The second story bf sounds like an introvert and her family might be extremely extroverted and probably made him feel trapped and/or smothered and he’s probably to polite to say to them that he needs them to leave him alone. For those not in the know introverted people are like a battery they charge them selves by being alone and expel that charge when interacting with others. That can be people at work, running errands, or even family.
You might be right and it's just introversion, but I'd go a step further and say that he's probably autistic. Everything that she said about his personality are incredibly common things for people on the spectrum.
For the second story, the guy sounds like he's on the spectrum. He may not even know it, it just reminds me of a lot of things that I do. In my last relationship, I would masturbate (albeit not terribly often, like once every few days to a week) rather than have sex because sex was too difficult, took too much out of me, and I couldn't orgasm during sex because of how much was going on. Having a tough time talking a lot is another thing. I struggle to talk with people about things that I'm not interested in or superficial things, which means that I don't talk much. I could go on and I may be wrong, but everything she said about him is symptomatic of autism.
I’m glad someone else came to this conclusion. He sounds exactly like me (a person with autism), and the story really just confused me because to me he sounded completely normal. Hope he finds someone who understands how Autism effects relationships
@@Columnn1 Why not? I think it's important to talk about things like this because it helps people to better understand those around them. I wish that people had known what autism looked like more when I was growing up, maybe if more people talked about it my childhood would have been a little easier. If even one person reads my comment and it leads to them treating an autistic person better then I think speculating about this stranger/fictional characters disorder based on the extreme level of commonalities was categorically the right thing to do.
Story 2, i had the same thing happen to me but i went on the beach trip, had a lot of fun and bonded with her brother and father (since my brother and father hate le it was therapeutic) cooked and learned from her mom, and enjoyed swimming with my gf, i had to hold off for a week but it was worth afterwards, he might be really shy with her family or something, maybe his 🌽 orn addiction is stronger than Goku
Story 2: So... you basically dislike everything that makes him the person he is? In the end good thing you broke up with him. He dodged a bullet by not staying with someone who thinks they are owed s€x.
That’s not the problem. Having a porn addiction or or being low-effort in a relationship is not “who you are” unless “who you are” is an absolute asshole
@@galaxytigermagic24247 and here it is... the victim blaming and gaslighting. Imagine thinking a woman owes her partner s€x on a tap. Imagine her SO is so toxic that he can't understand that s€x is a 2 yes/ 1 no thing. Now imagine that you think this is normal just because it happens to a man instead of a woman. SMH.
Come on now, choking the chicken by yourself instead of calling your gf of two years who tell you she wants sex? Nobody who stay in that situation@@SSFighter1701
Why not just go back to doing "one tale a time?" I honestly think it'd be better if you split the stories into their own seperate videos & do a double upload instead.
You're still sticking with the 2 stories format huh... and with no timestamp, either. Listen. NOBODY LIKES this format. People do NOT want to hear a random story that wasn't in the title.
Can't lie, I don't care so don't take it ss a everybody thing. There is a bigger comment like this and there were a lot of people that weren't bothered. But now, with that said: Yes this youtuber should put in the little effort needed to show 2 parts. Even if just a time stamp.
@dunslax6970 Yea, like I said, a lot of people don't care but if the youtuber can do it then it's fine. In that case where you don't care or mind but if they want to do it and can do it then you think they should do it, you will prolly be a part of the 76%. Also I don't know, I fee like my first comment offended you, if that's the case my bad bro.
Yes, thank you for pointing it out again. Made the same comment. If he really wants that ad revenue, he can make shorter videos with ad or two. That would mean two videos instead of one long one where there are two stories. He would also get more views that way, and thus, more revenue. Also, the point of the poll is to get an opinion and actually follow through or even find a compromise, not completely ignore it. That's just rude.
10:09 for the second story
Thanks bro
"I think it's dumb, but I'm dumb. But my wife also thinks it's dumb and she's really smart." xD
This is how I make my most important decisions tbh
Do a timestamp system showingt the ends of each story,, so people can better gauge the story length how u can with a 1 story video
Or at least have a longer break between stories so we can mentally separate them
I kinda think they did that on purpose to force people to listen to the whole thing…
Alice deserved better, good on OP and his wife for taking her in.
Lmao, the first op sounds like a redditers idea of a cowboy 💀
The second story bf sounds like an introvert and her family might be extremely extroverted and probably made him feel trapped and/or smothered and he’s probably to polite to say to them that he needs them to leave him alone. For those not in the know introverted people are like a battery they charge them selves by being alone and expel that charge when interacting with others. That can be people at work, running errands, or even family.
You might be right and it's just introversion, but I'd go a step further and say that he's probably autistic. Everything that she said about his personality are incredibly common things for people on the spectrum.
That is not an excuse for making plans and then changing it last minute.
NTA you did right by Alice !
Story 2: Honestly it just seems like OP’s BF was transmitting very clearly how he was going to be and what his priorities were.
For the second story, the guy sounds like he's on the spectrum. He may not even know it, it just reminds me of a lot of things that I do. In my last relationship, I would masturbate (albeit not terribly often, like once every few days to a week) rather than have sex because sex was too difficult, took too much out of me, and I couldn't orgasm during sex because of how much was going on. Having a tough time talking a lot is another thing. I struggle to talk with people about things that I'm not interested in or superficial things, which means that I don't talk much. I could go on and I may be wrong, but everything she said about him is symptomatic of autism.
I’m glad someone else came to this conclusion. He sounds exactly like me (a person with autism), and the story really just confused me because to me he sounded completely normal. Hope he finds someone who understands how Autism effects relationships
Hello fellow autists. Just quietly concurring.
Blud, let's not theorise about strangers'/fictional characters' disorders
@@Columnn1 so we cant have a discussion about a story online that we relate to? Get over yourself who made you the mental health police
@@Columnn1 Why not? I think it's important to talk about things like this because it helps people to better understand those around them. I wish that people had known what autism looked like more when I was growing up, maybe if more people talked about it my childhood would have been a little easier. If even one person reads my comment and it leads to them treating an autistic person better then I think speculating about this stranger/fictional characters disorder based on the extreme level of commonalities was categorically the right thing to do.
Story 2, i had the same thing happen to me but i went on the beach trip, had a lot of fun and bonded with her brother and father (since my brother and father hate le it was therapeutic) cooked and learned from her mom, and enjoyed swimming with my gf, i had to hold off for a week but it was worth afterwards, he might be really shy with her family or something, maybe his 🌽 orn addiction is stronger than Goku
Story 2, bf was only interested in her for the action on his terms...
Hope dude finds someone more compatible. They were not in the slightest
Story 2: So... you basically dislike everything that makes him the person he is?
In the end good thing you broke up with him. He dodged a bullet by not staying with someone who thinks they are owed s€x.
That’s not the problem. Having a porn addiction or or being low-effort in a relationship is not “who you are” unless “who you are” is an absolute asshole
@@galaxytigermagic24247 and here it is... the victim blaming and gaslighting.
Imagine thinking a woman owes her partner s€x on a tap. Imagine her SO is so toxic that he can't understand that s€x is a 2 yes/ 1 no thing.
Now imagine that you think this is normal just because it happens to a man instead of a woman. SMH.
@@galaxytigermagic24247Ooor they are just completely incompatible and neither are at fault.
Come on now, choking the chicken by yourself instead of calling your gf of two years who tell you she wants sex? Nobody who stay in that situation@@SSFighter1701
Why not just go back to doing "one tale a time?" I honestly think it'd be better if you split the stories into their own seperate videos & do a double upload instead.
You're still sticking with the 2 stories format huh... and with no timestamp, either. Listen. NOBODY LIKES this format. People do NOT want to hear a random story that wasn't in the title.
Can't lie, I don't care so don't take it ss a everybody thing. There is a bigger comment like this and there were a lot of people that weren't bothered.
But now, with that said: Yes this youtuber should put in the little effort needed to show 2 parts. Even if just a time stamp.
@@putent9623 He made a community poll, 76% people voted on wanting just 1 story per video, 19% don't mind it, just 4% actually likes it.
@dunslax6970 Yea, like I said, a lot of people don't care but if the youtuber can do it then it's fine. In that case where you don't care or mind but if they want to do it and can do it then you think they should do it, you will prolly be a part of the 76%. Also I don't know, I fee like my first comment offended you, if that's the case my bad bro.
Yes, thank you for pointing it out again. Made the same comment. If he really wants that ad revenue, he can make shorter videos with ad or two. That would mean two videos instead of one long one where there are two stories. He would also get more views that way, and thus, more revenue.
Also, the point of the poll is to get an opinion and actually follow through or even find a compromise, not completely ignore it. That's just rude.
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