INTERVIEW: PRESCRIBED PUBERTY BLOCKERS AT 12
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ก.พ. 2025
- Hey, everyone! My guest today is an awesome 19yo FTM trans guy named Ayron. Ayron came out as trans at age 12 and was immediately placed on puberty blockers. He tells me his story from coming out to his family, the therapy, the puberty blockers, the lies, etc. I show the truth on my channel, which is why I wanted to have Ayron on to show a healthy individual who experienced transition as a kid. I highly recommend waiting until you’re an adult to transition and I speak about this on my channel a ton. In this interview we discuss some of the many reasons that I am against kids transitioning. I hope you all enjoy this video with Ayron! Please leave some love for him in the comments and if you have any questions/opinions/etc. Love, Buck ♥️
Buck Angel interviews trans (and sometimes not) guests from all over the world with different backgrounds so they can share their story in hopes it will helps others. The most popular topics are stories about gender dysphoria, coming out as transgender, detransitioning, puberty blockers and their side effects, medically transitioning children, hormones, and lots more!
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Hey, everyone! I hope you enjoy this interview with Ayron. He is an ftm trans guy who began his transition as a 12-year-old kid. From puberty blockers to now, listen to his story that he shared with me! Thanks so much for watching. Please leave some love for him in the comments. Love, Buck ❤
I love him, such a pure soul, and realy smart
Great interview; based guest! I’m glad he has a positive attitude, despite the medical community’s irresponsibility with some of their decisions. I wish him well.
I'm loving that every new video of yours I watch the subscriber count is always higher than the last ❤
You said in this video that all parents need to hear this. Unfortunately, the parents who need to hear it the most, won't. I agree with almost everything you put out there. You're the one that made me realize I didn't really believe what I tried to tell myself I did. But unfortunately, my seeing you was a fluke. There's a reason why you won't be heard by the ones that need to hear you the most and I know what that reason is. Sadly, I'm just an average woman that nobody is interested in hearing. And you probably wouldn't listen either, because it would just piss you off. But it's real and it's a huge roadblock to what you guys are trying to accomplish.
That poor baby needs to get into a doctor immediately he’s got polycystic ovaries that’s what the spotting is
Isn't it interesting that they claim that adolescents' brains haven't developed enough to make logical decisions but that begs the question. Isn't puberty part of the body's natural maturation process? How can you expect a brain to mature if all the pieces aren't in place during the body's own maturation process? I did a hell of a lot of maturing during puberty both body and brain. Are they being kept children indefinitely... or until the parents have come to terms.
Yes It’s unfortunately obvious in this interview.
Yes, their brain misses the maturation process by missing their natural bodies hormones
That's a really good point. I wonder if there's any research out there on puberty blockers on brain development.
@@user-sl7ym1zq3nNo studies yet, too early. Puberty blockers were never intended to be used this way. They are used for slowing down precocious puberty, which is a medical condition. They're literally experimenting on these young people.😢
@@Canthavemybones😢 so unfair to him. I really get a sense of a much younger person hearing him talk. But it makes sense if you stop such a critical process, such as puberty. We NEED to experience it.
First off, he's 19 but he's still a baby. The fact he can't even remember the feelings he was having that made him think he was trans is so sad
I hate when people argue it’s controversial and transphobic to literally be worried about making or HAVING children make body altering decisions like medically transitioning. I have rheumatoid arthritis and I had it since I was 7 and doctors say probably even younger without being detected, and if I had to make my medical decisions my mom had to make for me I’d be so clueless or scared if what I’m doing is right. Even my own mom questions to this day if it was a good idea to put me on certain medications (I had to be put on chemos, immune suppressants, etc) and I can never imagine making the decision as a parent or child to physically STOP puberty. Even as a 16 year old I’m gonna have to start making my decisions on my arthritis and I’m literally scared of what I chose will be good for me in the long run, no research and deep investigating is gonna make me fully prepared for what I go through in the future. So how are kids supposed to fully understand these serious decisions? I’m saying this from a perspective of someone who’s been through body and life altering medicalization from the age of 6. Some medications could’ve affected fertility for me and thinking kids can decide if they wanna have kids and their entire future ahead of them is incredibly wild to me.😭
Look into what Mikhaila Peterson went through and you might want to look into oxalates as well via Sally K Norton. A carnivore or lion diet might be key to getting some level of resolution.
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What you say hits me hard! My little niece age 7 has just been diagnosed with Ulcerative Colitis. And is now on heinously rough meds/shots. I recommend NOT reading the index list of symptoms that you can get from those.
One of them also being a risk of infertility and slowed cognitive development 😢
I've had stomach problems too, along with so many others in my family, always painful to eat. But I've tried eating just meat for now 60 days, and for the first time of my life, I don't have a painful gut anymore.
I've heard that others with RA also have been helped a lot with the carnivore way of eating.
Perhaps check into that?
All the v e r y best to you ❤
@@ruthanna4713 thank you for sharing that with me and I was out on multiple needles and meds my entire life too and it’s really hard on your body so I can imagine the stress out on your nieces body! I’m sorry you and her have to go through that and I’ll look into carnivore diet. I like to balance with veggies and fruit and meat and grains, etc. I found what works for me is working out by gaining muscle so I’m stronger! I wish you and your family the best.❤️
@@CaptainMsMaam Awsome! And thanks. It's never easy not to see kids suffer.
I find it amazing that we actually are able to heal through what we eat, so great that you found what works for you 👻♥️
"I just skipped the hard part and with that skipping there's less solidity" This applies to all areas in life!! Ayron is a very smart kid and this channel is more than needed especially in U.S. Here in Europe we are not that far with this crazy stuff and hope never will be! Greetings from Slovakia wishing all the best and success with this channel! 💪
Ayron - Thank you for having the courage to share your experience. I appreciate both of you taking the time to do this interview.
Thanks for watching ♥️♥️
Ayron, I'm so sorry you're going through this nightmare. 😢 When I was a teen, I hated my body & I thank God that this insane agenda was nonexistent back then. Please stay strong and know that there are millions of us (adults) who love & support you. Thank you for your bravery! ❤❤
You said what I said so much better than I did❤❤❤
I agree. I think if we’re honest most of us would admit the body changes during puberty were difficult to accept in a relatively short amount of time.
It's important to note, that not only is the physical damage already done after taking the blockers, if you decide that it's not right for you, BUT it also can greatly affect your mental state. It's very common, when people sacrifice so much (time, money, energy, health, ect..) and when they put themselves through physical pain, for them to find it much more difficult to decide to quit and give up because they convince themselves that they have already invested so much. And this is especially true when you've involved other people into this, particularly family, who are also personally invested and have made sacrifices to help you through this process. No child should ever have that kind of pressure put on them or be put in a position to have to make a decision like that, especially in a parent-child dynamic, where the child doesn't want to disappoint or fail in front of their parents. And in a situation like this, that feeling is only exacerbated because the child knows that they already turned their lives upside once, by coming out and starting the whole process of transitioning, and changing their mind after everyone has accepted and adjusted to the new you, would uproot everything all over again. So unfortunately, I'm sure a lot of these kids will end up staying silent and continue to push themselves through the medicalization process just to keep the peace and sadly, the longer they go down that road, the harder it is to turn back from the permanent physical effects. Then, if you add in the element of peer pressure and fear of embarrassment in front of their peers, it basically becomes impossible to go back and admit that ot wasn't the right choice for them. And that's not even including the role of the medical professionals, that are supposed to be trusted in their field and have your best interest and health in mind, telling these kids and their families that they will die from taking their own life and make them believe that medical transition is the only option they have. These kids are literally being boxed into a corner, in an impossible situation, and yet, we're somehow calling that "informed consent" and that children/minors are capable of making such life altering decisions at their age. All of those things would make it incredibly difficult for a full grown adult, so I literally cannot comprehend how we can possibly expect a kid to make that decision, especially one who hasn't even hit puberty yet. It's completely asinine.
Well said!! This is a terrible dilemma for anyone, let alone Minors. Heartbreaking
Yes!!! This!!!
Common sense ❤
It’s cruel and it should be criminal to give puberty blockers, unless it was a physical life or death situation. Dysphoria is not life or death - patients should have their expectations set that any kind of procedure or medication would only start at age 18. Kids are so immature, and the trans community teaches them to threaten their parents with suic*de unless they get what they want. It puts the parents in a horrible situation.
As a cis woman in surgical menopause, this breaks my heart. I wasn’t given informed consent about what to expect after having my ovaries removed, but i was in my mid forties… I can’t believe these precious children are being put into this lifelong medical condition “electively”. The physical consequences are unimaginable. An entire generation of people with destroyed endocrine systems 🥺
Stop using CIS. That’s TRA’s language. You are a woman.
I 100% agree with you. I will also add that in general women's health studies is very behind. I was "diagnosed" at 19 with endometriosis. Went on about my life thinking that my 2 month long periods and/or lack of periods and the amount of pain I had was normal... because that's what I was told. I got a 2nd gynos opinion she did a whole ton of tests. As it turns out I have PCOS and uterine cancer, and my journey only starts there. I have little faith anymore in the medical industry and that's sad. I feel so awful for these young kids who truly haven't started figuring out who they are as a person being forced to, I feel, conform to an agenda.
I also believe it hurts their brain development for life.
A woman not cis woman.
Ayron is such a charming young guy, thanks for another awesome interview Buck. Really enjoyed it
Thank you for the love!!♥️
Ayron is so grounded and intelligent. So glad he came on Buck's platform and spoke on this. His voice needs to be heard and often. Its so important. Thank you Buck for giving Ayron a space to share his story. I wish Ayron well in his journey.
Thank you, Aaron for participating in this conversation. It’s wonderful that you are doing well and working towards a career in aviation. Bless you, dear! AND absolutely get to a gyno.
22 years on T I know most medical technicians don’t read that I’m transsexual in my notes. So I tell technicians that I’ve had a hysto,(if it’s relevant like getting an X-ray). So there’s no chance of me being pregnant. They often are suprised. Yesterday one questioned me, saying that that’s what women get, I said yeah, I know that. I’ve volunteered to be a practice patient several times, teaching 1st and 2nd year med students. It was really rewarding.
That's pretty cool that you volunteered! How did that process start? I'm intersex with c.a.i.s. and I feel like students would benefit from studying me as well. I always had a hard time at Dr. Appointments because what's one of the first things they ask women? When was your last period?! (Followed by me telling them I have androgen insensitivity syndrome and I don't menstruate, and then explaining what androgen insensitivity syndrome is, because literally not a single one knew, except my endocrinologist)
Unfortunately we end up educating our medical professionals. I think I head about the program through my clinic. It’s mostly teaching them how to take a sexual health history. They practice to get more comfortable with the questions and did they leave out anything important, like do you think you need a pregnancy or sti testing. I’d say look for teaching hospitals in your area. I live in nyc and they have a whole simulation lab that looks like exam rooms. After each resident Dr. we fill out forms on a computer on what they did well, or what could use work. Most of them were so nervous. We patients were gentle but honest.
Oh good for you. That’s a great idea if more long term transexuals volunteered to have medical testing done to kinda look at your bodies and brains and so on to see what’s going on with your bodies on opposite sex hormones and mental health status on opposite sex hormones. I know Blaire white talked about taking breaks from estrogen from time to time because of the side effects on her mental health and sex drive. This would definitely be a great movement to encourage. Even long term transsexual like Buck still say in their 30 year time on cross sex hormones they still don’t know most of the side effects the medication has had on their body and I think that’s ridiculous. Medical professionals have had plenty of time to Atleast attempt to figure out more in detail what goes on long term with taking cross sex hormones, especially now days since hormones are being given out like candy. There is No excuse they haven’t invested more time into these studies. OR they have and do have more information but they’re Not sharing it with society because they want to continue to push this propaganda for their own agenda.
Ayron, you are such a strong-minded and grounded young man and I really appreciate you coming on and talking about this. I know that it can't be easy since you've been able to have an easier path walking among humanity as a trans man. You are an incredibly good influence for other young people who don't belong in the same space that you're in. I worry about my granddaughter trying to enter this space when I don't believe that she belongs there and I just think that she needs to wait. So thank you so much for speaking out about your personal journey and what you see going on around you.
Buck, I'm so thankful that you are encouraging this young man to get his reproductive organs examined to make sure that he remains healthy. It would hurt my heart so much if something went wrong because he has never been told until your interview that he needs to have this taken care of. You reach out to all of us who are either in the community or like myself have people that they love that are in the community or are young and think they are in that community. I've learned so much from you and I will continue to watch and learn and try to educate others around me because of the wonderful information that you are giving me and others.
Ayron I’m really proud of your courage to come on and speak with buck and telling your story and being so honest. I’m glad buck spoke to you about your reproductive system and I am also going to encourage you to go to a gyno and get everything checked out, especially taking the puberty blockers and testosterone. It’s extremely important you don’t want to have any issues like buck did!!
Thank you for all you do Buck, you're a beacon in this crazy storm. I'm sending lots of love your way ❤️
Its insane. Doctors are over prescribing everything without informing their patients of the risks v benefits. Its been happening for a while, don't get me wrong, but boy these pharmaceutical companies and docs have really amped things up. I was given 3mg of klonopin at FIFTEEN! What?! With zero warning of how physically addictive it is, nothing. Just "this should really help your anxiety". I was also a drug seeking teen addict so fucking irresponsible. I found out the hard way how addictice it was. I went cold turkey after 2 years for a week and almost had a psychotic break. I couldnt shower, eat, sleep, needless to say mentally i was wrecked, it was horrific. Anyway, sorry for trauma dumping lol my point is this industry is predatory and greedy. Its a business we can't forget that!
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So true ❤
Yes. It was terrible in the 90’s they were giving everyone benzodiazepines, it was insane 😮 they didn’t know how bad they were for your brain.
Thanks!
Thanks so much, Kelly!
this was fascinating, especially the part about taking care of your female parts as a trans male. I always learn something new from you.
Buck, I give you so much credit for exposing this sick agenda. It breaks my heart to see so many young children being brainwashed by the very people who are supposed to protect them. Bless you fine sir (yes, I know you're a bio woman, but I respect you immensely) Thank you for all you do! 🙏🙏💕💕
Great interview, Ayron & Buck!
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So impressed with Ayron. I hope he soars high with all he does. I would love for Buck to talk to his dad and mom.
Me too!!!!
I want to say I really appreciate this young person having this conversation. It was very personal and private questions but I’m glad they spoke with you
Big love to Ayron and Buck ❤️
Back at ya ♥️
I know quite a few trans people (most of them are mtf) and they all know each other and have many trans friends.. i feel like it does create this isolated island of a community where they're all feeding into each other's insecurities, feelings, etc... and i don't think it allows for a lot of introspection, which i feel like is so important in the process of deciding whether or not you're truely trans, or just a fem man or masc woman.
Community is good for not feeling alone.. but sometimes you need space to make informed decisions without pressure or influence from peers.
Ayron, you're a very charminf, likeable, and articulate young person. Have a wonderful life. XO
Really insightful and honest. It makes so much sense "I skipped the hard part." Maybe. So honest. Nice person.
Thank you for telling him to go to the gyno! I was so scared for him 😢 please get a pap! You can still get cervical/uterine cancer and the atrophy... so scary that the doctors didn't even care to look..
Hi Buck, new subscriber here, I really appreciate your content. Thank you for helping to open some minds & educate folks about kids transitioning. Thanks to Ayron, too. ALOT to go through.
Thanks so much for the love and for subscribing friend ❤
Doctors need to step up and be the "gate keepers" that they need to be.. no one else has the credentials and power to do so.. but, money..
So many people are pushing young people towards transition and almost no one is pressing pause, and those who do are vilified.
in sweden you have to have AT LEAST one year of social transitioning before getting on hormones. which i think is really good
Whether childhood transition does or doesn't turn out to be the right choice, it's important everyone knows the realities of it. What he went through was absurd and shouldn't be happening to kids at all. I'm glad he is sharing his experience, because it is so important for each side of the argument to hear.
like buck, i do acknowledge that perhaps SOME children may benefit from transitioning younger, but what’s happening nowadays is sick. i’m glad he can acknowledge that he shouldn’t have been put on blockers. im truly sorry for the lack of certainty that is being felt because of them, however ayron does seem like a very happy, well rounded young man. great interview!! hoping so much that no regret comes into his life. being a detransitioner is not a pleasant experience, take it from me.
In ierland our heathcare system has come out to say puberty blockers for under 16 can cause bone cancer if they are on it to long.
This was very interesting and informative, we should talk to children more. Love your videos❤
Thank you ♥️
What a well spoken, grounded young man. Wonderful interview.
Ayron, seems like a very grounded young person wise beyond his years. He really lucked out with his Drs. and family
51:12 Could we please try "Health-affirming gender care" instead for once? Just a pause, to see how we like it?
Great interview, thank you for being so open and honest. Your sincerity shines through, you young man are the best, no one is using you as a mouthpiece to push an agenda. You are you. Thank you Buck for finding these stories and sharing. Blessings to you both ❤
Tranpa for real. You are phenomenal and we love our kids!
Great talk. Thank you, Aaron. Your voice is very important.
Thanks Buck ❤ you're being as singular voice for young people.
I think you're doing such a great thing, Buck. You're educating the masses on both sides, which is so needed at this point in history. Your movement has undoubtedly led to my learning about the truth behind young people being transitioned when they clearly are worse off for it.
I want to share my experience because, while I completely agree with what you're saying, I think sometimes "nonbinary" can be confusing to people (for obvious reason) and I feel like it's becoming like the bisexual stereotype of the trans community (in other words, it's being treated like it doesn't exist and nonbinary people should just "pick a side"). Anyone is entitled to feel that way, of course, but anyway...
I'm a biological female who calls themself "nonbinary," if I were to be asked, otherwise I keep it simple and stick with my biology. As a kid, I struggled with some gender dysphoria, and I recall desperately wanting a binder and trying to "pass" as male (though in retrospect the "masculinity" that I wanted to take on was definitely more androgynous than anything). As a young adult, I had thought about whether I wanted to transition, or get any kind of surgery. Tbh, I frankly just didn't care enough, and also liked my body pretty alright. It's hard to explain it: not wanting to look or feel fully masculine nor look or feel fully feminine, and I definitely don't expect anyone to understand and I certainly wouldn't force them to. Now that I'm older, I care even less (go figure lol). I go by a more gender neutral name than my birth name (which I'm much happier with) I feel fully comfortable looking feminine OR masculine. If you get a decent look at me I look like a woman, and I identify with women because... I'm a goddamn woman lol. I've been called "she," "him," and "they" and I'm fine with all of it. If anyone asks for my pronouns, which is frequently these days with the social climate, I say she/her. It's just easier for the whole world bcus I look like a girl... and I'm a goddamn woman lol.
In short, I'm a woman. I have woman problems. I've been seen as a woman my whole life (bcus duh). Inside, I feel very gender neutral, and I'm content with that. I'm happy that I changed my name. The only thing that bothers me is all these TikTok weirdos making people like me look bad, and also making nonbinary seem like a super out there trendy thing. I mean, I guess it has become that 🤦♀️ *BIG SIGH* Just want to throw out there that at least one person feels this way!
Rogan needs you back on and talk about all this craziness. A lot has changed since you were on his pod. Keep up the good fight!
Hey Ayron, you're awesome for telling your story! 💯 You're really educating people and helping folks in a similar situation as yourself. Make sure you receive so much support and love! The LGBT community is behind you bro👍🏻
Oh the tragedy this could have been. . So young. Luckily he seems to have had a successful result I hope he does not have regrets later on.
When I was a child, I was the biggest tomboy. I didnt like dolls, preferred animals, playing with the boys I even had a trainset. Hated girly stuff. My uniform was jeans and T-shirts. Then I hit puberty, and turned into the girliest girl nobody would ever have expected including me. Suddenly wanted pretty dresses, make up and perfume. Still liked the boys..... in a whole other way.
These days these appalling affirmation therapists, doctors erc. would have pushed me into puberty blockers and worse. Today I'm now widowed, Not that old . Have kids and grandkids.....the whole catastrophe LOL. My life is great. I still like certain sort of tomboyish things like travelling the country, driving this vast empty land of ours, (Australia,) alone. With my nails done if course. LoL.Also like adventure travel overseas. As do lots of women. I seem to still have a certain intrepidness that maybe lingers from my tomboy days.
Part of the problem I feel is
the vast amount money to be made from affirming anyone who feels or acts like they might be trans.
The therapists, doctors, surgeons, and above all Big Pharma of course are raking it in let alone the influence of the current crop of cultists who I feel are not genuine. So glad you are fighting the misguided transitioning of kids. You need to be a fully formed ADULT to make these decisions. Voices like yours, people who have walked the walk and are here trying to minimise the harm are vitally necessary..😊😊😊
This one made me emotional. I’m in Utah and didn’t realize it was at that level here
Much love to you both❤
Back at ya ♥️
Good talk. What a mature young man ❤
So happy for Ayron! And so hoping he will be one of the lucky people who wil NOT have the side affects of the blockers.
And Buck thanks for all the insites you and Blair give. It really get some where. Although we have a super relation with our kids, the are pubers. So if someone else, especially experience experts, says something it is easier to believe then your parents. And they like to watch and talk about what you say ask questions or give opinions. And yeahh our eldest is cured of the idea of blockers and surgery for now (she is 14). He we back het in what she feels but she is a kid and these decisions she has to make as an adult.
Thank you, Blair and your guests, best in lifexxx
Another great interview. Thank you Ayron
9:48 Call me whatever you want, as long as it's not Late For Dinner. 😂
My kiddos are just entering the puberty age (11 and 13) and they are great KIDS. But in no way are they ready to make any kind of permanent decisions. My heart goes out to all the families
All the best, Ayron. You are so self-possessed whatever your path is now you will figure it out. Though I thought I knew a lot, you have informed me. It's obvious that sexual orientation and gender identity are separate modalities and the true transexual, if given enough time, will identify themselves. Take care up there in the skies- I hope that's a great feeling.
18:10 here to remind tranpa to bleep out the k word ! (cause we know youtube) I think you can still edit it. got you Buck!
What a lovely young person ❤
The therapist should have her license revoked.
Aaron, I'm sorry your puberty was stolen from you, that your childhood was stolen from you. That your parents were not the advocates they should have been. So many people are intimidated by doctors! Everyone should do their own research. When it comes to medical stuff. In your case your parents. So many of these doctors are blinded by greed! The drug companies can not be trusted! Aaron, I hope you can find support, and a good therapist. To help you figure things out. I dont want to speak for you. But I would be really angry that this was done to me at such a young age.
@Lizzie2745he should have waited longer than the age of 12 though. He's mentally stunted because of it. It's criminal.
Aaron is barely into adulthood. They are just getting to know who they really are. A different song would be sung if Aaron decides that they really identify as female and were wrong the whole time. At the end of the day, the parents listened by to a 12-year-old’s belief and made life altering decisions based on that.
Edit: the person I replied to deleted their comment. But still important so I’ll keep this up
No no no no!!!!!
Kids are not old enough to make those serious permanent decisions
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This all terrifies me because i can totally relate to the fears of a young child who is uncertain of themselves and of the future. As a 12 year old i was terrified of the thought of puberty. I did not want to have boobs or periods. I did not want to have a baby in my belly or have to push it out of me, I did not want to be a woman. so if someone had given me the choice i would have done anything to stop it. But fast forward 4 years and i had at least come to terms with it and began to accept it. My body had changed and my mind matured from a terrified child to an understanding adolescent. By 18 all i wanted for my future was to be a mother and I had my first child at 20 and My second at 23. But what if someone told terrified 12 year old me I could prevent my fears from happening and my mind did not get the chance to mature and catch up with my body? What if the idea of being a man and never having to face it had been put in my mind? Cause in those days it wasnt heard of for kids to transition. But i might have been persuaded and my mind set altreded to think I was a man. When really all I needed was time and education to understand the changes that were happening to me. I am a woman and as soon as my mind was mature enough to see that wasnt as scary as my child self thought I have never looked back.
Im late but I’m still here😅
Only four minutes in but I already have to stop and say for 4:20 -- Buck, that's not dysphoria. I had the same reaction. It's totally normal for a young girl (who's still a child) to be horrified about the idea that her body's going to change so drastically in the future.
My mom told me that some day I'd grow breasts and I very adamantly said that that was just never going to happen to me. And I believed it.
Same!. We did not have access to the Internet and I am sooooo grateful! Would have scared me to death and confused me even more!!!!
I think it IS dysphoria. That's why studies have shown that most kids with dysphoria end up growing out of it if they're left alone.
@@HEXCD4D04 But see, it seems like we're just using the word 'dysphoria' to mean any sort of sense of discomfort.
How do we even know of what nature the discomfort is regarding breast development? Why do we assume it automatically has to do with having female parts as opposed to male? Why not a discomfort with the new possibility of being sexualized? Or with the reality of growing up? Or even just something as simple as having to get used to your body being different than it was before?
Many different reasons can cause the same kind of distress. And none of them used to be called dysphoria. They just used to be called... 'puberty'.
But now it seems like the normal discomfort kids experience during puberty is being labelled 'gender dysphoria', partly because, I think, as in your comment, 'dysphoria' itself is not well defined and is being used in incredibly vague ways.
@@TheFirstHurrah Totally agree with everything you said.. I have all the same questions
I think most girls experience body discomfort or self-consciousness as they mature..especially in the face of taunting by boys and unsolicited sexualised attention. The difference here is most girls don't want to be male...and adapt to enjoy the changes. This is gender dysphoria in this instance however.
He got so lucky that he turned out to be actually trans. What a great young man 🙏🏼
I wonder if there is any correlation between the uprise in female trans, and women getting diagnosed with autism later in life.
I’m glad that my daughters decided not to transition in anyway, in fact, one is gay and the other is by and I don’t think I would’ve ever allowed them to have any kind of hormone blockers at a very young age. They are both in relationships now and are doing great, no hormone blockers were needed, and I don’t think I would’ve made a decision decision or allowed them to make a decision about chemically changing their bodies ever before the age of 18 where they would take over their own healthcare.
OK im 20 seconds in and I don't kno if i can do this..this is obv a very sweet child and I don't want to hear they've ruined their lives
I am 'totally' shocked for the first time. I was a total tomboy growing up that avoided any conversation about my body changing and having babies....was to scary to think about!!!
I love this channel because it is helping me to understand from the individual's experience/perspective.
I feel some anger while listening to this. Buck, you are so good at asking the correct questions. I felt urgent to know something then you would ask😊
I am not sure how to put my thoughts into words so I'll just do it this way.
Btw- what is FTM??
#1 he was used as a test subject
#2 Bone density Tests cause harm. (Fact)I am 58 and I refuse them
#3 Never make life-changing decisions out of fear
#4 "seven years" is not that long ago. He should remember what was said, and who said it. (hormone Dr verses pub. Dr)
#5 he still looks 12 ( I hope I am not being hurtful)
#6 Some doctors are dumb and evil
#7 This child's dysphoria caused dysphoria for his entire school maybe? All these kids began questing their gender😮😮 (mind-blowing)
#8 he was depending on the adults to protect him and now he feels they failed him. This is so wrong and what makes me the most angry.
I believe Aaron is just beginning to realize the depth of the effects of these meds and adults who roped him into this space. Maybe for money and there own selfish gain😢😢😢
I would like to know how he reacted when they talked to him about having kids at 12? I could not be sterilized EVER under 30. I asked the doctors to do that to me in my 20s after I had my second child. They said no 'because' , the reason, "I was too young to know if I'd regret it", So I waited till after my third child was born. My beloved son Daired, I am so glad, they were correct. I remember these conversations to this day.
Thank you for letting me vent.
Aaron, you are awesome and brave. You have a great attitude that will get you far. Nothing I said is directed at you as a person. I am glad you seem so well put together as you speak out about your life. Thank you for sharing your experience. Love and prayers for you and your family.
How do bone density tests cause harm? Never heard of that.
@@ALT-vz3jn radiation exposure
I think FTM is female to male🤷🏻♀️. Not sure. Also; I couldn’t recite a conversation I had when I was 12 either, so I get that. I feel terrible for her parents, they must be so sad that they allowed themselves to be pushed into this corner.😓
@@ALT-vz3jn radiation exposure
@@ALT-vz3jn they made that big machine just to promote boniva...
He definitely passes. Just glad his health isn’t too bad at this point as others.
People need to be educated about the horrible side effect of puberty blockers and GnRh-agonists in general. I needed to take them as a grown up for another medical problem and I would never ever give that drug to a child.
These so called doctors and therapists are vile. Don't they swear to do no harm?
Buck is full of life lessons
Repeat after me purity blockers are only reversible when used treat precocious puberty.
Taking cross sex hormones immediately after puberty blockers locks in the effects and makes them permanent.
Im not trans but i am a menopausal woman and I know how terrible atrophy is. You have to take care of that. Im a female and I hate having that area poked and prodded. I can't imagine how it feels for a guy to have to go in to have that part checked out! But, your health is foremost. Atrophy can be dangerous. Get those vags' checked guys!
I did my transition slow and the only thing that's made me want to KMS in relation to being trans is religion and bigots and societal views on how my body should look which is their opinion at the end of the day. Not due to not getting access. I went off of t and feel more free cause I've unchained myself from a doctor.
Doctors don't know everything but the average person knows even less or nothing
So brave to come on here. I'm sorry
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Considering there has been a mention of Ayron still considers himself straight (interested in males), I'm wondering how he would feel getting pregnant as a transsexual, with actual gender dysphoria. I don't know how likely it is to get pregnant with being full of crosssex hormones though.
Nobody will try to accuse judicially these "doctors"??
I think they're completely protected ..as always. Sadly!
Imso glaf i was born b4 all this. I was a tomboy snd allowed to be that. I have 2 children and a grandchild. If i was a teenager now, i wouldnt have been a mother or grandparent.
So sad whats happening
Hey Buck, this is probably hard to believe but when I was younger the thought of growing breasts horrified me to the point that I’d hold my breath and wish with all my might that it wouldn’t happen. Back then, the thought that I wouldn’t be able to slide tummy down the water slide was too much. Well I never grew breasts. I surfed a lot, skidded on my front a lot…I don’t know why they never developed but I’m glad. I never transitioned although I always wanted to be a boy. I had a kid at 37, couldn’t breastfeed and even then it was never questioned by a doctor or nurse why I hadn’t developed there.
Ayron is the cutest guy ever!!!!!!!!!!!!
I was surprised he was in Utah there’s only one trans kiddo at my kids school. It still is a thing here but teachers and doctors are more conservative
You're absolutely correct. This is a money grabbing, and Kaiser is the biggest player
encouraging kids to take puberty blockers and make them sterile is one way to slow down population growth...
Don't blame the parents blame social media yes
If he started hormone blockers at 12 he very well may have gone through enough of a puberty hence the spotting but definitely need to see a gynecologist.
He looks like a young Norm Macdonald. RIP I see some Bill Murray too
Buck you have interesting guests, and they should be allowed more time to speak; allowed to tell their own story in their own words. I would like to hear their voice.
Good work, Buck.
Sometimes people need prompts because they don’t really know what to say, or where to start. They also might be nervous, ayron seemed pretty nervous and was struggling with what to say. That’s when buck started asking him questions. It is an interview😊
Sometimes people are shy and when you interview you have to prompt so its not that I do not let them speak but try to keep the flow going many of my interviews are just people not in the public space and many people are shy on camera. Sorry if it looks like I speak over them❤
you do an amazing job and you are a great interviewer!!!i never think you talk over ppl, you are patient and polite!!!
XOXO
@@BuckAngelOfficial
His doctors need to clue this kid in....this is serious!
This kid made the comment to different questions and to me that comment is proof that this was and is wrong on so many levels. That comment was "i don't know i was to young." His parents let him be used as a crash test dummy. So to speak. This is what pisses me off. These are children that are old enough to understand much less know that they are one thing or the other. Gezzzzzzzzzz people.
I thought there were recent studies that young people shouldn't smoke weed cause their brains were still developing til the age of 25 years old. We all know that they might have smoked a little before that. My point is if the brain isn't fully developed til 25 years old. How can a child decide who's brain isn't fully developed can decide what gender they are?
Do not transition until you're an adult
Be comfortable with yourself my sweet child
He’s so cute ❤
The spotting is the ovaries have become poly cystic that’s what’s causing the spotting. It’s not the uterine lining it’s cysts on the ovaries. This poor baby needs to get into a doctor and have that checked.
When a breast cancer patient has breast removed they have 15 min just before surgery to decide if they want reconstruction or not...... 15 min for a life changing decision.
Sounds like it really helped him to be on puberty blockers..? Did I miss something here..? 🤔 He literally says he has no dysphoria now just a bit with the beach.. He also stated he lived a good life as a teen.. He looks happy and healthy to me..
this isn’t the common outcome. He was lucky
How do we know this outcome is better than if Ayron had not taken the blockers? Has there been any developmental damage done or any side effects that we're not aware of? This whole thing is an experiment, and nobody knows what's going to happen long-term.
Aaron is a smart kid who knows how to accept the things he can not change and change the things he can.
I don't think you missed anything, no. I think the point of the title is that it's still such a young age to start the process, and luckily enough, it was the right decision for him. Unlike most of the young children who start their medical transition super early. I'm glad to hear a positive story for a change
Honey, I think you definitely might be on the autism spectrum. You should consider going to find out. Good luck to you ❤
So many ads. I am surprised if this much truth is still monetized.
My child's F2M has just had stage 4 endometrial cancer because of their transition. Please see a gyno. Please.
I have a friend whos doughter a little over two years ago said she wanted to be a boy out of the blue she was 11 or twelve she had been talking with a family friend who's daughter is trans female to male and talking on discord with a groupe who were claiming to be trans she didn't have a lot of friends so I think to fit in she decided to be trans her mom let her dress like a boy cut her hair she didn't want to persue any kind of transition for her she felt ot was a faze her daughter was a girly girl frilly dresses you name it. Her mom let her be than after hanging out with my daughter we went shopping and my daughter was looking at makeup and things came back to my house they were doing each others make up and such this was after dressing like a boy for about 4 months than they moved to another state and my friend said that her daughter asked for girl clothes when they went clothes shopping she is back with dresses has had two BF and gone to a school dance in a very cute dress she no longer claims to be trans it was a faze like herom thought good thing she didn't go the medical root even though a school counselor said she should get a medical scycologist for her good thing she didn't daughter os happy and enjoying her life