You're really going to enjoy this one. Vikki is a WONDERFUL guest, and I really enjoyed speaking with her so much. She's a lesbian with some very interesting stories of honesty and growth. Please enjoy this interview and leave some love for Vikki in the comments. And remember, hit that like button! haha. love, Tranpa
An other take on this (sort of) there has been quite a few countries where they used to castrate people with certain mental conditions and everyone got sooo angra about it, now we blatantly castrate our young and noone seems to realize that it is actually similar... Plz keep up the good work...
@ezpertDOTorg. Perhaps your comment displayed to much truth? This happens a lot by individual channel operators or the platform. It tricks so many into thinking their comment matters. Of course it matters and that’s why it was shadowed. Don’t give up. While I might not agree with it, having it taken away before I could even read it is bs. I will always stand by your right to express your view. My gut says it wasn’t offensive or hurtful. Sending you light and love with no condition or expectation. 💛🦋💛
Special thanks to Buck for having me on your show! The work you do is outstanding and so important. A VERY special thanks to your audience for all the great feedback, kind words, support and show of love ❤❤❤ I hope to be back on the show again and look forward to more great discussions
Stay safe! the gym experience you had was terrifying enough, I really recommend that you bring self defence items like tasers or pepper sprays & etc. in case something happens.
Funny enough, years ago I was a trained in self defense by an aikido martial arts expert.. One on one training on how to defend little person against big person. I learned alot.. but I have to say NOTHING can prepare you for actually experiencing the terror of something like that.
@@VoicesWithVikki I know that feeling of terror/stress where no matter how hard you learned something or already knew it, you seem to forget it in an instant. I’m just really glad you were safe from that experience. as always stay safe 👍
Thanks for sharing your story! This was awesome! I had a friend who was lesbian in junior high and all my friends hated me…fast forward 25+ years most came out as gay! I was terrified of school! In my family it was normal to be gay so I was really confused by their reaction! We need to discuss this stuff more!!
Hey Vikki, I'm a transexual guy and I want to say hi and also ask you how you got to be on Buck Angel's show. I have a lot of wisdom and I'm already being attacked but I want to be seen because it could help with this insanity.
It only take one predator to screw up someone's life. THat's the part that makes me nervous about trans-women in women's spaces. I have no issues with actual transwomen but I am terrified of the predators that pretend to be a transwoman to get to women
We've been sharing bathrooms with trans women for years. It never mattered thst they fully passed, they wanted to be inconspicuous. Anyone I met, wanted to go in and out as easily as we did. No fuss. And we didn't feel threatened by that. But this new wave aren't even looking for that. They are screaming at us women to shut up and put up with whatever. Now I'm sharing a bathroom with a whole jacked up muscle gym dude with a beard. Wearing lipstick and nail polish in regular dude clothing. I no longer send my kids in alone anymore. Too risky. A few seconds can be a lifetime of trauma.
Loved this discussion. I'm a biological straight woman who was a raging tomboy and wanted to be a boy because they got to do the cool stuff (I'm Buck's age. He understands.) and most of my friends were boys. Then I discovered I liked boys for different reasons and everything changed. What Society is allowin (forcing) now is unconscionable!
Im a tomboy and been for 37 yrs. Stayed tomboy because I actually love and connect to "guys" stuff (they shouldnt be gendered), I dress like one, love gore, video games, hate pink or anything girly, my skills/attitude/strength etc is more masculine than anything, I love to draw, love dinosaurs, write parodies on games, etc etc etc.... I thought I was born in the wrong body too (from not liking my voice, body to the way men saw me.....) Tomboys are normal. People differ from one another even in the same gender. Trans are just using stereotypes to justify their chaos. There is a reason it's called stereotypes.....
I was a tomboy too growing up I played football with the boys, however I never wanted to be a boy n I’m glad I grew up back then (I’m 46) cause if I grew up today these fools would label me trans when I’m not at all.
@@kellyperry559 I shudder to think what could have happened to me if this was prevalent in the 80s and 90s. I had a hard-core tomboy phase just prior to and throughout puberty. For me, it was a combination of being afraid of puberty/changing body, not wanting to be different/other from my two older brothers, and a genuine connection to some things that weren't considered traditionally feminine. I'm so glad that everyone just shrugged it off as exactly what it was and allowed me to grow into the type of woman I am. I was just a little girl afraid of growing up. That's all.
when she said "this is it. it's my time" my skin started crawling. i'm actually in tears. it's like women go about our lives with this expectation, or it's like WE KNOW that one day this is gonna happen to us. i saw her eyes and i KNEW what she was referring to. oh my god. the fear she must've felt in that moment....shes obviously trying to hide it with humour but i can see that it was traumatic for her. sending so much love to her and to every woman reading this. take care of yourselves please!
women, girls, ALWAYS LISTEN TO YOUR GUT. if you feel uncomfortable, stay back, listen to your instinct. no youre NOT being "judgy" youre NOT overreacting. women always have to analyse the people we're around to make sure they're not threats. when i say people i mean MEN. if you feel like that man next to you is a threat, theres a chance you're probably right. listen to your gut and STAY SAFE, take care of yourself! stay back and be aware of that guy. it's happened to ALL OF US. talk to a woman, she'll understand, and she'll protect you.
People look at the pride flag nowadays and cringe...oh Vicky you hit the nail right on the head with that one....sad but true.....how did we vere so off road? Thanks again Buck for your wonderful guests x
We went offroad when st/raig/ht/ min infiltrated and took over trans space, removed all the safeguards and made themselves the center of attention. (*weird spelling to avoid censorbots*)
@@trixiedeluxeNarcissism and Munchausen By Proxy turned a medical condition into fashionable carnal bonsai offensively prancing around in a dress and playing with tampons they'll never need. Yeah, the Bud Light Bozo...
@@trixiedeluxetrans women themselves don’t care about the safety of women either. Just watched an interview panel Buck was on and they said they dgaf if women don’t want male genitals in their face in womens spaces
Right, now when I see pride flags I cringe too, cause u never know what type of person u gonna deal with when someone holds a pride flag. Sadly the trans community has ruined it. My friends that are gay call it the LGB community cause they don’t wanna be part of the T community.
You mentioned regretting saying what you said in the past because it was meant for adults and not minors. YOU are the reason I understand transgenderism the way I do. I have had gender Dysphoria since I was a small child and at 13 you helped me understand so much. I’m 26 now and still haven’t made the decision to transition because of how things have been going in the community since 2014. Definitely going into therapy next year though, I think I’ve gotten to the point aha. I’m so happy I’ve waited, and it’s because of you. I’m so grateful for you.
I hope therapy works and that you go to a real therapist that wants to help you and not push you into an ideology. Not been happy with yourself can be truly awful, but if you can find a way to find happiness within yourself without transitioning you will save yourself the pain and side effects of been lifelong medicated and everything else that goes with it. I have spine disease and trapped nerves, I'm on opiods 30 times stronger than morphine and still live in chronic pain every second of every miserable day. The meds have made it impossible to remember things, I have had to have catheters because they stop me been able to use the restroom. Stomach pains, extreme drowsiness and weakness on my limbs. And they don't even stop the pain, but without them it's unbearable. If you can live without been medicated...trust me... please, please try to.
Always remember friend: you are loved, you matter, and most importantly... you are enough. You keep doing your best, and that's the best anyone can do.
Just be yourself, whatever that is. People are so concerned about how social media will see them or worse yet getting bad idea's that aren't for ther long term health and happiness.
Buck, at 61, is more vital and young than almost everyone I know or know of! The level of self acceptance he allows the world to witness is necessary in our world of today. A shining example to everyone. Thank you Buck for the insights you deliver and more importantly, thank you for simply being you💛🦋💛
I'm from the Netherlands, my country is very open-minded with the LGBT community but seeing all the BS from the narcissistic activists is not helpful for the community. So thank you for keeping it real. ❤ what you are doing. Hugs from the Netherlands
I work on a labour and delivery unit. I see women going through the hardest and scariest times in their lives. We are a female-majority unit due to the nature of what we do (around 98% of the unit is made up of women, save for a few male doctors and maintenance workers. Many of us are moms/parents and have gone through it) the politically-correct community has been putting so much unneeded changes here like making all women's restrooms gender neutral, renaming the units from Mother-Baby Care Unit to Post-Partum Care and using non-gendered language when referring to mothers by calling them "birthing persons" and "chestfeeders" all in the efforts of inclusion. Want to know how many people we have had give birth here that don't identify as women? Three. Three in the 20 years our hospital has had this wing. So to be inclusive of the three people, we have to eliminate anything feminine from a female-centric floor... So we become exclusive of the majority. (I will use whatever pronouns you want, but to force gender neutral terms for every mom regardless of how they identify is assinine)
that is so sad and absurd. my kids are teenagers now, but I definetely would have been hurt and angry to be called chest feeder. as a fresh mom you have weird hormons anyway, moma bear lurking, sleep depriviation and all, and then someone comes along and neutralizes me? sorry, like, where does the milk come frome, I assure you, it is not the chest, it is from the mamae=breasts= boobs. I really struggle with the horrid logic that in order to acommodate or rather mollycoddle a very tiny minority, you cancel almost half of the population and no one asks about their feelings
@@rosablume4346 Luckily the majority of the staff on the unit agree that this is stupid, but of course it's the administrators who never step foot on the unit more than once a year who are demanding this.
It makes no sense to me to invent the word chestfeeding, as both women and men have chests, and both men and women have breast tissue. So if a man wants to pretend they are breastfeeding, it would still be accurately called breastfeeding. It is breast tissue that has the function of producing milk. From the breasts. So regardless of someone’s pretending to be the opposite sex, it’s still breastfeeding. Don’t they know men can get breast cancer ? Rare, but it happens.
I feel like it's actually about diminishing and erasing women, even though most of the people propagating these lies were born from a woman who probably identified as a woman.
I got a degree in Women's Studies in the early 1990s, and was taught that sex and gender are not the same thing. Sex, I was taught, is the body, the chromosomes: male or female. Gender is the behaviour culturally associated with a person's sex: masculine or feminine. The former is immutable. The latter changes over time, in different cultures, over a lifetime, etc. Gender and sex, it was explained to me, need not go together. So a male need not be masculine and a female need not be feminine. A feminine male is not a woman. A masculine female is not a man. That's always made a lot of sense to me. It seems opposite to the ideologies of a lot of young people today though. Me, I'm female and quite feminine in appearance, but not in personality. So I suppose nowadays kids would call me "femme presenting nonbinary"? I just say I'm a feminist woman who likes pretty dresses, you know? A femme. Or, even better, I just say I'm... me.
I did some Womens Studies courses at Uni also. Learnt the same thing. There was more acceptance of gender and its aim wasn't to slap a label on those not of the stereotypical type.The lack of simplicity currently creates alot of confusion.
This is how I've always seen it. You probably have a rare degree now, as every women's study department I know of is now a women and gender studies department and of course the feminists have been expelled and replaced by trans-humanists.
@@SarahKCrowe This is what I've witnessed: no Women's Studies programs anymore. When I was teaching college English at a small Canadian college in the early 2000s, the Women's Studies department was two people, one only working half time. I've wondered what became of them and how they coped. (Me, I was run out of the college when I became disabled.)
Thank you Buck & Vikki, l'm a UK straight hetro-sexual woman and so delighted to hear some common sense views from the Trans & Gay community - loved the interview - lets trust your voices of truth & reason go viral xx
Thankyou Buck Angel for these interviews, it’s soo nice as a trans woman and a Aussie to see not all Americans are crazy like the media likes to portray. The number of trans spaces and groups I’ve been kicked out of for commenting that I think transsexuals need an medical diagnosis,is absolutely absurd, or even just simply saying keep the meds away from children. I appreciate yours, Blair, Marcus, Brad Polumbo, and soo many mores voices and most of your options.
Thank you so much Vikki for coming on and sharing your experience. As a biological woman, I too have experienced that "fight or flight" feeling a few times in my life, some of which I am still recovering from. I’m so sorry you went through that. As a bisexual person recently married to a man, I appreciate that my experiences will perhaps have been very different to somebody who identifies “entirely” gay/lesbian, however (I’m a similar age to Vikki) I too used to love that feeling of a “safe space” that the rainbow flag represented. This is not the case anymore. The vast majority of pubs and bars in my area in the middle of England don a rainbow flag (and trans, progress, etc.). I get they may be trying to show support and it doesn’t affect me directly, (I’m at the age where I like an early night and am in a monogamous marriage so not looking to find fellow bisexual or lesbian women, however, that does not erase my “bisexual-ness”) but even living a “heteronormative” life I miss being able to know where is actually a “gay place” and where is not. Surely, if everywhere is gay, nowhere is gay? And anyway, why does TK MAXX (TJ I believe, over there) need a rainbow flag, anyway? There have been happenings recently in my local area (involving a communal, healing, beautiful space in nature being “cancelled” and no longer being allowed to hold open days, due to allegations of transphobia, that I do not feel are at all accurate, and originated from the complaint of one non-binary individual) that have made me challenge my entire ideology and thought structure. I admit, I am naturally a very emotional person, and often this leads me to just want to make everyone feel as comfortable as possible. That has meant that previously, I have just tried/ wanted everyone to be happy, and not cause any inconvenience, I have not spoken up about my views previously. I wouldn’t feel able to say I am uncomfortable with transgender women in sports or in a female gendered bathroom, or even that I don’t consent to medical intervention for under 18s…. having been given an opportunity to review my opinions and do some research, it feels against my compassionate nature to agree to that for children and apparently that means I’m transphobic. I am still trying to get my head around this; yet I am terrified of saying that out loud. How many others like me feel that way? I know I am not alone. I also think that if people do identify as trans, that’s fantastic, go be your best self, truly. But if you’re so happy with your identity and so proud of being trans, surely the trans part is something to really be proud of - rather than insisting you are biologically the same as the gender you identify with? Personally, I think that is true pride in identity and in who you are, but the differences need to be recognised. Your podcast has helped me immensely deal with all of this and I thank you for that, our wonderful Tranpa! :) And thanks again Vikki, congrats on your marriage.
So as a trans man I never understood the pride thing, or the identity thing. I view (and experience) it as a medical condition. I even struggle with the label of trans because it comes along with so many social connotations and assumptions at this point that I don't really connect with. It's like saying you're proud of your identity as a hyperthyroid sufferer (normally I find cancer analogies work best, but I think that's a heavier medical issue, and thyroid is endocrine based, so there is some overlap there). There are really no other medical conditions that are approached in the same way as gender dysphoria, because it has become so wrapped up in identity politics, which proves that it really isn't considered on a broad scale to be a medical condition. That being said I don't claim to be biologically the same as the average male, kind of the whole point is "that's how I should have been born". I do think on a neurological level, that's a possibility, and there is some evidence pointing in that direction...but that's a more nuanced conversation than the ones going on more broadly in society. And also would require acknowledgement of it as a medical condition and not an identity based social image that people can change at will. So I don't see the discourse really evolving there anytime soon 🤷♂️
Another great Interview Buck. Vikki is so right we are being asked to 're-frame our trauma' in the name of inclusiveness and when something happens to you, it wakes you up. I have two incidents that make me hard line as a (radical) feminist, one was escaping drug r*p* as a undergraduate, thankfully I had my friend with me and we got ourselves out but it left me with a very big memory gap of 6-7 hours of that night. It woke me up to how society gaslights women through victim blaming, with oh you were drunk blah blah even though I've been drunk a lot and had perfect memory recall of those night. The second incident I was out running near my parents and two young men drove up alongside me and threw a brick at me, I was in my 20s and that day I realised that some men just hate us being out in the world. I can recount a number of incidents when men realised I was bisexual, being made to feel a lesser women. I'll agree to disagree on the gender and sex being the same. For me sex is a purely biological definition and gender the loaded social description of either sex (masculinity and femininity and its package). Sex stereotypes were based on the gendered roles placed upon the sexes, the most restrictive being on women which included what we were expected to wear and how we were expected to behave all which formed part of our oppression over the centuries (and continues outside the west). This is why the Dylans of the world p**s me off, because to get woman of the year for just preforming a sexist (very gendered) idea of womanhood which in reality was societies way of shutting us up and dismissing us is unforgivable, when you have amazing women in your country like Simone Biles as well, what message does that send to young girls 😠
When I realized how much us as women are putting our instincts on the back burner in order to be less “judgmental “… It really changed my perspective.. Thanks so much for sharing your stories.!
My sister was in a women's toilet recently and a man with a large beard walked in to use the loo. Based on his height and other indications she is sure he was a "real" man. But neither my sister or the other woman felt comfortable telling the man to get out because of fear of the man but also fear of being called transphobic for calling out an actual man in a women's toilet. This is also not the first time it happened to my sister in Canada as she has also seen other men in changing rooms in the gym and when she told the management they just said that the man had "gone in the wrong changing room accidentally" and did not do anything! It seems that men men, as in actual men and not transmen can just walk into women's toilets and changing rooms without anyone saying a thing! In the UK there are a few venues in which the male and female toilets are both for both sexes, meaning that as a woman I have to pee with men. This means there is piss all over the floor and men in the loo. It's horrible. I now have to ask for a key to the disabled loo because I don't want to pee with men. Last time I had to change a tampon while sqatting over a dank toilet with no seat with my face 6 inches away from a floor full of man's pee. That was the last time I try to use the " genderless" toilets!!! Me and my sister are both bisexual and extreamly gay positive which is also how we grew up. We have both had many trans friends over the years, but in the old days ( the 1990's) transpeople who wanted to go into to the space of the opposite gender knew that consent was needed. This seems to have gone out the window as more (mainly white men) trans folk demand to be allowed in to the spaces of vulnerable people such as women. Since as a woman I am afraid of men, I just can't accept that biological men can just walk into a woman's loo or changing room.
Bingo!!! The anger has masculine energy from the TikToks to Blossom. Perhaps that’s why women are so offended by their behavior? It’s male aggression and we as women are hard wired to be alert to the danger of male aggression?
Yes so many of these trans women seem very angry, particularly towards women and trying to force themselves into our spaces. So why would we then want to let them into our spaces when they seem dangerous and aggressive? Like that case where the transwoman Tickle took that poor woman to court because they werent allowed on her women only app. When a man is so desperate to get into womens spaces then it naturally causes us to perceive them as a possible threat.
Thank you both! Much love, that awareness instinct that only women have is something a male will never understand bc they will never feel that horrible feeling. We have to stop obvious "predators" claiming to be something they are clearly not. This is why Women's Spaces are super important and should be protected. ❤
She's right, I remember seeing the pride flag and thinking "I'm in a safe accepting place." Now I won't even wear a shirt with a rainbow and butterfly print on it anymore because I don't want to be in any way associated with the crazies, even mistakenly.
I've been going to Helsinki Pride since 2002. This year they kicked out all the women-only and men-only organizations as well as all the political parties that hadn't officially and UNANIMOUSLY supported self-id laws. So yeah, I didn't go this year.
Hearing voices like his is very refreshing to me. The far lefts mission seems to be to make everyone believe their entire community feels and thinks like them. People like Buck have given me faith and reminded me that the extreme far left doesn't represent the entire community. Thank you Buck for using your voice to reach out to bridge the gap that's being formed ❤
I've said it before, but I don't think it can be said too much: You are giving a safe space to so many voices that need to be heard; And so many ears need to hear these things. I'm so sorry for what you went through, Vikki! I have such a similar story to yours that it's shocking. Mine happened at a Barnes & Noble (I worked as a ghostwriter and was there at least 3-4x a week grabbing different books and, occasionally, I'd have meetings at the cafe there, so I was there more often than you'd think, honestly). I would see the guy there almost every single time I was there. It became more and more frequent and he would just stare daggers at me. Sometimes, he would be on the other side of the book shelves and i wouldn't realize it until I heard deep, heavy breathing. That happened more than a couple of times and it was so disturbing. He would always disappear the moment I found an employee to talk to. It was creepy enough that, if i was alone, I'd make sure i was on the phone with someone when walking to my car and I'd loudly be like, "what time is it? Oh, right, it's almost 9. Okay, I'm just leaving B&N, I'll be home in about 5-7 minutes, then!" (I'd been told by a first responder friend of mine, years prior, that if you think you're being followed that a good deterrent is saying those things to a friend - or even to the police - so that the person who's following you knows that other people know exactly where you are and when you expect to be at your next destination. If they know people know where you are and that you're expected, apparently it makes them less likely to act on any bad intentions.) One night, it was late. It was a Friday, so they were open later and it was only myself, one other customer and a couple of employees. I thought the guy hadn't shown up and I was so relieved. As I walked towards the exit... Guess who popped out? Yup. I panicked and speed walked the opposite direction, away from the exit. I didn't look behind myself, but I heard heavy footsteps and I just full out started to panic. I made a beeline for the last place I'd seen an employee and, thankfully, the employee walked out of the back right at that moment. I half ran up to him and was shaking and told him what happened. He did the same thing the gym employees did to you - he told me to call the police, that I had to be the one to do it. By the time they got there, the guy was long gone. Apparently, they'd had more than one reports of a similarly described man. That man had also been described as staring intensely at women, following them for quite awhile, disappearing when the women would find another person or would call the police, etc. Seriously, it's so unnerving to go through something like that and I'm so sorry you went through that! Moving certainly helps but I don't blame you for never going back there alone. When they don't find the person .. it just really sucks. You just know they're still out there and are they actually, physically preying on people or are they just staring? You just don't want them to have other victims and it's so awful to think about. Thank you for sharing your story with us!
Thank you for having this discussion. Most guys don’t get why we don’t like walking by ourselves at night, or why we have to have a can of pepper spray on our key chains, or we have the habit of checking the backseat before we get into our cars. Men don’t have that fear like women do. Also I’d gladly give a transwoman my pcos induced painful periods and the random ovarian cyst bursting. I’d love to see them be able to tolerate it. Also when I got my iud, I had a period for almost 4 months daily and that’s apparently normal.
I really appreciate Vicki's down-to-earth approach to all the subtleties of the trans conversations. How can we have a civilized and considered conversation on the serious issues regarding children being exposed to medications and operations that could permanently damage their health and well-being.
I came across you from a interview/debate with Blossom and instantly found u n subbed the more of ur content I see I've become a Stan! U are doing am amazing service by keeping it so real always! Bless you always!❤
Really loved this coversation. Like you Vikki is logical and speaks with a directness and common sense. You need to have her back on. How the dialogue was presented I think would be of benefit to young people allowing them to easily understand and form their own opinions.
I got muted in a TT live last week. This female was claiming to be a transman and required validation being called a biological male but is married to a man and having baby #2 and refusing top surgery cause she wants to exclusively breast feed.
@@thatbipolargal I think it's an internal issue for sure, they are dealing with something they don't know how to handle and go about it in the wrong way.
Those are people who just want to be included n don’t even belong there. I’m just tired of people looking for reasons to be combative. That woman who claims she’s a trans man yet doesn’t want to do anything to actually be trans is a fraud just looking for praise n validation for doing nothing.
We all have guardian Angels.....Thanks for this..I can't tell you both how grateful I am to be blessed to be free to be able to choose to just be!! I have been gang arped,touched as a child an it wasnt til my now partner that I knew that love is kind love isnt hurtful or painful!! Buck I have always gotten your message of self love self acceptance an the change that wisdom an growth bring! I remember the 1st time I saw you, I was pissed how you were portrayed... I love the Buck I see now even more... I adore your Moxie! Im grateful for the wisdom you share an the love you've always shown! Im just grateful for your message... I agree about the echo chamber of this subject! I keep saying if you don't agree than stop giving air time to what you claim to hate! They can not because its an actual agenda. I really feel like some of these "nevotranz" on the interwebs are paid to be there . I really feel like they needed ppl to fill a roll ,to do what they are now doing to spread hate to take hard marched for rights away... To stoke the base who hates what God hates....God doesn't hate ppl hate!! These ppl live in echo chambers an you can not have a meaningful conversation where you exchange information an truth...you do not have to agree but you should listen an have an exchange a positive non argumentive listen!! I agree with everything y'all spoke on an thanks for sharing your lives with us....truly grateful for the both of ya!!✌🏼💗😘🫂😘🫵🏼🪨
I LOVE this format and including reactions with your amazing and brave guests. These people are presenting this to children as an ALTERNATIVE. "you don't have to be uncomfortable with your body, you can press pause". Changes in puberty are UNCOMFORTABLE and sometimes embarrassing. But we have to go through that metamorphosis to become who we are. You can't grow as a person with that process. A lot of these young girls don't actually want to be men, they're just scared of becoming a woman. Transition should never be decided in the first 30 minutes, kids and adults. I swear, this is the modern day lobotomy. But in some ways, it's worse. My heart goes out to her and her story. SA is very scary. My first SA was at 4 yrs old. It puts the fear of god in you in and it brings you to your knees. Trust your instincts. Unfortunately, youll realize that there is rarely an appropriate response. I know there are videos of girls being "harrased" at the gym and it ends up being bullshit and people dont always take real victims seriously. It hurts victims. As a woman, we always assess our surroundings. And when we feel threatened, we may lightly check someone to see their reaction/ challenge it by saying "can i help you?" Or "could you please back up?", we hope to hear "oh my goodness, im sorry. I didnt mean to make you feel uncomfortable. Ill back up." Then we usually feel better and are willing to have a conversation. When they refuse, is when we know theres a problem. So when certain men come into our intimate spaces and they REFUSE to back up, we feel threatened. Its not all trans women. Its the ones who force entry. Imagine a man groping you and in response he says "NO! THIS IS HOW I FEEL! I dont care if i violate you. I FELT like grabbing you. Im a woman too so dont be transphobic and let me do it!!" Sorry, some of these people arent stable and if they flip out because theyre paranoid about why people are staring and get aggressive in an inclosed space like a bathroom while with my kids, im at a HUGE Disadvantage. Especially since women are changing diapers and have their handsfull. What about the orthodox jewish women or orther religions. That puts them in a prediciment. Dont they have rights too? Or the SA victims. Or even just women who are uncomfortable? Trans women arent the only people who have to plan around their needs. If you make a personal choice to be a vegetarian, its not every restaurants responsibility to accommodate you. You have to plan for your needs. Theres no problem with trans people who are willing to be understanding and go with the path of least resistance. The woke would be VERY surprised to see how much they would be embraced. But they have to understand why it makes women uncomfortable to be in our intimate spaces and theres nothing we can do about it. ALL kinds of women (and men) are fed up with this. Trust me, i have some crazy trans stories.
Vikki was an awesome guest! I found the gym story to be chilling, I think we’ve all had moments like that and know that feeling, the sinking feeling. I know when I was a kid I had a lot of men saying “see me when you’re 16” and I had no clue what they meant. It’s just gross. Her perspective was great. I’d love if there was some discussion on how to help kids who are identifying as nb or trans when you are worried it could be the influence of their peer group. I’m unsure what to do and I know two people like this. I wholeheartedly stand by trans people but there are some that I worry they’re making the decision based on being validated by peers, being on the spectrum, trying to find a place to fit in. Etc. Wondering what is the best course of action to take to not make them double down, but to discover who they really are.
That's exactly right we won our rights with dignity and respect I was beaten by a bunch of children while their parents stood there making them continue I was completely powerless. I had dog poo posted through my door but I kept my cool and stuck close to my community we marched we took whatever was thrown at us and we talked and educated people. I don't recognise the community any more. Now certain people are demanding pushing and bullying others into submission. It's all so f..ked up now. Thanks buck for a great channel. You speak the truth ❤😢
Love this, can't wait to see Vikki back! Bi bi bi biological woman here delighted to see a lesbian on this show! Vikki's comments are so smart! Please keep this commentary coming, I am a lady who does actually enjoy my period (it makes sex feel better among other things!) but... nope biological males do not have periods and do not have female experience. Have walked down dark alleys in a skimpy outfit. Have been attacked by strange men in dark alleys and feared for my life. Have been misgendered in the gay district of Tokyo (they assumed I was a drag queen, proves you can be high femme and still be "butch" wtf I don't care I AM ME). Does not change my biological sex. And to all these young women out there who are hating on their womanhood... wait for it! Womanhood blooms into fullness. As a teen you just don't fucking know yet. Wait for it to fucking bloom! Thank you both!
@BuckAngelOfficial I highly doubt I'll get a reply, but I'm gonna try for one anyway. I'm brand new to your channel. After watching this interview in full, I subscribed. As a 47 year old straight white male, this interview really and truly opened up my mind on soooo many issues I've been dealing with with these angry online people with pronouns in their bios since 2015-2016 who are not at all what they claim to be, spouting tons of nonsense and false facts about themselves, the LGBT community, and trying to bully us into silence constantly anytime I or literally anyone at all asks questions or happens to point out the inconsistancies on their shit have been labeled all of the phobes. When in fact i'm not. Thanks Buck Angel for opening my eyes and also showing me through this interview how deranged these people are. Viccy as well. Both of you are fucking amazing. absolutely amazing. I'm so sick of the constant Gaslighting from these...Toxic people. Anyway, I really wish my wife would watch your stuff as well. But sadly, she's completely drank this weird trans kool-aid these weirdos keep preaching to her. She's been completely shamed into believing all of it. I'm truthfully scared for her. and sadly yes, it's put a serious strein on our 20 year relationship. She has never ever been this way before 2016. in the last 3-4 years though, it's become really evident these people have really dug their claws into her brain. We can't ever discusss anything anymore without having literall yelling matches now. They got her convinced at this point that even she's Transphobic or a bigot if she doesn't agree with every single little thing they are preaching about. She refuses to questing a single thing. I really wish somebody like you could somehow get through to her. and our Son (who claims to be a Demiboi (whatever that is) Our Son started his path in high school. he was always straight always a female and then when he started haning around other kids who were "trans" they filled his head with so much crap he too drank the Kool-aid. (long story for another time) anyway I feel like now I'm in the middle of a Twisted Hellscape of Chaos and Insanity and I have absolutely no support at all and I don't know what to do. Again, I have no people I can turn to. I've been sharing many people's vids in her Discord Server and it keeps causing more and more disention not just in her discord but to our relationship. I don't know what to do. I feel so lost, depressed and completely hopeless. 😢
Hello! I am so sorry you've experienced so much backlash ... I can't imagine being at odds to that degree with my own spouse .. I used to be much more woke and I myself was even falling for some of this nonsense in the name of "not being judgemental ".. As I mentioned on the interview.. I most certainly began to see the light for a bunch of reasons.. some not even discussed on the show.. Its alot to unpack.. But more people are speaking out .. Unfortunately, disagreeing with these people opens you up to name calling, accusations, manipulative and abusive behavior etc ALL of which they claim to be against .. Its victimhood turned on blast.. Thank you for bravely telling your story in the comments and speaking out.
Hey @@VoicesWithVikki, Thanks so very very much for replying to my situation. It means a whole lot that people are finally starting to wake up to all this stuff and finally say enough is enough. Btw. My wife and I also live here in Phoenix Arizona. Anyway You are quite brave as well for coming out and telling your story. I hope to keep hanging around here and learning more and more. It also makes me happy that I am not alone in my plight. (Also super sorry for mispelling your name in my original post.) Are you on Twitter at all? I don't even have any friends in this state. I have Autism, BPD and PTSD due to massive amounts of childhood traumas also further traumas due to all this stuff. (I lost my job working for a game company over this stuff. I actually got Black-Listed)(I got baited and repeatededly gaslit and bullied to damn near the brink of suicide over it). I hope someday I can share my story with the world. I also hope to make more friends. Making friends at my age is hella hard. 😅Anyway, Vikki, thanks so much again for replying.
I think the term you guys were looking for is "magical thinking". Back when the Twilight series came out, my friend who is a youth psychologist working in an elite college, was overwhelmed by students in their late teens and early 20s, who were convinced that they were changing into vampires. It was a real problem because the students were asking their friends for blood, and were drinking friends' blood to speed up the process of developing their vampire powers. Obviously there are health risks involved here. The troubling part about this was that these were all high achieving, intellectual students... I guess they were so intelligent that they could find a way to rationalise this as 'fact'. For these students, being a vampire was often their explanation for why they had never felt 'normal'. I'll leave it to you to join the dots... Great episode, thank you ❤
oddly enough I have never in my 50+ years been mistreated because of my orientation. I have however very recently been accosted by someone who has several pronouns that they describe themselves as. I was accused of being a phobe because I tried to explain that in no situation would I accept either of my grandaughters to be in a change room with a person who identifies as a woman but has an intact male body. It seems that as a person born to a female body I am inherantly problematic to the trans community. I am a humanist, I believe in be what you are no excuses, up until pretty recently I was an advocate for the LGBTQ (I cant remember the rest of the letters) community. Sadly as a result of the extremist behaviours and aggressive nature that has become the norm i find myself being less able to advocate specifically for this new trans movement.
Candace Owen just had an amazing interview with Briana who buck had recently interviewed, so glad he is speaking out, it shone mandatory viewing for any child before they decide to transition…
I had a conversation with my husband a long time ago about my frustration of not being able to find a good parking spot at the grocery store. He said why didn't I just park in the back. I asked my husband, ( he is 6'3"), if he ever checked around the car, looked in the back seat, etc and he said no never. Men simply don't live with the same threat.
No, they absolutely don't. Reminds me of a conversation I had with my father recently. I live in an apartment, and my shower drain is just constantly, chronically clogged. I usually ask him to do the chemical clean thing when I'm desperate. One of the building's handymen is wonderful, warmhearted, and like a grandpa figure; I could talk to him all day. The other one makes me uncomfortable to my core. I don't want to be alone with this guy in my very small apartment, and you can't request who's going to fix something when you put in a work order. Tried to explain this to my father. He looked at me like I had three heads. Did NOT get it whatsoever and rolled his eyes like I was just being dramatic for the sake of it. A woman would've understood in ten seconds. We truly live in different worlds.
What has me flummoxed, is lawmakers have no problem telling women we cannot get abortions, but have no problem telling a child he or she can mutilate their body and it’s okay.
What do you mean ? Ohio just passed the law saying abortions at anytime are fine, along with children medically transitioning, and not needing parental consent for treatment . Freedom !!! (I’m being sarcastic). And you don’t view an abortion and a child medically transitioning to be the opposite sex (impossible by the way) as different things ?
I'm having trouble fully articulating my thoughts to words..BUT, I think the idea that "trans women are REAL women " encroachs into the path/experience of biological women. But it also negates the trans women path/experience. and that's so unfortunate because their experience and perspective is valid, and can teach others so much.
It really does like I dated plenty of beautiful women and handsome guys, at end of day it's still experience from pov of bisexual guy that lives life as a woman it never be anything different from that and my experience as trans girl is valid but that validity should never come at cost of reality p.s I'm the bi guy btw I refer to myself as bisexual male because that's biology but realistically I'm just bisexual trans woman.
thank you so much for saying this! the insistence that trans women are the same as biological females is *trans erasure* like how do people not understand that? our experiences are different, but both are valuable!
I can remember first noticing Buck over a year ago. I just saw snippets of him on TH-cam, after about 6 months I found out he was trans and was blown away! Never would have known 😊
Oh i enjoyed this video. Vikki is wonderful. Love how articulate she is. She is very sweet. I wiuld live to see you talk to her again and do re-actions. I love re-action videos. So funny 🤣
I really feel the negative behavior by the current "Trans" community is causing a resurgence in homophobia. I experienced discrimination Last week at work. In California. For being a mostly feminine presenting Lesbian. I feel like most of the bad behavior is caused by these activists who are using "trans" as their whole identity and seemingly purposefully antagonizing people in public. I have transgender friends who think they're crazy.
And I think that’s the goal. Same with all the racial garbage. Just push and push and push until nobody is talking to each other and when the jackboots show up to take away your neighbour, you’ll stand and applaud. * I don’t mean you personally, just a general person.
i think i might start to believe in god after watching this. he was THERE at that moment when that door opened. i just wish she could've warned that girl so that she wouldn't enter the gym alone with that piece of sht. but i 100% understand she was paralysed. but i hope that girl was safe too.
Im from san diego & Hillcrest used to be one of the safest parts of that portion of SD. & it was always good energy....got cat called by a few ladies (politely)....but it was extremely safe for a young woman like myself & my friends. You got what you gave...if youre decent, so is everyone else!
I really enjoyed this video and it showed alot of what i already tell people, i really believe we need construct a new narrative that is instead of depending of others for acceptance, you should accept yourself that means entirely like i accept fact im biological bi male despite being trans woman because thats fact i will never be able to change. Only thing i can change is lifestyle and appearance which is purely subjective what is objective is fact im a guy and im attracted to both men and women. I feel if we focus more on self acceptance then alot issues we face we wouldnt have to talk about.
I have a brother who is gay, I always supported him & love him dearly. But the comments he makes now, about heterosexual people is so full of hate & derision, which hurts our family & he no longer talks with any of us. What is going on now, its NOT GOOD & is out to destroy us all!!
Unreal the blonde saying if she goes out looking like that she'd get attacked. She's insinuating that r4p3 is a sexual motivated crime! It's not as research has shown. Yes you could get attacked looking like that. And as a woman you could also get attacked on a trail wearing sweats. That kind of assault has nothing to do with sexual desire. I am appalled at the absolute ignorance. Another one trying to put women back 50-60 years when they would be blamed for getting attacked. I didn't know this kind of stupid was still around!
Awesome interview guys. Everything she said was sooo close to my own experience. Keep up the awesome and REAL content. It’s really important because I feel like we’re moving backwards. P.S. On behalf of all women if we could hand our periods over…. We would 😂 Own it! I don’t want it!
Good day /Kia Ora Buck thanks for the awesome information you provide on issues on transgender (actually transsexual being the better &correct word), gender dysphoria,non binary and the other out there things being created on the “new sexuality spectrum” You,Blair White &Marcus Dib are keeping it real & I enjoy your TH-cam videos, keep up the great work. The youth are being destroyed emotionally & physically (removal of body parts,infertility issues, lack of sex drive or sexual enjoyment) through the transgender agenda that being pushed through at such a young age. I hope governments wake up and stop this madness.-the use of puberty blockers are evil on kids who don’t have fully developed brains to comprehend the damage they will experience years down the line -I hope more detransitioners try to speak up & mobilize an army to fight against the lack of information being given to kids who want to transition and that parents get louder and push against the government to tell them to butt out of their family -Legally parents are the voice for kids up until they are aged 18-Much love ❤ 🇳🇿
Hey Buck it's Novak from tock tock. Keep up the fight brother. I back you 100% I give thanks to Blair as well for promoting you and giving myself the chance to hear and believe in your content. I'm honoured that you respond to me last week my friend.
It's so true.... I'll never forget sitting in my ex girlfriends bar when they passed gay marriage.... it's so hard to describe the intense feeling of collective joy. Every one of us cheered and then we were a room full of sobbing mess of lesbians 😅. It was a beautiful mess. After that I was so free... my ex and I started holding hands in public and kissed eachother and loved each other openly. I sadly feel like we took 20 steps backwards with this insanity 😢
I am straight. I believe that support, for anyone, and finding like minded people, can be life saving. That being said, support for one who is clearly struggling, (they come to you, not you to them). It could very well be vital for a person to find acceptance, to belong. Period. Many aren't strong enough to soldier on alone. It DOES suck! We aren't meant to be lonely creatures. We are social animals. That being said support and grooming are two very different things! Showing support is NOT the same as what is happening today!!! My God no.. This entire movement for you guys to just be safe and have your own little community has been taken from you and been made perverse. Unfortunately, your cause was very susceptible to this anyway, grooming, etc, because so many had always called you perverse! Narcissistic psychopaths are masters at twisting the narrative. I mean it is impressive. It is also horrific. If only they used their powers for good... Chopping up little girls? Cutting their breasts off?!!! Underage MINORS. No. Little girls are far more susceptible to social contagion. Bet they knew that, too. I had a best friend through school and many years after. He was gay, his sister was, too. You could SEE she had these very masculine traits. Not feminine at all. Like her eyes were round, plain, no lashes. No high arch. Then my friend, he has huge girlie doe eyes! Long lashes, high arches. Very feminine. Like something got mixed up in their genes. NOT in a bad way, but like she was very boyish and he was feminine and it was what it was. I think you get it. There were many more traits that got switched, I guess. I never doubted them. Or hated them. They were nice. It isn't my place to lay judgement upon everyone else. I would never presume to. When I was younger I was bi curious for a time. Is it right? Is it wrong? I mean right, wrong, indifferent, it certainly IS. No one can really, nor do they, deny that. So yeah, it is left for people to turn it to good or evil. Individual people will be the ones to decide whether to view this as a positive or a negative. There will always be some Judas waiting to twist things to suit himself. I find this to be sad because it does seem undeniable that certain people struggle with this. They cannot help it. How can you judge them for existing? I have fat girl cousins. Always bitches to me because I was skinny. I just told them, I cannot help how I was born anymore than you can. This is how I came out. Quit bullying me! That alone is enough to make one think. I have never felt it MY place to judge others. Especially when I am only too aware that I really cannot know exactly what they are experiencing. Not truly. because my experience is very different from theirs. I do not have all of the information but I DO know that actions speak louder than words. Who is hurting others and who is just trying to live a decent life? What are their motive? Their intentions? That is what I look for. Other peoples perspective can be wonderfully interesting. New views, new ideas. Different ways of existing. I always say there is not only one way to be. How could that be? No, and how boring. People who have a skewed perspective are terrifying though. They are so sure they are right when they cannot even SEE what is happening clearly. I feel that your community is being used, experimented on, and exploited. Exploiting young people for profit while also maiming and scarring them while also making them sterile. Getting them dependent upon drugs that will hurt them, for life. All for money, of course. That isn't the same thing as giving someone a soft place to land. At all.
You're really going to enjoy this one. Vikki is a WONDERFUL guest, and I really enjoyed speaking with her so much. She's a lesbian with some very interesting stories of honesty and growth. Please enjoy this interview and leave some love for Vikki in the comments. And remember, hit that like button! haha. love, Tranpa
I really enjoyed listening to the conversation you two had. Thanks for sharing!
I sent you an email, did you receive it?
An other take on this (sort of) there has been quite a few countries where they used to castrate people with certain mental conditions and everyone got sooo angra about it, now we blatantly castrate our young and noone seems to realize that it is actually similar...
Plz keep up the good work...
@ezpertDOTorg. Perhaps your comment displayed to much truth? This happens a lot by individual channel operators or the platform. It tricks so many into thinking their comment matters. Of course it matters and that’s why it was shadowed. Don’t give up. While I might not agree with it, having it taken away before I could even read it is bs. I will always stand by your right to express your view. My gut says it wasn’t offensive or hurtful. Sending you light and love with no condition or expectation. 💛🦋💛
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Special thanks to Buck for having me on your show! The work you do is outstanding and so important. A VERY special thanks to your audience for all the great feedback, kind words, support and show of love ❤❤❤ I hope to be back on the show again and look forward to more great discussions
Stay safe! the gym experience you had was terrifying enough, I really recommend that you bring self defence items like tasers or pepper sprays & etc. in case something happens.
Funny enough, years ago I was a trained in self defense by an aikido martial arts expert.. One on one training on how to defend little person against big person. I learned alot.. but I have to say NOTHING can prepare you for actually experiencing the terror of something like that.
@@VoicesWithVikki I know that feeling of terror/stress where no matter how hard you learned something or already knew it, you seem to forget it in an instant. I’m just really glad you were safe from that experience. as always stay safe 👍
Thanks for sharing your story! This was awesome! I had a friend who was lesbian in junior high and all my friends hated me…fast forward 25+ years most came out as gay! I was terrified of school! In my family it was normal to be gay so I was really confused by their reaction! We need to discuss this stuff more!!
Hey Vikki, I'm a transexual guy and I want to say hi and also ask you how you got to be on Buck Angel's show. I have a lot of wisdom and I'm already being attacked but I want to be seen because it could help with this insanity.
It only take one predator to screw up someone's life. THat's the part that makes me nervous about trans-women in women's spaces. I have no issues with actual transwomen but I am terrified of the predators that pretend to be a transwoman to get to women
We've been sharing bathrooms with trans women for years. It never mattered thst they fully passed, they wanted to be inconspicuous. Anyone I met, wanted to go in and out as easily as we did. No fuss. And we didn't feel threatened by that. But this new wave aren't even looking for that. They are screaming at us women to shut up and put up with whatever. Now I'm sharing a bathroom with a whole jacked up muscle gym dude with a beard. Wearing lipstick and nail polish in regular dude clothing. I no longer send my kids in alone anymore. Too risky. A few seconds can be a lifetime of trauma.
As someone who dealt with predators before, ain't no way i'm going in the public bathrooms..
I will go anywhere with a spray or gun.
Why would someone need to pretend to be a tr@ns woman..there's security at the doors in public bathrooms ?...be scared of ur own stup! dity
If we want women’s spaces to be safe, all biological men need to stay out of women’s spaces. Including “real” transwomen.
And children. Yes, they are here.
Loved this discussion. I'm a biological straight woman who was a raging tomboy and wanted to be a boy because they got to do the cool stuff (I'm Buck's age. He understands.) and most of my friends were boys. Then I discovered I liked boys for different reasons and everything changed. What Society is allowin (forcing) now is unconscionable!
Im a tomboy and been for 37 yrs.
Stayed tomboy because I actually love and connect to "guys" stuff (they shouldnt be gendered), I dress like one, love gore, video games, hate pink or anything girly, my skills/attitude/strength etc is more masculine than anything, I love to draw, love dinosaurs, write parodies on games, etc etc etc....
I thought I was born in the wrong body too (from not liking my voice, body to the way men saw me.....)
Tomboys are normal.
People differ from one another even in the same gender.
Trans are just using stereotypes to justify their chaos.
There is a reason it's called stereotypes.....
I was a tomboy too growing up I played football with the boys, however I never wanted to be a boy n I’m glad I grew up back then (I’m 46) cause if I grew up today these fools would label me trans when I’m not at all.
@@kellyperry559 I shudder to think what could have happened to me if this was prevalent in the 80s and 90s. I had a hard-core tomboy phase just prior to and throughout puberty. For me, it was a combination of being afraid of puberty/changing body, not wanting to be different/other from my two older brothers, and a genuine connection to some things that weren't considered traditionally feminine. I'm so glad that everyone just shrugged it off as exactly what it was and allowed me to grow into the type of woman I am. I was just a little girl afraid of growing up. That's all.
Buck and Blaire are singlehandedly responsible for saving their community from the far left weirdos. Love yall so much
thank you friend❤️
@@BuckAngelOfficial No. Thank you for having the courage to go against the community that you helped build, for doing the right thing.
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And Marcus!
And Marcus @TheOffensiveTranny ❤
when she said "this is it. it's my time" my skin started crawling. i'm actually in tears. it's like women go about our lives with this expectation, or it's like WE KNOW that one day this is gonna happen to us. i saw her eyes and i KNEW what she was referring to. oh my god. the fear she must've felt in that moment....shes obviously trying to hide it with humour but i can see that it was traumatic for her. sending so much love to her and to every woman reading this. take care of yourselves please!
women, girls, ALWAYS LISTEN TO YOUR GUT. if you feel uncomfortable, stay back, listen to your instinct. no youre NOT being "judgy" youre NOT overreacting. women always have to analyse the people we're around to make sure they're not threats. when i say people i mean MEN. if you feel like that man next to you is a threat, theres a chance you're probably right. listen to your gut and STAY SAFE, take care of yourself! stay back and be aware of that guy. it's happened to ALL OF US. talk to a woman, she'll understand, and she'll protect you.
I feel this applies (or at least should) to everyone
Buck, i love the way you ride hard for lesbians. your advocacy for women is so important. thank you!
People look at the pride flag nowadays and cringe...oh Vicky you hit the nail right on the head with that one....sad but true.....how did we vere so off road? Thanks again Buck for your wonderful guests x
We went offroad when st/raig/ht/ min infiltrated and took over trans space, removed all the safeguards and made themselves the center of attention. (*weird spelling to avoid censorbots*)
@@trixiedeluxeNarcissism and Munchausen By Proxy turned a medical condition into fashionable carnal bonsai offensively prancing around in a dress and playing with tampons they'll never need. Yeah, the Bud Light Bozo...
@@trixiedeluxetrans women themselves don’t care about the safety of women either. Just watched an interview panel Buck was on and they said they dgaf if women don’t want male genitals in their face in womens spaces
Right, now when I see pride flags I cringe too, cause u never know what type of person u gonna deal with when someone holds a pride flag. Sadly the trans community has ruined it. My friends that are gay call it the LGB community cause they don’t wanna be part of the T community.
You mentioned regretting saying what you said in the past because it was meant for adults and not minors. YOU are the reason I understand transgenderism the way I do. I have had gender Dysphoria since I was a small child and at 13 you helped me understand so much. I’m 26 now and still haven’t made the decision to transition because of how things have been going in the community since 2014. Definitely going into therapy next year though, I think I’ve gotten to the point aha. I’m so happy I’ve waited, and it’s because of you. I’m so grateful for you.
wow. that warms my heart, friend. thank you for the support for my channel and for the love. -tranpa ❤
I hope therapy works and that you go to a real therapist that wants to help you and not push you into an ideology.
Not been happy with yourself can be truly awful, but if you can find a way to find happiness within yourself without transitioning you will save yourself the pain and side effects of been lifelong medicated and everything else that goes with it.
I have spine disease and trapped nerves, I'm on opiods 30 times stronger than morphine and still live in chronic pain every second of every miserable day.
The meds have made it impossible to remember things, I have had to have catheters because they stop me been able to use the restroom.
Stomach pains, extreme drowsiness and weakness on my limbs.
And they don't even stop the pain, but without them it's unbearable.
If you can live without been medicated...trust me... please, please try to.
Always remember friend: you are loved, you matter, and most importantly... you are enough.
You keep doing your best, and that's the best anyone can do.
Just be yourself, whatever that is. People are so concerned about how social media will see them or worse yet getting bad idea's that aren't for ther long term health and happiness.
as a woman, being told to shut up and sit down sounds like the same old patriarchy
No one in their right mind is jealous of and desires bloating, cramps and irritability.
right?! haha
And a good old hormonal breakout 😂
I loved the guy at Disney land. He was describing food poisoning.
And can they have my fibroids and chronic haemorrhaging? Cause that shit's so much fun.
Add hot flashes and night sweats...though I am glad the fertility ship has sailed 😅
Yes bring Vicki back! She brilliantly articulated all the main issues with this madness. This needs to be a regular series. ❤
I agree! she is awesome ❤
@@BuckAngelOfficial you both are. It would be a great series.
Buck, at 61, is more vital and young than almost everyone I know or know of! The level of self acceptance he allows the world to witness is necessary in our world of today. A shining example to everyone.
Thank you Buck for the insights you deliver and more importantly, thank you for simply being you💛🦋💛
I'm from the Netherlands, my country is very open-minded with the LGBT community but seeing all the BS from the narcissistic activists is not helpful for the community. So thank you for keeping it real. ❤ what you are doing. Hugs from the Netherlands
Greetings from Finland, that's how I feel as well.
I work on a labour and delivery unit. I see women going through the hardest and scariest times in their lives. We are a female-majority unit due to the nature of what we do (around 98% of the unit is made up of women, save for a few male doctors and maintenance workers. Many of us are moms/parents and have gone through it) the politically-correct community has been putting so much unneeded changes here like making all women's restrooms gender neutral, renaming the units from Mother-Baby Care Unit to Post-Partum Care and using non-gendered language when referring to mothers by calling them "birthing persons" and "chestfeeders" all in the efforts of inclusion.
Want to know how many people we have had give birth here that don't identify as women? Three. Three in the 20 years our hospital has had this wing. So to be inclusive of the three people, we have to eliminate anything feminine from a female-centric floor... So we become exclusive of the majority.
(I will use whatever pronouns you want, but to force gender neutral terms for every mom regardless of how they identify is assinine)
As a mother of 3 boys I totally agree! It makes zero sense to exclude most women because of a couple of people only. It is insane!
that is so sad and absurd. my kids are teenagers now, but I definetely would have been hurt and angry to be called chest feeder. as a fresh mom you have weird hormons anyway, moma bear lurking, sleep depriviation and all, and then someone comes along and neutralizes me? sorry, like, where does the milk come frome, I assure you, it is not the chest, it is from the mamae=breasts= boobs. I really struggle with the horrid logic that in order to acommodate or rather mollycoddle a very tiny minority, you cancel almost half of the population and no one asks about their feelings
@@rosablume4346 Luckily the majority of the staff on the unit agree that this is stupid, but of course it's the administrators who never step foot on the unit more than once a year who are demanding this.
It makes no sense to me to invent the word chestfeeding, as both women and men have chests, and both men and women have breast tissue. So if a man wants to pretend they are breastfeeding, it would still be accurately called breastfeeding. It is breast tissue that has the function of producing milk. From the breasts. So regardless of someone’s pretending to be the opposite sex, it’s still breastfeeding. Don’t they know men can get breast cancer ? Rare, but it happens.
I feel like it's actually about diminishing and erasing women, even though most of the people propagating these lies were born from a woman who probably identified as a woman.
I got a degree in Women's Studies in the early 1990s, and was taught that sex and gender are not the same thing. Sex, I was taught, is the body, the chromosomes: male or female. Gender is the behaviour culturally associated with a person's sex: masculine or feminine. The former is immutable. The latter changes over time, in different cultures, over a lifetime, etc. Gender and sex, it was explained to me, need not go together. So a male need not be masculine and a female need not be feminine. A feminine male is not a woman. A masculine female is not a man. That's always made a lot of sense to me. It seems opposite to the ideologies of a lot of young people today though. Me, I'm female and quite feminine in appearance, but not in personality. So I suppose nowadays kids would call me "femme presenting nonbinary"? I just say I'm a feminist woman who likes pretty dresses, you know? A femme. Or, even better, I just say I'm... me.
Yeah I’m going to call you by your name. These labels are getting out of hand. Much love ❤️
And now women’s studies are nothing. We have been obliterated as women, as lesbians
I did some Womens Studies courses at Uni also. Learnt the same thing. There was more acceptance of gender and its aim wasn't to slap a label on those not of the stereotypical type.The lack of simplicity currently creates alot of confusion.
This is how I've always seen it. You probably have a rare degree now, as every women's study department I know of is now a women and gender studies department and of course the feminists have been expelled and replaced by trans-humanists.
@@SarahKCrowe This is what I've witnessed: no Women's Studies programs anymore. When I was teaching college English at a small Canadian college in the early 2000s, the Women's Studies department was two people, one only working half time. I've wondered what became of them and how they coped. (Me, I was run out of the college when I became disabled.)
Thank you Buck & Vikki, l'm a UK straight hetro-sexual woman and so delighted to hear some common sense views from the Trans & Gay community - loved the interview - lets trust your voices of truth & reason go viral xx
Thankyou Buck Angel for these interviews, it’s soo nice as a trans woman and a Aussie to see not all Americans are crazy like the media likes to portray.
The number of trans spaces and groups I’ve been kicked out of for commenting that I think transsexuals need an medical diagnosis,is absolutely absurd, or even just simply saying keep the meds away from children.
I appreciate yours, Blair, Marcus, Brad Polumbo, and soo many mores voices and most of your options.
Thank you so much Vikki for coming on and sharing your experience. As a biological woman, I too have experienced that "fight or flight" feeling a few times in my life, some of which I am still recovering from. I’m so sorry you went through that.
As a bisexual person recently married to a man, I appreciate that my experiences will perhaps have been very different to somebody who identifies “entirely” gay/lesbian, however (I’m a similar age to Vikki) I too used to love that feeling of a “safe space” that the rainbow flag represented. This is not the case anymore. The vast majority of pubs and bars in my area in the middle of England don a rainbow flag (and trans, progress, etc.). I get they may be trying to show support and it doesn’t affect me directly, (I’m at the age where I like an early night and am in a monogamous marriage so not looking to find fellow bisexual or lesbian women, however, that does not erase my “bisexual-ness”) but even living a “heteronormative” life I miss being able to know where is actually a “gay place” and where is not.
Surely, if everywhere is gay, nowhere is gay? And anyway, why does TK MAXX (TJ I believe, over there) need a rainbow flag, anyway?
There have been happenings recently in my local area (involving a communal, healing, beautiful space in nature being “cancelled” and no longer being allowed to hold open days, due to allegations of transphobia, that I do not feel are at all accurate, and originated from the complaint of one non-binary individual) that have made me challenge my entire ideology and thought structure. I admit, I am naturally a very emotional person, and often this leads me to just want to make everyone feel as comfortable as possible.
That has meant that previously, I have just tried/ wanted everyone to be happy, and not cause any inconvenience, I have not spoken up about my views previously. I wouldn’t feel able to say I am uncomfortable with transgender women in sports or in a female gendered bathroom, or even that I don’t consent to medical intervention for under 18s…. having been given an opportunity to review my opinions and do some research, it feels against my compassionate nature to agree to that for children and apparently that means I’m transphobic. I am still trying to get my head around this; yet I am terrified of saying that out loud. How many others like me feel that way? I know I am not alone.
I also think that if people do identify as trans, that’s fantastic, go be your best self, truly. But if you’re so happy with your identity and so proud of being trans, surely the trans part is something to really be proud of - rather than insisting you are biologically the same as the gender you identify with? Personally, I think that is true pride in identity and in who you are, but the differences need to be recognised.
Your podcast has helped me immensely deal with all of this and I thank you for that, our wonderful Tranpa! :) And thanks again Vikki, congrats on your marriage.
Thank you for your perspective and kind words
So as a trans man I never understood the pride thing, or the identity thing. I view (and experience) it as a medical condition. I even struggle with the label of trans because it comes along with so many social connotations and assumptions at this point that I don't really connect with. It's like saying you're proud of your identity as a hyperthyroid sufferer (normally I find cancer analogies work best, but I think that's a heavier medical issue, and thyroid is endocrine based, so there is some overlap there). There are really no other medical conditions that are approached in the same way as gender dysphoria, because it has become so wrapped up in identity politics, which proves that it really isn't considered on a broad scale to be a medical condition.
That being said I don't claim to be biologically the same as the average male, kind of the whole point is "that's how I should have been born". I do think on a neurological level, that's a possibility, and there is some evidence pointing in that direction...but that's a more nuanced conversation than the ones going on more broadly in society. And also would require acknowledgement of it as a medical condition and not an identity based social image that people can change at will. So I don't see the discourse really evolving there anytime soon 🤷♂️
"Pregnant People" drives me nuts too!
"Birthing person" 🙄
As a woman, this attempt by some people to try squander OUR BIOLOGICAL IDENTITY just makes me feel sidelined and disregarded
@@LetsSingTheDoomSong oh yah that one is horrible too!
I'm like "yeah thanks, we are biological women my guys".
Same!
Why? In what context does this affect you personally to drive you nuts?
Another great Interview Buck.
Vikki is so right we are being asked to 're-frame our trauma' in the name of inclusiveness and when something happens to you, it wakes you up. I have two incidents that make me hard line as a (radical) feminist, one was escaping drug r*p* as a undergraduate, thankfully I had my friend with me and we got ourselves out but it left me with a very big memory gap of 6-7 hours of that night. It woke me up to how society gaslights women through victim blaming, with oh you were drunk blah blah even though I've been drunk a lot and had perfect memory recall of those night.
The second incident I was out running near my parents and two young men drove up alongside me and threw a brick at me, I was in my 20s and that day I realised that some men just hate us being out in the world. I can recount a number of incidents when men realised I was bisexual, being made to feel a lesser women.
I'll agree to disagree on the gender and sex being the same. For me sex is a purely biological definition and gender the loaded social description of either sex (masculinity and femininity and its package). Sex stereotypes were based on the gendered roles placed upon the sexes, the most restrictive being on women which included what we were expected to wear and how we were expected to behave all which formed part of our oppression over the centuries (and continues outside the west). This is why the Dylans of the world p**s me off, because to get woman of the year for just preforming a sexist (very gendered) idea of womanhood which in reality was societies way of shutting us up and dismissing us is unforgivable, when you have amazing women in your country like Simone Biles as well, what message does that send to young girls 😠
When I realized how much us as women are putting our instincts on the back burner in order to be less “judgmental “… It really changed my perspective.. Thanks so much for sharing your stories.!
Petition to bring Vikki back! She is amazing and so articulate and I really enjoyed this episode. More of her please!
I really respect all you do Buck! Lesbians a lot of time get looked over but you always advocate for us and give a platform for us to speak!❤
My sister was in a women's toilet recently and a man with a large beard walked in to use the loo. Based on his height and other indications she is sure he was a "real" man. But neither my sister or the other woman felt comfortable telling the man to get out because of fear of the man but also fear of being called transphobic for calling out an actual man in a women's toilet. This is also not the first time it happened to my sister in Canada as she has also seen other men in changing rooms in the gym and when she told the management they just said that the man had "gone in the wrong changing room accidentally" and did not do anything! It seems that men men, as in actual men and not transmen can just walk into women's toilets and changing rooms without anyone saying a thing! In the UK there are a few venues in which the male and female toilets are both for both sexes, meaning that as a woman I have to pee with men. This means there is piss all over the floor and men in the loo. It's horrible. I now have to ask for a key to the disabled loo because I don't want to pee with men. Last time I had to change a tampon while sqatting over a dank toilet with no seat with my face 6 inches away from a floor full of man's pee. That was the last time I try to use the " genderless" toilets!!!
Me and my sister are both bisexual and extreamly gay positive which is also how we grew up. We have both had many trans friends over the years, but in the old days ( the 1990's) transpeople who wanted to go into to the space of the opposite gender knew that consent was needed. This seems to have gone out the window as more (mainly white men) trans folk demand to be allowed in to the spaces of vulnerable people such as women. Since as a woman I am afraid of men, I just can't accept that biological men can just walk into a woman's loo or changing room.
How is their race relevant? If it was black men would you have mentioned their race or is bashing whites fashionable?
Bingo!!! The anger has masculine energy from the TikToks to Blossom. Perhaps that’s why women are so offended by their behavior? It’s male aggression and we as women are hard wired to be alert to the danger of male aggression?
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Yes so many of these trans women seem very angry, particularly towards women and trying to force themselves into our spaces. So why would we then want to let them into our spaces when they seem dangerous and aggressive? Like that case where the transwoman Tickle took that poor woman to court because they werent allowed on her women only app. When a man is so desperate to get into womens spaces then it naturally causes us to perceive them as a possible threat.
Thank you both! Much love, that awareness instinct that only women have is something a male will never understand bc they will never feel that horrible feeling. We have to stop obvious "predators" claiming to be something they are clearly not. This is why Women's Spaces are super important and should be protected. ❤
She's right, I remember seeing the pride flag and thinking "I'm in a safe accepting place." Now I won't even wear a shirt with a rainbow and butterfly print on it anymore because I don't want to be in any way associated with the crazies, even mistakenly.
I've been going to Helsinki Pride since 2002. This year they kicked out all the women-only and men-only organizations as well as all the political parties that hadn't officially and UNANIMOUSLY supported self-id laws. So yeah, I didn't go this year.
I can’t have a colorful mullet without people being afraid to misgender me😂
Hearing voices like his is very refreshing to me. The far lefts mission seems to be to make everyone believe their entire community feels and thinks like them. People like Buck have given me faith and reminded me that the extreme far left doesn't represent the entire community. Thank you Buck for using your voice to reach out to bridge the gap that's being formed ❤
(Re)read 1984. It’s all in there.
I've said it before, but I don't think it can be said too much: You are giving a safe space to so many voices that need to be heard; And so many ears need to hear these things.
I'm so sorry for what you went through, Vikki! I have such a similar story to yours that it's shocking. Mine happened at a Barnes & Noble (I worked as a ghostwriter and was there at least 3-4x a week grabbing different books and, occasionally, I'd have meetings at the cafe there, so I was there more often than you'd think, honestly). I would see the guy there almost every single time I was there. It became more and more frequent and he would just stare daggers at me. Sometimes, he would be on the other side of the book shelves and i wouldn't realize it until I heard deep, heavy breathing. That happened more than a couple of times and it was so disturbing. He would always disappear the moment I found an employee to talk to. It was creepy enough that, if i was alone, I'd make sure i was on the phone with someone when walking to my car and I'd loudly be like, "what time is it? Oh, right, it's almost 9. Okay, I'm just leaving B&N, I'll be home in about 5-7 minutes, then!" (I'd been told by a first responder friend of mine, years prior, that if you think you're being followed that a good deterrent is saying those things to a friend - or even to the police - so that the person who's following you knows that other people know exactly where you are and when you expect to be at your next destination. If they know people know where you are and that you're expected, apparently it makes them less likely to act on any bad intentions.) One night, it was late. It was a Friday, so they were open later and it was only myself, one other customer and a couple of employees. I thought the guy hadn't shown up and I was so relieved. As I walked towards the exit... Guess who popped out? Yup. I panicked and speed walked the opposite direction, away from the exit. I didn't look behind myself, but I heard heavy footsteps and I just full out started to panic. I made a beeline for the last place I'd seen an employee and, thankfully, the employee walked out of the back right at that moment. I half ran up to him and was shaking and told him what happened. He did the same thing the gym employees did to you - he told me to call the police, that I had to be the one to do it. By the time they got there, the guy was long gone. Apparently, they'd had more than one reports of a similarly described man. That man had also been described as staring intensely at women, following them for quite awhile, disappearing when the women would find another person or would call the police, etc.
Seriously, it's so unnerving to go through something like that and I'm so sorry you went through that! Moving certainly helps but I don't blame you for never going back there alone. When they don't find the person .. it just really sucks. You just know they're still out there and are they actually, physically preying on people or are they just staring? You just don't want them to have other victims and it's so awful to think about.
Thank you for sharing your story with us!
I love this guest. More women talking about being a woman with a former woman now proud trans man. I’m here for it.
The one trans woman saying women don't own periods were literally like "Oi, do you have your period having license??" Silly times. Good Convo Buck.
This was one of the best chats I've seen on this topic in awhile.
Your guests are truly well picked! Thank you Buck for speaking the truth!!!
Thank you for having this discussion. Most guys don’t get why we don’t like walking by ourselves at night, or why we have to have a can of pepper spray on our key chains, or we have the habit of checking the backseat before we get into our cars. Men don’t have that fear like women do.
Also I’d gladly give a transwoman my pcos induced painful periods and the random ovarian cyst bursting. I’d love to see them be able to tolerate it. Also when I got my iud, I had a period for almost 4 months daily and that’s apparently normal.
Another great interview!!! Thank you Buck and Vikki for being real!!!
I really appreciate Vicki's down-to-earth approach to all the subtleties of the trans conversations.
How can we have a civilized and considered conversation on the serious issues regarding children being exposed to medications and operations that could permanently damage their health and well-being.
Im so happy the people you talk to exist. Im so grateful to them for sharing their lives so openly. Ty for talking to them and introducing them to me.
More vikki please with reaction videos! I thoroughly enjoyed that and your discussion!
I came across you from a interview/debate with Blossom and instantly found u n subbed the more of ur content I see I've become a Stan! U are doing am amazing service by keeping it so real always! Bless you always!❤
I swear, I can't go a single day without watching a Buck or Blaire video. I love both of you so much !!!
Right!? 😄
Try Marcus too! He's great.
Marcus and Ariella Scarcella are good too
I’m on a binge 🙂
I loved seeing the two of you just talk and the reactions were priceless. Would love to see more.
Really loved this coversation. Like you Vikki is logical and speaks with a directness and common sense. You need to have her back on. How the dialogue was presented I think would be of benefit to young people allowing them to easily understand and form their own opinions.
I agree! she was so wonderful to have a conversation with. I'd love to have her on again. thanks for the comment my friend ❤
I got muted in a TT live last week. This female was claiming to be a transman and required validation being called a biological male but is married to a man and having baby #2 and refusing top surgery cause she wants to exclusively breast feed.
😠 these people are nuts.
I just don't understand how they think 🤔
@@thatbipolargal I think it's an internal issue for sure, they are dealing with something they don't know how to handle and go about it in the wrong way.
For sure
Those are people who just want to be included n don’t even belong there. I’m just tired of people looking for reasons to be combative. That woman who claims she’s a trans man yet doesn’t want to do anything to actually be trans is a fraud just looking for praise n validation for doing nothing.
We all have guardian Angels.....Thanks for this..I can't tell you both how grateful I am to be blessed to be free to be able to choose to just be!!
I have been gang arped,touched as a child an it wasnt til my now partner that I knew that love is kind love isnt hurtful or painful!! Buck I have always gotten your message of self love self acceptance an the change that wisdom an growth bring! I remember the 1st time I saw you, I was pissed how you were portrayed...
I love the Buck I see now even more... I adore your Moxie! Im grateful for the wisdom you share an the love you've always shown! Im just grateful for your message...
I agree about the echo chamber of this subject! I keep saying if you don't agree than stop giving air time to what you claim to hate! They can not because its an actual agenda. I really feel like some of these "nevotranz" on the interwebs are paid to be there . I really feel like they needed ppl to fill a roll ,to do what they are now doing to spread hate to take hard marched for rights away... To stoke the base who hates what God hates....God doesn't hate ppl hate!!
These ppl live in echo chambers an you can not have a meaningful conversation where you exchange information an truth...you do not have to agree but you should listen an have an exchange a positive non argumentive listen!!
I agree with everything y'all spoke on an thanks for sharing your lives with us....truly grateful for the both of ya!!✌🏼💗😘🫂😘🫵🏼🪨
Love you Buck more and more with every video. You are truly a beautiful,special person inside & out ❤
I LOVE this format and including reactions with your amazing and brave guests.
These people are presenting this to children as an ALTERNATIVE. "you don't have to be uncomfortable with your body, you can press pause". Changes in puberty are UNCOMFORTABLE and sometimes embarrassing. But we have to go through that metamorphosis to become who we are. You can't grow as a person with that process. A lot of these young girls don't actually want to be men, they're just scared of becoming a woman. Transition should never be decided in the first 30 minutes, kids and adults. I swear, this is the modern day lobotomy. But in some ways, it's worse.
My heart goes out to her and her story. SA is very scary. My first SA was at 4 yrs old. It puts the fear of god in you in and it brings you to your knees. Trust your instincts. Unfortunately, youll realize that there is rarely an appropriate response. I know there are videos of girls being "harrased" at the gym and it ends up being bullshit and people dont always take real victims seriously. It hurts victims.
As a woman, we always assess our surroundings. And when we feel threatened, we may lightly check someone to see their reaction/ challenge it by saying "can i help you?" Or "could you please back up?", we hope to hear "oh my goodness, im sorry. I didnt mean to make you feel uncomfortable. Ill back up." Then we usually feel better and are willing to have a conversation. When they refuse, is when we know theres a problem. So when certain men come into our intimate spaces and they REFUSE to back up, we feel threatened. Its not all trans women. Its the ones who force entry. Imagine a man groping you and in response he says "NO! THIS IS HOW I FEEL! I dont care if i violate you. I FELT like grabbing you. Im a woman too so dont be transphobic and let me do it!!" Sorry, some of these people arent stable and if they flip out because theyre paranoid about why people are staring and get aggressive in an inclosed space like a bathroom while with my kids, im at a HUGE Disadvantage. Especially since women are changing diapers and have their handsfull.
What about the orthodox jewish women or orther religions. That puts them in a prediciment. Dont they have rights too? Or the SA victims. Or even just women who are uncomfortable? Trans women arent the only people who have to plan around their needs. If you make a personal choice to be a vegetarian, its not every restaurants responsibility to accommodate you. You have to plan for your needs.
Theres no problem with trans people who are willing to be understanding and go with the path of least resistance. The woke would be VERY surprised to see how much they would be embraced. But they have to understand why it makes women uncomfortable to be in our intimate spaces and theres nothing we can do about it. ALL kinds of women (and men) are fed up with this.
Trust me, i have some crazy trans stories.
What a great show! People like you two will help all of us with heads exploding from this activist nonsense see the light at the end of the tunnel.
Vikki was an awesome guest! I found the gym story to be chilling, I think we’ve all had moments like that and know that feeling, the sinking feeling. I know when I was a kid I had a lot of men saying “see me when you’re 16” and I had no clue what they meant. It’s just gross.
Her perspective was great.
I’d love if there was some discussion on how to help kids who are identifying as nb or trans when you are worried it could be the influence of their peer group. I’m unsure what to do and I know two people like this. I wholeheartedly stand by trans people but there are some that I worry they’re making the decision based on being validated by peers, being on the spectrum, trying to find a place to fit in. Etc.
Wondering what is the best course of action to take to not make them double down, but to discover who they really are.
absolutely fantastic interview
Thank you
Loved this interview -- please bring her back!
Love your work Buck, your podcast is so informative, honest and helpful. Thank you
That's exactly right we won our rights with dignity and respect I was beaten by a bunch of children while their parents stood there making them continue I was completely powerless. I had dog poo posted through my door but I kept my cool and stuck close to my community we marched we took whatever was thrown at us and we talked and educated people. I don't recognise the community any more. Now certain people are demanding pushing and bullying others into submission. It's all so f..ked up now. Thanks buck for a great channel. You speak the truth ❤😢
Hey Buck, another great interview. Thank you for giving everyone a place to share their story. 👍🙃☮️🖖
Love this, can't wait to see Vikki back! Bi bi bi biological woman here delighted to see a lesbian on this show! Vikki's comments are so smart! Please keep this commentary coming, I am a lady who does actually enjoy my period (it makes sex feel better among other things!) but... nope biological males do not have periods and do not have female experience. Have walked down dark alleys in a skimpy outfit. Have been attacked by strange men in dark alleys and feared for my life. Have been misgendered in the gay district of Tokyo (they assumed I was a drag queen, proves you can be high femme and still be "butch" wtf I don't care I AM ME). Does not change my biological sex. And to all these young women out there who are hating on their womanhood... wait for it! Womanhood blooms into fullness. As a teen you just don't fucking know yet. Wait for it to fucking bloom! Thank you both!
What you do is very important, you are helping lots of people, especially kids. Sending my respect and ❤
@BuckAngelOfficial I highly doubt I'll get a reply, but I'm gonna try for one anyway. I'm brand new to your channel. After watching this interview in full, I subscribed.
As a 47 year old straight white male, this interview really and truly opened up my mind on soooo many issues I've been dealing with with these angry online people with pronouns in their bios since 2015-2016 who are not at all what they claim to be, spouting tons of nonsense and false facts about themselves, the LGBT community, and trying to bully us into silence constantly anytime I or literally anyone at all asks questions or happens to point out the inconsistancies on their shit have been labeled all of the phobes. When in fact i'm not. Thanks Buck Angel for opening my eyes and also showing me through this interview how deranged these people are. Viccy as well. Both of you are fucking amazing. absolutely amazing.
I'm so sick of the constant Gaslighting from these...Toxic people. Anyway, I really wish my wife would watch your stuff as well. But sadly, she's completely drank this weird trans kool-aid these weirdos keep preaching to her. She's been completely shamed into believing all of it. I'm truthfully scared for her. and sadly yes, it's put a serious strein on our 20 year relationship. She has never ever been this way before 2016. in the last 3-4 years though, it's become really evident these people have really dug their claws into her brain. We can't ever discusss anything anymore without having literall yelling matches now. They got her convinced at this point that even she's Transphobic or a bigot if she doesn't agree with every single little thing they are preaching about. She refuses to questing a single thing. I really wish somebody like you could somehow get through to her. and our Son (who claims to be a Demiboi (whatever that is) Our Son started his path in high school. he was always straight always a female and then when he started haning around other kids who were "trans" they filled his head with so much crap he too drank the Kool-aid. (long story for another time) anyway I feel like now I'm in the middle of a Twisted Hellscape of Chaos and Insanity and I have absolutely no support at all and I don't know what to do. Again, I have no people I can turn to. I've been sharing many people's vids in her Discord Server and it keeps causing more and more disention not just in her discord but to our relationship. I don't know what to do. I feel so lost, depressed and completely hopeless. 😢
Hello! I am so sorry you've experienced so much backlash ... I can't imagine being at odds to that degree with my own spouse .. I used to be much more woke and I myself was even falling for some of this nonsense in the name of "not being judgemental ".. As I mentioned on the interview.. I most certainly began to see the light for a bunch of reasons.. some not even discussed on the show.. Its alot to unpack.. But more people are speaking out .. Unfortunately, disagreeing with these people opens you up to name calling, accusations, manipulative and abusive behavior etc ALL of which they claim to be against .. Its victimhood turned on blast.. Thank you for bravely telling your story in the comments and speaking out.
Hey @@VoicesWithVikki, Thanks so very very much for replying to my situation. It means a whole lot that people are finally starting to wake up to all this stuff and finally say enough is enough. Btw. My wife and I also live here in Phoenix Arizona. Anyway You are quite brave as well for coming out and telling your story. I hope to keep hanging around here and learning more and more. It also makes me happy that I am not alone in my plight. (Also super sorry for mispelling your name in my original post.) Are you on Twitter at all? I don't even have any friends in this state. I have Autism, BPD and PTSD due to massive amounts of childhood traumas also further traumas due to all this stuff. (I lost my job working for a game company over this stuff. I actually got Black-Listed)(I got baited and repeatededly gaslit and bullied to damn near the brink of suicide over it). I hope someday I can share my story with the world. I also hope to make more friends. Making friends at my age is hella hard. 😅Anyway, Vikki, thanks so much again for replying.
I think the term you guys were looking for is "magical thinking". Back when the Twilight series came out, my friend who is a youth psychologist working in an elite college, was overwhelmed by students in their late teens and early 20s, who were convinced that they were changing into vampires. It was a real problem because the students were asking their friends for blood, and were drinking friends' blood to speed up the process of developing their vampire powers. Obviously there are health risks involved here. The troubling part about this was that these were all high achieving, intellectual students... I guess they were so intelligent that they could find a way to rationalise this as 'fact'. For these students, being a vampire was often their explanation for why they had never felt 'normal'. I'll leave it to you to join the dots... Great episode, thank you ❤
oddly enough I have never in my 50+ years been mistreated because of my orientation. I have however very recently been accosted by someone who has several pronouns that they describe themselves as. I was accused of being a phobe because I tried to explain that in no situation would I accept either of my grandaughters to be in a change room with a person who identifies as a woman but has an intact male body. It seems that as a person born to a female body I am inherantly problematic to the trans community. I am a humanist, I believe in be what you are no excuses, up until pretty recently I was an advocate for the LGBTQ (I cant remember the rest of the letters) community. Sadly as a result of the extremist behaviours and aggressive nature that has become the norm i find myself being less able to advocate specifically for this new trans movement.
I love all your interviews.
It just feels good to listen to you and all your guests.
Candace Owen just had an amazing interview with Briana who buck had recently interviewed, so glad he is speaking out, it shone mandatory viewing for any child before they decide to transition…
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I had a conversation with my husband a long time ago about my frustration of not being able to find a good parking spot at the grocery store. He said why didn't I just park in the back. I asked my husband, ( he is 6'3"), if he ever checked around the car, looked in the back seat, etc and he said no never. Men simply don't live with the same threat.
No, they absolutely don't. Reminds me of a conversation I had with my father recently. I live in an apartment, and my shower drain is just constantly, chronically clogged. I usually ask him to do the chemical clean thing when I'm desperate. One of the building's handymen is wonderful, warmhearted, and like a grandpa figure; I could talk to him all day. The other one makes me uncomfortable to my core. I don't want to be alone with this guy in my very small apartment, and you can't request who's going to fix something when you put in a work order.
Tried to explain this to my father. He looked at me like I had three heads. Did NOT get it whatsoever and rolled his eyes like I was just being dramatic for the sake of it. A woman would've understood in ten seconds. We truly live in different worlds.
What has me flummoxed, is lawmakers have no problem telling women we cannot get abortions, but have no problem telling a child he or she can mutilate their body and it’s okay.
What do you mean ? Ohio just passed the law saying abortions at anytime are fine, along with children medically transitioning, and not needing parental consent for treatment . Freedom !!! (I’m being sarcastic). And you don’t view an abortion and a child medically transitioning to be the opposite sex (impossible by the way) as different things ?
I love this guest! Please bring her back 💜
Great work Buck n Vicky always speaking FACTS 🙌 massive respect to u both
This was great!! I do not feel bad for trusting my instincts. I was recently pushed out of a job because a tim was chosen over me. It’s been wild!
Great conversation!!🤗
Vikki is so sweet and has the cutest smile 💕
Thanks!
Thank you❤️
I'm having trouble fully articulating my thoughts to words..BUT, I think the idea that "trans women are REAL women " encroachs into the path/experience of biological women. But it also negates the trans women path/experience. and that's so unfortunate because their experience and perspective is valid, and can teach others so much.
It really does like I dated plenty of beautiful women and handsome guys, at end of day it's still experience from pov of bisexual guy that lives life as a woman it never be anything different from that and my experience as trans girl is valid but that validity should never come at cost of reality p.s I'm the bi guy btw I refer to myself as bisexual male because that's biology but realistically I'm just bisexual trans woman.
thank you so much for saying this! the insistence that trans women are the same as biological females is *trans erasure* like how do people not understand that? our experiences are different, but both are valuable!
@@thegothychef haygurlhay! :-)
Thx Vicky another sensible voice to battle the delulu.
Thank you so much for doing what you do Buck! 💗💗💗
Thank you so much for watching and supporting my channel, Katie! ❤
Yeah, bring her back..i enjoyed this interview.
I'd love to have her back on the show! thanks so much for watching and commenting -buck
I can remember first noticing Buck over a year ago. I just saw snippets of him on TH-cam, after about 6 months I found out he was trans and was blown away! Never would have known 😊
Loved this!
Oh i enjoyed this video. Vikki is wonderful. Love how articulate she is. She is very sweet. I wiuld live to see you talk to her again and do re-actions. I love re-action videos. So funny 🤣
haha I agree and thank you so much for watching and for the comment. it helps support my channel. much love -buck
loooved the video , bring Vikki back , she´s awesome !
I enjoy your channel,Buck.I love everybody and I see people as individuals. I wish everybody did.
Very good interview!❤❤
I really feel the negative behavior by the current "Trans" community is causing a resurgence in homophobia. I experienced discrimination Last week at work. In California. For being a mostly feminine presenting Lesbian. I feel like most of the bad behavior is caused by these activists who are using "trans" as their whole identity and seemingly purposefully antagonizing people in public. I have transgender friends who think they're crazy.
And I think that’s the goal. Same with all the racial garbage. Just push and push and push until nobody is talking to each other and when the jackboots show up to take away your neighbour, you’ll stand and applaud.
* I don’t mean you personally, just a general person.
Buck I appreciate you… great guest🔥
i think i might start to believe in god after watching this. he was THERE at that moment when that door opened. i just wish she could've warned that girl so that she wouldn't enter the gym alone with that piece of sht. but i 100% understand she was paralysed. but i hope that girl was safe too.
Im from san diego & Hillcrest used to be one of the safest parts of that portion of SD. & it was always good energy....got cat called by a few ladies (politely)....but it was extremely safe for a young woman like myself & my friends. You got what you gave...if youre decent, so is everyone else!
Love all your videos!
I really enjoyed this video and it showed alot of what i already tell people, i really believe we need construct a new narrative that is instead of depending of others for acceptance, you should accept yourself that means entirely like i accept fact im biological bi male despite being trans woman because thats fact i will never be able to change. Only thing i can change is lifestyle and appearance which is purely subjective what is objective is fact im a guy and im attracted to both men and women. I feel if we focus more on self acceptance then alot issues we face we wouldnt have to talk about.
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This is a really smart lady, I like her. Bring her back Buck.
I have a brother who is gay, I always supported him & love him dearly. But the comments he makes now, about heterosexual people is so full of hate & derision, which hurts our family & he no longer talks with any of us. What is going on now, its NOT GOOD & is out to destroy us all!!
Lovely person. So cute when she says she doesn't want to be associated with uuhhh 😊
Unreal the blonde saying if she goes out looking like that she'd get attacked. She's insinuating that r4p3 is a sexual motivated crime! It's not as research has shown. Yes you could get attacked looking like that. And as a woman you could also get attacked on a trail wearing sweats. That kind of assault has nothing to do with sexual desire. I am appalled at the absolute ignorance. Another one trying to put women back 50-60 years when they would be blamed for getting attacked. I didn't know this kind of stupid was still around!
Awesome interview guys. Everything she said was sooo close to my own experience.
Keep up the awesome and REAL content. It’s really important because I feel like we’re moving backwards.
P.S. On behalf of all women if we could hand our periods over…. We would 😂 Own it! I don’t want it!
Good day /Kia Ora Buck thanks for the awesome information you provide on issues on transgender (actually transsexual being the better &correct word), gender dysphoria,non binary and the other out there things being created on the “new sexuality spectrum” You,Blair White &Marcus Dib are keeping it real & I enjoy your TH-cam videos, keep up the great work. The youth are being destroyed emotionally & physically (removal of body parts,infertility issues, lack of sex drive or sexual enjoyment) through the transgender agenda that being pushed through at such a young age. I hope governments wake up and stop this madness.-the use of puberty blockers are evil on kids who don’t have fully developed brains to comprehend the damage they will experience years down the line -I hope more detransitioners try to speak up & mobilize an army to fight against the lack of information being given to kids who want to transition and that parents get louder and push against the government to tell them to butt out of their family -Legally parents are the voice for kids up until they are aged 18-Much love ❤ 🇳🇿
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Hey Buck it's Novak from tock tock. Keep up the fight brother. I back you 100% I give thanks to Blair as well for promoting you and giving myself the chance to hear and believe in your content. I'm honoured that you respond to me last week my friend.
Thank you, friend ❤
It's so true.... I'll never forget sitting in my ex girlfriends bar when they passed gay marriage.... it's so hard to describe the intense feeling of collective joy. Every one of us cheered and then we were a room full of sobbing mess of lesbians 😅. It was a beautiful mess. After that I was so free... my ex and I started holding hands in public and kissed eachother and loved each other openly. I sadly feel like we took 20 steps backwards with this insanity 😢
Thank you, Buck and Vikki!
Thank you, Kimberly, for watching and commenting! It helps support my channel more than you all know. much love -buck❤
Lovely lady 😊 Nice interview
Morning Buck. Love what you do .much love from South Africa 🇿🇦❤
Hey friend thanks so much for the love! sending love over to you in South Africa❤ buck
Vikki is so awesome ❤
she really is ❤
I am straight. I believe that support, for anyone, and finding like minded people, can be life saving. That being said, support for one who is clearly struggling, (they come to you, not you to them). It could very well be vital for a person to find acceptance, to belong. Period. Many aren't strong enough to soldier on alone. It DOES suck! We aren't meant to be lonely creatures. We are social animals.
That being said support and grooming are two very different things! Showing support is NOT the same as what is happening today!!! My God no.. This entire movement for you guys to just be safe and have your own little community has been taken from you and been made perverse. Unfortunately, your cause was very susceptible to this anyway, grooming, etc, because so many had always called you perverse! Narcissistic psychopaths are masters at twisting the narrative. I mean it is impressive. It is also horrific. If only they used their powers for good...
Chopping up little girls? Cutting their breasts off?!!! Underage MINORS. No. Little girls are far more susceptible to social contagion. Bet they knew that, too.
I had a best friend through school and many years after. He was gay, his sister was, too. You could SEE she had these very masculine traits. Not feminine at all. Like her eyes were round, plain, no lashes. No high arch. Then my friend, he has huge girlie doe eyes! Long lashes, high arches. Very feminine. Like something got mixed up in their genes. NOT in a bad way, but like she was very boyish and he was feminine and it was what it was. I think you get it. There were many more traits that got switched, I guess. I never doubted them. Or hated them. They were nice. It isn't my place to lay judgement upon everyone else. I would never presume to.
When I was younger I was bi curious for a time. Is it right? Is it wrong? I mean right, wrong, indifferent, it certainly IS. No one can really, nor do they, deny that. So yeah, it is left for people to turn it to good or evil.
Individual people will be the ones to decide whether to view this as a positive or a negative.
There will always be some Judas waiting to twist things to suit himself.
I find this to be sad because it does seem undeniable that certain people struggle with this. They cannot help it. How can you judge them for existing?
I have fat girl cousins. Always bitches to me because I was skinny. I just told them, I cannot help how I was born anymore than you can. This is how I came out. Quit bullying me!
That alone is enough to make one think.
I have never felt it MY place to judge others. Especially when I am only too aware that I really cannot know exactly what they are experiencing. Not truly. because my experience is very different from theirs.
I do not have all of the information but I DO know that actions speak louder than words.
Who is hurting others and who is just trying to live a decent life? What are their motive? Their intentions? That is what I look for.
Other peoples perspective can be wonderfully interesting. New views, new ideas. Different ways of existing. I always say there is not only one way to be. How could that be? No, and how boring.
People who have a skewed perspective are terrifying though. They are so sure they are right when they cannot even SEE what is happening clearly.
I feel that your community is being used, experimented on, and exploited. Exploiting young people for profit while also maiming and scarring them while also making them sterile. Getting them dependent upon drugs that will hurt them, for life.
All for money, of course.
That isn't the same thing as giving someone a soft place to land. At all.
Great conversation!
I cannot say anything to my friends because I am immediately labeled something I am not. It's really sad.
If that's what they would do then they are Truly not your real friends.
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Then they aren't friends. I suggest you look for better friends. You don't have to put up with that shit from anyone.