I'm sorry this happened to you. This is absolutely awful. Bold of him to think that after this incident you can talk to him about your worries. I hope other people will never experience this. Would you like to make video about your toxic friendship and bullying? But only if you're okay with it
Oh I feel you. Something like this happened to me once when I had a really close friend. He was one of my best friends, we were close friends for like 2 years but then he suddenly started to ask for intimate pictures of me. I was really scared and I was disapointed in him. He knew I had a girlfriend back then but he still tryed to force us together so I cut our realitionship and fortunately I didn't heard of him since then! People out there, be careful with who you trust in!
@@Blankesz That's why you have to make sure they are how you expect them to be in the future since people change during the years. Me and my friend have been friends since kindergarten and that's because we were opposites that liked the same exact things; he likes the same games I like, the same music I like, and the same shows. He is ADHD and I'm the opposite he usually has WAY TOO MUCH energy, I most of the time have ZERO energy. And so we are bff's
Bro same! His name was Tyler 💀. He told me that his friend took his phone and asked me for pics while he wasn’t looking, but then immediately said he got his phone back when I told him how disgusted I was (not to mention, it was not even I minute later 💀). He said it was his “friend James” but then later switched the name to “Nathan” like I wouldn’t notice. All of this happened on discord and it turns out that he has been doing this to other girls at my school too. 😔
If there’s one thing I’ve learned about unfortunate circumstances with people you trust as a young person, it’s that I would much rather take what I’ve learned and caution those around me while giving them an environment that they can feel safe in. I’m sorry you had to experience that Nirami I would legit throw hands 😭
The betrayal is almost as hurtful as the disgusting behavior, if not more so. What a wild story, especially when he comes back saying "You can talk to me." Makes my blood boil.
That’s just so sad, that your friend literally betrayed you this way. But you did the right thing by not keeping in contact after this awful incident happened. You’re really strong, and I hope you’ll never get to the similar situation again
@@NiramiI don’t want to sound like I don’t care what happened In The story. The story was horrifying and I’m so sorry that happened to you. But what music did you use throughout the video?
Oh my god this is horrible, I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with these creepy predatory people in your life :(( These story times are amazing, and I hope if you’re still hurting from any of these events, telling them to us can help make you feel better at all. We all love you and support you ❤️❤️
Im so sorry to hear what happened to you Nirami it shouldn't have been easy to comes forward with this story, I can't even imagine what I would have done if I was in your place tbh... its so sad to hear you went through this 🥺😢 you're a very strong women and such a inspiration as an animator, and you are always providing us with such good content ❤ so thank for sharing this, as a fan for a little while now it is heartwarming to see that you trust your fandom enough to open up about those stories, can't wait to see what you have next for us in reserve, sending a lot of love from canada 🤍
I am so sorry you went through that! That's so awful!! I had a male "friend" once that I thought was my best friend. Two years, and many overlooked red flags, later, it turns out he was just trying to get into my pants 🤢 He also pulled a similar line with your Tom's "I was just frustrated". Like seriously??? He was frustrated you weren't giving him romantic affection?? What a creep! Glad you got out of that situation more or less unscathed.
I hadn’t had a creepo experience near as bad but there’s one guy I knew who seems to think women are like fawking Pokémon like no u don’t have to catch them all. It makes me really mad and upset whenever I remember he only tried to befriend me and gain my trust so he could get with me. He didn’t care about having a friendship, and he probably didn’t care about who I was as a person wither. He monopolized my time so that I was crying hard of overstimulation in the bathroom and wouldn’t come out for hours. But also sending me pictures of his cats and saying things like “feeling depressed rn” as though to gain my sympathy is just ew! I genuinely hate people like this.
"I'm sorry, I was frustrated" WTF REALLY?? THAT WAS IT?? What the fuck, dude. In no world would a frustrated person do something so chillingly horrible. It just doesn't fit my head, what kind of excuse was that? Gross. (I'm sorry, It's just that I also know those kind of people around me and I have no option to stay away from them, so I get angry with that kind of behavior). (I hope you are in a better place and that at least you have one person who makes you feel comfortable. stay safe
I'm so sorry this happened to you, having someone you trust be a total secret creep must be terrifying. I hope it isn't affecting you too hard in the present day. But for the next storytime, you can choose a happier story! I'd hate for storytimes to become a depressing time for you, I know certain memories can be hard to revisit.
The message is "always check for a camera in the bathroom kids." This was a great video and I look forward to seeing your next one. Remember to stay hydrated and take care of yourself while working on it though :)
You have had an insane life, damn! How do you go through all this and STILL have the time to be such a great artist and content creator??? What are some good memories, or a time that your gut feeling turned out to be right? Maybe some day you could make a big video of smaller stories?
So sorry this happened to you Nirami. I can't believe people think these things are okay and that they can get away without any damage. A somewhat relatable situation happened to my cousins and I. It was last summer, my 2 cousins and I were chilling in a mall when a older man went up to us and asked about our ages. Us three were minors (14-16) and we just stared at him. He left so awkwardly and we left as soon as possible. Sadly, we didn't report him.
I learned that as a young woman you can't trust that person (mostly man) who has the same taste in anime, games and cartoons because they are always horrible. I had an ex-boyfriend who started out as a friend, he was 18 almost 19 years old, I was barely 15, I didn't know how to socialize, it was a different rhythm in high school because before I had my parents holding my hands to guide me. When I came out of that I had no friends because they were friends of his, all kind men who included me, they bet on things about me and the only other older and fairly close girl there held out her hand and told me to go ahead, because there were more people who pretended to be friends and ended up looking for more of me. Even now, never trust someone whose personality is based on only one thing, they only have weirdly 1 or 2 friends and none of those are female, mostly not worth trying and they are 'that group' for some reason. Follow your instincts, if you can't say it out loud and if it's hard or sounds weird to say or explain, something is wrong. Also, do not trust a group where your label is always 'the girlfriend of' or 'the friend of' because it means that they are not giving you your own personality, autonomy, they always link you to someone as if you were an accessory, and that speaks about how they see other people.
I say me and my friend and my friend does the same I am his friend and he is my friend, we are equals to each other. And yeah I may yell at him but that's to make him calm down because he only learns that way, with a stern talking to. Anything else skips his mind.
But I had 4 friends in 2nd grade and they shared the same interests but they were always so nice to me and we almost never got into arguments and stuff and now I. 4th grade I have like 2 or 3 friends that (kind of) Luke the same stuff as me and they are also nice
I'm really sorry this happened to you, also is worst if is done by someone you deeply trust because that might condition you in future friendships.... Hope everything gets better soon 💞💞💞
I’m so sorry that this happened to you. I know how it feels like yo get backstabbed, it’s hard, but you’ll eventually get over it. Nonetheless I enjoy hearing your stories and I would love to hear more!
That is disgusting. I’m so sorry that you had to go through that. That is such a betrayal of privacy and human decency. Love your videos. Even if they make me a little sad to know you went through such a thing. :0
This happened to me, too. quite a long time ago if you think about it. We were both just children then. He is 3 years younger than me, and still his head was so dirty minded then that even I was in shock realizing what he was forcing me to do. To put it simply, I became a victim of SA from a close friend, and since then I have been afraid to talk directly with the dude of opposite gender, especially not to mention intimacy like friendship or romantic relationship. I didn’t tell anyone about this directly because I didn’t want to get condemned or anything like that. but don't follow my actions, guys. Please talk about it and ask for help.
I wish Tom learned his lesson and change for the better now. Like, geez seriously? What's wrong with that dude?! If he didn't do that, things will be better now. [Unrelated, but i started to love your animated storytime-type of content Nirami!. Your artstyle is gorgeous and manage to capture the story's feelings (i'm not sure if that's how it described. Sorry, i'm bad at describing things in english)]
Something like this happened between my cousin and her older brother… it’s disgusting and disturbing. But he did it because it happened to him, still not an excuse for him to act that way.
I'm sorry that happened to you. It was sorta relatable because I was once followed by a creepy man in Goodwill, (I was only 13-14 at the time) so mom noticed the man following me and we reported him. I'm 15½ now and I hope you're doing great. :)
Hey Nirami, so sorry to hear what you went through with that friend of yours, you really deserve better friends you can trust, be "weird" with and surround yourself with, and hope things get better for you soon! Besides, no one deserves to get their privacy exploited like that, it's tottaly dick move and don't think it's cool, moral or even funny, it's sick and disgusting and feel like you're friend should've known better! Cuz real friends don't stab each other in the back like that, they help each other grow!! Also apologies if I sound too extreme towards you're friend, I know I hardly know him like you do, so just wanna make sure you know that I'm at you're support on this just as much as the majority in the comment section of the video if you need me to 😅
@@Nirami No problem, love to be of help whenever I can or get the chance to, and in this case I felt like you really looked like you needed all the support you could afford! 😅
I'm sorry that happened to you. People like are exactly why I have trust issues myself. You never really know whom will betray. All you can really do is be careful about whom you trust and give people a chance to prove themselves worthy of said trust. Also, I'd like to say that I believe you did the right thing cutting off all contact with that guy. He definitely didn't respect your boundaries like he should have and it's sad when people betray someone else. I just hope things have in your life have gotten better. You seem pretty cool.
YOOO GIRL! I am loving these story times! They make me wanna make some wack ones of my own lol! Your so cool, such an inspiration! Keep doing what your doing! Shine like the giant diamond you are! 😊💖🫶🥹😍🥰❤️🤣😎😎
Ohw! I hope you're feeling better after that. I think it was hard to narrate that story. I send you a lot of hugs and kisses, I support you ! Kiss from France
I’m so sorry this happened, it shouldn’t have, this never should happen. I’ve never dealt with something like this, but your very brave for talking about this, have a good day :) I’m glad your doing better. (If I find Tom, ever. I’LL KICK HIM-)
Man...this was heartbreaking. I had to take a few breaks between the video. Sorry you gone through this and it sounds like you've gone through a lot more.
Ugh pls the queen dropped another iconic video I understand your feeling I had to break up with a lot of my frienships bc they were toxic mostly males I remember I broke up with my bff bc he wanted me 2 send pics of myself and I didn't want 2 I didn't feel safe with him 😣 that was 2 years ago LOVE YOUR VOICE BTW 😭😭😭💝💝💝 ur a huge inspiration 4 me 💕💕
This feeling is dread hearig your trust with him shatter apart makesmy heart ache the way you handled this situation is very good i hope that guy never does that to any other person again and i am angry that he is like that
5:35 well that's a violation. Gosh that is.... the worst thing ever. I have had two friends betray me in middle school. Never violated me personally but my sibling... Yeah that was terrible. But the other friend simply betrayed my trust and kept me in a constant cycle of hurt. Some people suck. Big time.
As a male this had ever happend to me. When using the urinal.. yes the urinal there was a clear camera that probably got piss covered all over it, so i took like 6 layers of tissue and like i just picked it up and put it on the ground and stomped it ovet and over. Idk why it would happen in the urinal but ye.
Damn... just... damn... I've had my own troubles with shitty friends and the like but... this is beyond disgusting... I barely have words to say and it makes my heart sink knowing that one of my favorite creators had something this traumatic happen to them. I'm glad you're better now and have people you trust.
The fact that i can actually relate to this so hard That it makes me sad that another person has to go through the same feelings as I did :,( The only thing that’s different is that the person recording me was my sister’s boyfriend that I trusted a lot
This video made me so sad. Its so similar to the situation i was in, i was more of a "rough" or masculine girl (as in i liked what the stereotypical boy would like, i still like feminine things tho) and that lead me to being friends with a couple of guys from similar interests. Of course i still had girl friends, ones that would always tell me to stop hanging out with my guy friends. Specifically J, we were pretty close and anyone could say he was good looking, if he ever asked me out i wouldve been happy. We clicked, we were best friends basically. Even my parents liked him and since we were 13-14, his parents were fine if we ever had sleep over. It's not like either of us are creeps, right? Well, one of us was, it was j. The day prior, we were out, and i fell off my bike in mud. When we got back, his mom said it was fine if i wanted to take a shower and said to use her soap. Right before he said he needed to use the bathroom, he ended up trying to film me in the shower... while i was getting changed, i saw the phone, and it was recording. I immediately deleted all the videos. I cursed and screamed at him, and when his parents found out why i was acting like that, they reacted the same. During school, he tried to approach me a lot, and once i let him talk. He said it was because he liked me, he thought I'd reject him since we were friends. Wow, so dating must be people taking a chance whether or not they have things in common then, right? Some of our other mutual friends saw i was getting angry and told him to f*ck off and that they weren't his friends anymore. When i was older we had a high school reunion party(not school) and J was with someone one else and i honestly dont know how he made friends after that since the incident followed him to highschool. He approached me and wanted to apologize again and buy me a drink (this wasn't a house party). i did let him, but i didn't trust the drink. When he went to talk to someone else, one of his friends said i shouldn't talk to him since he was stalking my social media. I told him about it, how i knew he was stalking my social media etc and smashed the beer bottle on his head, and left. Im still furious to this day. He was one of my best friends.
And second that middle to end part was funny and WILD. Also you said you smashed it on his head does that mean it broke on his head or just one of those cartoon looking thumps that cause lots of pain to the person's head?
@@spark8719Your first comment seems uncalled for and insensitive, I don't know if that's just you and of course your opinion is your opinion, but there are other cultures/religions that believe in separate feminine and masculine items, (which is NOT even what they were saying, they were just saying they were into more masculine things like, I don't know, for example, clothes that can literally be found in the MEN'S section? They literally said they liked what a STEREOTYPICAL boy likes.), not colors like you stated, which I'm not going to lie, had nothing to do with anything they stated. Edit: And you know what, I'm just gonna say it, the whole idea of your first comment was just plain stupid.
I used to be really upset since my parents wouldn't let me stay over at friends houses and invite friends over. They always say that "our home is too shabby", and i don't deny it, it was. But growing up, i come to appreciate their "insecurity", as it has prevented a plethora of dodgy situations, the type that would get me involved with drug gangs or unsavory situations.
It's sad to hear about this kind of stuff, but it can happen.When you think you know someone, then you don't.Hope you're doing okay mentally regardless.
I have a suggestion for a art idea, why not try some art challenges or something that involves the community? Perhaps something different from your current art style to expand your artistic skill and find something new you like?
WHAT TF 😰😰😰😰 You actually reminded me of my girlfriend. She is also “the weird girl “ but I’m kinda cringey as well. She nicknamed me Lupin because I nicknamed her Fugiko ( yes they’re kinda together in the show) but I also compare myself to PEPE LÈ PEW . In a goofy dimwit way 🤷😅 But seriously this guy has iiiisues
I am REALLY sorry that happened to you and i hope nobody else is going through that same situation. Maybe make a vid on toxic people or like bullying? It's fine if you don't want to i get it it's personal. Stay safe Nirami!!
it's crazy how even people you know for all your life can just betray/hurt you, even family! It's one of the worst things I can think can happen to someone, and it happened to you, I am so sorry that this happened...
As someone who let go of the majority of their friendgroup/hobbies, like literally cut contact and quit almost EVERYTHING, I think I can kind of understand where you're coming from. It's not a fun experience, and if i could do everything all over again I would, but just know that if you were so unhappy in the first place this was absolutely the most mundane and smartest decision you could have made. I'm happy that you were able to be brave enough to distance yourself from them, and I genuinely hope you're doing better now
Hate thinking things like this actually happen to people, sometimes it's the person you'd least expect, sometimes it's a stranger hiding a camera in a public bathroom/changing room. It was hard for me to believe it was an actual problem for awhile, then something traumatic and similar happened to me (won't trauma dump because I feel that's incentive) and suddenly I was like: wow.. this is happening.. it's real.. This actually happens to people Hated that feeling
For future video ideas, maybe you could try to make some art challenge videos, like for example the soldier, poet, king challenge or this tipe of "design an oc based on x factors" with a vocie over, I think that could make the audience more engage. By the way, neat viedo, it was a little creepy, that's why I have trust issues
Girl this is horrible, its one of my worst nightmare , i always hated public toilettes because i feel like im being watched , so if one day i would found a phone filming me idk what i would do 💀
It sucks that you never got the explanation you deserved, but I don't think you would've been satisfied even if you did get an explanation. People like this are disgusting 😒 I am so sorry this happened to you.
we're here for you Nirami. Your feelings are completely valid, i'm sorry you had to go trough that. congratulations on 1M subscribers. you've definitely earned them! youtube is hard work haha.
This actually happened to my friend.Fortunately She saw the phone, and her mom called the police and the person that filmed it had to delete it i forgot what happened after.
I’m so sorry this happened to you, that’s awful and he shouldn’t have done any recording of you without your permission. My friend reminds me of Tom in the sense that he has similar interests and helped me not feel like ‘the weird kid’ but my friend has never done anything like that to me
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. As usual, that's a pretty common comment for this video, but it's because it's true! We care about you a lot, Nirami! Also, your voice sounds so calm and soothing! Love you platonically! 😊
I really appreciate this, and wish I could do more than just comment. It's wonderful that you share stuff like this, I think it's smart. It lets a lot of people know they aren't alone. Thank you for sharing.
hi! you uploaded this an hour ago so im guessing you wont see comments anymore :'3 but this happened to me too and im 16!... it was when i was in a friends house and the bathrooms window was broken.. and his dad was recording me! fortunately it was reported to authorities and he was charged with harassment and the video was deleted. I hope your okay!
Dont worry same with me to. I was once just going to the bathroom in a public restroom of a diner that seemed very off. I went to use the bathroom and as i was using the toilet i looked up and saw a weird man who was like in his 40s filming me. My brother was outside of the bathroom so i waled out at told my brother and then my brother called the police. I never felt so indangered in my life and i never want it to happen to others. Im sorry this happened😔
Sorry this happened to you. I hope you're doing ok now. I just want to tell everyone, some people mostly say, never be friends or even stay friends with someone you broke up with, yes they're the one who understands and cares about you, but at the end, they only care about themselves.
I would have been too scared to just stay in the house with him after deleting everything, I'm pretty sure I would have left the appartment while he went to the bathroom so that if he got violent, there'd be neighbors within earshot. Even if you think you knew him not to be violent, once someone does something like that, it's like you never knew them at all. Who knows what else they might do?
disclaimer, not russian! used my very limited knowledge on the language to type that, with some help from google translate. i’m good at English and japanese, so 誤解をお詫びします
This is absolutely horrible and disturbing behavior, people like this disgust me. I'm so sorry this has happened to you, Nae Nae, he is such a such a terrible person for putting your privacy in danger. I'm so glad you saw his phone, who knows what could have happened if you didn't. I hope this never happens again❤
To this day im still scared to think what would happen if I never saw the Phone the basket. Chills down my spine ew
I wonder what had happened to Tom
could the next story be about the mean girls
@@isamekailmahmud9302 Oohh yeah
Pervs like that putting hidden phones and cameras are just absolutely disgusting 🤮 best of luck to you 😊
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I'm sorry this happened to you. This is absolutely awful. Bold of him to think that after this incident you can talk to him about your worries. I hope other people will never experience this.
Would you like to make video about your toxic friendship and bullying? But only if you're okay with it
Thank you for your worries and I completely get you point :/ I definitely plan on telling most of the things that happened during school time
@pokemon27282.literally.
one time i was in the school bathroom and two stupid boys were banging on the door (not the stall door, thank god)
My friend had a picture taken of her in the bathroom, Im Scared
@@Niramifirst time I hear your voice! It's quite nice just for some positivity also you make really good animations
@@That-One-Silly-Valnope go leave that friend and report that person tbh
Oh I feel you. Something like this happened to me once when I had a really close friend. He was one of my best friends, we were close friends for like 2 years but then he suddenly started to ask for intimate pictures of me. I was really scared and I was disapointed in him. He knew I had a girlfriend back then but he still tryed to force us together so I cut our realitionship and fortunately I didn't heard of him since then!
People out there, be careful with who you trust in!
I’m sorry this happened to you love
@@Nirami It's really okay now I think of this as a life lesson so I am so much more careful now with people! 😊
@@Blankesz
That's why you have to make sure they are how you expect them to be in the future since people change during the years. Me and my friend have been friends since kindergarten and that's because we were opposites that liked the same exact things; he likes the same games I like, the same music I like, and the same shows. He is ADHD and I'm the opposite he usually has WAY TOO MUCH energy, I most of the time have ZERO energy. And so we are bff's
Bro same! His name was Tyler 💀. He told me that his friend took his phone and asked me for pics while he wasn’t looking, but then immediately said he got his phone back when I told him how disgusted I was (not to mention, it was not even I minute later 💀). He said it was his “friend James” but then later switched the name to “Nathan” like I wouldn’t notice. All of this happened on discord and it turns out that he has been doing this to other girls at my school too. 😔
If there’s one thing I’ve learned about unfortunate circumstances with people you trust as a young person, it’s that I would much rather take what I’ve learned and caution those around me while giving them an environment that they can feel safe in. I’m sorry you had to experience that Nirami I would legit throw hands 😭
Totally get you, thank you much ❤️
The betrayal is almost as hurtful as the disgusting behavior, if not more so.
What a wild story, especially when he comes back saying "You can talk to me."
Makes my blood boil.
That’s just so sad, that your friend literally betrayed you this way. But you did the right thing by not keeping in contact after this awful incident happened. You’re really strong, and I hope you’ll never get to the similar situation again
Thank you ❤️
@@NiramiI don’t want to sound like I don’t care what happened In The story. The story was horrifying and I’m so sorry that happened to you. But what music did you use throughout the video?
The amount of people who have these experiences is crazy.
Exactly. It's hard to live after this
Yep @@irch_
Oh my god this is horrible, I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with these creepy predatory people in your life :((
These story times are amazing, and I hope if you’re still hurting from any of these events, telling them to us can help make you feel better at all. We all love you and support you ❤️❤️
Thanks love, I appreciate it ❤️
yo question when r u gonna do a Q&A@@Nirami
Im so sorry to hear what happened to you Nirami it shouldn't have been easy to comes forward with this story, I can't even imagine what I would have done if I was in your place tbh... its so sad to hear you went through this 🥺😢 you're a very strong women and such a inspiration as an animator, and you are always providing us with such good content ❤ so thank for sharing this, as a fan for a little while now it is heartwarming to see that you trust your fandom enough to open up about those stories, can't wait to see what you have next for us in reserve, sending a lot of love from canada 🤍
Thank you so much love, I really appreciate it and hope to share more ❤️
I am so sorry you went through that! That's so awful!! I had a male "friend" once that I thought was my best friend. Two years, and many overlooked red flags, later, it turns out he was just trying to get into my pants 🤢
He also pulled a similar line with your Tom's "I was just frustrated". Like seriously??? He was frustrated you weren't giving him romantic affection?? What a creep! Glad you got out of that situation more or less unscathed.
I hadn’t had a creepo experience near as bad but there’s one guy I knew who seems to think women are like fawking Pokémon like no u don’t have to catch them all. It makes me really mad and upset whenever I remember he only tried to befriend me and gain my trust so he could get with me. He didn’t care about having a friendship, and he probably didn’t care about who I was as a person wither. He monopolized my time so that I was crying hard of overstimulation in the bathroom and wouldn’t come out for hours. But also sending me pictures of his cats and saying things like “feeling depressed rn” as though to gain my sympathy is just ew! I genuinely hate people like this.
"I'm sorry, I was frustrated" WTF
REALLY?? THAT WAS IT?? What the fuck, dude.
In no world would a frustrated person do something so chillingly horrible. It just doesn't fit my head, what kind of excuse was that? Gross.
(I'm sorry, It's just that I also know those kind of people around me and I have no option to stay away from them, so I get angry with that kind of behavior).
(I hope you are in a better place and that at least you have one person who makes you feel comfortable. stay safe
Like why was he
*"* frustrated *"* about
@@spark8719it’s probably a lie he said to try not to look manipulative to Nirami who is basically the victim.
I'm so sorry this happened to you, having someone you trust be a total secret creep must be terrifying. I hope it isn't affecting you too hard in the present day. But for the next storytime, you can choose a happier story! I'd hate for storytimes to become a depressing time for you, I know certain memories can be hard to revisit.
Thanks so much! I will definitely cover some happy/funny stories but It also feels good to tell those stories so I can let them go :D
@@Nirami Glad to hear it! Also happy to hear storytime is helping you let go :)
Oh my god, no one deserves this. Humans can be so terrible sometimes. I hope your okay lots of love
The message is "always check for a camera in the bathroom kids."
This was a great video and I look forward to seeing your next one. Remember to stay hydrated and take care of yourself while working on it though :)
You have had an insane life, damn! How do you go through all this and STILL have the time to be such a great artist and content creator??? What are some good memories, or a time that your gut feeling turned out to be right? Maybe some day you could make a big video of smaller stories?
I will definitely do that! I think I started having good memories like 2-3 years ago haha
Nirami no matter what happens you deserve the best life ❤️❤️
So sorry this happened to you Nirami. I can't believe people think these things are okay and that they can get away without any damage.
A somewhat relatable situation happened to my cousins and I. It was last summer, my 2 cousins and I were chilling in a mall when a older man went up to us and asked about our ages. Us three were minors (14-16) and we just stared at him. He left so awkwardly and we left as soon as possible. Sadly, we didn't report him.
Ohh I’m so sorry this has happened :( I’m glad that was the end of it tho
@@Nirami
Speaking of reporting Why Didn't You Report TOM TO THE COPS
I learned that as a young woman you can't trust that person (mostly man) who has the same taste in anime, games and cartoons because they are always horrible.
I had an ex-boyfriend who started out as a friend, he was 18 almost 19 years old, I was barely 15, I didn't know how to socialize, it was a different rhythm in high school because before I had my parents holding my hands to guide me.
When I came out of that I had no friends because they were friends of his, all kind men who included me, they bet on things about me and the only other older and fairly close girl there held out her hand and told me to go ahead, because there were more people who pretended to be friends and ended up looking for more of me.
Even now, never trust someone whose personality is based on only one thing, they only have weirdly 1 or 2 friends and none of those are female, mostly not worth trying and they are 'that group' for some reason. Follow your instincts, if you can't say it out loud and if it's hard or sounds weird to say or explain, something is wrong.
Also, do not trust a group where your label is always 'the girlfriend of' or 'the friend of' because it means that they are not giving you your own personality, autonomy, they always link you to someone as if you were an accessory, and that speaks about how they see other people.
I’m so sorry this happened to you ❤️ you also spoke very wise things I agree on
It's always the anime nerds that are degenerates.
I say me and my friend and my friend does the same I am his friend and he is my friend, we are equals to each other. And yeah I may yell at him but that's to make him calm down because he only learns that way, with a stern talking to. Anything else skips his mind.
The advice I didn’t know I needed it, also I’m so sorry that happened my heart goes out to you ❤
But I had 4 friends in 2nd grade and they shared the same interests but they were always so nice to me and we almost never got into arguments and stuff and now I. 4th grade I have like 2 or 3 friends that (kind of) Luke the same stuff as me and they are also nice
I'm so sorry this happened to you. I had a similar experience with a 'friend' I had in sixth grade. Still messes me up over a decade later.
I'm really sorry this happened to you, also is worst if is done by someone you deeply trust because that might condition you in future friendships.... Hope everything gets better soon 💞💞💞
Thank you ❤️
Let me know if you are ready to do the plan: To get rid of the Toxic behavior of your friend Tom. >:]
This storytime literally gave me the chills! Please do more storytimes!
Same bro especially when Nirami said "my heart dropped" that is what triggered mine to do the exact same when I heard it
I’m so sorry that this happened to you. I know how it feels like yo get backstabbed, it’s hard, but you’ll eventually get over it. Nonetheless I enjoy hearing your stories and I would love to hear more!
Thanks lovee
I felt my heart drop to the floor when you said Tom was recording you secretly! That’s so horrible!!! A peeping TOM!!!
A peeping Tom 😭💀
YOU DEVILISH MISCREANT I WISH I THOUGHT OF THAT
That is disgusting. I’m so sorry that you had to go through that. That is such a betrayal of privacy and human decency.
Love your videos. Even if they make me a little sad to know you went through such a thing. :0
The scariest thing is that betrayals happen by friends and not strangers.
Once again awesome video! the way you illustrate your story is so unique and your style is just sooo pleasing to look at, thank you for making it!!
This happened to me, too. quite a long time ago if you think about it. We were both just children then. He is 3 years younger than me, and still his head was so dirty minded then that even I was in shock realizing what he was forcing me to do. To put it simply, I became a victim of SA from a close friend, and since then I have been afraid to talk directly with the dude of opposite gender, especially not to mention intimacy like friendship or romantic relationship.
I didn’t tell anyone about this directly because I didn’t want to get condemned or anything like that.
but don't follow my actions, guys.
Please talk about it and ask for help.
I wish Tom learned his lesson and change for the better now. Like, geez seriously? What's wrong with that dude?! If he didn't do that, things will be better now.
[Unrelated, but i started to love your animated storytime-type of content Nirami!. Your artstyle is gorgeous and manage to capture the story's feelings (i'm not sure if that's how it described. Sorry, i'm bad at describing things in english)]
Thank you so much for your opinion! 🥰
I’m sorry that this happened. You’re awesome and strong for getting though it ♥️
Wow, you were so mature in such an unokay situation, rly motivational. I’m so sorry u had to go through that especially with someone you trusted.
Something like this happened between my cousin and her older brother… it’s disgusting and disturbing. But he did it because it happened to him, still not an excuse for him to act that way.
I'm sorry that happened to you. It was sorta relatable because I was once followed by a creepy man in Goodwill, (I was only 13-14 at the time) so mom noticed the man following me and we reported him. I'm 15½ now and I hope you're doing great. :)
Hey Nirami, so sorry to hear what you went through with that friend of yours, you really deserve better friends you can trust, be "weird" with and surround yourself with, and hope things get better for you soon!
Besides, no one deserves to get their privacy exploited like that, it's tottaly dick move and don't think it's cool, moral or even funny, it's sick and disgusting and feel like you're friend should've known better! Cuz real friends don't stab each other in the back like that, they help each other grow!!
Also apologies if I sound too extreme towards you're friend, I know I hardly know him like you do, so just wanna make sure you know that I'm at you're support on this just as much as the majority in the comment section of the video if you need me to 😅
Thanks so much for the support love
@@Nirami No problem, love to be of help whenever I can or get the chance to, and in this case I felt like you really looked like you needed all the support you could afford! 😅
That’s disgusting, so sorry that happened, sending hugs ❤️🫂🫂
This story sounds TERRIFYING I am so so sorry I hope that your better😢❤❤❤
I'm sorry that happened to you. People like are exactly why I have trust issues myself. You never really know whom will betray. All you can really do is be careful about whom you trust and give people a chance to prove themselves worthy of said trust. Also, I'd like to say that I believe you did the right thing cutting off all contact with that guy. He definitely didn't respect your boundaries like he should have and it's sad when people betray someone else. I just hope things have in your life have gotten better. You seem pretty cool.
YOOO GIRL! I am loving these story times! They make me wanna make some wack ones of my own lol! Your so cool, such an inspiration! Keep doing what your doing! Shine like the giant diamond you are! 😊💖🫶🥹😍🥰❤️🤣😎😎
Thanksss! Really appreciate it :D
Ohw! I hope you're feeling better after that. I think it was hard to narrate that story.
I send you a lot of hugs and kisses, I support you !
Kiss from France
Thank you so much. I indeed cried a bit while making this but I think it’s good to feel it and finally let go
@@Nirami Ohw, I understand ! It's good that you can at least talk about it. You are really strong !! Much love for you
Hey I know her...she makes the badass animations! She's making storytimes now? Heck yeah!
Love it 🥹
I always feel like people who are close really can’t be fully trusted
that betrayal is INSANE what the hell
Aaaaa that sounds so scaryy omggg, people that record others in the bathroom are SO gross
Oh no, oh hell nooo!
Question: how long does it take to produce a video like this (art, background art, music, sound design ect ect)
I started making the video on Monday :) So I would say about a week
@@Nirami very interesting, you must have a sophisticated schedule.
It's so good, when ya have something with who you can be, who you really are, spend time with him. And when he's not a creep.😆
I’m so sorry this happened, it shouldn’t have, this never should happen. I’ve never dealt with something like this, but your very brave for talking about this, have a good day :) I’m glad your doing better. (If I find Tom, ever. I’LL KICK HIM-)
Please tell me your gonna kick him "where the sun doesn't shine"
Man...this was heartbreaking. I had to take a few breaks between the video.
Sorry you gone through this and it sounds like you've gone through a lot more.
Ugh pls the queen dropped another iconic video
I understand your feeling I had to break up with a lot of my frienships bc they were toxic mostly males I remember I broke up with my bff bc he wanted me 2 send pics of myself and I didn't want 2 I didn't feel safe with him 😣 that was 2 years ago
LOVE YOUR VOICE BTW 😭😭😭💝💝💝 ur a huge inspiration 4 me 💕💕
So sorry this happened and also thanks a lot ❤️
This feeling is dread hearig your trust with him shatter apart makesmy heart ache the way you handled this situation is very good i hope that guy never does that to any other person again and i am angry that he is like that
5:35 well that's a violation. Gosh that is.... the worst thing ever. I have had two friends betray me in middle school. Never violated me personally but my sibling... Yeah that was terrible. But the other friend simply betrayed my trust and kept me in a constant cycle of hurt.
Some people suck. Big time.
Secretly filmed in the bathroom, creepy
Im so sorry, someone who’s a genuine friend to you should never do that to you, that’s horrible.
As a male this had ever happend to me. When using the urinal.. yes the urinal there was a clear camera that probably got piss covered all over it, so i took like 6 layers of tissue and like i just picked it up and put it on the ground and stomped it ovet and over. Idk why it would happen in the urinal but ye.
That’s honestly so weird. Like why would you even put a phone in a urinal? It’s gonna get covered in piss and it’s literally right there
@@goldfishimpact736piss kink
Damn... just... damn...
I've had my own troubles with shitty friends and the like but... this is beyond disgusting... I barely have words to say and it makes my heart sink knowing that one of my favorite creators had something this traumatic happen to them. I'm glad you're better now and have people you trust.
The fact that i can actually relate to this so hard
That it makes me sad that another person has to go through the same feelings as I did :,(
The only thing that’s different is that the person recording me was my sister’s boyfriend that I trusted a lot
Im sorry love ❤️
@@Nirami it’s ok don’t worry but thank you though
This video made me so sad. Its so similar to the situation i was in, i was more of a "rough" or masculine girl (as in i liked what the stereotypical boy would like, i still like feminine things tho) and that lead me to being friends with a couple of guys from similar interests. Of course i still had girl friends, ones that would always tell me to stop hanging out with my guy friends. Specifically J, we were pretty close and anyone could say he was good looking, if he ever asked me out i wouldve been happy. We clicked, we were best friends basically. Even my parents liked him and since we were 13-14, his parents were fine if we ever had sleep over. It's not like either of us are creeps, right? Well, one of us was, it was j. The day prior, we were out, and i fell off my bike in mud. When we got back, his mom said it was fine if i wanted to take a shower and said to use her soap. Right before he said he needed to use the bathroom, he ended up trying to film me in the shower... while i was getting changed, i saw the phone, and it was recording. I immediately deleted all the videos. I cursed and screamed at him, and when his parents found out why i was acting like that, they reacted the same. During school, he tried to approach me a lot, and once i let him talk. He said it was because he liked me, he thought I'd reject him since we were friends. Wow, so dating must be people taking a chance whether or not they have things in common then, right? Some of our other mutual friends saw i was getting angry and told him to f*ck off and that they weren't his friends anymore. When i was older we had a high school reunion party(not school) and J was with someone one else and i honestly dont know how he made friends after that since the incident followed him to highschool. He approached me and wanted to apologize again and buy me a drink (this wasn't a house party). i did let him, but i didn't trust the drink. When he went to talk to someone else, one of his friends said i shouldn't talk to him since he was stalking my social media. I told him about it, how i knew he was stalking my social media etc and smashed the beer bottle on his head, and left. Im still furious to this day. He was one of my best friends.
And second that middle to end part was funny and WILD. Also you said you smashed it on his head does that mean it broke on his head or just one of those cartoon looking thumps that cause lots of pain to the person's head?
@@spark8719Your first comment seems uncalled for and insensitive, I don't know if that's just you and of course your opinion is your opinion, but there are other cultures/religions that believe in separate feminine and masculine items, (which is NOT even what they were saying, they were just saying they were into more masculine things like, I don't know, for example, clothes that can literally be found in the MEN'S section? They literally said they liked what a STEREOTYPICAL boy likes.), not colors like you stated, which I'm not going to lie, had nothing to do with anything they stated. Edit: And you know what, I'm just gonna say it, the whole idea of your first comment was just plain stupid.
@@GMoney72049
Then I'll delete it
I used to be really upset since my parents wouldn't let me stay over at friends houses and invite friends over. They always say that "our home is too shabby", and i don't deny it, it was. But growing up, i come to appreciate their "insecurity", as it has prevented a plethora of dodgy situations, the type that would get me involved with drug gangs or unsavory situations.
It's sad to hear about this kind of stuff, but it can happen.When you think you know someone, then you don't.Hope you're doing okay mentally regardless.
I have a suggestion for a art idea, why not try some art challenges or something that involves the community? Perhaps something different from your current art style to expand your artistic skill and find something new you like?
That’s a very good idea! I wanted to get more into backgrounds so that could be something
WHAT TF 😰😰😰😰
You actually reminded me of my girlfriend. She is also “the weird girl “ but I’m kinda cringey as well. She nicknamed me Lupin because I nicknamed her Fugiko ( yes they’re kinda together in the show) but I also compare myself to PEPE LÈ PEW . In a goofy dimwit way 🤷😅
But seriously this guy has iiiisues
I am REALLY sorry that happened to you and i hope nobody else is going through that same situation. Maybe make a vid on toxic people or like bullying? It's fine if you don't want to i get it it's personal. Stay safe Nirami!!
it's crazy how even people you know for all your life can just betray/hurt you, even family! It's one of the worst things I can think can happen to someone, and it happened to you, I am so sorry that this happened...
As someone who let go of the majority of their friendgroup/hobbies, like literally cut contact and quit almost EVERYTHING, I think I can kind of understand where you're coming from. It's not a fun experience, and if i could do everything all over again I would, but just know that if you were so unhappy in the first place this was absolutely the most mundane and smartest decision you could have made. I'm happy that you were able to be brave enough to distance yourself from them, and I genuinely hope you're doing better now
2:04 is that,, is that the silly little guy in the corner...
Hate thinking things like this actually happen to people, sometimes it's the person you'd least expect, sometimes it's a stranger hiding a camera in a public bathroom/changing room. It was hard for me to believe it was an actual problem for awhile, then something traumatic and similar happened to me (won't trauma dump because I feel that's incentive) and suddenly I was like: wow.. this is happening.. it's real.. This actually happens to people
Hated that feeling
For future video ideas, maybe you could try to make some art challenge videos, like for example the soldier, poet, king challenge or this tipe of "design an oc based on x factors" with a vocie over, I think that could make the audience more engage. By the way, neat viedo, it was a little creepy, that's why I have trust issues
Thanks for the Idea! 🥰
Dude, same, got that dude expelled same day tho. Publicly humiliated too!
Reasons why I have trust issues, anyway are you okay? Please stay safe
Yes thank you for asking! ❤️
@@Nirami no problem 💗
Girl this is horrible, its one of my worst nightmare , i always hated public toilettes because i feel like im being watched , so if one day i would found a phone filming me idk what i would do 💀
It sucks that you never got the explanation you deserved, but I don't think you would've been satisfied even if you did get an explanation. People like this are disgusting 😒 I am so sorry this happened to you.
0:50 "aaaaaa" why was that relaxing-
we're here for you Nirami. Your feelings are completely valid, i'm sorry you had to go trough that.
congratulations on 1M subscribers. you've definitely earned them! youtube is hard work haha.
I love listening to you and your stories but I feel bad for you and all of these happened, I hope your doing ok now❤
Thanks love, I really appreciate it. I got help and feel better about myself ❤️
nice to see that you are committing to story time video's their great. 👍
Situational awareness is key. Ironic, I know. Finding the happy medium..aware or overwhelmed.
This actually happened to my friend.Fortunately She saw the phone, and her mom called the police and the person that filmed it had to delete it i forgot what happened after.
This weird ass kid looked over the stall while I was using the bathroom 😭✋💀
He was my classmate and he knew what he was doing he was 10
@@RaysClxtch0,0 what the actual f-
Your voice is majestic tbh
I’m so sorry this happened to you, that’s awful and he shouldn’t have done any recording of you without your permission.
My friend reminds me of Tom in the sense that he has similar interests and helped me not feel like ‘the weird kid’ but my friend has never done anything like that to me
duuuuude when the vid went quiet i started tearing up
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. As usual, that's a pretty common comment for this video, but it's because it's true! We care about you a lot, Nirami! Also, your voice sounds so calm and soothing! Love you platonically! 😊
I really appreciate this, and wish I could do more than just comment. It's wonderful that you share stuff like this, I think it's smart. It lets a lot of people know they aren't alone. Thank you for sharing.
Omg- This absolutely sucks! I hope this never happens again to u!
Hey Nirami! I absolutely love your content and art style you inspire me a whole lot, I really hope you read this :)
New Fear: UNLOCKED
I'm very sorry but it does honestly remind me of the new Chilla's Art game...
Sorry that happened to you that's horrible :(
Find him and sue him, blackmail him. It is disgusting that someone did that.
OMG IS THAT SODIKKEN?! also oim so sorry for what happened to you I hope you can heal and recover fully ***Sending virtual hugs!***
hi! you uploaded this an hour ago so im guessing you wont see comments anymore :'3 but this happened to me too and im 16!... it was when i was in a friends house and the bathrooms window was broken.. and his dad was recording me! fortunately it was reported to authorities and he was charged with harassment and the video was deleted. I hope your okay!
This man is sick. Are you okay now?
Oh my I’m so sorry love, this is very creepy! Hope you’re healed from that. Sending much love ❤️
@@irch_ yeah, i got some therapy and im as healthy as ever! thank you for your concern :)
@@Nirami thank you for noticing me again, and i have! sending much much love back
I have no words. I hope you are in a better place.
These people made it hard to be just friend with a girl because i dont want to talk to them cuz im afraid to come off as creepy
As long as you talk to them like they're actual people and you don't do creepy stuff, you should be ok!
When I was watching this I got a add that gosss oh oh nooooo
oh god I haved same situation onece I haved a heart attack at the time
Dont worry same with me to. I was once just going to the bathroom in a public restroom of a diner that seemed very off. I went to use the bathroom and as i was using the toilet i looked up and saw a weird man who was like in his 40s filming me. My brother was outside of the bathroom so i waled out at told my brother and then my brother called the police. I never felt so indangered in my life and i never want it to happen to others. Im sorry this happened😔
A red flag is a red flag
Sorry this happened to you. I hope you're doing ok now.
I just want to tell everyone, some people mostly say, never be friends or even stay friends with someone you broke up with, yes they're the one who understands and cares about you, but at the end, they only care about themselves.
You either die a hero or live to see your self become the villian
I would have been too scared to just stay in the house with him after deleting everything, I'm pretty sure I would have left the appartment while he went to the bathroom so that if he got violent, there'd be neighbors within earshot. Even if you think you knew him not to be violent, once someone does something like that, it's like you never knew them at all. Who knows what else they might do?
this is a terrifying story. If i was in this situation i would think about it every… 7 seconds?
Хорошего дня!
disclaimer, not russian! used my very limited knowledge on the language to type that, with some help from google translate. i’m good at English and japanese, so 誤解をお詫びします
WHAT THE HELL!?! OH MY GOD! AIN'T NO WAYAYAYAY!!!
Oh god i feel so bad for you. I'm glad you found out early.❤❤
This is absolutely horrible and disturbing behavior, people like this disgust me. I'm so sorry this has happened to you, Nae Nae, he is such a such a terrible person for putting your privacy in danger. I'm so glad you saw his phone, who knows what could have happened if you didn't. I hope this never happens again❤