8 Reasons Why People Hate INTJs

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    ✅ Find out what are the 8 Reasons Why People Hate INTJs!
    If you’re an INTJ, you can have some discouraging behaviours which make it so difficult for some personality types to enjoy your company. This is mostly because INTJs are unique individuals with very characteristic personality traits.
    If you think you are an INTJ, dive deeper into your personality, learn what are the things that make others hate you and determine how you can use them to increase your soft skills and achieve personal growth. Here are the 8 Reasons Why People Hate INTJs.
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    0:00 Why INTJs can be hated?
    0:42 - 1. They enjoy exchanging facts and opinions
    1:31 - 2. They are often cold and distant
    2:30 - 3. They are difficult to understand
    3:32 - 4. They can be quite pessimistic due to their analytical nature
    4:33 - 5. They can be overly critical
    5:36 - 6. They can’t stand logical fallacies
    6:28 - 7. They have extremely high standard for everything
    7:29 - 8. They hate being corrected
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  • @PsychologyRefresh
    @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +11

    👇You Should WATCH THIS👇
    10 Reasons Why INTJs Are So Intimidating
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    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm sorry, but please stop adding to the misconception that elon musk is an INTJ - he ISN'T!!!
      INTJ already get a TONNE of undeserved hate, mostly by 'ESFP', ESFJ, and ISFP, and other narcissits; and it's largely driven by malicious-jealousy.
      INTJ/INFJ population and quality of life is reality hell enough as it is! 🤦🏽
      I hope you can understand. Thanks.

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      _Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality')_
      I recommend researching 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
      European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!
      The are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Elliott Till.
      ISFP (and ESFP) are the most complicit, narcissitic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependants' (look up the definition).
      SUMMARY:
      Evil personality: ESFJ (ALL), ESTJ (cluster-b)
      [Secretly] Evil and narcissit-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL).
      ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict (and at other people's expense, truly evil).
      Spread the word! Thank you. 🙏🏾
      PS: ESFJ are Amber Heard behind the public mask.
      ___________
      #Save_Soil

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Human_01 Thanks you so much for this insight! Very interesting.

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Human_01 Thank you for your opinion!

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're welcome (and my apologies for the tone). ❤️ Please keep it up.

  • @thestarlitmagician
    @thestarlitmagician ปีที่แล้ว +213

    People hate me because once I realize they are back stabbing they are dead to me and I never change my mind in that 😂

  • @kyungshin5855
    @kyungshin5855 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    As an INTJ, I prefer debate to conversation. I call "debate" an intellectual sparring. Very good for your brain.

    • @t.terrell7037
      @t.terrell7037 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yup me too but most respond by seeing me as combative, argumentative and annoying….go figure!

    • @TheHomieSamm
      @TheHomieSamm 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      As an intj-a i hate debating. When i tell someone something its because i know that what im saying is true. I dont mind explaining in a little more depth to help them understand, but when i know someone already has their mind made up in lies im not going to waste my time

    • @Wasp239
      @Wasp239 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@TheHomieSamm me too. I also don't like debating. My parents were both narcissists, and if you know, narcissists always use darvo and whataboutism, so no debate is useful witj them.

    • @MetaKnight964
      @MetaKnight964 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ENTP's are the ultimate debaters. Also not every meeting has to turn into a debate which is actually unhealthy for the mind.

    • @qua7771
      @qua7771 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ENTP is the debater type. INTJ's are generally not into wasting time debating for the sake of it.
      An INTJ don't mind confrontation, but they don't like their time wasted.

  • @John_Smith0
    @John_Smith0 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    we can be hated because we have bad social skills. to develop social skills you need to socialize a lot and it’s a huge waste of time, i just want to be alone and deep dive in what i’m really interested in.

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True!

    • @BigA678
      @BigA678 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Actually you don’t have to socialize a lot you just have to talk about meaningless things, what the call small talk. Thats why we have “bad” social skills

    • @repupu_9563
      @repupu_9563 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is not bad social skill, you don't need to adapt others to change for right and truth

    • @peanutbuttericecream2948
      @peanutbuttericecream2948 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm not really an INTJ, more an INTP, according to the cognitive functions. I work as a waitress for summer (part time job, aside studies). And I struggle with social interactions. My colleagues are very nice, but they also just stab you in the back.
      I understand society, how it works and why but it just don't make sense to me, I find it absolutely irrational. And hence, I don't want and I can't apply to it.
      Giving nicknames, joking around, scaring my colleagues for fun, talk behind someone else's back, having useless conversations is hard to me.
      I enjoy debates where I can learn something.
      I don't act very natural as well, almost everything I do is calculated and planned.
      I cannot really live in the present. It's a weird feeling.
      So once I'm done with work, I just spend time alone so I can recharge. I literally go mad when they're are too many people around on my rest days.
      If I made any mistakes, I'm sorry. English isn't my native language.

    • @thegrinch304
      @thegrinch304 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Definitely. my social skills are awful and awkward.

  • @devildogkogg8353
    @devildogkogg8353 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I have to strongly oppose number 8. If someone can factually prove that I'm wrong, I welcome it with open arms and appreciate the correction. Me being wrong is exceptionally rare, but if it happens, I wouldn't defend my disproven belief or be mad about being corrected.

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for sharing your perspective!

    • @hollistantang9469
      @hollistantang9469 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me too, 8 is never right for me...

    • @jrm8206
      @jrm8206 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I guess its more like the way people try to 'correct' you. If they actually use logic and good arguments its fine obv. But I inta tilt/hate when they use non-arguments like:
      'I Have Been Doing It Like This For X Years...!!" My response to this is always: Well, I guess you have been doing it wrong for X years... ;)

    • @LordBurningham
      @LordBurningham ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wasn't that stated later in the explanation?

    • @stevenchan7537
      @stevenchan7537 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As an INFJ, I always being fake or nice to ask INTJ, are you sure. Once they give me the wrong answer twice, I leave them as it is.
      Because 2nd time asking, they change their tone.
      No point to correct them due to INFJ need to focus other important thing.

  • @JazzyJ96771
    @JazzyJ96771 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I HATE logical fallacies. Your emotions are NOT facts. Facts don’t care about your feelings.

    • @erinscruggs5838
      @erinscruggs5838 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They call that circumstantial evidence. 😂

  • @BombshElle_7
    @BombshElle_7 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    As an INTJ, I appreciate this video for being fair in explaining why we behave the way we do, and, explaining why most people are turned off by it. This was very enlightening. Thank you! 😊

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Glad it was helpful!

    • @mlightning6750
      @mlightning6750 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      USING EMOJISSSSS OMG 😭😭 I never expected to see an INTJ using emojis in my life I am quite surprised that u r not the only one (I saw some of the INTJs using it in the comment section) and still can't believe it 😅

    • @Kalle875
      @Kalle875 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​​@@mlightning6750s if we are robots
      Nah bro
      We are also human beings and we also do some things that other humans do
      Is that really complicated🌚😑🤡

  • @phongtu9562
    @phongtu9562 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The number 6 😢 I feel so annoyed when some people can’t even realize and accept the reality. And yes, I don’t understand why people can’t understand the situation 😹 It gets me on nerves… Their dumbness and blindness… Sometime I feel sorry just for saying the truth.

  • @ConfusedSoul_
    @ConfusedSoul_ ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Listen as an INTJ if you tell me I'm wrong about something without any evidence you better prepare to have an hour long lecture about why I'm right. Trust me I've got time.

  • @nicolette1598
    @nicolette1598 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    How do people dislike learning new things? This is one of my biggest issues with the mental peasants of this world. You dare correct them they call you a know it all, elitist list goes on. Which is why I work from home and don’t leave my house ☺️

  • @repupu_9563
    @repupu_9563 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    SHIT! No wonder nobody want to fight with me, because I'm always correct....

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great for you!

    • @qua7771
      @qua7771 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's correct. No point in question it because you have put more time in research than they have, while they were getting high and watching fottball.

  • @Imp-bq6iy
    @Imp-bq6iy ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I remember that one time I gave an advice to a friend of mine because I didn't want to see her in a bad economical situation, however, she took it badly and thought I was just judging her and pretending I was better than her. Never gonna give her an advice again.

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for sharing this!

    • @jooyonpark1247
      @jooyonpark1247 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I learned it the hard way - people usually want to hear only what they want to hear.

    • @qua7771
      @qua7771 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It happens more often than not. Most likely she was in that situation to begin with, because of emotion overriding her better judgement. It sucks to see someone heading for disaster, but we need to consider how they got that way. That's the real problem.

  • @dateouka
    @dateouka ปีที่แล้ว +19

    As an INTJ, my happiest time was graduate school. Classmates were intelligent, supervisor gave me only constructive advice and never tried to micromanage. Most importantly, I got to work alone. After I started working, the old nightmares just came back. I guess I don’t really care why some people hate me, because I probably deem them incompetent as well. I never knew how typical INTJ I was until mbti became a thing in mass media😅

  • @starlight9192
    @starlight9192 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    As an INTJ, I wish people would think more thoroughly before they say we do not accept their opinions. They often admit that our solutions were bound to be that way since it's the most logical conclusion considering all the limitations. But still, they liked to see their solutions be accepted. Why? After you were told about all the reasons that it should not be that way? You like to use your solution even after it was proven to be wrong, huh? It's really a mystery to me. 😢

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for sharing!

    • @qua7771
      @qua7771 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What they don't see is the time we spend processing their opinion. By the time we align with it, if we do, they're somewhere else.

  • @Matrix_Architect
    @Matrix_Architect ปีที่แล้ว +15

    For INTJs, their argument is like paradigm in science which is a set of various evidences and supports. And they love to expand and reinforce their arguments collecting related knowledge all the time. That's why they look stubborn to others.
    But, if the opponent's logic or evidence is more reasonable, INTJs are willing to accept that argument.
    So, those who want to persuade INTJs should arm with better logic and knowledge.

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for sharing!

    • @qua7771
      @qua7771 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's because Ni is incredibly adaptable. If we're wrong about something then all we have to do is take a break to realign our perception. That is not so easy for Si users.

  • @polreamonn
    @polreamonn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just because we're better than everybody else.

  • @supercoolcat7692
    @supercoolcat7692 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    “Emotional Intelligence” by Daniel Goleman is a book I found helpful before learning that I was an INTJ. I highly recommend it.
    Even if we aren’t as influenced by emotions as others, it helps to understand emotions on a logical level.

    • @qua7771
      @qua7771 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Emotion, and intelligence are opposites. It think the emotional intelligence narrative was intended to promote the importance of emotion to the same level as rational thought instead of encouraging rational thinking for those lacking it. Itiocracy was a documentary. I highly recommend watching it.

  • @anormaldude127
    @anormaldude127 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    as a INTJ I see a conversation as a battlefeild of facts and learning opportunities. and I EXPECT others to think the same.
    If i start to feel whit others or think in emotion, I begin to be a little panicy and uneasy, and I just can't think in emotion cuz i am stuck in rationality. If I sudenly begin anltering to emotion I will lose my resoning of the world and begin to be uneasy and even begin to panic.

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for sharing!

    • @qua7771
      @qua7771 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's why I hate getting a haircut. All the small expected small talk.

  • @Diddledo
    @Diddledo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’m not a robot I have trained myself to take peoples emotion into a account

  • @NekoSyndrom_BountyMMD
    @NekoSyndrom_BountyMMD ปีที่แล้ว +17

    When I heard that Elon Musk was an INTJ, I thought to myself, "Well, if that's the case, then so be it." But the more I heard about Musk, the more I think he can't be an INTJ. To me he doesn't come across as the least bit introverted. Just the fact that he forces his employees to be present at work tells me that he has little or no understanding for introverts. I doubt that a person who is truly introverted would deny his employees the home office. So for me it's pretty clear that he can't be an introvert personality.
    Supplemental:
    He is also literally attention hungry, constantly seeking the spotlight and wanting other people's attention. Introverts are not attention hungry, on the contrary.

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks for sharing this!

    • @imho2278
      @imho2278 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He keeps marrying entertainment stars, siring children, and spending all his time checking up on his workers. I think he's just trying to do everything all at once.

    • @danika9411
      @danika9411 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's a sociopath. His father too. Pretty fucked up family. He has tge emotional maturity of an infant and no empathy. He says he has Aspergers, but I highly doubt it. He's just a sociopath and has antisocial personality disorder.

    • @rachellereeve494
      @rachellereeve494 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree. Musk isn't an INTJ. The lack of strategic caution he has demonstrated in his takeover of Twitter and the poor reasoning he employs when trolling and character assassinating those who disagree with him are not INTJ traits.
      Remember when Musk called that British cave diver a pedo guy after the diver criticised Tesla's rescue pod? No INTJ would publish such an embarrassingly irrelevant and baseless accusation. Musk carries on like a jock not an INTJ.

    • @danika9411
      @danika9411 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rachellereeve494 I'd be interested what his mbti might be 🤔

  • @pinaerpowac4130
    @pinaerpowac4130 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I guess to most they seek friendship because the feel they need others. As an intj i gain friends out of the desire to have a like minded friend to bond with and exchange information. People get upset when they don't gain what they seek. Trust is a big deal to an intj the fastest way to destroy an intj s interest in you is to lie or fail to uphold your words. Intj's value friends very deeply but are slow to befriend others.

  • @nqobincube3709
    @nqobincube3709 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love being an INTJ and watching such makes me love being one, more !

  • @SamAsm367
    @SamAsm367 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Out of curiosity, I checked out the rest of the channel to see if this was a series. It seems that the INTJ type is the only playlist with a video expounding on the reasons people hate them. Other intuitive types have "why you're weird" videos. I think it should be a series. No one is perfect. Flaws are not exclusive to Introverted Intuitives. Every type should know what people dislike about them. Unless the real purpose of these videos is to assure more common types of their prejudices and thusly marginalize an already slim slice of the human pie. MBTI is supposed to be a tool for understanding.

  • @cncgcg8673
    @cncgcg8673 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We hate being wrong because we owe it to the world to be right. And with great ability comes great responsibility. Also it's lonely at the top, thankfully.

  • @awesomeexpressionexp
    @awesomeexpressionexp หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hatred from inferior minds is a form of compliment. But successful INTJs can and will socialize well if it can help achieve their goals. Like how Sherlock can play cute to gather information for solving cases.

  • @frisk9393
    @frisk9393 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Before I watch this video, sometimes I don't fully understand why some people hate intj's, because I think although they are harsh to people sometimes, but they are good partners who just don't good at expressing emotions. Because some of my friends are intj, they sometimes gives me methods or criticism to let things became better. After this video, it makes me understand why. Every personality has their unique traits to makes people have some common image about it. I'm glad there's some people decide to stand out and talk about it. Thank you, sir!😊

  • @vikranthdahal6048
    @vikranthdahal6048 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Tbh this video boosted my ego even more

  • @nicolette1598
    @nicolette1598 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People hate me…because they ain’t me…

  • @retrothingz
    @retrothingz ปีที่แล้ว +4

    All very true. Being comfortable expressing unpopular but factually based opinions in a very direct manner is a surefire way to alienate others. 'Fraid I simply don't care. 😂

    • @MetaKnight964
      @MetaKnight964 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Opinions are based on preferences, not facts.

  • @samanthaf4851
    @samanthaf4851 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I feel… attacked.

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry for that! Luckily, you have amazing strengths ---> th-cam.com/video/juXBlO_U-0M/w-d-xo.html

  • @alveerapathan5263
    @alveerapathan5263 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As an INTJ completely i appreciate it

  • @etiennelandman8748
    @etiennelandman8748 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As an INTJ, something hit me on this video, rationality and honesty are two very rare traits these days, absolutely true. It sometimes really does feel like I am the only one who did not lose his marbles..

  • @Kalle875
    @Kalle875 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    They hate us because we are always
    3 steps ahead

    • @qua7771
      @qua7771 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      At least 3 steps ahead of them.
      We invest a substantial amount of time, and energy planning our tasks, while others go willy nilly, and mistakenly assuming we are doing the same. Then they want to question our entire train of reasoning, and insist that we dumb it down. This interaction is agonizing. It's better do go it alone.

  • @fatatwaze399
    @fatatwaze399 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I don't show emotions bcz people ll say I m weak and so emotional. Someone told me that when I was in love with her and I wasn't sure she had feelings for me

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Here are some interesting dating facts about INTJs ---> th-cam.com/video/Y6_LKWYYZy4/w-d-xo.html

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      _Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality')_
      I recommend researching 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
      European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!
      The are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Elliott Till.
      ISFP (and ESFP) are the most complicit, narcissitic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependants' (look up the definition).
      SUMMARY:
      Evil personality: ESFJ (ALL), ESTJ (cluster-b)
      [Secretly] Evil and narcissit-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL).
      ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict (and at other people's expense, truly evil).
      Spread the word! Thank you. 🙏🏾
      PS: ESFJ are Amber Heard behind the public mask.
      ___________
      #Save_Soil

    • @BombshElle_7
      @BombshElle_7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      There's always a need for balance, but to hide your emotions bc of what others say is unhealthy. You have to be yourself. When you're happy, show happiness. When angry, show anger. And get better friends who will appreciate who you are.--INTJ

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Human_01 Thanks for sharing this!

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@BombshElle_7 Well said.

  • @hanabi9923
    @hanabi9923 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my fucking god its just so...accurate. i am an INTJ (an autistic one) and even tho i love being alone and i think nothing beats the time thinking alone i still need some connections and it feels really horrible to know that so many people hate me.

  • @Psychoanalyze
    @Psychoanalyze ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I personally think INTJ and INFJ or any type are on a spectrum for eachother, I share about half the traits for both INTJ and INFJ
    There is times where if someone told me "my dog died" its like 2 separate thoughts pop in my head "tell them get a new pet" and "comfort them" depending on my mood I'll choose 1 or the other - which is a typical INTJ vs INFJ response
    I do also enjoy social harmony well at least dont like awkwardness and 2nd hand embarrassment.
    I do love being right and debating why I am right but don't like winning arguments its not satisfying I just feel bad or don't know what to do or say after annihilated a person's view point
    I am always reading and analyzing people and society equally, it's much easier to read society but much easier to predict human behavior, though I find myself being proficient at both predicting and reading people and society
    I love talking when in a talking environment for me, but also like being more quiet when in a non talking environment
    I love philosophy and enjoy talking about it, but when I feel someone isn't understanding me I lose interest in the conversation
    After writing this I think I'm a INTJ who as a balanced IQ and EQ ☠️

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much for sharing this!

    • @Vollbio3
      @Vollbio3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think you are right with your spectrum assumption.

    • @thevindictive6145
      @thevindictive6145 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same here I am an INTJ empath. Sometime I get an INFJ score like 2 out of ten times. Love philosophy and psychology but equally fascinated with astronomy and physics. I like to see it as having the best of both worlds.

  • @ArtinJ
    @ArtinJ ปีที่แล้ว +14

    ENTP here having an INTJ manager. The standards are just unbelievable... it's insane

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What is your MBTI type?

    • @Fjolnirsson
      @Fjolnirsson ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I would never ask something of an employee I wouldn't expect of myself.

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Fjolnirsson This is a golden rule.

    • @Fjolnirsson
      @Fjolnirsson ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@PsychologyRefresh indeed it is, though most employers don't seem to follow it, in my experience. Intj, btw.

    • @linasimmons6787
      @linasimmons6787 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣

  • @stevenchan7537
    @stevenchan7537 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its great to know they are living in their own world that does not need anyone confirmation.

  • @Kelgrafar
    @Kelgrafar 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm an INTJ and people tend to like me, unfortunately. I don't encourage it. It's annoying.

  • @rygregory
    @rygregory 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s a surprise that I have any friends at all because of my INTJ-ness. I am all of these things on this list. However, I’m fully aware of these traits and make a conscious effort to meet other personality types halfway. As for my friend circle, a large proportion of them are INTJs themselves so that works out because we all understand each other. ❤

  • @esa_35
    @esa_35 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am intj-a and agreed with most of the video, however, I do not hate being corrected, and I appreciate the constructive criticism. But if some people don't know what they're talking about, they shouldn't be talking with an intj to avoid emotional damage. lol

  • @nitacollins3645
    @nitacollins3645 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Emotional idiocy is as annoying as the other kind of stupidity.

  • @JazzyJ96771
    @JazzyJ96771 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I definitely get called insensitive due to my overly logical nature. You don’t think like me, therefore you don’t understand me.

  • @Age_Of_Aquarius84
    @Age_Of_Aquarius84 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't relate to number 8. As a writer, my work is constantly critiqued and edited, so it would be counterproductive for me to get the hump with that. 😂😂😂

  • @edsanville
    @edsanville 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Man, this is like looking into a mirror... a really unflattering mirror, though.

  • @robynmasters335
    @robynmasters335 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No wonder I don't get along with INTJs. This describes everything that drives me crazy about them. I can only take an INTJ for very short periods at a time.

  • @galactichand551
    @galactichand551 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Okay, so I had an INTJ boss and she was terrible. She could never be incorrect and woe to the one who had to call her to ask her to correct her error. She was so bad, that she would even change processes just to be correct. Glad I left that job.

    • @nic3099
      @nic3099 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That can't be an intj

  • @housecarolina
    @housecarolina 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    5:26 sadly, me doing this got me broken up wit lol 😢

  • @paminology6622
    @paminology6622 หลายเดือนก่อน

    emotion is the weakness.. non sense and waste time and effort

  • @syebethel
    @syebethel ปีที่แล้ว

    Tapping my fingers waiting for what an INTJ shd change, vs others.

  • @clxmcst2276
    @clxmcst2276 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I stuck because as an INTJ I have no social skills but I want to be diplomate. I is really my goal but a lot of people say that I can’t fit.

  • @hollistantang9469
    @hollistantang9469 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good one... I don't hate being corrected, but I like being shown why I got things wrong... And from that spot, I could analyze things whether or not the other person got the fact right...
    I hate arguing with people when they started to bring "fairy tales" from their trash brain and used it as their own standard of truth.. As in "because I said so" argument...

    • @hollistantang9469
      @hollistantang9469 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@heavyhead2k139 And how could back that statement up? Got any proof?

  • @diegoosmar530
    @diegoosmar530 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They can correct me if they have enough proof, reason and tell me more about the information of it. I like learning. But if not I'll fight until I die no matter they're right.

  • @hanabi9923
    @hanabi9923 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its all coming together now...

  • @FeroxX_Gosu
    @FeroxX_Gosu ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As an INTJ-A I approve this. haha

  • @evasilvertant
    @evasilvertant ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Maybe it’s a bit of P in me speaking (I’m INTJ with 60/40 J/P), but I really don’t hate being corrected. It’s not that enjoyable being wrong as it can make me feel a bit insecure, but I love it when someone corrects me and I gain a better understanding. Being corrected helps me grow.
    However, it depends on how the person corrects me. If it’s coming from a place of narcissism, I don’t take well to that. I want to feel like the other person holds me in high regard despite being wrong at times. If the other place comes from a place of curiosity and passion, however, that’s wonderful. There is nothing better than exploring a topic together, exchanging insights, and advancing our understanding of the topic together.

  • @Merrickbri
    @Merrickbri 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm an INTJ and not into debating or arguing with you but somehow else end up doing so. :(

  • @jayh3283
    @jayh3283 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s all true.

  • @coldbrewed8308
    @coldbrewed8308 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My wife often tells me to just agree with what she said and don't provide solutions.

  • @exposingproxystalkingorgan4164
    @exposingproxystalkingorgan4164 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like the INTJ personality mixed with Dark Triad traits, along with Dark Empath traits. You can use them to intimidate and dominate others like some Star Wars Sith Lords. 💀

  • @YagodkaMalina
    @YagodkaMalina 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Это правда. Моя сестра очень часто приходит ко мне пообщаться, и рассказывает о том, что она чувствует себя расстроенной. Я почти всегда даю ей совет. Это никогда не помогает, но что ещё я могу сделать? Я правда не умею утешать человека. И от этого я чувствую себя ужасной старшей сестрой, хоть и делаю всё возможное, что бы она чувствовала себя лучше. Моя помощь - это дело, но от меня явно ожидают чего-то другого. Я это понимаю, но действительно не знаю, как мне поступить, потому что, это будет неискреннее. Мне кажется, это будет ещё хуже, чем просто безучастие.

  • @anormaldude127
    @anormaldude127 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    as a INTJ if you are not preperd for the truth then i will wait, however if you do NOT WANT the truth then you are not mature, so get out of your small fantasies, and face it like a true adult.

  • @Peter-uo9km
    @Peter-uo9km ปีที่แล้ว

    Because when someone asks you how their cooking was and you're honest and say you didn't like it and tell them exactly why so they can change it. They might get offended but the girl who doesn't like her will like me all of a sudden and make me hot coco.

  • @morgannine
    @morgannine 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel like this is for immature INTJs who’re also not stereotypically wise or smart

  • @LAStars-sratS
    @LAStars-sratS 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    People hate this INTJ because they can’t control me. It’s that simple.

  • @thestarlitmagician
    @thestarlitmagician ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Exactly I just hate human beings I always feel like I don’t belong on earth ✨

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why is that?

    • @thestarlitmagician
      @thestarlitmagician ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PsychologyRefresh if you only knew it’s a really really long story , I am just grateful if by chance I run into a good person ❤️

  • @sammywilliam8156
    @sammywilliam8156 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of my best friends isn't 1 of these does have the emotionalishouldn't let's stare that basically looks like she is a robot When I told her that my mom passed away see she said well that sucks and I know it was her way of saying I'm sorry because I've known her but at the same time she can also be fun and playful and all that it's just once you meet her she is extremely intimidating whatever you get passed that ypur good

  • @Bulmachan224
    @Bulmachan224 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A lot of you in the comments are not INTJ even if you think you are. I get INTJ all the time yet I still think I am not one. Plus the misspelling bothers me. An INTJ would not let that slide in themselves.

  • @lunaromance2243
    @lunaromance2243 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gosh they don't stop coming

  • @jamesotisjr2322
    @jamesotisjr2322 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    INTJ has a strong overlap with sigma male.

  • @JAJAJAC_
    @JAJAJAC_ ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Basically as a INTJ the reason is because I’m an asshole. Simple😌

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Always?

    • @JAJAJAC_
      @JAJAJAC_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Most of the time, to be precise😉

    • @Fjolnirsson
      @Fjolnirsson ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am upfront about it. I warn people, "I am an asshole", I tell them. I give reminders, and STILL people act all surprised when they push me. "You're an ASSHOLE!", they tell me, with shock writ large on their sheep faces. 😂😂😂

    • @JAJAJAC_
      @JAJAJAC_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Fjolnirsson Same. but honestly people just don't find telling the truth acceptable, well, sometimes people enjoy the fake than the real, don't they?

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Fjolnirsson 😂

  • @jamielake-boyd3600
    @jamielake-boyd3600 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I used to be like this then i decided i wanted peace. When you got to jump up and down and freak to get someobe to listen fuck hang your picture level which looks crooked because the wall isnt square😂

  • @MetaKnight964
    @MetaKnight964 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    People don't hate INTJ's, especially not the internet, don't know where the hell you got that from.

  • @jasonkiefer1894
    @jasonkiefer1894 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    INTJ here. #3 It's called Resting Bitch Face. I get yelled at all the time for it.

  • @yoonSeungho.18
    @yoonSeungho.18 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    im an INTJ but my friends dont hate me

  • @justforrow
    @justforrow 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When we laugh at you, just know your already dead to us.

  • @YUQxYAY
    @YUQxYAY 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    wow why so real to me lol

  • @insakolby
    @insakolby 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not all people hate intjs. Just most

  • @v40905871
    @v40905871 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As an INTJ I want to thank you for raising up the fact that we INTJ bear the most correct opinion on everything and also that huge di

  • @ursanirak2870
    @ursanirak2870 ปีที่แล้ว

    Most people will never understand you if you dont open up. The intjs i know are very private closed off even and not expressive on the outside. As an infj i can feel them and i have empathy for their struggles (they will never admit having them). But in the end i must say i miss conformation of the good in the relationship.

  • @joygibbons5482
    @joygibbons5482 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1 reason why INTJs don’t care. We’re INTJs

  • @t.terrell7037
    @t.terrell7037 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ouch on that title….a bit harsh…

  • @yourcalling8419
    @yourcalling8419 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Point 8 is incorrect: INTJ’s do not give a shit about being wrong, we will immediately be more curious about the opportunity to learn of how our incorrect conclusion was reached and be enthused about improving our skills or knowledge so that we can never fall for the same trick again. INTJ’s have do not have this sort of ego attachment to whether THEY are right or wrong, the way that a ISTJ or ESTJ would have; to do so, would require ‘buying into’ ‘people’, much more than an INTJ ever would.
    I.e. we do not care enough about ‘people’ to care ‘ego-ically’ about what their opinion of our incorrect position was, nor do we see ourselves fully as ‘people’, in the sense required to experience the emotion of ‘hate’ that you described.
    We learn, they don’t hate being wrong.
    Maybe you’re getting mixed up, because we do something very similar; which is that:
    “We do hate the conclusion being wrong, before we move on to the next thing. It’s unacceptable to use false reasoning and then move on. You will be stopped and corrected at a granular level before you are permitted to move on, when there is an INTJ present.

    • @yourcalling8419
      @yourcalling8419 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      EDIT: the second half of part 8 pretty much explained what I was trying to say here, never mind, it’s a pretty valid point lol

  • @darklightning73
    @darklightning73 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hmm

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What are you thinking about?

    • @darklightning73
      @darklightning73 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@PsychologyRefresh Its hard to be an intj. Feels don't belong anywhere.

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@darklightning73 It is definitely hard to be misunderstood. Here we have some life tips for you ---> th-cam.com/video/vnsOjRqgJCY/w-d-xo.html

    • @darklightning73
      @darklightning73 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PsychologyRefresh Thanks

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@darklightning73 You're welcome!

  • @HoesLoveGoat
    @HoesLoveGoat ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What is ur mbti?

  • @amandacoelho9524
    @amandacoelho9524 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I guess INTJs are the most misunderstood of all types... we have Fi not to far from Te, but not often it comes out of the surface.. anyways, i love being an INTJ
    Edit: as i come to the end of the video, i now see the most aspects presented are heavily soaked in stereotypes. Not every video is perfect right?

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Which ones are stereotyped?

    • @fml5910
      @fml5910 ปีที่แล้ว

      So do I. I go to a alternative medicine practitioner. They asked me if I ever feel that people don't understand me, I said yes I do a lot.

  • @CHANCEINTUITIVE
    @CHANCEINTUITIVE ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m sure we hate them way more tho 😂

  • @this-abledtheextravertedhe5299
    @this-abledtheextravertedhe5299 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Uggg 😂 🤷‍♀️🤣

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can you elaborate? ;)

    • @this-abledtheextravertedhe5299
      @this-abledtheextravertedhe5299 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m kind, but blunt. I’m an annoying encyclopedia of seemingly useless knowledge 🤷‍♀️ I’d rather be silent than participate in meaningless chatter… but I enjoy pointing out the ridiculousness of things. I’m pretty boring on the outside, but if people only knew what was going on inside 🤣 😎🤗

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@this-abledtheextravertedhe5299 Thank you for this insight!

  • @WateryFire
    @WateryFire 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Elon Musk is not an INTJ. Also an INTJ would never think putting a chip in your brain and creating cyborgs is human evolution.

  • @PS-xb9hc
    @PS-xb9hc ปีที่แล้ว +1

    INTJ's lack emotional depth.

  • @kataiwannhn
    @kataiwannhn ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The thing about suggesting getting a new pet when the old one died seems to be viewed as some kind of paradigm of the need for Fe. Actually, what it really shows is that many young people are at the emotional maturity level of a toddler when they cannot easily take such a suggestion emotionally. Typical Snowflake. "Crimes" against logic, on the other hand, are usually accepted without hesitation or even seen as chic.

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great insight!

    • @danika9411
      @danika9411 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can get very attached to a pet. Like to a friend or family member. When your sister/brother or cousin dies would you say "Well mom and dad can still adopt another child."? At least I hope not.
      Maybe you understand now.
      Sincerely ENFP
      Who doesn't understand how we're paired with INTJs so much. Most videos are also about how an ENFP can help an INTJ, but the INTJ isn't going to love and care and have actual emotional empathy for the ENFP the way an ENFP needs.

  • @pantherman8719
    @pantherman8719 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ughh.

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey Panther Man!

    • @pantherman8719
      @pantherman8719 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PsychologyRefresh hey

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pantherman8719 Are you an INTJ?

    • @pantherman8719
      @pantherman8719 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PsychologyRefresh from the test i took recently apparently. I didn't understand what the acronym meant. Architect?

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pantherman8719 Exactly!

  • @snudgegalbraith3447
    @snudgegalbraith3447 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Elon musk is an intp

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why do you think so?

    • @snudgegalbraith3447
      @snudgegalbraith3447 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Psychology Refresh in his words he reasons from first principles not by analogy. Reasoning from first principles is introverted thinking i.e breaking it down to understand its basic parts. Extraverted thinking is more reasoning by analogy i.e use what has worked before to get a result. He has also stated he "doesnt even have a business plan" . Intjs are all about plans and would be a ridiculous thing to hear them say as they lead with Ni ; it is very common for intp to say this. In his behaviour he is very playful and almost silly...this shows Ne and Fe where intj can he witty and sarcastic but are mostly serious and business like... he said that he tries to be useful for other people and thats what he likes doing; this is his Ti Ne Si fufilling his aspirational Fe...why do you think he is an intj?

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@snudgegalbraith3447 Thank you so much for this insight! Elon is often self-assured, analytical, and ambitious. Elon is probably an independent thinker who is interested in finding solutions to global issues. We believe his dominant function is Introverted Intuition (Ni).

    • @snudgegalbraith3447
      @snudgegalbraith3447 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Psychology Refresh why do you believe that?

    • @PsychologyRefresh
      @PsychologyRefresh  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@snudgegalbraith3447 He plans, rather than react, he is very strategical and like doing things instead of thinking about them. He is very future oriented, and also is a great problem-solver.

  • @jamielake-boyd3600
    @jamielake-boyd3600 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How narcissist look at you 😂

  • @imho2278
    @imho2278 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Who cares?

  • @CatCat-tm2cg
    @CatCat-tm2cg ปีที่แล้ว +5

    as an INTJ
    what people expect:
    🤖
    🦾
    🦿
    The reality:
    🙂🖕
    🎻 I 📚
    🐈 /\🐈‍⬛