things to do when you're having a bad day | VLOG 26
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ก.ค. 2020
- things I did on a not so great day!
I was originally not going to film but I decided that it might be nice to share a day where things feel really heavy and it seems like everything is going opposite to plan. This year especially has been tough for so many, so if you're out there and you're having a hard time right now then I'm thinking of you, praying for you and am wishing things fall back into your favour sooner than you expect!
Thanks again for spending time with me, another trip down journal lane makes me misty eyed by how far we've come together.
One day we'll look back on 2020 and feel that even stronger, I'm certain of it!
Vlog Chapters ✨:
01:28 - ordering lunch and watching a feel good show
02:51 - getting calm by cleaning
04:00 - picking a project to focus on
05:30 - my declutter method
06:51 - today 10 years ago
08:31 - today 7 years ago
09:22 - today 5 years ago
11:06 - today 3 years ago
12:50 - a year ago today
15:55 - it's important to be vulnerable
16:30 - lean on your friends 💗
18:02 - final thoughts on having a bad day, week, month or year
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Vlog Chapters ✨:
01:28 - ordering lunch and watching a feel good show
02:51 - getting calm by cleaning
04:00 - picking a project to focus on
05:30 - my declutter method
06:51 - today 10 years ago
08:31 - today 7 years ago
09:22 - today 5 years ago
11:06 - today 3 years ago
12:50 - a year ago today
15:55 - it's important to be vulnerable
16:30 - lean on your friends 💗
18:02 - final thoughts on having a bad day, week, month or year
The planet poetry 🌞🪐🌙💫✨
Thank you.
Glad to go down memory lane and end up back in this moment. :)
Honestly it was just chill to follow along an eventful turn of events type of day. Commence the rest of my day (home sierra festival Weekend :) and cleaning my kitchen.. happy july 2 2020
This video proves that I've been here for aaaaaaaaages! Sometimes I read my old diaries and think "woow, who wrote that? It sounds so deep and well written!" 🤣 but I usually burn them down after 2 years, because I am afraid that others in the house could read them too.
You should do giveaways on youtube of things you find and that are meaningful
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I’ve watched you since I was a teen in highschool. I’m now married with a toddler and another baby on the way. Crazy, you’ve helped me through so many different times. I used to put your coffee talk videos on my tv when my baby was a newborn because I was struggling with postpartum anxiety and depression. I’m in such a better place but the point is you’ve been somehow relevant in my life through all the ups and downs. Isn’t that crazy? That I don’t even know you except through a screen. What a world.
Aw, the one about your heartbreak 💔 honestly those are my favorite journal entries to read because it really gives perspective. I can look back on how I really thought I wasn’t going to survive, yet here I am surviving and not even thinking about him anymore 🥰
how’d you know i needed this. i was literally sitting here thinking “i’m having such a shitty day. i have no idea what would help” and then i got notified. ✨✨
It's a SIGN!
Same here!!!
same here !!
My whole day today has been me ‘trying to turn around a bad day’. I did a load of things to cheer myself up and then this video popped up. What is going onnnn
I’ll pray that you’re having a brighter day today! I love you and the rest of the squad here does too :)
After watching your videos I'm always so inspired to get up, get my sh*t together and just do me, you know? It's just the energy that you bring, the light that you have in you that makes a person feel better. Keep doing what you do, girl! We appreciate it!
I'm quitting nicotine and tomorrow is my birthday. I've been feeling soooooooo off this week. Today especially, this video was, much needed 🥰
Good luck!!
Happy Birthday, Bailey! I will send you a Starbucks card for your birthday!! DM me on IG :)
Me to good luck
Happy birthday! Quitting nicotine requires so much strength - you’re amazing for taking that step, don’t forget that 💪🏻
Happy birthday!! I hope it's a good one for you. Sending love💛
I don’t encourage you having bad days but I do really love when you share your bad days bc I put them on when I’m feeling kinda sad to remind myself that I’m not alone. Thanks Kalyn for creating a caring community for us.
*Who else keeps their old journals?* 😀😉
I love everything about koze because it is authentic 💜💜💜
Hi, your channel just showed up and I am going to start watching. Here to say, time goes by so quickly. I am much older than you. I've kept journals for over 30 years and like to go back and read them. I laughed when you said you didn't even remember who you were crying over. Been there! One day, you'll be like me and wonder where the time has gone. I remember starting my teaching career and now here I am into early retirement! How did I go from 20s to 50s so fast? Now, trying to find my "new normal" is what I am personally dealing with. I guess I'll keep doing what has worked. Place one foot in front of the other and take it one day at a time. Thanks for your encouraging words. New subscriber.
WHAT A PERFECT TIMING TO UPLOAD THIS! I’ve had a terrible couple of days. This is helpful! Thank you!
Whenever I’m having a bad day, I just go to youtube then your channel and play...😔😔
Travel Video from Asia - Africa -Europe on my channel. I'm waiting for you if you like .thanks !
Same here 🙂
To the 1% of people that read this comment.. hope you have a great day/night!❤️From a small youtube vlogger!
the end of the video: “when it hasn’t been your day, your month, or even your year.”
MAJOR FRIENDS VIBES 💕💕💕
I’m having the worst day this week and you just saved me without even opening the video, because I know you always do. I’m not just saying that. It’s 100% true. Thank you for your kindness, warm heart, and brilliant mind.
Also, you've been starting to wear necklaces. AND THEY LOOK GREAT ON YOU.
"I dont even remember my man back then" 🤣🤣🤣I love that line....I'm going to be that women one day and say this same line🤣🤣💕
"and we just keep holding on" almost had me in tears there...
I love the part where you are reading your 2018 journal and it's about you being the sun and sunlight actually making you glow at this point ☀️♥️
I think having a show on in the background is so helpful and calming because it's like having friends without the social interaction
You have no idea how much that 2016 bad day vlog meant to me back then: I struggled and your videos kept me going. I rewatched that video for years; its the most important video you ever made for me. So the fact that you mentioned it made me think how far we have all gotten💕
I love how I don't even have to watch the video to like and love and appreciate and be inspired by it. 💜
OMG - your videos make me so happy. I'm studying for my board exam next week to become a dentist. AND let me tell you - I'm so stressed out about everything in my life. The change thats going to happen. New home, fist time really working, first time all on my own and of course the exam only a few days from now. But taking the time, watching your videos is so motivating and relaxing. Thank you for all the love and light and happiness you spread.
kalyn has to be the only person i know to not have cringy journals. goals. you go girl
Already know I am going to love this video, the same as every video you make!! I love how we express our feelings and to notice that it’s okay to not always be okay. Taking time to listen to your body and mind and reflect is a great way to have a better positive mindset. Love you!!
Do you know what’s scary yesterday I was having a rough day and I watched your 2017 video on having a bad day when you broke your laptop and got a copy right claim on a video and it made me feel better but today started out rough so I’m thankful you made another one 😭🙏❤️
Legit one of my favourite videos!!! Discovered her channel when I first got into the helping professional field and really started feeling burnout. Her videos have always helped me when I’m having a crummy day!
You reading your journals made me realize how damn long i’ve been here! 2015 was five years ago
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Random thought! I first started following you, Kalyn, after I found your messy bun tutorial 😂 but now that I have been following you for a while, it's apparent that you've become such an inspiration to me. Now I want to journal more and reflect like you. Plus, I appreciate your optimism but also realism. Hope you're doing well Kalyn ✨
I always feel better when I watch your videos, it's like your the best friend I never had. We're the same age, and you inspire me, I don't feel adult enough, I don't feel accomplished and I don't know what the heck I'm doing with my life, but to see your positivity through the roller coaster makes me hopeful.
Your the best, I’ve had a dozen bad days this year and a bad Friday last week but this was exactly what I needed to cheer me up. Hope you have a good day💛✨!
This came at the perfect time. 🖤 Watching your videos is always something I like doing on a bad day!! Especially the old Youtober playlists.
It’s like you read my mind! This is exactly what I needed right now 💕
Right now it feels like every day is a bad day so thank you for helping me realize that that’s not permanent ✨ the discord chat definitely helps too, just everyone sharing how they feel and what’s helping them to feel better.. so thank you, you’re amazing💖
You're a blessing i swear
Kalyn you always post videos like this when I need them the most. Thank you!!!!
Wow idk what's in the air but soo many TH-camrs have been posting these "feeling shitty" videos lately!! I've definitely been feeling off, so it's nice knowing we're not alone!
So special that you have all those journals to look back on! 💙
I was postponing watching all your current videos because I was going through this depression spiral for the past 2~3 weeks.
I guess I thought today is when I'll get myself out of that spiral because Im watching your videos again- and you re like, one of the most pivotal role models I've ever had in my life.
I am so grateful I came across your videos when I was at my lowest in 2016, and you helped me get out of my spirals in 2018 and now, today.
Thank you.
You make me always want to strive for the best in my life no matter what it is. Thank you!
Hey!! It's so needed now! Thank you and have a nice day!!❤️
Timed perfectly! I have been having a rough time, sinking deep into my thoughts and overthinking due to a toxic person in my life. Thank you ❤️
You're an amazing and humble person. Thank you for all the inspiration you give us all. Your videos and content have been a great asset in my life lately. I've been following your journey since a long while ago, but I think now we have more time on our hands to explore. Xx
This video made me smile so much.🌻 I also love reading old journal entries.💛
You always come through for us Kalyn 🥺❤️ I love you so much.
I hope you have the best weekend Kalyn!! Your videos are capable of turning pretty bad days into great ones ❤️
Literally so excited to see your new home! I can picture the coziest little cottage vibes
You are such an inspiration, Kalyn. Thank you for everything that you do and share with us. Love you
Kalyn you are a shining light in the world. Really needed this today, thank you for always being so honest and real💖
gosh your vlogs are so beautiful!! u are so talented and your spirituality and soul are such gifts
Thank you for sharing! 💗 it's been a really tough year for me too and I'm struggling to stay strong but better days are coming i know!!! ☀️✨
kalyn.. you always seem to post a video exactly when we all need it! thank you for being so vulnerable 💖
Kalynnnn! I have been watching your channel since my sophomore year of college. I want to just thank you from the bottom of my heart for your light and for the beauty you shine out into the world through this channel and for helping me get through so many good and so many of my bad seasons. I'm so beyond thankful I feel like I have a friend to turn to and give me comfort like you. I am sending you so much love and I hope your move brings you, And Bentley all the happiness and peace in the world❤️I can't wait to see where this chapter takes you and for all the growth life has in store for us on the way💫
Rly needed this vlog rn, thank you Kalyn ❤️
This uplifted me so much, thank you Kalyn!
Loved this video so much... Thanks for sharing your thoughts and feelings with us you literally brighten up my day ♥️
Love this one! I love how you show how time really heals all. I have a journal myself and it’s been really eye opening to read past entries. You’re amazing!
What a perfect vlog! just what I needed. I think I might start journaling as well! Thank you for this... Sending love and hugs
yes i needed this! also loved your outfit when you went out! love you and your vlogs💖
I really needed this video today!! thank you for lifting my spirits once again
How did you know I needed this?! 😭 thank you for another wonderful upload!
Thank you for being YOU! It eases me with the confidence I need to be ME💕
Amazing! Thank you for sharing something so personal. You’ve helped me so many times on my bad days. Lots of love!
So needed right now! Thank you!
I'm really happy that you are happy, your mind and soul reflect on your face. Thank you for making me feel inner peace everytime i hear your voice and seeing your smile. Love you Kalyn xoxo💙
girl I seriously love and appreciate your videos so much. keep doin you :)
Thank you Kalyn for this video ! I feel the good vibs from Toronto to my little piece of France. 💜🌺🦋
I have missed your videos so much, and honestly every time I watch one it reminds me of how incredible you are and how amazingly calming you are! You truly are a beautiful soul Kalyn.
I can completely relate to so much you talk about like so many others, I've been suffering massively with panic attacks lately as I'm due to go back to work tomorrow after 105 days off work. I am struggling mentally, but am managing my BPD (borderline personality disorder) but there are days that are harder than others and definitely lately they have been more frequent.
But finding your videos it brings me right back to that good place of being mentally calm and ready. So thank you for being the person that you are, and for creating the calming amazing content that you do! So much love and appreciation!
I really loved this whole video especially the journal recap!
Thank you Kalyn, I really needed this right now. 💜💜💜
I swear I have better days when I watch one of your videos in the morning. 😊
Sending love to you (and everyone else!) 💜
Getting my second cup of coffee ready for this video. Thanks for always being a great creator 🥰🖤☕
I loved the energy in this video ✨
Aww, I used to journal and collage back in my early 20’s and I LOVED IT. You make me wanna go back and start journaling again. 💜
I think one of the reason Kalyn is one of my favourite youtubers is because I relate to her so much. Love this video so much.❤
I am SO inspired by your vlogs! You are an absolute legend 🌈❤🙏
I needed this video so much 😫💕
that video you posted in 2016 is my favourite video to date ❤️ I've watched it over 100 times since it was uploaded. I think it's such a special thing for you to have stayed so genuine, true to yourself, & down to earth no matter how you've grown and succeeded throughout life. You've gotten so many people through so much in their lives, including me, and I just appreciate the heck out of you. Love you so much❤️
Ugh sooooo needed this video:)
Awww little Bentley♡
I did came back to watch it on my bad day...thank you
This was by far my favorite of all your recent videos. Loved the vibe, the time travel, the wisdom and the city lights. Love you Kalyn! Xx Steffi
I loved every bit of this, thank you!
this couldn’t have come at a better time, thank you so much !!
Right video for today 💖🌸 I apreciate your work so much 💕
That moment when you realize your journal sounds like a kid in elementary school wrote it as an assignment 😅😅
Literally my journal is just like, "I exercised today and filmed a video. I was in a bad mood, but did it anyway. I'm proud of myself for that."
Oh well lol. You can journal however you want. It doesn't have to be fancy or well-written. It is still fun to look back at years later regardless.
girl you look so cute with earrings! love you kalyn, watching your vlogs on my bad days instantly makes me feel less alone xx
Listening to the way you journal as well is absolutely beautiful to listen to, honestly it's beyond anything I've ever read. Would love more videos like this, it shows such a deeper and different side of you!
love! instant mood uplift
I needed this!! Thank you Kalyn!!
All the love, needed this x
I have been having a couple bad days in a row where my mind would just go into overthinking things mode and this video is such a good way to feel connected and know that bad days will go away and a new day or season will come :) thank you
Your journal post about time made me think of the homily given at my wedding this year! ❤️
thank you so much for your content kalyn
Those clips of the city skyline from the taxi 😍 it a mood!!! God I miss drives!!
Thank you ❤️ much needed ❤️❤️❤️
Always looking forward to your videos
Ah this makes me wish I was better at keeping up with my journaling. 😭😭😭
Somehow this deeply grounded me. I feel healed
I love how relatable this is!
Just went back and read my journals from 2018 and 2019. Felt A LOT!
Listening to a podcast and cleaning my apartment really well made me feel great yesterday. I had a great day but didn't feel good about the state. Of my home as I came back. So I spent 4 hours cleaning and organising even if I was tired. I felt so happy, accomplished and worn out when I fi ally went to bed last night. It was nice. And my boyfriends closet got a nice wipe down and a small organisation so I hope he feels more welcome and more at home with his own space here sprused up😊❤️🏡