I'm an INFP and if I was in this situation (and if I was a little less afraid of heights) I'd probably do the same thing. In one of the replies someone said that they wouldn't listen if it felt more like an order and it's the same for me. A lot of the time it feels like people are trying to have power over me even if they aren't and part of the reason for that is probably 'cause people have ordered me around before and I hate it 'cause I couldn't stand up for myself at the time. I've gotten a little better at standing up for myself now though.
You would’ve died if you wanted to keep that shit up with me. People simply don’t have time for games. ENTJ’s don’t want to babysit others or have power over anyone - we’re too busy building our empire’s. Either be a part of it or get the F’k out of the way - whether it’s choosing to live or die is of no consequence- just make a f’king decision already -
I'm an INFP and my best friend is an ENTJ... this would probably happen if she was nervous about these things. (But somehow she's never more nervous than me)
@@vpartypoison9608 lol, don't judge a person based solely on their personality type when you don't know them. I like her cause she does all the talking so I don't have to, plus drama is somehow attracted to her so I always have something juicy to listen to
The people saying that they’d push her in sound like they don’t really care about her safety in the first place. If you don’t have problem with her falling, then why tell her to get down?
Not even an ENTJ, but I can’t stand those Si justifications for things. “How could I fall? I’ve been playing on this well since I was child.” Okay, and you can fall into the well as an adult. Next question. 😒
Si users typically only learn consequences when its happened to them. Basically they have to experience it first hand. Se users are different in a way where they can avoid mistakes because that experience has happened to others. Its because Si is all about their experiences, while Se is all about other experiences. Si learns mistakes from first hand experiences Se learns mistakes from others experiences
@@the-wisest-emu I can imagine, but as an INTP I tend to predict worst case scenario, even if chances are few. Maybe that's why we are good problem-shooters, cos we imagine issues before they happen. I guess ENTJ are similar?
So many judgments but so little understanding of the situation... INTP's finds INFP's quite often stupid, but it doesn't mean they are. Ti hero doesn't make more intelligent and Fi hero stupid. As INFP I tell you what 's happening here: he is shallow, bossy and superiour against INFP. Because of that he fails in contact with INFP, he fails to give INFP some of moral security and healthy attention. And that 's why she doesn't recognise him as an authority to say what to do and what don't. As INFP's are silent rebels, this is just normal reaction. I would react very similar way, within my fear of hights...
@am i She said she's been doing that since she is a child but INFPs tend to be passive and that guy was trying to control her, having power over her because to him she seens incapable (for being passive) and stupid...in order to defend herself from being controlled she went on to defy his orders, annoying him in the process...
She could fucking fall because all the time she's been lucky, and now older her larger body is more difficult to handle as an adult and her reflexes aren't as good now. I don't want her to fall and this is not a power game. -ENTJ
Yeah no, that's just a very immature INFP. Any INFP that has developed at least some sense of social awareness would recognize that while the ENTJ is coming off a bit harsh, he's probably flailing to find the right words to get them to come down since Fi is not his strong suit and instead comes off brash out of concern. Anyone who sees that as "controlling" is really not good at reading others feelings yet. I say this as an INFP myself... that girl is being the arrogant one by making the ENTJ worry to the point they BECOME upset and could have just not emotionally toyed with someone who struggles to articulate their responses in such a stressful situation.
I would not react that emotional as ENTJ but this INFP behaviour of dancing on the edge of a volcano and behave like you have no idea how it could happen falling in behaviour is freaking annoying
She knows exactly what she is doing. She is taunting him, because he is trying to dominate, give her orders and thinks he's superior. It's very calculating. Infp's will play with your emotions. We have Ne parent, we are aware of consequences. We know your paterns. We know what you love hate, what annoys you, what will make you admire someone. Just by one look. We are the masters of emotional intelligence. We have more power over you psychologically if we want to you than the other way around. Don't play mind games with someone who knows what action will cause certain feelings. I can make you feel like you are the best, most amazing person on the planet or the worst human being that has ever lived. Your choice. Have a good one.
As an INFP i’d rather end up like that than come down lol Edit not that i generally don’t listen, but if i feel that it’s more of an order and they’re trying to have power over me i would probably not listen
Entj being too lazy to be polite in explaining his worries about why infp should not be there. Infp thinks of Entj a being super rude and doesn’t find Entj justified in acting out in seen manner, regardless of his intentions, which he failed to make clear appropriately. Infp begins to try to defuse the situation by telling Entj, this is what she usually does and he has no business in interfering. If x person does a dangerous job or activity despite it being that, imagine everyone acting out on them like Entj does here. Entj doesn’t really care about infp, cares about his decision this is dangerous and this person is not allowed to do dangerous next to hin, otherwise he would be not angry for not being listened to. His command isn’t being followed, the initial intention or concern changes too quickly to anger. I trust Entj would be able to realize that on their own very quickly but then it’s already too late to safe face unless they would be bothered to pretend they regret it for politics. Yeah, sure, entj telling others about lack of competence in doing what they are good at, I wanna see Entj behavior when it is directed back. In comparison to infp, entj much likely reacts more destructive in an active way than infp simply passively refusing to follow orders from Entj. Entj is smart and manipulative, infp is aware and doesn’t play along. Entj will retreat rather than accept, that they failed to take responsibility for their actions.
Entj doesn’t owe infp explanation or apology but infp decided too, doesn’t owe Entj an explanation for why they do what they do, because that right hasn’t been earned. None Infps pretend Infps owe them because they think infp is passive and friendly and obligated to keep that attitude no matter what none infp does. Infp realizes that during their life time very quickly and gets good at deciding whom to interact with for peace of mind and whom not. Infp is very giving and caring and has to protect themselves from being taken advantage of. Infp isn’t usually very likely to demand much other than acceptance and respect and are aware everyone has their faults, so is very forgiving but none Infps take advantage of it and infp stops doing that for anyone who isn’t allowed in inner circle. Infp meets nice with nice and disrespect with disinterest in engagement. Infp is not perfect either but has enough on the belt already from pretenders.
@@Recep007 ofcourse its all about the INFP.. if you love someone you warn them. if you dont like someone you play with their minds and upset them.. just because the infp wanted to show off with their stupidity that they can be interesting which fails by coming over as super dumb and naive and defending that even which makes it worse. Just for the INFP’s safisfaction..
Wow, that is kinda what happened to me and my aunt when I was always too close to an edge and she like get away from there! Lol! I am an INTP but I am use Fi quite balanced with Ti.
I'm an INFP and if I was in this situation (and if I was a little less afraid of heights) I'd probably do the same thing. In one of the replies someone said that they wouldn't listen if it felt more like an order and it's the same for me. A lot of the time it feels like people are trying to have power over me even if they aren't and part of the reason for that is probably 'cause people have ordered me around before and I hate it 'cause I couldn't stand up for myself at the time. I've gotten a little better at standing up for myself now though.
Yes exactly!
I’m an ENTJ, and I would push you in
@@lukieluke75o93 aww look at you trying to be savage
You would’ve died if you wanted to keep that shit up with me. People simply don’t have time for games. ENTJ’s don’t want to babysit others or have power over anyone - we’re too busy building our empire’s. Either be a part of it or get the F’k out of the way - whether it’s choosing to live or die is of no consequence- just make a f’king decision already -
@@lukieluke75o93 YES! As an ENTJ I’d help if not just to not hear the bitching, for F’ks sake we’ve got shit to do! 😂
As an INFP-I'm usually in the ENTJs spot 💀
The irony is that I'm an INFP and I'm incredibly protective about people around dangerous situations lol. I feel more like the ENTJ in this instance.
I'm an INFP and my best friend is an ENTJ... this would probably happen if she was nervous about these things. (But somehow she's never more nervous than me)
@@vpartypoison9608 lol, don't judge a person based solely on their personality type when you don't know them. I like her cause she does all the talking so I don't have to, plus drama is somehow attracted to her so I always have something juicy to listen to
The people saying that they’d push her in sound like they don’t really care about her safety in the first place. If you don’t have problem with her falling, then why tell her to get down?
Not even an ENTJ, but I can’t stand those Si justifications for things. “How could I fall? I’ve been playing on this well since I was child.” Okay, and you can fall into the well as an adult. Next question. 😒
Si users typically only learn consequences when its happened to them. Basically they have to experience it first hand. Se users are different in a way where they can avoid mistakes because that experience has happened to others. Its because Si is all about their experiences, while Se is all about other experiences.
Si learns mistakes from first hand experiences
Se learns mistakes from others experiences
Funny how you described it as carelessness, while for me INFP's behaviour here is pure stupidity.
Oh, she knows exactly what she's doing. lol
INFPs can be quite passive aggressive.
@@the-wisest-emu I can imagine, but as an INTP I tend to predict worst case scenario, even if chances are few. Maybe that's why we are good problem-shooters, cos we imagine issues before they happen. I guess ENTJ are similar?
So many judgments but so little understanding of the situation... INTP's finds INFP's quite often stupid, but it doesn't mean they are. Ti hero doesn't make more intelligent and Fi hero stupid.
As INFP I tell you what 's happening here: he is shallow, bossy and superiour against INFP. Because of that he fails in contact with INFP, he fails to give INFP some of moral security and healthy attention. And that 's why she doesn't recognise him as an authority to say what to do and what don't. As INFP's are silent rebels, this is just normal reaction. I would react very similar way, within my fear of hights...
@am i She said she's been doing that since she is a child but INFPs tend to be passive and that guy was trying to control her, having power over her because to him she seens incapable (for being passive) and stupid...in order to defend herself from being controlled she went on to defy his orders, annoying him in the process...
@@lbentosoares4exactly, well said
She could fucking fall because all the time she's been lucky, and now older her larger body is more difficult to handle as an adult and her reflexes aren't as good now. I don't want her to fall and this is not a power game. -ENTJ
Nah, I'll leave her alone and continue on my merry way. If i hear splashes of water echoing from the well, I'll assume it's her.
Yeah no, that's just a very immature INFP. Any INFP that has developed at least some sense of social awareness would recognize that while the ENTJ is coming off a bit harsh, he's probably flailing to find the right words to get them to come down since Fi is not his strong suit and instead comes off brash out of concern. Anyone who sees that as "controlling" is really not good at reading others feelings yet. I say this as an INFP myself... that girl is being the arrogant one by making the ENTJ worry to the point they BECOME upset and could have just not emotionally toyed with someone who struggles to articulate their responses in such a stressful situation.
by any chance do you have a five wing? (
Shes carzy in my opinion as entj.. They are crazy..
I would not react that emotional as ENTJ but this INFP behaviour of dancing on the edge of a volcano and behave like you have no idea how it could happen falling in behaviour is freaking annoying
She knows exactly what she is doing. She is taunting him, because he is trying to dominate, give her orders and thinks he's superior. It's very calculating.
Infp's will play with your emotions. We have Ne parent, we are aware of consequences. We know your paterns. We know what you love hate, what annoys you, what will make you admire someone. Just by one look. We are the masters of emotional intelligence.
We have more power over you psychologically if we want to you than the other way around. Don't play mind games with someone who knows what action will cause certain feelings.
I can make you feel like you are the best, most amazing person on the planet or the worst human being that has ever lived. Your choice. Have a good one.
@@nikitimmermans that sounds like dark triad shit..
As an ENTJ I would push her if she’s trying to be stubborn with -ENTJ .
Totally not psychotic
lol - very ENTJ
@@zulasyrafismail791 It's almost as if ENTJs get an evil reputation for a reason. lol
As an INFP i’d rather end up like that than come down lol
Edit not that i generally don’t listen, but if i feel that it’s more of an order and they’re trying to have power over me i would probably not listen
@@nymphadoratonks158 why not ??? 🤨
As an infp I ain’t doing that
Honestly I felt frustrated in ENTJs place, seriously? Wth
really? infp here and id never do this lol
me: NO!
NO NO NO and NO
ESTJ: ok then don't get down😠*walk away*
me: .......🥺..........*tears fall*
Infp mother is EnTJ …fun stuff
Entj being too lazy to be polite in explaining his worries about why infp should not be there. Infp thinks of Entj a being super rude and doesn’t find Entj justified in acting out in seen manner, regardless of his intentions, which he failed to make clear appropriately. Infp begins to try to defuse the situation by telling Entj, this is what she usually does and he has no business in interfering. If x person does a dangerous job or activity despite it being that, imagine everyone acting out on them like Entj does here. Entj doesn’t really care about infp, cares about his decision this is dangerous and this person is not allowed to do dangerous next to hin, otherwise he would be not angry for not being listened to. His command isn’t being followed, the initial intention or concern changes too quickly to anger. I trust Entj would be able to realize that on their own very quickly but then it’s already too late to safe face unless they would be bothered to pretend they regret it for politics. Yeah, sure, entj telling others about lack of competence in doing what they are good at, I wanna see Entj behavior when it is directed back. In comparison to infp, entj much likely reacts more destructive in an active way than infp simply passively refusing to follow orders from Entj. Entj is smart and manipulative, infp is aware and doesn’t play along. Entj will retreat rather than accept, that they failed to take responsibility for their actions.
Entj doesn’t owe infp explanation or apology but infp decided too, doesn’t owe Entj an explanation for why they do what they do, because that right hasn’t been earned. None Infps pretend Infps owe them because they think infp is passive and friendly and obligated to keep that attitude no matter what none infp does. Infp realizes that during their life time very quickly and gets good at deciding whom to interact with for peace of mind and whom not. Infp is very giving and caring and has to protect themselves from being taken advantage of. Infp isn’t usually very likely to demand much other than acceptance and respect and are aware everyone has their faults, so is very forgiving but none Infps take advantage of it and infp stops doing that for anyone who isn’t allowed in inner circle. Infp meets nice with nice and disrespect with disinterest in engagement. Infp is not perfect either but has enough on the belt already from pretenders.
The fu k?
@@Recep007 ofcourse its all about the INFP.. if you love someone you warn them. if you dont like someone you play with their minds and upset them.. just because the infp wanted to show off with their stupidity that they can be interesting which fails by coming over as super dumb and naive and defending that even which makes it worse. Just for the INFP’s safisfaction..
Wow, that is kinda what happened to me and my aunt when I was always too close to an edge and she like get away from there! Lol! I am an INTP but I am use Fi quite balanced with Ti.
My dads an entj and im an infp so true tbh
People are so mad😂