Good morning folks :) I'm hoping this video might help out folks struggling with their gender or maybe its just interesting to people curious how I figured out mine
it’s nice to hear a story of a trans person who hasn’t like known their gender since childhood... like I wore dresses and all things “girly girl” and only recently realized I’m actually enby
Thank you for telling your story! I just came out to my brother and sister as non binary a few days ago. My parents don’t know because they are incredibly anti LGBTQ+ and since I’m financially relient on them until after college it’s been hard to live life authentically but videos like these help me through these times. Thanks again
Dude I really need a video about how to come out to classmates and teachers, half of them know I’m a trans guy but the other half doesn’t and I don’t know how to say it without making it seem weird 🥶
I've felt kinda bad for starting transition and realizing my gender identity late, but seeing that you figured it all out at around the same timeframe as I did makes me feel better about all. Thanks :)
Wow. This is like identical to my thought process and feelings about my gender and discovering my own gender identity. Thanks for sharing. Makes me feel like I'm not alone.
glad to know that i wasnt the only one who became real girly before realizing that wasnt right, i also just got my first binder and it makes me so happy...anyways LOVE YOU BECKETT!!!
This. This! THIS! This is what I've been wanting to voice since I was a little "girl." I grew up as a shadow of my brother, realizing I was gay when I was in hs (but like come on, I knew I didn't like boys.), and only coming about as a nonbinary lesbian at 30. But truly, so freaking truly I know inside myself that I'm trans that I want top surg and to go on low dose T. This is how I will tell everyone (when I'm ready) that I'm trans masc nonbinary and always have been. The gender barriers and stereotypes were so ingrained and I knew nothing else until this year. Thanks Becks.
Thank you so much for posting this. It’s so helpful for a questioning trans guy. It was really comforting, in a way, when you mentioned that being a man scared you. Cuz that’s exactly how I feel. Everything is very confusing but your content is very helpful. Thank you
Wow, I can relate to a LOT of this, down to the timeline. I'm almost 1 month on T as a senior in HS, came out as nonbinary before realizing I was mostly binary male, repressed mostly until now, was a lesbian throughout high school but knew something was up gender wise, was hyperfeminine in freshman year, cut my hair short to a Karen cut in 8th grade.... yeah. It's super encouraging to see someone with such a similar experience & timeline. We both even have blue hair!
It's always great to hear other people's stories on how they figured out that they were ultimately trans. I'm about 99% sure I'm also a trans guy. My only issue is how that plays into my religion and how my parents would take it. I'm going into my junior year of college and I commute from home, so I'm around my family a lot. I know they'd never approve. Yet, I know they love me a lot, so there's still hope lol. I've done all I can without the help of hormones or surgery so far, so it's now a matter of playing the waiting game until I'm financially separate from them or they force me to come out. They've sat me down and asked me if I was a lesbian/want to be a guy, too. Weaseled my way out of it. Lesbian never was something that sounded good for me either. Also tried dating a guy in high school, didn't work out but I think if I was older then it would've been different. Anyways thanks for the video, man. Found it through your instagram.
Hey Beckett, I just found your video & what an interesting journey you've had from when you were younger to now. I'm also a FtM trans guy & I realised when I was much younger say 6 or 7 that I was different. I was a lesbian for 30+ years b4 I realised what & who I wanted to be. I'm now 55 & 1 month in & loving my new life & everyone that is my family & friends accept me for who I am. Thanks for sharing your video with me. 🙂🫠🏳️⚧️🇦🇺
I also thought I was non binary, but I’m starting to realize that im a guy. It’s scary to say. and it’s really comforting knowing that, that’s okay to be me. Thank you !
Honestly, this has been interesting to listen to. I’m currently a she/her, but I wish a little bit I was a they/them. Buuuuuuut, if I told anyone I know, I would be instantly disowned. So she/her it is
You’re so luckly u are transitioning so ”fast”. My story is pretty similar, I’m now 18 and have been identifying as trans male like 1,5 year (before non-binary too for a while) and I haven’t even got in to trans clinic, and there it can also take years to get surgery, hormones.. :,,)
Good morning folks :) I'm hoping this video might help out folks struggling with their gender or maybe its just interesting to people curious how I figured out mine
it’s nice to hear a story of a trans person who hasn’t like known their gender since childhood... like I wore dresses and all things “girly girl” and only recently realized I’m actually enby
Same! ❤️❤️
i love ur tiktoks and i’m glad youre starting to do youtube bc the videos are longer and more personal:)
Thank you for telling your story! I just came out to my brother and sister as non binary a few days ago. My parents don’t know because they are incredibly anti LGBTQ+ and since I’m financially relient on them until after college it’s been hard to live life authentically but videos like these help me through these times. Thanks again
Sending much love to you and wanting to let you know that you are not alone:)
Dude I really need a video about how to come out to classmates and teachers, half of them know I’m a trans guy but the other half doesn’t and I don’t know how to say it without making it seem weird 🥶
I've felt kinda bad for starting transition and realizing my gender identity late, but seeing that you figured it all out at around the same timeframe as I did makes me feel better about all.
Thanks :)
Wow. This is like identical to my thought process and feelings about my gender and discovering my own gender identity. Thanks for sharing. Makes me feel like I'm not alone.
glad to know that i wasnt the only one who became real girly before realizing that wasnt right, i also just got my first binder and it makes me so happy...anyways LOVE YOU BECKETT!!!
Great video, I'm glad you found what fits you, and that your family is supportive, your a pretty cute guy.
This. This! THIS! This is what I've been wanting to voice since I was a little "girl." I grew up as a shadow of my brother, realizing I was gay when I was in hs (but like come on, I knew I didn't like boys.), and only coming about as a nonbinary lesbian at 30. But truly, so freaking truly I know inside myself that I'm trans that I want top surg and to go on low dose T. This is how I will tell everyone (when I'm ready) that I'm trans masc nonbinary and always have been. The gender barriers and stereotypes were so ingrained and I knew nothing else until this year. Thanks Becks.
Thank you so much for posting this. It’s so helpful for a questioning trans guy. It was really comforting, in a way, when you mentioned that being a man scared you. Cuz that’s exactly how I feel. Everything is very confusing but your content is very helpful. Thank you
Wow, I can relate to a LOT of this, down to the timeline. I'm almost 1 month on T as a senior in HS, came out as nonbinary before realizing I was mostly binary male, repressed mostly until now, was a lesbian throughout high school but knew something was up gender wise, was hyperfeminine in freshman year, cut my hair short to a Karen cut in 8th grade.... yeah. It's super encouraging to see someone with such a similar experience & timeline. We both even have blue hair!
It's always great to hear other people's stories on how they figured out that they were ultimately trans. I'm about 99% sure I'm also a trans guy. My only issue is how that plays into my religion and how my parents would take it. I'm going into my junior year of college and I commute from home, so I'm around my family a lot. I know they'd never approve. Yet, I know they love me a lot, so there's still hope lol. I've done all I can without the help of hormones or surgery so far, so it's now a matter of playing the waiting game until I'm financially separate from them or they force me to come out. They've sat me down and asked me if I was a lesbian/want to be a guy, too. Weaseled my way out of it. Lesbian never was something that sounded good for me either. Also tried dating a guy in high school, didn't work out but I think if I was older then it would've been different.
Anyways thanks for the video, man. Found it through your instagram.
You’re awesome Thank you for sharing your story
11:50 i literally said "uhhh exciting" two seconds earlier 😂
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Hey Beckett, I just found your video & what an interesting journey you've had from when you were younger to now. I'm also a FtM trans guy & I realised when I was much younger say 6 or 7 that I was different. I was a lesbian for 30+ years b4 I realised what & who I wanted to be. I'm now 55 & 1 month in & loving my new life & everyone that is my family & friends accept me for who I am.
Thanks for sharing your video with me. 🙂🫠🏳️⚧️🇦🇺
I am really happy for you and that process
Love you and have a great day💜
I also thought I was non binary, but I’m starting to realize that im a guy. It’s scary to say. and it’s really comforting knowing that, that’s okay to be me. Thank you !
Damn I relate to this but going the opposite way lol and I guess I was also a bit slower.
Honestly, this has been interesting to listen to. I’m currently a she/her, but I wish a little bit I was a they/them. Buuuuuuut, if I told anyone I know, I would be instantly disowned. So she/her it is
You’re so luckly u are transitioning so ”fast”. My story is pretty similar, I’m now 18 and have been identifying as trans male like 1,5 year (before non-binary too for a while) and I haven’t even got in to trans clinic, and there it can also take years to get surgery, hormones.. :,,)