I'm a teacher and I am totally using this video tomorrow for our respect self and others lesson. I am a 1st year teacher and my number one goal is to create a bully free, trauma-sensitive, safe and nurturing classroom. Thank you for your message.
When i was getting bullied i wanted to give up 😞i still think about that day but im not gonna worry about it no more ik what to do if i ever get bullied again 1.walk away 2.tell adult 3.ignore 4.dont pay attention
baby Krystal never got a persons like you, even if you are weak compare to bully, you can still punch his face and when he/she sees that act of defense they won’t come again or at least tell to principle and they will do job for you.
Hey if the school give you the back let them because in the end is the day you became stronger and you know the life is not always rainbows and unicorns
@@1jeremyanderson can u give one reason why i shouldn't commit suicide why i should have hope everything gets worse day by day whenever i think to be positive life is good for you that dosent me it will get better for everyone it is real easy to deliver a speech but not easy to be in another mans shoes
its sad cuz people bully without knowing, mistaking it as teasing. some people go to school acting like a completely different person than they do at home
Thank you for this. I'm 14 and currently experiencing this. Everything feels so cramped inside like I've got nowhere to breathe, I never remembered the last time I was actually happy and breathing with no problems to care about. My family is also having financial problems and health problems, and because of past experiences I've been having social anxiety for as long as I can remember. Thank you for this video, I hope that one day, in my thesis or maybe when I grow up I could talk about this and show this video to everyone and slam the bullies in their faces and show the world that this needs to change. Thank you.
aileenchriscelia I know exactly what you’re going through, know your not alone. I’m 14 in y10 and I everyday I have a ‘popular’ group of girls calling, bullying not just me but my best friends too, because of our makeup, when of course they wear A LOT more like sharpie eyebrows all that. And we get told to take it off, not them. I understand what you’re going through, you’re not alone. The feelings, the emotions are there forever, have faith, I know one day it’ll all be over and I know everything will work out for you. It’s hard rn believe me, I know, but this suffering isn’t permanent, I’m here for you tooo
I recently met a young man (John), he told me he got expelled from school for being a crazed fighter. After some friendly discussion, he was a slim guy and so got picked on, his only defense was learn how to fight and quickly floor his opponents. He went on to say, he rejected the life-style of others (drugs, living on welfare, theft) and got a basic manual job. I gave John a summary of how good he was in his thinking, he has self-dignity, impressive. I went on to say, somewhere not too far from his home, is another young man in exactly the same situation, for only a 30 minute chat with John would transform that young man's life for the better :) I could see the positive energy charging John. :)
I been bullied before ik how it feels the people that bullied me they gone catch it what they did was wrong i didn't deserve that i don't have friends i been through a lot and im not going through again i want a good friend not a bully friend
AMEN!!!!! You could not have put this out at a better time!!!!! The culture has GOT to change. Words hurt! Thank you for speaking the truth! Love to you
Cheri Ascue thanks for your kind words!!! I’m just here trying to make a difference. I really appreciate you taking the time to retweet and share our content. You ROCK!! Love to you as well!
There are definitely teachers that bully. Bully students and certainly other staff. The admin don't do anything about workplace bullying, they go as far to support it in some cases. They certainly don't do anything to fix it.
I was just thinking the exact same thing while scrolling down to comments, I got bullied and body shamed by my teacher which led to bulimia and now in a more starving phase, I'm in 8th grade now
And then these people say "I was just playing" No these type of people need to accept that others have feelings just like they do plus youre not actually making yourself happy about embarrassing a person and make them feel bad about themselfs Be peaceful guys ❤
Bullies always find an excuse to personally harass. And in worse cases, the excuse is given to them on a silver platter. Like my case. I remember this Latino kid would keep harassing me and everyone else just casually said he was just "hardcore". They basically approved of his harassment without making it obvious. Oh, and then they got salty at me when I snapped and reached my limit.
Look dude, I was getting bullied since I was 11. One day I was sick of this and tried to give up. I luckily saw ur video. You saved my life I guess. Thanks
Whenever a bullied students were approached by my homeroom teacher, they ask what's wrong, they saw them crying and breaking down. I might have appreciate her effort of comforting her if she didn't said those next words "There's a lot of people that has worse problems than you" Lets just say that i never hated anyone on the spot in just a short amount of time
I know exactly what you mean. Adults generally just don't want to know, because they don't know what to do. One reply I heard from a "trusted" adult was "oh we all got problems" and then walked off. As Jade says, it's a trigger on how to hate someone on the spot. It's a Bible moment, forgive them as they don't know the damage they have just done. On the positive side, a person tends to become more independent, knowing there's no real external help to be had. Drugs/booze or getting into a gang doesn't work either, it's a journey of self-learning.
When I was in high school, there were these 2 brothers that had failed so many grades that they were like 20 y/o in the 9th grade so, naturally, they were all bigger than us. They didn't just try to push you around they tried to break bones. When there was only one of them they weren't so bad but when both were together no one wanted to go to school. After graduation I joined the US military and did 6 years. I went back to my home town JUST to look those boys up to, as the line said in the movie The Outlaw Josey Wales "Set things a'right." Well, one of them had been in a car wreck and was wheelchair bound for life and the other has left town and no one seemed to know where he went. I can't whoop a guy in a wheelchair. By doing such a thing, I would become the very thing I hated. But, I left word with the right people so it would get back to him that he's a lucky man to be in a wheelchair because if he wasn't now, if I could have gotten my hands in him, he very soon would be because I had plans to deliver one hell of an ass whoopin to both of them.
wow - 100% correct, Jeremy has been reading my mind - we are very different cultures but the experience is exactly the same! So it's human nature. One particular comments rang so true, a person could be having a bad time at home and come to school for a relief only for the mess to continue in a different way. NUT (National Union of Teachers UK) did say - we're teachers not social workers, wrong they have a duty of care. It is very true, bullies seldom pick fights with people they think might beat them. There are sadly some families who do pick fights with any tough guy, as they want to show they are the King/Queen of the town. They are usually in/out of jail, deal drugs, into theft stealing. It is also true some students hate bullies, even at school age they know what a bully is and will usually stop an attack on a person. As we grow older we see this as being the right thing to do. Sadly I see this kind of behaviour in work situation, I tend to step in.
I am so very sorry. Remove yourself from the situation as much as possible. Get help. You are beautiful. I love and care for you❤. Let's fight together 🙏
Don't think on the negatives. You'll always have to follow your heart Getting bullied in your neighborhood is unsafe People would believe that bullying is a crime, is because it's a crime Treat people with some respect "Treat Yourself Some Courtesy" Jeremy is a true spokesmen
This makes me so sad i get bullied my whole life.because of how i act look my flaws teeth(missing one teeth because of health issues)hair As A Kid My classmates would throw hard heavy stuff at me like a big full Walter bottle ,coins,ect the worst one was when it was Winter they threw a snow ball at me with ice on it ,my Neck and head were bleeding a litlle.I always get picked on because they say im wierd ,which i dont understand i do all the normal stuff they do.It did get better as Years passed now.But now my class is ignoring me making fun of me,they say the most harsh words,my Main Bully now which is like populär got the whole school to hate me.Hes like lying to make me look like im this Bad Person trying to get him in trouble i lost some of my "friends" because of this,I always try to be nice i borrow Them money i try to be there for Them but they just hate me for no reason half of the people that Bully me i never saw Them before in my life.I get Bad Grades because i am scared to say something in Claas.everyone there in my class tells me to kill myself that im just looking for attention.i had a Bad childhood i bot abused from my das and i had to watch him beat my mom and familly bloody,because of this i am a aggressive Person and when something is bothering me and i dont know how to handle it i attack people i run after them thretnig Them i punch myself in the face i sratch myself in the face i scream like an mentaly insane Person thats why i went im a camp for suicidle dangrous children with Depression.Because of that people always try to push me so that i get mad.But it just hurts ging to Scholl knowing everyone hates you hurts you.I live in germany so i weht to the Police and the police now is suing the kids and the School is trying to help me because i have Tried to kill myself hurt myself many times and they dont want that hapening again.but the kids wont stop like my mom and some other people are trying to help me which i apriciate.but they still mocking me and im not the only one.im also half bosnian and because of that some people can be racist against my familly but not even much,like 1 a year.i also because of this am going the wrong way i smoak (smoke) drink because if i dont i will be picked on for not beging cool enough and im 14 almost 15. but anyways i dont know what to do anymore i need help.haha this sounds Messed up.but yeah love you all💜😂❤😍
I hope life gets better. I am in a similar situation but its not always targetted at me. However,there is this small grp of ppl that are really annoying me. I have been kind to them but they be mad. Stay strong bruv,u got this
Hope your better it's not ok this happened to you I feel for you and wish you the best! Stay strong it's not as easy as it sounds . You are worth my time to reply to this comment and hope you the best I rarely put replies people care and I'm one of them.
Im Not scared of my bullies. I can easily Fight them and Destroy them but im worried about my parents. My parents will get Ashamed because of me if I Fight these bullies back. When they are bullying me I always think about what will happen if i fight back. Like The other day,The bullies are bullying me and then, I punched the classroom window and broke it. My hands are bleeding, and what i notice is that they all stop. I think about my self. What if i am agressive to them? Will they stop? And then I looked at my hands and my Classmates ( the nice ones ). They all stared at me. What I notice again is that not only the bullies stop, but my nice classmates. So i stopped.. then its card day ( day where parents talk to their teachers ) My parents were looking at me and said. Why did you do that? I just stopped after hearing my moms worried voice. So i made an excuse and told her i accidentaly broke it ( she didn't know my hands are bleeding and that i punched it. My teacher just said that i broke it agressively ) I got Mad at myself. then The bullying returned. I have so much hatred to these bullies and So much Hunger for Revenge.. i just cant.. if only i dont have parents that are too nice then i would have fight them back then. I am worried about them.. but these bullies are taking things too far. Its something i got so mad. They told me that I have a stupid mother and she is a slut. I got so pissed. My two emotions are mixed in my head.. Its just too much. Then they told me that She is the worst person in the world... THEY ARE FUKING PUTTING MY FAMILY TO THEIR BULLYING!! EVEN MY FATHER!! MY SISTER!! ITS JUST TOO FUKING MUCH!!! I DONT CARE WHAT THEY SAY TO ME BUT NOT MY FAMILY!! CALL ME GAY! CALL ME SHIT! SHAME ME!! BUT NEVER EVER PUT MY PARENTS IN YOUR IDIOTIC ATTITUDE! Its too much. I am Cornered. I have the power to fight them back but then my Family will be worried about me so much that they cant function properly. Or Do not fight back but But Get shamed all the time even my family.. I will not tell any other adult because my parents will know about it.. What should I Do?
Zonrox Bleach wow!! Thanks for sharing this. This is what you need to do.....trust me, this is the best advice. 1. Have a honest conversation with your parents. Tell them about the bully and what they say and how that makes you angry. Your mom will be happy that you want to defend her name. You HAVE to share this with them. They are your team. If you were a parent, wouldn’t you want your son sharing this with you? 2. Tell the teacher. They have to know what’s going on. Give them a chance to handle the situation. Bullies thrive off of the silence of their victims. Well by telling the teacher you can hold them accountable. If you do these 2 things, they will handle to situation. But what we DON’T want you to do is hurt another student because if words that they said. That will really really make your parents sad. Let’s them know what’s going on, and you all can work together as a team to fix the problem. Make me proud. I believe in you!!
I actually see here a "great defender" type of person. We need you. I see here the development process, all the parts are there, just not yet in the right order and some links missing. Perhaps the first thing to do, and this is not easy when so close to the action, be clear about what you do and why. If a bully attacks and you floor them, let the other kids see that, make it ugly, they will then know you can do the job. Next trick is not to make a habit of it, the bullies will taunt you in "public" so to get you angry and violent, they win without doing anything. Trick here is to issue a calm but firm warning. Another tactic is to corner the bully, toe-to-toe (better in front of his henchmen if possible) - and quietly and firmly lay the law out. "talk bad about my family again and I will do something about it." but use better words. (their memory of that ugly beating will be there ;) As Jeremy says, once the reasoning of action is understood, explain to your parents, it may take many attempts, as all they will hear is you're thug, with possibly calls by the police. It usually just takes the ugly flooring of 2-3 bullies and that's the end of it. I found then the peaceful students respect that a lot, the other wanna be bullies will know not to try. It can actually "clean up" a school - bullying reduces because all the kids know, there is really tough guy who can floor everyone and he's great fun to be with. That is one mega feeling :) What you want is to get people to understand you are a bold defender of the peace. Obviously I'd prefer no physical violence at all, sadly at my school ( very long time ago), that's all bullies understood. Be an able peace maker, that gains tons of respect.
Thank you for this i've been bullied since elementary to college because of my appearance that I lost my confidence and self-esteem that I feel like i don't belong in this world. If someone praises me I don't believe it cause I know i dont deserve it.
One time when I started Richard Hull middle school, i moved to a neighborhood. I was at the bus stop and i was greeted by this girl, she was nice at first. But then she constantly talked behind my back alot and made fun of my roller backpack. She then came up to me and said that why am i so quiet. Then I told her becuase this is the way i am. You gotta problem with that? And she said no and had a worried face and left. When we got out of the bus it was raining, i accidentlet slipped on the curve. Her and her friends looked at each other and laughed liked donkies. I had times where I was followed by the girl and her accomplaces. They obviously were laughing at me. We moved out of that nieghborhood and never saw her again. I still get bad flashbacks from it. Everybody thought she was nice but she was really a bully, a stupid one too. Now that looked back, everyone was insecure including the girl. I did not bully back or yell at them, I just simpley moved on and ignored them. But now I regret it becuase I shouldve done something like fightback or be very confident to stand up for myself. Everytime I looked back, I keep hurting myslef by punching. When I looked at this video, it reminded me that this girl and her friends were just simply insecure and jelous of me. I became the best person I can be. If this girl sees this, i just want to say that I forgive you. You were only human. But I hope you understood the pain that you put me through. You would rather impress your friends than be friendly with an innocent new girl that didnt even lay a finger on you. Why do you do this?
I so wish our scool district would bring you here. My 14 yr old just finished 3 yrs of middle school. 3 yeats of misery. And the school does not care. Its sad that a child cannot go to school without stressing over what the bullies will do or say today. My heart breaks and i can only hope high school is different.
I spent 106 days of hell in St. Bernard Parish Prison for a crime of Armed Robbery that I DID NOT COMMIT. I was able to prove my innocence, but all I went through was because of two selfish bullies where I worked. They stole my wallet, here in Florida. They went to Louisiana and attempted a robbery at a convenience store. They dropped my drivers license on the counter and the " !!! SYSTEM !!! " assumed it was me. I was badgered, bullied and physically abused while I was in prison. all for something I didn't do. I feel this is a story I need to tell and get into the minds of our younger generation. Being a bully can cause a LOT MORE HARM that you can comprehend. I will never ever forgive those two individuals who put me through the crap I went through. Christopher Hazel and Cory Boots (most likely a fake name, he always frequented the beaches of the Resort I was a security guard at... he was a bum. Acted like one anyway.)
When I have my kids man I swear I will show them what not to do and tell them what happened to me I could never gossip about family problems or friends gossip if I still have a relationship with them but I can show them to be kind respectful and say certain things are not correct 💗
Telling bullies to stop being mean is not a very effective tactic. Its far more empowering to use the pressure to mold yourself into someone strong enough to withstand and overcome it.
I liked and Subbed because I want to do exactly what you do... I want to go to different schools and spread this message. It isn't right human beings treat others as a lesser status.
Hello Jeremy Lenia here,👋 thanks a lot 🙏for this sensitive topic that has far more heavy weight than most of ppl think & till it hit you personally,no one realises,cyberbullying can rob you of your own life & make you so lonely & it make you come across "the evil eye" regardless of what's inside you, Iam in my middle of age before it happened to me I hear about all sorts but I never believe as Iam skeptical or ,& I didn't realised as it wasnt me till it hit me,now I do realise...From just a misunderstanding,a group of ppl did what they do so in a blink of an eye I become labelled & framed in a country where I reside under a system that am not familiar with & among ppl that aren't mine,I didn't realise how the issue is serious only after I travelled to my own home country & when I travelled to California,from the things I witness it made me realise that I was a victim of cyber bullying.Iam an HSP for the God sakes but a differnt story was pinned to me wherever I go & that story matters cz it has affected the collective public opinion about "who Iam" so I become completely excluded & wherever I go ppl avoids me & more.I never had support so I can only exist & have a voice in this line if they don't take it from me...as they have taken everything from me,my ideas & more
The reason that I started getting bullied. Is that I didn't care. I was an easy target. For 3 years I had this problem. And I had enough. I have just entered middle school and 3 months in, there is already another asshole waiting to piss me off. There is a part of my brain that wants to keep me out of Trouble but ignoring it. But that has been taken over by a part that says: Make them pay.
Getting teased at school because people think that boys just need to man up and not be so sensitive bullshit. I’m sensitive and I’m a boy and I get bullied about it. This world is so bad for bullying no matter what age you are. I also don’t get why people bully you because the way you look your race or your gender it’s a fucking mess. This video is such an inspiration so thank you so much 🙏
@@adolfsmith5191 I was getting bullied for no reason girls wanted to start with me I didn't give em what they want and they wanted to fight me and take my man I was cussing her ass out the girl 16 and she underage and I'm grown I been through a lot
@@adolfsmith5191 i don't have friends no more I want positive friends not drama friends I always be by myself I don't deal nobody like that after all that happened I don't trust people like that no more
Beware to the Bullys and cowards that beat you down, when you start to crave the next Beating and their capable limits of inflicting pain fails to Satisfy your new appetite! AG
I've been bullied just last week ago near in our house. Where going to Jog outside with my daughter, a guys tell me that I'm "Fat". Now I can feel the others pain when they been bullied by someone else. So painful... 😞
I'm a teacher and I am totally using this video tomorrow for our respect self and others lesson. I am a 1st year teacher and my number one goal is to create a bully free, trauma-sensitive, safe and nurturing classroom. Thank you for your message.
Matthew thanks bro!
Seriously amazing. Thank you & god bless you 🙏🏿
Please everyone who is bullied don’t give up it will end
When i was getting bullied i wanted to give up 😞i still think about that day but im not gonna worry about it no more ik what to do if i ever get bullied again
1.walk away
2.tell adult
3.ignore
4.dont pay attention
Eh I'm gonna die
baby Krystal never got a persons like you, even if you are weak compare to bully, you can still punch his face and when he/she sees that act of defense they won’t come again or at least tell to principle and they will do job for you.
not always
Been bullied for 10 years and its still continues every second of my life
I’m having a bad time at school thanks for this video it really has helped me.
Be the best person you can be!
Be yourself please, you are loved, and you’re precious
Hey if the school give you the back let them because in the end is the day you became stronger and you know the life is not always rainbows and unicorns
BeTa_Gold I hope that you are sharing the issues at your school with some form of authority!
@@1jeremyanderson can u give one reason why i shouldn't commit suicide why i should have hope everything gets worse day by day whenever i think to be positive life is good for you that dosent me it will get better for everyone it is real easy to deliver a speech but not easy to be in another mans shoes
its sad cuz people bully without knowing, mistaking it as teasing. some people go to school acting like a completely different person than they do at home
So true
Agreed man I have seen and know a girl that dose just that
Thank you for this. I'm 14 and currently experiencing this. Everything feels so cramped inside like I've got nowhere to breathe, I never remembered the last time I was actually happy and breathing with no problems to care about. My family is also having financial problems and health problems, and because of past experiences I've been having social anxiety for as long as I can remember.
Thank you for this video, I hope that one day, in my thesis or maybe when I grow up I could talk about this and show this video to everyone and slam the bullies in their faces and show the world that this needs to change.
Thank you.
aileenchriscelia I know exactly what you’re going through, know your not alone. I’m 14 in y10 and I everyday I have a ‘popular’ group of girls calling, bullying not just me but my best friends too, because of our makeup, when of course they wear A LOT more like sharpie eyebrows all that. And we get told to take it off, not them. I understand what you’re going through, you’re not alone. The feelings, the emotions are there forever, have faith, I know one day it’ll all be over and I know everything will work out for you. It’s hard rn believe me, I know, but this suffering isn’t permanent, I’m here for you tooo
I recently met a young man (John), he told me he got expelled from school for being a crazed fighter. After some friendly discussion, he was a slim guy and so got picked on, his only defense was learn how to fight and quickly floor his opponents. He went on to say, he rejected the life-style of others (drugs, living on welfare, theft) and got a basic manual job.
I gave John a summary of how good he was in his thinking, he has self-dignity, impressive. I went on to say, somewhere not too far from his home, is another young man in exactly the same situation, for only a 30 minute chat with John would transform that young man's life for the better :) I could see the positive energy charging John. :)
I hate bullies good speech
I been bullied before ik how it feels the people that bullied me they gone catch it what they did was wrong i didn't deserve that i don't have friends i been through a lot and im not going through again i want a good friend not a bully friend
And good speech
AMEN!!!!! You could not have put this out at a better time!!!!! The culture has GOT to change. Words hurt! Thank you for speaking the truth! Love to you
Cheri Ascue thanks for your kind words!!! I’m just here trying to make a difference. I really appreciate you taking the time to retweet and share our content. You ROCK!! Love to you as well!
Whats more sad that now even the teachers do that.
Simon Petkov yup
so true I go to school not even learning
There are definitely teachers that bully. Bully students and certainly other staff. The admin don't do anything about workplace bullying, they go as far to support it in some cases. They certainly don't do anything to fix it.
I was just thinking the exact same thing while scrolling down to comments, I got bullied and body shamed by my teacher which led to bulimia and now in a more starving phase, I'm in 8th grade now
The fact that they allow a bully to bully a victim only to punish the victim when they retaliate is living proof.
And then these people say
"I was just playing"
No these type of people need to accept that others have feelings just like they do plus youre not actually making yourself happy about embarrassing a person and make them feel bad about themselfs
Be peaceful guys ❤
Bullies always find an excuse to personally harass. And in worse cases, the excuse is given to them on a silver platter. Like my case. I remember this Latino kid would keep harassing me and everyone else just casually said he was just "hardcore". They basically approved of his harassment without making it obvious. Oh, and then they got salty at me when I snapped and reached my limit.
Being a bully is just to fun
@@gear5th300 no disrespect,but u said this in the wrong place.
@@Justme-fz1ng fuck you
Look dude, I was getting bullied since I was 11. One day I was sick of this and tried to give up. I luckily saw ur video. You saved my life I guess. Thanks
This actually brought me to tears😭❤️❤️❤️he spoke my heart
Whenever a bullied students were approached by my homeroom teacher, they ask what's wrong, they saw them crying and breaking down. I might have appreciate her effort of comforting her if she didn't said those next words
"There's a lot of people that has worse problems than you"
Lets just say that i never hated anyone on the spot in just a short amount of time
Its ok u will get thru this
What the hell is that person trying to make her feel like crap?
I know exactly what you mean. Adults generally just don't want to know, because they don't know what to do. One reply I heard from a "trusted" adult was "oh we all got problems" and then walked off. As Jade says, it's a trigger on how to hate someone on the spot. It's a Bible moment, forgive them as they don't know the damage they have just done.
On the positive side, a person tends to become more independent, knowing there's no real external help to be had. Drugs/booze or getting into a gang doesn't work either, it's a journey of self-learning.
I can relate that's why I raised my kids up to stand up for someone getting bullied!!Be a leader not a follower my #1rule!!
💪🏽
yeah
When I was in high school, there were these 2 brothers that had failed so many grades that they were like 20 y/o in the 9th grade so, naturally, they were all bigger than us. They didn't just try to push you around they tried to break bones. When there was only one of them they weren't so bad but when both were together no one wanted to go to school. After graduation I joined the US military and did 6 years. I went back to my home town JUST to look those boys up to, as the line said in the movie The Outlaw Josey Wales "Set things a'right." Well, one of them had been in a car wreck and was wheelchair bound for life and the other has left town and no one seemed to know where he went. I can't whoop a guy in a wheelchair. By doing such a thing, I would become the very thing I hated. But, I left word with the right people so it would get back to him that he's a lucky man to be in a wheelchair because if he wasn't now, if I could have gotten my hands in him, he very soon would be because I had plans to deliver one hell of an ass whoopin to both of them.
wow - 100% correct, Jeremy has been reading my mind - we are very different cultures but the experience is exactly the same! So it's human nature.
One particular comments rang so true, a person could be having a bad time at home and come to school for a relief only for the mess to continue in a different way. NUT (National Union of Teachers UK) did say - we're teachers not social workers, wrong they have a duty of care.
It is very true, bullies seldom pick fights with people they think might beat them. There are sadly some families who do pick fights with any tough guy, as they want to show they are the King/Queen of the town. They are usually in/out of jail, deal drugs, into theft stealing.
It is also true some students hate bullies, even at school age they know what a bully is and will usually stop an attack on a person. As we grow older we see this as being the right thing to do. Sadly I see this kind of behaviour in work situation, I tend to step in.
Well stated 💪🏽
God bless this man❤️🙏🏾
This man is amazing!!! I been bullied a lot! And I been bullied online a lot recently!! Bullying in any form is wrong!
Keep your chin up man I’m on your side love from Kelowna B.C Canada
I am so very sorry. Remove yourself from the situation as much as possible. Get help. You are beautiful. I love and care for you❤. Let's fight together 🙏
You're such a great speaker , i wish i can talk more confident like you :(
As a school social worker this gave me goosebumps!!! I am showing this to a 5th grade class tomorrow. They need this gahhhh
Ashley Helmer thanks, I hope it went well!
When I was bullied I told my teacher and she proceeded to defend the bully it’s so sad
*bullied, I
*bully; it’s
*sad.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. Some teachers don’t deserve sympathy when they act like thst
Wow!!He just spoke everything that was in my mind👏👏👏👏👏👏👏Thank you bro.
Don't think on the negatives. You'll always have to follow your heart
Getting bullied in your neighborhood is unsafe
People would believe that bullying is a crime, is because it's a crime
Treat people with some respect
"Treat Yourself Some Courtesy"
Jeremy is a true spokesmen
This makes me so sad i get bullied my whole life.because of how i act look my flaws teeth(missing one teeth because of health issues)hair As A Kid My classmates would throw hard heavy stuff at me like a big full Walter bottle ,coins,ect the worst one was when it was Winter they threw a snow ball at me with ice on it ,my Neck and head were bleeding a litlle.I always get picked on because they say im wierd ,which i dont understand i do all the normal stuff they do.It did get better as Years passed now.But now my class is ignoring me making fun of me,they say the most harsh words,my Main Bully now which is like populär got the whole school to hate me.Hes like lying to make me look like im this Bad Person trying to get him in trouble i lost some of my "friends" because of this,I always try to be nice i borrow Them money i try to be there for Them but they just hate me for no reason half of the people that Bully me i never saw Them before in my life.I get Bad Grades because i am scared to say something in Claas.everyone there in my class tells me to kill myself that im just looking for attention.i had a Bad childhood i bot abused from my das and i had to watch him beat my mom and familly bloody,because of this i am a aggressive Person and when something is bothering me and i dont know how to handle it i attack people i run after them thretnig Them i punch myself in the face i sratch myself in the face i scream like an mentaly insane Person thats why i went im a camp for suicidle dangrous children with Depression.Because of that people always try to push me so that i get mad.But it just hurts ging to Scholl knowing everyone hates you hurts you.I live in germany so i weht to the Police and the police now is suing the kids and the School is trying to help me because i have Tried to kill myself hurt myself many times and they dont want that hapening again.but the kids wont stop like my mom and some other people are trying to help me which i apriciate.but they still mocking me and im not the only one.im also half bosnian and because of that some people can be racist against my familly but not even much,like 1 a year.i also because of this am going the wrong way i smoak (smoke) drink because if i dont i will be picked on for not beging cool enough and im 14 almost 15. but anyways i dont know what to do anymore i need help.haha this sounds Messed up.but yeah love you all💜😂❤😍
auu brate
I hope life gets better. I am in a similar situation but its not always targetted at me. However,there is this small grp of ppl that are really annoying me. I have been kind to them but they be mad. Stay strong bruv,u got this
I hope your in a good place in your life now 💓I'm sorry for what happened to you 😔.
Hope your better it's not ok this happened to you I feel for you and wish you the best! Stay strong it's not as easy as it sounds . You are worth my time to reply to this comment and hope you the best I rarely put replies people care and I'm one of them.
Bullies (narcissists, sociopaths, psychopaths) cannot change. All we can do is gain knowledge on how to handle them.
Tree girl 🙂you are so right 🙌
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Im Not scared of my bullies. I can easily Fight them and Destroy them but im worried about my parents. My parents will get Ashamed because of me if I Fight these bullies back. When they are bullying me I always think about what will happen if i fight back. Like The other day,The bullies are bullying me and then, I punched the classroom window and broke it. My hands are bleeding, and what i notice is that they all stop. I think about my self. What if i am agressive to them? Will they stop? And then I looked at my hands and my Classmates ( the nice ones ). They all stared at me. What I notice again is that not only the bullies stop, but my nice classmates. So i stopped.. then its card day ( day where parents talk to their teachers ) My parents were looking at me and said. Why did you do that? I just stopped after hearing my moms worried voice. So i made an excuse and told her i accidentaly broke it ( she didn't know my hands are bleeding and that i punched it. My teacher just said that i broke it agressively ) I got Mad at myself. then The bullying returned. I have so much hatred to these bullies and So much Hunger for Revenge.. i just cant.. if only i dont have parents that are too nice then i would have fight them back then. I am worried about them.. but these bullies are taking things too far.
Its something i got so mad. They told me that I have a stupid mother and she is a slut. I got so pissed. My two emotions are mixed in my head.. Its just too much. Then they told me that She is the worst person in the world... THEY ARE FUKING PUTTING MY FAMILY TO THEIR BULLYING!! EVEN MY FATHER!! MY SISTER!! ITS JUST TOO FUKING MUCH!!! I DONT CARE WHAT THEY SAY TO ME BUT NOT MY FAMILY!! CALL ME GAY! CALL ME SHIT! SHAME ME!! BUT NEVER EVER PUT MY PARENTS IN YOUR IDIOTIC ATTITUDE! Its too much. I am Cornered. I have the power to fight them back but then my Family will be worried about me so much that they cant function properly. Or Do not fight back but But Get shamed all the time even my family.. I will not tell any other adult because my parents will know about it..
What should I Do?
Zonrox Bleach wow!! Thanks for sharing this. This is what you need to do.....trust me, this is the best advice.
1. Have a honest conversation with your parents. Tell them about the bully and what they say and how that makes you angry. Your mom will be happy that you want to defend her name. You HAVE to share this with them. They are your team. If you were a parent, wouldn’t you want your son sharing this with you?
2. Tell the teacher. They have to know what’s going on. Give them a chance to handle the situation. Bullies thrive off of the silence of their victims. Well by telling the teacher you can hold them accountable.
If you do these 2 things, they will handle to situation. But what we DON’T want you to do is hurt another student because if words that they said. That will really really make your parents sad. Let’s them know what’s going on, and you all can work together as a team to fix the problem. Make me proud. I believe in you!!
Zonrox Bleach don't be ashamed stick up for yourself but don't be mean like them back,
Pull out the biggest bully/leader and punch them so hard in the nose they bleed then they will back down and run for you life
I actually see here a "great defender" type of person. We need you. I see here the development process, all the parts are there, just not yet in the right order and some links missing.
Perhaps the first thing to do, and this is not easy when so close to the action, be clear about what you do and why. If a bully attacks and you floor them, let the other kids see that, make it ugly, they will then know you can do the job.
Next trick is not to make a habit of it, the bullies will taunt you in "public" so to get you angry and violent, they win without doing anything. Trick here is to issue a calm but firm warning.
Another tactic is to corner the bully, toe-to-toe (better in front of his henchmen if possible) - and quietly and firmly lay the law out. "talk bad about my family again and I will do something about it." but use better words. (their memory of that ugly beating will be there ;)
As Jeremy says, once the reasoning of action is understood, explain to your parents, it may take many attempts, as all they will hear is you're thug, with possibly calls by the police.
It usually just takes the ugly flooring of 2-3 bullies and that's the end of it. I found then the peaceful students respect that a lot, the other wanna be bullies will know not to try. It can actually "clean up" a school - bullying reduces because all the kids know, there is really tough guy who can floor everyone and he's great fun to be with. That is one mega feeling :)
What you want is to get people to understand you are a bold defender of the peace. Obviously I'd prefer no physical violence at all, sadly at my school ( very long time ago), that's all bullies understood. Be an able peace maker, that gains tons of respect.
GOD BLESS YOU
You’re an outstanding speaker. Insightful points about those who feel insecure about themselves.
Thank you 🙏🏾
Stopping bullying is an active process. It takes thought and effort. If you feel bullying should stop, put in the work.
thank u for this, i’m having a really tough time at school and yeah :(
This is needed in every schools and colleges ❤powerful help to people ❤🔥🔥
I've experienced this many times and I totally agree
Thank you for this i've been bullied since elementary to college because of my appearance that I lost my confidence and self-esteem that I feel like i don't belong in this world. If someone praises me I don't believe it cause I know i dont deserve it.
Cause i am not worth it
Thanks for the motivation bro, I can now stand up and build some of that confidence now
*motivation, bro. I
*now.
One time when I started Richard Hull middle school, i moved to a neighborhood. I was at the bus stop and i was greeted by this girl, she was nice at first. But then she constantly talked behind my back alot and made fun of my roller backpack. She then came up to me and said that why am i so quiet. Then I told her becuase this is the way i am. You gotta problem with that? And she said no and had a worried face and left. When we got out of the bus it was raining, i accidentlet slipped on the curve. Her and her friends looked at each other and laughed liked donkies. I had times where I was followed by the girl and her accomplaces. They obviously were laughing at me. We moved out of that nieghborhood and never saw her again. I still get bad flashbacks from it. Everybody thought she was nice but she was really a bully, a stupid one too. Now that looked back, everyone was insecure including the girl. I did not bully back or yell at them, I just simpley moved on and ignored them. But now I regret it becuase I shouldve done something like fightback or be very confident to stand up for myself. Everytime I looked back, I keep hurting myslef by punching. When I looked at this video, it reminded me that this girl and her friends were just simply insecure and jelous of me. I became the best person I can be. If this girl sees this, i just want to say that I forgive you. You were only human. But I hope you understood the pain that you put me through. You would rather impress your friends than be friendly with an innocent new girl that didnt even lay a finger on you. Why do you do this?
I so wish our scool district would bring you here. My 14 yr old just finished 3 yrs of middle school. 3 yeats of misery. And the school does not care. Its sad that a child cannot go to school without stressing over what the bullies will do or say today. My heart breaks and i can only hope high school is different.
I have made a short video related to this one. This is a great video, the world needs more videos like this one.
I was bullied in the 5th grade!
Now I'm in the 7th grade and became more popular in the class.
Never give up! Bullies are weaker than you are!!!!!
I spent 106 days of hell in St. Bernard Parish Prison for a crime of Armed Robbery that I DID NOT COMMIT. I was able to prove my innocence, but all I went through was because of two selfish bullies where I worked. They stole my wallet, here in Florida. They went to Louisiana and attempted a robbery at a convenience store. They dropped my drivers license on the counter and the " !!! SYSTEM !!! " assumed it was me.
I was badgered, bullied and physically abused while I was in prison.
all for something I didn't do.
I feel this is a story I need to tell and get into the minds of our younger generation.
Being a bully can cause a LOT MORE HARM that you can comprehend.
I will never ever forgive those two individuals who put me through the crap I went through. Christopher Hazel and Cory Boots (most likely a fake name, he always frequented the beaches of the Resort I was a security guard at... he was a bum. Acted like one anyway.)
Praise God
I just found you today. You will be a daily routine. And will share with my employees.
That's so true the can dish it but can't take it when you dish back they get Mad that's not fair
When I have my kids man I swear I will show them what not to do and tell them what happened to me I could never gossip about family problems or friends gossip if I still have a relationship with them but I can show them to be kind respectful and say certain things are not correct 💗
Very powerful
That was the most amazing thing I ever heard in my life
thx soo much, u helped me in my assignment
I live in a small town in France and I can witness bullying exist even as a grown man.
I am crying that people care bout people like me
Thanks for sharing. Keep it up👌🏻
This man is admirable.
Now that I look back at it being bullied is actually good got me into bodybuilding and I’m cool with him now
Telling bullies to stop being mean is not a very effective tactic. Its far more empowering to use the pressure to mold yourself into someone strong enough to withstand and overcome it.
I heard that bullying is against the law and people have actually been sent to prison for it.
FINALLY someone called a bully what they are: a Terrorist
Bullying has to stop 🛑
Video deserves Billion views
Truth ....
Tysm for this❤
I need yo fix myself and not be a bully no more
Thank you this happen to me today
Amen, God bless you Keep doing what you are doing:))
*Amen. God
*you. Keep
*doing. :))
JESUS CHRIST IS THE ONLY WAY TO HEAVEN. AMEN. ✝️😇🙏👍
I liked and Subbed because I want to do exactly what you do... I want to go to different schools and spread this message. It isn't right human beings treat others as a lesser status.
Relational bullying is very very very.........frustrating and bullies should go to jail and everyone have to break their legs....
Hello Jeremy Lenia here,👋 thanks a lot 🙏for this sensitive topic that has far more heavy weight than most of ppl think & till it hit you personally,no one realises,cyberbullying can rob you of your own life & make you so lonely & it make you come across "the evil eye" regardless of what's inside you, Iam in my middle of age before it happened to me I hear about all sorts but I never believe as Iam skeptical or ,& I didn't realised as it wasnt me till it hit me,now I do realise...From just a misunderstanding,a group of ppl did what they do so in a blink of an eye I become labelled & framed in a country where I reside under a system that am not familiar with & among ppl that aren't mine,I didn't realise how the issue is serious only after I travelled to my own home country & when I travelled to California,from the things I witness it made me realise that I was a victim of cyber bullying.Iam an HSP for the God sakes but a differnt story was pinned to me wherever I go & that story matters cz it has affected the collective public opinion about "who Iam" so I become completely excluded & wherever I go ppl avoids me & more.I never had support so I can only exist & have a voice in this line if they don't take it from me...as they have taken everything from me,my ideas & more
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Who are you?!! I LOVE THIS!! 🙏🙏❤❤❤🎃🎃🎃🎃🙏🙏🙏🙏so much love!!
Great warrior spirit 🤍 I lov u brother 🔥🔥🔥🔥
THE WORKPLACE IS MORE D**DLY, WORKPLACE BULLYING/MOBBING NEEDS TO BE TALKED ABOUT MORE THAN EVER!💯
The reason that I started getting bullied. Is that I didn't care. I was an easy target. For 3 years I had this problem. And I had enough. I have just entered middle school and 3 months in, there is already another asshole waiting to piss me off. There is a part of my brain that wants to keep me out of Trouble but ignoring it. But that has been taken over by a part that says: Make them pay.
Keep up the good message!
May Allah bless you immensely brother ❤🔥🔥🔥
True Words!
Getting teased at school because people think that boys just need to man up and not be so sensitive bullshit. I’m sensitive and I’m a boy and I get bullied about it. This world is so bad for bullying no matter what age you are. I also don’t get why people bully you because the way you look your race or your gender it’s a fucking mess. This video is such an inspiration so thank you so much 🙏
Billy Macleod don’t let them hold you down
First of all...Bullying is a serious criminal offence, matter should get over as soon as legal considerations are taken into account...
Thank you 💎💎💫💫
They never need to speack up their mind when it Come to bringing someone else down
I cried
Me almost
I did too because i was getting bullied and it hurted so bad and his speach was powerful
Why?
@@adolfsmith5191 I was getting bullied for no reason girls wanted to start with me I didn't give em what they want and they wanted to fight me and take my man I was cussing her ass out the girl 16 and she underage and I'm grown I been through a lot
@@adolfsmith5191 i don't have friends no more I want positive friends not drama friends I always be by myself I don't deal nobody like that after all that happened I don't trust people like that no more
Such a influence speech
Great . From Texas
keep up the good work
Beautiful
Thank You For Sharing ❤
I've been Bullyed all my life. 😠 ☹
When some people get an upper hand, they take advantage of that to inflict harm.
I'm in the same situation .
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So Sorry To Hear It. ☹
@@alzheimer7324 Thanks you for caring🙂💗
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Sure. That's The Easy Part. ❤
Hats off 🖖
thx man
Damn... almost made me cry 😅
Beware to the Bullys and cowards that beat you down,
when you start to crave the next Beating and their capable limits of inflicting pain fails to Satisfy your new appetite!
AG
I always bullied in the seminary i dont know what to do i got frustrated and im scared standinh uo to them
I like it and I really Love it
Thanks that takes me to another place were your the big brother
you made me cry
LET'S START BY PUTTING TEACHERS IN CHECK.
CHILDREN FOLLOW ADULT ACTIONS.
Great topic, now let's get LOUD AND STOP ❗ IT
Amazing information 👌
My friends are now new bullies!!
M alone n my heart beat is raising
N yes i meditate but they are disturbing me
For real
I've been bullied just last week ago near in our house. Where going to Jog outside with my daughter, a guys tell me that I'm "Fat". Now I can feel the others pain when they been bullied by someone else. So painful... 😞
Remember that no one can strip away your purpose on this Earth. Stay faithful 💯
Sorry that happens to you 😔
They feel it gives them power the real thing is they get scared too
Can’t wait to watch a 3 minute video about something no one will care about, even if it does make sense, which it definitely does
I’m
Bout to use this at my anti bully rally tmm
The GoodBoys yes please do!!!
I felt that