Are we having KIDS? How long can you live on Svalbard? Answering ALL your Q's!

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  • Are we having kids? Do we celebrate Halloween on Svalbard? How long can you live on Svalbard for? We are answering all your questions in this video! Thank you so much for being here, and I hope you enjoy the video! 🧡☕️
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  • @kitm141
    @kitm141 ปีที่แล้ว +2337

    I don’t think I’m out of place to say that appearing in videos isn’t Christoffer’s favourite thing in the entire world :) I really appreciate him pushing through and talking to us though, because his perspective is so fascinating. We would literally never meet in real life and that’s my favourite thing about the internet, learning about people’s lives that are completely different to mine. Thank you, Christoffer!

    • @hydrostream76
      @hydrostream76 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      He's a calm guy,
      Loves his nature ,
      he's a Chef,
      Right on Christopher!
      let's see some hunting !
      and fishing

    • @MrsM1878.
      @MrsM1878. ปีที่แล้ว +142

      I agree but it makes me appreciate the video even more. He's a cool guy 😎
      You can tell he is a gentle giant with a shy nature. They're a cute couple!

    • @juliemccormick6432
      @juliemccormick6432 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      I think its more difficult for him as English is his second language so he struggles sometimes for the exact words and I think he does a great job!

    • @kitm141
      @kitm141 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      @@juliemccormick6432 he does an amazing job. English is a horrible language to learn but I've never been confused when he speaks. He probably speaks more "correct" English than I do and I'm a native speaker!

    • @hollylane47
      @hollylane47 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes, completely agree with you!:)

  • @stormskies3861
    @stormskies3861 ปีที่แล้ว +1034

    Christoffer is a breath of fresh air, zero ego, seems like a genuine down to earth, salt of the earth kind of guy. A man of few words but I’ll bet he’s deep as the ocean. They are so lucky to have each other, they’re a gorgeous couple. Cecilia is so bright and sparky, what a lovely humble personality and a beauty to boot. They compliment each other so well ❤

    • @lev2727
      @lev2727 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      > "A man of few words but I’ll bet he’s deep as the ocean. "
      Deep as the ocean? 🤣 More, like empty as a bottle.😉

    • @stormskies3861
      @stormskies3861 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@lev2727 how do you know? My god aren’t you a treat! Really rude

    • @patm3814
      @patm3814 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Storm Skies. Well said - I agree 100%

    • @stankythecat6735
      @stankythecat6735 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      He is just about as hot as a guy can get. Calm and strong. Not like “modern men” who constantly are begging for attention and crying

    • @urosweingerl4388
      @urosweingerl4388 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Since the beginning of her channel, I always wanted more of this quite, metal like dude who, when he does speak, I feelt like there is going to be a revelation of some sort. He is freakin awesome and I always laugh, when I see him. There isnt literally anyone I know, that is so nsync and zen, then Cristoffer🤣

  • @user-ih6fd7py8n
    @user-ih6fd7py8n 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    Thank you for pointing out that children are not what makes a family ❤

    • @countrygirl197906
      @countrygirl197906 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Thank you! My husband and I are a family. We have pets, while I know my dogo is not a child we think of ourselves as a very large family. (We have horses cats and a dog)
      We are not meant to have kids because of our own reasons and take precautions to never have them.

    • @Heretican
      @Heretican 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Cringe

    • @thevcountdown9824
      @thevcountdown9824 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Heretican what's cringe????

    • @countrygirl197906
      @countrygirl197906 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Heretican
      There is nothing cringe about MY lifestyle. It doesn’t effect your life and I just don’t understand why anyone would care.
      You do you boo and and I’ll live my best life the way I choose. As you do with your life.

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it ปีที่แล้ว +220

    I love that Christopher is reserved and normal and down to earth, not showy for the camera like other people can be. He must be very genuine and only speaks when he has something to say.

    • @mircat28
      @mircat28 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But it makes him almost boring with nothing to say or contribute. Tuning in to watch someone sit is not interesting.

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@mircat28 then we don't have to watch it... he's interesting to watch in other videos. We can't all be flashy all the time

    • @jeanmank742
      @jeanmank742 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I love them both and that other couple in far northern Sweden. I have "memories" of being awake at 1 a.m., running through a field in the sunshine. I am fascinated with the polar nights and lights, too.

    • @phoenix-xu9xj
      @phoenix-xu9xj 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Well he is not American that might explain it

    • @lljl5310
      @lljl5310 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@phoenix-xu9xjdon't generalize! (Americans).

  • @kaykepop4084
    @kaykepop4084 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    One thing that annoys me is people asking couples if or when are they going to have a baby. I have friends who have tried for a child for many years and have lost 2 babies. This is a very sensitive subject for them and private. To watch people who do not know their private struggle ask when they are going to have a baby, it hurts. I see the pain in their eyes, but they laugh off the question gracefully. Out of respect, I really feel people should not ask couples this question. Instead, wait until they feel comfortable to share. And is they never share, then you should never ask. And if a couple has already together agreed not to have children, I feel out of respect they should not feel pressured to think they should have a child.

  • @Rye_Toast
    @Rye_Toast ปีที่แล้ว +167

    I'm 51 and "forgot" to have a kid, haven't regretted it yet. I've also been issued my official "Middle Aged Woman's Invisibility Cloak" and I am free to move about life without male harassment and it's WONDERFUL!!! lol

    • @heather9130
      @heather9130 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I honestly can't even imagine what that last bit is like, but I think I'm almost there at 37. It sounds wonderful to go places and not feel like you'll have to deal with harassment. I'm not even beautiful, and I still had a man at a bar ask me if I'm interested in becoming his sub (S&M) recently. I was starting to worry that I'll never age out of the harassment bracket, but you give me hope. He was respectful, it'll just be nice not to be asked stuff like that anymore.

    • @sparkle.-buggg3610
      @sparkle.-buggg3610 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I have 2 kids 18/14 and as much as I love them kids are mot everything you can have a fulfilled live without I am a single mum and have no life but that's just me

    • @fangletterman-ng2ro
      @fangletterman-ng2ro 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      No, its NOT "just you." That's why we are having this conversation. It seems that the parent must lay down their life to properly and effectively raise their children. It is about self sacrifice.

    • @lynnecartwright3976
      @lynnecartwright3976 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      My life too...never regretted the decision...and the ability to be spontaneous never gets old!!

    • @leslieweiser5455
      @leslieweiser5455 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes ❤

  • @sarahsoliman6127
    @sarahsoliman6127 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Christopher has such a peaceful soul. His aura is so calm and I can imagine it’s so soothing to be around him. Girl, you got a good one.

  • @stephanieb1719
    @stephanieb1719 ปีที่แล้ว +488

    I am a neonatal critical care nurse. I have loved babies and kids all my life. My husband and I went through 7 years of infertility treatments and 4 miscarriages. I almost bled out every time. So we chose to continue trying to have our own child. I am open to adoption, but my husband was not. It was INCREDIBLY painful working with babies , especially ones who were born to drug addicts. A baby withdrawing from drugs is one of the saddest things in this world. I would often get asked if I had kids. If I said no, we can’t have children, parents would say either, “Aww, but you are so good with babies,” or, “Well, have you thought about adoption?” Neither comment was helpful or appropriate! People don’t realize how expensive fertility treatments are. Plus, we bought a house and I had student loan debt. Please think before you ask such a personal question. And if you do, and the other person says no, then drop the subject right then and there! 😪

    • @lauraketteridge324
      @lauraketteridge324 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      So sorry to hear of your pain, and the stupidity/thoughlessness of others adding to that pain.
      I think some people assume everyone's private life can be a subject for discussion, and they fail to realise how an 'innocent question' can be hurtful.

    • @saramations
      @saramations ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Fertility treatment is expensive becuse that industry knows they can get away with highway robbery-- that's the worst part. 😓😓

    • @urtyp6596
      @urtyp6596 ปีที่แล้ว

      go #carnivorediet! You will be pregnant in weeks! Cheers

    • @lauraketteridge324
      @lauraketteridge324 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@urtyp6596 This is exactly the sort of crap people do not need to hear! It is deeply insensitive. You know absolutely nothing about these people who have said they have been unable to have children, but yet you presume to tell them how to get pregnant.
      You should be ashamed of yourself!

    • @urtyp6596
      @urtyp6596 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lauraketteridge324 Well since thats your OPINION I will go on and tell them my opinon! Cheers

  • @danasutton-echols2171
    @danasutton-echols2171 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    I use to think married couples who didn't want children were selfish until I became a mother. My respect for people who make that choice has grown tremendously. No one should take on the life of another unless that is exactly what they want to do. It's takes a serious level of maturity and self-awareness to not cave into societal pressure and remain true to your own course in life. I love my children, wouldn't change a thing. But I understand and respect the choices of others.

    • @ZovaBe
      @ZovaBe ปีที่แล้ว +62

      I don’t understand why you ever thought you could have an opinion on other people’s decision to have children?
      I’m a new mother but before I became one I never felt the need to be judgmental towards couples who did not want to have children. How truly odd and completely out of line.

    • @logicandlaughs
      @logicandlaughs ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@ZovaBe Wow... hypocrite much. Love that you are so wise and all-knowing from a young age, but some of us were brainwashed by society/family and told that we had to have children to have meaning and worth. Try having some understanding for what people might be raised into and appreciation for those who can change their minds once they learn a better path. You've got a lot to learn about the world outside of your own screen of experience, humility being one.

    • @64___
      @64___ ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@logicandlaughs she’s right though? Being so judgmental of other peoples choice about kids IS odd and out of line. Those who apparently aren’t “brainwashed” as you say have a hard time comprehending people who view those as “parents” and “others”, with the others deserving to be judged. A rational person can’t imagine having such a skewed worldview.

    • @jaelynn7575
      @jaelynn7575 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@ZovaBe Well, it is just that, an opinion of hers. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

    • @SP-LW.55.11.5
      @SP-LW.55.11.5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you. The obvious and subtle inference is very present and you are right, it does take a lot of self awareness and maturity. Thankfully I'm the youngest of 5 who are all much older than me and had kids while I was still a child. So I've seen this all, all the good, the bad, and the ugly.

  • @gwynnmccallan8856
    @gwynnmccallan8856 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    I don't think being a parent is for everyone, and there should be no shame in that. You guys are a family and you're happy. Nothing wrong with that. Thank you for sharing more about your lives and the unique life there. Your videos are always fun and interesting.

    • @helenwalker716
      @helenwalker716 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My daughter and her husband are the same age as you are. They don’t want children. Ok

    • @thevcountdown9824
      @thevcountdown9824 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@IsabellaShapiro LMAO, i know sooo many people who didnt have an emotional fulfillment and regretted it

  • @HelloIAmJo
    @HelloIAmJo ปีที่แล้ว +18

    10:00 I CAN'T be the only one that EXPLODED with surprise finding out Christoffer is 45! A 13 year age gap had never occurred to me. Looking good, Christoffer!

  • @moorenicola6264
    @moorenicola6264 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Just seeing this. Halloween originated from an Irish pagan festival called Samhain and was brought over to the US by Irish immigrants. The reason why it's called Halloween is because it's a shortened version of All Hallows Eve, a Christian festival which the Catholic church adopted when they brought Christianity to Ireland. It's the same with Christmas. When Christians were trying to convert pagans they invented festivals such as All Hallows Eve, Christmas etc to coincide with the time the pagan festivals were and to try to make the transition easier. With Samhain, it was the one night in the lunar calendar where souls could return to Earth. Saying that, both good and bad souls could come back. In order to confuse the evil spirits people dressed up as ghouls to disguise themselves. It was the same with trick or treating. People went around their community to collect goods to give to the souls on that night and lit a bonfire where they would place the gifts. Everything has a meaning and significance. The church took all of these practices and the meanings and invented All Hallows Eve but it truly originated from Samhain.

  • @cheersbaby94
    @cheersbaby94 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    Christoffer getting so comfortable talking on camera is the sweetest thing ever. I love watching you two grow as a couple

    • @gam3rkid954
      @gam3rkid954 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I dig his shirt, what brand if I may ask?

    • @ummno3703
      @ummno3703 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      he doesn't look that comfortable tbh

  • @minime7375
    @minime7375 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    I had no clue Cristoffer was 45😳 I would’ve guessed 35-38, that place is magical and it preserves the yourh lol.
    I am not a huge fan of winter but I really like watching their cabin at night, all cozy and lit and those northern lights. And Grimm ofc.

    • @maryanngibbs6963
      @maryanngibbs6963 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      same I had to retake.. did she say 45? huh no way! lol

    • @AngelLuluBlu
      @AngelLuluBlu ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It’s because he’s Scandinavian! 😂 I’m Norwegian & Swedish and I’m 53 and look like I’m 35. My mom and dad are 79 and look 65. I’m convinced it’s our Scandinavian dna. 🤷🏼‍♀️😋

    • @pinkysworn
      @pinkysworn ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I’m in Canada and my Filipina coworker/friend says that she looks so young because she lives in a freezer for like half the year. 😂

    • @minime7375
      @minime7375 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AngelLuluBlu I’m sticking to my magical cryogenesis theory☺️ But you are 8ndeed very pretty and young looking.

    • @formgeben
      @formgeben ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Well, 45 isn't that old 😀 I'm in my late 30s and don't look like that at all. It's all about genes and your lifestyle

  • @BubsyMupsy
    @BubsyMupsy ปีที่แล้ว +96

    A child is responsibility! It's not just hugging and playing with a cute lil baby! It's raising a responsible and good hearted person! You are shaping the future and character of a person! And it ain't so easy! So it's very personal decision to make whether you want a child or not.
    Loved the video! 🍀🌞❤

    • @SP-LW.55.11.5
      @SP-LW.55.11.5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right you are!

    • @snuff2023
      @snuff2023 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly, when you have kids and raise them yourself, which you should, especially as a stay at home parent, your life is literally the kids. Then the bf/husband and house, pets if you have any. No time for yourself. I have a teenager and 2 toddlers and good grief it would be nice to go to bed when I am tired instead of needing to wait for them to sleep first. Also would like to use the toilet without seeing anyone or hearing anyone

    • @rdb4996
      @rdb4996 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so right. And I think many people do not think this through when deciding to have children.

    • @thatsroughbuddy-
      @thatsroughbuddy- 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Probably the most life changing decision of your life and yet so many people push you towards one choice making it seem like it's a fun easy ride. The thing is, children don't come with a trial month. Once you have them, you have to push through. So better think about this thoroughly beforehand and don't do it if you aren't a 100% sure.

  • @rastusbojangles
    @rastusbojangles ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Christopher seems so soft spoken and wise. Yall make a great couple.

  • @dnd1007
    @dnd1007 ปีที่แล้ว +522

    "You NEED a child because you would be SUCH a good mother." The child-free among us have heard that a million times and it's rude every time! This was fun to watch, thanks, Cecilia and Christoffer!

    • @gs98999
      @gs98999 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      As a man who has 3 kids, start in late 20s, I would suggest that if you're 45 yo guy, at this point, don't. It's too much work 🤣

    • @nancyneyedly4587
      @nancyneyedly4587 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Also, the state of the world right now. Depending on where you live, things are varying degrees of challenging, incredible unrest, division, job insecurity, joblessness, etc. Knowing this is my kids present and future is a horrible feeling. Kids today already have such an existential dread because of the world they have grown up in, I feel for them. They future will either be more bleak, or they will turn a complete 180 and really shake things up and change things. Kids today are way more tuned in and intelligent than previous generations so I have some hope for them.

    • @dnd1007
      @dnd1007 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@californiapoppy RIght? And what a terrible reason to have kids!

    • @ubiquitousdiabolus
      @ubiquitousdiabolus ปีที่แล้ว +46

      You shouldn't have to explain why you don't want kids. Why do other people want kids is a better question.

    • @dnd1007
      @dnd1007 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@ubiquitousdiabolus 100%

  • @sumitkar8146
    @sumitkar8146 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I don’t think that it would be hyperbolic of me to say that no TH-cam content creator has done more in bringing light to a part of the world than Cecilia. I think hundreds of thousands of us had no idea where Longyearbyen or Svalbard was prior to us fumbling on to one of her videos. She has done more for tourism through these incredible videos than the Department of Tourism ever will and they should recognize her for her contribution. Her effervescence is perfectly offset by Christopher’s reserved but so endearing and genuine self. Grim and Fenris are perfect compliments to this beautiful family. The content is educational, engaging and world class. The cinematography, video editing and the ability to tell a story unparalleled in this genre of TH-cam content. We are blessed to have this channel which spotlights the purity of a land unimaginable to most of us and above all highlights the beauty of the human spirit. We love you Cecilia, Christopher, Grim, Fenris, Longyearbyen and Svalbard - from Dallas, TX, USA

    • @carichicago9942
      @carichicago9942 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I agree 💯. This is my favorite TH-cam channel.

  • @lilkirsche
    @lilkirsche ปีที่แล้ว +211

    As German I can confirm what you said about Ireland. The loveliest and kindest people I've ever met, the most amazing and stunning landscapes/nature, the best B&Bs in the world, great food... I ADORE Ireland. ❤️🇮🇪

    • @CeciliaBlomdahl
      @CeciliaBlomdahl  ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I agreee!! 🧡🧡

    • @protolexis
      @protolexis ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I just moved there from the US and have been here for 6 months. Beautiful country with great people, but atrocious infrastructure, bad public transportation system, astronomical rent prices, antisocial behavior problems among the youth, the HSE is a joke, and the gardaí (police) are completely ineffectual (but at least they won’t shoot you like back home in America). So yeah, lovely country and I love living here so far but I don’t see myself staying long term because of all these issues.

    • @alisoncaller533
      @alisoncaller533 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yep, I lived in Ireland for a while. Absolutely loved the people, the scenery and the culture as well. Hi from Australia!!!

    • @SJ101x
      @SJ101x ปีที่แล้ว +14

      It is lovely to hear people have good experiences when visiting Ireland. We are not without our problems (e.g. housing shortages/homelessness, etc.) but it makes me aware I take our culture for granted a lot ☺️

    • @formgeben
      @formgeben ปีที่แล้ว +5

      True. The nicest, most helpful and caring people

  • @CaAnPeSe4ever
    @CaAnPeSe4ever ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Choosing or not choosing to have children is a very private matter and personal decision that is really no one else's business outside the couple involved. It is also the couple's decision alone to make despite outside influences and expectations. It is your life, no one else's, and your shoes to walk in on your life journey. If you feel having children is not right for you, then it is commendable that you know who you are and what you want. All my love and very best wishes from Canada. ❤️🇨🇦

  • @brendataylor8388
    @brendataylor8388 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Christopher is such a chill dude. I think I would be really afraid if I saw him angry😂

  • @mcricks1980
    @mcricks1980 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    When you were answering the question about having kids, you said you’re trying to figure out if it would “add to your life.” It adds to your life in a way you can’t imagine until you have your own child. I had many nieces/nephews and worked as a teachers assistant. I also worked with abused and neglected kids, but until I had my very own kids… I didn’t fully understand parenting.
    As a mother, who didn’t know if I even wanted kids… because it seems like so much work and sacrifice, I ended up pregnant with twins. I think when having kids you have to understand you’re giving yourself entirely to another human being. You have to be there for them… sick, tired…. Etc… Everything revolves around a child. It has to. It changes everything about your life. My children have been my greatest blessing. I could not imagine a life without them.
    I feel having kids has changed my life in a wonderful and beautiful way. Yes, having kids is stressful and work, but if I went back to myself to before I had kids, I wouldn’t have put it off for so long. I didn’t know my life was missing so much meaning until after I had children. I only had the two, and had to have a hysterectomy and wish I could have had more kids… 😢
    This is just my opinion and experience.
    I think people need to be ready, but parenting is something no one is ever 100% prepared for and once you hold your own little baby, at least for me…. It was magical.
    Parenting isn’t for everyone and that is ok.

  • @kris2222ify
    @kris2222ify ปีที่แล้ว +138

    I really like Christopher’s calm demeanor. Thanks for sharing your life with us!

  • @lofnouk
    @lofnouk ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Important takeaway here is that, to make the most of any environment, you need to like it. You guys clearly LOVE it.

  • @hannahandersen1010
    @hannahandersen1010 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I feel the same way about kids! I'm 31 and I keep thinking I'll wake up one day and have a clear answer on if we should add kids to our family, and that hasn't happened yet. I have three dogs and a cat at home and they are so much work. It's nice to hear that there are others out there who feel the same way, especially since there can be so much pressure to have kids.

    • @Hunter4042012
      @Hunter4042012 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      People don't normally wake up and want kids until its too late, that is the issue.

    • @atruenut
      @atruenut ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I just had one and honestly it is a crushing weight and responsibility - especially with the world we live in and the destruction of the environment happening everywhere. I would suggest if you are unsure, err on the side of no.

    • @lauraelise5095
      @lauraelise5095 ปีที่แล้ว

      @DeusVult88 this is so incredibly racist and disgusting

    • @SP-LW.55.11.5
      @SP-LW.55.11.5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes agreed @hannahandersen

    • @SP-LW.55.11.5
      @SP-LW.55.11.5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@atruenut preach!!

  • @dianawardrip5171
    @dianawardrip5171 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love Grim’s costume!!!❤

  • @crucitacalvin7523
    @crucitacalvin7523 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    wow i’m such a fan of christoffer, he is so level headed and down to earth

  • @lauraelise5095
    @lauraelise5095 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    My husband and I are pretty sure we are not going to have kids. For us, we want to travel and own lots of pets and just pursue other goals. There is nothing wrong with having kids or not having them and it’s a completely individual decision ❤

    • @lolabott
      @lolabott ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That’s us!! 20 years in with 3 dogs and a cat! It’s a great life❤️

    • @thetraveldrug3096
      @thetraveldrug3096 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same for me and my husband.

    • @signemarkuson1940
      @signemarkuson1940 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It is a hard world now to raise children I think.

  • @2258fran
    @2258fran ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Christoffer is a man of few words and I love it!! He’s so funny. You two are perfect together.

    • @jaelynn7575
      @jaelynn7575 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Or maybe he's quiet because she talks a lot. :)

    • @susanengel-ix8bl
      @susanengel-ix8bl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was thinking the same thing.

  • @zlazofia
    @zlazofia ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The response on kids - thank you for saying this loud! As a person who does not want kids at any point of my life, for a long time i was getting bombarded with the questions about them which made me angry/uncomfortable. TBH - it should not be a question asked ever by anyone - it's not other ppl business if someone wants them or not. Why can't people mind their own lives instead of trying to guilt trip someone into a decision they're not ok with?

  • @susenmorris9702
    @susenmorris9702 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Don't stress about kids, in these days and times, do you really want to put them through a life of not knowing? But it's your decision and not anyone elses

  • @msdsamo
    @msdsamo ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Man, Christoffer is so deep and wise. He takes his time to think before answering. So refreshing to see as my hubby is the complete opposite of Christoffer. He just blurts out things before thinking first 😂😂😂

    • @jurgita_4832
      @jurgita_4832 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That is so "unsexy" for a man to blurt out things before thinking first.

  • @StaceeMassey
    @StaceeMassey ปีที่แล้ว +179

    I love how Christopher seems to just be along for the ride. He is so reserved and a man of few words. That's actually refreshing.
    *Sorry, Christoffer! Not used to that spelling.

    • @MsStina84
      @MsStina84 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Easy to be confused, as Cecilia usually pronouces it in English.

    • @Lyburtus
      @Lyburtus ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He's Awesome & reminds me, very much of my best friend. I wish I could channel some of that calmness...

    • @bunnyserenaf
      @bunnyserenaf ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wish there were more introverts like him :)

  • @withlovefrommichigan
    @withlovefrommichigan ปีที่แล้ว +30

    My husband and I watched this together and cracked up at Christoffer - you could tell some of the questions he was like 🙄 … we loved it. His response to buying things in the house “not my area” … we died laughing. Thank you Christoffer for indulging us! 😂❤

  • @whyaddnamehere
    @whyaddnamehere หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Christoffer is a man of few words😂😂. I love that about him. It means his words mean more.

  • @jonas.zehnder
    @jonas.zehnder ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I love how Christoffer has gotten more comfortable to be on camera. Lovely seeing you both happy and healthy. Thank you for letting us get to know you guys better and about your life on Svalbard. Excited to see more of you together :)

  • @rachelo3548
    @rachelo3548 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    We have 4 children. I knew I wanted/ was ready for the last three! The first one... I was surprised/ nervous! I appreciate your outlook for yourself when it comes to adding a child to your family. We have some friends who have chosen to have no children, some have chose to have 1 or many. It is such an individual, personal choice.

  • @TropicLuv
    @TropicLuv 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Talking about how quickly Yorktown could burn, I’m so glad you have a great sensitive system to detect fire. After seeing what just happened in Lahaina, it would break your heart to see that happened to your town. Stay safe and keep enjoying your life. It’s so unique. ❤

  • @catherine3904
    @catherine3904 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think you will know when or if you want a child. The question to ask yourself is can I make the commitment to raising a child in a loving home? It is hard work and the child’s interests should be put first. My personal opinion.

  • @blancacordero3998
    @blancacordero3998 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love, love, love Christoffer! He’s such a good sport. Such a cool cat even though you can tell he’d rather be doing anything else than be in a video. Looking forward to the baking videos. Last years was so raw and fun! Love watching you guys!

  • @CGermanB
    @CGermanB ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Cecilia, I don't have kids and have not regretted it for one second.

  • @mikesebphoto
    @mikesebphoto ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Like many others here have commented, it's fun to hear more from Christoffer. He's an unusual man for these times - a guy who talks when he has something to say, who doesn't just run his mouth to hear his own voice. I take him as being self-contained, self-assured, and omni-competent. I've enjoyed getting to know your channel after my son's girlfriend sent us your link. I'm thinking about moving to Alaska if I can convince my wife, and I think my son and his GF will be there eventually. thanks for the great content, and all the best to you both.

  • @elegiooot
    @elegiooot ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are so fortunate to live there The scenery is so naturally peaceful and to have such a calm supportive and loving partner beside you is all the money in the world !!!! Stay safe and take care of each other 🙂

  • @jasonpayneuk
    @jasonpayneuk ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Always love these videos, thank you both Cecelia and Christoffer (and well done to Christoffer for pushing through and being in the videos so much now!)

  • @AmericanEnglishBrent
    @AmericanEnglishBrent ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Oh, I love the Q & As with Christoffer. Thanks, Cecilia!

  • @adihesu
    @adihesu ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You two give me such beautiful and peaceful vibes ❤ I know we only see a very minute part of your relationship but from what I can see, it looks like a very well balanced relationship. Christoffer talking always makes me happy for some reason, he’s so calm and chill. Thank you for all your videos Cecilia, they’re so beautifully well crafted. Congratulations!

  • @tanyapetroul5459
    @tanyapetroul5459 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just wanna say, I came across your channel just a few weeks ago, and Im enjoying it so much!! You guys give the most cosy and warm atmosphere ever! Thank you! 💓

  • @MsSam66ok
    @MsSam66ok ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for sharing so much of your life with us! I love watching your videos and photography ❤

  • @Rainenschu
    @Rainenschu ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I appreciate your honest answers! I've been watching your videos almost from the beginning and appreciate your talent :-)

  • @derekpink
    @derekpink ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Only stumbled on this channel recently and I find it incredibly interesting.
    The Q&A was very informative. I appreciate you guys taking the time and being so honest.

  • @_TG
    @_TG ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I'm from Ireland and my Girlfriend is Norwegian - really appreciate what you said about my country, yours is absolutely beautiful too, I love it so much. Also, I swear I heard our accent having an influence on you - there are times in your videos where I'm like "Cecilia sounded VERY Irish there" LOL, now it makes sense!

    • @CeciliaBlomdahl
      @CeciliaBlomdahl  ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Haha 😍😍 I used to have a suuuper thick irish accent!! It comes out sometimes if I've been listening to an irish podcast or if I'm speaking to someone from Ireland 🤣😊

    • @Alexandra_Hill
      @Alexandra_Hill ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I thought the same thing a few times.

    • @MOSSFEEN
      @MOSSFEEN ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@CeciliaBlomdahl Im from Cork best county in the country 😂

    • @deebeec
      @deebeec ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just started watching your channel after seeing a few shorts. I was thinking the exact same thing re a bit of an Irish accent. 😀 Loving your videos. Beautiful place. I'm from Waterford, Ireland 🇮🇪

  • @MrCaronhalt
    @MrCaronhalt ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I loved Christopher's answer about Total darkness over total light. That was a great answer, exactly the way I feel about it too. you two are an amazing couple.

  • @Indiebeau11
    @Indiebeau11 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    As an Irish person I'm so happy to hear you loved living here 😊

  • @JuiceMyRandomness
    @JuiceMyRandomness ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I am 32 and my partner is 45 just like you both and we are in the process of deciding what type of life we want… children or not!

  • @rachellucky
    @rachellucky ปีที่แล้ว

    Love to see your channel growing. Thanks to both of you for this Q&A. It was great!

  • @2012edunne
    @2012edunne ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Thanks for your complements on Ireland, nearly everyone loves us. Greetings from Dublin,

    • @MsStina84
      @MsStina84 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so jealous, all my family except he have been there.

    • @cathylewis8194
      @cathylewis8194 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have traveled the world and our 2 weeks in Ireland/Scotland was one of our best!

    • @Tip_Top
      @Tip_Top ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FrankieSIM76 lol you're so welcome 😁

    • @Lilly-hh9es
      @Lilly-hh9es ปีที่แล้ว

      everything is good in IRE but the drugs.... 😢

    • @Tip_Top
      @Tip_Top ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Lilly-hh9es are the drugs better elsewhere?

  • @heatherleith9766
    @heatherleith9766 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I just found you guys. Love, love ,love your life. And your cabin is outstanding 👏

  • @rose281396
    @rose281396 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved learning more about you two and your lives on your island. Thank you both for sharing your lives with us!

  • @laurasadie8357
    @laurasadie8357 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are both such extremely cool people- thanks so much for sharing your experiences and perspectives with us. I admire you both so much!

  • @Lindsay_Abbott
    @Lindsay_Abbott ปีที่แล้ว +135

    My husband and I met at 30, married at 35, and opened a gym shortly after. We were really happy with our lives and fur babies, but were open to the idea. This summer we decided to try for a child and I am now pregnant and about to be 40! Everyone is on their own timeline and everyone’s story is unique! Whatever you and Christopher decide is what’s right and best for your lives. ♥️

    • @OG_Bearcat
      @OG_Bearcat ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Congratulations!!

    • @Lindsay_Abbott
      @Lindsay_Abbott ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@OG_Bearcat Awww, thank you so much!! We just found out that we are having a little girl! 🥰

    • @padraigtakahashi7498
      @padraigtakahashi7498 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's awesome! Congrats.

    • @jampuppy
      @jampuppy ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Congrats! I had my last child at 37 - VBAC in a birth center with no medical supplies. It was awesome. Best of luck!!

    • @bobdillon7832
      @bobdillon7832 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good luck with that. You'll be in a wheelchair or a walker when your kid graduates high school. That is, if it doesn't have any birth defects since you are selfish and waited that long to have a kid.

  • @heikedixon4968
    @heikedixon4968 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    You two already have a kid, it's name is Grim and he has 4 legs.🐕

  • @enryiggins2878
    @enryiggins2878 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sending so much love, happiness and abundance to you three, from Florida, USA. It’s so cool to be able interact with you and learn about your life and what brings you joy. I’m so happy I found your channel!

  • @fungusfairy5878
    @fungusfairy5878 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your channel sm!! Thank you for making these videos and sharing them with the world. 🎉

  • @sandrarawn2147
    @sandrarawn2147 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    🇨🇦 Also want to thank Christopher for putting yourself through this QA. I know it's probably not your thing! 👍

  • @fayepotts3279
    @fayepotts3279 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Thank you and Christopher for opening up your lives to us.
    It’s helps us to get to know you better and love you all the more.
    Love Christopher’s gentle spirit and your bubbly personality.

  • @OneShotww
    @OneShotww ปีที่แล้ว

    Really enjoy your channel and learning about an area that is so different from where I live. The nature views are outstanding. The glassy water with the snow capped mountains reflected in it, oh my! Seeing the Northern Lights thru your eyes is also wonderful.

  • @mamasuki
    @mamasuki ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how you speak of your attitude about the seasons there. Not leaving when it’s “difficult.” ❤ I adore our snowy winters in upstate NY but so many people complain about and dislike them. I embrace all seasons, with the darker cold winter being a time of hibernating, reading and other lower paced inside activities. I love that lower-pressure time. I try to fully embrace all four seasons. I think doing this also makes me enjoy the others. It’s not dissimilar to how we humans can long for what we don’t have in life. It seems to apply to the weather and seasons too!
    ❄️🌸🌳🍁

  • @mackea4651
    @mackea4651 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    thank you for breaking it down!!We'll have regrets for things we did not participate in...Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life.

    • @philip1258
      @philip1258 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with you and I believe that the secret to financial stability is having the right investment ideas to enable you earn more money, I don't know who agrees with me but either way, I recommend either real estate or crypto and stocks

    • @leither-truth4414
      @leither-truth4414 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@philip1258 Regardless of all, investing in crypto markets trading still remains one of the best ways of getting out of poverty and obtaining financial freedom in this global economy pandemic

    • @martinmomu9141
      @martinmomu9141 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wanted to trade crypto but got confused by the fluctuations in price

    • @vaztrevorknox4203
      @vaztrevorknox4203 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@martinmomu9141 The fluctuations of the market only affect those that hodl coins, but traders makes money on both sides, when it's bearish they go short when it's bullish they go long... The best strategy to use in trading crypto is to trade with a professional, like Arjun B Jagat he understand the market quite well, that way maximum profits are guaranteed.

    • @lea5898
      @lea5898 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vaztrevorknox4203 I'm honestly surprised that this name is being mentioned here, I stumbled upon one of his clients testimony last two months in CNBC world news and decided to try him out...I'm Expecting my third cashout in 2days

  • @perlah8407
    @perlah8407 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I agree with the child part. I‘m 37 and i still haven‘t figure it out with my husband if we want😂 but I think it's a no. Been deciding for so long that is better to regret not having than having one and regret it after.

  • @jkjobies
    @jkjobies ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Glad you love Ireland! Be a great trip for you and Christopher! ☘️☘️☘️

  • @muddikissez22
    @muddikissez22 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Christopher - Thank You for taking time with us!!

  • @choochoochooseyou
    @choochoochooseyou ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Cecilia is such a lovely personality x

  • @carriedoddsorourke4906
    @carriedoddsorourke4906 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    As a almost 60 year old …. I just love this couple. LOL

  • @GrumpyMeow-Meow
    @GrumpyMeow-Meow 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I completely agree that people should not push others have children. It’s a personal decision, and a private matter. If we were all meant to be parents, there wouldn’t be child abuse.

  • @warmfuzzypants
    @warmfuzzypants ปีที่แล้ว

    I just love your channel! I’m so glad your drone comes back because the drone shots are always awesome!

  • @amym2944
    @amym2944 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I spent 3 weeks in Svalbard Jan/feb 2019. I think my heart and soul are still there. Thank you for these videos. I have got to come back one day soon

  • @GingerKral
    @GingerKral ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I remember back in the beginning when Christopher didn't even like being on camera let alone speak. 🤣 He's come a long way and you're both doing such an amazing job with your channel. Happy Halloween!! 🎃🎃

  • @theresalally1620
    @theresalally1620 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are absolutely correct! Ppl should not be judged bc they don’t have children! I’m a mother and grandmother I wouldn’t change my decision for anything! However, there is nothing wrong not having children,and should not be guilted into it!luv u guys❤️

  • @robertbelliottjr5773
    @robertbelliottjr5773 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another wonderful insightful video. Both you and Christoffer are so interesting to listen to. You brought up the topic of children…listen to your heart. Don’t let anyone try and tell you both what is best.
    Thanks again. I look forward to your next video.
    Bob-Portland, Oregon

  • @iryna.konoplianko
    @iryna.konoplianko 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You two are so lovely! Thanks a ton for sharing your experience with us 💙

  • @Annie-qp5iu
    @Annie-qp5iu ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So happy to hear your comments about Ireland 😊, from Ireland.

  • @renieestrada9193
    @renieestrada9193 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love Christopher’s demeanor 😊. So mellow 😊.

  • @Chronicmom68
    @Chronicmom68 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was great! I'm so envious! As a child we lived in Alaska and while I don't recall it ever being dark 24/7, I do recall going to school in the dark and coming home in the dark, so very limited daylight. And the one thing that lives in me 46 years after leaving is the feel of walking on the tundra and the smell of the air. There is no smell like it and I want to expirence it again one day. I imagine all those things are greatly heightened on Svalbard. I think it would be magical to spend polar nights there!! Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @adventureswithjosie
    @adventureswithjosie ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These videos with the questions are always a lot of fun, and very interesting to learn more about you and Christoffer!

  • @TK-vv6to
    @TK-vv6to ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think your attitude is a responsible way to look at being parents. It’s not for everyone and sadly too many have kids who have no business having them. They have them because of traditions or pressure. Your right, it is hard and you must be totally dedicated to it.

  • @LC05
    @LC05 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You guys remind me of my parents; my mom is super social while my dad is a man of very few words. 🥰

  • @leilaeissa3348
    @leilaeissa3348 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I came across your channel as a recommended video after watching a Qs Greenland video and I’m so glad I did. Your channel is amazing

  • @nikkinewell577
    @nikkinewell577 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love every new video. You two are beautiful humans. Thank you for letting us see your amazing world.

  • @Geraldinslo
    @Geraldinslo ปีที่แล้ว +49

    It was nice to have Christoffer talk and smile just because we don't usually get that. Your view from the living room is so amazing. All the best to you both

  • @markuserikssen
    @markuserikssen ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was a really nice episode again! Some questions I had were answered, about the shoreline, earthquakes, and getting old there. Very interesting! 😃

  • @miekstrab
    @miekstrab ปีที่แล้ว

    I love watching your videos so much. It’s all so magical and fascinating. Thanks for everything

  • @ekaterinafilatova8883
    @ekaterinafilatova8883 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    guys, you have such a beautiful souls! I found out your chanel 2 days ago and I can not stop watching it! you are just amazing! It is so peaceful to watch you both. Thank you so much for sharing it with us ❤️

  • @kellinigh2398
    @kellinigh2398 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks Celia and Christoffer I learned a lot about Svalbard. I would love to try the polar nights.

  • @kittiescorner222
    @kittiescorner222 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don't know why it is so ingrained that it is our duty to have kids. Honestly, there are already way to many people on the earth taking up resources. I used to feel like I needed to have a kid, but I didn't meet my husband until I was 36. By that point I realized that I liked my life the way it was and was older then I would have wanted to be to have kids. Also on another note, that's a shame that cats aren't allowed. I don't see why the law couldn't be that cats need to be indoor only.

  • @sebastianfisher957
    @sebastianfisher957 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fascinating. Stumbled across your channel through the shorts. Love following you.

  • @anonone1
    @anonone1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can’t thank you enough for your content! So refreshing 💗

  • @LokiMiki1
    @LokiMiki1 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Christoffer us so calm and chill while you are so upbeat. I appreciate the balance between you two, your videos are always my favorite. Looking forward to all the baking videos 🤗

  • @heathereton5582
    @heathereton5582 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You guys are so mellow. The dog costume was hilarious. 😂👻

  • @ashleyanna8965
    @ashleyanna8965 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just found you and I am loving your content. Christopher reminds me of my husband so much. I cant wait to see more. Thank you for sharing your life with me

  • @stina7
    @stina7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really love listening to both your thoughts and opinions on all of these questions. Living life just as you should!! Hugs and well wishes from Boston, MA.