you, or doesn't want a man in her life. Whatever the case is, she's not interested.
The only thing i don't like about this channel is every single title of the videos are pointing to the same intention, but within the video, an entirely new topic is discussed. I honestly get confused about which one to watch. since you have already told us about the selector & selectee, I think you already know why you need need to change your video title naming strategy. if you need inspiration or examples, a channel that comes to my mind is dan bacon & thanku 4 everything you have been teaching us bobby
I appreciate your feedback and comment. I understand what you're saying. There is a balance when choosing a title between coming up with a clear indicator of what the video will cover, and a title that will entice someone to watch.
@@BobbyRio The part you mentioned "title that will entice someone to watch" this is attention grabbing, I admit it. but as i mentioned earlier you can still improve your CTA + having titles that clearly defines the intent. thanku
Tried it. Went into a bar, started saying "This!" "This!" "This!" in the direction of several girls in a loud voice. Well, the bouncer chased me alright...to the exit.
I got a phyco gf. She broke up with me twice.She says she doesn't love me but she might fall in love with me. And i love her.Thats why i maintaining this relationship with her.She shares everything with me and we always talk like we love each other. But she never confess me that she love me. I'm so insecure about this relationship. Can anyone help me about this situation.
@@skarhead7597 but i love her that's the fucking problem. Whenever i tried to make a distance she wants to get closer. We see each other regular in coaching and she keeps talking with me that makes me feel emotion towards her.
After a min or so , something he said kept coming clearly into focus & that was the term mental anguish, look I'd just like it if I met a lass and we get on pleasently with each other and we both got to carry on with some scenes of joy,happyness, contentment. I certainly ain't wanting to be feeling anguish or stressing about do I have her sussed out am I playing the right head game for our happiness at the moment,that sounds more like a kind of hell really,what ever floats your boat I guess.
Interesting Videos Bobby, i would like to see an in depth how to get your girl back, when you finished the relationship. Shes very interested, but im not there yet. and feel like im messing things up. Cheers from the UK..
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It's seems like myself and my friend date women who do not text back for days or weeks. He asked why the game. I said I don't know. Any thoughts. I did date one that was respectful.
As a woman. There is no special technique or secret. If she likes you, she likes you. If she doesn't. She doesn't. And there are honestly way too many different types of women to say there is a single magic formula. I've always been a chaser. But I have female colleagues who are the opposite and want the man to chase them. If you have the later as your love interest. You can honestly only chase if you meet her requirements. On the flip side if your interest is a girl who chases, then maybe some of these techniques will work but you would already know before you even try, if she is into you or not. I don't like games so I often just tell people I'm interested in how I feel. Don't play mind games!!! Sending mixed messages will most likely make her look for someone else who is actually showing interest in her.
Hey Bobby, love your videos all time and wanted to ask do you offer one on one coaching? Im kinda in a very rare and different situation and think you can help me
Great question! It's like the psychologist who provides therapy, but when she is going through infidelity issues herself, she gets depressed just like her clients. You'd think the psychologist would be able to manage her condition faster, but nah. I'm thinking Bobby can a get a girl, maybe two.
The description that I understood, is like two magnets never put the same polarities together at first. Keep it to south and north, then as the relationship is more understanding and mutual now is the moment to stick the magnets together.
Cover what you said you were going to talk about in this video. Three times you said you were going to get back to it in a minute and three or four minutes later the video ends and you never got back to it.
My thoughts are all these techniques are not going to work with every female. Yes there are some relatively good ones that are presented here but here is the caveat. Ask yourselves where do you meet these women to begin with where feel the need to constantly implement these techniques. Think about it-you're actually then walking on egg shells. Bars and Clubs are the worse places to meet women. Believe it or not there are alot of decent women out there who don't play games at all and are very straightforward with their feelings. You need to look for women who are emotionally stable and secure with themselves and opening up their feelings to you even if early on. So if you find a woman on an online dating site or a bar or club for that matter, your chances of possibly hitting roadblocks is going to be much greater for sure. Sometimes the best places to meet women could be at a restaurant, a bookstore, a shopping mall, Grocery store, a seminar, join a club, engage in a hobby. Take a course such as sculpting or something along that line. Taking a cooking class-you'll be surprised; take up ball room dancing. See what I am saying. Look I personally know women who hate the club and bar scenes because they really do want to meet the right person and they also know those places are not the right places to meet and ultimately be involved in a relationship. So to wrap this up where you meet is very important and make sure the woman you meet is "emotionally" stable from the getgo!
IF a woman does not like you, it does not matter what you say or not say, you have no chance. If a woman does like you and wants to be with you, then all you need to do is reciprocate her feelings and attention.
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Funny how you want to be single that you landed clicking on this video 😂
A high value woman doesn't cost you your peace. Your peace is the most valuable thing you can have. Do not trade it for anything.
I am beginning to agree with this view point. DRAMA AND EMOTIONAL CHAOS are too much to live with.
"Men will settle for anything they get." This is true for most men under 40. After 40 years old men become very selective and women become less selective.
At 60 we do not give a fook to have them under foot.
But people over 40 are almost always less attractive than when they were in their 20s and 30s and most people are settled by that age so there’s fewer options, so unless you are suddenly extremely rich in your 40s and looking for a woman to pretend to be attracted to you to gain access to your money then this isn’t a smart mentality. You don’t want to be one of those 40 year olds that thinks he is 20 at the club that all the girls are laughing at and trying to avoid.
if you are a women over 40 you are dead to men
@@emeraldalice8388 Women are naturally attracted to older men. So no, it does not work that way with men. Most men peak at about 50 yrs. I do advise men to work out and stay in shape.
So true I hit 41 years old your absolutely right
One thing I learned early on, is that only complement a woman on something she controls, not what she is. Something like: Wow! you work so hard, it makes me tired just watching you."
Taking notes
That's the smartest way to compliment a woman! Mind if I borrow your advice?
@@ManhoodZone Borrow away, I don't own it. My target lady apologizes when I say thaT, Not only is she humble, and hard working,, which is charming, But she never pickes up on my humor, She's always GI about everything, I try a lottle banter and she takes it serious.
Problem is, the attractive ones don't work that hard.
@@joebeta1837 Well, you know… There are attractive women in this world (for fun) and serious women (for marriage). We, as men, have to deal with that 😎
To much work , if we like each other cool , if not move on to the next one , end of story , nice n simple , later
My Aries sentiment exactly
All of this confirms what I already know. Women are way too complicated. I’m only halfway through the list and I already have a splitting headache…… I’m good
Making her fall for you will make more issues for you then you really don't need. I'm not saying this from a young man's point of view which I condone go get her you have to experience and learn, but I am in the autumn of a very seasoned life and I like to keep things simple and unencumbered.
*The psychology behind these phrases really opens up the conversation and makes women feel more intrigued.*
Telling her you like her too soon? They all are out for the “bigger better deal”. Tell her you are hers and she will look to upgrade to the next level
6:35 Telling her how you feel too soon takes the mystery, tension, and mental challenge out of the situation. It pops the balloon. Every woman's biggest fantasy is telling a guy her feelings about him. You're robbing her of that special moment. Instead, take her through it. She'll think it was her idea to fall for you. "We love to buy, but we hate to be sold." It has to be under the radar.
Why do women have to be so complicated???
I live alone in my own house. I'd love to have a woman by my side, of course, but you know what? If it's going to be a headache, I'd rather keep living alone. I'm very happy living this way.
My exact thoughts. Totally not worth the headaches nor my happiness
We're domesticated to think men need women. Women slow me down both physically and most importantly, mentally.
@@ghanna7787 You're exactly right. I love women; I'm just not compatible with them. They do slow me down and ultimately, make me live unhappy.
Sure, some will say that you (I) control my own happiness, not someone else.
Not with a woman.
Great job bro
Most women out there they're so selfish
Agreed.
Why buy when you can rent or lease?
As a single man last 25 years the main thing is just walk up to any woman start talking to her and be friendly create a quick friendly conversation make her smile, then walk away that will Peak her interest and she will come to you❤
If that were true, then you wouldn't be single the last 25 years
I was in a big bar last month and passed a group of ladies, noticed one give me a second look. When I walked by again a few minutes later I struck up a quick conversation (asked if I could set my drink down in her vicinity for a bit while I went outside to take a call). Came back in, grabbed my drink, said thanks. Then , " by the way, you're adorable" and walked away. She smiled and seemed a bit surprised.
She didn't come looking for me.
the #1 thing you can do is not give them attention.
That only works for so long. It also backfires with some women, especially the ones that have estranged relationships with their fathers
NOT GIVING ATTENTION IS THE WORST ADVICE CAN BE GIVEN. JUST SAY, NOT THIS TIME - MAYBE NEXT TIME - WOULD YOU DO IT, IF YOU WERE IN MY PLACE? - DO ' ' YOU ' ' FIND THAT RIGHT - TRUE - WORKABLE . . . ?? THIS STYLE, SURE CAME IN FOR ME. IT WORKS FOR ME, IT MAY WORK FOR YOU / FOR OTHERS TOO.
It's a challenge the matter how careful you attempt to know someone more..great if we get through barriers..but the greatest if you stay compatible and relationship lasts.
Are you sure about what you're saying? I tried all this since my college days, and now at 64, there's no chance for this guy as the majority of girls 28 to 60 are used up and dilapidated!
He's so full of shit his eyes are brown.
One thing I like doing is saying, "Wow, you're winning a lot of (my first name) points with that!" It's a fun way to both complement something she does, and frame it as her playing the game of winning you over, not the other way around.
good stuff!
YOU MY FRIEND @sammark9146 Now you do know, what your talking of. just don't be too ofensive, or things your relationship will be ruined? Some - some women are keep saying; = Ahhh guys? who needs them . . . but when they get that, hm - hm, certain urge? Na - ahh, not htem? They need us guys / men, much a lot much more, than we need them girls / women!! = F A C T !! - !! And i'm not an egoist, I'm a realist!! - !1
Don't fall for anyone. This falsehood of love needs to stop. It's not a game to practice or play.
True love is, when - 2 - person man & women are having mutual emotions toward each other. - when they sacrafice some things by love, to express love, for their counter parts.#3- Do communicate, talk out complications - plans - misunderstandings & come to a common understanding?mTha will asure both partys, of long, very long ter good relationship. Yes, yes I know, it's quicker & easier to say, thsan to do, but hey, it c a n b e d o n e!
They're dreamkillers fellas...
They don't, quote,..... Allow you to say anything. As they don't want to hear it.
IS DREAM THE KEY WORD
Truth!
Why is nobody commenting on how those two tips that he mention in the middle of the video, like how to hold her hand and this word to say, were actually never covered in the remainder of the video?
Also, clickbait title. That "THIS" word is never revealed.
Wow....every woman wants to confess her feelings and we rob her of that. Good Stuff Rob
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COMPLET - TOTAL - EXACT TRUTH AND HONESTY, NEVER DID & NEVER WILL COME OUT, FROM - 1 - GIRL - LADY / WOMEN. YET - YET THEY WANT ALL THESE FROM US GUYS?THEY WANT PRACTICALY EVERYHTING, STRICTLY THEIR WAY. ONE OF THEM PUT FROSTING ON IT, THE OTHER COLORING BUT THEY ARE THE SZME IDEA? THEY ALL WAN'T TO TRICK GUYS = SOUNDS UGLY, BUT TRUE, THEY WANT TO OUT PLAY MEN / GUYS = TO OUT SMART - TO PLAY DIRTY TRICKS! ARE THY SURPRISED, WHY GUYS ARE LOOKING FOR NATURAL TRUTHFUL - BETTER GIRLS / /WOMEN! WELL DAHH - LINGS, THIS ALL SHOULD ANSWER! MOST - 93% OF WOMEN ARE SPOILED RUTTEN THEY SPOIL THEMSELVES AND THEY GIVE FALS IMAGES OF THEMSELVES! THINK ABOUT IT??!
Look for a women that does not spend most of her day painting toenails or sitting in front of the mirror. A good place is finding her volunteering at a Children's hospital or feed at a homeless shelter
Good point. I've watched enough videos here on you tube where women talk about how much they spend on themselves ($300 for nails, $800 for beauty products ?!?!?) and how they say they are 10's and perceive themselves as 'high value' women who deserve to be treated like queens - when in fact, they are merely high-maintenance. In my mind, such smokin' hot chicks who look like a $$$million are actually very low value women.
I dated a woman for about three weeks. I dated a few women between 18 and 21.
But this woman,
I totally fell in love with everything about her. After three weeks, I told her I was in love with her and no matter hell or high water I intended to Marry her.
We did get hitched and now we have been hitched for 58 wonderful years. We had three children. What do you think of your way of reading minds? I would be interested!!
Love is transactional, temporary & tempermental - sure - you 'love' her.... she 'loves' chaos - drama - trauma - toxicity - danger - unexpected risk .... She is never yours - it is just your turn (maybe)
I'll stay single. Thank you
I wholeheartedly agree.
Yeah, if she into jerks not real men that we know how to treat a woman but she also always being picky such as not 6'1" she does not want you which is fine because I do not want her...
These guys are saying this while watching this video in the basement of their mommys house Jenking off to her sears catalog
@@ronniebenoit4081 stop it 😂😂😂
Everyone stay single
I just say hello, and they fall completely in love! Is what it is, I can’t make them not love me for saying hello.
Gentlemen.. make sure you have YOUR life in oder. Have a Hobbie, be physically involved with conditioning, know how to cook some, know how to clean your house, know you skills to the fullest, know how to speak to other ... all this is for you own personal reasons not for a lady . But ! The benefits of knowing alot is key ! Women see that and chase you ..not the other way aroun let them want you .
Always always be on top of your game .. its common sense.
❤
Sure, and be sure to wear a pretty dress and high heels!
stay single and be happy 👍🙏
@musa kashim good luck 😬
Gd right!😊
Yes
😂😂
Al Bundy said it first!
i always have to watch these videos about 3 times i can never take it all in
Yes they are like that
Bobby please make a video which motivates me to eliminate the fear of rejection from her.
Go get rejected 50 times. Ask any woman you see/interact with…. Out for coffee or wtvr.
Your absolutely correct, women need to confess their feelings first, it’s like this every time , it’s sad but you are right
My dear, confident, intelligent women, comfortable with their sense of personal value don't have time for mind games
Except there are only 3 of them.
Guys stop validating women… Don’t ever tell them you like them… Do not initiate contact… Don’t try to hold her hand… All you’re doing is showing how weak you are. … Let her pursue… Let her do those things… When you start doing this it just shows that you’re insecure and trying to see where she stands with you… Which shows your lack confidence🙄
Yeah sure pal
If that works for you 😉
I totally agree with you but there's a time for everything
U can do that in a subtle way, if u let her initiate it'll look like she's the man in a relationship. U need to lead her, and as a man u need to initiate, but do it in a subtle-playful way
Nothing wrong with holding hands, it's what couple's do naturally
I've done everything you've said many times throughout my lifetime.
Do you know where I end up? Going back home alone, while the alpha male in school, or college, or conference, or at a workplace gets her instead.
It's true.
Dear Bobby Rio... keep up the good work !!!
thanks, glad you finding helpful
Nah. I got a girl I'm looking at and I know she'd take most compliments as a pick up line. What you want her to feel is that you truly see her as she is, a whole person, not just for her looks.
This girl, who's a fellow NCO in my reserve unit, is quite attractive, recently told me she feels like I'm the only one who really sees her. That's a powerful thing for us both. She feels safe with me and I know I'm doing the right thing(s) for her. All the other guys fawn over her because she's a knockout, but it's always obvious they're just there to look at her.
Hope you tapping that ass now bro?
I’ve had women tell me they can’t figure me out, which according to you is good. However they still ended up breaking up with me. What did I do wrong?
Like every other man, I'm still figuring out things. Sometime I need to be reminded of what I already learned.
In your case, one of reasons women break up is because they no longer see anything to invest in the man.
It's about the balance. You have to be the fish man and make fish believe the bait is still worth investing in.
I assume that you play way too hard.
It sucks because it boils down to playing games with women. Hopefully one day we master of naturally getting women to chase us without any efforts.
@@kennethwood6439 are the games necessary? Isn't it stressful to the man?
This is 100% failure when you are dating a high value woman. She knw all of these before you do these. She uses her mind not heart. Thus you cant play with her. If she knew/confirmed that youre playing games, she will dump you, even end the marriage. Not worth her time.
@@natureloverdude You were born an alpha male and you didn't know it. It was movies and television shows that taught you how to treat women and hence your brain was re-wired to become beta male.
What we are doing, we are gradually reversing the brain damage. If it feel stressful, it is because we still have the beta wires. Keep trying to understand women and eventually once you understood women, you no longer care about them and hence it won't feel stressful because it become natural to you.
Once they do figure you out, they lose interest. Welcome to the club
To many games being played and guys are confused, women want a man who is authentic rather than one who is trying too hard to look Alpha, when in reality is a beta, i think that if you're full blown beta who put women on a pedestal you need to add Alpha qualities and vice versa an Alpha male needs to have some beta qualities by showing you're a good person by occasionally put her on a pedestal but not excessively, beta's need to master the ability and the fortitude to not treat a women like she's a trophy they just won in a contest but to treat her like a human being and not a god to worshp
Yeah you really don't know women. Authentic is what a woman wants until it becomes boring then it's something else. Modern women have a billion choices and safety nets for them. Women are shallow, so trying too pin them down on anything they might want, is kinda foolish. When you're dealing with women just realize that you're just this seasons shoes she picked out.
What can I say? One word. Money.
A lot of people in the comments act mad at him but he’s telling the truth it sucks you have to be that way but it is what it is
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Bobby is right on Target when he says this has to be used sparingly. I must say I do use these techniques alot especially the one where she has to imagine because that is the great place where women go - they see the 20% and imagine the other 80% so you can divert them away from reality to generate that happy feeling they want. Hence why a guy who isn't really attractive can turn the table around by using his skills of personality .
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Bobby; you've been spot on from when I 1st came through your channel around 2014. And you rarely age man. Cheers!
You must be shooting at some weak minded women. This guy and his advice makes him and you sound like "used car salesman" . This is an embarrassment.
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I'm trying to find out what not to say.
That was Really Great Advice Brother,, and you made it make Sense!!! I'll Be watching. More of Your Video's!!!
What's the advice in summary?
Just say "I won the Powerball Jackpot" will get that 99.9% to start chasing you. When they find out the truth, well...
it's good. It'll give her a "mental challenge"
😂😂😂😂
Everyone is different, say things that she likes hear and don’t say and do things that she doesn’t like. Pay attention to her reaction and listen how she talk to others.
Well, expected this to be another tedious dating advice video. Turned out to be pretty good.
Treat them mean keep them keen. 😊
Pretty much.
Bobby sir you changed my life
Can u pls cover this ? ….when ladies say they are in a relationship, how to detect if they were lying…
why do you want detect that?? if she says she is relationship,that means only one.turn ,and go away
Whether they're lying or not, it doesn't matter. She wants to make it clear to that man that either she is in a relationship after all, or she's not interested in you, or doesn't want a man in her life.
Whatever the case is, she's not interested.
This was timely. Thanks Bobby
YOU ARE REALLY GOOD. BEST I HAVE SEEN. THANK YOU.
Awesome insights! Your tips are intriguing and really shed light on building genuine connections. Looking forward to more!
I have come across tons of Channels similar to yours Bobby… but your since one of the best… detailed, well thought out and well presented👍👍👍
Just saw a video from THINKLE that stole this content word for word. Good content
thanks for pointing it out. just went and saw, crazy, they just duped it all. thanks
Where is the holding hand techinque?
Excellent as usual but you didn’t come back to the holding hands technique
Bobby Rio..I thought I saw a puddy cat!..I love this guy...great info...
I started off telling her her nails always look great then never said it again is that a good start
The only thing i don't like about this channel is every single title of the videos are pointing to the same intention, but within the video, an entirely new topic is discussed. I honestly get confused about which one to watch. since you have already told us about the selector & selectee, I think you already know why you need need to change your video title naming strategy. if you need inspiration or examples, a channel that comes to my mind is dan bacon & thanku 4 everything you have been teaching us bobby
I appreciate your feedback and comment. I understand what you're saying. There is a balance when choosing a title between coming up with a clear indicator of what the video will cover, and a title that will entice someone to watch.
@@BobbyRio The part you mentioned "title that will entice someone to watch" this is attention grabbing, I admit it. but as i mentioned earlier you can still improve your CTA + having titles that clearly defines the intent. thanku
Ok, so with all the games I gotta play, I’m not into it.
We love to buy but hate to be sold 🎯🎯🎯🎯
thank for your effort...but this is a lot of work and game to get a woman..
I'm with you on this brother.
Tell them you don't want them. Works every time
Love your knowledge bro🤣🤣 same happening with me ,in my office.i am playing the same game 🤣 love from India bro 🤣
Here’s an idea get hobbies you enjoy modern women are just not worth it anymore
This guy is so good , I'm scared.
That depend on the girl character and the environment where you reside
Tried it. Went into a bar, started saying "This!" "This!" "This!" in the direction of several girls in a loud voice. Well, the bouncer chased me alright...to the exit.
I saw a crowd of 1000 women, and I yelled "THIS!" and 999 tackled me. I just got out of the hospital and wanted to warn everyone.
@@j3ffn4v4rr0 most be one hell of a party brua 😎 😂
@@j3ffn4v4rr0 most be one hell of a party brua 😎 😂
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I got a phyco gf. She broke up with me twice.She says she doesn't love me but she might fall in love with me. And i love her.Thats why i maintaining this relationship with her.She shares everything with me and we always talk like we love each other. But she never confess me that she love me. I'm so insecure about this relationship. Can anyone help me about this situation.
Yes. LEAVE HER NOW. LOL @ trying to get closer to a "PSYCHO" GF that doesn't love you. Are you kidding ?
@@skarhead7597 but i love her that's the fucking problem. Whenever i tried to make a distance she wants to get closer. We see each other regular in coaching and she keeps talking with me that makes me feel emotion towards her.
Perhaps she using you cuz your simping to much and she's enjoying the free valadation
Run!! Run right now.
Bobby is so real you agree?
I don't believe Bobby is a real human. I believe he is a simulation sent here to destroy our planet..
After a min or so , something he said kept coming clearly into focus & that was the term mental anguish, look I'd just like it if I met a lass and we get on pleasently with each other and we both got to carry on with some scenes of joy,happyness, contentment.
I certainly ain't wanting to be feeling anguish or stressing about do I have her sussed out am I playing the right head game for our happiness at the moment,that sounds more like a kind of hell really,what ever floats your boat I guess.
Guys did anyone bought scrambler and does it work?
Bobby Rio is STILL THE MAN, even though he left the hand-holding technique - that he promised to divulge - on the cutting room floor!
He dropped off talking about several subjects in this video
Idk why i always come to these after i feel like ive already messed things up a bit lmao
Interesting Videos Bobby, i would like to see an in depth how to get your girl back, when you finished the relationship.
Shes very interested, but im not there yet. and feel like im messing things up. Cheers from the UK..
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You don't want them back, move on
I went up to several women and eagerly said "This" multiple times and they called me a weirdo and walked away.
Great content dude!!
This stuff seems like a lot of work until it finally and actually works 🔥 the shii is for real guys
He’s a “dating coach” 🤣
It's seems like myself and my friend date women who do not text back for days or weeks. He asked why the game. I said I don't know. Any thoughts.
I did date one that was respectful.
Because they (women) also are listening to dating coaches that are telling them to do that. To keep themselves a mystery.
@@illahee24 game
Bc they got other dudes
When did dating get so difficult 🤔
When online dating started
Bobby, the Honoury Psychologie Degree is in the post!
As a woman. There is no special technique or secret. If she likes you, she likes you. If she doesn't. She doesn't. And there are honestly way too many different types of women to say there is a single magic formula.
I've always been a chaser. But I have female colleagues who are the opposite and want the man to chase them. If you have the later as your love interest. You can honestly only chase if you meet her requirements. On the flip side if your interest is a girl who chases, then maybe some of these techniques will work but you would already know before you even try, if she is into you or not.
I don't like games so I often just tell people I'm interested in how I feel. Don't play mind games!!! Sending mixed messages will most likely make her look for someone else who is actually showing interest in her.
Hey Bobby, love your videos all time and wanted to ask do you offer one on one coaching? Im kinda in a very rare and different situation and think you can help me
Simple really… I have money and I will give it to you. Works like magic for all genders and all ages…
I respect you a lot. But isnt all this doesnt work if she is a narcist?
If she’s a narcissist don’t get involved with her! Run Forrest Run!!!
Ok, there's something that needs to be asked to this gentleman: how many of these things have worked for YOU?
Great question!
It's like the psychologist who provides therapy, but when she is going through infidelity issues herself, she gets depressed just like her clients.
You'd think the psychologist would be able to manage her condition faster, but nah.
I'm thinking Bobby can a get a girl, maybe two.
Zero
They'll consume all your energy and savings!!!
Stay safe... I meant stay single! Work hard, safe money and live simply.
I had a girl pretending she liked me. Found out she didn't was kinda creepy. Now I just smile extend middle finger.
I just say “Be Gone TH0T” … That always works for attraction
0:04 in and you've put me off going further.
What's wrong with sincere compliments, if you don't lay them on to thick?
Where was the hand holding technique? 🤔
How to stay single forever in five easy steps
The description that I understood, is like two magnets never put the same polarities together at first. Keep it to south and north, then as the relationship is more understanding and mutual now is the moment to stick the magnets together.
Cover what you said you were going to talk about in this video. Three times you said you were going to get back to it in a minute and three or four minutes later the video ends and you never got back to it.
You always have very good videos. Thanks
@collins sampson exactly all these numbers and signs are correct
If they know that they are not your only option works wonders.
My thoughts are all these techniques are not going to work with every female. Yes there are some relatively good ones that are presented here but here is the caveat. Ask yourselves where do you meet these women to begin with where feel the need to constantly implement these techniques. Think about it-you're actually then walking on egg shells. Bars and Clubs are the worse places to meet women. Believe it or not there are alot of decent women out there who don't play games at all and are very straightforward with their feelings. You need to look for women who are emotionally stable and secure with themselves and opening up their feelings to you even if early on. So if you find a woman on an online dating site or a bar or club for that matter, your chances of possibly hitting roadblocks is going to be much greater for sure. Sometimes the best places to meet women could be at a restaurant, a bookstore, a shopping mall, Grocery store, a seminar, join a club, engage in a hobby. Take a course such as sculpting or something along that line. Taking a cooking class-you'll be surprised; take up ball room dancing. See what I am saying. Look I personally know women who hate the club and bar scenes because they really do want to meet the right person and they also know those places are not the right places to meet and ultimately be involved in a relationship. So to wrap this up where you meet is very important and make sure the woman you meet is "emotionally" stable from the getgo!
Hi Bob, apperantly apocalypse survival kit cannot be purchased with cards from certain countries. Do you wanna make it paypal option or smth?
IF a woman does not like you, it does not matter what you say or not say, you have no chance.
If a woman does like you and wants to be with you, then all you need to do is reciprocate her feelings and attention.