*Send texts for the pure enjoyment of it and not one that expects an answer in return ....not needy texts. Something Texts that if she doesn't reply, it doesn't make a difference to you. - Send Emotional trigger texts. - 5:52 funny texts - things that might amuse myself *No plain vanilla texts. Instead of sending plain boring texts, change it into a mischievous anecdote. 12:44 Give her something to react to. Twist it into something more fun. *Don't send the comforting text such as: "How did you exam go?.... How did _ _ _ go?" -instead, Send a challenging text -send text that makes a statement. Something that might assume it's fine. -15:58 -Express personality over text *No sexual texts. Instead, sexually bait... only at the right time. - better to not send these at all than do it wrong -"Is the movie you're watching naughty?" *Never confess feelings over text -a kiss in real life changes things
Bought the scrambler, studied the strategy. All the people hating in the comments don’t understand the value of what Bobby is teaching. Bobby is building your knowledge up. He wants you to change your mindset when it comes to being creative with these women. Bobby had an email series for 30 days giving tips, I gotta say, I wish it was longer. You listen to this video with an open mind and apply creativity, Bobby will get you the results you want.
*Playing it cool and not responding immediately shows that you have a life outside of the conversation, which is highly attractive. Let her come to you a little.*
Find balance in your life and all life you observe is welcomed! Yin yang! Good is great! Bad is awful! Life is great! Balance in life while observing life without judgment is key to living!
@@MatthewPinson-vt1jg this is not great at all, don't text a girl that someone else is ugIy or fat and don't ask if she's watching a 'naughty' movie unless you're already dating..
Thanks for this video. Texting is kind of my weakpoint, especially in the beginning phase. I'm pretty good in person and have no problems escalating, but it always gets stale during text after a while when the girl and i don't see each other for a couple of days.
omg text from you is was my good luck charm, yeah right that's what a girl wants to read.and also a bf who is speeding or even driving after drinking, sure, that is a what a girl wants,
I don't particularly like texting but its part of it whether I like it or not. So I'm in the early stages with a woman now (had like 2 dates). Both busy, live an hour away etc. We text but trying to keep it brief and avoid any mistakes, as when I have actually seen her in person it's gone great.
Def liked this and have done better with texting. Removing emojis was a big one for me. What about reestablishing contact text after period of no contact... kinda curious
WHAT NOT TO DO ON A FIRST DATE IF YOU HOPE THERE'LL BE A SECOND DATE, PART 2 - real life examples: - bring up the topic of s.uaI h..ssment and if she tells you how someone h..ssed her, laugh at her - tell her about some scientific study which proves that one race is worse in something than other race - when she notices a bug or a spider somewhere, joke about throwing it down her shirt. (you're not her brother or her close friend yet, these jokes sound mean from a stranger) - tell her that you know you look the same as in your dating profile pic which is 10 years old - tell her a horror story and insist it is real, it really happened (she will have only negative emotions linked to the memory of you)
Nice video and thanks for the captions. However, if you carry the conversations always on your own, then quit, because, be honest, this will be an exhausting relationship for you if you're responsible for her entertainment for the rest of her life!
if she writes good mornng, its ok to respond. the issue is if it becomes a daily pattern. Don't feel like you have to do it evrey morning, or even most mornings.
I have a wierd situation with coworker. She is new girl and she is good looking girl. After some time in company she showed me some interest like asking questions first etc. I felt that interest and after some time started sending her needy messages. In start it was ok but after some time she lowered interest with shorter responses. Once I met her in hall of company and gave her complement on dressand she said thanks. Next day I sent text with interest and no response. Again I send text 2-3 weeks later again no response and after that I send it looks like that we wont get along well and that I wont send any more messages. Next day she came to me in office where I work, with her coworker friends and just looked at me smiling but I ignored her. After that I ignored her for about 2 months. One day we had team building with lasers and whenever I shot her she said move back from me. Next day I send her message that I dont want to see that bahaviour from her any more and day after she sent me long long paragraph full of hate and that she wants I now act that she doesn't exist. After that I started ignoring her again and now we are no contact for 3 months. You have any tips what to do now or stay no contact?
I have advice, just ignore her. And if you can flirt with a different girl in front of her that would be great. If you are tired of messing with her then keep acting like she doesn't exist.
@@tedmaudlin5074 I dont have emotions for her just having fun but I think it hurt her emotions so I dont want to mess up my job. I havent even apologized to her because I think her silence after I complimented her messed things up. Every other girl that rejected me did it without ghosting.
Don't. You're just the backup and the approval giver. She either leaves her bf for you or you leave. If you really want her, then meet her once or twice in person. Still the best way to seduce a woman. Then see if she breaks up or sge puts you in the waiting line (for good).
Ya man...I cringe thinking of that long-ass explanation text I sent when a previous girl was pulling away. Yezus! But that was pre-Scrambler some 27 months ago. I mentioned to Jessica J awhile back, "Mr. Rio woke my dumbass up and your Speak to Spark Arousal got me on my feet and moving". Good stuff from both of you and I can't thank you enough. Been with my current girlfriend for nearly 2 years now and still reference the rules of The Scrambler to keep my ass in check. Don't ever want to drop that string. She's a good one. Oh btw, I'm in my 60's.
I think it still depends on a certain intelectual level of the person your doing this with,, people are different. I mean it may work on blondes.. how bout on southeast asians, who have totally different perspectives in life, different culture, different mind set, different,, talk about moral and values.. but then again. I may be wrong. Just hit me up. 👇
Southeast Asians? Don't fall into their frame. Maintain your frame. If they're attracted to you, part of the reason will be that you're different to most southeast asian guys. So carry on being silly / flirty / keeping it lighthearted.
if you've been together for awhile, it's ok. If it's early in the relationship, even if she starts it, I'd still avoid doing it daily. Not saying to never do it, but she begins to take it for granted if its daily, and eventually it becomes a chore.
Let her send those texts if she wants. You should stop sending them and responding directly to them via text. As Chris Sixty rightly says. Never let her conquer Your time Your reactions Your humour The good night and morning texts are an imposition on your time. When you're away from her get on with sleeping. Or getting on and starting your day.
As Chris Sixty says: be a positive challenge. Make it so she never conquers your humour. Let her get frustrated at your perpetual silly sense of humour.
The bad texts are great examples of bad texts and golden, but the suggested alternatives are awful IMO, maybe they are appropriate in American culture, but I still have my doubts, totally OTT in the rest of the world, or at least in both Europe and Asia.
I thought the same. I mean I would argue the blunt/to the point texts are not as bad as some of the alternatives. Sometimes you are arranging through text so keeping it on point isn't too bad. Generally just try to - not text too often, no check-in texts, no routine texts, keep it light/fun, no simping, no long texts, don't report where you are/what you are doing all the time. Use them to arrange to meet up. Can be difficult like in my current situation, seen the woman twice, but weeks have passed in between as live an hour or so apart. Stay in touch but keeping texting brief/be busy. If a date cancels or doesn't work out, keep it light don't be butt hurt.
Text messages miss out on the nonverbal face and hand gestures of face to face. Text messages miss the cadence and tone of a voice or face to face talk. I cannot properly express my humor via texts.
woman here. what not to do on a first date, if you hope there will be a second date(all from real life): - be mean to the customer service, waiters, supermarket cashiers, etc. - complain to your date about customer service especially if they're not rude - always walk first through every door and never hold the door for your date, never even hint with your hand and face the question if she wants to walk through the door first - never ask any question about her, always talk only about yourself or things that matter to you - when she asks something or tells you something, criticize her or make fun of her, tell her how bad her question was - stay quiet most of the time, let her do all the work of talking and trying to come up with topics - try to hold her hand while walking or try to cuddle with her when you sit down (you're a complete stranger to her) - complain about your ex - ask her to help you find an appartment because you're just moving, doesn't she have any phone numbers of someone who's renting a place? - tell her "no, i disagree, i think that..." and then say exactly the same point she just made - repeat twice the story about some guy you knew was probably falsely accused of s-*uaI h--*ssment (the woman you're on a date with likely has at least 20 to 200 experiences of really being h-ssed) - talk about how much you want some raceto beoppressed or animals to be exterminated - tell her that the music she likes is not a real music or the books she likes aredumb - show her on your phone that your friends are texting you asking you to photograph her and send the photo to them - ask her to let you take a picture of her - take a picture of her without her permission - ask her to send you photos of her feet or any body part that is not her face - talk a lot about some female friend you have
It sounds like a school that trains a guy to cower down and worrie if every responce would be "exceptable", kind of like a door mat everyone wipes there shoes on. Ive seen a lot of guy in a marrage like that we use to call them wimps
These students example text or ridiculous and will turn anybody off man or woman?And just don't send your own picture dude because if you send your picture to her, she will totally be turned off.You're a weirdo
@@lint8391 Their advice is: don't be nice, or considerate. Be kind of a dick; definitely don't be your authentic self. Ignore her unless she texts you first. But don't text back right away. Again, be kind of a dick. Make her wait a day or two.
@@cizzymac Everyone has multiple versions of themselves. What they are proposing is that you be the most attractive version of yourself. Or that - if required - you change the authentic version of yourself in order to turn yourself into a more attractive man. The advice in this video is to send interesting texts instead of boring texts. That's not being a dick. It's the opposite of being a dick. It's being interesting and attractive.
*Send texts for the pure enjoyment of it and not one that expects an answer in return ....not needy texts. Something Texts that if she doesn't reply, it doesn't make a difference to you.
- Send Emotional trigger texts.
- 5:52 funny texts
- things that might amuse myself
*No plain vanilla texts.
Instead of sending plain boring texts, change it into a mischievous anecdote. 12:44
Give her something to react to. Twist it into something more fun.
*Don't send the comforting text such as:
"How did you exam go?.... How did _ _ _ go?"
-instead, Send a challenging text
-send text that makes a statement. Something that might assume it's fine.
-15:58
-Express personality over text
*No sexual texts. Instead, sexually bait... only at the right time.
- better to not send these at all than do it wrong
-"Is the movie you're watching naughty?"
*Never confess feelings over text
-a kiss in real life changes things
This is so helpful, especially the bit about never confessing feeling over text. People would think it's common sense but you can never be too sure
Yes Calvin is back. I never ask her what she’s doing I just tell her what I want to do with her.
Bought the scrambler, studied the strategy. All the people hating in the comments don’t understand the value of what Bobby is teaching. Bobby is building your knowledge up. He wants you to change your mindset when it comes to being creative with these women. Bobby had an email series for 30 days giving tips, I gotta say, I wish it was longer. You listen to this video with an open mind and apply creativity, Bobby will get you the results you want.
I'm glad you're finding it helpful! Glad you enjoyed the email series too, i'm actually working on a party 2 of the email series now.
*Playing it cool and not responding immediately shows that you have a life outside of the conversation, which is highly attractive. Let her come to you a little.*
This is great!! When you play the game it's your game!! Don't play someone else's game, play yours and you won't lose!
Find balance in your life and all life you observe is welcomed! Yin yang! Good is great! Bad is awful! Life is great! Balance in life while observing life without judgment is key to living!
@@MatthewPinson-vt1jg this is not great at all, don't text a girl that someone else is ugIy or fat and don't ask if she's watching a 'naughty' movie unless you're already dating..
Tommy Shelby can give advice on anything 😮
Thanks for this video. Texting is kind of my weakpoint, especially in the beginning phase. I'm pretty good in person and have no problems escalating, but it always gets stale during text after a while when the girl and i don't see each other for a couple of days.
Does Calvin also have a channel?
Are we sure Calvin isn't AI?
My first thought.
Call Rick Deckard
😂that had me crackin up
Calvin is Chatgpt.
omg text from you is was my good luck charm, yeah right that's what a girl wants to read.and also a bf who is speeding or even driving after drinking, sure, that is a what a girl wants,
Don't send any texts at all. Just tell her I don't send texts unless there is an emergency
I don't particularly like texting but its part of it whether I like it or not. So I'm in the early stages with a woman now (had like 2 dates). Both busy, live an hour away etc. We text but trying to keep it brief and avoid any mistakes, as when I have actually seen her in person it's gone great.
Amazing information. Thank you gentlemen.🙏
So what we learned today is:
Don’t be thoughtful, nice or tell the truth
Bingo. That's modern dating.
Bobby Rio... Like his easy funny Vibe
Here's a better way: do not text women, unless you're related by blood. And not even then, really. I only text my sisters about once a year.
Texting is best used for setting dates. It prevents you from saying things you'll later regret.
Def liked this and have done better with texting. Removing emojis was a big one for me. What about reestablishing contact text after period of no contact... kinda curious
we usually recommend the favor text techinque
@@BobbyRio does that fall in line with recommendation text. About hiking spots, etc?
No more comforting text
When Bobby said you send her how did you're exam go? She's got 5 other guys sending her the same God damn text! He exposed it right there im dead😂
lol
excellent thank you
Glad it helped
Please, please i beg you - don't ask any woman if the movie she's watching is 'naaughty', unless you're already dating her
WHAT NOT TO DO ON A FIRST DATE IF YOU HOPE THERE'LL BE A SECOND DATE, PART 2 - real life examples:
- bring up the topic of s.uaI h..ssment and if she tells you how someone h..ssed her, laugh at her
- tell her about some scientific study which proves that one race is worse in something than other race
- when she notices a bug or a spider somewhere, joke about throwing it down her shirt. (you're not her brother or her close friend yet, these jokes sound mean from a stranger)
- tell her that you know you look the same as in your dating profile pic which is 10 years old
- tell her a horror story and insist it is real, it really happened (she will have only negative emotions linked to the memory of you)
Your website doesn't work. Support doesn't work. I bought a product and don't have access to it...
I don't send needy texts. I just don't text at all.
Gold
Nice video and thanks for the captions.
However, if you carry the conversations always on your own, then quit, because, be honest, this will be an exhausting relationship for you if you're responsible for her entertainment for the rest of her life!
Does the word "text" include whatsapp message?
What if she says Good Morning first? Or I Like Ya first?
if she writes good mornng, its ok to respond. the issue is if it becomes a daily pattern. Don't feel like you have to do it evrey morning, or even most mornings.
you really think a woman would like a man who is happy when ANYONE gets fat, like wishing them in a mean way to be fat? i would block a guy like that
Good morning good night is needed?
yea occasionally can be ok, if its a pattern its needy
More Chris Sixty he’s the GOAT
I have a wierd situation with coworker. She is new girl and she is good looking girl. After some time in company she showed me some interest like asking questions first etc. I felt that interest and after some time started sending her needy messages. In start it was ok but after some time she lowered interest with shorter responses. Once I met her in hall of company and gave her complement on dressand she said thanks. Next day I sent text with interest and no response. Again I send text 2-3 weeks later again no response and after that I send it looks like that we wont get along well and that I wont send any more messages. Next day she came to me in office where I work, with her coworker friends and just looked at me smiling but I ignored her. After that I ignored her for about 2 months. One day we had team building with lasers and whenever I shot her she said move back from me. Next day I send her message that I dont want to see that bahaviour from her any more and day after she sent me long long paragraph full of hate and that she wants I now act that she doesn't exist. After that I started ignoring her again and now we are no contact for 3 months. You have any tips what to do now or stay no contact?
Oh, please!!!
You need to understand that this train didn't just leave the station. It also derailed and exploded. Find someone else and do better.
Ignore, be happy, be with others and move on. Dont play a game, just move on in a happy way.
I have advice, just ignore her. And if you can flirt with a different girl in front of her that would be great. If you are tired of messing with her then keep acting like she doesn't exist.
@@tedmaudlin5074 I dont have emotions for her just having fun but I think it hurt her emotions so I dont want to mess up my job. I havent even apologized to her because I think her silence after I complimented her messed things up. Every other girl that rejected me did it without ghosting.
"Is the movie you're watching naughty" is the cringiest thing I've ever heard before.
damn that FTM is convincing.
What should I text, if I like this girl but she has a bf . But she is showing interest in me ?
you don't. even if you want her to cheat, leaving evidence on her phone shows you are indiscrete and will blow up her spot.
Don't. You're just the backup and the approval giver.
She either leaves her bf for you or you leave.
If you really want her, then meet her once or twice in person. Still the best way to seduce a woman.
Then see if she breaks up or sge puts you in the waiting line (for good).
If she has a bf but is showing interest in you run away.
She's a cheater and will cheat on you too.
Even if she leave him for you, you are just a stepping stone to the next one.
End contact and find out what you need to improve on
Calvin DeGeneres.
Yeah, don't you dare show genuine intetest or enthusiasm. Yuck!
Guilty and need improvement. I'm working on it!
Ya man...I cringe thinking of that long-ass explanation text I sent when a previous girl was pulling away. Yezus! But that was pre-Scrambler some 27 months ago. I mentioned to Jessica J awhile back, "Mr. Rio woke my dumbass up and your Speak to Spark Arousal got me on my feet and moving". Good stuff from both of you and I can't thank you enough. Been with my current girlfriend for nearly 2 years now and still reference the rules of The Scrambler to keep my ass in check. Don't ever want to drop that string. She's a good one. Oh btw, I'm in my 60's.
amazing! So happy to hear it.
that's why I like gogo bars in Bangkok. No need for this bullshit LOL
💯
why are you texting a girl when you’re already dating her? aren’t texts for the intial pursuing stage? 🤷
I think it still depends on a certain intelectual level of the person your doing this with,, people are different. I mean it may work on blondes.. how bout on southeast asians, who have totally different perspectives in life, different culture, different mind set, different,, talk about moral and values.. but then again. I may be wrong. Just hit me up. 👇
Southeast Asians? Don't fall into their frame. Maintain your frame. If they're attracted to you, part of the reason will be that you're different to most southeast asian guys.
So carry on being silly / flirty / keeping it lighthearted.
I’m in a relationship and we do the good night and good morning texts. She started it though
if you've been together for awhile, it's ok. If it's early in the relationship, even if she starts it, I'd still avoid doing it daily. Not saying to never do it, but she begins to take it for granted if its daily, and eventually it becomes a chore.
Let her send those texts if she wants. You should stop sending them and responding directly to them via text.
As Chris Sixty rightly says. Never let her conquer
Your time
Your reactions
Your humour
The good night and morning texts are an imposition on your time. When you're away from her get on with sleeping. Or getting on and starting your day.
In a way it’s trying so hard too
Not everyone going get this kind of humour
bool sheeeeet
👍
"tention"
These are childish and short term imo. You can do it once or twice but eventually she'll think your childish and not funny.
As Chris Sixty says: be a positive challenge. Make it so she never conquers your humour.
Let her get frustrated at your perpetual silly sense of humour.
The bad texts are great examples of bad texts and golden, but the suggested alternatives are awful IMO, maybe they are appropriate in American culture, but I still have my doubts, totally OTT in the rest of the world, or at least in both Europe and Asia.
Yeah, I honestly thought most of the text suggestions were cringey. A few seemed workable.
I thought the same. I mean I would argue the blunt/to the point texts are not as bad as some of the alternatives. Sometimes you are arranging through text so keeping it on point isn't too bad. Generally just try to - not text too often, no check-in texts, no routine texts, keep it light/fun, no simping, no long texts, don't report where you are/what you are doing all the time. Use them to arrange to meet up. Can be difficult like in my current situation, seen the woman twice, but weeks have passed in between as live an hour or so apart. Stay in touch but keeping texting brief/be busy. If a date cancels or doesn't work out, keep it light don't be butt hurt.
@@mdcmdc1 agreed 👍
Don’t date , don’t text, problem solved!
Stop cutting the main guy off
So according to these experts, just dont text women at all..full stop. Screw playing these games.
Text messages miss out on the nonverbal face and hand gestures of face to face. Text messages miss the cadence and tone of a voice or face to face talk. I cannot properly express my humor via texts.
@@Deron8564 this is true.
@@cdawg328 I knew it had to be a money market out there for it, but 1000s ?!?
Just dont be needy and weird
Don’t listen to these PUA frauds. They are all toxic.
What a load of crap
woman here. what not to do on a first date, if you hope there will be a second date(all from real life):
- be mean to the customer service, waiters, supermarket cashiers, etc.
- complain to your date about customer service especially if they're not rude
- always walk first through every door and never hold the door for your date, never even hint with your hand and face the question if she wants to walk through the door first
- never ask any question about her, always talk only about yourself or things that matter to you
- when she asks something or tells you something, criticize her or make fun of her, tell her how bad her question was
- stay quiet most of the time, let her do all the work of talking and trying to come up with topics
- try to hold her hand while walking or try to cuddle with her when you sit down (you're a complete stranger to her)
- complain about your ex
- ask her to help you find an appartment because you're just moving, doesn't she have any phone numbers of someone who's renting a place?
- tell her "no, i disagree, i think that..." and then say exactly the same point she just made
- repeat twice the story about some guy you knew was probably falsely accused of s-*uaI h--*ssment (the woman you're on a date with likely has at least 20 to 200 experiences of really being h-ssed)
- talk about how much you want some raceto beoppressed or animals to be exterminated
- tell her that the music she likes is not a real music or the books she likes aredumb
- show her on your phone that your friends are texting you asking you to photograph her and send the photo to them
- ask her to let you take a picture of her
- take a picture of her without her permission
- ask her to send you photos of her feet or any body part that is not her face
- talk a lot about some female friend you have
some of these are really specific i can’t lie.
You have a complete laundry list of complete nonsense and so many women wonder why they can't keep a man.
The guy on the left got trained by Justin Trudeau.
The guy texts the girls father? Holy shit.
it was brutal, i had to tell him it would very, very hard to recover from that one lol.
How did he even get his number? 😁🤣
Your replies are like AI's tbh
Idk guys….you’re texts sound like things girls would send .
It sounds like a school that trains a guy to cower down and worrie if every responce would be "exceptable", kind of like a door mat everyone wipes there shoes on. Ive seen a lot of guy in a marrage like that we use to call them wimps
& after all that you'll be accused of grape or she'll still cheat on you anyway so , go be a man get money do hobbies
These students example text or ridiculous and will turn anybody off man or woman?And just don't send your own picture dude because if you send your picture to her, she will totally be turned off.You're a weirdo
Sorry guys, you are still projecting this soft energy. Both of you are tryong to hard. You sound fake bros.
Are these guys legit or are they just giving you bad advice please be honest?
Try their advice. See how you get on.
@@lint8391 Their advice is: don't be nice, or considerate. Be kind of a dick; definitely don't be your authentic self. Ignore her unless she texts you first. But don't text back right away. Again, be kind of a dick. Make her wait a day or two.
@@cizzymac Everyone has multiple versions of themselves. What they are proposing is that you be the most attractive version of yourself.
Or that - if required - you change the authentic version of yourself in order to turn yourself into a more attractive man.
The advice in this video is to send interesting texts instead of boring texts. That's not being a dick. It's the opposite of being a dick. It's being interesting and attractive.
@@lint8391 Speak for yourself. I'm not a sociopath.