No, you’re not just attracting the wrong people. Only bad people don’t just pull towards you like a magnet. You are attracted to the wrong people but it’s easier to say “I am attracting them” as a way to remove responsibility from your bad choices of being attracted to bad people who have bad qualities. Yes, if someone carries themselves in a toxic manner they will attract more toxic people. This is very true. However, not all people who attract toxic people are explicitly revealing themselves in a toxic way at all times, but they’re actively attracted to those toxic people. Stop saying “I am attracting” and take accountability and start being honest with yourself and your bad chives and start saying “I am and have been attracted to toxic people with toxic qualities.” Then once one is honest with themselves and take responsibility, then can start asking ‘WHY am I attracted to such people?’ But sadly very few people don’t like facing their demons and just want to masturbate with peasant self-flatteries.
The scenarios she presented were not of one-sided attention. Someone I am not interested in asks me out and I say no because of poor character/legal history/unsaved. It was about bad people she chose--if not preferred--to date. Not about involuntarily attracting bad guys but preferring bad guys to good.
Sooooo good omg! I’m watching this on Christmas Day 😮 thank you Jesus! Thank you Kate for saying it like this very well explained 🙌🔥🔥🔥
No, you’re not just attracting the wrong people. Only bad people don’t just pull towards you like a magnet. You are attracted to the wrong people but it’s easier to say “I am attracting them” as a way to remove responsibility from your bad choices of being attracted to bad people who have bad qualities.
Yes, if someone carries themselves in a toxic manner they will attract more toxic people. This is very true. However, not all people who attract toxic people are explicitly revealing themselves in a toxic way at all times, but they’re actively attracted to those toxic people.
Stop saying “I am attracting” and take accountability and start being honest with yourself and your bad chives and start saying “I am and have been attracted to toxic people with toxic qualities.”
Then once one is honest with themselves and take responsibility, then can start asking ‘WHY am I attracted to such people?’
But sadly very few people don’t like facing their demons and just want to masturbate with peasant self-flatteries.
So good
Great advice Kait 🎉😊. Thank you again for sharing wisdom ❤
Appreciate this sound advice! Thank you😊
No - why do you keep choosing the wrong people??
The scenarios she presented were not of one-sided attention. Someone I am not interested in asks me out and I say no because of poor character/legal history/unsaved. It was about bad people she chose--if not preferred--to date. Not about involuntarily attracting bad guys but preferring bad guys to good.
@@RachelNichols-writer - that's just another female avoidance of accountability strategy!!
Jokes on you I don't attract shit