15:20 is the core of the video. "Any girl you like will meet men who look better than you but the package of multiple things that you offer her combined is very very difficult for her to find in some other random guy"
I can confirm; being very good looking without 'the rest' doesn't win the race. I used to do modelling, and would be considered somewhere between a 9-9.5/10 in looks. I get dates with very beautiful women, but it turns out that once I'm in the situation I am awful at creating chemistry/attraction. I feel this is attributed to years of being told I'm this or that and without needing to put in the effort, but modern day dating has changed the dynamic now. These are really interesting tips, and I will try to incorporate them into my next date. Thanks!
No way you are a 9 or 10 bro. Women basically throw themselves at guys that attractive these days, and you don't even need game or money or anything else. Guys that attractive become good at game without any effort simply by being surrounded by attractive women who come on to them and want to be around them. I bet you're a 6 on a good day.
@@Mechaneeri am not agree! Being handsome dowsnt mean you are sexy! I’ve freind who isnt beutiful, he could be 4/10 but he has a lot of women, i dont know what he do or talk but he is successful
Girls just wanna feel important. Asking her questions about her day or getting interested in her hobbies will most likely make her like u. Making her feel protected is also a plus. Noticing changes like if she gets new glasses or maybe gets her braces off are also things girls like
Some of these triggers were recommended in Dale Carnegie's classic book How to Win Friends and Influence People. I guess some social principles are timeless and universal.
I took that course years ago and remembering it taught the easiest way to get someone to open up and taking is show interest in them and ask questions about them. DO NOT use the letter “ I “ in conversation. It’s boring to the other person when someone constantly talks about themselves. I this, I that ….
The vulnerability thing is true, it shows you're not afraid to let loose and laugh at your old self. It's a good trait to have in general for any relationship honestly.
Never open with a compliment, but prepare a legitimate one for when she does something to earn it. You can gauge her interest level by the degree to which she appreciates the compliment.
This is wonderful advice. Im trying to practice this with a girl and coworker I care about and respect a great deal. It's very difficult though since I rarely work with her and don't get to talk to her much. My having complex PTSD makes it very difficult as well. Shes extremely smart, mature, high value, and very desirable. I jumped the gun for various reasons so all I can really do now is leave her alone for some time to show that I've grown and I am secure.
Hey I am bad at communicating people due to covid 19 and lock down. I want to say that your videos are really good at understanding people not just in girls. Thanks to you I have improve my social skills.
glad you're finding them helpful, just stick with it, slow improvement is fine, if you improve even half a percent a day, over the course of the year it will be a huge change.
Bobby, thank you for your videos.! Great information for men who are divorced or just single.! I am always trying to improve my skills I implement while dating a lady or any potential dates… your videos have really helped me quite a bit understand some of the things that I have already been thinking in my mind or approaches regarding ladies and/or conversations with ladies.. for lack of words, it helped me to put my thumb on some of the things that I am not doing- but also some of the things I’m currently doing so I don’t second-guess myself about being correct.! Thank you I will continue watching, and we appreciate good information. It is so scarce in our world. . For the ladies, there’s all kinds of resources for good resources like yours, sir.. !! keep up the good work Big-D …
correct me if I'm wrong, But I always feel like this type of advice will work only if the girl considered you exclusively at some point in her life, but today's reality is that every girl is seeing 10+ guys at the same time. The simp tactics will lower your value and put you in the friend zone, and the abundance tactics will make her feel like you don't want her anyway and she will just move over to the next guy. So, what is the right play here?
One single thing will bring you any woman you want, your sincerity, your openness, your love, you care, your friendship with her. She needs to feel special for someone, so choose the one who IS special to you and do your best to be best version for her. Any woman would fall for you. We need someone we can trust no matter what, and if your presence is evident, you will win her over. Just learn about her everything you can and show your devotion (well if you choose to be the one for her). You have to get to know her first, but if you feel your feelings grow, embrace them, this is the best thing you can do for both if you. There are so few authentic people out there, if you are giving your best you will deserve to get the best too.
The one who tried it with me always succeeded. If it did not work for you, you can't blame sincerety, it just was not the right woman and you were not the right man. Saying that every single man who tried it, finished in a friend zone is just an absolute lie.
Maybe we could add in earned validation complimenting her actions, where her personality comes in focus instead of her physical appearance. That makes them feel very appreciated, they love that, especially if they are very attractive, but in my opinion should be delivered only when she is already talking or after she explained her experience of how she accomplished something or how she achieved something and not as a spontaneous compliment otherwise it can be interpreted as free validation.
This is great advice but it’s sad we’ve come to this point where it’s all mine games. If you are a clingy person you might have luck and find a woman who wants a clingy man and will also meet you halfway. Me personally I’m a little traumatized I just wanna be single for a good while, hit the gym and focus on my daughter blossoming. Stay strong fellas
I purchased access to all of your content. I have a few suggestions. #1 how can a guy identify if a girl is worth pursuing with these techniques? How can we determine if she is being manipulative or using us for attention? #2 how to get a girls number butter smooth without coming off creepy or awkward. Thanks Bobby. I appreciate all your advice.
Number 1 thing if you met online: is she willing to meet for coffee. No dinners. Coffee, ice-cream, etc. If not, you are an attention provider. As far as getting a number, just give her yours. "We should chat sometime. CanI give you my number". That's it.
Depends on the woman...Don't assume that anything at all will work. If you are being genuine and decent, not catering to her like her cabana boy but bringing good energy....if she is into games or materialistic or not worth your time- she will show you... Don't put on an act, just shoot straight & don't worry. If it isn't a good match - so what. If it's a good match and she starts testing you, take that as a plus... Don't try to be her superhero. Don't worry about all the BS. Like landing a fish....don't snap the line and keep some drag on it, nothing radical- if the hook is set work with it !
@Lukas - I don’t know to be honest. It was useful for me though. It’s similar to what he said here about not giving too much validation until she respects you that’s when it means more.
Hey Bobby! Love your vids and i came here too late. But i chased a girl away after our first date, coz she soft-ghosted me(unsure if she tested me), therefore she put the Friend-stamp before second date. So i wished her all luck and cut off the chase. Will she come back? Anything i can do to create the spark again?
"Hey, guys, I have a problem. Can somebody help me with this? There is a girl that I like. I tried to contact her, and when I texted her for the first time expressing my feelings and my desire to get to know her better, she didn't respond. So, I decided to give her some space. I did notice that she had blocked me without sending a single text. However, after some time and unpredictably, she unblocked me. But the past situation has made it difficult for me. Should I text her again or talk to her again? I would appreciate an honest suggestion. I've never had this strange feeling about someone before." I really want to lose this girl, she had sort of connection for relationship with me but I don't get it why she pulled back after my msg
No, Try to make yourself available in her peripherals...I once had the most perfect woman, and she pulled away after our first date...she didn't know if she wanted something serious. Two weeks later, I posted a picture of myself in my work uniform with a caption about how older women loved the uniform...a coworker (who had 0 interest in me) commented I looked good. That night that girl got back to me, and immediately tried making me her man. I POSTED THAT PIC KNOWING SHE WOULD SEE. I stayed in her peripheral, and though I WAS acting with her on my mind, I made it seem from her POV that I had moved on, and without looking back.
You were coming on too strong in your initial text expressing your feelings. Killed right there. I believe eventually she felt bad blocking you and un- blocked you. I’d lie low if I were you. She didn’t forget your first text. She knows how you feel. The ball’s in her court now. No reply IS a reply!
I’m so glad that I’m not the only person who can’t stand people saying literally all the time when it’s not true, please literally is a virgin word don’t destroy it. If you say, cats and dogs are literally falling from the sky, I better see some goddamn cats and dogs falling from the sky.
Hey there @granfk23! Hope you are well my dude! I think he mentions towards the beginning that you want to establish all this at the very beginning of your initial interactions with her. In other words...from the first meeting on. I think of each point he brings up as a process to be followed step by step. So, in this case, you want to immediately implement "earned validation" as a lot of men try to validate a woman from the very first interaction which automatically puts you at a disadvantage. You have to put yourself in a position of "value" from the jump before any of the other steps will work. Especially as you progress and get to the dissonance stage he talks about towards the end. This would absolutely not work without the other elements being in place and I would argue they should already be in solidified waaaaay before the bf/gf relationship stage. Because after all...to get her to even consider a relationship with you...she has to to be obsessed and want to be with you as much as possible. Hope that helped. I can speak from personal experience that everything he talks about is absolutley right on. Always start by putting yourself in the position of legitimate value because then a woman will immediately respond to it and do her best to earn you and win you over.
I struggle with the girl always talking future plans and then she backs off. "I want to just keep hanging out and go with the flow, no titles." She always seems to want to hang out and stuff, text me quite a bit,etc. Shes also a traveling xray tech and might be moving and anytime i bring that up she says it stresses her out. She says she feels she could love me and cares about me and that i mean more to her than i know. I just dont know what to do.
I need some help. Not the right video but I gotta ask. I’m in the middle of “pulling away” so I don’t text or call her but we work at the same place so I have to see her and sometimes interact even if I don’t want to because of work. I keep our talks short too but is that enough pulling away or am I doing it all wrong?
Try to not engage unless she engages you and make it short and ensure you end the interaction. Engage outside of work on your “pulling away” schedule only. However, I don’t typically advise on that. It’s better to just cut the cord, unless you have a reason.
If you concentrate too much on everything outside of you just to get a girl to become obsessed I feel like we end up going nuts to be honest. Just be yourself, be a good man not a nice man. And have confidence in yourself and you’ll attract what’s for you.
Gents. You don’t need her to fall in love with you. You only need to get her to fall for you enough to get what you’re trying to get from her. Don’t overthink it. #OccamsRazorTheory
i have a bunch of videos that cover 'tests' on my channel. Skim through them, as many cover this topic. Here's one: th-cam.com/video/P6YTM9qNJVQ/w-d-xo.html but i have more on there too.
There's is lady i'm crushing on we've been friends for a year and she know i love her we talk almost all the time she shows her affection towards you but the end of the day she tells you she doesn't have romantic feelings for me but always want to be with me and it really hurt when she tells me she's has no feelings for me but her action is the opposite. What should i do?
I accidentally did alot of this with a girl and she went wild. But now shes playing the dissonance on me. Sent a video message on her bikini, twirling her hair, then nothing. Grr. Well played.
So I have been talking to this girl off and on and I'm stuck because I'm in a whole other state and I think I fell in love but she doesn't do long distance and it would be up to 9 months be fore I can see her she has like sent explicit pictures to me already but like she says that she wants to see how it go's am I getting g friend zoned or wsp
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*The balance between giving attention and creating mystery really stands out - it’s all about keeping her intrigued without overdoing it.*
15:20 is the core of the video. "Any girl you like will meet men who look better than you but the package of multiple things that you offer her combined is very very difficult for her to find in some other random guy"
Yessss
This makes a ton of sense. Using dissonance without first creating a spark is futile. So many other dating channels omit this fact.
I can confirm; being very good looking without 'the rest' doesn't win the race. I used to do modelling, and would be considered somewhere between a 9-9.5/10 in looks. I get dates with very beautiful women, but it turns out that once I'm in the situation I am awful at creating chemistry/attraction. I feel this is attributed to years of being told I'm this or that and without needing to put in the effort, but modern day dating has changed the dynamic now.
These are really interesting tips, and I will try to incorporate them into my next date. Thanks!
Your a badass player yet you ended up here. Sketch.
No way you are a 9 or 10 bro. Women basically throw themselves at guys that attractive these days, and you don't even need game or money or anything else. Guys that attractive become good at game without any effort simply by being surrounded by attractive women who come on to them and want to be around them. I bet you're a 6 on a good day.
@@Mechaneeri am not agree! Being handsome dowsnt mean you are sexy! I’ve freind who isnt beutiful, he could be 4/10 but he has a lot of women, i dont know what he do or talk but he is successful
@@MechaneerJesus you people are so red pilled
We are on the same page bro....
Girls just wanna feel important. Asking her questions about her day or getting interested in her hobbies will most likely make her like u. Making her feel protected is also a plus. Noticing changes like if she gets new glasses or maybe gets her braces off are also things girls like
Yes, but if she doesn't show interest as well, waste of time.
Some of these triggers were recommended in Dale Carnegie's classic book How to Win Friends and Influence People.
I guess some social principles are timeless and universal.
I took that course years ago and remembering it taught the easiest way to get someone to open up and taking is show interest in them and ask questions about them. DO NOT use the letter “ I “ in conversation. It’s boring to the other person when someone constantly talks about themselves. I this, I that ….
Good book
I’m glad I’m not the only person in the world who is sick of hearing the word “literally” overused and abused.
The vulnerability thing is true, it shows you're not afraid to let loose and laugh at your old self. It's a good trait to have in general for any relationship honestly.
You're sn is the exact type of fry i like
Never open with a compliment, but prepare a legitimate one for when she does something to earn it. You can gauge her interest level by the degree to which she appreciates the compliment.
I appreciate this, its straightforward no bullshit and logical. Keep em coming!
I've heard it said " humans are feeling machines that think, not thinking machines that feel" the emotions are crucial
very true, we are largely controlled by our feelings. And then use logic to justify our actions.
@@BobbyRio Even more so, for women, as opposed to men.
I was doing great, but I don’t know why I saw your video and apply it to my relationship.. it fu”ked everything😂
This is wonderful advice. Im trying to practice this with a girl and coworker I care about and respect a great deal. It's very difficult though since I rarely work with her and don't get to talk to her much. My having complex PTSD makes it very difficult as well. Shes extremely smart, mature, high value, and very desirable. I jumped the gun for various reasons so all I can really do now is leave her alone for some time to show that I've grown and I am secure.
I'm in pretty much the same boat
one step forward two steps back? so ask them out to a resturant, then when they accept, say have a good time while youre there....lol
Bobby Rio for office 2024!
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@@BobbyRio😊😊 if you’re a good boy you 😊😊😊😊😊😊
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Why?
I feel you about that scene on Armageddon. As a kid it almost brought a tear to my eye
What
“I love you, Harry!!!”
Hey I am bad at communicating people due to covid 19 and lock down. I want to say that your videos are really good at understanding people not just in girls. Thanks to you I have improve my social skills.
glad you're finding them helpful, just stick with it, slow improvement is fine, if you improve even half a percent a day, over the course of the year it will be a huge change.
Earned validation is something i failed on with this new person, but i see it so clearly now. Ugh the regret
There's something that I learn. Great teacher, long live
glad you found helpful.
@@BobbyRio.I always learn a lot from your lessons that you always provide, I appreciate your truth.
I love it when you say it's a secret. It's sexual escalation and flirting and teasing. I love it how you Love Guru repackage things
Dissonance, the most important thing you elaborated,💯
very powerful for sure
I wasn't aware that I'm doing all 7
But by the greatness of this teacher I'm overwhelmed
These videos are priceless, thank you.
Great video! The talk show interview idea is excellent!
Bobby, thank you for your videos.! Great information for men who are divorced or just single.!
I am always trying to improve my skills I implement while dating a lady or any potential dates… your videos have really helped me quite a bit understand some of the things that I have already been thinking in my mind or approaches regarding ladies and/or conversations with ladies.. for lack of words, it helped me to put my thumb on some of the things that I am not doing- but also some of the things I’m currently doing so I don’t second-guess myself about being correct.!
Thank you I will continue watching, and we appreciate good information. It is so scarce in our world. . For the ladies, there’s all kinds of resources for good resources like yours, sir.. !! keep up the good work
Big-D …
Shes says im very sweet but equally mean i just smile after hearing that. Shes very attracted to me. So many signs she gives
Oh my Gosh there is quite a bit here for me to learn and acknowledge and admit on some things that I am clueless !!!
Thanks ill give these a shot
When you stop giving a f**k, people will start, when you stop trying, things start working. Book; the subtle art of not giving an ‘F’
7 obsession triggers: 1. Earned validation
2. 2 steps forward 1 step back
3. Cool vulnerability
4. Cool audience/human
5. Partners in crime
6. (Fill in the blank)
7. (Fill in the blank)
6. Reveal intimate things
7. Grow a bulging CACKITO 🍆☔️
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Do't just scroll down and read this comment. Go watch the video because for once this one is a good one.
Yo, if I had this guy as a coach in my 20s, I woulda been the Man!!! Dang I needed coaching lol… this guy is an expert
correct me if I'm wrong, But I always feel like this type of advice will work only if the girl considered you exclusively at some point in her life, but today's reality is that every girl is seeing 10+ guys at the same time. The simp tactics will lower your value and put you in the friend zone, and the abundance tactics will make her feel like you don't want her anyway and she will just move over to the next guy. So, what is the right play here?
This ^.
The values of men / women in the dating market have been so horribly distorted these days.
It’s a numbers game, bro
One single thing will bring you any woman you want, your sincerity, your openness, your love, you care, your friendship with her. She needs to feel special for someone, so choose the one who IS special to you and do your best to be best version for her. Any woman would fall for you. We need someone we can trust no matter what, and if your presence is evident, you will win her over. Just learn about her everything you can and show your devotion (well if you choose to be the one for her).
You have to get to know her first, but if you feel your feelings grow, embrace them, this is the best thing you can do for both if you. There are so few authentic people out there, if you are giving your best you will deserve to get the best too.
@@soul-etude every single man who ever tried that ended up in the friend zone, it even happened to me, women don't want sincerity, they want drama
The one who tried it with me always succeeded.
If it did not work for you, you can't blame sincerety, it just was not the right woman and you were not the right man. Saying that every single man who tried it, finished in a friend zone is just an absolute lie.
Hello bobby i really love your videos and i think you have a comprehensive outlook on this kind of topic. Love you from indonesia
Thanks for watching!
Good Stuff Bobby!! 🔥🔥
glad you enjoyed
Maybe we could add in earned validation complimenting her actions, where her personality comes in focus instead of her physical appearance. That makes them feel very appreciated, they love that, especially if they are very attractive, but in my opinion should be delivered only when she is already talking or after she explained her experience of how she accomplished something or how she achieved something and not as a spontaneous compliment otherwise it can be interpreted as free validation.
yea true
@@BobbyRio 🤙🏼
Best masculine dating coach ever
Haha - It might be fake but I too shed a tear at the end of Armageddon .. I mean I was twelve but still - hilarious!
I seriously has tears runnign down my face sitting next to 6 of my college buddies in the theatre.
This is great advice but it’s sad we’ve come to this point where it’s all mine games. If you are a clingy person you might have luck and find a woman who wants a clingy man and will also meet you halfway. Me personally I’m a little traumatized I just wanna be single for a good while, hit the gym and focus on my daughter blossoming. Stay strong fellas
I purchased access to all of your content. I have a few suggestions. #1 how can a guy identify if a girl is worth pursuing with these techniques? How can we determine if she is being manipulative or using us for attention? #2 how to get a girls number butter smooth without coming off creepy or awkward.
Thanks Bobby. I appreciate all your advice.
Number 1 thing if you met online: is she willing to meet for coffee. No dinners. Coffee, ice-cream, etc. If not, you are an attention provider. As far as getting a number, just give her yours. "We should chat sometime. CanI give you my number". That's it.
Great helpful, iforrmative ,valuable speeches Thanks a bunch
My interactions tend to be one step forward two steps back...
Bobby is going crazy with the content 🙏🏾
hope you're finding it helpful.
Depends on the woman...Don't assume that anything at all will work.
If you are being genuine and decent, not catering to her like her cabana boy but bringing good energy....if she is into games or materialistic or not worth your time- she will show you... Don't put on an act, just shoot straight & don't worry.
If it isn't a good match - so what. If it's a good match and she starts testing you, take that as a plus...
Don't try to be her superhero. Don't worry about all the BS.
Like landing a fish....don't snap the line and keep some drag on it, nothing radical- if the hook is set work with it !
its so true what you say cause even before watching your video i never complements women right away i complement and admire what they do first :)
I know what country it is Bobby😉 you said it in your paid program.
good to know what to avoid
You Should upload text of summary in the description that way we can refer this in future.
Its a balance there is not a set recipie, but less clingy and needy helps alot
You’re one of the best Bobby.
glad you enjoy the videos!
@@BobbyRio is the scrambler a updated version of 2023 or is it a old one ?
@Lukas - the one I have is pretty recent
@@alexflips393 is it with lifetime updates ?
@Lukas - I don’t know to be honest. It was useful for me though. It’s similar to what he said here about not giving too much validation until she respects you that’s when it means more.
Hi bobby thank u for changing our lifes with your advices .
Hey Bobby!
Love your vids and i came here too late.
But i chased a girl away after our first date, coz she soft-ghosted me(unsure if she tested me), therefore she put the Friend-stamp before second date.
So i wished her all luck and cut off the chase.
Will she come back?
Anything i can do to create the spark again?
i got a few videos on the channel about how to reintiate contact when she pulled away
Theyll be obsessed for 5 minutes, or 5 years... Then leave u high n dry. Like this poor old jack here😂lol
Are you saying that every woman leaves guys high and dry?
You never kept her attracted to you. It’s your job. It’s also your job to get rid of her. Take the lead dude.
Amazing Information Bobby 👌
Glad it was helpful!
Brilliant, love it!
Is she the only girl in your life? If, so go get another. Dont be scared, let her see your an available man to others, just not always her.
get another… friend? or r u just cheating
@@bangs9982 I can do whatever I want. I am not married.
@@michaelleewagaman301 yeah you do you
Great video! Very useful information. Thanks.
Glad it was helpful!
unearned validation: Oh...it's like "thank you for your service". yeah.
future themes? well, I simply dont know how to approach a girl with earplugs
"Hey, guys, I have a problem. Can somebody help me with this? There is a girl that I like. I tried to contact her, and when I texted her for the first time expressing my feelings and my desire to get to know her better, she didn't respond. So, I decided to give her some space. I did notice that she had blocked me without sending a single text. However, after some time and unpredictably, she unblocked me. But the past situation has made it difficult for me. Should I text her again or talk to her again? I would appreciate an honest suggestion. I've never had this strange feeling about someone before." I really want to lose this girl, she had sort of connection for relationship with me but I don't get it why she pulled back after my msg
No, Try to make yourself available in her peripherals...I once had the most perfect woman, and she pulled away after our first date...she didn't know if she wanted something serious. Two weeks later, I posted a picture of myself in my work uniform with a caption about how older women loved the uniform...a coworker (who had 0 interest in me) commented I looked good. That night that girl got back to me, and immediately tried making me her man. I POSTED THAT PIC KNOWING SHE WOULD SEE. I stayed in her peripheral, and though I WAS acting with her on my mind, I made it seem from her POV that I had moved on, and without looking back.
You were coming on too strong in your initial text expressing your feelings. Killed right there. I believe eventually she felt bad blocking you and un- blocked you. I’d lie low if I were you. She didn’t forget your first text. She knows how you feel. The ball’s in her court now. No reply IS a reply!
This stuff's gold. Bobby Gold I say
glad you found it helpful.
I’m so glad that I’m not the only person who can’t stand people saying literally all the time when it’s not true, please literally is a virgin word don’t destroy it. If you say, cats and dogs are literally falling from the sky, I better see some goddamn cats and dogs falling from the sky.
Love it ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Great video and advice
Glad it was helpful!
@Rio you are the GOAT 💯💯🔥
Does this only work if you’re already dating the girl?
Hey there @granfk23! Hope you are well my dude!
I think he mentions towards the beginning that you want to establish all this at the very beginning of your initial interactions with her. In other words...from the first meeting on.
I think of each point he brings up as a process to be followed step by step. So, in this case, you want to immediately implement "earned validation" as a lot of men try to validate a woman from the very first interaction which automatically puts you at a disadvantage. You have to put yourself in a position of "value" from the jump before any of the other steps will work. Especially as you progress and get to the dissonance stage he talks about towards the end. This would absolutely not work without the other elements being in place and I would argue they should already be in solidified waaaaay before the bf/gf relationship stage. Because after all...to get her to even consider a relationship with you...she has to to be obsessed and want to be with you as much as possible.
Hope that helped. I can speak from personal experience that everything he talks about is absolutley right on. Always start by putting yourself in the position of legitimate value because then a woman will immediately respond to it and do her best to earn you and win you over.
I struggle with the girl always talking future plans and then she backs off. "I want to just keep hanging out and go with the flow, no titles." She always seems to want to hang out and stuff, text me quite a bit,etc. Shes also a traveling xray tech and might be moving and anytime i bring that up she says it stresses her out. She says she feels she could love me and cares about me and that i mean more to her than i know. I just dont know what to do.
1 step back! Don’t make yourself so available.
People saying litterally all the time drives me crazy too..also ..that being said...
id love something involving long distance relationships
Great work ~
I need some help. Not the right video but I gotta ask. I’m in the middle of “pulling away” so I don’t text or call her but we work at the same place so I have to see her and sometimes interact even if I don’t want to because of work. I keep our talks short too but is that enough pulling away or am I doing it all wrong?
Try to not engage unless she engages you and make it short and ensure you end the interaction. Engage outside of work on your “pulling away” schedule only. However, I don’t typically advise on that. It’s better to just cut the cord, unless you have a reason.
It's funny, you call these "tricks", but you are actually teaching men to be better people.
yes, the more well-rounded, autonomous, and interesting you become, women naturally start to chase
It's too much I'm staying single 😂
Good stuff
If you concentrate too much on everything outside of you just to get a girl to become obsessed I feel like we end up going nuts to be honest. Just be yourself, be a good man not a nice man. And have confidence in yourself and you’ll attract what’s for you.
Gents. You don’t need her to fall in love with you. You only need to get her to fall for you enough to get what you’re trying to get from her. Don’t overthink it. #OccamsRazorTheory
Bobby, i would like to see a video about how to check a womans bad behavior, when she is testing you.
What to say and how to say?
i have a bunch of videos that cover 'tests' on my channel. Skim through them, as many cover this topic. Here's one: th-cam.com/video/P6YTM9qNJVQ/w-d-xo.html but i have more on there too.
Women is giving mixed recation like suddenly she text me a MSG to talk than sudden disappear
Same here.
Like she wanted me start the conversation...but now I fed of and told her to stop acting "you to can start the conversation"
Although it's doesn't effect me wheather she will stay or leave
M Bobby can you doing a video of a technique to do to be a FUNNY
Great tips!
Glad it was helpful!
a lot of games . . be straight with each other people
Hi sir what should I do one women ignoring me when should I am in front of home she saw me she lefts that place and going to inside of home
You rock ❤
There's is lady i'm crushing on we've been friends for a year and she know i love her we talk almost all the time she shows her affection towards you but the end of the day she tells you she doesn't have romantic feelings for me but always want to be with me and it really hurt when she tells me she's has no feelings for me but her action is the opposite. What should i do?
Maybe you’re now in the friend zone.
You should say no. Show you have a backbone! Say "I do NOT want this kind of a relationship and I ABSOLUTELY DESERVE better!!!"
She manipulating you, puppy dog. Walk away.
That is impressive
Create 10+ cliffhsngers and youre set
Are you wearing dental appliance?
I watch these videos on how to spot when a man is trying to manipulate me. Thanks. I blocked him.
I feel like my problem is I talk about myself too much and I have a hard time listening and remembering things the other person is saying
You need to fix that. Ask questions and LISTEN.
Stop being a narcissist lol
After you write and explain the list, step to the side and read them them off by number in your closing.
will try that next time, thanks
Thank you so much for voice I'm in Somali
Lol. Its not a pleasant voice, but it's clear.
What if I had all that and I found out she was hanging with mutual friends and she told everyone not to tell me ?
Sketchy
No chick is obsessed with you.
By doing the opposite of these will it help me get rid of some of these women?
So if you work with here how to do it
Lol you've been coached by Corey Wayne.
I accidentally did alot of this with a girl and she went wild. But now shes playing the dissonance on me. Sent a video message on her bikini, twirling her hair, then nothing. Grr. Well played.
Omg i cried at Armagedon too lmao
Does that also work for a women that's 59 Years old..let me know thanks
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Yo Barby hows it hangin mate? lol
The bartender at 2:07 needs 7 tips on how to pull a pint
So I have been talking to this girl off and on and I'm stuck because I'm in a whole other state and I think I fell in love but she doesn't do long distance and it would be up to 9 months be fore I can see her she has like sent explicit pictures to me already but like she says that she wants to see how it go's am I getting g friend zoned or wsp