I don't think it justifies Kate's actions, or rather words to OP. She's pushing her insecurities onto OP, without a reason (from OP's pov). She could just be honest, since OP is her best friend. Kate is also putting the "responsibility" onto OP to "look worse", rather than Kate herself "being better". That's not a justifiable reason.
Thank you for the laughs! I especially needed that after the story with Kate. That was rough and there just isn't a good outcome there. The ransom note and the last story made me laugh out loud multiple times. John's laugh is also highly contagious and he laughed a lot this episode, which made me laugh even more.
the first story she is a much more mature person than i would be in the situation. for him and her sister to act like that is gross honestly and i fully believe she should have thrown the fact that his not his biological father in his fucking face. she has way for grace than me and most people i know. she’s not the ah and honestly is a goddamn saint
Yeah and adding to everything you've said, I would have made sure that the family knew what the sister and ex had done if I was the one he cheating on with (let's be honest he probably cheated !).
With the trash can, I think OP was the AH. After the neighbor's curt note, did he really think the ransom note was going to land? C'mon. But from an outsider perspective: HILAROUS! But also, the attachment to trash cans is a weird thing that I've encountered many times since moving to the suburbs, and I don't get it.
As a vegan myself it seems so crazy how stubborn people get about having to have meat in a meal and thinking a meal is less than without it. So many options he could try, as you said loads of meat alternatives it's so much easier now. However she said itvwas cooking it that made her feel sick, have they tried pre-preared meats, cold cuts ect, that could mean they could eat it without the smell taking over the house if it smells less. He also has the option to have meat in his lunch outside the house, and then just dinners without. So crazy to think you cant give up one thing when she has so many restrictions and changes in her life due to the pregnancy
I am one of those people that can't live without meat, but that guy was an a hole. He didn't try anything to acomodate her. She has no problem with the meat, just the strong smell of cooking. There are ways of cooking meat that won't leave that smell. He can make stews and soups with meat, they smell the same as with no meat. If that doesn't work you can buy an air fryer. It leaves almost no smell. If that doesn't work he can buy a sous vide (he can't sear the meat but it is something). And he can buy cooked meat. He is just an a hole who doesn't want to try.
I concur, that's ridiculous. She isn't even asking to actually STOP eating ALL meat. Just to not cook it in a way that creates a strong smell. Just so she doesn't hurl her guts up daily. Ridiculous.
Okay the friend dresscode story- first and foremost, Kate was OPs friend FIRST!! U met this guy together and he became Kate's bf- whether your friends with him or not, SHES your friend first! She's the one you communicate with first! You don't talk to him instead esp after such a weird request! U call her, meet up and talk it out WITH HERR!
Nah - Kate shouldn't see herself as insecure but as her intuition being spot on. She has all the rights to feel how she feels and I wish for her a partner who doesn't make her feel like she is loosing her mind over the little things and where she can feel safe. Also so unfortunate that her friendship with OP suffers from this.
I was listening to the podcast and had to stop and go to TH-cam because I had to SEE the boys reaction to carnivore-man. And I was not disappointed. Love you guys!
The comment Ana l Bea ds again. Made me laugh wayyy harder than I ever should have at work. The worst part is I couldn't even explain it to my coworkers.
Trash Can story: To be clear I find the ransom note funny, but OP is the AH (a mild one) that needs to read the room. Neighbor clearly has some beef with him, and so that's not really the time to pull some jokes. I wouldn't be surprised if the reason the neighbors distanced themselves is because of some other reason that OP just totally failed to pick up on.
So ive been pregnant 4x and with 1 of those meat made me sick sick as well but i think, and thought then, it was unreasonable to ask someone else to change their whole eating habits for me. Compromise from both sides have to be a thing. Pregnant women CAN be AHs and can demand things that they shouldn't lol i agree about grilling the meat or eating out but she can't expect him to just not want meat anymore lol
(sorry for my English, not my first language) With the Kate story, maybe it's an unpopular opinion but if your friend asks you for just one time to tone down your outfit, you do it. They were friends first and you have to honor that. As a friend you should understand if they're feeling threaten by you, and avoid it. It wasn't an everyday thing, it was just for the party her friend was putting together for her boyfriend. Telling the boyfriend his girlfriend lied to him regarding the reason of her not coming was wrong imo, you don't tell your bf's friend she lied to him. On top of that, I kinda felt op was softening what happened to her friend instead of realizing how humiliated she must've felt. At that point, I guess, she should have call her friend not saying she talked to the boyfriend, but saying she reconsiderated the whole situation and she would be going with a different outfit. And finally, I don't think it's an easy conversation to have with your friend, again, it obviously hurt the friend's feelings to hear her friend was hotter from his boyfriend and bf's friends, imagine going to your friend and tell her that. Now she knows that everyone knows her boyfriend thinks her friend is the "hotter one" I feel bad for her, I hope OP went to the party with an outfit her friend would feel comfortable about
Kate should definitely get out of that relationship but let’s just remember she’s an insecure person whose whole self worth has been tied to finally being picked over her hot friend. Now she’s had that relationship for I don’t know how long (enough for them to me getting engaged) and it’s possibly been the base of her self worth as an adult.. it’s reeeally not that easy to just kiss that goodbye. As she’s trying to digest everything, she went the wrong way and asked her friend to be less hot (obviously not gonna solve anything), but I get what commenter (sorry, can’t see her name while writing! 😅) is trying to say. OP as the “hot girl” (let’s be honest, she probably knows she’s the “hot one” could maybe try an understand Kate’s situation. Telling Jamie that Kate lied and was creating that whole mess definitely was kinda sus behavior.
NOOOO her sister and the ex..wow..they need to respect her boundaries and be more respectful of the kids
I don't think it justifies Kate's actions, or rather words to OP. She's pushing her insecurities onto OP, without a reason (from OP's pov). She could just be honest, since OP is her best friend.
Kate is also putting the "responsibility" onto OP to "look worse", rather than Kate herself "being better". That's not a justifiable reason.
I LOOOOVE the ransom note story. We need more of that.
The ransom note had me deceased 😂😂😂
The vegetarian story reactions 😂😂
SHES CARRYING YOUR FCKING SEED BROTHERR
Thank you for the laughs! I especially needed that after the story with Kate. That was rough and there just isn't a good outcome there.
The ransom note and the last story made me laugh out loud multiple times. John's laugh is also highly contagious and he laughed a lot this episode, which made me laugh even more.
the first story she is a much more mature person than i would be in the situation. for him and her sister to act like that is gross honestly and i fully believe she should have thrown the fact that his not his biological father in his fucking face. she has way for grace than me and most people i know. she’s not the ah and honestly is a goddamn saint
Yeah and adding to everything you've said, I would have made sure that the family knew what the sister and ex had done if I was the one he cheating on with (let's be honest he probably cheated !).
With the trash can, I think OP was the AH. After the neighbor's curt note, did he really think the ransom note was going to land? C'mon. But from an outsider perspective: HILAROUS!
But also, the attachment to trash cans is a weird thing that I've encountered many times since moving to the suburbs, and I don't get it.
As a vegan myself it seems so crazy how stubborn people get about having to have meat in a meal and thinking a meal is less than without it. So many options he could try, as you said loads of meat alternatives it's so much easier now. However she said itvwas cooking it that made her feel sick, have they tried pre-preared meats, cold cuts ect, that could mean they could eat it without the smell taking over the house if it smells less. He also has the option to have meat in his lunch outside the house, and then just dinners without. So crazy to think you cant give up one thing when she has so many restrictions and changes in her life due to the pregnancy
I am one of those people that can't live without meat, but that guy was an a hole. He didn't try anything to acomodate her. She has no problem with the meat, just the strong smell of cooking. There are ways of cooking meat that won't leave that smell. He can make stews and soups with meat, they smell the same as with no meat. If that doesn't work you can buy an air fryer. It leaves almost no smell. If that doesn't work he can buy a sous vide (he can't sear the meat but it is something). And he can buy cooked meat. He is just an a hole who doesn't want to try.
I concur, that's ridiculous. She isn't even asking to actually STOP eating ALL meat. Just to not cook it in a way that creates a strong smell. Just so she doesn't hurl her guts up daily. Ridiculous.
all of the banter before the last story had me cackling so bad 😂😂
I love their dynamic ❤ watching old ones
Okay the friend dresscode story- first and foremost, Kate was OPs friend FIRST!! U met this guy together and he became Kate's bf- whether your friends with him or not, SHES your friend first! She's the one you communicate with first! You don't talk to him instead esp after such a weird request! U call her, meet up and talk it out WITH HERR!
They were already talking. Then Kate started telling the friends.
Nah - Kate shouldn't see herself as insecure but as her intuition being spot on. She has all the rights to feel how she feels and I wish for her a partner who doesn't make her feel like she is loosing her mind over the little things and where she can feel safe. Also so unfortunate that her friendship with OP suffers from this.
I was listening to the podcast and had to stop and go to TH-cam because I had to SEE the boys reaction to carnivore-man. And I was not disappointed. Love you guys!
Haha I did the exact same thing
Lmao. Y’all dynamic makes me so happy. I love you all sm ❤❤❤❤
“I’ve got wisdom for days” lmao
I love how John has a little lunch tray like from elementary school
The Ransom, I'm dying!! :D
The foopa part had me dead 😂😂
Solution to pregnant wife and the smell of meat: fast food and eat it away from the house.
No monday Reddit on Wiki?! I’m having withdrawals! Lol 😅
the ransom story has me dead lmaooo 😂😂
The comment Ana l Bea ds again. Made me laugh wayyy harder than I ever should have at work. The worst part is I couldn't even explain it to my coworkers.
Have a good weekend and Happy Easter everyone ❤
Why wouldnt he just eat out?
I wouldn't use a used sock, but I would use a used t shirt 😅
Trash Can story: To be clear I find the ransom note funny, but OP is the AH (a mild one) that needs to read the room. Neighbor clearly has some beef with him, and so that's not really the time to pull some jokes. I wouldn't be surprised if the reason the neighbors distanced themselves is because of some other reason that OP just totally failed to pick up on.
has nooobody noticed Josh's finger heart? 😂😂
Hi everyone!! I'm on here today lol
Does anyone know where to find the monday episode? I'm not on discord. Did they have a problem with uploading?
So ive been pregnant 4x and with 1 of those meat made me sick sick as well but i think, and thought then, it was unreasonable to ask someone else to change their whole eating habits for me. Compromise from both sides have to be a thing. Pregnant women CAN be AHs and can demand things that they shouldn't lol i agree about grilling the meat or eating out but she can't expect him to just not want meat anymore lol
Fun Dip!!!
I’m still waiting for the Ringo “I hate men” merch!
How does Sschwawughpnnn {the p and third n are silent} know elipses but not hyphen???
Is tiktok not working today?
ive been having problems with tiktok also
(sorry for my English, not my first language) With the Kate story, maybe it's an unpopular opinion but if your friend asks you for just one time to tone down your outfit, you do it. They were friends first and you have to honor that. As a friend you should understand if they're feeling threaten by you, and avoid it. It wasn't an everyday thing, it was just for the party her friend was putting together for her boyfriend. Telling the boyfriend his girlfriend lied to him regarding the reason of her not coming was wrong imo, you don't tell your bf's friend she lied to him. On top of that, I kinda felt op was softening what happened to her friend instead of realizing how humiliated she must've felt. At that point, I guess, she should have call her friend not saying she talked to the boyfriend, but saying she reconsiderated the whole situation and she would be going with a different outfit. And finally, I don't think it's an easy conversation to have with your friend, again, it obviously hurt the friend's feelings to hear her friend was hotter from his boyfriend and bf's friends, imagine going to your friend and tell her that. Now she knows that everyone knows her boyfriend thinks her friend is the "hotter one" I feel bad for her, I hope OP went to the party with an outfit her friend would feel comfortable about
Imo I don't know if it's healthy for Kate to continue this relationship and I think it's maybe even better to focus on healing her friendship with OP.
Kate should definitely get out of that relationship but let’s just remember she’s an insecure person whose whole self worth has been tied to finally being picked over her hot friend. Now she’s had that relationship for I don’t know how long (enough for them to me getting engaged) and it’s possibly been the base of her self worth as an adult.. it’s reeeally not that easy to just kiss that goodbye. As she’s trying to digest everything, she went the wrong way and asked her friend to be less hot (obviously not gonna solve anything), but I get what commenter (sorry, can’t see her name while writing! 😅) is trying to say. OP as the “hot girl” (let’s be honest, she probably knows she’s the “hot one” could maybe try an understand Kate’s situation. Telling Jamie that Kate lied and was creating that whole mess definitely was kinda sus behavior.