@@neillcann1609 it can be a defensive cope. you need to build yourself up so you can express yourself fully but at the sometime be able to walk away if needed. also seeing or experiencing how cold women can be is a good reminder to not be over dependent on them as well.
The key is to be a goal oriented person. Keep becoming the very best version of yourself by focusing on your ambition, purpose and vision and see any potential relationship as just an added bonus not a priority.
This is very true. Any time I’ve had “one-itis” it fails. It’s always when I can take it or leave it and fairly indifferent my phone goes off non stop.
The majority of women seem to be souless matrix agents. There are some..very few that arent screwed up..but Chris is spot on..but his message and most other coaches messages are directed at attracting the SM agents in my opinion.
My 70 y/o grandpa has worked all his life as janitor, yet had always manage to attract women younger than him, even in his elderly ages, he never skips weekend’s dance parties in local park, and comeback home with a new “girl” on weekly basis. Don’t give up boys you have your own life to live
Emotional intelligence is the goal. Chris is right. I've changed my attitude towards women. Sometimes they talk to me and I don't even listen to them because it's mindless chatter. I'm lucky I work with public so I see women every day some very attractive. Sometimes I look at them like big deal I've seen your type before. I'm actually trying to attract a woman and even with her I don't put her on a pedestal and I talk to her like I don't give a sh-t.
@@davidwhite206 Positive Indifference means that no matter what happens in your life, you'll always be alright and you'll always stay true to yourself and your purpose in life. 💯
Be Sigma male, Never make women the top priority in life. Make your health, career, hobbies, friends, relatives etc the top priority. Learn to live with or without women. Focus on yourself, work hard, make lot of money, have lot of fun. No strings attached.
Timely video. Recently there were these two women I got interested in but both went distant after series of chat and now I decided to focus on my new career and forget them and this video will help me for that
Just get a list of things you want to do! Example I set a goal to drive every road in the sierra Nevada mountains and in Death valley California and every time I cross the road off it's more rewarding and I feel energized to go for another goal Me driving that scenic lonely road in mountains is more rewarding than getting girlfriend since I reflect on my life more and think about the future when I'm by myself
In my early 20s I was the type of guy who longed for the attention of women and to date as many as I could. But I'd always fail because I was too pushy, needy and overly enthusiastic right out the gates which turned most women off. I ended up getting jerked around and toyed with a lot due to me wearing blinders and ignoring every red flag that were waving right in front of me. It really wasn't until I started to focus on my life goals beyond dating that I began to see not so much success as I saw a general improvement in my happiness and self-worth. I did manage to develop a great relationship that lasted 3 years by developing that ability to shut out the need to chase women needlessly. My advice to other guys is to focus on developing yourself and taking care of the people you care about instead of worrying endlessly about every woman around you. By the time you've reached some milestones you'll probably be meeting women and be better prepared for whatever may happen.
I gave up on dating and stuff the day I realised my finances and shit matters most where I live, having high skill is top most priority but yeah I'll read the book once I attain my career goals
From experience, the moment you fall in love you will be emotional and things that did not affect you woll affect you and that will scare many women away, fall in love with your purpose and not with woman. If you are constatly thinking about a woman and scared that she will leave you you are not focused. When you are deeply in love you are blind and can not see the true picture and how you are simping. My biggest sense of peace comes when i am alone focused on my purpose or things i enjoy doing, not when i am with a woman.
"In this country you gotta make the Money first, then when you get the money you get the power, then when you get the power then you get the women." - Tony Montana
Yeah i know My best relationship was being with a woman during the low point in her life I understand all this "the only way to win is to not play" shit but I'm not trying to accumulate as many women as manly possible
Fill your day with your job for your income and your interests-hobbies. If you dont have hobbies try to find what you like and explore yourself. If your day is full you ll never have time for women and that's what attracts women, a busy man.
Mine was very jealous, would constantly look at my phone, if she saw I was looking at another woman her attitude would change. No way I could meet other women when I was with her not that I wanted to anyways.
With ANY woman, you cannot be completely uncaring. Just have a mindset that they are not the center of your life, while still investing some time to get to know them to see if they are actually a good one. You wont find that out right away
Get the book people. Listen to it until its beat into your head. Most of your failed attempts at relationships are due to your own unattractive behaviors. The book covers all of them. GET THE BOOK
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So what about love or a long-term relationship or committing and trying rather than just walk away?
No! There are only very few good and even fewer suitable potential mates out there. They are super rare. Abundance mindset ONLY works if you have no standards and no self respect. Women love me, I literally never got a rejection, and yet, I have no abundance at all. Good women are super rare ; they are a real life scarcity, and the few out there are always taken.
I care tooo much about women. The moment a women is around me I care too much what she is thinking that makes me anxious. Struggling to just act normal around them.
Sure developing an abundance mindset to not focus on a single woman but what about not caring about women in general? It’s still easy to feel low if your general results are not good. For example, if you’re following all the advice you can get hold, hitting up loads of women and most still just end up ghosting you.
If you have only 1% chance of getting a woman then you have 40 millions potential women So even at 99% chance of rejection as long as you have abundance mindset then you should be fine
This philosophy is fine in preventing the heartache of rejection in your seach for one true partner. The happiness of a loyal, loving, committed relationship is by far more deeply satisfying and desirable. Even rock stars who have banged thousands of girls seem to settle eventually with a partner they want to be exclusive with. Promiscuity is selfish and indulgent and will never bring the happiness of a compatible, loyal relationship.
Hey buddy, check my comment. I live in a different place than yours and I want you to add versatility in your videos talking about different ways depending on where you live. Thanks
How do I de-program myself from caring about/looking at breasts? That is the question. I am driving the ship, until Boobs McGhee walks in, and all of a sudden I am kicked to the backseat. (Ignore the change in vehicle metaphors lolol) Super annoying.
hey Chris😎 love your vids! they have been so helpful 😂 I'm sure you've heard about CHRATE (Chris and Andrew tate), so many poeple have been shipping you guys! I do aswell. your masive alpha energy makes you such high value man. I hope you get into a loving relationship with Andrew and he isnt bitchy or disrespectful! dont let him deny you of sex! 🤠💪in my own relationship I have been having some trouble. my wife didn't want to have sex in the bathroom at her mothers funeral. which is unaceptable because I needed sex right in that momment. of corse I took your advice and walked away. I egnored her for 2 weeks. she wants me back sooo bad, should I take her back? if you could help me out man, that would be groovy! have a good one🤟
This is a reverse psychology video. I’m wondering how to permanently not care about women as a sexual object. How do I ignore the “hot” girl that decides she wants to sleep with me? I want to watch that video.
Mirror and Match - give them the energy and attention that they give you .... which is usually absolutely ZERO. Gym, Garage, Gun Range, Mountains, kitchen, running, hiking, biking, - they are all generic issue 3 holes and a heartbeat. absolutely nothing special or unique about any of them. Once you have met one Karen - you have met them all.
Not caring doesn't mean you can't talk to them or persue them, it just means once you attract one to you, you don't have to make her the center of your universe, just play it cool and don't validate her too much, what you should put first is your employment your hobbies and anything of higher value to you over her since she's fully capable of leaving you, thats why care more about you than her, bruh
The one who cares the least has the most power.
The one who cares the less or the Least?
It's more complex than that lol
@@neillcann1609 it can be a defensive cope. you need to build yourself up so you can express yourself fully but at the sometime be able to walk away if needed.
also seeing or experiencing how cold women can be is a good reminder to not be over dependent on them as well.
Really?do u have data?
The one with more options has the most power
CARE ABOUT ONE THING THAT IS IMPROVING YOURSELF
The key is to be a goal oriented person. Keep becoming the very best version of yourself by focusing on your ambition, purpose and vision and see any potential relationship as just an added bonus not a priority.
Key word being don't make them a "priority".
Vise versa
Perfect brother.
@@hariprabhakaran4527 Thank you 👊
@@hariprabhakaran4527 Thank you 👊
Put yourself first. Not one person on this earth is worth wasting your time,love and effort on. Not one. ESPECIALLY if it's not reciprocated.
Wow, spot on 👌👏
True words
Many guys just don't have goals or hobbies, if you set Even simple goals and you focus on that you will realize what this man is talking about.
Factss i just got a goal i wont stop till its complete.
Agreed
This is very true. Any time I’ve had “one-itis” it fails. It’s always when I can take it or leave it and fairly indifferent my phone goes off non stop.
that's the trait or strength of character women are attracted to.
Abundance Mindset is key
The struggle is to find a quality woman worth your time.
The less you care the happier you will be
The majority of women seem to be souless matrix agents. There are some..very few that arent screwed up..but
Chris is spot on..but his message and most other coaches messages are directed at attracting the SM agents in my opinion.
Yes like their main goal is to just use you and drain you and they don't care
you only have to understand woman, read his books and u will understand all of them
God bless every man watching this video, this me since entering my 30s as iam too busy improving my life
Focusing and improving yourself is a great thing you can do to yourself in this modern era
This guy always knows… insane timing every single time
I know right?!😂
thats a fact!
You'll never lose women chasing money, but you will always lose money chasing women
Excellent Word
Facts
Unless you are tom brady
Go to the date with different women every week, very good advice for someone, who cant get a single date for 2 month
Don't care that you can't get a date for 2 months. Go to the gym ... u can look and feel awesome in the same 2 months
@@tanupprasai9245 i am going to gym for 2 years)
Awesome. What Chris means is... if you are so worried that you can't get a date, that's probably why you can't get a date
Go mongering instead, in a legal country of course.
Stop using dating apps. It will kill your confidence approach in person
My 70 y/o grandpa has worked all his life as janitor, yet had always manage to attract women younger than him, even in his elderly ages, he never skips weekend’s dance parties in local park, and comeback home with a new “girl” on weekly basis. Don’t give up boys you have your own life to live
My only teacher who actually understand everything about woman..
Emotional intelligence is the goal. Chris is right. I've changed my attitude towards women. Sometimes they talk to me and I don't even listen to them because it's mindless chatter. I'm lucky I work with public so I see women every day some very attractive. Sometimes I look at them like big deal I've seen your type before. I'm actually trying to attract a woman and even with her I don't put her on a pedestal and I talk to her like I don't give a sh-t.
Treat All Women With Positive Indifference. Because Positive Indifference Makes All Of The Difference. 💯
What do you mean by positive indifference? I see myself as just indifferent. Literally could care one way or the other...
@@davidwhite206 Positive Indifference means that no matter what happens in your life, you'll always be alright and you'll always stay true to yourself and your purpose in life. 💯
@@RudolphManor Ah, I got that in spades. I thought you meant more like always being upbeat about whatever.
Be Sigma male, Never make women the top priority in life. Make your health, career, hobbies, friends, relatives etc the top priority. Learn to live with or without women. Focus on yourself, work hard, make lot of money, have lot of fun. No strings attached.
Timely video. Recently there were these two women I got interested in but both went distant after series of chat and now I decided to focus on my new career and forget them and this video will help me for that
Just get a list of things you want to do! Example I set a goal to drive every road in the sierra Nevada mountains and in Death valley California and every time I cross the road off it's more rewarding and I feel energized to go for another goal
Me driving that scenic lonely road in mountains is more rewarding than getting girlfriend since I reflect on my life more and think about the future when I'm by myself
Abundance mindset is a great point. Thank you
Your videos have helped me alot
You are more than 100% right !!
This is a Top 10 all-time Chris Canwell video. AMAZING!
Women care about men that don’t care about them.
Best relationship coach ever in the world. Ahmed Qatar.
In my early 20s I was the type of guy who longed for the attention of women and to date as many as I could. But I'd always fail because I was too pushy, needy and overly enthusiastic right out the gates which turned most women off. I ended up getting jerked around and toyed with a lot due to me wearing blinders and ignoring every red flag that were waving right in front of me. It really wasn't until I started to focus on my life goals beyond dating that I began to see not so much success as I saw a general improvement in my happiness and self-worth. I did manage to develop a great relationship that lasted 3 years by developing that ability to shut out the need to chase women needlessly.
My advice to other guys is to focus on developing yourself and taking care of the people you care about instead of worrying endlessly about every woman around you. By the time you've reached some milestones you'll probably be meeting women and be better prepared for whatever may happen.
Mission and purpose more important then chicks , create a mindset that make yourself strong enough beat the life issue .
I gave up on dating and stuff the day I realised my finances and shit matters most where I live, having high skill is top most priority but yeah I'll read the book once I attain my career goals
Just what I needed to watch
Love the animations!!
Abundant mindset ❤ men take care of you and retain your life force for an abundant life ⚡️⚡️
Focus on your purpose, the rest will come.
From experience, the moment you fall in love you will be emotional and things that did not affect you woll affect you and that will scare many women away, fall in love with your purpose and not with woman. If you are constatly thinking about a woman and scared that she will leave you you are not focused.
When you are deeply in love you are blind and can not see the true picture and how you are simping. My biggest sense of peace comes when i am alone focused on my purpose or things i enjoy doing, not when i am with a woman.
By the way brother, in addition to this video being excellent....your book is absolutely *AWESOME!!!*
A valuable message to start the day
Yes king
So true!
That's exactly what I was thinking 😃
"In this country you gotta make the Money first, then when you get the money you get the power, then when you get the power then you get the women." - Tony Montana
So to sum it up stop caring but also have a lot left or right
Unfortunately, that's not entirely true for me. I do have an abundance of women, but I can't forget the one that touched my heart.
Its called bitch dependency syndrome and i believe Chris addressed it in this video.
Yeah i know
My best relationship was being with a woman during the low point in her life
I understand all this "the only way to win is to not play" shit but I'm not trying to accumulate as many women as manly possible
I am here for the Animations .😊
Nothing can be better advice than this
Solid advice
Fill your day with your job for your income and your interests-hobbies. If you dont have hobbies try to find what you like and explore yourself. If your day is full you ll never have time for women and that's what attracts women, a busy man.
Chris, thank you brother.
Love this Channel
Thanks!
Take care of yourself. Don’t worry about women.
Does that mean we should be okay if she too hangs out with many guys at a time ..
Mine was very jealous, would constantly look at my phone, if she saw I was looking at another woman her attitude would change. No way I could meet other women when I was with her not that I wanted to anyways.
How do you go from not caring to loving when you meet a good one?
With ANY woman, you cannot be completely uncaring. Just have a mindset that they are not the center of your life, while still investing some time to get to know them to see if they are actually a good one. You wont find that out right away
Nice one
Hi good advice. could you share if your if you are married or single?
Get the book people. Listen to it until its beat into your head. Most of your failed attempts at relationships are due to your own unattractive behaviors. The book covers all of them. GET THE BOOK
So what about love or a long-term relationship or committing and trying rather than just walk away?
No! There are only very few good and even fewer suitable potential mates out there. They are super rare. Abundance mindset ONLY works if you have no standards and no self respect. Women love me, I literally never got a rejection, and yet, I have no abundance at all. Good women are super rare ; they are a real life scarcity, and the few out there are always taken.
I care tooo much about women. The moment a women is around me I care too much what she is thinking that makes me anxious. Struggling to just act normal around them.
u have to learn to controll your feelings and thoughts, its hard but not impossible
Just be attractive
"And realize that there are millions of women in the world who you can meet and date and have fun with." Who cares!
The more you care about women the better Chad and Tyrone look to her, trust me I know I smashed 2 cousins while Chad and Tyrone where locked up 😂😂😂
Sure developing an abundance mindset to not focus on a single woman but what about not caring about women in general? It’s still easy to feel low if your general results are not good. For example, if you’re following all the advice you can get hold, hitting up loads of women and most still just end up ghosting you.
If you have only 1% chance of getting a woman then you have 40 millions potential women
So even at 99% chance of rejection as long as you have abundance mindset then you should be fine
Thank you. Once you understand and apply this, you dont need to watch more dating/women atraction videos. GG WP
How do meet lots of woman ??
It's simple men are human doings and women are human beings, what built the world is men, men are bound to duty, work, war, prevision
This philosophy is fine in preventing the heartache of rejection in your seach for one true partner. The happiness of a loyal, loving, committed relationship is by far more deeply satisfying and desirable. Even rock stars who have banged thousands of girls seem to settle eventually with a partner they want to be exclusive with. Promiscuity is selfish and indulgent and will never bring the happiness of a compatible, loyal relationship.
Women are just background noise. Full of time wasting, drama, money drains and more. Attraction ain't worth it.
what if u don't have abundance girl's to talk to
Who cares if you don't have abundance girl's to talk to
Focus on Yourself that's the key
Go online
This is true.....💀💀
Hey buddy, check my comment. I live in a different place than yours and I want you to add versatility in your videos talking about different ways depending on where you live. Thanks
I'm castrated due to medical reasons. I don't have enough testosterone to care about women.
Basically, act like Boomhauer from King of The Hill.
Just ignore them. Majority of women have red flags..
How do I de-program myself from caring about/looking at breasts? That is the question.
I am driving the ship, until Boobs McGhee walks in, and all of a sudden I am kicked to the backseat. (Ignore the change in vehicle metaphors lolol)
Super annoying.
How to continue all this when you are married ? 😁
Are you referring to your wife or someone else? 🫢
hey Chris😎 love your vids! they have been so helpful 😂 I'm sure you've heard about CHRATE (Chris and Andrew tate), so many poeple have been shipping you guys! I do aswell. your masive alpha energy makes you such high value man. I hope you get into a loving relationship with Andrew and he isnt bitchy or disrespectful! dont let him deny you of sex! 🤠💪in my own relationship I have been having some trouble. my wife didn't want to have sex in the bathroom at her mothers funeral. which is unaceptable because I needed sex right in that momment. of corse I took your advice and walked away. I egnored her for 2 weeks. she wants me back sooo bad, should I take her back? if you could help me out man, that would be groovy! have a good one🤟
Get a silicone doll😂😂
changing another women every week, can't we feel the real love?
This is a reverse psychology video. I’m wondering how to permanently not care about women as a sexual object. How do I ignore the “hot” girl that decides she wants to sleep with me? I want to watch that video.
Mate I am studying engineering there are no women there :)
I certainly understand how this works. It does, however, just seem a little inhuman
Which is how losers think
They don't give a shit about you and won't hesitate to ditch for a better man
sneako >
Mirror and Match - give them the energy and attention that they give you .... which is usually absolutely ZERO. Gym, Garage, Gun Range, Mountains, kitchen, running, hiking, biking, - they are all generic issue 3 holes and a heartbeat. absolutely nothing special or unique about any of them. Once you have met one Karen - you have met them all.
A man can't stop thinking about women unless he have christ
Ménage a trois? Jesus Christ!
Invest in stock..not woman
If I stop caring about woman I wont even talk to them. How would I ever get a girlfriend then?
Not caring doesn't mean you can't talk to them or persue them, it just means once you attract one to you, you don't have to make her the center of your universe, just play it cool and don't validate her too much, what you should put first is your employment your hobbies and anything of higher value to you over her since she's fully capable of leaving you, thats why care more about you than her, bruh
Why have a girlfriend if you can sleep around with multiple women
Whats your Instagram account?