How to Change Your Life
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ต.ค. 2024
- Hi!! I'm so excited to have a channel dedicated just to advice videos. Can't thank you all enough for inspiring me to share this type of content with you. I often talk about these types of topics on my Snapchat and Facebook too, so feel free to follow along. If there's anything you'd like to see, let me know =) Lots of love. xoxo
A whole bunch of stuff I referenced in the video:
✦ Mala bead bracelets (I need a new one!): www.malasbyemma... or her Instagram: / malasbyemma
✦ The Five Minute Journal: bit.ly/1SPnAKZ
✦ The two meditation apps I mentioned: Headspace is the one Alex Ikonn uses. Buddify is the one I use and the app I showed in the video.
✦ Did I forget something? Let me know! =)
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"Stop describing yourself as a shy person, for God sake." lmao I love how you keep it real :)
Oh God yes. I was shy, always afraid what people will think. Little thing--remembering names. I was so embarrassed I forgot someone's name, I would get so stressed. Until I just stopped, someone tells me their name and I just jokingly say "I'm so bad with names I'll forget it in 5 seconds". Honestly, idk what I expected but a lot of people just smile and say they're the same. I started being more honest since, because we're all people.
You literally make me cry every time with these types of videos. I'm really trying to turn my life around and you make me feel safe like everything is gonna be ok haha
+kaleidoscopicmind5 And remember that we're all here because we are trying to turn our lives around.. It can be so daunting, but you're not alone in this community :D X
kaleidoscopicmind5 we all in the same boat love🙋🙋
Lol same!!!
Do you ever read a comment like this and wonder what happened to the person--did they change, what did they change?
@@valesth4903 have you changed? My boyfriend just broke up with me. I have attachment issues and just pushed him away. I dont know if i loved him or needed him. I wanna have control over my life. Id love to hear how far youve come :).
You nailed it. I'm a lawyer with a huge loan that matures when I am 62. I am miserable in my career b/c how i perceived it is not what it is. I am now inspiring others to carve your own path in life, look things up, research better living, higher consciousness, emotional control and recreate yourself starting with loving yourself. I'm happier today because of it.
That's sad. Did u have some financial advisors?
my mom says that when something of meaning breaks it had fulfilled it's purpose and you have reached a new stage in your personal growth. Maybe the bracelet breaking symbolises that you have reached a new stage in your growth with patience. 😊 Love your videos they're showing me a new perspective I have a tendency to stay in toxic relationships because I can see how much they're hurting and I want to help but them I end up getting hurt. I'm going to start focusing on my happiness so thank you.
Me also ,, going to focus on my happiness, thank you for the positivity 🏝️
I wish she would do more of this now. She’s been really helpful on what I’ve been going through.
She’s on ig, same username- she’s really active on there
I'm in love with your thought process. The way you break things down and sort them out is inspiring. It's very refreshing to listen to a genuine soul.
holy shit the realest video I've ever seen hands down!!!! you remind me so much of the person I use to be before I got into an abusive relationship. and holy fuck did you just whip my butt back into my independent self. I've forgotten so much in the 1 year I was broken down into almost nothing. thank you so much!!!
Why doesnt she upload anymore
Idk
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I am usually very impatient and want TH-camrs to get to the point. I just watched your April's favorites videos and this one, the best 45 minutes spent. Every second is knowledge. Thank you.
Nur! I got SO excited when I saw that you posted this. I absolutely love your advice videos and can't wait to see where this channel goes. Thanks for sharing your wisdom and encouragement. This video was a really great push in the right direction for me!!
+Drew Tabor DREW!!!!! My favorite little songbird!! Thank you for the support, I appreciate it!!
I see you becoming the Oprah of youtube 💕 Thank you for this amazing video
I'm listening to Nur in 2019! Nur I hope you'll come back, you and your video's are amazing!❤
Nur, you are very...VERY good at articulating your thoughts/ideas and transferring your knowledge through the TH-cam platform, and I encourage you to keep doing these videos. I think you are meant to be a teacher so please make more videos about life and love and fear, and everything that is our shared humanness. #LoveAndPeaceToYou
Nur, seriously just hearing you talk about your thoughts is what I'd wanna hear as far as content. i wish you would make more videos, just about anything you feel like talking about. i know that you are very thoughtful and you have 2high expectations for yourself when you put things out, but i think just listening to you is really relaxing and thought provoking. i listen to your videos like a podcast or an audio book, i just wish there were more! someone said you were the oprah of youtube...i agree. youre awesome!
Hey pretty lady thanks for your video! As a girl working on her PhD in earth science I wanted to add that learning about the periodic table, and the origin of elements that compose the universe, brought me great peace and sense of connection to all that exists when I was a sad lost fawn in high school. Peace and love to you and yours 💕
These videos seriously speak to me..I feel like your channel is what I've been searching for. Please don't stop making videos!!
So glad you are doing advice videos, you do the best ones.. now a channel for one, so dope!
I say Nur for president!!!!! Your videos are amazing doll ... Thanks for being you and being diff than what's out there ...
Maybe sharing your tips for beating procrastination. I know sometimes i have trouble getting motivated. I say "10 more minutes then ill go to bed"... well then i found your video. 20 minutes long. Completely worth it, but you see my dilema! I do this type of thing all the time where I give myself a time limit then when its that time, I completely ignored it like "oops oh well". OOOH or tips for maintaining motivation for school? Sometimes i get discouraged but i have just been taking it day by day and doing the best I can with some improvements, but sometimes i slip up and get lazy :( I know the motivation to get things done comes from within myself though, sometimes it just hides from me lol. I guess that's a part of growing up and turning from a teenager into an adult.
I can listen to you talk all day every day. Definitely buying "The Happiness Advantage" not now, but right now. ❤
OMG This video inspired me so much! Please make more advice videos, especially on this channel :) Lots of love your way, Nur!
Come Back! Your Videos Are Amazing ❤️
what I loved about this is that you pointed out that we shouldn't buy into the delusion that everyone is wrong and we're right, it's important to teach on both sides. thank you
Understanding how your environment affects yourself and being really honest about what you want really makes change easier. Thanks so much for sharing!
This almost brought me to tears because it was EXACTLY what I needed to hear right now. Literally, the answer or sign I needed in this moment. ❣ I can't wait for the next video! Love, love, love!
I love your style of advice girl! So amazing! I couldn't agree more your statement on not playing the victim card all the time. While listening and reading advice, I always think about those who never take a look into their own ways and only attack others. Hearing you address how we need to also take ownership was so refreshing! I hope this channel reaches a lot of people :)
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Your courageousness is the most beautiful thing I have experienced. Everything connects and you helped to grow a seed of positivity and reality within my mind and heart. I cannot thank you enough for this. The last time I watched you video was few months ago about fake people and since then, you have taught me where to place my focus (on myself and my mental health) and have taught me what standards are and even better, how to uphold them. THANK YOU SO MUCH YOU BEAUTIFUL PERSON
You speak so fast but everything you say makes sense. I like the guided sleep meditations too. I have subscribed and look forward to hearing more from you x
You have changed my life with these videos. My mother recently passed away and I felt myself getting into a really dark place. Watching your videos has helped me to realise that by focusing my attention on positive thoughts, I can conquer anything. And that thought alone has really helped me 💕
Who else still listening in 2018❤🙌
Omonse mi duh
2019
Did she quit??? I'm shook, I just showed up!
2019!!
Lizzie Deerest I was wondering the same thing! I just found her and I hope she makes more videos.
YOURE SO CARING AND GENEROUS i love everything you stand for
I have been looking for you for ages 😭. I remember watching this video years ago and feeling like I could relate so much. I was typing in “neurology” 😅 I’m so glad I found you!
I'm really happy that you popped up in my recommendations. :) You've taught me many things that has made me feel higher than where I used to be. I finally now understand that even if my dreams lead to many depressing moments, its my job to pick myself back up because I know that I'm the only one that can change the things happening in my life, no others.
I love you Nur! you're the older sister I wish I had!! something u can discuss is maybe how to deal with the feeling of loneliness?
+Mina Mohamed I love you too!!! GREAT topic for a video!
Watching in 2020 and all your videos are still applicable to life and I seriously hope you come back to TH-cam. 🥺✨
When you are changing something you dont like about yourself, there will be many days that go really bad. The only thing i want to do after that is go to sleep or cry and there are still many things to do in the day but you cant focus at all. Some excersice to move on from those bad moments and focus on the rest of things you can do to improve.
This is a great advice video. I remember in my first semester of university, after encountering a lot of personal challenges, realising that I sucked at managing my emotions and that I was not emotionally mature. And I remember that I started to read and thinking about how to be "emotionally mature" and realising that not everybody did that, and wondering why nobody had talked to me or taught me about managing emotions. I think it's great you're putting it out there.
I thank YOU from the bottom of my heart for inspiring me and giving me hope, motivation and strenght to go through this rhough time. I appreciate you so much.
i love ur advice, im a young introverted sensitive girl myself, getting into the business world and your advice really helps.
YES!!! Sign me up for more Nurology videos!!!! I love meditating, affirmations and journal writing. What I have learned helps is, substituting my music during commuting hours with motivational/helpful videos or podcasts that I would never usually listen to. Even if it's a 10 minute ride to work, those small moments make BIG change in my day.
+curibe tvnews Absolutely!!! It's the small changes that create big results!
I love how genuine you are and actually care to see people around you succeed and do well for themselves in things that actually matter in life. This is why I love you and everything you do! Subscribed!!
This video has made my day. I cannot tell you how many times I've shared your videos with my friends, and quoted your Nur-isms to them. I am so so excited to start this journey with your channel and actively make changes in my life. I'm READY to take steps towards the life I want and deserve. Can't wait to talk to other followers and hear their tips and experience!
You are like fresh air. Looking forward to the content. I agree with you a lot in this video.
When something happens, even if it is just a little something but that resonates hard in my mind for a little while, I just write it on a random piece of paper... just a free piece of paper and I do a huge rant about how I feel and how I perceived the situation, how I perceive the people around me during the specific situation, whether it is about friendship, love, self-esteem, whatever it is, I rant for a good page and a half maybe two pages or until I don't have anything new to add or until the point where I feel better with everything out of my mind and on a paper. Then, I throw the paper out. I fold it up nicely and I throw it out. No one has to know about it, just me and the fact that it is out feels so great! But sometimes I will keep it and just put it in my drawer or near my diary, just somewhere where no one will see it except me at some point and that's the end of it!
This video is 4 years old yet it has impacted me so much! You probably wont see this but thank you ❤️
Yess!!! I follow you on snapchat, but it's still exciting to see your face on youtube again.
I have two presentations tomorrow, but I'll tell myself I can't watch this until I practice as motivation 💪
+ChapterStackss KATIE!! Haha, yes, priorities!! Good luck tomorrow! xoxo
Love that you're making this channel devoted to spreading your words of wisdom and positive energy. For me, silent affirmations, journaling and reading it back to myself and daydreaming about the event or type of characteristics I want to embody helps me along the self improvement process. Thanks, Nur! Love you.
I love this! I'm definitely one of those screenshot quotes and expect change type of person :/ my thing is, I wish I could be the person I was 8-10 years ago. The one who didn't give a crap about others opinions of me, loved people and being around them, enjoyed nature, being hopeful and positive about career and love, etc. Now, I hate everything. I know what triggered this and I'm sad every day that I let that affect me for this long. I just think, why me?
I feel exactly the same.... Remember you have the power to rediscover yourself
Jessica Hernandez same
aaaaaaand I love you! I have been binging on your videos lately and JUST found your Nurology channel!I just love how grounded you are. Sometimes it's refreshing to watch someone whose smile and personality are genuine for a change. xoxo
Haha, the feeling is mutual!! I LOVE your personality!!!!! I owe my first-born child to whoever introduced us on Twitter!! 😂💙
I always knew there was something special about you. I am excited for you to share it with the world. I can't wait.
+SidnacGlitz You are the best!! Thank you for always showing up. It means the world to me!!
Always! 😙
Where'd you go? I came across this and its so good! I see you haven't posted in 2 years. Your voice is so important. Please share more🙏
كتير بنبسط لما بشوف ناس عم تطور نفسها وبنفس الوقت انها عم تطور ناس تانية معها . قمة الرقي بالاخلاق . شكرا كتير عالنصايح الحلوة , وخليكي هيك
Omg please upload more videos I LOVE them!!!
"Maybe nothing I said will resonate with anyone..." Lol... Nur, you could tell me to go buy a pink leather jacket and I would listen. EVERYTHING resonates with us as viewers when you talk. 😘
I recently tried out for this dance team at school, and it broke my heart when they didn't call my #.. I felt like a complete failure, but then I came to the conclusion that if I just went to dance classes throughout the year, and improved , soon I would reach my personal goals! And this video mentioning , " I'm too weak" or " I'm not worthy", I don't want to live like that!! Time to put action, can't be patient on this one! Haha thanks Nur for your willingness to make these types of videos !
I agree with Nur. Growth is so important for us in terms of being better to each other, being better human beings, and ultimately, being better to ourselves.
I find as I get older and out of the know-it-all phase of teen/early adulthood, I am more introspective and do a lot of inner work as opposed to blaming external factors or others around me for the way my life is going. Life becomes so much more fulfilling when you put genuine interest into the things and people around you. And when you are in touch with yourself and honest with yourself, you can cultivate and nurture the relationships you wish to have, the life you want to lead, and the things that fill you up and make you whole (and happy).
I am so excited for Nurology. Sign me up! Class is in session! :D
for the first time ever, i tried meditation at work. I went into the spa room and set my timer for 10 minutes. I sat with my legs crossed on the spa chair and forced my eyes closed. And it felt great! I was very grounded and focused afterward. it was truly an experience. :)
You're so right, we always have to continue to improve ourselves and not think we're perfect in everything all the time .. Also, incorporating true religious beliefs in your life and diving in it/educating yourself about it, starting with the situation/issue at hand usually helps, positive change happens without you even knowing it
You have came into my life at such a perfect time
Girl you got me crying right now..Your so beautiful.. You literally could be my best friend because we have so much in common..Especially the family part when you said that our parents only focus on merit and achievements. I feel like I had good parents but they lacked in basic life skills --things that I lack today... I wish I had those life skills to truly be successful in my life. I love how when you talk its as if your talking to me... Im so glad I found you here...
I love you so much as a being! You inspire because you want to and that's my goal, to live, experience, learn and inspire. You've taught me many valuable things that I keep close with me. Don't stop doing what you're doing, you're amazing. Can't wait for your next video! Xo
I was just going through some of your previous advice videos again, not because I felt as though I needed any advice, but just because I have been missing your wisdom and amazingness. I was so happy to see that you posted :D
Ok, this girl is good. I like her style. She's real and honest in a refreshing kind of way.
Yup, application of all this is not taught to us and we simply repeat the stuff our parents showed us, which they did on the fly. So glad I found your channel. Thank you Queen, many blessings to you 👑🤗💖
Well, I have to say that I pretty much agree with all your points/thoughts but there was the one that moved me kinda strong: the belief stuff and especially the bad ones which make people totally passive about their life. And that, I'd say, is the greatest of mistakes since it denies any potential development of a particular person. And from my observance of pretty much anything I feel that attentive, mindful action does wonders for nonbelievers.
Great stuff, gunna watch the video about Mark Manson because he has a great stuff as well :D
I just found this video and she is amazing but what happened why doesnt she post anymore?
Such a POWERFUL massage. You are very special girl :D I hope that nobody andf nothing ever will steal your amazing shine
can you make a video about loving your body?
It's 2.42 am it's 31st Dec, here in India, its New year's eve and you have changed my thinking and I think I'm about to change my life.(just had a video marathon)
Everything you say resonates . I do yoga, love breathing I have learnt this through yoga ,practise mindfulness .....try to ,I journal I have done this through periods where there has been a break up,a death and now after being in a relationship with someone with a personality disorder i believe, toxic person I have journaled and am moving forward to my own journal to work forward on myself to understand is everything to put in to practise is hard if you get nervous anxious but you have to believe in you. I to love quotes and bits from books I love I'm reading,' beyhond happiness ' by Anthony Seldon and love 'The Power of Now ' . I draw also I am an artist but have found writing cathartic . I'm a young 52 still learning and growing trying to take the positive or lesson to understand myself my patterns and be the best for me. I love your attitude and straight forward passion and belief in what you say this to helps myself ,thank you .
THANK YOU. Meditation has changed my life. It's a great way to become comfortable with yourself. I now crave my me time and my inner dialogue. I got through 15 hours of medically induced labor without an epidural by just meditating (with relaxing music). My doctor said she had never whitnessed anything like it. There is power with controlled thoughts and a willingness to be centered.
Just came across this and it truly made emotional because I started an advice channel and I thought that I’d be the only one that felt like we need more of this to help others get through life. And this is just so inspirational to keep going so excited even more know!
Wow this is extremely motivating, and so TRUE! You’re so right about everything and I believe this is my year, and I will do whatever it takes to make this a good year. I am no longer shy, I am no longer full of anxiety. I do a lot, I am brave. I am social. THANK YOU SO MUCH! This really helps and I will start a journal every morning! How to stop caring about how others think really moved me. You said so pretty brilliant things I will now tell someone to watch this video when they come to me. I will say as I always do “you know what’s best for you” but this time I’ll leave out my opinion. Very beautiful you’re an incredible person! I will soon be 17 and I’m I AM ready to make some big bright beautiful changes for myself. Thank you again, and happy new year!♥️
Poetry, writing things to train my brain to believe, and visions boards are what help me to stay positive!
Thank you so much Nur . Because of your sweet lovely advices . My life has shaped to a better direction , I have became a better person to everyone. Moreover, I cant wait to wake up to chase my dream . I love you. Keep inspiring people and have a lovely day ahead!With love,May:)
Do the work!
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Sooooo happy to see that you're back to making videos! I've been waiting for you to come back! Can't wait to see what's next.
I actually really like this video! Cause a lot of TH-camrs give corny general advice I think this channel is gonna be poppin! Go girl!
Thank you so much for this video Nur! So happy to see you back in attack and making videos. As always this was so inspiring and the kick in the ass we all need. If anyone else is looking for life changing apps, I recommend Calm. It's a meditation app that incorporates video and sound soothers.
Also implementing a daily gratitude practice has been absolutely essential for me. Sean Anchor, the author the Happiness Advantage (Nur refers to it in the video, says its one of the fundamental pillars of happiness. So underrated, but so vital.
+AllegedlyAlex1 Hooray for an awesome first comment!! 💙 I'll definitely check out that app too!! And yes, daily gratitude is ESSENTIAL. The Five Minute Journal includes a portion where you write 3 things you're grateful for in the morning and you end the day by writing 3 amazing things that happened that day. Powerful paradigm shift!
one idea i have been implementing with bad habits or wanting to turn good habit into a personality and who you are is that i don't try to be something at once. instead i put it into steps prioritizing most important to least important and i focus on the first step first. i focus on it for a couple of days or weeks until i realize that i have been getting better at it and it's starting to flow unconsciously and then i proceed to the next step while maintaining the previous step. i use to pick my face a lot and i use to pick specifically my center, nose, and forehead area. because of this i constantly had bad acne on my face. i've tried to wear gloves and tried any other methods to stop me from picking my face so much. stopping cold turkey is much harder than expected so my next idea was instead of touching my face i would touch my arm instead. when you pick your face and you get acne it hurts (A LOT) so i guess i learned to use the hurt as a signal alarm to realize to stop touching my face. as gross as it sounds as soon as i realize or feel the pain i would remove my hand right away from my face and onto my other arm. now my acne has cleared significantly thanks to this strange technique. it has helped to make me feel better about myself because i used to be very insecure and didn't have much confidence in myself. somehow clearer skin just helped considerably in some psychological and mental way. hope i can help someone out there.
I recently learned an amazing way to be happy from Abraham hicks, just care about how you feel. Letting the way you feel be the most important thing you. Deciding to feel good. I've loved doing this ever since I got back from Switzerland. It's been my way of attracting amazing things and people in my life...
Like another person mentioned, I jumped (can we say yelped like a happy puppy!!) when I saw your face in video list!! Loved the content, need to re-watch to listen better to your suggestions - this time I was just too excited that you were back :) thanks Nur for taking the time
U just rock .....I'll do the work....and belive in myself....bloody hard I'll work.....just want to say you are the best youtuber i ever saw ...giving positive advise about elegance and change ...love u🌈🌷💜🌹🌻🌺
Finally Nur! I have been waiting for a video from you for months! You are an inspiring woman. Thank you.. Lots of love from Uruguay
+Maria Eugenia SO sweet, thank you!! Lots of love from Florida right back at you!!
@@nurology WHERE ARE YOU????????
So glad you're back to posting videos Nur. I'm going through a divorce and it's been so difficult that this video is so helpful during this time. And you're looking STUNNING!
+nancy ferreira You are so kind, thank you!!! 💙
I’m so glad/ grateful/ appropriative I found your videos at 7 o’clock in the morning!
So glad you're back making videos again! You have no idea how much I needed this video today!!
+Jennifer Cheng Happy to hear that!!
I just discovered your channel and I just have to say thank you! I've been stuck in a rut since febuary. I dropped out of school and I just don't feel like doing anything but staying in bed. Watching this vide, it's the first time in four months that i have felt that kick that forces me to get out of bed and taking my life in my own hands...Thank you :)
Hi Nur, I started a TH-cam channel not to long ago, and I was despondent after my 3rd video or so, Then I came across your videos , it changed my entire attitude, you say the things I sometimes fear to say. I love it, I have a looooooooog way to go, but I know I will get there, I am just happy that I started. I am following you and I am just happy there is still genuine people like you out there that truly want to make a difference in other peoples lives. Great stuff keep them coming!!!! Mwaaaah
THANK YOU SO MUCH
I have needed this tough telling, im going through anxiety and depression and girl im ready to kick its butt and change!
I think morning positive affirmations are brilliant. You feel great listening to these, even at the gym, cleaning or when you feel stressed 😊
this video has made so much impact on me. Everbody wants to improve but actually implementing inspiration/goals/wishes in your own life is really hard sometimes. I love that you not only look at other people or the problem itself but more of a self improvent point of view. can't wait to watch you other video's
gosh nur you need to make a book of your own one of these days or years. i will 1000% buy it and more. i love how you are able to be so real with us but so sincere at the same time
Yaaay! So excited! Your advice is always super inspiring, Nur xo
Loved this video Nur! 💗 I love your snaps and have been following your beauty and advice videos for years. I can't wait for you to add content to this channel! I would love if you could do some videos on the job search, interviews, etc. This video hit a cord with me and I have decided to finally make the change in my life that I am desperately seeking. TY for that!
this inspired me immensely. wow, i will implement these principles into my life. seriously. genuinely, your soul is so beautiful. continue to inspire love. thank you again for being you and sharing your light.
Thank you ! I’m a huge fan and looking into your interview course right now .your advice is always on point !!
On a side note.. your hair looks SO DAMN GOOD!
+Amz Lemons Thank you!! Extensions! Chopped my hair off into a short, blunt cut a few months ago because having my extensions on hand made me feel so damn brave. xoxo
Yesss Nur you're back!! This video couldn't have come at a better time for me, thank you. Can't wait for more amazing videos from you! :)