My narc ex husband use to say that NO MAN WILL EVER LOVE ME LIKE THE WAY HE DID, this was said after he was caught after his many affairs, what a twisted way he has of showing love, no sense to it at all, all he did was cause pain that's NOT LOVE, he extremely damaged and SICK SICK SICK
❤️ True. Narcissist control us through fear. They lose control once we NO longer fear losing them. Healing is all about learning to overcome our OWN fear of rejection, abandonment, low self-esteem, neglect, past abuses, etc... It's not that we love the narcissist intimately (subconsciously, we don't because of the emotional abuse they spew on us). But... It's the fear of us facing past childhood or young adult traumas, emotions, situations, etc... should we leave the relationship which keeps us connected to them (NOT love). They have a grip on us because we fear facing our OWN emotional insecurities and weaknesses, so we then begin to place more focus on what they are doing to us, rather than what we are doing to ourselves (accepting/allowing physical or emotional abuse). This is why empaths binge watch narcissist videos instead of the co-dependency ones (our focus is on their toxic behavior and NOT our own emotional unbalances to heal properly). When a child is NO longer afraid of the darkness; they are NO longer concerned about the monster hiding under their bed. The monster was ONLY relevant to the child because of their fear of the darkness (not the monster). FACE your unaddressed fears, issues, abuses, etc... and I PROMISE you, just watch how irrelevant the narcissist will become in your life. May The Lord bless you all on your journey forward... Much healing♥️
So true! Once I stopped worrying about his reactions, my fear of abandonment, I could finally set boundaries and keep them. Face your greatest feat and you will be free. ❤️
@@jerry-mj8th ❤️I agree 100% and congrats on your healing... So many people stay stuck focused on the narc and never experience true happiness and healing moving forward.
These nutcases will also try to put the "fear of God" in you, saying dumb things like, "I pray for YOU," or "Lord knows YOU need help!" when all the while they are just manipulating your religious fears by bringing "God" into their tactics.
Wow! So eye opening to me! This was all of my three serious relationships...I mean wow!!! Edit: yes the smear campaign is pure evil. I am completely isolated but so glad I broke Free!
Several workplaces have this. It really is very hard to escape, as you cannot easily find new similar jobs It fried my nervous system badly, even though i proceeded with caution. They simply have a power balance over you. If you are not malleable enough to their tastes, they start spreading lies, interfere with work assignments, and it is BRUTAL ... especially over a long time ...
Them threatening suicide or blaming others for them being depressed is a other toxic move many of them do. Just focus on the fact that they put no effort in bettering themselves beyond empty words to fool you
Great 😂stuff, people don"t understand how much these npds don't care 🙄 and are willing to do really diabolical things to you, my psychiatrist is always saying things that tell me he thinks I am the awful person, i have tried to explain to him but he doesn't get it! Most people think you're the bmean guy!
My narc ex husband use to say that NO MAN WILL EVER LOVE ME LIKE THE WAY HE DID, this was said after he was caught after his many affairs, what a twisted way he has of showing love, no sense to it at all, all he did was cause pain that's NOT LOVE, he extremely damaged and SICK SICK SICK
Well! He was right🤔
😂😂😂 If a Narc ever says “No man will love me like they did” I will say “GOOD! They better not!” 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾
Your channel is excellent. Thankyou so much.
Thank YOU! You’re welcome. ❤️
❤️ True. Narcissist control us through fear. They lose control once we NO longer fear losing them. Healing is all about learning to overcome our OWN fear of rejection, abandonment, low self-esteem, neglect, past abuses, etc... It's not that we love the narcissist intimately (subconsciously, we don't because of the emotional abuse they spew on us). But... It's the fear of us facing past childhood or young adult traumas, emotions, situations, etc... should we leave the relationship which keeps us connected to them (NOT love). They have a grip on us because we fear facing our OWN emotional insecurities and weaknesses, so we then begin to place more focus on what they are doing to us, rather than what we are doing to ourselves (accepting/allowing physical or emotional abuse). This is why empaths binge watch narcissist videos instead of the co-dependency ones (our focus is on their toxic behavior and NOT our own emotional unbalances to heal properly). When a child is NO longer afraid of the darkness; they are NO longer concerned about the monster hiding under their bed. The monster was ONLY relevant to the child because of their fear of the darkness (not the monster). FACE your unaddressed fears, issues, abuses, etc... and I PROMISE you, just watch how irrelevant the narcissist will become in your life. May The Lord bless you all on your journey forward... Much healing♥️
Thank you for this explanation 🙏🏽🙌
So true! Once I stopped worrying about his reactions, my fear of abandonment, I could finally set boundaries and keep them. Face your greatest feat and you will be free. ❤️
@@jerry-mj8th ❤️I agree 100% and congrats on your healing... So many people stay stuck focused on the narc and never experience true happiness and healing moving forward.
@@LC_H ❤️
These nutcases will also try to put the "fear of God" in you, saying dumb things like, "I pray for YOU," or "Lord knows YOU need help!" when all the while they are just manipulating your religious fears by bringing "God" into their tactics.
Definitely! Using God is a powerful manipulation tactic!
Oh, the religious narcissist is the most conniving and cunning ones by far.
"Base not your joy on the deeds of others, for what is given can be taken away. No hope = No fear." -Peter Steele, Type O Negative
Wow! So eye opening to me! This was all of my three serious relationships...I mean wow!!!
Edit: yes the smear campaign is pure evil. I am completely isolated but so glad I broke Free!
Several workplaces have this. It really is very hard to escape, as you cannot easily find new similar jobs
It fried my nervous system badly, even though i proceeded with caution. They simply have a power balance over you. If you are not malleable enough to their tastes, they start spreading lies, interfere with work assignments, and it is BRUTAL ... especially over a long time ...
Them threatening suicide or blaming others for them being depressed is a other toxic move many of them do. Just focus on the fact that they put no effort in bettering themselves beyond empty words to fool you
I love you girl im sorry you went through this stupid evil crap too!
In my experience, one of the favorite books of narcissists is how to influence people and win friends
This information you delivered is much needed.
Thank you for sharing 🖤🧡
You’re welcome. Thank you for watching!
@@LookingBehindtheMirror most welcome 🖤🧡
Great 😂stuff, people don"t understand how much these npds don't care 🙄 and are willing to do really diabolical things to you, my psychiatrist is always saying things that tell me he thinks I am the awful person, i have tried to explain to him but he doesn't get it! Most people think you're the bmean guy!
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