Gigi Gorgeous we love you. This video is very important and I’m honored to have been apart of your journey this whole time. Xoxo you’re the most honest person and extremely selfless xoxo
This is eye opening in a good way cause it wouldn't have crossed my mind ever and it's amazing. Praying you get the answers you've been looking for. Just go for it instead of giving yourself aniexty about everything. You'll be relieved to have the answers. Love you both 💖💖
I have no idea how I stumbled onto this video, and at first I felt sympathy for you explaining the hard ships of what trans women go through being unable to have children, up until you said you feel more like a woman than an actual genetic woman. Stop. Right. There. If you want to be accepted as a woman, that’s fine! That’s great. If that in your heart is what you think you are then, okay! But, that doesn’t give you the right to think you’re better than any other woman because you “feel” it. No no no no. Women have unspoken sisterhoods, and that is something you will never be able to understand. We bleed for decades of our lives, suffer through immense pain of being able to bear children and dread our bodies not cooperating when we are pregnant and it not being viable. But you wanna make a little fast comment like that thinking it’s okay? No. Making comments like that will never get you accepted. It’s unfortunate that you will never be able to bear your own children and I’m sorry, I truly am, but I feel like the last thing you need in your life at the moment is a baby when you have so much more maturing as a woman to do. It’s not about nice makeup, beautiful hair, a perfect body and the perception that you are not a woman without having a child. Stop. Please learn that ignorantly spreading comments like that are not what being a woman is about.
For some women, egg donation is the only way THEY can have kids. If it's not for you, it's not for you, but that doesn't mean you get to diminish someone elses choices about their own fertility or assisting others with theirs.
Two things. 1. You weren't born with "working parts", but there are many women who were born with the parts but they don't work either. You have no right to play the victim and act like you had it worse when you chose to get rid of your working parts for parts that you foreknew would not work. 2. Having a child isn't meant to be for YOURSELF. You say that having a child will make you feel more feminine. That's a problem. That's what's wrong with our culture today. People have children for all the wrong reasons. If you want to have a child to 'hold your own DNA', you're having a child for the wrong reason.
I'm so confused. 1) Did you not watch the video? She was born with male genitalia and has not undergone gender reassignment surgery. So... I don't understand where the 'you chose to get rid of your working parts' statement comes from. 2) Can you illuminate me on the 'right' or 'wrong' reasons to have a child? And how we would go about enforcing that in society?
Your first point is completely objective, but point 2 is fine and correct. Having 'working' MALE parts is not pertinent to the issue. As a female, she feels less whole being unable to have a child. Don't invalidate that pain just because it's a consequence of being her authentic self, that's ridiculous. Yes cis women can be infertile, yes their pain sucks. To say she can't talk about her issues just because there are cis people out there with it leads one to believe trans issues are less valid. Think before you write, thank you.
Motherhood is an extension of womanhood, not the definition. -Christen Reighter For whoever you are out there who either don't want to have kids or can't have kids, IT DOES NOT DEFINE YOU. There are many paths to happiness and fulfillment.
Of course that's great to say but a lot of women do feel like less of a woman if they can't physically give birth to their own children. I think it's better to be honest about your feelings. Sort of how when you think you're ugly but your friend tells you you're beautiful. It's nice to hear but it doesn't take the feelings away unfortunately.
Danielle Lopez I feel inferior because I can’t have a healthy baby. It makes me feel like I can’t perform the one biological task I was made for. I know I shouldn’t feel ashamed but I do. Such instincts can’t be helped
@Alexis B. yes tbh us men have a huge Google conference on Fridays to discuss world domination and how to preserve female subjugation. You females need to up your game.
As a side note... kids are awesome but pregnancy is so glamorized. I’m 7 months pregnant and I’ve never felt so terrible, bloated, ugly, and tired. I don’t feel feminine or beautiful at all lol
I watch all these pregnant youtubers and they're like yea everything is easy and fun but I can't imagine being pregnant and feel good ugh living with constant pain 9 months
this video did have some wrong wording and things that didn’t make sense but It isn’t all about the child. It’s about making a family and being happy. If the child is what makes you happy and you make them happy then yes, It’s about all of them.
Nah having a baby is about you too girl. 24 years ago my mum finally got her girl after trying for so long. That's as much of a big deal for her as it is for me. Definitely not just about the baby, it's about the whole family x
christimduh I was unable to conceive and then had to have a radical hysterectomy in my early 30s and am not insulted. This is her truth and how she feels doesn’t invalidate my experience as an infertile cis woman.
She meant having been born with the genitals that could have kids according with their gender. In her case, being the one that's pregnant. That's not her being "toxic," that's just her insecurity.
I dont think shes saying that her not being able to have children makes her feel like less of a woman, but that the reason she feels like less of a woman is because of the REASON she cant have children...its not like shes just a woman who is infertile, she is a transgendered woman who can never physically get pregnant due to the fact that she was born a male. Im not really a fan of gigi but i mean seriously people should not be getting offended over this.
Have you looked into being possibly intersex? This isn't meant in offense to you (not that it should be offensive) but that's something that often happens with someone that presents with ambiguous reproductive systems.
We're not CISGENDER. You don't get to invent a term for normal. It's derogatory. If you want to earn respect, give it. "Even some women who are born women can't have babies" even the TH-camr called us genetic women. Just stop.
My fiance and I have been trying for yrs to have kids... I've suffered 3 miscarriages... I'm 32... And just got slapped in the face with an autoimmune disease this year.... Nothing I want more than a child with the person I love the most.
Abby Hebenstreit thanks.... means a lot. I actually started a TH-cam channel.... we were living in black mold... and I wanna show people what it looks like, symptoms, etc. I never want someone to be blindsided like I was.
I’m sick of other women-transgender or not-telling other women that they are LESS of a woman if they don’t bear children. Women are more than just their fertility. I don’t have children and I have had other women friends tell me that my life has less meaning because I am not a mother. I no longer speak to those women.
I'm sorry you've been told you're less than; it's not true, and you're right, we're more than vessels for babies. Gigi didn't tell anyone those things, though. She wasn't making sweeping statements about what it means to be a woman. She said pregnancy is something she wants to experience, and she's struggling with being unable to.
@@ramywiles yes she did, she said she feels more of a woman than cis women. Her whole attitude toward womanhood is backward, narrow, misogynistic, and elitist.
no no women are the resource of love feelings emotional life not only for pregnancy or kids she can give her abilities to any one in the world even to friends clients it works
totally agree with You. I hate it when women feel that bearing a child is the only thing We are made for. They go into this depression mode like it's the end of the world when there are thousands of kids out there who needs love.
@@brittagrant From what I've read in most of the comments I believe that people are mad that Gigi only briefly brushed the fact that some natural women go through some of the same things. For example not being able to get pregnant at all or the struggle that you feel when you're trying to get pregnant and it's not happening. There is also a lot of anger over Gigi saying she feels like more of a woman than natural women. That's the quote that's being thrown around. It's not actually a word for word quote, but it is how her words were interpreted. I don't think anyone is wrong for feeling a certain way about anything, but I also understand that Gigi has not been a natural women and she can only tell the story from her point of view. Different walks different talk is what I boils down to, I think. Edit: Forgot to add/make clear that the brush over made people feel like they were being overlooked and Gigi was ignoring the fact that natural women can and do also have these struggles. Therefore putting down us down and making us feel less than. Personally, I think it's a little ridiculous that people are acting like the video is a hate crime. It's not that bad and it shares a point of view on these things that's from somewhere that I, at the very least, haven't heard before.
@@Alyssa-cb7zj its 2018- a cheeto is in office, the general media is consistently lying to everyone, victimization is almost an occupation, and we as a country are losing our scientific realistic grasp on reality. Its 2018.
A child isn’t an extension of your own narcissism. Not once have you displayed you actually wanting to care for a baby, to mother it and watch it grow, no maternal instincts. You just want a mini me. Maybe that’s why you’re hesitant - because you’re not actually ready to be a mother
mjacksonisperfect lmao that’s why most women want kids let’s be real, to have their own mini versions of them! This can be especially true in men. They all want that perfect son. Lmao
Rip Curl 69 did they care about the babies before having them tho? most ppl ik just want kids to complete the picture perfect family dream, not necessarily cuz theyve thought through what it means to be a mother. applies to guys and their desire to be a father as well. many ppl seem to treat children and parenthood as a necessary phase and continuation of vanity.
You're literally at a doctors office. How do you expect them to understand you and be sympathetic or compassionate towards you without you being up front and giving them the facts they need? This vid was not your brightest moment, idk. Having a baby isn't the ultimate form of femininity...there's a lot wrong here and I'm not sure if you expressed your feelings with the proper words necessarily.
Harmony no ALL women don’t... some are born without one and some have them removed due to MEDICAL ISSUES that aren’t their choice so saying that is just ignorant
This is an extremely offensive video. Becoming a mother doesn't make you more of a woman. And not being a mother doesn't make you less of one. What message are you sending to genetic women who are unable to have children?
Omg she’s just sharing her own personal feelings, which she’s entitled to. Maybe for her individually being a mother does make her feel more of a women. Nothing wrong with that if it’s how she feels. Not everything has to be universally accepted by everyone. She’s only speaking for herself.
@Amina A i think she meant that for her it would make her feel like more of a woman also right after she said that that would be everything that SHE wanted.
I completely dissagree with your conception about how being a mother/being able to get pregnant makes a woman "more of a woman". That's completely mysoginistic since it's not our role in this life...
Ana Enrici, I don't think Gigi always articulates what she means in the best way. She obviously just deeply wishes that she were able to give birth to a baby herself. I do not think her views qualify as being misogynistic. More like a bad choice of wording. The reality is that society still associates womanhood with the ability to give birth. Obviously that is not our role or our only role in life. I don't have children and I'm in my late 30's. But I think people jump on Gigi for anything she says anymore and it seems to be expressly because she is a transgender woman. Transmen don't seem to get all the hate and negativity directed at them.
what is your role in life then? from a biological stand point all organisms live to reproduce, all our adaptations and features were handpicked through hundreds of thousands of years of natural selection in order to survive, and survive long enough to reproduce, that is literally the point. the reason men are even attracted to big buts and big boobs are actually because these are qualities for child bearing and raising, big child bearing hips big fatty breasts, it's literally instinct for men to be attracted to women for these qualities so they can give birth to a child.
It says in the bible That women were put on this Earth to keep population going. So that is exactly our role. Over the years we just decided that it shouldn't be our only role.
Its very offensive to think that a transgender not being able to get pregnant (which is common sense and Idk how tf to understand you if you think it was ever changeable), is more hurtful and 'heartbreaking' than an actually born woman who is not able to conceive or has had miscarriages and so on. How could you even compare yourself to a woman who is hurting over something that is lacking what she is supposed to have functioning? Thats insulting no lie
Wow how insensitive do you want to be to bio-girls with infertility issues? Saying your case is definitely worse? At least you know why you can’t get pregnant and the clear steps you need to take. Imagine being born with the parts and them just not working. With no explanation. It shouldn’t be a competition but seeing as you made it one; you’re in the better boat of infertile women. You have no idea.
Yes or the fact that all the parts seem to work but constantly getting miscarriages and always thinking it will work this time just for it to fail again and again constantly reliving the pain over and over. God it hurts so bad.
You shouldn’t feel inferior because you can’t have kids. Plenty of biological women can’t / might not be able to have kids so you shouldn’t associate that with not being feminine.
@@LightTruthLove that's ignorant. Pretty sure a woman who has infertility issues isn't just a feeling, it's facts. There are women born women who can't have kids. How is that a feeling and not a fact. Is children associated with womem yes, but FACTS is some women can't have children. How are you less womanly if you can't have kids?
"Feel like a woman" what does that even mean🙄being a woman is way more than dressing up and wearing make up and "acting feminine" and having kids does not make you more of a woman
I can’t understand, like how you feel like a woman! And the ideals that she plays into to be considered a woman makes it seem like that’s all women are made of.
If she planned on having kids she should have saved the sperm....i know other trans mtf people have taken those steps to do so....I forgot who said that, but it is possible. It also seems like having a kid will somehow make her feel better about HERSELF. I wish she would have explained that more into detail
cesarbrandi it’s incredible how ignorant u are when u group all “cisgendered” people together as lacking empathy when it was her choice to transition into becoming a woman. There are plenty of transgender women who have frozen their sperm for the future. This was a choice she made and it sucks that she’s going through this but it was HER choice. A biological woman who’s infertile did not have a choice. There’s a difference
I find this quite offensive. I feel you are misguided about what it means to be a woman. It is as if you learnt everything about being a woman from cheesy clichè hollywood films.
If transgender women truly had all the responsibility of womenhood/ wife & mom / pregnancy & labor...they would stay men. To them, its I feel like a woman, I like heels and make-up, pls. No hate just facts. Also, they"ll find out how challenging dating is for women. Men are loveable; yet, strange creatures. They are WORK.
Yes! When I have my monthly cycle it’s agonizing, I have the worst cramps that put me out not being able to fit into jeans, I hate this video because being a woman isn’t about wearing heels or wearing makeup it’s about going through what a biological women goes through, Gigi will never feel that and she can’t be mad about it because biology.
I don’t know how she can say she feels more like a woman than a genetic woman. Like honey, I don’t wanna be mean but you won’t ever experience all the pain women have to go through to have kids and believe it or not, there are women out there who CANT have kids and they’re born that way. I can understand your frustration cause any women who wants to have kids would be heartbroken in that situation, but there are naturally born women all around the world that can’t have children either. I don’t wanna be mean or disregard your frustrations, but I don’t think you should put your life and struggles above those of biological women and act like none of us can relate cause your trans and we haven’t experienced some of the stuff you have. Like girl, take multiple seats
There is NO such thing as a "genetic woman." It is almost a slur to call women, adult human females, "genetic women." There s only one type of woman. A crossdressing male or a transvestite is not a woman of any kind.
Gwwwwooorrrrrrllllll!!!! Make that appointment! Legit absolute worst case scenario is that you'll find out you have a low sperm count and will have to stop taking hormones for a few months in order to get your count up. Yes it'll be rough and hard, but the pay off of being able to have the biological kids you want with Nats will 500000000% make up for it. You're amazing and don't ever doubt your womanhood! Soooo many women can't have kids despite having all the "right parts" so don't even worry about that.
It's actually not that simple. The worst case scenario is that she's sterile. It just not stop taking hormones for a few months and be fine. She could actually be sterile now. I think is really surprising that she wasn't told that before she went on hormones. From what I have heard it common to ask people if they want to freeze their sperm before starting on hormones because it highly likely they will become sterile after a while.
@@kristinehansen. This is correct. MtF are usually advised to freeze their sperm pre-transition. If Gigi is "sterile"/azoospermic at this point, the doctors might have to perform testicular aspiration/extraction to check if there are still good sperm cells in the testicular tissue. Pretty uncomfortable to talk about, but that's basically how it works.
"What's between your legs is your business." That's right. What's between your legs is YOUR business, Gigi. You don't have to tell us ANYTHING you don't want to. It's not lying if you don't tell us you have had gender confirmation surgery; it's you keep your business private. Thank you for posting this! I think this is a fantastic encouragement. Regarding you being afraid: that's OK. Please give yourself grace and space. Having kids is a huge decision.
Snow Angel it’s the 21st goddamn Century and people are still fighting about being gay or lesbian or transgender and bisexual. Like give it rest. As years go by it’s not going to stop. So just give up already, your hate won’t stop every person in the world for being who they are. And the hate people say to gays, lesbians, bisexuals and everyone absolutely disgusts me. So for once in your god damn life let people be who they want to be.
I can’t. You should delete this video. You sound super entitled to being able to have a child. There’s plenty of kids that need to be adopted, take that route. Lots of us can’t have kids WITH the parts so imagine that feeling.
I wouldn't know however some people want so strongly to have baby of their own blood. It's nothing against adoption, but its just what some people prefer and desire. You can't tell her what route to take, because she has a choice as a women.
Sunny de Laney Why you watching this video then so you can spread hate and negativity? This is what’s wrong with people like you so judgmental, I am completely fine with your views and your opinions you have the right to have them. However you have no right to state them in a nasty demeanor. The fact that you came to this video to spread hate is absolutely disgusting.
Yet they still have xx chromosomes and a uterus, and a real vag, has a monthly cycle, has an egg that can be fertilized. Doesn’t need pills and shots to sound feminine. And are actually real women.
no but the capability is what makes a woman a woman in other words having xx chromosomes. I understand not everyone is born having healthy ovaries etc.
No but those woman are biologically female and unless there's a medical issue with their reproductive organs, they have what's necessary to get pregnant. Someone who was born a biological male never had any sort of shot at getting pregnant.
Honest inquiry. You couldn't even look after a dog, what makes you think a child will be any easier? Maybe your life is different off camera, but the way you present yourself online and past actions make me question whether or not you have the emotional and/or physical capacity to deal with a HUMAN. Wouldn't want to see you give up on this one halfway through as well.
@@shatteredhands5964 i would disagree, just because you happen to have dysphoria or dysimorphia or any other mental illness that taints the light with which you view yourself under, doesnt mean that you have the right to act out on other people. She is upset, that is understandable, but that does not justify the disrespect.
@@jennifercheck7430 hold on while I look for when I was being being disrespectful it's my opinion considering since it's coming from the eyes of another trans person thanks sis
Based off of her terminology it’s seems she is not emotionally mature enough to even have a baby right now. “Freezing eggs are gross” You used to produce sperm and didn’t know what it was or what?
@A N C sorry, poor wording. I meant to reference transition, not that. My b. Gigi hasn't transitioned yet and doesn't believe that she can somehow get pregnant, even after that, was my point.
You’re a loving daughter, a caring sister, and one of the most beautiful souls I’ve ever encountered. You’re going to make an AMAZING mother Gigi. I’m so proud of you for sharing this. ❤️ You. Are. Resilient.
What the doctor said wasn't something you should be offended by, she was telling you what you needed to know and what to expect- some trans people need to calm down sometimes.
this person should be offended cuz then it has smthn to brag about ONLINE and get more views and more ATTENTION cuz this is all this person wants 100% of the Transgender content = Unnecessary and stupid :D
Gigi, you should go to therapy and not here in your channel. You need counseling, not approval.What I saw in this vid was a lot of confusion and suffering! And I felt for you. :(
Don’t think this is the video to comment stuff like that on, this is a serious video and it’s obviously hard for her to talk about and I’m sure comments like this don’t help 🙄 do manners even exist anymore?!?!
I am 100% positive that Gigi has not gone through most if not any of the struggles that biological women go through being women...yet she’s more of a woman? Lol okay.
If I'm going to be totally honest here, I think you, and other trans people, like the idea of being a woman, not actually being a woman. There's more to us than having babies, a period, and wearing cute outfits. You seem too young anyway.
Spongebob, there's more to tans people than that too, trans people can't fully understand what it's like to be cis people and vice versa, I think everyone on this planet needs to learn a little perspective
Okay let's not mix things up here... There are MANY trans woman out there who aren't vapid, obsessed with looking pretty and having cute outfits. There are MANY trans woman who understand that women are not just periods, baby makes, and the rest of the misogynistic views that men have tagged us with. You are emphasizing this being a trans trait when actually this is more of a "Hollywood" and wanting to be "Famous" trait. You can't take these people like Gigi or Caitlyn Jenner or the majority of trans woman on TH-cam wanting fame and put them as what all TRANS woman are like...Because there are a lot of us who don't follow this awful stereotype that people like you seem to have pinned against us, to bring the good ones down along with the bad. *Don't get it twisted because there are trans woman out there putting in work and being a strong powerhouse for WOMEN!!!* Amanda Simpson - is Vice-President for Research and Technology at Airbus Americas and was the former Deputy Assistant Secretary of Defense for Operational Energy. Operational Energy is the energy required for training, moving, and sustaining military forces and weapons platforms for military operations. First openly transgender woman U.S. Presidential appointee... Victoria Kolakowski - is an American lawyer, and, since January 2011, judge of the Alameda County Superior Court. Kolakowski is the first openly transgender person to serve as a trial court judge of general jurisdiction in the United States, the first elected to a judgeship, and the first to serve as any type of judge in California. She has won many awards from being a successful hard working woman since the 90's!! Andrea Jenkins - is an American policy aide, politician, writer, performance artist, poet, and transgender activist. She is known for being the first African-American openly transgender woman elected to public office in the United States, serving since January 2018 on the Minneapolis City Council. This woman returned to college to finish her bachelor's degree from Metropolitan State University, which she followed by earning two master's degrees-an MFA in creative writing from Hamline University and an MS in community economic development from Southern New Hampshire University. All during the 90's as well. Please do some ACTUAL research and studies on the history of transgender individuals. Don't just blindly follow and assume what is more prevalent on social media to be true for all. Stop spreading this awful narrative that gives trans women like me a harder time, who are just trying to live a normal life and be successful enough to do some good in this world...
SissySchoolGirl I never said all trans women. Its just that a lot of them come across that way. There was a trans woman on youtube who said her period was 4 months long, it "made her feel more feminine." How are you going to have a (nonexistent) menstrual cycle, and you don't understand how it works?? 💀
I am sorry you saying "I feel as much if not more so than a genetic woman," is so far from the truth. Genetic women are women period. You are genetically speaking a male, but you identify as a woman, therefore you are a trans-gendered female, so do not say that you are more woman than a born woman because that is simply not true! And as far as the pregnancy thing goes even though you can't get pregnant physically you can get your fiance pregnant since you still have all your plumbing.
I don't think that she is trying in any way to undermine us "biological women": we are lucky to identify ourselves with the biological sex we were born with. What I think she is trying to convey is that she feels a woman, her brain knows that she is one (not to be too nerdy but try and look at "gender dysphoria" for a better explanation of the concept) and yet she is denied a (very important) feature that females in nature possess, that is the ability of conceiving and giving birth. She is saying that, like many biological women, she is dealing with infertility, since she wants to get pregnant and give birth herself and she knows that at this moment and time in history this is just not possible: try and imagine the frustration of wanting something so badly and not even have the basic means to achieve it. An infertile woman might have viable eggs or a viable uterus, thus opening the possibility (for some, not all) of surrogacy or eggs donation: she has neither, so she really is feeling the impossibility of it all and it must be maddening.
I was born a woman and still identify as such. But I would never say that Gigi or anyone else who is transgender (M to F) is any less of a woman. This video wasn't a scripted one, I don't think- so I'm sure she didn't mean that she's "More of a woman than a born female"....I think she meant it as she felt more like a woman than she expected- that she fully knows she was always meant to be a woman. I mean think about it, we are born into these bodies and just take it for granted. We know we're born as females but we might not know what it truly means until we grow up. As for giving birth-- I think she said how she tried with her fiance to get pregnant and it wasn't working. So they're going to a clinic to try to see what the issue is and maybe they'll do a surrogate birth mother with their egg/sperm.
there are hundreds of children all over the world desperate for a home, the fact she cant produce one is difficult of course but she needs to be realistic and be thankful she is living in a country that excepts her for who she is and that she has rights in. the fact that people in the lgbt community can have/adopt children is only really a fairly modern concept within law as with unmarried people so things are as best as they are going to be for the foreseeable future in that field. in regards to the whole her producing an actual child in her own womb etc. I think that is wrong. hormones can be harmful to fetus and can cause all sorts of problems, plus the most likely thing is that her body may reject the womb. In recent science there has been womb transplants done with successful pregnancies but I believe that there is a fine line to how far you can go. there is also the fact that going through reassignment already is traumatising and painful, there is months to years of recovery, and she wants to mess that up by birthing? like really?
So I approached this vid with an open mind... I'm old and of a generation that didn't talk about gender being fluid etc. I'm confused as to why you say you have been "trying" with your cis partners cycle, yet find it so difficult to talk about sperm! You have an active intimate relationship and by your own admission, have penetrative sex. I can only assume pregnancy isn't happening either quick enough or at a convenient time for you both, hence the clinic visit. Well, this old gal has to jump in and say that life doesn't always stick to a schedule and pregnancy can either happen on the first go, take years or never happen at all. My last issue is with you saying at the end you want a bio child so you can "look into their blue eyes and at their blonde hair"....again, mother nature doesn't abide by your rules. I have green eyes and my partner has piercing blue eyes yet all three of our bio kids have dark brown eyes...a throwback to a previous generation! Will you be disappointed if your child isn't a 'mini me' with your features? I'm loathe to say this, as I'm still learning a lot about trans issues and gender issues...but maybe you need counselling first with someone familiar with trans issues because you come across as slightly naive when it comes to having children. It does sound like you see them as a validation of your acquired femininity and an accessory. Apologies if I'm wrong and I sincerely wish you the best life you can live.
First, you used the wrong pronoun. Then, you devalued the feelings of cis-women who may have trouble conceiving or are infertile. It's not a competition. Different kinds of people can share the same feelings, even if they're for different reasons, for fuck's sake.
thank you for sharing about not having your GRS/SRS. trans girls on youtube never speak about it & you’re very brave. i love you so much gigi you’ve inspired me to come out as trans💜
So I fully understand where you're coming from feeling like a woman and having a baby will help this but please also remember having a baby is actually about bring a little human into the world not just making us more like a woman. A lot of women are unable to have children doesn't make them less like a woman. Also it's about loving the skin and body your in . I believe you need to work on loving yourself a lot more and not have this mind set that having a child is going to make you feel better. There's a lot of personal growth that needs to happen
This was very raw and honest. You would probably have to stop estrogen for a while, and let your testosterone count come back up. I transitioned 28 years ago, and not having the ability to carry a child caused me depression for several years. I was very aware that I couldn’t, but when you meet someone you love, it triggers those emotions. Best of luck to the two of you. 😘
"I don't have those working parts that give you a babushka." You don't have the parts to make a Russian Grandmother, I know this is a serious video but I thought it was funny.
Let's see.... You were a diver... 10 meters, right? You went to school made up You did make-up tutorials (which is how I found you) You moved to LA from Canada You changed genders and your name. You realized that you were actually a lesbian. I feel like you're strong enough to handle this.
Gigi I've watched you for years, and even if I'm proud of your transition and your journey I have to say I really don't think you have quite grasped what being a woman really is. You have the most one dimensional and stereotypical idea of what makes you a woman, it's kinda sad. Being not fertile or not able to have kids doesn't make one less of a woman. That goes for both trans and cis women. The reality is you were born a male and under no circumstances will you ever be able to get birth, and you've always known that. You're a trans woman and should be proud, and not try to do things just to prove to people how much of a female you are. That's where you go wrong. Be yourself, not the woman stereotype you think people need to see.
Exactly...I hate when people say "but there are cis-women who cant have children" so what? Whats ur point? Unfortunately trans women will never be an actual woman. Being a woman isnt a feeling. Transgender is a complex topic and I understand why the LGB community still havent accepted it completely. But as long as they r happy thats all that matters really.
Gigi, you may be a trans woman, but you will never be able to understand what biological women go through unless you are one. It's as simple as that. I lost my last ounce of sympathy when you claimed you feel like more of a woman than cis women do. Get a grip. This video is apathetic, insensitive, and honestly downright offensive.
she meant it more in a sense that she feels more of a need to connect to her gender/her gender is a very central part of her life. she might not physically experience the same things as a cis woman but she still goes through the same things socially and worse because on top of that she has to deal with transphobia
Oh Gigi, thank you for being honest. You don’t owe us an explanation, but thank you so much for being an honest open book to help those out there who don’t have the resources to find information like this.
As someone who is trans, I feel like this is so important to hear.. My only issue, is being descendant Russian, I have this unyielding urge to let you know that babushka means Grandma/old woman.. Not baby.
Maybe because she didn't say that. People on TH-cam certainly have a pack mentality. They see others criticizing about something that isn't even fact and they have to jump in.
She definitely did say that. I'm not going to say that Gigi isn't a woman, because she is. But this is extremely offensive to both the women who don't think that having a child is what being woman is about, and to the women who are infertile or otherwise unable to conceive.
Seriously....you go into a fertility clinic and tell the doctor absolutely nothing about your situation and are surprised and embarrassed that she gave you information that didn't apply to you? Come on now...
Listen Gigi, I’m 35 and can’t have kids because I carry a genetic mutation that could cause my babies to be severely disabled. ALL THE TIME -other women especially- ask me constantly about kids and act like I’m not a complete woman because i don’t have babies. It makes me feel so inadequate! So thank you for sharing I really freaking vibed with what you were saying about how you felt and feeling awkward. ❤️💚🌈
Shannon Smith nobody thinks a woman is incomplete for not be able to get pregnant those days, a lot of woman don’t want to be a mom and is nobody problem, actually I get a lot of compliment about my decision, so I don’t believe in your story. Sorry
Shannon Smith you could have kids that are perfectly normal they have extra precautions you can take to minimize the chances of birth defects but I understand why you wouldn’t wanna risk it
Ana Isabel Zepeda How rude can you be? You don’t believe her story? Well, you’re entitled to your opinion, but come on. This person has clearly told a story that is close to her heart, and you think you have a right to tell her she’s lying? Where do you get off?
If Nat doesn’t want to be pregnant then they should just use Nat’s eggs for a surrogate, so they’d be able to be apart of the pregnancy instead of adopting
i prefer this type of vulnerability, open and honest Gigi letting us in...than the other videos where you don't seem like you're being authentic and they just are more shallow.. thanks for sharing and i'm wishing you the best... i think you should go through with it and think positive. looking forward to you continuing to share this journey with us. take care - p.s. i hadn't been watching any of your videos for a while, but this made me click.
@@maxhorras550 ...Hate? Please have a seat! This is what trans women like Blare fight against! It makes "some" sound very unintelligent and unstable. It's ok to do what makes you happy; but one must consider the biological body when planning for a child! The doctor couldn't treat her as a woman with a uterus; it's not hateful to be intelligent, honest and realistic. My transgender friend is intelligent, secure and understands biology! If someone disagrees, then they're labeled as phobic or problematic to strategically censor others. She's a beautiful trans woman; moroever, she can have the family she wants, but not similar to a biological woman. Just a fact!!! I love Blaire and my good friend who positively represent the community. An opinion isn't hateful, and we all have rights! Period. ♥️♥️♥️
I wasn't living for her current content but this is the Gigi I love! Keep being open, real and funny :) P.S. I think the girl she's refering to in the beginning is Colleen Ballinger
Feels bad for all the women being typecast by having breasts, makeup, and long hair to be what makes someone womanly. If you're flat chested, look boyish, and have no curves then I guess you're screwed.
i love the realness and transparency in this. I feel like a lot of her other videos are just superficial and not super personal and this is very refreshing
so basically you're saying women who can't have kids aren't "women" , umm that's offensive you don't have to be able to give birth to be a women 🤦🏽♀️💔
@@markv.brooks3035 YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE ABLE TO BE ABLE TO HAVE KIDS TO BE A WOMAN. What kind of made up crap is this. This world is so pathetic. Cut the crap and get some common sense. If your DNA proves you are a woman then you are a woman.
Scientifically, you are right. But trans people’s simply feel happier and more authentic once they are the right gender for them. I can’t explain this in detail as I aren’t trans myself... But just listen to the inspirational humans okay?
Onion boi i have nothing against trans people. i’m fully supportive of LGBTQ+ community. i know it’s something more than a “feeling”. i just didn’t agree with that statement of “feeling like a woman”.
A mother is a woman who raises and loves her child, and Gigi you will make a wonderful, loving mother. Pregnancy and infertility haunts every woman in different ways, so glad you shared. 💕
@kath david why dont you explore the other side of the coin, the research out there that actually shows that transwomen are no less a woman than any other woman. If you seek out research that only validates your own viewpoint, how do you really know youre right?
The fact that she hasnt gotten sex reassignment shouldnt change anything. It actually makes me respect her more because shes living a transgender life without rushing into surgery which a lot of people do. Shes happy with an amazing relationship. I hope everything goes well Gigi I myself even though im a cis gender female worry about pregnancy and the chances of me having kids since theirs been fertility issues on one side of my family.
except for the fact she pretended she did have sex reassignment surgery for years.. like when she did the room tour and she had tampons in her bedroom toilet and she filmed it and pretended she uses it. lol
You know there are women with the BIOLOGICAL parts who can’t conceive children, does that make them less ‘feminine’ or less of a ‘real/true woman’? Because I may fall into that category i don’t know what to say on this video. All I’m gonna say is I hope your happy in life and get where you want to go and I’m sure you meant those words regarding yourself however you need to word stuff like that better because you’re gonna end up hurting a lot of people. X
Some twisted idea of what a woman is, it's almost like you're perpetuating same old straight men's stereotypes of what a woman role is. You will never know.
Or perhaps she feels obligated to conform to them herself for various reasons? Like... why exactly will she "never know"? What makes a woman a woman? Be careful to avoid old straight men's stereotypes in your answer.
@@ramywiles What makes a woman, is having reproductive organs, for fertilization and development,. Also for nurturing a newborn. Had Gigi had these, we would not be watching this brain dead video. Facts matter; irrelevant and redundant opinions do not. Just facts.
You have some pretty twisted ideas about femininity, womanhood and most of all pregnancy if you think you "feel and look the most feminine" when you are pregnant. Sounds like a breeder fetish but okay.
Well pregnancy is a sign of femininity, like it or not. Its perfectly fine if you dont want it, doesnt make you less of a woman. However not being able to be pregnant makes woman think less of themselves and less feminine, its not a political thing its just how it is, its a survival instinct. So just stop giving her crap for feeling this way, its not even a political video.
moth·er (verb) 1. bring up (a child) with care and affection. I understand that this video is about pregnancy, but the ability to get pregnant does not make a woman a mother. Experiencing pregnancy complications does not make you less of a women
i’m both relieved to get it off my chest and nervous as hell to be sharing so much...
love u
S/o to @desiperkins and you for opening up and talking about this. I love y’all keep going
Gigi Gorgeous we love you. This video is very important and I’m honored to have been apart of your journey this whole time. Xoxo you’re the most honest person and extremely selfless xoxo
This is eye opening in a good way cause it wouldn't have crossed my mind ever and it's amazing. Praying you get the answers you've been looking for. Just go for it instead of giving yourself aniexty about everything. You'll be relieved to have the answers. Love you both 💖💖
This video filled in so many gaps about you that I have been wondering for so long!! You are really brave for uploading this💕💕
I don't have to have children, wear makeup, or high heels to feel like I'm a woman. These things don't make us women.
Mrs. Watts preach sis
I couldn’t have said better myself♥️
Mrs. Watts Hallelujah 🙏🏼
Exactly.
🙌🏼 so much more to womanhood!
I have no idea how I stumbled onto this video, and at first I felt sympathy for you explaining the hard ships of what trans women go through being unable to have children, up until you said you feel more like a woman than an actual genetic woman.
Stop. Right. There.
If you want to be accepted as a woman, that’s fine! That’s great. If that in your heart is what you think you are then, okay! But, that doesn’t give you the right to think you’re better than any other woman because you “feel” it.
No no no no.
Women have unspoken sisterhoods, and that is something you will never be able to understand. We bleed for decades of our lives, suffer through immense pain of being able to bear children and dread our bodies not cooperating when we are pregnant and it not being viable. But you wanna make a little fast comment like that thinking it’s okay? No. Making comments like that will never get you accepted. It’s unfortunate that you will never be able to bear your own children and I’m sorry, I truly am, but I feel like the last thing you need in your life at the moment is a baby when you have so much more maturing as a woman to do.
It’s not about nice makeup, beautiful hair, a perfect body and the perception that you are not a woman without having a child.
Stop. Please learn that ignorantly spreading comments like that are not what being a woman is about.
aldotheapache ugh preach !!👏🏼
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THE TRUTH SIS THE TRUTHHHH😩👏👏🙌
That was written perfectly 👏🏼💯
Shane needs to do a series with Gigi
Ashlen Peterson YES!!!
I disagree on this one 🧐
Yesss!
YES
Agree 💞
Who else went straight to the comments? 🙋🏽♀️
Nah fam I went gay to the comments
Ejiro Kirishima 😂😂😂
Lol I know I did
@RYAN Jessen Chile,,
Trans women are always women. You're just blatantly Transphobic
Omg meeeee damn girl get to the point
*"freezing eggs is gross"* u sure ur mature enough for kids
bratzBabydoll you have to have a needle up your butt lol it’s gross and painful
For some women, egg donation is the only way THEY can have kids. If it's not for you, it's not for you, but that doesn't mean you get to diminish someone elses choices about their own fertility or assisting others with theirs.
@@jetsofaqua2206 that's nothing compared to the things that you have to endure during labor, kiddo! 😂😂😂
Azalee eggs are not up your butt so like tf you taking about
One of the only comment I agree with
Two things.
1. You weren't born with "working parts", but there are many women who were born with the parts but they don't work either. You have no right to play the victim and act like you had it worse when you chose to get rid of your working parts for parts that you foreknew would not work.
2. Having a child isn't meant to be for YOURSELF. You say that having a child will make you feel more feminine. That's a problem. That's what's wrong with our culture today. People have children for all the wrong reasons. If you want to have a child to 'hold your own DNA', you're having a child for the wrong reason.
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I'm so confused.
1) Did you not watch the video? She was born with male genitalia and has not undergone gender reassignment surgery. So... I don't understand where the 'you chose to get rid of your working parts' statement comes from.
2) Can you illuminate me on the 'right' or 'wrong' reasons to have a child? And how we would go about enforcing that in society?
Your first point is completely objective, but point 2 is fine and correct.
Having 'working' MALE parts is not pertinent to the issue. As a female, she feels less whole being unable to have a child. Don't invalidate that pain just because it's a consequence of being her authentic self, that's ridiculous. Yes cis women can be infertile, yes their pain sucks. To say she can't talk about her issues just because there are cis people out there with it leads one to believe trans issues are less valid.
Think before you write, thank you.
She didn't get rid of her "working parts" she says in the video she hasn't had that kind of surgery yet
@@PlayfulFruitLPer its not invalidating her self worth, its the truth
Motherhood is an extension of womanhood, not the definition. -Christen Reighter
For whoever you are out there who either don't want to have kids or can't have kids, IT DOES NOT DEFINE YOU. There are many paths to happiness and fulfillment.
❤❤
Exactly.
Right
Of course that's great to say but a lot of women do feel like less of a woman if they can't physically give birth to their own children. I think it's better to be honest about your feelings. Sort of how when you think you're ugly but your friend tells you you're beautiful. It's nice to hear but it doesn't take the feelings away unfortunately.
Danielle Lopez I feel inferior because I can’t have a healthy baby. It makes me feel like I can’t perform the one biological task I was made for. I know I shouldn’t feel ashamed but I do. Such instincts can’t be helped
Really proud of the women in this comment section standing up for their womanhood.
J A me too. Most women go along with trans because they think they’re cute.
Alexis B. Same thing.
@Alexis B. yes tbh us men have a huge Google conference on Fridays to discuss world domination and how to preserve female subjugation. You females need to up your game.
J A transgender women are still women so idk what u mean.....
Amelie Chang AGREED
As a side note... kids are awesome but pregnancy is so glamorized. I’m 7 months pregnant and I’ve never felt so terrible, bloated, ugly, and tired. I don’t feel feminine or beautiful at all lol
Shawnee I’m in the same boat!!! It’s not glamorous AT ALL 😅
Tabitha Milburn I feel more like a potato than a woman. Haha
I have two children and did not enjoy both pregnancies at all.
I watch all these pregnant youtubers and they're like yea everything is easy and fun but I can't imagine being pregnant and feel good ugh living with constant pain 9 months
Hahaha God bless you dear.
My God, having children is supposed to be all about focusing on the child. Not YOU.
this video did have some wrong wording and things that didn’t make sense but It isn’t all about the child. It’s about making a family and being happy. If the child is what makes you happy and you make them happy then yes, It’s about all of them.
Nah having a baby is about you too girl. 24 years ago my mum finally got her girl after trying for so long. That's as much of a big deal for her as it is for me. Definitely not just about the baby, it's about the whole family x
my God , get a life and stop hating on TH-camrs
@@alyskittless my God, get a life and stop supporting crazy youtubers.
your being Sexist lol! and homophobic lol
no sis being able to have a child doest mean youre "a true woman". this is kinda toxic to me and many other women, and infertile women :/
christimduh I was unable to conceive and then had to have a radical hysterectomy in my early 30s and am not insulted. This is her truth and how she feels doesn’t invalidate my experience as an infertile cis woman.
She meant having been born with the genitals that could have kids according with their gender. In her case, being the one that's pregnant. That's not her being "toxic," that's just her insecurity.
Get over it. What she said is totally understandable considering her situation.
I dont think shes saying that her not being able to have children makes her feel like less of a woman, but that the reason she feels like less of a woman is because of the REASON she cant have children...its not like shes just a woman who is infertile, she is a transgendered woman who can never physically get pregnant due to the fact that she was born a male. Im not really a fan of gigi but i mean seriously people should not be getting offended over this.
as always people are making it about themselves completely ignoring how frustrating it must be for a trans woman to be born in the wrong body.
FOR LACK OF A BETTER TERM... girl, if saying "sperm" feels inaccurate or inappropriate to you, you have a looooong way to go
@Tycell The Hun 👏👏 yes 👏👏 ❤️❤️❤️
She feels uncomfortable because she’s saying it about herself.
@fredrica gordon and not eggs
@@lillymoses5596 ya coming from his own body lol
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I’m a cis woman born without a uterus. Don’t think that you’re struggling more than other people. We’re all hurting
Stay strong just cus u cant give birth don't make you less and don't let anyone tell u otherwise.
Have you looked into being possibly intersex? This isn't meant in offense to you (not that it should be offensive) but that's something that often happens with someone that presents with ambiguous reproductive systems.
Uchihasasuk5 oh shut up get a life. i really believe you really mean no harm by this question but maybe u should have kept this comment to urself.
I don’t have a uterus either and I’m cis too! I got you girl 😘
Uchihasasuk5 that’s so ignorant asking that. Like are you socially inept?
Plenty of cisgender women are unable to conceive as well. This doesn’t make you any less of a woman.
GrilledHotDog it actually does.. sorry not sorry
@@imanimott6013 so women who can't conceive aren't women?
There is no comparison there you need to stop!
We're not CISGENDER. You don't get to invent a term for normal. It's derogatory. If you want to earn respect, give it.
"Even some women who are born women can't have babies" even the TH-camr called us genetic women.
Just stop.
No but being a male does
My fiance and I have been trying for yrs to have kids...
I've suffered 3 miscarriages... I'm 32... And just got slapped in the face with an autoimmune disease this year....
Nothing I want more than a child with the person I love the most.
I’m so sorry I’m praying for you keep us updated please
Abby Hebenstreit thanks.... means a lot. I actually started a TH-cam channel.... we were living in black mold... and I wanna show people what it looks like, symptoms, etc.
I never want someone to be blindsided like I was.
That’s amazing
*Klarissa Explains It All* I’m sorry for your struggles, you’re such a strong person😘
DeAnna McCrimmon Aw thank you
I am living for this comment section
I’m sick of other women-transgender or not-telling other women that they are LESS of a woman if they don’t bear children. Women are more than just their fertility. I don’t have children and I have had other women friends tell me that my life has less meaning because I am not a mother. I no longer speak to those women.
I'm sorry you've been told you're less than; it's not true, and you're right, we're more than vessels for babies. Gigi didn't tell anyone those things, though. She wasn't making sweeping statements about what it means to be a woman. She said pregnancy is something she wants to experience, and she's struggling with being unable to.
@@ramywiles yes she did, she said she feels more of a woman than cis women. Her whole attitude toward womanhood is backward, narrow, misogynistic, and elitist.
i think this is the only constructive comment on here, so thank you
no no women are the resource of love feelings emotional life not only for pregnancy or kids she can give her abilities to any one in the world even to friends clients it works
totally agree with You. I hate it when women feel that bearing a child is the only thing We are made for. They go into this depression mode like it's the end of the world when there are thousands of kids out there who needs love.
How can you claim to be a woman but put down women who are genetically a woman
Joleen Roth exactly!
Joleen Roth who did she put down
@@brittagrant From what I've read in most of the comments I believe that people are mad that Gigi only briefly brushed the fact that some natural women go through some of the same things. For example not being able to get pregnant at all or the struggle that you feel when you're trying to get pregnant and it's not happening. There is also a lot of anger over Gigi saying she feels like more of a woman than natural women. That's the quote that's being thrown around. It's not actually a word for word quote, but it is how her words were interpreted. I don't think anyone is wrong for feeling a certain way about anything, but I also understand that Gigi has not been a natural women and she can only tell the story from her point of view. Different walks different talk is what I boils down to, I think.
Edit: Forgot to add/make clear that the brush over made people feel like they were being overlooked and Gigi was ignoring the fact that natural women can and do also have these struggles. Therefore putting down us down and making us feel less than. Personally, I think it's a little ridiculous that people are acting like the video is a hate crime. It's not that bad and it shares a point of view on these things that's from somewhere that I, at the very least, haven't heard before.
Because its 2018?
@@Alyssa-cb7zj its 2018- a cheeto is in office, the general media is consistently lying to everyone, victimization is almost an occupation, and we as a country are losing our scientific realistic grasp on reality.
Its 2018.
A child isn’t an extension of your own narcissism. Not once have you displayed you actually wanting to care for a baby, to mother it and watch it grow, no maternal instincts. You just want a mini me. Maybe that’s why you’re hesitant - because you’re not actually ready to be a mother
mjacksonisperfect Gigi could never be a mother though
mjacksonisperfect lmao that’s why most women want kids let’s be real, to have their own mini versions of them! This can be especially true in men. They all want that perfect son. Lmao
@@NicosW0rld I know many mothers who actually care about their kids, gigi isn't one of them
Rip Curl 69 did they care about the babies before having them tho? most ppl ik just want kids to complete the picture perfect family dream, not necessarily cuz theyve thought through what it means to be a mother. applies to guys and their desire to be a father as well. many ppl seem to treat children and parenthood as a necessary phase and continuation of vanity.
Rip Curl 69 genuinely curious btw it'd be awesome to know someone out there actually cares lol and has thought through parenthood
You're literally at a doctors office. How do you expect them to understand you and be sympathetic or compassionate towards you without you being up front and giving them the facts they need? This vid was not your brightest moment, idk. Having a baby isn't the ultimate form of femininity...there's a lot wrong here and I'm not sure if you expressed your feelings with the proper words necessarily.
3jamming 3 some biological women cannot have children though, so giving birth does not make them any less feminine.
Harmony no ALL women don’t... some are born without one and some have them removed due to MEDICAL ISSUES that aren’t their choice so saying that is just ignorant
@Harmony no I know a cis woman who was born without a uterus. It's a genetic defect and she also cannot ever get children and is very upset about it.
@@msuew94 but biological female are not born with a prostate
This is an extremely offensive video. Becoming a mother doesn't make you more of a woman. And not being a mother doesn't make you less of one. What message are you sending to genetic women who are unable to have children?
Amen 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Omg she’s just sharing her own personal feelings, which she’s entitled to. Maybe for her individually being a mother does make her feel more of a women. Nothing wrong with that if it’s how she feels. Not everything has to be universally accepted by everyone. She’s only speaking for herself.
Thank you !
@Amina A i think she meant that for her it would make her feel like more of a woman also right after she said that that would be everything that SHE wanted.
well yes it does :D but you jsut have nothing else to say :D
I completely dissagree with your conception about how being a mother/being able to get pregnant makes a woman "more of a woman". That's completely mysoginistic since it's not our role in this life...
He is a fetishist, so it makes sense.
Ana Enrici, I don't think Gigi always articulates what she means in the best way. She obviously just deeply wishes that she were able to give birth to a baby herself. I do not think her views qualify as being misogynistic. More like a bad choice of wording. The reality is that society still associates womanhood with the ability to give birth. Obviously that is not our role or our only role in life. I don't have children and I'm in my late 30's. But I think people jump on Gigi for anything she says anymore and it seems to be expressly because she is a transgender woman. Transmen don't seem to get all the hate and negativity directed at them.
what is your role in life then? from a biological stand point all organisms live to reproduce, all our adaptations and features were handpicked through hundreds of thousands of years of natural selection in order to survive, and survive long enough to reproduce, that is literally the point. the reason men are even attracted to big buts and big boobs are actually because these are qualities for child bearing and raising, big child bearing hips big fatty breasts, it's literally instinct for men to be attracted to women for these qualities so they can give birth to a child.
It just affirms that she has an engrained misogynist mindset. Biological women aren’t just here to reproduce and raise children like you said.
It says in the bible That women were put on this Earth to keep population going. So that is exactly our role. Over the years we just decided that it shouldn't be our only role.
Im sorry but I dont get it..are we now bashing women who can actually conceive naturally? What's the point of all this?
@Labellekiki14 interesting way to look at it
You are simply buying into rubbish on the internet.
Gigi... you wouldn’t be able to have a biological child with Nats even if you were a biological woman...
Larissa Ives Real talk
why
Julie Heffernan Two women can't have children.
right? Cis lebian checking in and very, very confused
@@julieheffernan784 are you ok?
Its very offensive to think that a transgender not being able to get pregnant (which is common sense and Idk how tf to understand you if you think it was ever changeable), is more hurtful and 'heartbreaking' than an actually born woman who is not able to conceive or has had miscarriages and so on. How could you even compare yourself to a woman who is hurting over something that is lacking what she is supposed to have functioning? Thats insulting no lie
Honestly who cares if someone is offended these days?
Exactly.
Ya atleast a woman was lucky enough to be born a woman and like it, a transgender got screwed in both aspects,duhhhhh.
I agree 100%! with you Hana
How is this woman so stupid? She is a woman too and it might be hard for her too so please don't be judgemental.
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Oh that went dark fast
tEA
A baby is not a fashion accessory
Shut up
DeAndre Mainor nah
DeAndre Mainor yeah....um they're right, it wants a kid bc it wants to feel like a woman. That not what kids are for
IKR! Like she just wants a kid to show that it is a woman liks bissss kids are a responsibility
@@alexandrahempsall7610 true!!
Wow how insensitive do you want to be to bio-girls with infertility issues? Saying your case is definitely worse? At least you know why you can’t get pregnant and the clear steps you need to take. Imagine being born with the parts and them just not working. With no explanation. It shouldn’t be a competition but seeing as you made it one; you’re in the better boat of infertile women. You have no idea.
GOD BLESS YOU ALL WHO READ THIS
Yes.. what a d!ck😒
Lol
You are very right
Yes or the fact that all the parts seem to work but constantly getting miscarriages and always thinking it will work this time just for it to fail again and again constantly reliving the pain over and over. God it hurts so bad.
They know why they cant get pregnant, too. Because they're men. It's really not complicated
You shouldn’t feel inferior because you can’t have kids. Plenty of biological women can’t / might not be able to have kids so you shouldn’t associate that with not being feminine.
So true xx
Well it actually has every association to being a woman and feminine. Feelings don't equal facts.
LightTruthLove what about biological women that can not have children? That are infertile? They are women and not having children doesn't define them.
@@LightTruthLove that's ignorant. Pretty sure a woman who has infertility issues isn't just a feeling, it's facts. There are women born women who can't have kids. How is that a feeling and not a fact. Is children associated with womem yes, but FACTS is some women can't have children. How are you less womanly if you can't have kids?
Actually what a ridiculous comment
"Feel like a woman" what does that even mean🙄being a woman is way more than dressing up and wearing make up and "acting feminine" and having kids does not make you more of a woman
aSiA C fr, how do you even “feel like a woman” these weirdos got it all wrong
Thank you
I can’t understand, like how you feel like a woman! And the ideals that she plays into to be considered a woman makes it seem like that’s all women are made of.
Emerald Austin sweetie that is false. I hope you are being sarcastic
@Emerald Austin by your comment I'm guessing you're no older than 13 so i won't judge to much you still got some growing and learning to do
3:07 - 3:11 is the problem. You cannot feel worse than a real biological Woman. It is impossible. The steps you took were choices.
I couldn't agree more. Life choices are not medical problems. Rendering yourself infertile by choice will never compare to true infertility.
If she planned on having kids she should have saved the sperm....i know other trans mtf people have taken those steps to do so....I forgot who said that, but it is possible.
It also seems like having a kid will somehow make her feel better about HERSELF. I wish she would have explained that more into detail
Jo Gale and she done what she was comfortable doing
cesarbrandi it’s incredible how ignorant u are when u group all “cisgendered” people together as lacking empathy when it was her choice to transition into becoming a woman. There are plenty of transgender women who have frozen their sperm for the future. This was a choice she made and it sucks that she’s going through this but it was HER choice. A biological woman who’s infertile did not have a choice. There’s a difference
@@cesarbrandi oh give me a break. This is like chopping your own leg off and being upset after that you can no longer walk.
its like cutting your legs off and complaining u cant walk
This^ thank u
I hope its comment be top comment
your pathetic
absolutely
@@natalieavery1731 you're*
I find this quite offensive. I feel you are misguided about what it means to be a woman. It is as if you learnt everything about being a woman from cheesy clichè hollywood films.
Exactly.
this video is not about you
They never said it was *snorts*
True like oofers
Basically.
There is so so so much more to being a woman than just wearing heels and having kids 🙄
Yea vaginas
If transgender women truly had all the responsibility of womenhood/ wife & mom / pregnancy & labor...they would stay men. To them, its I feel like a woman, I like heels and make-up, pls. No hate just facts. Also, they"ll find out how challenging dating is for women. Men are loveable; yet, strange creatures. They are WORK.
Yes! When I have my monthly cycle it’s agonizing, I have the worst cramps that put me out not being able to fit into jeans, I hate this video because being a woman isn’t about wearing heels or wearing makeup it’s about going through what a biological women goes through, Gigi will never feel that and she can’t be mad about it because biology.
Your experience at the doctors office was a perfect example of reality smashing into your fantasy.
Amen
I STABBED MY EYES OUT AND NOW I CANNOT SEE.... it’s so *unfair*
Sheryl _ u r gross
i shot a 22.lr into my head and now i'm dead, it's so unfair
Today in terrible analogies and false equivalencies
I don’t know how she can say she feels more like a woman than a genetic woman. Like honey, I don’t wanna be mean but you won’t ever experience all the pain women have to go through to have kids and believe it or not, there are women out there who CANT have kids and they’re born that way. I can understand your frustration cause any women who wants to have kids would be heartbroken in that situation, but there are naturally born women all around the world that can’t have children either. I don’t wanna be mean or disregard your frustrations, but I don’t think you should put your life and struggles above those of biological women and act like none of us can relate cause your trans and we haven’t experienced some of the stuff you have. Like girl, take multiple seats
There is NO such thing as a "genetic woman." It is almost a slur to call women, adult human females, "genetic women." There s only one type of woman. A crossdressing male or a transvestite is not a woman of any kind.
Amelie Agron that last line tho 👏🏻 👏🏻
@@tonysam1955
Just say you are a huge Transphobe.
Exactly
Ye but trans woman surfer more
Gwwwwooorrrrrrllllll!!!! Make that appointment! Legit absolute worst case scenario is that you'll find out you have a low sperm count and will have to stop taking hormones for a few months in order to get your count up. Yes it'll be rough and hard, but the pay off of being able to have the biological kids you want with Nats will 500000000% make up for it. You're amazing and don't ever doubt your womanhood! Soooo many women can't have kids despite having all the "right parts" so don't even worry about that.
It's actually not that simple. The worst case scenario is that she's sterile. It just not stop taking hormones for a few months and be fine. She could actually be sterile now. I think is really surprising that she wasn't told that before she went on hormones. From what I have heard it common to ask people if they want to freeze their sperm before starting on hormones because it highly likely they will become sterile after a while.
@@kristinehansen. This is correct. MtF are usually advised to freeze their sperm pre-transition. If Gigi is "sterile"/azoospermic at this point, the doctors might have to perform testicular aspiration/extraction to check if there are still good sperm cells in the testicular tissue. Pretty uncomfortable to talk about, but that's basically how it works.
Papa Dinero please don't encourage being transphobic
Papa Dinero if it makes you feel any better, odds are she wouldn’t be able to.
@@Lexi-zi5wc -phobic implies fear of something. It's more like disgust and revulsion.
"What's between your legs is your business."
That's right. What's between your legs is YOUR business, Gigi. You don't have to tell us ANYTHING you don't want to. It's not lying if you don't tell us you have had gender confirmation surgery; it's you keep your business private.
Thank you for posting this! I think this is a fantastic encouragement.
Regarding you being afraid: that's OK. Please give yourself grace and space. Having kids is a huge decision.
The most cringe video of all time. The ignorance and why me. As a women I am offended
Agreed. These transgender "women" are honestly ruining true femininity.
Why did you people click on the video than? You knew she was going to open up, yet YOU claim to be "offended". Yea. It must be so hard for you. 😂
Snow Angel it’s the 21st goddamn Century and people are still fighting about being gay or lesbian or transgender and bisexual. Like give it rest. As years go by it’s not going to stop. So just give up already, your hate won’t stop every person in the world for being who they are. And the hate people say to gays, lesbians, bisexuals and everyone absolutely disgusts me. So for once in your god damn life let people be who they want to be.
@The TH-cam Police are't
Natalie MSP we can still say our opinion tho u dont need to be butt hurt
This video reeks of entitlement, lack of education, insensitivity, and delusion.
Catherin Hagerman exactly what I was thinking. Maybe it’s just her age.
Entitlement, lack of education, insensitivity and delusion? You must be new to this channel.
And yet you give no examples to back your statement up?
@@mariabellecio oooh Burn!
Maria Ciovacco right! I was waiting 💀💀💀
I can’t. You should delete this video. You sound super entitled to being able to have a child. There’s plenty of kids that need to be adopted, take that route. Lots of us can’t have kids WITH the parts so imagine that feeling.
Kristal C True.
I wouldn't know however some people want so strongly to have baby of their own blood. It's nothing against adoption, but its just what some people prefer and desire. You can't tell her what route to take, because she has a choice as a women.
I have it worse then you literally helps no one. Great you feel like she could be worse that doesn't change how she feels.
Sunny de Laney Why you watching this video then so you can spread hate and negativity? This is what’s wrong with people like you so judgmental, I am completely fine with your views and your opinions you have the right to have them. However you have no right to state them in a nasty demeanor. The fact that you came to this video to spread hate is absolutely disgusting.
Yeah i don’t agree with all that at all. It was more about her tone nothing about who she is i strongly support lgbtq just so everyone knows
When MOTHER nature slaps you hard with the reality.
Exactly. You can't fool mother nature, she ain't stupid.
Lmfao
*_mOtHeR_*
Hehehe
Or God.
Not all women can get pregnant and that doesn’t make them any less of a women period
Yet they still have xx chromosomes and a uterus, and a real vag, has a monthly cycle, has an egg that can be fertilized. Doesn’t need pills and shots to sound feminine. And are actually real women.
no but the capability is what makes a woman a woman
in other words having xx chromosomes. I understand not everyone is born having healthy ovaries etc.
@@alejandroc7357 Exactly
But they have ovaries and a uterus
No but those woman are biologically female and unless there's a medical issue with their reproductive organs, they have what's necessary to get pregnant. Someone who was born a biological male never had any sort of shot at getting pregnant.
DO A SERIES WITH SHANE!!! WE WOULD LOVE TO SEE THAT
Dimitriy20 YES YES YES YES YES YES
I was about to comment this. She shoulda done this video with Shane, imo
I thought the same thing
Yasssssss
I would honestly pass away if this became reality.
I missed those days when logical thinking was appreciated
Me too, victor... Me too
Rappers don't use logical thinking so yeah
Right! When it wasn't offensive to critically think!
*_Yes, I do too_*
I do too, miss those days.
Honest inquiry. You couldn't even look after a dog, what makes you think a child will be any easier? Maybe your life is different off camera, but the way you present yourself online and past actions make me question whether or not you have the emotional and/or physical capacity to deal with a HUMAN. Wouldn't want to see you give up on this one halfway through as well.
AMEN
Right
i feel like you tried to demonize the doctor who saw you but IMO she was just acting professional
@@shatteredhands5964 i would disagree, just because you happen to have dysphoria or dysimorphia or any other mental illness that taints the light with which you view yourself under, doesnt mean that you have the right to act out on other people. She is upset, that is understandable, but that does not justify the disrespect.
@@jennifercheck7430 hold on while I look for when I was being being disrespectful it's my opinion considering since it's coming from the eyes of another trans person thanks sis
I think she was clear that her discomfort was self inflicted and situational. She wasn't blaming the doctor at all, imo.
@Yabadabonboo I never said she blamed the Dr bruh
@@shatteredhands5964 i wasn't referring to you. I was disagreeing with the point you made about the girl.
Based off of her terminology it’s seems she is not emotionally mature enough to even have a baby right now.
“Freezing eggs are gross”
You used to produce sperm and didn’t know what it was or what?
She said Nat felt that way. When did Gigi say she felt like that??
She still produces sperm. That comment you mentioned was Nat's....because Nat produces eggs. Which Gigi doesn't, yet.
@A N C sorry, poor wording. I meant to reference transition, not that. My b. Gigi hasn't transitioned yet and doesn't believe that she can somehow get pregnant, even after that, was my point.
Leigh Beers Gigi will never produce eggs. Females are born with their eggs at birth.
@@Prettymapleleaf girl I already addressed that ^^^
You’re a loving daughter, a caring sister, and one of the most beautiful souls I’ve ever encountered. You’re going to make an AMAZING mother Gigi. I’m so proud of you for sharing this. ❤️
You. Are. Resilient.
What the doctor said wasn't something you should be offended by, she was telling you what you needed to know and what to expect- some trans people need to calm down sometimes.
this person should be offended cuz then it has smthn to brag about ONLINE and get more views and more ATTENTION cuz this is all this person wants
100% of the Transgender content = Unnecessary and stupid :D
Gigi, you should go to therapy and not here in your channel. You need counseling, not approval.What I saw in this vid was a lot of confusion and suffering! And I felt for you. :(
cant stop looking at her neck where the orange fades away 😅
Ghost 😂 now that yu pointed it out... thats all i see
But what was the point of pointing it out? Rude much
it's the lighting, it looked fine when she shifted for a sec.
Don’t think this is the video to comment stuff like that on, this is a serious video and it’s obviously hard for her to talk about and I’m sure comments like this don’t help 🙄 do manners even exist anymore?!?!
uhhhh, aight?
You feel more like a woman than a woman?? That line made no sense.
None of it does. Crossdressers pretending to be the opposite sex are mired in delusion.
I am 100% positive that Gigi has not gone through most if not any of the struggles that biological women go through being women...yet she’s more of a woman? Lol okay.
Lol it’s like Rachel Dolezal saying she feels more like a black persons than black people
just like all "transwomen"
Cuz she's in the process of freezing her SPERM!!!!!! Thats how much of a woman she is
Just because somebody cannot conceive, doesn't make them less of a woman...
He doesn't have the equipment to conceive in the first place, but he can get a woman pregnant, at least in theory.
Susan Nunes she
@@frankierodriguez4447 Wow, you sound super devout. Calling someone a "thing". If anyone's damned to hell, it's you. Disgusting transphobic creep.
"That gives you a babushka"? Why would you want it to give you a grandma?
Potato Factory 🤣🤣
Right 😂😂😂
Lmaoooo IKR
I was looking for this comment
I thought it was a bonnet
If I'm going to be totally honest here, I think you, and other trans people, like the idea of being a woman, not actually being a woman. There's more to us than having babies, a period, and wearing cute outfits. You seem too young anyway.
Spongebob, there's more to tans people than that too, trans people can't fully understand what it's like to be cis people and vice versa, I think everyone on this planet needs to learn a little perspective
@Spongebob AMEN!
Okay let's not mix things up here... There are MANY trans woman out there who aren't vapid, obsessed with looking pretty and having cute outfits. There are MANY trans woman who understand that women are not just periods, baby makes, and the rest of the misogynistic views that men have tagged us with. You are emphasizing this being a trans trait when actually this is more of a "Hollywood" and wanting to be "Famous" trait. You can't take these people like Gigi or Caitlyn Jenner or the majority of trans woman on TH-cam wanting fame and put them as what all TRANS woman are like...Because there are a lot of us who don't follow this awful stereotype that people like you seem to have pinned against us, to bring the good ones down along with the bad.
*Don't get it twisted because there are trans woman out there putting in work and being a strong powerhouse for WOMEN!!!*
Amanda Simpson - is Vice-President for Research and Technology at Airbus Americas and was the former Deputy Assistant Secretary of Defense for Operational Energy. Operational Energy is the energy required for training, moving, and sustaining military forces and weapons platforms for military operations. First openly transgender woman U.S. Presidential appointee...
Victoria Kolakowski - is an American lawyer, and, since January 2011, judge of the Alameda County Superior Court. Kolakowski is the first openly transgender person to serve as a trial court judge of general jurisdiction in the United States, the first elected to a judgeship, and the first to serve as any type of judge in California. She has won many awards from being a successful hard working woman since the 90's!!
Andrea Jenkins - is an American policy aide, politician, writer, performance artist, poet, and transgender activist. She is known for being the first African-American openly transgender woman elected to public office in the United States, serving since January 2018 on the Minneapolis City Council. This woman returned to college to finish her bachelor's degree from Metropolitan State University, which she followed by earning two master's degrees-an MFA in creative writing from Hamline University and an MS in community economic development from Southern New Hampshire University. All during the 90's as well.
Please do some ACTUAL research and studies on the history of transgender individuals. Don't just blindly follow and assume what is more prevalent on social media to be true for all. Stop spreading this awful narrative that gives trans women like me a harder time, who are just trying to live a normal life and be successful enough to do some good in this world...
SissySchoolGirl I never said all trans women. Its just that a lot of them come across that way. There was a trans woman on youtube who said her period was 4 months long, it "made her feel more feminine." How are you going to have a (nonexistent) menstrual cycle, and you don't understand how it works?? 💀
yep. autogynophilia
I am sorry you saying "I feel as much if not more so than a genetic woman," is so far from the truth. Genetic women are women period. You are genetically speaking a male, but you identify as a woman, therefore you are a trans-gendered female, so do not say that you are more woman than a born woman because that is simply not true! And as far as the pregnancy thing goes even though you can't get pregnant physically you can get your fiance pregnant since you still have all your plumbing.
Edith Del Carmen thank you for saying this 💯💯💯💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Edith Del Carmen you SNAPPED ❤️💯🗣
Thank you!
I don't think that she is trying in any way to undermine us "biological women": we are lucky to identify ourselves with the biological sex we were born with. What I think she is trying to convey is that she feels a woman, her brain knows that she is one (not to be too nerdy but try and look at "gender dysphoria" for a better explanation of the concept) and yet she is denied a (very important) feature that females in nature possess, that is the ability of conceiving and giving birth. She is saying that, like many biological women, she is dealing with infertility, since she wants to get pregnant and give birth herself and she knows that at this moment and time in history this is just not possible: try and imagine the frustration of wanting something so badly and not even have the basic means to achieve it. An infertile woman might have viable eggs or a viable uterus, thus opening the possibility (for some, not all) of surrogacy or eggs donation: she has neither, so she really is feeling the impossibility of it all and it must be maddening.
I was born a woman and still identify as such. But I would never say that Gigi or anyone else who is transgender (M to F) is any less of a woman. This video wasn't a scripted one, I don't think- so I'm sure she didn't mean that she's "More of a woman than a born female"....I think she meant it as she felt more like a woman than she expected- that she fully knows she was always meant to be a woman. I mean think about it, we are born into these bodies and just take it for granted. We know we're born as females but we might not know what it truly means until we grow up. As for giving birth-- I think she said how she tried with her fiance to get pregnant and it wasn't working. So they're going to a clinic to try to see what the issue is and maybe they'll do a surrogate birth mother with their egg/sperm.
Well. Get over it. Adopt a child, there are so many out there who need loving homes. Stop thinking about what isn't possible, and focus on what is.
Exactly!
Amen
Yup, a child doesn't need to be your flesh and blood to be yours!
there are hundreds of children all over the world desperate for a home, the fact she cant produce one is difficult of course but she needs to be realistic and be thankful she is living in a country that excepts her for who she is and that she has rights in. the fact that people in the lgbt community can have/adopt children is only really a fairly modern concept within law as with unmarried people so things are as best as they are going to be for the foreseeable future in that field. in regards to the whole her producing an actual child in her own womb etc. I think that is wrong. hormones can be harmful to fetus and can cause all sorts of problems, plus the most likely thing is that her body may reject the womb. In recent science there has been womb transplants done with successful pregnancies but I believe that there is a fine line to how far you can go. there is also the fact that going through reassignment already is traumatising and painful, there is months to years of recovery, and she wants to mess that up by birthing? like really?
This comment wins!
So I approached this vid with an open mind... I'm old and of a generation that didn't talk about gender being fluid etc. I'm confused as to why you say you have been "trying" with your cis partners cycle, yet find it so difficult to talk about sperm! You have an active intimate relationship and by your own admission, have penetrative sex. I can only assume pregnancy isn't happening either quick enough or at a convenient time for you both, hence the clinic visit. Well, this old gal has to jump in and say that life doesn't always stick to a schedule and pregnancy can either happen on the first go, take years or never happen at all.
My last issue is with you saying at the end you want a bio child so you can "look into their blue eyes and at their blonde hair"....again, mother nature doesn't abide by your rules. I have green eyes and my partner has piercing blue eyes yet all three of our bio kids have dark brown eyes...a throwback to a previous generation! Will you be disappointed if your child isn't a 'mini me' with your features?
I'm loathe to say this, as I'm still learning a lot about trans issues and gender issues...but maybe you need counselling first with someone familiar with trans issues because you come across as slightly naive when it comes to having children. It does sound like you see them as a validation of your acquired femininity and an accessory. Apologies if I'm wrong and I sincerely wish you the best life you can live.
[R]
No , it sometimes at some cases happen cuz maybe someone in one of the partners family have dark eyes , and there many Reason.
@[R] me and my husband are both brown eyed but our daughter has blue eyes,there are many nuances to all of it than what you say
This is a very good comment,,,quite agree with all that you're saying
YESSSS
👍
You are "more hurt about not being able to get pregnant than a genetic woman who has difficulty conceiving"?
Its not a competition... And why have you devalued his feelings because he isnt a woman? Thats misandry right there.
stop referring to a trans woman as he
@@vmm100 stop trying to force people to live an altered reality.
First, you used the wrong pronoun. Then, you devalued the feelings of cis-women who may have trouble conceiving or are infertile. It's not a competition. Different kinds of people can share the same feelings, even if they're for different reasons, for fuck's sake.
Arranit Malushaj For starters we're not cis-women. We're women point, blank period.
thank you for sharing about not having your GRS/SRS. trans girls on youtube never speak about it & you’re very brave. i love you so much gigi you’ve inspired me to come out as trans💜
Ikr?
So I fully understand where you're coming from feeling like a woman and having a baby will help this but please also remember having a baby is actually about bring a little human into the world not just making us more like a woman. A lot of women are unable to have children doesn't make them less like a woman.
Also it's about loving the skin and body your in . I believe you need to work on loving yourself a lot more and not have this mind set that having a child is going to make you feel better.
There's a lot of personal growth that needs to happen
GOD BLESS YOU ALL WHO READ THIS
This was very raw and honest. You would probably have to stop estrogen for a while, and let your testosterone count come back up. I transitioned 28 years ago, and not having the ability to carry a child caused me depression for several years. I was very aware that I couldn’t, but when you meet someone you love, it triggers those emotions. Best of luck to the two of you. 😘
"I don't have those working parts that give you a babushka." You don't have the parts to make a Russian Grandmother, I know this is a serious video but I thought it was funny.
the only thing i can focus on is your foundation not matching your chest.
Raquel Madison Byrne Right ??? Doesn’t even match the hands like what
Its so like unsatisfying and it kept bothering me 🤣
*She's orange !*
Mykee lol same haha opps
Just saw it omg😬😬
Is it called sperm? Like you didn't know that's what it's called come on
After watching this video Gigi needs a psychiatrist like 10 years ago. Smh
Right on! I feel like she actually thought that the scientific term is “little floaters! Those little guys” 🤦🏻♀️
Let's see....
You were a diver... 10 meters, right?
You went to school made up
You did make-up tutorials (which is how I found you)
You moved to LA from Canada
You changed genders and your name.
You realized that you were actually a lesbian.
I feel like you're strong enough to handle this.
Best comment! x
This comment though
@@littlespacecadet5141 I'm old. Please translate?
@@AntVegas Thank you, Ant. Just speaking from the heart.
Comment section is better than the video.
It generally is. I mean, that content...
Black White I wasn’t even listening to her I just went str8 to the comments and stayed there 🤣
@@CeliaMaj same
except for some of the replies
@@CeliaMaj same lol
Gigi I've watched you for years, and even if I'm proud of your transition and your journey I have to say I really don't think you have quite grasped what being a woman really is. You have the most one dimensional and stereotypical idea of what makes you a woman, it's kinda sad. Being not fertile or not able to have kids doesn't make one less of a woman. That goes for both trans and cis women. The reality is you were born a male and under no circumstances will you ever be able to get birth, and you've always known that. You're a trans woman and should be proud, and not try to do things just to prove to people how much of a female you are. That's where you go wrong. Be yourself, not the woman stereotype you think people need to see.
Exactly...I hate when people say "but there are cis-women who cant have children" so what? Whats ur point?
Unfortunately trans women will never be an actual woman. Being a woman isnt a feeling. Transgender is a complex topic and I understand why the LGB community still havent accepted it completely.
But as long as they r happy thats all that matters really.
youve watched this thing for years ?! OMG i feel so sorry for you i am going to save you from those guys who make you watch em ... oh wait .. i wont
AcTiv Goku stop being a troll
I think this is more of what being a women means personally to her, not to all women
Yes!! Best comment here!
Gigi, you may be a trans woman, but you will never be able to understand what biological women go through unless you are one. It's as simple as that. I lost my last ounce of sympathy when you claimed you feel like more of a woman than cis women do. Get a grip. This video is apathetic, insensitive, and honestly downright offensive.
y’all do realize hormones literally put you through like a reverse puberty and a forward female puberty right?
she meant it more in a sense that she feels more of a need to connect to her gender/her gender is a very central part of her life. she might not physically experience the same things as a cis woman but she still goes through the same things socially and worse because on top of that she has to deal with transphobia
Totally agree, not just about looking, speaking and acting feminine. Or which genitalia you have.. so much more she can never ever understand
And you will never understand what being a trans woman is. Your point? Both of you are women. Cis woman and trans woman.
Oh Gigi, thank you for being honest. You don’t owe us an explanation, but thank you so much for being an honest open book to help those out there who don’t have the resources to find information like this.
As someone who is trans, I feel like this is so important to hear..
My only issue, is being descendant Russian, I have this unyielding urge to let you know that babushka means Grandma/old woman.. Not baby.
I thought it meant grandpa whoops
Lolol "I don't have a uterus or the working parts that will give me a grandma"
I think she meant the Matreshka dolls, you know, the ones that have multiple dolls inside
yesss I was thinking the same thing that means grandma. I love and study Russian culture and language
Honey.. Why Ouija Board on profile picture..?
How could you ever say that you feel like more of a woman than a biological woman? That’s literally not possible if you actually think about it!
Maybe because she didn't say that. People on TH-cam certainly have a pack mentality. They see others criticizing about something that isn't even fact and they have to jump in.
Creata Ann 3:08
She definitely did say that. I'm not going to say that Gigi isn't a woman, because she is. But this is extremely offensive to both the women who don't think that having a child is what being woman is about, and to the women who are infertile or otherwise unable to conceive.
And we must agree with her incoherent babbling, because the social justice warriors will burn crosses on our front lawn, if we don't.
wait
100% of the Transgender content = Unnecessary and stupid :D
Seriously....you go into a fertility clinic and tell the doctor absolutely nothing about your situation and are surprised and embarrassed that she gave you information that didn't apply to you? Come on now...
Listen Gigi, I’m 35 and can’t have kids because I carry a genetic mutation that could cause my babies to be severely disabled. ALL THE TIME -other women especially- ask me constantly about kids and act like I’m not a complete woman because i don’t have babies. It makes me feel so inadequate! So thank you for sharing I really freaking vibed with what you were saying about how you felt and feeling awkward. ❤️💚🌈
Shannon Smith I'm sorry :( have you considered foster care or adopting.
Shannon Smith nobody thinks a woman is incomplete for not be able to get pregnant those days, a lot of woman don’t want to be a mom and is nobody problem, actually I get a lot of compliment about my decision, so I don’t believe in your story. Sorry
Well what can I say, you're a complete woman no matter what 🌷
Shannon Smith you could have kids that are perfectly normal they have extra precautions you can take to minimize the chances of birth defects but I understand why you wouldn’t wanna risk it
Ana Isabel Zepeda How rude can you be? You don’t believe her story? Well, you’re entitled to your opinion, but come on. This person has clearly told a story that is close to her heart, and you think you have a right to tell her she’s lying? Where do you get off?
If Nat doesn’t want to be pregnant then they should just use Nat’s eggs for a surrogate, so they’d be able to be apart of the pregnancy instead of adopting
i prefer this type of vulnerability, open and honest Gigi letting us in...than the other videos where you don't seem like you're being authentic and they just are more shallow.. thanks for sharing and i'm wishing you the best... i think you should go through with it and think positive. looking forward to you continuing to share this journey with us. take care - p.s. i hadn't been watching any of your videos for a while, but this made me click.
hearing a biological male whine about not being able to have a baby.... ..
Reading a 60 year old woman be so stupid and closed minded is painful. Stop spreading hate.
I so totally agreed!👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
@@maxhorras550 Stating facts isn't stupid or hateful. Stop spreading lies.
Livmorgansbiggestfan how exactly was that hate? Since when did biology equal hatred?
@@maxhorras550 ...Hate? Please have a seat! This is what trans women like Blare fight against! It makes "some" sound very unintelligent and unstable. It's ok to do what makes you happy; but one must consider the biological body when planning for a child! The doctor couldn't treat her as a woman with a uterus; it's not hateful to be intelligent, honest and realistic. My transgender friend is intelligent, secure and understands biology! If someone disagrees, then they're labeled as phobic or problematic to strategically censor others. She's a beautiful trans woman; moroever, she can have the family she wants, but not similar to a biological woman. Just a fact!!! I love Blaire and my good friend who positively represent the community. An opinion isn't hateful, and we all have rights! Period. ♥️♥️♥️
I wasn't living for her current content but this is the Gigi I love! Keep being open, real and funny :) P.S. I think the girl she's refering to in the beginning is Colleen Ballinger
Could be Trisha
Or Desi
Or Channing rose
Im pretty sure it’sDesi Perkins
Or Dulce Candy.
Babushka is grandma in Russian. Not baby..
THANK YOU lol. I noticed that too.
Lol
She also pronounced wrong too
that throw me off too LOL
Good, i was questioning my knowledge for a second
I haven't visited this channel in a while. You look and sound so different.
She really has evolved, wow...
Romina Constenla has
Same
@@InshasChoice evolved is a terrible choice of words
@@shira2151 what's a better choice?
The comments are more interesting and important that the actual VIDEO🤯
Ikr
*MUCH* more important!!
I was born female and I don't think being pregnant means you are your most feminine. I feel my most feminine everyday simply because I'm female.
Feels bad for all the women being typecast by having breasts, makeup, and long hair to be what makes someone womanly. If you're flat chested, look boyish, and have no curves then I guess you're screwed.
Was that supposed to be helpful or what
There plenty of kids out there who are desperate for a home and a family? Why not adopt?
But she's not female that's why
@@NiamhAllStar21 LMAOOO
i love the realness and transparency in this. I feel like a lot of her other videos are just superficial and not super personal and this is very refreshing
so basically you're saying women who can't have kids aren't "women" , umm that's offensive you don't have to be able to give birth to be a women 🤦🏽♀️💔
actually it's kinda true, if you look up the definition of women, you need to be able to get pregnant to be a woman.
Mark V. Brooks definitely not true at all lmao what is this, like she said you don’t have to have kids to be considered to be a women
@@markv.brooks3035 YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE ABLE TO BE ABLE TO HAVE KIDS TO BE A WOMAN. What kind of made up crap is this. This world is so pathetic. Cut the crap and get some common sense. If your DNA proves you are a woman then you are a woman.
@@markv.brooks3035 I swear trans women try to bring down women to "FEEL" more of a woman. Pathetic.
@@markv.brooks3035 there are women that are not trans and they can't have kids, your point?
you can’t “feel like a women”. being a women isn’t a feeling.
ikr
Bruh learn to spell
Scientifically, you are right. But trans people’s simply feel happier and more authentic once they are the right gender for them. I can’t explain this in detail as I aren’t trans myself... But just listen to the inspirational humans okay?
Onion boi woman *. i know how to spell. it was a small mistake.
Onion boi i have nothing against trans people. i’m fully supportive of LGBTQ+ community. i know it’s something more than a “feeling”. i just didn’t agree with that statement of “feeling like a woman”.
Did the doctor who originally started your HRT not inform you that the risk of permanent sterility is EXTREMELY high? If not, that is terrible.
They never say that to trans people, its sick. Specially when they do it with kids
But if she didn't know it would make her sterile, she wouldn't have known to store the sperm to begin with.
Honestly, I think it's sick to let a teenager decide whether or not they will ever want kids.
@@Uhohzwugfszju she should do more research. She was changing her body permanently. She holds equal responsibility
A mother is a woman who raises and loves her child, and Gigi you will make a wonderful, loving mother. Pregnancy and infertility haunts every woman in different ways, so glad you shared. 💕
Emme Chatterton she’s trans. She wasn’t born a woman, so obviously she’s gonna have problems having a child (depending how she’s gonna do it)
💗💗💗
I feel like you see a child as an accessory
@kath david why dont you explore the other side of the coin, the research out there that actually shows that transwomen are no less a woman than any other woman. If you seek out research that only validates your own viewpoint, how do you really know youre right?
@@amberbrown7916 other side of coin?. Its either head or tail.
Amber Brown because it’s just unnatural. Period.
@@sarahsmith1901 your birth was an abortion failure lmfao
@@LiLKK123451 but don't make fun of abortion
The fact that she hasnt gotten sex reassignment shouldnt change anything. It actually makes me respect her more because shes living a transgender life without rushing into surgery which a lot of people do. Shes happy with an amazing relationship. I hope everything goes well Gigi I myself even though im a cis gender female worry about pregnancy and the chances of me having kids since theirs been fertility issues on one side of my family.
she has not do sr surgery?
I’m not entirely sure that’s a fact.
except for the fact she pretended she did have sex reassignment surgery for years.. like when she did the room tour and she had tampons in her bedroom toilet and she filmed it and pretended she uses it. lol
Skeleton she has a gf
that wouldve been a joke anyways, transgender women dont get their period after reassignment surgery so...
gigi is fighting to stay relevant
ZyZy S she really is
Sad, but true.
Jeffree Star organically tried to be transparent and became relatable to all who share this human experience.
Now it's on trend.
Where is the Shane and GiGi documentary?! ❤️
Lynn370 YESSSS
yes! i’ve been hoping he’d do it with her since the day the Jeffery documentary ended!
Lynn370 jeffree star is true and real.. Shane i wouldnt think he would do one with gigi
Lynn370 i live for this
I liiiiiiive for a Gigi reality show 😍
*Biology have joined the chat*
has
The truth finally instead of feelings
Facts dont care for your feelings
*Grammar has left the chat*
@@yoanceecuber5261 exactly
You know there are women with the BIOLOGICAL parts who can’t conceive children, does that make them less ‘feminine’ or less of a ‘real/true woman’?
Because I may fall into that category i don’t know what to say on this video. All I’m gonna say is I hope your happy in life and get where you want to go and I’m sure you meant those words regarding yourself however you need to word stuff like that better because you’re gonna end up hurting a lot of people. X
@adthompson127 she never explicitly said it but it's inferred.
THANK YOU
Some twisted idea of what a woman is, it's almost like you're perpetuating same old straight men's stereotypes of what a woman role is. You will never know.
TK01 I know makeup, big boobs, hot body, baby maker. Kinda sad.
TK01 that is so true
Couldn't have said it better myself, exactly
Or perhaps she feels obligated to conform to them herself for various reasons? Like... why exactly will she "never know"? What makes a woman a woman? Be careful to avoid old straight men's stereotypes in your answer.
@@ramywiles What makes a woman, is having reproductive organs, for fertilization and development,. Also for nurturing a newborn.
Had Gigi had these, we would not be watching this brain dead video.
Facts matter; irrelevant and redundant opinions do not. Just facts.
You have some pretty twisted ideas about femininity, womanhood and most of all pregnancy if you think you "feel and look the most feminine" when you are pregnant. Sounds like a breeder fetish but okay.
breeder fetish! so true, that's what he has
Catalina W. You could have at the very least used the correct pronouns. She identifies as a woman so please use she/her when you talk about her.
Well pregnancy is a sign of femininity, like it or not. Its perfectly fine if you dont want it, doesnt make you less of a woman. However not being able to be pregnant makes woman think less of themselves and less feminine, its not a political thing its just how it is, its a survival instinct. So just stop giving her crap for feeling this way, its not even a political video.
She's trans- give her a break. Kinda rude acting like she's horrible and toxic when she's done nothing wrong...
“Breeder fetish”
moth·er
(verb) 1. bring up (a child) with care and affection.
I understand that this video is about pregnancy, but the ability to get pregnant does not make a woman a mother. Experiencing pregnancy complications does not make you less of a women
No giving birth makes you a mother
Exactly!
i haven’t watched gigi in two years and this video was on my recommended and now after watching it i understand why