It's the guilt that kept me there and is still with me after I left a couple of months ago. "I made all your dreams come true" was something I was told on repeat, even after I left. I started feeling guilty for him doing even the smallest things like fixing something I accidently broke or doing a little yard work because that was my job. He did do nice things for me, but I was always reminded of it and I could never be greatful enough.
I’m with an especially bad narcissist. I don’t fall into patterns of regular old middle ground let’s see if I can work my magic and continue to chip away at this person cutting into me every day. That’s not what’s happening. I think everything has been cleared up but it’s not, I can walk away from something that ends up with a whole bunch of bad feelings between people. I don’t stick around for normal reasons if I’m in it and I’m struggling then I’m trapped which would be stuck
It's the guilt that kept me there and is still with me after I left a couple of months ago. "I made all your dreams come true" was something I was told on repeat, even after I left. I started feeling guilty for him doing even the smallest things like fixing something I accidently broke or doing a little yard work because that was my job. He did do nice things for me, but I was always reminded of it and I could never be greatful enough.
Thank you
I’m with an especially bad narcissist.
I don’t fall into patterns of regular old middle ground let’s see if I can work my magic and continue to chip away at this person cutting into me every day. That’s not what’s happening. I think everything has been cleared up but it’s not, I can walk away from something that ends up with a whole bunch of bad feelings between people. I don’t stick around for normal reasons if I’m in it and I’m struggling then I’m trapped which would be stuck
Infinite feedback loops cannot sustain an enlightened self-aware spiritual observer.