Hello Aluxers! What about your current life seems unfair? Video Notes: www.alux.com/unfair-life Invest in yourself today: www.alux.com/meditation Get a free audiobook thanks to Audible: www.alux.com/freebook
Never stop doing your best just because life doesn’t give you credit. For those who read this: Always remember that your present situation is not your final destination. The best is yet to come.
For those of you who are only interested in the list, here are the video notes: www.alux.com/unfair-life Here's the list: 00:49 - Some people are born rich 01:57 - Some people are born with a natural talent 03:20 - Some people are born better looking or taller than you 04:39 - Some people are born in a better country than you 05:39 - Some people have access to better teachers and mentors 07:28 - Some doors open only for the people who are already in the hallway 08:05 - You get reward based on results not effort or intent 08:43 - Bad people sometimes get away with doing bad things 09:24 - Two thirds of your adult life you’re either working or asleep 10:39 - Life is a competition 12:31 - Your soulmate might be on the other side of the planet and you’ll settle for what’s available 13:08 - Most people never pursue their calling 14:13 - Rewards in life come based on the number of people impacted not effort or quality 15:21 - Life is a maze not a marathon 16:01 - Cancer & other illnesses
00:49 - Some people are born rich 01:57 - Some people are born with a natural talent 03:20 - Some people are born better looking or taller than you 04:39 - Some people are born in a better country than you 05:39 - Some people have access to better teachers and mentors 07:28 - Some doors open only for the people who are already in the hallway 08:05 - You get reward based on results not effort or intent 08:43 - Bad people sometimes get away with doing bad things 09:24 - Two thirds of your adult life you’re either working or asleep 10:39 - Life is a competition 12:31 - Your soulmate might be on the other side of the planet and you’ll settle for what’s available 13:08 - Most people never pursue their calling 14:13 - Rewards in life come based on the number of people impacted not effort or quality 15:21 - Life is a maze not a marathon 16:01 - Cancer & other illnesses
So, for me life picked Cancer and I have learnt to dance in that situation. I have kicked it's ass out of my life with a big smile and back in business again. Life is indeed unfair but the moment you accept and move on, that's what called happiness is in life. Wishing everyone a happy and healthy life from Bangladesh. Big hugs 🤗. See you Aluxers at Mind Mastery someday.
@@alux Number 8 is very true in regards to white collar criminals, who usually spend a few years in posh minimum security resort style prisons instead of decades in violent medium security ones.
really needed this...in nursing school and feeling like I should've done this a long time ago...but then I realize I am exactly where I need to be....so life is fair!
Whats important is to stop attributing monetary success straight to a person's hard work or talent, there are a host of other factors at play in deciding how much fame or money a person accrues. This keeps the rich humble and gives dignity to the unsung superheroes.
The problem with Number 1 ( especially in the USA) is that those born into wealth inevitably move into politics and make rules and decisions over the lives of people that they cannot relate to, hence creating a huge gulf of distrust that never changes.
When I deeply think of all 15 point esp number 15...i think to myself what is the purpose of chasing all these things in life... All these thing we collect in life only to reach the last hour and it all gets left behind for someone else to do what they want with it My crazy mind says... Live simply, but ENJOY LIFE, Build memories, travel, meet lots of new people and build good relationships, always leave a 1 nugget of inspiration when parting with someone you meet, share all your life lesson and education with people you meet...
I have watched many of your videos till the end. What I found in common is that all of these videos mostly motivates the business minded. What about the job-holders. They don't seem to have too many options of starting something new or working on their own terms as their companies are very demanding. They even have to work for 12 to 16 hours a day, come home for 3 hours of sleep(which is not even half of what is needed), eat anyhow and hustle again back in the day job. Quitting job is definitely not the right option straight away, but who will get time to develop a side profession or a business when working like this? Can you please make a video on such a topic that could provide a blueprint to re-model life for such individuals?
No ,they cannot do what you seek ,because there is not any way such to be done.These world is good only for businessmen ,not for workers and always will be.
Knowing that because I am Black, weak people fear me and thus do things to block my progress even when I am not competing with them. When I am competing with them, that fear manifests itself as bias and racism. I intend to keep improving myself, keep being of service and producing quality work that is of value, So that as a force of nature I am not ignored but in fact rewarded .
I love you guys. I know this is a platform to monetize and live a fruitful life for you guys, but the fact that you add value to other peoples' lives while doing it is undeniable.
You don't choose where you're born, thus you have no choice about who your RELATIVES are... but you can choose your FAMILY and make it ups s you go along. My business partners and mentors and friends have become my family. If the people you grew up with, those relatives, are toxic and negative or want to keep you down and use you up... get as far away from them as you can, make it so they don't feel they can show up in your life in a few years when you're doing much better. Plainly tell them you want nothing to do with them NOW or EVER, and keep your word to yourself, people hardly ever change, so if you get rid of them and then they show up later you can make a safe bet they have not changed at all. I came back years ago to my "family" after years of absence, I had changed so much, learned so much, but they were still there, so I came back and with new wyes I tried to fit in with them and make some connections, it was futile, as I almost immediately noticed they had not changed at all, immediately I noticed they started with that old habits and feeling and force to try to PULL ME DOWN, jokingly and all that but always negative, so I told them again I was gone and never coming back, they asked why and I told them I realized they hadn't changed and were using me for money or favors and they never were there for me for the simplest things, there were always reasons why they could never help or simply be nice to others, the people they were years ago that bullied others and were always negative and discouraging that is the people they were still Now so I bid them good bye and good luck but I was gone... I realized [painful shit bt it is true] that they were RELATIVES since we were born from the same woman, but we had never been FAMILY, that as soon as I had use of reason and could support myself I wanted and did get away from them, and this short reunion of a few months only confirmed what I already knew but naively kept hoping it wasn't so... now it's been a few years since I left again for good, and never made so much progress on all aspects of life and business, happy as hell, and hardly even thin of them, only when I hear a video like this that reminds me of those facts.. Sorry this got long, good luck to all of you.
4:56 😂😂😂😂😂 I was born in Nepal and I live here. Honestly, its not that bad. Of course, its not on par with the US or New Zealand but it has its own perks. 🙂
Sure it is! We are happy in the crowd of Kathmandu, Pokhara or Birjung, until we see the life in the Norway or New Zealand. Once we are in these countries, very few want to return!
The unfair thing was my partner turned out to be an abuser and I never did get a career because I was all the children had. I still hope to become a nurse.
15. Cancer and other illnesses. 14. Life is a maze not a marathon. 13. Rewards in life come from the people impacted not the effort or quality. 12. Most people never pursue their calling 11. Your soulmate might be on the other side of the world but you'll settle with who's avaliable. 10. Life is a competition. 9. Two thirds of your adult life is spent sleeping or working. 8. Bad people sometimes get away with bad things. 7. You get a result based on results not effort or intent. 6. Some doors open only for those in the hallway. 5. Some people have access to better mentors and teachers 4. Some people are born in a better country than you. 3. Some people are born better looking or taller than you. 2. Some people are born with a natural talent. 1. Some people are born rich
Two unfair things I battle with. The lasting effects of childhood abuse, though no matter how many times I step back I keep going, and how, in the U.S., women can take or destroy everything you’ve worked for.
Hi alux, I'm from Zambia and it's actually really hard to make it here, our country has high corruption rates and only the extremely hard working really make it
I screwed up my life when I was young. But I have been learning stuff, re-enrolled in University, started working out, did ALL there is to it. But just because I did some crappy things about 5 years ago, no high quality employer hires me. I am stuck. This is what is unfair.
Hello Alux, You made a point in #4 which might not be exactly true. I live in Haïti and I’m a product manager for a Telecom company; however, despite the fact that some of us have access to internet we rarely have access to meaningful and valuable information. Sometimes we even struggle to get access to the basic ones 🤦♂️
I always find peace of mind anytime I am watching Alux inspirational video. I wonder how my life will be if their is no Alux.Thanks guys...from Yoruba nation (Nigeria)
Just wondering heather not trying to impose but if all your siblings grew up with a silver spoon why not you? I know I barely knew my siblings because they were older and 0 closeness
From what I understand, Chadwick's career wasn't stopped by cancer (until it killed him). He had success despite the cancer. Could have easily gone the "can't do it, got cancer" route. Very inspirational as to how I want to face my challenges.
Top of the morning Aluxs! “Most people visit their best life’s but have to work to live your best life and that is by finding out what works for you!” Yllex Metellus We all have the same 24 hours and the only difference between that is what we do with our time. Time is the most valuable thing that man can have, so use it to better you in every way possible. YOU ARE THE NEXT BEST THING
My siblings all grew up with a silver spoon, still do. Me, the exact opposite, I gave to the whole family and received not one cent. Changing that, starting with getting as far away as possible.
Let’s just take a step back: this channel has changed my life so so so much I can’t even explain. I love what you guys are doing , not a lot of people will give all these “secrets” for FREE! Thank you so much and God bless #ALUX . To my Alux family ; We are all on a journey and I’ll see everyone at the top! Love always ❤️ 🙏🏽 #Billionaires
T.J. C Everyone has a nack for something. Rather it’s organic to you, or you acquire/develop it later. I don’t totally believe that life/time completely discriminate. Time hits us all at the same moment in the same way. And if a person has leverage (i.e. prestigious name, born rich), they usually lack in other areas - that you can only acquire by GOING THU SOMETHING. And their come-upings will catch-up. Life constantly seeks BALANCE. You stole from prev generations to benefit your clan. Karma from the Universe will come onto those received benefactors. Life always seeks balance. No worries about what is fair & what’s not. Jesus came down here and died for all of us. So, at least that’s one least worry for us. Re-direct the energy (those worries) towards doing something constructive, to modify your circumstance; help achieve your goals. That’s the whole point.
This is one of the best content I've ever seen on TH-cam or anywhere for that matter. Super amazing Alux Team! Your consistency and brilliance is unbelievably outstanding.
The unfair things in my life are slowly changing. Yes I was born with a ton obstacles I'm still overcoming. I hate how unfair this climb is. It's especially annoying when people look down on you or poke fun at where you are. However, at least I was born with my own resilience, determination, and brain. I'll get there. :-)
African lady ,even you yourself are not truly believing what you are uttering.The world is so maddeningly unfair and always will be. For example ,if you was born a prettiest african woman like Naomi Campbel you would lead a life of sheer happiness and utmost luxury or if I was born so hauntingly handsome like George Clooney I also would lead a so wonderful ,wonderful life.But ,sadly ,we are not born such ...I do not know about you but I have decades of bodily shortcomings and even life-threatening illnesses and the only reason for which I am still keep on living is because I am so afraid of the dying and never I myself could gather enough soul's stregths so that to put an end to my unhappy life and therefore I ought to undergo this hurting life to my natural end...
@@bitterly_sorrying perhaps you should consider turning the unfair things in your life into your motivators and learn to move on. The life I have lived and currently live has shown me I must work with what I have. I'm grateful for my grit, intelligence, and resilience. Those things continue to never fail me. That continues to fuel my motivation to achieve, and every step forward I take not appreciating what I do for myself, something shows me this is how far I've come. I wish you the best. 🤗
What's unfair in life is that time can be brutal. I'm sure many people have said the same thing like me. "If I can go back in Time, my life would be different"
The Unfair: 1) Born in a developing nation as a millenial (we've changed a bunch of stupid rules from education to work but will never feel the effects of that change because the damage in our life is done thanks to boomer parents). 2) Suffering from Spondylitis that causes a burning sensation in the waist and the spinal chord region causing a mild stiffness in the spine and the joints. 3) Broke with retired parents and a whole lot of debt. Will be inheriting a small 2BHK apartment in Calcutta (a city people are fleeing from). 4)Stuck at a backend 9 hrs job working in night shifts that barely pays the Bills. Studying fulltime to get a degree but can't quit the job cause it's the only source of Income for now and pays for the degree. 5)Employer taking advantage of the fact that nobody else will hire a current student on a fulltime role. That means extra work and working post office hours. 6) Stuck with a height of 5' 2 because of the waist joint issues. 7)Can't apply for any interesting jobs because humans don't work in night shifts. 8)Will spend the most part of my youth battling the odds & struggling in a stale mate career in a developing nation gaining irrelevant experience just to get out and restart LIFE.. The Good Part: *Will be applying to some of the best colleges out there later on in some of the first world countries and become a global citizen. *Will land Consulting offers at large consulting firms and travel. *Will build an empire with a string of well funded startups (like a serial entrepreneur). Raising, expanding & delegating..taking everything in my stride one after another..like a dance of creation and expansion..like a wolf I'll do it till the day I die. I may have brittle bones but I have a long lifeline. *Will become an angel investor. 😈😈😊🦈🎓👨🎓💀🦁🐯🐅🐺🦇🐉🐲
You won't get much done on your to-do list if you continue holding onto your victim stance. You'll need to get past that in order to create what you want in your life.
Was really having a rough day until watched this so good video and answered so many of my unanswered questions that I had till today Keep up the good work Alux! ❤️
I was so disappointed when I heard alux say "some people are born with a natural talent", I was heartbroken hearing this from Alux. Talent is just a word used to describe something that has been done over and over again to become the best in that. Nobody was born with anything because we had nothing in our heads when we were born. I'm so heartbroken hearing this from alux.
A person once told me ' the only reason why the other kids talk to you is only because you're good at drawing. ' This happened in school, IDK how do I react to it, even now
I was born and raised in Hungary but in 2 weeks after my school leaving exam, I moved to Austria because I thought I can achieve my goals there, I will be able to earn much more money and will have far more opportunities than in my home country. After 3 years of struggling I learned German I have plenty of work experience in different fields and I am able to work for a decent salary but on the other hand I think after 3 years the time has come to jump onto a higher level so I decided to apply myself to College to be more valuable on the Market and now I am sure what kind of job do I want to do. We know in life 2 directions: Up and Forward and not Down and Back! ( Wish me luck for the College 🤞😬🤞)
Alux am from zambia things are hard here but am trying in all means to follow your advice on getting rich, we need more of videos on under devloped countrys like zambia
T.J. C Everyone has a nack for something. Rather it’s organic to you, or you acquire/develop it later. I don’t totally believe that life/time completely discriminate. Time hits us all at the same moment in the same way. And if a person has leverage (i.e. prestigious name, born rich), they usually lack in other areas - that you can only acquire by GOING THU SOMETHING. And their come-upings will catch-up. Life constantly seeks BALANCE. You stole from prev generations to benefit your clan. Karma from the Universe will come onto those received benefactors. Life always seeks balance. No worries about what is fair & what’s not. Jesus came down here and died for all of us. So, at least that’s one least worry for us. Re-direct the energy (those worries) towards doing something constructive, to modify your circumstance; help achieve your goals. That’s the whole point.
You know what hurts most, when you know what your talent is, you know what you want to do in your life, you have a great passion about it but just because your parents don't want to do it , you have sacrifice your dream your goal and then live the life they choose for you😞😞😞😞😭😭😑
OMG!! #5 the best. Thank you so much Alux your videos has done so much for me in discovering my life goals, thank you, thank you. I was honestly lost and still are in certain aspects of me life, but I understand it is a process, it is really difficult but I know it is possible. I don't want to rant too much, it is just time enough I said thank you.
Wow - another great video from Alux. That was alot to process. Finding your calling - I found mine and I am pursuing it part-time and I hope to turn it into a full-time career that will make me money. Soulmate - I want to find my soulmate and if I have to travel on the other side of the world to find him and NOT settle for what is nearby, I will. And finally success - I wish all of you Aluxers peace, wealth and success. Here's to making 2021 our best year yet. I spent my time during the pandemic watching Alux, educating myself on how how to get rich and I am looking forward to the next chapter in my life.
So, the most unfair situations in my life happened and still happens is, Teacher's judging and their Marking system in my school as well as in a college. I always can't put up with that (UNFAIR) conditions. Basically, this demotivates me, and I will just stop competing with my peers.
But you can't stop. The same will happen at your job/career it's inevitable that's life. You always try YOUR best not someone else's. Track your OWN progression etc. Stay focused stay making a positive out of every negative situation and stay smiling . You got this! Strong
Stepfather who verbally and mentally abused me, spine injury eliminating my dream of football, dead broke living in my mother’s basement. It all sucks but I’m trying.
Working for free. Between 4.0 in high school, college, law school, working unpaid internships and now COVID everyone wants young people to keep working for free on the promise it will pay off "someday"
Disagree w/ zero-sum, for most part. Take massive action, constantly learn, focus in on results,dress the part, act w/ integrity & there’s more than enough to go around for all those who do these things
Also some people have a family or somewhere they belong. Some of us lost family or never had it in the first place. Plus some people had better upbringing. Which are the things that seem most unfair to me personally from my point of view.
Holistic medicine has been a blessing in my life as far as treating illnesses. I was very sick with depression and anxiety. Then I learned about people like Dr Sebi (RIP) and how to deal with my body and my life has been better since. It pays to educate yourself about your own health so you can prevent lots of diseases and you'll decrease the likelihood of an emergency. I'm not a doctor and it isn't medical advice, but there are knowledgeable people out there. You can make it through your obstacles. May health and happiness be your destiny.
Wow Alux, I am loving you more now! This is what a future billionaires need to learn, Not that unnecessary luxury brand names and why something is expensive!! There are so many others to do that. But this is something I get only from you! By the way bring a book series fast...
As the author of now 18 nonfiction books I will tell you the more you write the more likely you will begin to get those royalties they talk about as a GREAT passive income! I now in the midst of writing my first novel!
I wish people would change their eating habits and lifestyle.. That way maybe we would have less cancer cases.. It's a very brutal disease... Wishing you all good health.
Hello Aluxers! What about your current life seems unfair?
Video Notes: www.alux.com/unfair-life
Invest in yourself today: www.alux.com/meditation
Get a free audiobook thanks to Audible: www.alux.com/freebook
Ur awesome ❤️❤️👍
@@randomreactor603 Thanks :D
The thumbnail is extraordinary... Good choice
big fan from NEPAL..
@@alux please do one on how not to screw up in life
Never stop doing your best just because life doesn’t give you credit. For those who read this: Always remember that your present situation is not your final destination. The best is yet to come.
Thanks😊
sakib al hassan 🙏🏻🙏🏻
You know it!
The best is yet to come!
"The best is yet to come" Frank Sinatra's words /lyrics. I'm 38 and I love his music 😁
For those of you who are only interested in the list, here are the video notes: www.alux.com/unfair-life
Here's the list:
00:49 - Some people are born rich
01:57 - Some people are born with a natural talent
03:20 - Some people are born better looking or taller than you
04:39 - Some people are born in a better country than you
05:39 - Some people have access to better teachers and mentors
07:28 - Some doors open only for the people who are already in the hallway
08:05 - You get reward based on results not effort or intent
08:43 - Bad people sometimes get away with doing bad things
09:24 - Two thirds of your adult life you’re either working or asleep
10:39 - Life is a competition
12:31 - Your soulmate might be on the other side of the planet and you’ll settle for what’s available
13:08 - Most people never pursue their calling
14:13 - Rewards in life come based on the number of people impacted not effort or quality
15:21 - Life is a maze not a marathon
16:01 - Cancer & other illnesses
❤️👍Your channel is inspiring
What about your RACE?🤔 Being Black or White?
I know there are a lot of people who massage you on instagram but see my massage
@ Hermes approves.
Finally ! Thanks !
00:49 - Some people are born rich
01:57 - Some people are born with a natural talent
03:20 - Some people are born better looking or taller than you
04:39 - Some people are born in a better country than you
05:39 - Some people have access to better teachers and mentors
07:28 - Some doors open only for the people who are already in the hallway
08:05 - You get reward based on results not effort or intent
08:43 - Bad people sometimes get away with doing bad things
09:24 - Two thirds of your adult life you’re either working or asleep
10:39 - Life is a competition
12:31 - Your soulmate might be on the other side of the planet and you’ll settle for what’s available
13:08 - Most people never pursue their calling
14:13 - Rewards in life come based on the number of people impacted not effort or quality
15:21 - Life is a maze not a marathon
16:01 - Cancer & other illnesses
Thanks bro. You will become a billionaire soon.
Thank you so much!
Thanks bby
thanks a lot
It’s also always written in the description.
So, for me life picked Cancer and I have learnt to dance in that situation. I have kicked it's ass out of my life with a big smile and back in business again. Life is indeed unfair but the moment you accept and move on, that's what called happiness is in life. Wishing everyone a happy and healthy life from Bangladesh. Big hugs 🤗.
See you Aluxers at Mind Mastery someday.
Congrats! Take care of yourself.. eat well, go to the doctor frequently 😅
💜💪
😂The thumbnail with the dictator is funny and precise
We got it right
@@alux Number 8 is very true in regards to white collar criminals, who usually spend a few years in posh minimum security resort style prisons instead of decades in violent medium security ones.
The most unfair thing ever happended to me is childhood abuse, to this day I struggle with an emptiness inside me.
Emptyness of the cup....make it useful. Fill it with great thoughts Aluxer. We’re.
You'll do great, don't worry.
Sorry I mispelled the word emptyness thank you Saiprasaddvd, and yes that's true, but It doens't change that is unfair.
I can relate to that. It's hard, but not matter the odds, you gotta commit to loving yourself.
@@jesicagv5447 can you please elaborate what happened ?
"When you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe, then you'll be successful" -Eric Thomas
I don't always comment but I must say this is the greatest channel you can ever find here. Thanks Alux for the value you are putting out there.
Thank you Samuel! Really appreciate it!
She just said Nepal, I'm from Nepal. Wish me luck.
You can do it!
Go you!!
You should follow " Bruce Lee path be water my friend "
Nepal is not the worst country on earth
@@applepie3701 north korea?
"Most people never pursue their calling" this really hit. Thankyou Alux❤❤.
Can you do a video on doctors and the richest doctors in the world.
really needed this...in nursing school and feeling like I should've done this a long time ago...but then I realize I am exactly where I need to be....so life is fair!
Whats important is to stop attributing monetary success straight to a person's hard work or talent, there are a host of other factors at play in deciding how much fame or money a person accrues. This keeps the rich humble and gives dignity to the unsung superheroes.
The problem with Number 1 ( especially in the USA) is that those born into wealth inevitably move into politics and make rules and decisions over the lives of people that they cannot relate to, hence creating a huge gulf of distrust that never changes.
Okayyy. So which country has a President that can still relate to and was from a middle/poor class family....😑
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LOOOL i was born Zambia, but grew up in London and and achieved highly like my mum set out to. big up Alux for that point
Shut up man your mum doesn't have eyebrows
When I deeply think of all 15 point esp number 15...i think to myself what is the purpose of chasing all these things in life... All these thing we collect in life only to reach the last hour and it all gets left behind for someone else to do what they want with it
My crazy mind says... Live simply, but ENJOY LIFE, Build memories, travel, meet lots of new people and build good relationships, always leave a 1 nugget of inspiration when parting with someone you meet, share all your life lesson and education with people you meet...
I have watched many of your videos till the end. What I found in common is that all of these videos mostly motivates the business minded. What about the job-holders. They don't seem to have too many options of starting something new or working on their own terms as their companies are very demanding. They even have to work for 12 to 16 hours a day, come home for 3 hours of sleep(which is not even half of what is needed), eat anyhow and hustle again back in the day job. Quitting job is definitely not the right option straight away, but who will get time to develop a side profession or a business when working like this? Can you please make a video on such a topic that could provide a blueprint to re-model life for such individuals?
No ,they cannot do what you seek ,because there is not any way such to be done.These world is good only for businessmen ,not for workers and always will be.
True
Knowing that because I am Black, weak people fear me and thus do things to block my progress even when I am not competing with them. When I am competing with them, that fear manifests itself as bias and racism. I intend to keep improving myself, keep being of service and producing quality work that is of value, So that as a force of nature I am not ignored but in fact rewarded .
I love you guys. I know this is a platform to monetize and live a fruitful life for you guys, but the fact that you add value to other peoples' lives while doing it is undeniable.
Uh?
*"Cultivate your own garden."*
You don't choose where you're born, thus you have no choice about who your RELATIVES are... but you can choose your FAMILY and make it ups s you go along. My business partners and mentors and friends have become my family.
If the people you grew up with, those relatives, are toxic and negative or want to keep you down and use you up... get as far away from them as you can, make it so they don't feel they can show up in your life in a few years when you're doing much better. Plainly tell them you want nothing to do with them NOW or EVER, and keep your word to yourself, people hardly ever change, so if you get rid of them and then they show up later you can make a safe bet they have not changed at all. I came back years ago to my "family" after years of absence, I had changed so much, learned so much, but they were still there, so I came back and with new wyes I tried to fit in with them and make some connections, it was futile, as I almost immediately noticed they had not changed at all, immediately I noticed they started with that old habits and feeling and force to try to PULL ME DOWN, jokingly and all that but always negative, so I told them again I was gone and never coming back, they asked why and I told them I realized they hadn't changed and were using me for money or favors and they never were there for me for the simplest things, there were always reasons why they could never help or simply be nice to others, the people they were years ago that bullied others and were always negative and discouraging that is the people they were still Now so I bid them good bye and good luck but I was gone... I realized [painful shit bt it is true] that they were RELATIVES since we were born from the same woman, but we had never been FAMILY, that as soon as I had use of reason and could support myself I wanted and did get away from them, and this short reunion of a few months only confirmed what I already knew but naively kept hoping it wasn't so... now it's been a few years since I left again for good, and never made so much progress on all aspects of life and business, happy as hell, and hardly even thin of them, only when I hear a video like this that reminds me of those facts..
Sorry this got long, good luck to all of you.
4:56 😂😂😂😂😂
I was born in Nepal and I live here. Honestly, its not that bad. Of course, its not on par with the US or New Zealand but it has its own perks. 🙂
I agree 😂 I grew up in nepal and I’m glad i did.
you missed her point
I born in india but it okay to die in denmark
Sure it is! We are happy in the crowd of Kathmandu, Pokhara or Birjung, until we see the life in the Norway or New Zealand. Once we are in these countries, very few want to return!
Remember Mount Everest is in India and also Gautam Buddha was an Indian , thanks ❤️
The unfair thing was my partner turned out to be an abuser and I never did get a career because I was all the children had. I still hope to become a nurse.
When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reason to smile:-)♥️♥️
15. Cancer and other illnesses.
14. Life is a maze not a marathon.
13. Rewards in life come from the people impacted not the effort or quality.
12. Most people never pursue their calling
11. Your soulmate might be on the other side of the world but you'll settle with who's avaliable.
10. Life is a competition.
9. Two thirds of your adult life is spent sleeping or working.
8. Bad people sometimes get away with bad things.
7. You get a result based on results not effort or intent.
6. Some doors open only for those in the hallway.
5. Some people have access to better mentors and teachers
4. Some people are born in a better country than you.
3. Some people are born better looking or taller than you.
2. Some people are born with a natural talent.
1. Some people are born rich
@Louie Smith it's real
Focus on yourself, put your head down and keep on grinding. You'll get there eventually 💪
Keep your head up*
Alex Bent that too
That dictator's funny scene on thumbnail 😂😂😂
What else would we use...
I was thinking the same
It shows aluxa's sense of humour
He shoots the other runners to come in first place 😁😁😁. He gave himself Oscar when he acted in his own movies lol.
Two unfair things I battle with. The lasting effects of childhood abuse, though no matter how many times I step back I keep going, and how, in the U.S., women can take or destroy everything you’ve worked for.
Hi alux, I'm from Zambia and it's actually really hard to make it here, our country has high corruption rates and only the extremely hard working really make it
The struggle ey, I'm Zambian too
@@MaureenKatalilooh wow, each part
Lusaka. What about you?
Life is unfair to everyone, this makes life fair.
No it's not unfair to everyone. What you're saying is something people say to cope with the reality.
I screwed up my life when I was young. But I have been learning stuff, re-enrolled in University, started working out, did ALL there is to it. But just because I did some crappy things about 5 years ago, no high quality employer hires me. I am stuck. This is what is unfair.
Hello Alux,
You made a point in #4 which might not be exactly true.
I live in Haïti and I’m a product manager for a Telecom company; however, despite the fact that some of us have access to internet we rarely have access to meaningful and valuable information.
Sometimes we even struggle to get access to the basic ones 🤦♂️
I always find peace of mind anytime I am watching Alux inspirational video. I wonder how my life will be if their is no Alux.Thanks guys...from Yoruba nation (Nigeria)
Just wondering heather not trying to impose but if all your siblings grew up with a silver spoon why not you? I know I barely knew my siblings because they were older and 0 closeness
From what I understand, Chadwick's career wasn't stopped by cancer (until it killed him). He had success despite the cancer. Could have easily gone the "can't do it, got cancer" route. Very inspirational as to how I want to face my challenges.
Played at 1.5x, she sounded so concerned of 'ME'. Narrator be my mentor 🙏🏻
Top of the morning Aluxs!
“Most people visit their best life’s but have to work to live your best life and that is by finding out what works for you!”
Yllex Metellus
We all have the same 24 hours and the only difference between that is what we do with our time. Time is the most valuable thing that man can have, so use it to better you in every way possible.
YOU ARE THE NEXT BEST THING
My siblings all grew up with a silver spoon, still do. Me, the exact opposite, I gave to the whole family and received not one cent. Changing that, starting with getting as far away as possible.
summary: many people are extremely luckier than you, just as you're probably way luckier than many others
Love from Zambia 🇿🇲. I just hope im not the only Zambian getting such content.
Unfortunately, i still confuse where to begin to redesign my life achievement, getting older but still has no luck in career
Let’s just take a step back: this channel has changed my life so so so much I can’t even explain. I love what you guys are doing , not a lot of people will give all these “secrets” for FREE! Thank you so much and God bless #ALUX . To my Alux family ; We are all on a journey and I’ll see everyone at the top! Love always ❤️ 🙏🏽 #Billionaires
The fact that some people are born with a natural talent is unbelievably unfair.
I hear you but that doesn't mean we can't develop a talent with more practice to get to a higher level
Because...?
T.J. C Everyone has a nack for something. Rather it’s organic to you, or you acquire/develop it later. I don’t totally believe that life/time completely discriminate. Time hits us all at the same moment in the same way. And if a person has leverage (i.e. prestigious name, born rich), they usually lack in other areas - that you can only acquire by GOING THU SOMETHING. And their come-upings will catch-up. Life constantly seeks BALANCE. You stole from prev generations to benefit your clan. Karma from the Universe will come onto those received benefactors. Life always seeks balance.
No worries about what is fair & what’s not. Jesus came down here and died for all of us. So, at least that’s one least worry for us. Re-direct the energy (those worries) towards doing something constructive, to modify your circumstance; help achieve your goals. That’s the whole point.
Great video I love the quote “ You get when you settle for!”
2 years ago I stumbled across this knowledge; Death is the greatest life creation, It clears the old for the new. It changed how I look at life.
I keep ignoring Alux videos for a long time in my notifications, but I would never again ignore it after watching this 👍
This is one of the best content I've ever seen on TH-cam or anywhere for that matter. Super amazing Alux Team!
Your consistency and brilliance is unbelievably outstanding.
Thank you so much for your kind words Rafik!
People only complain about life being unfair when they're on the losing side. No one wins and says they don't deserve it (and means it).
The unfair things in my life are slowly changing. Yes I was born with a ton obstacles I'm still overcoming. I hate how unfair this climb is. It's especially annoying when people look down on you or poke fun at where you are. However, at least I was born with my own resilience, determination, and brain. I'll get there. :-)
That's nice, dear.
African lady ,even you yourself are not truly believing what you are uttering.The world is so maddeningly unfair and always will be. For example ,if you was born a prettiest african woman like Naomi Campbel you would lead a life of sheer happiness and utmost luxury or if I was born so hauntingly handsome like George Clooney I also would lead a so wonderful ,wonderful life.But ,sadly ,we are not born such ...I do not know about you but I have decades of bodily shortcomings and even life-threatening illnesses and the only reason for which I am still keep on living is because I am so afraid of the dying and never I myself could gather enough soul's stregths so that to put an end to my unhappy life and therefore I ought to undergo this hurting life to my natural end...
@@bitterly_sorrying perhaps you should consider turning the unfair things in your life into your motivators and learn to move on. The life I have lived and currently live has shown me I must work with what I have. I'm grateful for my grit, intelligence, and resilience. Those things continue to never fail me. That continues to fuel my motivation to achieve, and every step forward I take not appreciating what I do for myself, something shows me this is how far I've come. I wish you the best. 🤗
Watching this video was truly therapeutic. Even if I don't agree it was refreshing seeing them go through the list.
What's unfair in life is that time can be brutal. I'm sure many people have said the same thing like me. "If I can go back in Time, my life would be different"
The Unfair:
1) Born in a developing nation as a millenial (we've changed a bunch of stupid rules from education to work but will never feel the effects of that change because the damage in our life is done thanks to boomer parents).
2) Suffering from Spondylitis that causes a burning sensation in the waist and the spinal chord region causing a mild stiffness in the spine and the joints.
3) Broke with retired parents and a whole lot of debt. Will be inheriting a small 2BHK apartment in Calcutta (a city people are fleeing from).
4)Stuck at a backend 9 hrs job working in night shifts that barely pays the Bills. Studying fulltime to get a degree but can't quit the job cause it's the only source of Income for now and pays for the degree.
5)Employer taking advantage of the fact that nobody else will hire a current student on a fulltime role. That means extra work and working post office hours.
6) Stuck with a height of 5' 2 because of the waist joint issues.
7)Can't apply for any interesting jobs because humans don't work in night shifts.
8)Will spend the most part of my youth battling the odds & struggling in a stale mate career in a developing nation gaining irrelevant experience just to get out and restart LIFE..
The Good Part:
*Will be applying to some of the best colleges out there later on in some of the first world countries and become a global citizen.
*Will land Consulting offers at large consulting firms and travel.
*Will build an empire with a string of well funded startups (like a serial entrepreneur). Raising, expanding & delegating..taking everything in my stride one after another..like a dance of creation and expansion..like a wolf I'll do it till the day I die. I may have brittle bones but I have a long lifeline.
*Will become an angel investor.
😈😈😊🦈🎓👨🎓💀🦁🐯🐅🐺🦇🐉🐲
You won't get much done on your to-do list if you continue holding onto your victim stance. You'll need to get past that in order to create what you want in your life.
@@GoddessBlessYou yup..trying 😊🙂
Was really having a rough day until watched this so good video and answered so many of my unanswered questions that I had till today
Keep up the good work Alux! ❤️
I gotta be honest you, your voice is the best biggest reason why I watch your videos. But the content is good too. Thank you.
I was so disappointed when I heard alux say "some people are born with a natural talent", I was heartbroken hearing this from Alux.
Talent is just a word used to describe something that has been done over and over again to become the best in that. Nobody was born with anything because we had nothing in our heads when we were born. I'm so heartbroken hearing this from alux.
I genuinely believe that hard work beats talent. Talent just gives you a head start.
A person once told me
' the only reason why the other kids talk to you is only because you're good at drawing. '
This happened in school, IDK how do I react to it, even now
Odd thing to say personally I would ignore it and just enjoy the kids.
No other channel could put it together in a better way than u guys❤️❤️
I was born and raised in Hungary but in 2 weeks after my school leaving exam, I moved to Austria because I thought I can achieve my goals there, I will be able to earn much more money and will have far more opportunities than in my home country. After 3 years of struggling I learned German I have plenty of work experience in different fields and I am able to work for a decent salary but on the other hand I think after 3 years the time has come to jump onto a higher level so I decided to apply myself to College to be more valuable on the Market and now I am sure what kind of job do I want to do. We know in life 2 directions: Up and Forward and not Down and Back! ( Wish me luck for the College 🤞😬🤞)
Alux am from zambia things are hard here but am trying in all means to follow your advice on getting rich, we need more of videos on under devloped countrys like zambia
Alux is the only TH-cam channel that never runs out of amazing content. Who else agrees?
You don't get what you deserve, "you get what you settle for" 👐💯
T.J. C Everyone has a nack for something. Rather it’s organic to you, or you acquire/develop it later. I don’t totally believe that life/time completely discriminate. Time hits us all at the same moment in the same way. And if a person has leverage (i.e. prestigious name, born rich), they usually lack in other areas - that you can only acquire by GOING THU SOMETHING. And their come-upings will catch-up. Life constantly seeks BALANCE. You stole from prev generations to benefit your clan. Karma from the Universe will come onto those received benefactors. Life always seeks balance.
No worries about what is fair & what’s not. Jesus came down here and died for all of us. So, at least that’s one least worry for us. Re-direct the energy (those worries) towards doing something constructive, to modify your circumstance; help achieve your goals. That’s the whole point.
You know what hurts most, when you know what your talent is, you know what you want to do in your life, you have a great passion about it but just because your parents don't want to do it , you have sacrifice your dream your goal and then live the life they choose for you😞😞😞😞😭😭😑
OMG!! #5 the best. Thank you so much Alux your videos has done so much for me in discovering my life goals, thank you, thank you. I was honestly lost and still are in certain aspects of me life, but I understand it is a process, it is really difficult but I know it is possible. I don't want to rant too much, it is just time enough I said thank you.
When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reason to smile:-))))
Wow - another great video from Alux. That was alot to process. Finding your calling - I found mine and I am pursuing it part-time and I hope to turn it into a full-time career that will make me money. Soulmate - I want to find my soulmate and if I have to travel on the other side of the world to find him and NOT settle for what is nearby, I will. And finally success - I wish all of you Aluxers peace, wealth and success. Here's to making 2021 our best year yet. I spent my time during the pandemic watching Alux, educating myself on how how to get rich and I am looking forward to the next chapter in my life.
it has been difficult for me and trying to be motivated everyday is exhausting thank you alux for this video. Your channel will always be timeless
Thanks Joe!
@@alux you're welcome
True most people that scream life is unfair will forever be broke.
I've never regretted to subscribe Alux!!! This channel is so inspiring honestly!
hard work beats talent every time when talent fails to work hard... im living proof of this
From Nepal , proud to be Nepali,,, no need to say anymore then this ,
People who are born with any kind of disability. I always feel sorry for them.
So, the most unfair situations in my life happened and still happens is, Teacher's judging and their Marking system in my school as well as in a college. I always can't put up with that (UNFAIR) conditions. Basically, this demotivates me, and I will just stop competing with my peers.
But you can't stop. The same will happen at your job/career it's inevitable that's life. You always try YOUR best not someone else's. Track your OWN progression etc. Stay focused stay making a positive out of every negative situation and stay smiling . You got this! Strong
Hard work beats Talents when Talent doesn't work hard enough !
Stepfather who verbally and mentally abused me, spine injury eliminating my dream of football, dead broke living in my mother’s basement. It all sucks but I’m trying.
Working for free. Between 4.0 in high school, college, law school, working unpaid internships and now COVID everyone wants young people to keep working for free on the promise it will pay off "someday"
These videos have indeed made a difference in my life. Thanks for the great work!
Disagree w/ zero-sum, for most part. Take massive action, constantly learn, focus in on results,dress the part, act w/ integrity & there’s more than enough to go around for all those who do these things
Life might ask u to dance
But u pick the song ❤
This video started automatically, probably by touch, but watched it completely.
Also some people have a family or somewhere they belong. Some of us lost family or never had it in the first place. Plus some people had better upbringing. Which are the things that seem most unfair to me personally from my point of view.
Every word of this video is a gem. Keep it up Alux.
Holistic medicine has been a blessing in my life as far as treating illnesses. I was very sick with depression and anxiety. Then I learned about people like Dr Sebi (RIP) and how to deal with my body and my life has been better since. It pays to educate yourself about your own health so you can prevent lots of diseases and you'll decrease the likelihood of an emergency. I'm not a doctor and it isn't medical advice, but there are knowledgeable people out there. You can make it through your obstacles. May health and happiness be your destiny.
Hey Alux, thanks.
I really appreciate the Bonus point dear Alux
Alux, I am from Nepal and what you mentioned is totally realistic!
this vid should be a mandatory dose of reality check once a week at schools
I completely agree with the 11th fact. I am experiencing something similar right now.
Wow Alux, I am loving you more now! This is what a future billionaires need to learn, Not that unnecessary luxury brand names and why something is expensive!! There are so many others to do that.
But this is something I get only from you! By the way bring a book series fast...
Working on it.
Im from Nepal 🇳🇵
Glad you guys know we exist 🦁
Right 30 min ago something unfair happened to me and this video came in front of me...cant believe!
Probably your best content yet, Team ALUX 👍🏾
Thank you Alux.
Point 13 is what am doing... because of awesome content from Alux, I share with many and ask them to subscribe
You have no idea how much you've changed my life. THANK YOU🙏💯
As the author of now 18 nonfiction books I will tell you the more you write the more likely you will begin to get those royalties they talk about as a GREAT passive income! I now in the midst of writing my first novel!
You are my only financial mentor
Thanks
Thank you for this content, Alux.. You've helped me so much since 2018.
keep work in progress but don't worry about results - Bhagvat Geeta simplest quote but most powerful.
I wish people would change their eating habits and lifestyle.. That way maybe we would have less cancer cases.. It's a very brutal disease... Wishing you all good health.